جامع ترمذي ترجمہ: ابوہریرہ ؓ کہتے ہیں کہ رسول اللہ ﷺ نے فرمایا: ایمان میں سب سے کامل مومن وہ ہے جو سب سے بہتر اخلاق والا ہو، اور تم میں سب سے بہتر وہ ہے جو اخلاق میں اپنی بیوی کے حق میں سب سے بہتر ہو ۔ اس حدیث کی رو سے تو مردوں کو بھی کامل مومن بننے کے لئے شادی ضروری ہے.
اس حدیث سے یہ مفہوم ہرگز نہیں نکلتا کہ عورت کی زندگی کا مقصد شادی کرنا ہے عورت کی زندگی کا مقصد بھی وہی ہے جو ایک باشعور انسان کی زندگی کا مقصد ہوتا ہے یعنی اللہ کی بندگی اور اطاعت عورت کو ہر روپ میں اللہ کی اطاعت سب سے پہلے کرنی ہے چاہے وہ بیٹی ہو چاہے وہ بیوی ہو ،چاہے وہ ماں ہو اللہ ہر انسان کو آزاد پیدا کرتا ہے اور اپنی بندگی اور غلامی کے لیے پیدا کرتا ہے
Shadi ko duniya me aane ka maqsad bnana h ye Islam ke khilaf..apki ye line unke liye Rahat wali h Jin bechari ldkyio ka parents aur society ne jine marne se bdh kar shadi na hona kr dia h..
Marriage usi waqt blessing hoti hai jab woh achi marriage ho. Toxic marriage aik jahanam ne kaam nahi hoti. Loagon ki maut hote dekhi hai toxic marriages mai.
ALLAH nay husband ek bohat pyari Cheez banae hai agar acha insan milay to Zindagi khubsorat hai, orat k oper hai k achay insan chonay, Quran Pak main pdhay mard or orat kaisy chunay Shaadi k liayay
اللہ نے دو بہترین فرمابردار عورتوں کی مثال دی ہے، جن میں اک شادی شدہ تھی اور اک غیر شادی شدہ، اک فرعون کی بیوی جس شوہر اس دنیا کی تاریخ کا ظالم انسان تھا اور وہ فرعون کی بیوی ہونے کے باوجود جنت حقدار ٹھہری، فرعون کے مظالم اس کو دنیا کی بہترین عورت ہونے سے نہ روک سکے، اور اک حضرت مریم علیہ السلام اک غیر شادی شدہ عورت ہوکر جس طرح اپنی عفت کی حفاظت کی اور وہ اللہ کی فرمابردار بندی تھی ، دونوں جہاں کی کامیابی کے لئے دونوں مثالیں عورت کے پاس موجود ہیں ، بس مقصد اللہ کی رضا پانا ہو تو چاہے شادی ہو نہ ہو ، ہاں نسل انسانی کی بقا کے لئے شادی ہونا ضروری ہے تو اکثریت تو ہر دور میں شادی شدہ ہی رہے گی تو اس حوالے سے بہترین عورت کی صفات ایسی بیان کی گئیں، کیونکہ ہر معاشرے کی کامیابی گھر کے ادارے سے شروع ہوتی ہے اگر گھر میں عورت اور مرد باہمی طور پرسکوں ہونگے تو تخلیقی تعمیری کام کرسکیں گے، تو اک گھر کو بچانے کے لئے سیکڑوں احادیث اور بےشمار قرآنی آیات اتاری گئی تاکہ گھریلو حالات میں انتشار نہ ہو تبھی جب عورت کی یہ صفات بیان کی گئی کہ تو وہاں اللہ کے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے یہ بھی فرمایا کہ تم میں سب سے اچھا وہ ہے جو بیوی کے ساتھ اچھا ہو، عورت اور مرد کو یہ احکام دے کہ اللہ نے اپنا فرمابرادر بنایا ہے پھر اللہ دیکھتے ہیں کون میرا کتنا کہنا مانتا ہے، در حقیقت تو شادی ہو یا نہ ہو اللہ کو راضی کرنا تو ھم سب کا مقصد ہونا چاہیئے، تبھی ھمارا انجام اچھا ہوگا، ہاں شادی ہونے میں انسان کے بہت سارے مفاد ہوتے ہیں سب سے بڑی بات یہ ہے کہ اولاد صدقہ جاریہ ہوتے جو مرنے کے بعد دعائیں کرتی ہے اور بھی بہت سارے مفادات ہیں شادی سے منسلک ،
Being a female I would strongly say when you’re taking to a non mehrum work on your tone you’re not talking to your crush here or husband. I didn’t like the way she was interrupting and saying hmmmm hmmm mmm I hope people will try to understand my point.
Just because she is saying hmmm? You accused her of talking to a crush and being sweet in her tone?? Some peoples listening skill are atoned that way eg i nod my head continuously when listening with eye contact. That doesn't mean someone is of ill character.
@@lifewithAysha I never said she has a bad character you said so. I commented on few more things which you didn’t read probably just focused on one thing. Never mind
Usually when people ask saahil sahb a question he asks them again and again,"are you still listening to me"coz they don't show any sign of being online,so hmmm means to let him know that I am online and fully involved in the conversation about Deen and not just wasting his time,pls pls don't make learning ilm (knowledge)so difficult for women,just a request to you my dear sister
@@sabayameen6374 عمل،نیت سے ہے۔ وضاحت آپ کی صحیح ہے۔ جب کوئی دوسرا مشورہ دے یا اعتراض کرے ان کی نیت بھی اصلاح کی ہی ہوتی ہے۔ البتہ الفاظ کے چناؤ ہمیں اختلاف اور غلط فہمی میں ڈال دیتے ہیں ۔
ادب اور ترتیب کو ملحوظ رکھنا ناگزیر ہے۔ یہی آپ کا کہنا ہے۔ البتہ الفاظ کا انتخاب درست نہیں ہے، درشتی زیادہ ہے، اس لیے مثبت سے زیادہ منفی ردِعمل ہورہا ھ۔
well i believe islam is the only true solution for humanity and feminism is a sub- religion that has bubbled out from the gut of secularism/liberalism thus iman in islam as a deen and feminism cant stay together in the heart of a woman at the same time,my discussion is actually in favour of hadith because we as human beings need to return to our fundamentals [quran and hadith] and if holy prophet[pbuh] says these are the attributes of a best woman then these surely are 100 percent the attributes every muslim woman needs to aquire,me and sir saahil were just exploring the hikma in the hadith and emphasising the fact that islam is the perfect deen[way of life not just namaz roza...study and ponder over this hadith actually it defines a lifestyle for women that we are in dire need of adopting],well about the tone.. its acutually anxious because of shortage of time,jazakallah hu khairah
@@genius9852 sir saahil advocates the establishment of islamic system[as purpose of life]...we are trying to discuss how it is practically possible for a muslim woman to achieve the above said purpose,,,or is it not her pupose of life at all....may be holy prophet[pbuh] entrusted muslim woman a completely different purpose of life as compared to mulim men
@@sabayameen6374 Quiet frankly, anyone from the outset, would think that this line of questioning is pushing away- marriage, and so on. Sorry if I sounded condescending in my previous comment. Purpose of this temporal life is, "Attempting the trial"- set by Allah S W T (as described in the Quran); Beleif in Allah, living personal life in-accordance with Allah's commands (reinforced by nature), and propogating Deen etc, are all sub-purposes of that main purpose i.e, "The trial". If these manifestations of "The Trial" are not stipulated in lectures, things can get confusing. To conclude, if one gets married and lives an Islamic family life, is accomplishing the purpose of life. Allah knows the best.
