Entire Families Are Now Transitioning Together.. I CAN'T!

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  • @swordswordsdev
    @swordswordsdev ปีที่แล้ว +1017

    39:29 I cannot IMAGINE if I called up my trans friend and was like "Hey girl, you're trans so let me do your laundry." How is she supposed to respond? "Alright, and you're black so I'll do your dishes 🥺" like 💀💀

    • @bellaphine6559
      @bellaphine6559 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      LMAOOOOOO

    • @catmeissner4795
      @catmeissner4795 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lol

    • @thetillerwiller4696
      @thetillerwiller4696 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      PLEASE

    • @Tree-House69
      @Tree-House69 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂

    • @KatieLouise
      @KatieLouise 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @johnb9573
    @johnb9573 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    Blaires said this before but it’s worth saying again, I’ll never understand how 99% percent of people can agree that people fake/mistakenly think they have Tourette’s, DID, etc but cannot even consider that some people might mistakenly think they’re trans.

    • @baconsarny-geddon8298
      @baconsarny-geddon8298 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree, that people can believe they're "trans", and be WRONG... To me, the question is "Can you believe you're trans, and be CORRECT?"
      You're talking about a "medical condition" (or whatever "transgenderism" is meant to be), which has exactly ZERO basis in empirical evidence. Which uses ZERO physical, empirical evidence in diagnosis, and where virtually all normal protections against incorrect diagnosis (like criteria for falsification) have been removed, by the medical establishment, ONLY for this one diagnosis.
      I see no evidence that "REAL trans" even exists- I think there's just some people who CAN accept living immersed in a fantasy (of being the opposite sex) 24/7, and other people who CAN'T live life, immersed in a fantasy. Same as basically any other "lifestyle" choice

    • @APatel8
      @APatel8 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      Because if you doubt them at all, you're immediately labeled as transphobic 🙄

    • @2000Doriyas
      @2000Doriyas 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      and doubting someone's tourettes would now get you labelled "Ableist" @@APatel8

    • @mattjack3983
      @mattjack3983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ​​@@APatel8which the label in itself is complete incorrect, and it's super annoying that people don't seem to understand what "phobic/phobia" means. No one is afraid of trans people.

    • @APatel8
      @APatel8 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mattjack3983 please google it. phobia means a fear or strong aversion to.

  • @Reneexelizabeth
    @Reneexelizabeth ปีที่แล้ว +247

    During the pandemic lockdown I went to the grocery store with my boyfriend and apparently I stood in the checkout line too close to a woman and she turned around and yelled at me. In PA they had lines marked where you were supposed to stand while distancing yourself and I was in the right space so even to this day I don't really understand why this happened. But I just moved back from her biting my tongue, but my boyfriend yelled back and this lady was acting like a full blown karen asking for the manager, telling my bf he's being rude, etc. The employees were just shaking their heads at her and told her to stop. I still get anxiety that someone is going to yell at me like that again for no reason. Like, why couldn't you just ask me to move back a little instead of yelling? I'll never understand why people get so aggressive.

    • @jessicasmith9035
      @jessicasmith9035 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      The fear drives people crazy.

    • @annother258
      @annother258 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because part of the plandemic goal was to cause mental illness by fear mongering and creating free floating anxiety. They succeeded, leaving behind a woke mass of delusional, unstable young people.

    • @zentenn9665
      @zentenn9665 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Distance has nothing to do with CV. Give people their personal space. I give 6 feet for personal space. Why do you want to be up someone's azz for?

    • @j-rodthelibrarykid1166
      @j-rodthelibrarykid1166 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zentenn9665 i literally can't go out in public cause people don't know how to stay away they need the 6 foot rule back where i'm from

    • @hellooutthere8956
      @hellooutthere8956 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They are being brainwashed.

  • @tisminnit
    @tisminnit ปีที่แล้ว +860

    I've dealt with body dysmorphia, depression, anxiety and low self esteem since I was a teen. These are symptoms of gender dysphoria, but they can also just be symptoms of undiagnosed autism and general childhood trauma... this is why these kids/teens need to go through at least 2-3 years of real therapy, not gender affirming "therapy", before anyone even thinks about letting them transition.

    • @llkoolbean4935
      @llkoolbean4935 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This!

    • @AdmCornFlake
      @AdmCornFlake ปีที่แล้ว +51

      This. But also, transitioning socially for 2 years and living as my desired gender + a lot of experimentation during that time was my saving grace that prevented me from later regretting it. Fucking WILD to me that you can get hormones before even spending a single day presenting as the cross gender. I feel like people also often get fucked up when they realize they don't actually like being perceived as a man/woman, whatever is opposite from their gender, after having undergone irreversible treatments.

    • @silaslizzie43
      @silaslizzie43 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Can also be a sign of fixation on mental issues at a time when people have nothing to ACTUALLY do but be on TikTok and social media.

    • @sophroniel
      @sophroniel ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Precisely. I have no doubt that, were I born ten years later than I was, that I would think I was trans. I was deeply uncomfortable with my body turning into a woman's. Now I'm totally fine (I do have low self esteem but not cos of my gender). And guess what? I was diagnosed with ADHD and Austism Spectrum Disorder at 25 (by a psychiatrist.... I feel I have to clarify this as many people self diagnose these days 🙄). Truly this modern idea of (almost exclusively trans men) being transgender as the crux of their identity is not healthy or ok! Sure, I remember doing the myers-briggs type quiz as a teenager, because it felt good to be able to put things into neat little boxes.... but I realised, as I grew up, that in reality life isn't like that!! We don't all fit neatly into boxs-and, I would contend, we shouldn't even attempt to, as it's so fundementally the antithesis of humanity we should stay far, far away from such limitations. Labels are not helpful, they are like pins sticking you to a corkboard, and you can't wrench yourself free because everyone sees and reinforces the wall pin when they see it. Change of any kind is hard, be that growing from child to adult, or some big job, a new or leaving partner, and so many more

    • @ellex8597
      @ellex8597 ปีที่แล้ว

      Forreal. Trans people need therapy first not transition. Transition should come later, first evaluate the person. There's people who are trans bc of a trauma response to sexual assault or abuse. Unpack that first 😅 these generations of therapists are a fucking mess

  • @ziam6210
    @ziam6210 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    Yup they ignore detransitioners as if they don’t exist. Keep calling them out Blair.