Saahil adeem always undermines the importance of marriage. And with the already heavily funded propoganda against marriage and the family unit, it simply doesn't help the Islamic society. Secondly, let's take the leader of the women of jannah as an example. She was a married woman and a good wife. She also used to do the housework (house chores) as a daughter AND and after becoming a wife. Nw remember we are talking about the ALPHA of women here. Secondly, all of the ummahat ul momineen and the daughters of the prophet were married. Hazrat Zaid, hazrat ali, usman, umar, ali, hussain hassan (peace be upon them all), were alll married. Matter of fact most of them had multiple wives. Thirdly, a woman without a husband has to either rely on her mehrams, like brothers OR would have to interact with men all day to make money, whether through a business or a job, and also for spending the money like buying groceries or other things. So in conclusion she still isn't "a free independent woman" like some Muslim woman may be dreaming of. Allah has made men the Qawaam of woman and she HAS to rely on male mehrams, whether it be a husband or someone else.
Annikah min sunnati Nikah meri sunna hai s.a. Nikah to karna hi hai agar nahi ho paa rahi to koi baat nahi shaadi maqsad nahi hai Allah kareem ko razi karna hai
On being judgmental, being judged and Haath se rokna: The solution is to understand activism and what kind of activism is best understood by different sets of people. Haath se rokna doesn’t mean that one makes a fool of themselves and repel people more from Islam. You’ve to be really smart about it. Acting emotionally or reactively has never worked on anybody, when it comes to activism you’ve got to have a strategy. So, work on the strategy and discuss with likeminded people. Also, wo burai ya group of people rokien, jis pe aapko achi understanding aur command ho. For example, if you have vast experience of working with teenage kids, you know their psychology, and you’re more likely to come up with a successful strategy to stop them or educate them about their wrong steps. In order to do activism, you must first learn how to do it. You’re facing judgments and other problems, because you haven’t put in the hard work of learning how to do activism. Itna asaan nahi. Read how different Sahaba did it with different kinds of leadership styles. Read tips on doing activism in current world. And work for three months on learning all this.
Judgemental na hone ka mtlb h ki burayi ko burayi kehna h mgr burayi krne wale pr ultimate bure hone ka label nhi lga dena....every son of Adam sins, no one is perfect , and the best are those who repents.... our job is to only remind the people , to enjoin good and forbid evil without being judgemental....don't look down upon people no matter what sins they do, you never know they might reach Jannah before you...only Allah is our ultimate judge
Marriage is also necessary for good and prosperous society.iss lyee k yeh app k Iman ki haffazat Karti hay aur nasal insani chalatti hay to pher zorori hay for both men and women.Agar shadi nahi hoo rahi to Allah say dua Kari k app ki bhi shadi hoo jaay aur app Kay paroo Mai bhi jannat hoo app ki olaad ki.question karnay say phely sochana aur research Karina chahay
Ma ya samjta hu k ak larki k liya shadi karna hi best ha or yahi ak secure rasta ha ku k yahi ak hatyar ha shatan ka jo ap ko allah ki tarf ane se rokta ha is liya shadi pahla step hona chahiya
Marriage is not purpose of life, but a lady is married... then she should be care full..even she should value her husband the Hadith mean that which I understood, because it was necessary to TO say The woman that they should give value their husband...giving value in a relationship is the mean that relation will live long what I understood
judgemental ka meaning h janat r dozakh ka ftwa na lgaya jay. baqi burai ko dekh kr rokna to sabit h . is k 3 drjy h hath se rokna. zuban se rokna . dill m bura janna. ye kmzor eman ki ilamat h .
Well brothers and sisters assalamualaikum waramatullah I am Dr Saba yameen tariq here and I had to finish off so quickly because I had asked my questions at the end of emotional independence for women session held on 8th march and time was extremely limited,I was the last person to ask a question and 3 ladies asked a question prior to me and saahil sir told them all to be quick when their questions were getting longer and so I wanted to be quick and precise.i didn't get the kind of answers my question needed but the time constraint was a real limitation for me and sir saahil adeem both,I please please request sir saahil if he could take out some time from his busy routine and make a detailed video about this Hadith,afterall Hadith is describing the given alpha for women in Islam as saahil sir is the one who educated me about the alpha
walaikum salam Dr Saba.... I am Dr Shahrose from Karachi..i think we all muslims should read about Prophet Muhammad SAWW life... actually.. the practicing muslims are more in danger from shetaan than the one who barely know what islam is.. shetaan put double effort on those who want to bring good change. And as there is a hadith.. our companion shetaan is exactly like us.. so he will let you do the dawah but without wisdom.. and if we read our prophet SAWW we will come to know that howw muchh patient and kind he was...look.. forget this thing that your actions against them should always be respected and forget that they will obey you right after that. Remember How Hazrat Umar RA brought iman?? He was soo fierce literallyy he was very cruel before bringing iman.. Muhammad Saww did many things to approach them but always so gentlyy and His words were full of love and patience.. still Hazrat Umar RA didnt accepted and then when He listened to Allah's ayat of surah marium.. he converted.. now look at the details.. what became the reason of their conversion? Did he obeyed Muhammad SAWW? No.. it was Allah taaala who melted his heart with the tilawah.. In quran Allah taala has told us and Muhammad SAWW many times that your work is simply to invite them.. tell them good with wisdom.. if there is no wisdom.. there are 0 results. now what is wisdom? wisdom means "Aqul and Smjh". just imagine you are doing something you love and sudenly someone order you by harsh words that stop it noww its not good.. you will literally burst out with anger that WHO IS SHE? will she decide whats right whats wrong? and apart from this imagine If she passed a smile.. and after you have finished.. maybe the next dayy she sends you a hadith with a heart and flower emoticon? or the next day she brings you some deal and gifts and then smoothly and lovely she says you that dearr❤ i literally just miss jannah.. i really want us to be there together ❤ and you knw what this will bring an affection that yeah yaar jannah tou goal h yr ❤ then if she proceeds with that she has read something very beautiful about the actions that will take us to jannah.. and then lovingly she share with you that talk.. WITHOUT EVEN MENTIONING WHAT YOU DID YESTERDAY... because if she will mention that yeah this the wrong thing and YOU .. you do it.. it will automatically bring a guilt a fire inside them.. infact we just have to talk to them in a general wayy without hinting them that we know you are a sinner.. we have to bring love in hearts.. not the hopelessness.. Allah taala says to Prophet SAWW in quran that " Its an ehsaan of Allah that He has made Rasool Al Allahh kind and patient and khush ikhlaaq.. and then Allah taala further say that 'If You werent this much kind ... people would run away from you.. " it is clearlyy said in qurann that if we wont give dawah with patience and kindness and without even hinting or blaming them.. they will never come close. Don't expect quick results... patience is a part of dawah.. Hazrat Nooh AS gave dawah uptill 900 years... means you dont have to giveup.. infact just modifyy the way.. show some extra smile Just like Muhammad SAWW did.. give those people gift s with hadith cards. its a sunnah of Prophet SAWW.. and also you can search more about that hadith it was about dawah without wisdom is of no use.. and morover you can read book "داعی اعظم" this book is about "The great daaii.. means the wonderful qualities required to give dawah" i hope it may help you inshaAllahh ameen.