    • @mxdahliabelle
      @mxdahliabelle ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't ignore them. I just don't care.

    • @ThatGothicArtist
      @ThatGothicArtist ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@mxdahliabellewe can see that

    • @Josh-hh2cu
      @Josh-hh2cu ปีที่แล้ว +32

      i had a professor talking about transgender people and that we shouldn’t discriminate as counselors against them and said that prople bring up “detransitioners which are such a small portion of the trans community that they’re insignificant” like boi, trans people as a whole are a small part of society but we always hear about them

    • @chrissytaylor5690
      @chrissytaylor5690 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's because they don't exist......(to the Democratic Party)! 😒
      When the lefties look at the Trans Community they don't look at them as humans! 🤷‍♀️ They look at them as a small portion of citizens that they can EXPLOIT TO THE FULLEST EXTENT..... And use as a weapon to beat down on their political opponents! 😒🤦‍♀️
      If you are a Trans person who has "detransitioned" .... Then you are no longer of any use for them.🤷‍♀️ Therefore, they feel as if you don't exist! 🥺
      Its all about POWER because they are TYRANTS!!!

    • @CosplayHeroUnite
      @CosplayHeroUnite ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I’m a detransitioner and I honestly was shut down immediately from the trans group I used to be a part of, and a chunk of them showed their true colors (which were distasteful and horrid).
      We honestly need more detransitioner voices out there, because the cult need to be put in check.
      Yes, I did call them a cult because looking back, trans groups are very cult like.

  • @melissamoonchild9216
    @melissamoonchild9216 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    James 'permanently under water' Charles is the most accurate description Ive ever heard

  • @VieViolett
    @VieViolett ปีที่แล้ว +3021

    Busted, crusted, and disgusted needs to be merch.. It's iconic!

    • @Wallflowerzizme
      @Wallflowerzizme ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I second this, I need one 🤣

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Yes! I would wear tf out of that. 😂

    • @johndoeiii6103
      @johndoeiii6103 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Dusted and disgusted is an E40 song from 95

    • @chrisogara5283
      @chrisogara5283 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      As well as "baby girl, baby boy, baby they"

    • @mh1290
      @mh1290 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Damn straight!! I would totally wear that shirt.

  • @gmachineq
    @gmachineq ปีที่แล้ว +289

    Truth. Being a gen Xer I don’t understand all this blind faith. When did the government become our “friend”. When I was younger political dissent wasn’t racist and we lived to rage against the man and to question EVERYTHING. I just don’t understand these times. I feel like we are living in a clown town.

    • @teonattyirl
      @teonattyirl ปีที่แล้ว

      As a Millenial, I relate so much! It's mind boggling 😬 HOW/WHEN TF did the govt and Big Pharma become the ULTIMATE SAVIOURS??? Did we all just collectively forget about the opioid crisis and the corruption of healthcare?? Apparently all that was needed was a pandemic for the social brain to be wiped clean 🫠

    • @TheShawna78
      @TheShawna78 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean our generation literally has a band called Rage Against the Machine. Now all the people that were yelling out the lyrics “killing in the name of” are deep throating the big Government dick! I just don’t get it!

    • @notatruck2640
      @notatruck2640 ปีที่แล้ว

      This world is too silly for this clown

    • @misstina1986
      @misstina1986 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you republican? Just asking

    • @CharliStar
      @CharliStar ปีที่แล้ว

      That is because we live in Clown World, not just Clown Town. It is the entirety of “Western Society” that has become this, not just the US…. It is in the uk, europe, Australia, New Zealand and the USA

  • @oliviaforteza9608
    @oliviaforteza9608 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    As someone who struggles with binge eating disorder, if i eat what i want whenever i want, I would never stop eating. Eating 3-4 meals a day is what helps me gain control over my diet.

    • @EllouiseJudge
      @EllouiseJudge 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      i have a binge eating disorder too and i feel similarly. i make the hard choice everyday to not give into my disorder !

    • @StallionStudios1234
      @StallionStudios1234 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Seen have a lot of comments on year regarding this disorder below and above on this video. Sounds like it may be unfortunately a very common disorder. I am glad you are able to control it. I am a recovered alcoholic. I can never go back to that it had a huge impact on my life to the point it caused brain damage. Happy to say I am doing better today even with the long lasting effects from it.

  • @phoebe6297
    @phoebe6297 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    As a disabled person: 16:16 :
    We don’t appreciate people speaking for us. We know we are at risk, that’s why a lot of us have carers. During lockdown most immunity comprised people had people getting supplies for them and did NOT leave their house.
    We’re hyper aware of the risks because it’s our lives and WE make adjustments for that, NOT society. Society has never catered itself for us nor should it other than allowing us the opportunity to live fruitful lives with accessibility etc.

    • @Gloria-ro4vn
      @Gloria-ro4vn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      AMEN. Same here. Why in the hell should people be expected to LOCK themselves in their homes for the few of us who can't get the vaccines or are immune compromised. It's called taking PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY for your actions and yourselves.

    • @highpeacetess
      @highpeacetess 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💯💯💯 thank you!! 🤗💕

    • @heylove582
      @heylove582 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      God bless you !

    • @craigleith100
      @craigleith100 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said 😉👍🏼 trans people aren’t disabled so that whole rant was pointless like Oh he/she is trans I wonder if they need me go to the shops or wash their car WTF 🤷🏼‍♂️ what makes them so special in truth they’re not even trans they’re just caught up in a social contagion 🤷🏼‍♂️👍🏼🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @r-e_mii
      @r-e_mii 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      There are also those with intellectual disabilities who definitely don't have the world cater to them. We are just now seeing sensory friendly hours in some Walmarts & other places. It was quite wonderful & I'm grateful to see it happen but did I ever expect it to, no. I expected to take my child in quickly, get what we had to get to minimize sensory overload. It's always appreciated, never expected.

  • @mandymusshafen2092
    @mandymusshafen2092 ปีที่แล้ว +936

    People really don't understand how much of a drastic difference there is between body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria, and how devastating mixing them up can be. The treatment for one is literally the worst thing you can do for the other. 🥺

    • @JessG_20
      @JessG_20 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Yep I was just talking about this the other week. I had severe body dysmorphia as a teen and had someone suggested at that time that "maybe you're actually a boy" it would have sent me into an even worse, more su*cidal mindset.

    • @Cashhhhew
      @Cashhhhew ปีที่แล้ว +70

      It annoys me as someone with dysmorphia. That gave me anorexia, not the desire to have a d*ck. It’s belittling to both those with genuine gender dysphoria and those of us with body dysmorphia.

    • @lucassinclair2392
      @lucassinclair2392 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      As a VERY cis man with body dysmorphia…I like the parts I have? It’s bizarre to me how they can get confused

    • @AnnaSchemelinin
      @AnnaSchemelinin ปีที่แล้ว

      If a teenage girl who thinks she is ugly is told that she can be a boy, she has a high risk of developing gender dysphoria because most girls think that the lives of ugly boys are much easier than the lives of ugly girls. These girls will be happy to transition and develop temporary euphoria caused mostly by a sudden rise in popularity, which they mistakenly believed would last forever, destroy their bodies, and regret their decisions later when the damage is irreparable.

    • @raja.kohinoor
      @raja.kohinoor ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes, body dismorphia is insecurity and gender dysphoria is inconguence

  • @diacarat
    @diacarat ปีที่แล้ว +93

    The thing about gender dysphoria vs body dysmorphia and expecting TEENAGERS to be able to differentiate those is insanely accurate. When I thought not liking my female body was a sign of me being trans (literally no other symptoms that would have made me trans, but I was deep in LGBT internet community so I equated the two) I was just 14 and hadn't even begun to process sexual trauma that was the entire reason I felt uncomfortable specifically with my female body. Six years later and I'm still dealing with the body issues, because they don't just go away. I assume detrans people think transition will help them find a relief from these feelings, but it probably just becomes even more severe because of all the artificial changes happening to their body. Doctors not giving what could be LIFE-CHANGING mental health support to young people and just going along with whatever they identify as makes my blood boil. They can all go to hell.

    • @StallionStudios1234
      @StallionStudios1234 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      When I was a teenager I certainly was curious about being a women and tried to explore that for a while. Happy to say I grew out of that and am a normal adult hetero male. I can't imagine have this BS pushed on me. It would confuse the hell out of me.

  • @ThePiscesPixie
    @ThePiscesPixie ปีที่แล้ว +1139

    Everytime you say baby girl.. my mind fills in the blanks with "baby boy, baby girl, baby they" - it needs to be merch! :'D

    • @HeyItsRicki85
      @HeyItsRicki85 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It's "Baby they"

    • @ThePiscesPixie
      @ThePiscesPixie ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HeyItsRicki85 see!! you KNOW IT!! - also ty I edited it 🤣

    • @karenquin5295
      @karenquin5295 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Freaking same!!!!!

    • @jemmah4723
      @jemmah4723 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same 😂

    • @jennaneely9483
      @jennaneely9483 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Hahahahahaha I do the same!! She's an Icon

  • @Sepricotaku
    @Sepricotaku ปีที่แล้ว +660

    If the James Charles thing was a straight man texting a 15 year old girl that way they would never be welcome in public again, so sorry James no you cannot be uncancelled.

    • @ShadowsMasquerade
      @ShadowsMasquerade ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I mean you have a point. But kevin spacey and bryan singer are still cancelled or in the process of it (singer). Charles should remain in cancel land with them.

    • @Sepricotaku
      @Sepricotaku ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShadowsMasquerade agrred

    • @anabel6368
      @anabel6368 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ShadowsMasqueradeThat is what he said lol

    • @harisbilal4401
      @harisbilal4401 ปีที่แล้ว

      James was 21 or 22 texting an 18 year old so I don't think it's predatory

    • @melissamoonchild9216
      @melissamoonchild9216 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      a very naive outlook 😅

  • @rydbthatsme
    @rydbthatsme 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    All predators should be canceled PERIOD

    • @StallionStudios1234
      @StallionStudios1234 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And its sadly going the other way. Look at the creep Eli Ulrick or whatever their name is. Blair has debated against them and they have failed. I hope they go to jail because they are illegally sending puberty blockers to kids.

    • @bbmrpsgt
      @bbmrpsgt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Recently a Transgender Teen was Murdered and dismembered in Pennsylvania.

  • @louisejames1844
    @louisejames1844 ปีที่แล้ว +882

    My grandma said “you get the face you deserve “. She was right. You’re angry and resentful your whole life, your face settles into the “bulldog chewing a wasp” look. You bring joy, whatever life throws (and life throws shite at all of us), your face looks sweet. Maybe old and wrinkly but sweet. You cannot divorce mind and body. I agree 100% with Blaire.

    • @meatavoreNana
      @meatavoreNana ปีที่แล้ว +13

      My grandson tells me ,if I haven't got my top denture in , that I look like a bulldog .😂😂

    • @halfmoon2075
      @halfmoon2075 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That's funny, there's a hateful lady that lives in my building and we call her the bulldog lady.