ایک حدیث کا مفہوم ہے جو عورت اچھے رشتے کی تلاش میں بغیر نکاح کے فوت ہو جائے یا ساری زندگی گزار دے اس کو شہادت کا درجہ ملے گا صحیح دین سیکھنے کے لیے الندوی ایجوکیشن اسلام آباد کے مفتی سعید صاحب سے رجوع کریں
Aslamoalkum warehmatula sir bare berdasht de hia Allah ny AP ko maira khaiyal hai ladies ko apny mehdod knowedge ke bena per behas kerny ke bajaey AP ko sun ker knowedge lenay ke zarorat hai
Assalamoalaykum MashaAllah excellent excellent conversation very very much interesting enjoyed a lot see these kind of topics need to addressed this topic for everyone and that’s kind of many topics that you explain R necessary for letting everyone know U R doing very well that’s why U R very important person in this era Allah bless bless you and keep you in his protection so battay take care of yourself I know you are always doing Allah bless bless bless you Ameen Ameen summa Ameen fee Aman Allah wassalam 🌹🌷🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌸🌼🌸🌼🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻💐💐💐🌾🌾🌾🌾😇😇😇😇😇😊😊😊😊😃😄😀☺️😊😇😇😇
Shaadi ka maqsad Kya hai, Nikah say adha Deen mukmil hota hai, mia biwi ek dosray ka libas hai, ek dosray ko borae say bachatay hai agar shaadia na ho to byhayai, depression, zina barhay ga, baray meharbani Shaadi say na bhagay, or na Shaadi ko Bora bhala kahay.
@@happyworldofumay6946 exactly yhi musla r khas tor py susral ka ap py asy haq jatana r jamana jesy ap ko khareed k lay hain apny maa baap k ghar b ijazat k beghair nahi ja skty Mera islam hmy maa baap k pass jny sy to nahi rokta Khas tor py jin k waldaiyn akaily R dosra agar nan nafqa mard k zimay hai aurat khadma nahi hai Mera islam mujhy pura ikhtyar r haq daita her cheez ka Her cheez ma nuqs nikalty roti gol nahi ha moti ha patli ha Bhai mery py farz nahi hai ye ma bna k day rhi to qadar sy khaiyn Oper sy so musla alag shadi na ho gai test ho gya her kam ma mahir ho gy to numbr milaiyn gy Sadgi ka rawaj hi nahi us py b aytraz Bhai nahi bnany mujhy eyebrows nahi krni waxing dard hoti mujhy Insan smjhaiyn aurat ko sajh sanwar k b rhy ghar k kam b kry kuch bolay b na r maa baap k pass to jy hi na Asy halaat ma kon kry ga shadi kis ka dil krta apni azadi chor k khadma wali qaid ma chli jay Mushkil kr d shadi inho ny deen ny to itni asani d
As we and this earth are made up mostly of water, I wish we could develop fluid like consistency in our personality, actions, thoughts, understanding and may be acceptability?
@@plug_65 not talking about the speed. Speed of matter is something else. Talking about consistency here. Water has a calming flow too. It cools down as well. Then again, those are the additional effects.
Imam e Ali nay farmaya!!! tableegh ye hai k na zuban mun say bahir niklay or na hi niyaam say talwar; yani tumara amal hi is kadar powerful ho k loog dekh len k ye hai Islam
اے اللہ! میں تجھ سے دنیا و آخرت کی ساری بھلائی کی دعا مانگتی ہوں جو مجھ کو معلوم ہے اور جو نہیں معلوم، اور میں تیری پناہ چاہتی ہوں دنیا اور آخرت کی تمام برائیوں سے جو مجھ کو معلوم ہیں اور جو معلوم نہیں، اے اللہ! میں تجھ سے اس بھلائی کی طالب ہوں جو تیرے بندے اور تیرے نبی نے طلب کی ہے، اور میں تیری پناہ چاہتی ہوں اس برائی سے جس سے تیرے بندے اور تیرے نبی نے پناہ چاہی ہے، اے اللہ! میں تجھ سے جنت کی طالب ہوں اور اس قول و عمل کی بھی جو جنت سے قریب کر دے، اور میں تیری پناہ چاہتی ہوں جہنم سے اور اس قول و عمل سے جو جہنم سے قریب کر دے، اور میں تجھ سے سوال کرتی ہوں کہ ہر وہ حکم جس کا تو نے میرے لیے فیصلہ کیا ہے بہتر کر دے
Asalamualikum. Thanks to Saba Yameen mam, discussing this important issue ,that Islam has given women their own identity, marriage is not necessary or the only way,for becoming pious, their are so many ways , through which you can submit to , Allah,e.g , charity, good deeds ,itiba of , Allah,and walideen,one should be long sighted and frame opinion about someone, is a sin moreover, thanks to Sahil Adeem sir ,for this sympathy for us ill treated and supressed sisters, your goodself is right,that sometimes divorce is good for women and children,and divorced women live a happy and prosperous life , surprising the cunning and short sighted world ,sir ,I Shameema have a deep desire to perform Hajj along with my walidah Muhtarma Raja begum please pray for the fulfillment of this sacred desire, may, Allah, fullfill all our desires ameen yarabul alameen thankyou.
Q lgta apko aesa? Ye tou basic sawal hyn or ksi ko koi confusion hai tou wo puch rh hyn ap q judge krrh aurton ko? Mje b tha is trh ka confusion or I'm happy k unoh ne pucha ye sb, iska mtlb ye nh hai hmari aqal ghutnon mai hai or apki sir mai. Plz don't judge!!!
Tu is tarah tu mardon ke baare mai bhi ke behtareen mard he woh he jo apni biwi ke saath sab se acha he phir mard bhi bole ke iskeliye shaadi karna zarori he mai ne tu bahoot hi kam he jo apne ghar walon ko islam par amal karne ko kahe
Agar aap shadi nhi karo gi toh Allah kay deen kay liyay khalid bin waleed jaisay batay kaisay paida karo gi or rabia basri jaisi baiti kaisay paida karo gi nikah kay baad to orat kay liyay sab say zayada aasan ho jata hai deen ka kaam karna wo apni olad par daawah ka kaam kar sakti hai unhain tyar kar sakti hai
@@saniaaziz8134 شادی زندگی کا مقصد نہیں تو حضورنبی کریم رؤف و رحیم وجہہءکائنات جن کے طفیل أپ اس دنیا میں أئ ہو ان وجہہءکائنات نےبارہ شادیاں کی کیوں کی؟
@@saniaaziz8134 جس نے خود کو پہچان لیا اس نے اللۀ کو پہچان لیا.... پہلے خود کی پہچان کرو پھر خدا مل جائیگا.... ان شاءاللۀ.. میں ہی صرف تقوے کے گھرسے باہر نکل کر نہیں أپڑا ہوں،،،، میرے باپ نے بھی دائمی بہشت کو ہاتھ سے چھوڑ دیا...
brother it doesn't matter what the question is or who the questioner is, what matters is that it's being asked and has been replied to fairly.. which will be and had been helpful to people... btw the question wasn't childish. As Sahil Bhai just said Kisi ko judge nahi kerna yet aap judge ker rahyn hai...
@@asma_zafar I don't know/remember if you are the person who asked question or just a random one. Whatever, just don't take it personal. I exactly don't even remember what it was about. and thanks for your feedback on my tone.
But all umahat ul momineen and daughters of the Holy Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him did get married and used to do household chores. And remember, Hazrat Fatima is the leader of the women of jannah. So women should take her as the role model
Hadith should be explained first then other questions should be answered. Also the lady didn't quote the correct words of hadith. Wife should not use husband's money without his permission and knowledge., this is mentioned in the hadith, not the other way around. Wife can use her money where ever she wants and husband has nothing to do with it.
U can’t describe ,teach, motivate to any person,forcefully...by can handle him/ her...technically...psychologically...so that can achieve positive results instead of being rebellion against Islam
Assalam o Alaikum.sahil Sahab confuse ho Gaye hen.behen ne bht hi Acha Sawal Kia he lekin sorry to say Sahil Bhai koi wazeh jawab Nahin de sakay.khamkha baat ko ghuma dia he.sahil Bhai aap wazeh or mukamal jawab den Jo Dil ko lagay.
Forbid evil but don't look down upon people.....stay away from takabbur and being judgemental, because we cant read people's hearts and intentions, only Allah is the ultimate judge of everyone.