    • @ViktorJ957
      @ViktorJ957 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I agree with your general point, but lives are more complex. My mother suffered repeated and horrific trauma when she was a minor and that was never resolved. So she has a low trigger point and is angry and judgmental but still thoughtful, caring, and loving.

    • @mailvoor698
      @mailvoor698 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah nice story bro but indeed life is fucking too complex for you to say this BS

    • @spooky_bones2641
      @spooky_bones2641 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Ehh, I don't know about this, I've known plenty of people who looked physically beautiful but were rotten at the core.

  • @deborahbauernfeind5402
    @deborahbauernfeind5402 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I am 70. These are my end years and no one will take them away from me other than God. I'm with you, Blaire😘

    • @iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii7738
      @iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii7738 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Assuming your profile pic is recent, you look amazing for 70❤️

    • @eesynopsis7393
      @eesynopsis7393 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Damn girl you're looking great

    • @judyrose6695
      @judyrose6695 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I was coming here to say the same thing!! You are a stunning 70 years young!! Hope I look as good as you in 40 years😍

    • @jessisamess8
      @jessisamess8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Dang ….. 70 !!! You wear it well ma’am. Beautiful ❤️

    • @johndoeiii6103
      @johndoeiii6103 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are really a beautiful woman

  • @mottwoman6775
    @mottwoman6775 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I bet the Dear Cis Allies person never called a mom and asked what they can do to relieve the burdens they gave during this hard time.🙄

    • @greatestever247
      @greatestever247 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right. That was my first thought.

  • @kevinsmith9502
    @kevinsmith9502 ปีที่แล้ว +3656

    I cannot believe that Blaire was a guy at one time.She's absolutely beautiful and I have no problem thinking of her as a she.

    • @xavierreed6299
      @xavierreed6299 ปีที่แล้ว +435

      If womb transplants ever did become a thing, I wouldn't be mad if she got one

    • @ivek_k
      @ivek_k ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Frfr

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 ปีที่แล้ว +554

      @xavierreed6299 Actually the very first womb transplant was just done in the UK!! It wasnt for a trans person. A woman gave her womb to her sister so she can hopefully give birth because the woman already had kids but the sister was born with a deformed womb. So they took the womb out and connected all the blood vessels and everything. Now it has to heal and stuff so they're going to keep an eye on that and learn, but the procedure was successful!

    • @xavierreed6299
      @xavierreed6299 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@talyahr3302 I was referring to it happening with trans women. That would be really cool

    • @StarlightAnya01
      @StarlightAnya01 ปีที่แล้ว +330

      @@xavierreed6299I mean they have to learn how to do it with women first lol

  • @cwassellful
    @cwassellful ปีที่แล้ว +326

    I'm a US expat living in Mexico and the Mexican flag is everywhere. Mexicans are some of the most endearingly patriotic people I've encountered (as a culture/society) in this world. It's actually made me appreciate the patriotism of my own country. It's made me understand patriotism in a different, truer sense. It's not about love or loyalty for a government or military, it's about your neighbors and protecting and treasuring our freedom and values as a culture.
    Dragging patriotism through the mud is just another Orwellian construct implemented by the powers-that-be to destroy our humanity and the connection we have with one another. Devalue the idea of community, culture, and society, and what fight will anybody put up against those trying to tear them down?

    • @morganbean7068
      @morganbean7068 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I know they are patriotic. They blast their music and wave their flags in the back of their trucks all the time in my town which is in the US 🙄

    • @danimasterson9461
      @danimasterson9461 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I love how Americans call themselves expats when moving to Mexico but when Mexican come here they just immigrants 😝

    • @ratastink1852
      @ratastink1852 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      As a Mexican/American who has lived in both countries I 100% agree. Being proud of your country, the culture, the food, the people, the music, the landscapes etc. is not about being proud of the government. I think the issue is in America we see ourselves as [race/ethnicity] first, and Americans second. And in Mexico people see themselves as Mexicans first. But at least every American will unite when Europeans start talking smack about our country 😂 which I love to see

    • @aurora6920
      @aurora6920 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      America is very patriotic though! You even have 4th July, a day dedicated to celebrating your country! The UK are probably the least patriotic (unless there's a football match on) I kind of wish we were more like America in that way not a self hating country.

    • @ScarletsDawn
      @ScarletsDawn ปีที่แล้ว +13

      All my Puerto Rican friends/family all have their flag in their car.
      They always have at least one flag in their house or car.

  • @andowe1
    @andowe1 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I am immuno compromised, I am overweight (down almost 50 lbs tho 😉🎉) And I COMPLETELY support this message Blaire 😘😘😘😘

    • @Richiko06
      @Richiko06 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too! Are we twins 👯‍♂️ lol

  • @cjcjcjdidoxo
    @cjcjcjdidoxo ปีที่แล้ว +130

    also, when i was around 15/16 and started going through puberty, i started gaining weight and my breasts started developing i confused the weight gain with gender dysphoria like “am i actually a boy” was things that went through my head because like any developing girl it’s uncomfortable to grow breasts and become a woman, and these body dysmorphia issues start coming out and it gets tied together so i’m extremely thankful that people in my life told me i was normal and that what i was feeling about my developing body was normal and it was normal to feel uncomfortable about my weight gain, curves, breasts, butt and that it wasn’t some gender confusion. now that i’m 17, i’m extremely grateful that when i dressed masculine and cut my hair that no one pushed this idea on me that i was maybe a guy because now i accept my body as a girl and have grown my hair out…

    • @morgantaylor517
      @morgantaylor517 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm pretty old now but when I was a teen I always thought I didn't feel "womanly" enough or think of myself as girly enough but I just put it out of my my mind. Now I'd probably get told I'm agender or non binary or something but I'm just a regular woman. I think all people worry they are different from everyone else. I'm glad you didn't make any crazy changes.

    • @daashazireael6613
      @daashazireael6613 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@morgantaylor517 I'm 32 now and I was the same way so rejected all girly things.
      It didn't last but maybe a half year. I even would steal my boy cousins clothes to wear.
      We all go through it I think.
      Even to this day I still don't feel like I'm "womanly" enough. My early mid 20s I literally felt liek I still looked like a kid and when I hit 30 I finally started to get that womanly figure but I still struggle with it because people always treat me like I'm a kid still

    • @bluesakura2092
      @bluesakura2092 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It’s probably all because you started going through puberty late. Most women go through puberty from 9-12, so they quickly accept their body, but since it didn’t happen for you for so long, you especially weren’t used to it and you were more aware as a 15/16 year old. It’s definitely more awkward to go through puberty late because you are more aware and might get freaked out and not be used to it but it is normal. I used to be freaked out by becoming a woman too. I already felt like a woman and growing new body parts was very alien to me and didn’t feel right. But that’s the creature we are and always were programmed from the beginning to change when puberty hits us. It definitely is an uncomfortable process though. It’s similar to a catarpillar becoming a butterfly. It’s strange and alien but it’s beautiful and natural evolution process in the bigger picture. Being a Human is very strange but we’re all in this together and experiencing the strangeness of Human life for years to come.

    • @Nickie-os7od
      @Nickie-os7od 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There's two sides people develop eatinf disorders to stop growing into a woman or they become trans it's a sad reality for so many teenage girls.

  • @AFringedGentian
    @AFringedGentian ปีที่แล้ว +359

    I’m glad you’re here, Blaire. Things are so crazy and a new podcast from you feels like a conversation with a great friend.

  • @PanicResale
    @PanicResale 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I am immunocompromised. Guess what! That is MY problem. I wouldn't expect the rest of the population to adjust their lives for me. I am SO tired of entitled people.

  • @muchadoaboutkovu
    @muchadoaboutkovu ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I’m sorry for your family loss. No matter where you are at with the relationship of who died, it hurts. ❤

  • @ididntaskyouanyway
    @ididntaskyouanyway ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Real question: Does it feel invalidating seeing gender dysphoria being misdiagnosed or over diagnosed when cases are clearly body dismorphia or autogynephilia in a lot of public cases.

    • @Eragarev
      @Eragarev ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Not that I mean to speak for her, but Blaire is complete enough not to hide from her biological reality. She's comfortable enough talking about it when it's apt, yet she remains trans. I've seen many trans people express this and are clearly healthier people for it. Other issues being the cause of other people choosing to transition could probably never really make her question herself.

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg the TRAs always complain about autogynephilia being "fake" and "transphobic"...I put the idea on a back burner for a few years. Now after peaking from ideology and deep diving into it, I'd say the majority, not the minority, of MtFs are AGPs (autogynephilia). Insanity. They're so delusional.

    • @wendystroh7099
      @wendystroh7099 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would imagine it would 😞

    • @ididntaskyouanyway
      @ididntaskyouanyway ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wendystroh7099 same. :/

  • @zoeykralovetz1744
    @zoeykralovetz1744 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Every time I hear about men taking meds to lactate I always think "I don't think babies want chunky lemon milk"

  • @alohafromthe3033
    @alohafromthe3033 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    I ABSOLUTELY REFUSE to sacrifice my own mental & physical well-being EVER AGAIN. If that makes me a selfish POS, so be it.

    • @C.L.190
      @C.L.190 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah no one with half a brain will fall for that again.I don't see them doing that this fall cuz it would ruin their chances at the election

  • @raindancemaggie1290
    @raindancemaggie1290 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    as someone whos been severely immuno compromised since i was 12 and im now 32, i dont agree with a mandate and i certainly dont agree with being used as a reason for it to come back and "save" me when i never even asked to be saved or even said i needed to be saved 🙃

  • @edachenbach-bf5ev
    @edachenbach-bf5ev ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You had me rolling with the "clap if you care". I think that speaks for all of us.

  • @kkat7494
    @kkat7494 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    The only person who can make a podcast alone and still hold my attention

    • @2000Doriyas
      @2000Doriyas 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Right and they all should be even LONGER like each segment usually feels so short.

  • @Frankie45917
    @Frankie45917 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I love how ruthless blaire is while reacting to woke tik toks. Please keep that segment forever

  • @alexspies-pronouncedspeez
    @alexspies-pronouncedspeez ปีที่แล้ว +25

    youre so right about the body issues. i have body dismorphia and i went thru a time that i thought i was trans. to the point i was binding everyday. had short hair, used he/him, wanted top surgery, considered T. im so glad i didnt. cuz now i have a beautiful daughter and im learning to love myself.

    • @StallionStudios1234
      @StallionStudios1234 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is awesome. Glad you were able to figure that out for yourself. Sorry what do you mean by binding? Do you mean binding your breasts to make them flatter? Hope you have a great day.

  • @Puppyizzy
    @Puppyizzy ปีที่แล้ว +72

    as a regular woman i also dont like being addressed as m'am. makes me feel old. but i can live with it. wont start telling every stranger it offends me or make them drop it from their vocabulary or anything

    • @kopykat6843
      @kopykat6843 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ditto. Most of my life has been in Texas but I heavily got a lot of my mom's Wyomingites tendencies.
      In Wyoming ma'am is strictly for matron's, older women who are heads of house or have done something to deserve the title.
      Texas, every female is a ma'am..... Even five year olds. Lol it still makes me do double takes and such but different areas some words mean different shit and I'm not gonna try to demand people around me to change.

    • @bluesakura2092
      @bluesakura2092 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don’t like being called ma’am either but it’s meant respectfully and that’s what I take from it.