@@egoiisticprince7977 میرا جواب سوفیصد درست ہے بہترین عورت بننے کے لیۓ شادی کرنا ضروری ہے تو اسکا سیدھا حل میں نے بتایا ہے کہ وہ اپنی ماں کو دیکھ لے کہ وہ کتنی بہترین، سب شک دور ہو جائیگا اس کا ہ
@@egoiisticprince7977 اگر تو پاکی ناپاکی کو سمجھتا ہے تو سن مسلمانوں کے یہاں دنیا کی بہترین متاع نیک عورت ہے، یاد رہے یہاں مسلم عورت کی بات ہو رہی ہے کسی ناپاک نجست یہود و نصاری قادیانی عورت کی نہیں سمجھا....
Judgmental ma yeah concept lain k kisi k bary ma opinion bna laina or dusrun k dainy un ka image asa btana k falana asa ha ya wesa ha this come in judgmental , burae sy mna krna Kabi b judgmental k sath compare nai ho skta ,
Log kuch bhi comment karein But Ye sawal waqai achcha tha Lady bohot confident aur intelligent thi Jawab wazeh nhi mila uska Lady ki eagerness aur bohot sarey cross questions ki wjh se....may be If possible is sawal pe alag se video bna dein in brief..
@@musharrafalam825 sahil sahab ka hr video bohot ghaur se dekhti sunti hu Ek bar me catch ho jati hein chizein Al'hamdulillaah Phir bhi main dubara dekh lungi
مجھے مکمل حدیث بمع حوالہ مل نہیں رہی ہے مگر جو کچھ بھی ملا ہے اس کے حساب سے بہترین عورت نہیں بہترین بیوی کے الفاظ شامل ہیں اس حدیث میں. کسی کے پاس حدیث بمع حوالہ جات موجود ہو تو شئیر کردے تاکہ بلاوجہ کی غلط فہمی ختم ہو.
I think those are quite enough references,,,,dear sister ,I had to work hard to find all those but I am happy about it if my efforts can contribute to haq in some way,,,pls now you got the references kindly also think about the philosophy and basis of this Hadith,may Allah always bless you in dunya and akhirah and may you excel in your emmaan
Best Example eik best beti is dunya ki Hazrat Maryem Aleh Salam hain😍
جامع ترمذي
ترجمہ:
ابوہریرہ ؓ کہتے ہیں کہ رسول اللہ ﷺ نے فرمایا: ایمان میں سب سے کامل مومن وہ ہے جو سب سے بہتر اخلاق والا ہو، اور تم میں سب سے بہتر وہ ہے جو اخلاق میں اپنی بیوی کے حق میں سب سے بہتر ہو ۔
اس حدیث کی رو سے تو مردوں کو بھی کامل مومن بننے کے لئے شادی ضروری ہے.
جزاکم اللہ خیرا کثیرا
Exactlyy ..
Wah
دونوں کامل مومن ہے جسکی شادی ھوئ ہے یا نہیں.
پہلا کامل مومن بہترین اخلاق والااور پہر بہتر وہ ہے جو اپنی بیوی سے اخلاق میں اچھا ہے
Jo apnay ghr walon k sath acha ho
اس حدیث سے یہ مفہوم ہرگز نہیں نکلتا کہ عورت کی زندگی کا مقصد شادی کرنا ہے
عورت کی زندگی کا مقصد بھی وہی ہے جو ایک باشعور انسان کی زندگی کا مقصد ہوتا ہے یعنی اللہ کی بندگی اور اطاعت
عورت کو ہر روپ میں اللہ کی اطاعت سب سے پہلے کرنی ہے چاہے وہ بیٹی ہو چاہے وہ بیوی ہو ،چاہے وہ ماں ہو
اللہ ہر انسان کو آزاد پیدا کرتا ہے اور اپنی بندگی اور غلامی کے لیے پیدا کرتا ہے
I like this comment ❤❤❤❤
This lady as her name shows ,,,,,is well educated person …..but looks likes she lacks skills of a well mannered conversation …. Sorry Sahil….
Shadi ko duniya me aane ka maqsad bnana h ye Islam ke khilaf..apki ye line unke liye Rahat wali h Jin bechari ldkyio ka parents aur society ne jine marne se bdh kar shadi na hona kr dia h..
Amazing question ma Sha Allah and amazing answers.
Allah app sb Sy Razi ho Ameen.
Marriage is a blessing orat ny fazool batein ki hy bilkul
Lagta hai baaji apne shauhar se naraaz hai aur chordana chahti hai😊
Marriage usi waqt blessing hoti hai jab woh achi marriage ho. Toxic marriage aik jahanam ne kaam nahi hoti. Loagon ki maut hote dekhi hai toxic marriages mai.
@@nha3920 sahi kaha 😔
Sir kmal kr di ap ny thank you very much sir
ہم لوگ ہر چیز سیریس لیتے ہیں لیکن اللہ تعالی کو کیوں نہیں
جس انسان نے خودکوپہچان لیا
اس نے اللۀ کو پہچان لیا..
ALLAH nay husband ek bohat pyari Cheez banae hai agar acha insan milay to Zindagi khubsorat hai, orat k oper hai k achay insan chonay, Quran Pak main pdhay mard or orat kaisy chunay Shaadi k liayay
Ap log pahla to linguistics ka courses lain roman Urdu ka culture khatam karain so that debate ka liye Urdu ya English ho
Kaise chune ?
@@np3247 is sawal ka jawab shayed Sahil ka pass bhi nahi ho ga
Quran Pak main ALLAH Pak nay kha hai serat dykho. Agar ladka or ladki achay ekhlaq baki rizq ka ALLAH nay wada kiya hai wo pohnchay ga.
@@np3247 jin kee Shaadi hoe hai or nakam hoe hai wja janay Kya hai ku hai.
اللہ نے دو بہترین فرمابردار عورتوں کی مثال دی ہے، جن میں اک شادی شدہ تھی اور اک غیر شادی شدہ، اک فرعون کی بیوی جس شوہر اس دنیا کی تاریخ کا ظالم انسان تھا اور وہ فرعون کی بیوی ہونے کے باوجود جنت حقدار ٹھہری، فرعون کے مظالم اس کو دنیا کی بہترین عورت ہونے سے نہ روک سکے، اور اک حضرت مریم علیہ السلام اک غیر شادی شدہ عورت ہوکر جس طرح اپنی عفت کی حفاظت کی اور وہ اللہ کی فرمابردار بندی تھی ، دونوں جہاں کی کامیابی کے لئے دونوں مثالیں عورت کے پاس موجود ہیں ، بس مقصد اللہ کی رضا پانا ہو تو چاہے شادی ہو نہ ہو ، ہاں نسل انسانی کی بقا کے لئے شادی ہونا ضروری ہے تو اکثریت تو ہر دور میں شادی شدہ ہی رہے گی تو اس حوالے سے بہترین عورت کی صفات ایسی بیان کی گئیں، کیونکہ ہر معاشرے کی کامیابی گھر کے ادارے سے شروع ہوتی ہے اگر گھر میں عورت اور مرد باہمی طور پرسکوں ہونگے تو تخلیقی تعمیری کام کرسکیں گے، تو اک گھر کو بچانے کے لئے سیکڑوں احادیث اور بےشمار قرآنی آیات اتاری گئی تاکہ گھریلو حالات میں انتشار نہ ہو تبھی جب عورت کی یہ صفات بیان کی گئی کہ تو وہاں اللہ کے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے یہ بھی فرمایا کہ تم میں سب سے اچھا وہ ہے جو بیوی کے ساتھ اچھا ہو، عورت اور مرد کو یہ احکام دے کہ اللہ نے اپنا فرمابرادر بنایا ہے پھر اللہ دیکھتے ہیں کون میرا کتنا کہنا مانتا ہے، در حقیقت تو شادی ہو یا نہ ہو اللہ کو راضی کرنا تو ھم سب کا مقصد ہونا چاہیئے، تبھی ھمارا انجام اچھا ہوگا، ہاں شادی ہونے میں انسان کے بہت سارے مفاد ہوتے ہیں سب سے بڑی بات یہ ہے کہ اولاد صدقہ جاریہ ہوتے جو مرنے کے بعد دعائیں کرتی ہے اور بھی بہت سارے مفادات ہیں شادی سے منسلک ،
Being a female I would strongly say when you’re taking to a non mehrum work on your tone you’re not talking to your crush here or husband. I didn’t like the way she was interrupting and saying hmmmm hmmm mmm I hope people will try to understand my point.