    • @tesswhitney9444
      @tesswhitney9444 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel that! I hate being called ma’am but it’s just someone being polite. I called a customer ma’am one time and she was so mad and gave me stink eye the entire dinner

    • @SacrilegiousSaint
      @SacrilegiousSaint 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lol, relatable!
      I just spent 2 months in a military town (Marines) in NC & that was all I heard all day... G'day ma'am 😂.
      Made me feel old at first but they're just being polite.

    • @hypnoteapot
      @hypnoteapot 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@bluesakura2092this. I hate when I get yelled at for being polite 🙄. "Uhm, ma'am is for my mother" ok then, wtf am I supposed to call you? I don't know you....

  • @davemccage7918
    @davemccage7918 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    Her take on losers gaining power during the plandemic was DEAD ON. My perpetually unemployed, depressed, overweight brother who lives rent free off of his equally miserable girlfriend’s parents money, suddenly had the “authority” to tell everyone else in the family that we were “terrible people that are living the wrong way”.

    • @teamtundra2619
      @teamtundra2619 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      What

    • @aloowolf17
      @aloowolf17 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The audacity of some people fr 😂

    • @luciaknuchel8199
      @luciaknuchel8199 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Actually this goes both ways ... i know a lot of people who are like your brother, mostly dudes who do nothing all day except gaming and smoking w***... living off society while contributing nothing at all, then being like "ohh we're being opressed and forced to wear masks " when they wouldnt even leave the house anyway... the pandemic brought out the worst in all people...

    • @YAHsWay
      @YAHsWay ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your brother sounds like a maga person

    • @Richiko06
      @Richiko06 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So he thinks the right way is to be a leech mooching off mom and dad or gfs mom and dad his whole life? Good example not

  • @saramalcomson
    @saramalcomson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i’m almost 30 and i’m genuinely scared about my future not excited, what does that tell u? this world now is a scarier place than ever.

  • @chadschmaltz9790
    @chadschmaltz9790 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Doing laundry must be a nightmare in that house. You see a pair of painties or a blouse and ask "are these Cindy's- I mean Carl's? Or do they belong to Samuel- I mean Samantha now?"

    • @miguelcunanan9855
      @miguelcunanan9855 ปีที่แล้ว

      My sadistic side (.....I know this is not good..)
      Anyway my fun side really wants to be in that house.
      "STOP FU***** MISGENDERING ME!!!!!!" - male who thinks he's some "Josephine"
      Me: "oh ok. But honestly, Joseph, which of these is yours!!!
      *Joseph collapses*
      *Miguel rushes to vending machine to get some Funions. Comes back to Joseph (dead now). "Joseph, NO. You gonna spread your dandruff on the carpet. I'll be back."

    • @KaiLucasZachary
      @KaiLucasZachary ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@miguelcunanan9855 What the hell is this story even supposed to mean? I can get with "sadistic" humor, but I literally don't even understand what this story is supposed to be. You didn't write it in a way that makes it comprehensible to any other person.

  • @stephanieleigh8981
    @stephanieleigh8981 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I bursted out laughing when you ever said "James Charles would like to be un-cancelled please...... no, no no request denied!" You are awesome. Also, why are you so stunning?

  • @jewisley
    @jewisley ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m one of “those people” you’re supposed to be “saving.” I worked for years, building up my immune system by walking among you, and in one fell swoop, the government wiped it out. I am angry.

  • @sarahqb1168
    @sarahqb1168 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Every time blaire posts I just know that at least one hour of my day is going to be spent happily

    • @davemccage7918
      @davemccage7918 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She’s seriously one of the few sources of news I trust.

    • @TheReluctantVlogger
      @TheReluctantVlogger ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And hearing something true and real in the midst of nothing but stupidity and lies

    • @InYourYawn
      @InYourYawn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙂

  • @natemarx4999
    @natemarx4999 ปีที่แล้ว +593

    If James was a heterosexual man, he would deservingly be in jail. He is desperately trying to use his pride card.

    • @sashabenoit1518
      @sashabenoit1518 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      💯

    • @lisakarson3279
      @lisakarson3279 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Literally!

    • @ritz6982
      @ritz6982 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Literally who is protecting young boys?

    • @skeelatheskink8724
      @skeelatheskink8724 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      All this gender confusion is taking away the severity of these stories. The predatory type behavior and grooming going on these days is insane.

    • @megauser8512
      @megauser8512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sad but true!

  • @donnamyers2025
    @donnamyers2025 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I have never had plastic surgey, but I had a mesh surgey ,and the hospital wheeled me out( gut surgery). They left me there until my children came to take me home . We rarely find actual physicians anymore.

  • @angelcitygirl
    @angelcitygirl ปีที่แล้ว +464

    Blair. We need to have one video every 5 days. Seriously. And please do a collab with Marcus. You and he are the only logical voices in this absolutely kookoo bird world.

    • @sassylady6717
      @sassylady6717 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Plus Buck Angel! There are others but I can’t think of names right now.

    • @dariusbrock2351
      @dariusbrock2351 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Arielle Scarcella too.

    • @iamloveiamyou
      @iamloveiamyou ปีที่แล้ว +45

      imagine demanding a schedule from a stranger as if you’re entitled to their time and content lmao. she’s not your lap dog

    • @angelcitygirl
      @angelcitygirl ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@iamloveiamyou Calm down sweet pea. The fact that she is liked and content wanted, is no bad thing. DUH.

    • @Fairlyfairy333
      @Fairlyfairy333 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its literally wacko world smh

  • @madisonrose1576
    @madisonrose1576 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I have an extremely immunocompromised child, and yet I agree with you 100%. He missed out on tons of development last time because he was already on oxygen and couldn’t be around anyone. He’s 4 now and ready to be free.

    • @ihintrr
      @ihintrr ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sorry to hear that, I'm curious: can he not leave whats so ever? And what is life like for the average immunocomprimised person?

    • @madisonrose1576
      @madisonrose1576 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      ⁠@@ihintrrNo, he goes to school like normal with accommodations. Every fall he’s hospitalized at least twice for respiratory issues, last year RSV got him bad. I still want him to be a normal kid. I didn’t let him leave at all when covid was at its peak because I was truly terrified. I developed medical OCD and I’m still working through it

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@madisonrose1576sending you and your son all my love! 💛🫂

    • @xxaavviieerrrrr
      @xxaavviieerrrrr ปีที่แล้ว +14

      yes unfortunately people like you have to find that balance... your child is vulnerable to sickness, precisely why those around him must be vaccinated or protected against diseases, yet at the same same the formative years being messed up by the pandemic really sucks. I hope he can grow up happy and healthy

    • @danasaywhat_43
      @danasaywhat_43 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm so sorry to hear that and from one mother to another, I know how hard it is to know that your child is suffering and to not be able to make it all better. I'm sending you all of my love and prayers ❤️ Your child is lucky to have you. We all want our babies to have a happy life above all else 🙏

  • @Jtheroux223
    @Jtheroux223 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just found your channel recently. I love how you present information and viewpoints. Thank you for helping to educate me through a lens I could never have.

  • @vivianphillips768
    @vivianphillips768 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    yayyyy!!! It’s been forever, your fanbase missed you!! All the episodes on other platforms are great but there’s nothing like when miss Blaire White runs her mouth unfiltered and unchecked💥💥💥 it just hits different!

  • @truthbomb3378
    @truthbomb3378 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I am so glad I was not born in the last 5 years. I´ve always been a very energetic, wild and athletic girl, and am still this day as a grown woman. I always wanted to play more with the boys than with girls. In this days my teachers would want to transition me, but gladly back then my parents and teachers decided to just let me be and let me go after my interests. And thank god for this.
    Now I know that in those situations a lot of girls like me turn out to be lesbians. But I´m actually a straight woman, but a very energetic, wild and athletic one. JUST LEAVE THE KIDS ALONE FOR GOD SAKE

    • @bluesakura2092
      @bluesakura2092 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There’s a lot of women who are straight who naturally get along with guys better. I’m one for example. I think it’s because I was never close to my Mom but was to my Dad. So becoming friends with males has always been natural to me. You don’t have to be hyper feminine to be a woman. There’s many different types of women just like there’s many different types of races on Earth. Being hyper feminine never appealed to me because that isn’t what true femininity is to me. Real femininity is primal and isn’t nail polish and makeup. Real femininity is a being who protects everyone and nurtures everyone in their circle and creates pathways for younger people to have easier lives in the future. Women are extremely intelligent and aware beings that can benefit the world very deeply in a personal way. You are a real woman. Feminine stereotypes are just ideas, not reality.

    • @Ace-ud3qp
      @Ace-ud3qp ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bluesakura2092 I thought the whole thing was doing away with stereotypes, yet now we have trans-makers implementing them?

    • @bluesakura2092
      @bluesakura2092 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Ace-ud3qp Exactly. Women aren’t makeup and fancy clothes. Women are nurturers and creators for their community. Women aren’t their appearance. If you look like a Woman that doesn’t make you a Woman.

  • @Smashley18
    @Smashley18 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Blaire I really appreciate you continuing to speak out! I’m so terrified for how the next few months will progress as far as mandates go! I really hope there is enough push back this time to stop the mandates for prolonging.

    • @grlsneverdie
      @grlsneverdie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i was gonna say same because i heard this on her podcast on spotify and didnt realize this was posted august 2023.. at least we’ll be okay?

  • @graceskyephoto
    @graceskyephoto ปีที่แล้ว +44

    As a mother and a registered nurse, the ones talking about lactating and breastfeeding really pisses me off. Those Drs should lose their medical license. Yeah, let’s give them potent medications with severe side effects that will be passed through their nipple fluid (fluid because it’s NOT breast milk) into a baby that can have fatal adverse effects to that baby. Yeah, makes sense 🙄. F-ing idiots

  • @peachpitz7228
    @peachpitz7228 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    the thought of lockdowns happening again fills me with unimaginable dread. I am trying to go to university this year and succeed. I cannot have this ruin it for me.

    • @lucasessman1910
      @lucasessman1910 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @morganbean7068
      @morganbean7068 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Universities are woke campsites....you will learn the same stuff out of a public library...if you want security for a future job, go to a trade school. It's not posh but you will get a job out of it!

    • @lavag1rl646
      @lavag1rl646 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Literally I just started a new job in live entertainment that I actually really like and I would be so sad if I got it taken from me after I’ve practiced so hard :( I just had a baby but I practiced so hard and I made the team…so this would suck.

    • @TheMuseSway
      @TheMuseSway ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I was thinking about going back but if my UNI is putting masks mandates then they can politely *eff off.

    • @mamamichellegist
      @mamamichellegist ปีที่แล้ว +3

      dude same. except this time i’m pregnant with my third kid and my first two pregnancies were during covid round one and covid round two😢

  • @bettybennett1828
    @bettybennett1828 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you, Blaire for saying there is such a thing as social contagion. I've been called ignorant and stupid for saying it on multiple occasions. It's the only way to explain certain situations.

  • @melissajones8141
    @melissajones8141 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Thank you for bringing up the financial incentives for transitioning and detransitioning. Its an industry now and its super sad for the people that are really suffering that are dealing with people that are just looking to make a lot of money

  • @MetalWoodpecker
    @MetalWoodpecker ปีที่แล้ว +28

    My undergrad was theology, my masters psychology and I’ve searched so hard for why we suffer and how to help find meaning. You are so lovely kind strong authentic and badass Blaire!! From the outside and my perspective you are a rare example we can see ..of the beauty that came out of the difficulties you were given at birth. That gives me some faith!! sending you love. 💕💕

  • @julieyoungren6287
    @julieyoungren6287 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Blaire, I'm sorry for your family member's death. I've lost my dog and both parents, 1 aunt, 2 uncles, & 2 great-aunts in the last 5+ years. Keep on being strong with your blocking, too. Love your podcasts!