Just because she is saying hmmm? You accused her of talking to a crush and being sweet in her tone?? Some peoples listening skill are atoned that way eg i nod my head continuously when listening with eye contact. That doesn't mean someone is of ill character.
@@lifewithAysha I never said she has a bad character you said so. I commented on few more things which you didn’t read probably just focused on one thing. Never mind
Usually when people ask saahil sahb a question he asks them again and again,"are you still listening to me"coz they don't show any sign of being online,so hmmm means to let him know that I am online and fully involved in the conversation about Deen and not just wasting his time,pls pls don't make learning ilm (knowledge)so difficult for women,just a request to you my dear sister
@@sabayameen6374 عمل،نیت سے ہے۔
وضاحت آپ کی صحیح ہے۔
جب کوئی دوسرا مشورہ دے یا اعتراض کرے ان کی نیت بھی اصلاح کی ہی ہوتی ہے۔
البتہ الفاظ کے چناؤ ہمیں اختلاف اور غلط فہمی میں ڈال دیتے ہیں ۔
ادب اور ترتیب کو ملحوظ رکھنا ناگزیر ہے۔
یہی آپ کا کہنا ہے۔
البتہ الفاظ کا انتخاب درست نہیں ہے، درشتی زیادہ ہے، اس لیے مثبت سے زیادہ منفی ردِعمل ہورہا ھ۔
I m really impressed with sahil adeem
In ka ilam tu he hi bhtreen lakin sath brdasht bi bhtreen he in ka mashaAllah
"Whatever it takes to go against the institution of marrige". May Allah guide all of us to recognise 'feministic tone', Ameen.
Ameen
well i believe islam is the only true solution for humanity and feminism is a sub- religion that has bubbled out from the gut of secularism/liberalism thus iman in islam as a deen and feminism cant stay together in the heart of a woman at the same time,my discussion is actually in favour of hadith because we as human beings need to return to our fundamentals [quran and hadith] and if holy prophet[pbuh] says these are the attributes of a best woman then these surely are 100 percent the attributes every muslim woman needs to aquire,me and sir saahil were just exploring the hikma in the hadith and emphasising the fact that islam is the perfect deen[way of life not just namaz roza...study and ponder over this hadith actually it defines a lifestyle for women that we are in dire need of adopting],well about the tone.. its acutually anxious because of shortage of time,jazakallah hu khairah
@@genius9852 sir saahil advocates the establishment of islamic system[as purpose of life]...we are trying to discuss how it is practically possible for a muslim woman to achieve the above said purpose,,,or is it not her pupose of life at all....may be holy prophet[pbuh] entrusted muslim woman a completely different purpose of life as compared to mulim men
@@sabayameen6374 Quiet frankly, anyone from the outset, would think that this line of questioning is pushing away- marriage, and so on. Sorry if I sounded condescending in my previous comment.
Purpose of this temporal life is, "Attempting the trial"- set by Allah S W T (as described in the Quran); Beleif in Allah, living personal life in-accordance with Allah's commands (reinforced by nature), and propogating Deen etc, are all sub-purposes of that main purpose i.e, "The trial". If these manifestations of "The Trial" are not stipulated in lectures, things can get confusing. To conclude, if one gets married and lives an Islamic family life, is accomplishing the purpose of life. Allah knows the best.
@@sabayameen6374 plz tell hadees no.
Zaberdast Sahil adeem
Wah wah zaberdast 🌹
Sahil makes sense..
First time I saw your such pleasant video. I enjoyed a lot.
I rephrase d question, kia shadi na krna koi masla to ni aurat k liy? Agr wo kahy apny waali sy k mjy shadi ni krni ksi sy b for whatever reason?
Saahil adeem always undermines the importance of marriage. And with the already heavily funded propoganda against marriage and the family unit, it simply doesn't help the Islamic society.
Secondly, let's take the leader of the women of jannah as an example. She was a married woman and a good wife. She also used to do the housework (house chores) as a daughter AND and after becoming a wife. Nw remember we are talking about the ALPHA of women here.
Secondly, all of the ummahat ul momineen and the daughters of the prophet were married. Hazrat Zaid, hazrat ali, usman, umar, ali, hussain hassan (peace be upon them all), were alll married. Matter of fact most of them had multiple wives.
Thirdly, a woman without a husband has to either rely on her mehrams, like brothers OR would have to interact with men all day to make money, whether through a business or a job, and also for spending the money like buying groceries or other things.
So in conclusion she still isn't "a free independent woman" like some Muslim woman may be dreaming of. Allah has made men the Qawaam of woman and she HAS to rely on male mehrams, whether it be a husband or someone else.
Annikah min sunnati
Nikah meri sunna hai s.a.
Nikah to karna hi hai agar nahi ho paa rahi to koi baat nahi shaadi maqsad nahi hai
Allah kareem ko razi karna hai
Excellent Sahil bhie
On being judgmental, being judged and Haath se rokna:
The solution is to understand activism and what kind of activism is best understood by different sets of people. Haath se rokna doesn’t mean that one makes a fool of themselves and repel people more from Islam. You’ve to be really smart about it. Acting emotionally or reactively has never worked on anybody, when it comes to activism you’ve got to have a strategy. So, work on the strategy and discuss with likeminded people. Also, wo burai ya group of people rokien, jis pe aapko achi understanding aur command ho. For example, if you have vast experience of working with teenage kids, you know their psychology, and you’re more likely to come up with a successful strategy to stop them or educate them about their wrong steps. In order to do activism, you must first learn how to do it. You’re facing judgments and other problems, because you haven’t put in the hard work of learning how to do activism. Itna asaan nahi. Read how different Sahaba did it with different kinds of leadership styles. Read tips on doing activism in current world. And work for three months on learning all this.
Jazakallah Jazakallah khair......you hv cleared a really really huge confusion of mine.....I ws soo tangled before reading this....thnkyou
JAZAK ALLAH khair sir
Sahil sb may Allah protect you always ameen
Deep answer.
Good
Great conversation 😊. Started with a question ended in conversation....
shadi k bina aik muhazib muashra qayem nai ho skta..
Judgemental na hone ka mtlb h ki burayi ko burayi kehna h mgr burayi krne wale pr ultimate bure hone ka label nhi lga dena....every son of Adam sins, no one is perfect , and the best are those who repents....
our job is to only remind the people , to enjoin good and forbid evil without being judgemental....don't look down upon people no matter what sins they do, you never know they might reach Jannah before you...only Allah is our ultimate judge
sahi adeem sahab swal k jab swal se hi dety hn, aam admi in ka point asani se nhi smaj sakta
Marriage is also necessary for good and prosperous society.iss lyee k yeh app k Iman ki haffazat Karti hay aur nasal insani chalatti hay to pher zorori hay for both men and women.Agar shadi nahi hoo rahi to Allah say dua Kari k app ki bhi shadi hoo jaay aur app Kay paroo Mai bhi jannat hoo app ki olaad ki.question karnay say phely sochana aur research Karina chahay
Ma ya samjta hu k ak larki k liya shadi karna hi best ha or yahi ak secure rasta ha ku k yahi ak hatyar ha shatan ka jo ap ko allah ki tarf ane se rokta ha is liya shadi pahla step hona chahiya
Allah k name ka A capital likhty hain jesy MashaAllah InshaAllah RasoolAllah SubhanAllah JazakaAllah khairann
Acha g ya sirf typing mistake thi
Marriage is not purpose of life, but a lady is married... then she should be care full..even she should value her husband the Hadith mean that which I understood, because it was necessary to TO say The woman that they should give value their husband...giving value in a relationship is the mean that relation will live long what I understood
Oh
Such a lovely style sir
Best lecture ever
very good question
judgemental ka meaning h janat r dozakh ka ftwa na lgaya jay. baqi burai ko dekh kr rokna to sabit h . is k 3 drjy h hath se rokna. zuban se rokna . dill m bura janna. ye kmzor eman ki ilamat h .
Well brothers and sisters assalamualaikum waramatullah I am Dr Saba yameen tariq here and I had to finish off so quickly because I had asked my questions at the end of emotional independence for women session held on 8th march and time was extremely limited,I was the last person to ask a question and 3 ladies asked a question prior to me and saahil sir told them all to be quick when their questions were getting longer and so I wanted to be quick and precise.i didn't get the kind of answers my question needed but the time constraint was a real limitation for me and sir saahil adeem both,I please please request sir saahil if he could take out some time from his busy routine and make a detailed video about this Hadith,afterall Hadith is describing the given alpha for women in Islam as saahil sir is the one who educated me about the alpha
Very good......
I love the way u questioned....
walaikum salam Dr Saba.... I am Dr Shahrose from Karachi..i think we all muslims should read about Prophet Muhammad SAWW life... actually.. the practicing muslims are more in danger from shetaan than the one who barely know what islam is.. shetaan put double effort on those who want to bring good change. And as there is a hadith.. our companion shetaan is exactly like us.. so he will let you do the dawah but without wisdom.. and if we read our prophet SAWW we will come to know that howw muchh patient and kind he was...look.. forget this thing that your actions against them should always be respected and forget that they will obey you right after that. Remember How Hazrat Umar RA brought iman?? He was soo fierce literallyy he was very cruel before bringing iman.. Muhammad Saww did many things to approach them but always so gentlyy and His words were full of love and patience.. still Hazrat Umar RA didnt accepted and then when He listened to Allah's ayat of surah marium.. he converted.. now look at the details.. what became the reason of their conversion? Did he obeyed Muhammad SAWW? No.. it was Allah taaala who melted his heart with the tilawah.. In quran Allah taala has told us and Muhammad SAWW many times that your work is simply to invite them.. tell them good with wisdom.. if there is no wisdom.. there are 0 results. now what is wisdom? wisdom means "Aqul and Smjh". just imagine you are doing something you love and sudenly someone order you by harsh words that stop it noww its not good.. you will literally burst out with anger that WHO IS SHE? will she decide whats right whats wrong? and apart from this imagine If she passed a smile.. and after you have finished.. maybe the next dayy she sends you a hadith with a heart and flower emoticon? or the next day she brings you some deal and gifts and then smoothly and lovely she says you that dearr❤ i literally just miss jannah.. i really want us to be there together ❤ and you knw what this will bring an affection that yeah yaar jannah tou goal h yr ❤ then if she proceeds with that she has read something very beautiful about the actions that will take us to jannah.. and then lovingly she share with you that talk.. WITHOUT EVEN MENTIONING WHAT YOU DID YESTERDAY... because if she will mention that yeah this the wrong thing and YOU .. you do it.. it will automatically bring a guilt a fire inside them.. infact we just have to talk to them in a general wayy without hinting them that we know you are a sinner.. we have to bring love in hearts.. not the hopelessness.. Allah taala says to Prophet SAWW in quran that " Its an ehsaan of Allah that He has made Rasool Al Allahh kind and patient and khush ikhlaaq.. and then Allah taala further say that 'If You werent this much kind ... people would run away from you.. " it is clearlyy said in qurann that if we wont give dawah with patience and kindness and without even hinting or blaming them.. they will never come close. Don't expect quick results... patience is a part of dawah.. Hazrat Nooh AS gave dawah uptill 900 years... means you dont have to giveup.. infact just modifyy the way.. show some extra smile Just like Muhammad SAWW did.. give those people gift s with hadith cards. its a sunnah of Prophet SAWW.. and also you can search more about that hadith it was about dawah without wisdom is of no use.. and morover you can read book "داعی اعظم" this book is about "The great daaii.. means the wonderful qualities required to give dawah" i hope it may help you inshaAllahh ameen.
سوال یہ ہے کہ أپ کو کیوں
یہ سوال کرنے ضرورت پیش
أگئ؟
I think answer to the last point should be that you have to be judgmental of the action but not the person committing it.
Saba sister how to contact with Sahil Adeemsir? Kindly tell
ایک حدیث کا مفہوم ہے جو عورت اچھے رشتے کی تلاش میں بغیر نکاح کے فوت ہو جائے یا ساری زندگی گزار دے اس کو شہادت کا درجہ ملے گا
صحیح دین سیکھنے کے لیے الندوی ایجوکیشن اسلام آباد کے مفتی سعید صاحب سے رجوع کریں
Aslamoalkum warehmatula sir bare berdasht de hia Allah ny AP ko maira khaiyal hai ladies ko apny mehdod knowedge ke bena per behas kerny ke bajaey AP ko sun ker knowedge lenay ke zarorat hai
Apko sawal pe itne takleef kiun ho rai he? Aur ladiesssss ke knowledge mehdud he iska pta apko kis ne btaya?
Bilkul kbhi kbhi hum agressive hojaty hen logo ko Achi baat bataty hue log hmesha piyar se attract hoty hen
Assalamoalaykum MashaAllah excellent excellent conversation very very much interesting enjoyed a lot see these kind of topics need to addressed this topic for everyone and that’s kind of many topics that you explain R necessary for letting everyone know U R doing very well that’s why U R very important person in this era Allah bless bless you and keep you in his protection so battay take care of yourself I know you are always doing Allah bless bless bless you Ameen Ameen summa Ameen fee Aman Allah wassalam 🌹🌷🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌸🌼🌸🌼🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻💐💐💐🌾🌾🌾🌾😇😇😇😇😇😊😊😊😊😃😄😀☺️😊😇😇😇
shadi ya namaaz ko zindagi ka maqsad bana nahi hai..........right👍
حضور نبی کریم رؤف و رحیم
صلی اللۀعلیۀوألۀوصحبۀوسلم
نے فرمایا:
مجھے دنیا کی تین چیزیں
پسند ہیں،
١- عورت.
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۳- خوشبو.
Shaadi ka maqsad Kya hai, Nikah say adha Deen mukmil hota hai, mia biwi ek dosray ka libas hai, ek dosray ko borae say bachatay hai agar shaadia na ho to byhayai, depression, zina barhay ga, baray meharbani Shaadi say na bhagay, or na Shaadi ko Bora bhala kahay.
I hate shaadi... Ese jese bs zindgi ka mqsd yehe hai
@@egoiisticprince7977 i think ap shaadi se nfrat nae krte lkn jis tarah se shaadi k saath baaki maslo ko joda gaya hai uss se nfrat krte
@@happyworldofumay6946 exactly yhi musla r khas tor py susral ka ap py asy haq jatana r jamana jesy ap ko khareed k lay hain apny maa baap k ghar b ijazat k beghair nahi ja skty
Mera islam hmy maa baap k pass jny sy to nahi rokta
Khas tor py jin k waldaiyn akaily
R dosra agar nan nafqa mard k zimay hai aurat khadma nahi hai
Mera islam mujhy pura ikhtyar r haq daita her cheez ka
Her cheez ma nuqs nikalty roti gol nahi ha moti ha patli ha
Bhai mery py farz nahi hai ye ma bna k day rhi to qadar sy khaiyn
Oper sy so musla alag shadi na ho gai test ho gya her kam ma mahir ho gy to numbr milaiyn gy
Sadgi ka rawaj hi nahi us py b aytraz
Bhai nahi bnany mujhy eyebrows nahi krni waxing dard hoti mujhy
Insan smjhaiyn aurat ko sajh sanwar k b rhy ghar k kam b kry kuch bolay b na r maa baap k pass to jy hi na
Asy halaat ma kon kry ga shadi kis ka dil krta apni azadi chor k khadma wali qaid ma chli jay
Mushkil kr d shadi inho ny deen ny to itni asani d
Wo tu log shadi ky badh bhi kr rhy hai chahe chup ke chahe samne
@@NoorFatima-js8lb bilkul aapne saahi kaha agar shauhr shadi k baad sbse chhup k dusri aurat k sath masti krta h toh kya ye sahi h...
Good question 👍
اے دنیا کے لوگوں آپ کو مزا آرہا ہے
Kia yeh sawal koi dosry siyary se poch raha ...?🙃
I think this lady has newly started understanding Islam it’s too basics question
As we and this earth are made up mostly of water, I wish we could develop fluid like consistency in our personality, actions, thoughts, understanding and may be acceptability?
exactlyyy yaaar..
But sometimes that rapid flow of water can be dangerous! Why not take a middle path?
@@plug_65 not talking about the speed. Speed of matter is something else. Talking about consistency here. Water has a calming flow too. It cools down as well. Then again, those are the additional effects.
First comment
very good question and i think the answer haven't given properly here
Imam e Ali nay farmaya!!! tableegh ye hai k na zuban mun say bahir niklay or na hi niyaam say talwar; yani tumara amal hi is kadar powerful ho k loog dekh len k ye hai Islam
We don't have security as an alone woman that's y we need a man in this society but Allah will guide you
My sister, security is always from Allah. Please don't rely on people for security reasons.
@@maryamkkhan sorry sister I say one thing I am afraid of myself because I am not afraid of anyone except Allah
Tawakkul ala Allah - التوكل علي الله
@@maryamkkhan waise to rizq bhi Allah ki taraf se hota hai to kya kaam na karen .....gazab ki soch hai waqai
@@genius9852 put your best effort leave rest to Allah
Hiqmat k sath.pscychology k mutabiq hr kisi k sath deal krna
اے اللہ! میں تجھ سے دنیا و آخرت کی ساری بھلائی کی دعا مانگتی ہوں جو مجھ کو معلوم ہے اور جو نہیں معلوم، اور میں تیری پناہ چاہتی ہوں دنیا اور آخرت کی تمام برائیوں سے جو مجھ کو معلوم ہیں اور جو معلوم نہیں، اے اللہ! میں تجھ سے اس بھلائی کی طالب ہوں جو تیرے بندے اور تیرے نبی نے طلب کی ہے، اور میں تیری پناہ چاہتی ہوں اس برائی سے جس سے تیرے بندے اور تیرے نبی نے پناہ چاہی ہے، اے اللہ! میں تجھ سے جنت کی طالب ہوں اور اس قول و عمل کی بھی جو جنت سے قریب کر دے، اور میں تیری پناہ چاہتی ہوں جہنم سے اور اس قول و عمل سے جو جہنم سے قریب کر دے، اور میں تجھ سے سوال کرتی ہوں کہ ہر وہ حکم جس کا تو نے میرے لیے فیصلہ کیا ہے بہتر کر دے
Asalamualikum.
Thanks to Saba Yameen mam, discussing this important issue ,that Islam has given women their own identity, marriage is not necessary or the only way,for becoming pious, their are so many ways , through which you can submit to , Allah,e.g , charity, good deeds ,itiba of , Allah,and walideen,one should be long sighted and frame opinion about someone, is a sin moreover, thanks to Sahil Adeem sir ,for this sympathy for us ill treated and supressed sisters, your goodself is right,that sometimes divorce is good for women and children,and divorced women live a happy and prosperous life , surprising the cunning and short sighted world ,sir ,I Shameema have a deep desire to perform Hajj along with my walidah Muhtarma Raja begum please pray for the fulfillment of this sacred desire, may, Allah, fullfill all our desires ameen yarabul alameen thankyou.
Great
aik aurat hote huwe main wese ye video dekhne k baad kehne par majboor hun k aurton ki aqal wakie he gitton me hoti hai 🤦🏻♀️
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Q lgta apko aesa? Ye tou basic sawal hyn or ksi ko koi confusion hai tou wo puch rh hyn ap q judge krrh aurton ko? Mje b tha is trh ka confusion or I'm happy k unoh ne pucha ye sb, iska mtlb ye nh hai hmari aqal ghutnon mai hai or apki sir mai. Plz don't judge!!!
@@aysha632
اللۀرسول صلی اللۀ علیۀ وسلم
کا حکم ہے نکاح کرو،
ڈاکٹرصبایامین کا سوال کیسے
بنیادی ہو گیا؟
Tu is tarah tu mardon ke baare mai bhi ke behtareen mard he woh he jo apni biwi ke saath sab se acha he phir mard bhi bole ke iskeliye shaadi karna zarori he mai ne tu bahoot hi kam he jo apne ghar walon ko islam par amal karne ko kahe
Marriage is not the purpose of life Allah is
Agar aap shadi nhi karo gi toh Allah kay deen kay liyay khalid bin waleed jaisay batay kaisay paida karo gi or rabia basri jaisi baiti kaisay paida karo gi nikah kay baad to orat kay liyay sab say zayada aasan ho jata hai deen ka kaam karna wo apni olad par daawah ka kaam kar sakti hai unhain tyar kar sakti hai
@@hamadarif5588 alhamdulilah I am mother of a daughter
@@saniaaziz8134 Allah ap ko apni baiti ki behtreen tarbiat karnay ki tofeeq ata farmay
@@saniaaziz8134
شادی زندگی کا مقصد نہیں تو
حضورنبی کریم رؤف و رحیم
وجہہءکائنات جن کے طفیل
أپ اس دنیا میں أئ ہو
ان وجہہءکائنات نےبارہ شادیاں
کی کیوں کی؟
@@saniaaziz8134
جس نے خود کو پہچان لیا
اس نے اللۀ کو پہچان لیا....
پہلے خود کی پہچان کرو
پھر خدا مل جائیگا....
ان شاءاللۀ..
میں ہی صرف تقوے کے گھرسے
باہر نکل کر نہیں أپڑا ہوں،،،،
میرے باپ نے بھی دائمی بہشت
کو ہاتھ سے چھوڑ دیا...
A tough question
Read "The Prophet's Methods of Correcting People's Mistakes" by Muhammad Salih Al-Munajjid.
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Asalamu Aalekum bhai
Would you please suggest me the sequence of Islamic literature. If u could that'll be your utmost kindness.
We as human being all are judgemental, or put it like this, we make judgments... but upon your judgements, never make assumptions... That's bad thing.
You are right. But what sail said don't multiply it with 0 what if u have to multiply 0 with 0 infinity
@@saniaaziz8134
Who are we to decide? who one is 0?
@@TowardsSolution that's my point understand the philosophy no one is made 0 by Allah
@@saniaaziz8134
That's true.
I didn't understand what are you saying.. Multiplying 0 with 0 infinity.. Plz?
@@TowardsSolution what is infinity no solution it's maths so never say anyone is zero
Wht u think about hazrat rabia basri?????
There are exceptions like her, can't be applicable on the majority.
okay now i got it
Childish Question, and I can answer it.
She is a doctor but doesn't seem it has some positive effects on her.
brother it doesn't matter what the question is or who the questioner is, what matters is that it's being asked and has been replied to fairly.. which will be and had been helpful to people... btw the question wasn't childish. As Sahil Bhai just said Kisi ko judge nahi kerna yet aap judge ker rahyn hai...
Look at your tone and grandiosity. It seems you're a child yourself.
@@asma_zafar I don't know/remember if you are the person who asked question or just a random one. Whatever, just don't take it personal. I exactly don't even remember what it was about.
and thanks for your feedback on my tone.
Question has not been answered
Jazak Allah haat say roknay ka matlab please wazay karany
How to ask him a question???
Aoa sir ape se molakat karne ho tu kis trha ki jaye
Hazrat Maryam r.a never got married
But all umahat ul momineen and daughters of the Holy Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him did get married and used to do household chores. And remember, Hazrat Fatima is the leader of the women of jannah. So women should take her as the role model
Don't follow exceptions
Intelligent questions of intelligent woman
Sir Sahil, i am sorry u had to deal with such women.
Allah ne sab se phela rista shoher biwi ka banaya hai
شادی کا نکاح کا حکم قرآن پاک کی نص قطعی سے ثابت ہے جو نکاح کے حکم کا انکار کرے گا وہ کافر ہے
Give me full session bhai
it was a private session i think..
Sahil sir un kay samny confused lag rhay hu
kia krain jo bnda swal is liye puchta ky juab dy marna hai smjhna nhi.. sahil adeem sabr e kr skta..
no offense and with due respect to her and sahil bhai.... baji ki hnmm bohot funny hai...
Mai to shadi krugi Insha Allah baki ladkiyu ka mjy ni pta
When women said the name of sahil adeem its too funny 🤭 like sahil adeem bhe kehta h
Y my alpha is not sahil and sahil calls me by name not miss sania
@@saniaaziz8134 Are you his wife?
@@taym2720 mind your language
Go and work in an international company it's culture to call by name and respect in hearts
@@saniaaziz8134 Have some respect when speaking to your neighbors
No it's the society that made it difficult for woman
Hadith should be explained first then other questions should be answered. Also the lady didn't quote the correct words of hadith. Wife should not use husband's money without his permission and knowledge., this is mentioned in the hadith, not the other way around. Wife can use her money where ever she wants and husband has nothing to do with it.
Sorry at this point u r wrong
@@saniaaziz8134 sorry but you r wrong.
@@egoiisticprince7977 prove it
Well that's the actual hadess ,,u re rite
True
ban saktti hai per kue na wo aik behtreen nassal banayy
U can’t describe ,teach, motivate to any person,forcefully...by can handle him/ her...technically...psychologically...so that can achieve positive results instead of being rebellion against Islam
اللہ تعالی اپنے معاملات میں بہت سخت ہے
جبار و قہار کی اس ڈھیل کو
یہ لوگ نہیں سمجھ رہے.
That was funny....
Assalam o Alaikum.sahil Sahab confuse ho Gaye hen.behen ne bht hi Acha Sawal Kia he lekin sorry to say Sahil Bhai koi wazeh jawab Nahin de sakay.khamkha baat ko ghuma dia he.sahil Bhai aap wazeh or mukamal jawab den Jo Dil ko lagay.
U r right
Dr Bahan ny jawab denay ka moqa e ni deya sahil Bhi co
Sawal ker k khamosh hona or jawab sunna Bhi mahfil k adaab main sy he
@@ihtashamulhaq889 sir plz refer to my comment
This is psychology tactics to change dr sahibas mind and going to focus on something different direction.
Offff 😇😇
آپ اپنے وڈیو میں یہ کہتے ہیں کہ شادی کے بعد کوئی غلط نکل آئے تو واپس آئے آؤ پھر کہاں جائیں
All the questions are in same voice
شکر ہے آخر کار بی بی کو سمجھ آ گئی
Forbid evil but don't look down upon people.....stay away from takabbur and being judgemental, because we cant read people's hearts and intentions, only Allah is the ultimate judge of everyone.
hazrat khadija RA ne b tw nabi saw pe pesa lgaya tha
Apni mrzi say
کیا بہترین عورت بننے کے لیۓ
شادی کرنا لازم ہے؟؟؟؟؟؟
جواب: ہر بیٹی اپنی ماں کو
دیکھ لے!
جس کا نکاح ایک مرد سے ہوا.
Blkl b sae jawab nh hai..
@@egoiisticprince7977
میرا جواب سوفیصد درست ہے
بہترین عورت بننے کے لیۓ
شادی کرنا ضروری ہے تو اسکا
سیدھا حل میں نے بتایا ہے کہ
وہ اپنی ماں کو دیکھ لے کہ وہ
کتنی بہترین،
سب شک دور ہو جائیگا اس کا
ہ
@@hasnainhasnain5688 that doesnt make any sense.
@@egoiisticprince7977
اگر تو پاکی ناپاکی کو سمجھتا
ہے تو سن مسلمانوں کے یہاں
دنیا کی بہترین متاع نیک عورت ہے،
یاد رہے یہاں مسلم عورت کی
بات ہو رہی ہے کسی ناپاک
نجست یہود و نصاری قادیانی
عورت کی نہیں سمجھا....
@@egoiisticprince7977 exactly..
Judgmental ma yeah concept lain k kisi k bary ma opinion bna laina or dusrun k dainy un ka image asa btana k falana asa ha ya wesa ha this come in judgmental , burae sy mna krna Kabi b judgmental k sath compare nai ho skta ,
Confused question and answers too not clear.
Exactly
کلو لفظ ذائقۃ الموت
كلُ نفس...
Log kuch bhi comment karein
But
Ye sawal waqai achcha tha
Lady bohot confident aur intelligent thi
Jawab wazeh nhi mila uska
Lady ki eagerness aur bohot sarey cross questions ki wjh se....may be
If possible is sawal pe alag se video bna dein in brief..
Is video ko dobara sahi se dekhen inshallah apko samajh ayegy
Agreed
@@musharrafalam825 sahil sahab ka hr video bohot ghaur se dekhti sunti hu
Ek bar me catch ho jati hein chizein Al'hamdulillaah
Phir bhi main dubara dekh lungi
@@sadiyahashmi2273
اس سوال میں أپ کو کیا
اچھا لگا؟
This nation has only one topic women 🧐🙄
مجھے مکمل حدیث بمع حوالہ مل نہیں رہی ہے مگر جو کچھ بھی ملا ہے اس کے حساب سے بہترین عورت نہیں بہترین بیوی کے الفاظ شامل ہیں اس حدیث میں.
کسی کے پاس حدیث بمع حوالہ جات موجود ہو تو شئیر کردے تاکہ بلاوجہ کی غلط فہمی ختم ہو.
@@sabayameen6374
یہاں تو کچھ اور ہی لکھا ہے.
@@sabayameen6374
آپ نے کہاں دیکھی؟ حدیث بھیجیں ذرا
I think those are quite enough references,,,,dear sister ,I had to work hard to find all those but I am happy about it if my efforts can contribute to haq in some way,,,pls now you got the references kindly also think about the philosophy and basis of this Hadith,may Allah always bless you in dunya and akhirah and may you excel in your emmaan
Sunnan nisai,book 26 kitabunnikah vol 4 Hadith 3231,Sunnah . C is the website
@@sabayameen6374
دعاوں کا شکریہ مگر حدیث کے الفاظ بھی بھیج دیتیں تو زیادہ بہتر رہتا. خیر میں خود نکال لیتی ہوں.
Behan...psychological aglay ko convince karain...jis say wo motivation ki taraf raaagib ho...aor buraai ko chornay kaaa...SOCHAY
She had sahib adeem speechless.