  • @FlaviøǐValiente
    @FlaviøǐValiente ปีที่แล้ว +97

    “ I can’t make the face, I have too much Botox.” - Blaire White 😂😂😂

  • @jaxattack6297
    @jaxattack6297 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Blaire: " was a death in the family".
    Me: oh no I'm sorry
    Blaire: But she has risen
    Me: *spit take* Wtf!
    Me: Oh Blaire has risen, she's back lol
    😂😂

  • @WincredibleHulk
    @WincredibleHulk ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Firstly love there is a covid context warning on this video. Glad others still talk about it and are angered by it. I've never stopped, and will never stop being angry about it. I've noticed a similar reaction from normals. Either eyes glaze over and they tune out or they roll there eyes and ignore me. It's crazy people just seem to be okay with everything that happened. See got me going on about it. 🤬🤬🤬

    • @woolendragons7056
      @woolendragons7056 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm still angry too..forcing those shots on my family and if they didn't,they'd be fired. That's evil.

  • @mikachu6954
    @mikachu6954 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Well, I'm Danish and we put our flag everywhere, even more than Americans actually 😂
    We literally cover our Christmas trees in them, scatter them all over the dinner table at birthdays, stick them in the ground in our driveways, paint our faces with it at any sort of international sports event, the list is endless
    Not so fun fun fact: Our soldiers a couple hundred years back were walking targets because of the uniform being all red with a big white cross on it
    Gud bevare Danmark 😂❤

    • @axelhens7831
      @axelhens7831 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You forgot about Engeland, the danish planted there flag al over the place there 😆😆😆

    • @cat4517
      @cat4517 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I was gonna say South Koreans love their flag too it’s everywhere

    • @mikachu6954
      @mikachu6954 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @cat4517 And I must say South Korea is a great country ❤️ BTW Izumi looking cute in your pfp 😉

    • @Kiki18918
      @Kiki18918 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Norway too 😂

    • @nogyo
      @nogyo ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mikachu6954 It is not. If I exclude culture (which every country's culture is beautiful), they have a far right president who blamed the low births on...... feminists. Is this the kind of future that we wanna sell to the newer generations? Misogynism and victim blaming? There are r word cases literally everywhere in the country...

  • @dicitalore605
    @dicitalore605 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I worked at a plastic surgery center and yes they wheel you out asap because they need the space for the next patient. You have to move down the assembly line quickly.

  • @amandamckay3770
    @amandamckay3770 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My oldest daughter has myotonic muscular dystrophy and she doesn't expect anyone else to have to quarantine themselves and stop their lives or miss out on work to keep her safe she takes precautions to keep herself safe because she recognizes that it's not anyone's fault that she's different she doesn't expect anyone other than herself to be responsible for her health and I'm very proud of her your absolutely right people's lives shouldn't have to stop for a small minority of others that should be able to be responsible for themselves this is common sense

    • @StallionStudios1234
      @StallionStudios1234 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree we are all responsible for ourselves and well being. Hope you have a good day.

  • @ClementineDaydream
    @ClementineDaydream ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I find myself relieved anytime I see you post a podcast.... like others here have said, a voice of reason. Also, very sorry to hear about your loss in the family

  • @piscesbby9464
    @piscesbby9464 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I honestly feel proud to say I was always able to see right through James. I always felt weird towards him. I knew something was wrong with him and I was right. This has happened to me with numerous people. I like to think I have a gift 😅

    • @morgantaylor517
      @morgantaylor517 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You probably do, trust yourself and your instincts.

  • @MrMadster301
    @MrMadster301 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'll say i only just started following your Channel and I want to say I appreciate you. I'm commenting on this video just to state that I'm so glad you are still talking about 2020 covid. I talk about it too, and still post memes about it. It truly is important to never forget. Thank you.

  • @ZacharySmithhh
    @ZacharySmithhh ปีที่แล้ว +175

    you look so good here! have missed you so much

  • @Erika-bb6ey
    @Erika-bb6ey ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The thing is teenagers are growing, their bodies are changing and they are in a hormonal stage of life. As a teen girl, I used to think I was fat, but I was actually a stick figure. I had major body dysmorphia, and I also thought I was bi (it would tick my parents off when I mentioned it). I got older, joined the real world and learned quickly that was far from the truth. I call it a teen rebel phase. This was not that long ago. Imagine if it had been 2023, I’d be a botched man!

    • @Jade-yl9ee
      @Jade-yl9ee ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Being teenager is such a crazy time. We have no idea who we are yet and we grasp onto almost anything. Nobody should be making huge, permanent, life altering decisions as a teenager

    • @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj
      @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me too. When I got my curves, a few jerks told me I needed to lose weight. I felt fat for many years. In my 30's, I weigh the same as I did back then and people call me skinny, tell me to eat a burger, try to feed me etc. And people wonder why teenage girls go through worse body issues than most boys...

  • @SydThesciencekid-bp5rd
    @SydThesciencekid-bp5rd ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I 'listened' to my internal cues and ive gained so much weight 😅 Blaire is absolutely right. Now im in the gym and trying to change my diet. Its a struggle but most good things require hard work

  • @MandalaBunnyhome
    @MandalaBunnyhome ปีที่แล้ว +154

    The people who supposedly speak up for the marginalized always forget about the neurodivergent people (especially kids) who can't wear masks because of sensory issues

    • @lagomorphia9
      @lagomorphia9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for stating this!!!!

    • @madic502
      @madic502 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes!! Mine would flip out!! I about died when I saw them strapping them to preschoolers!!

    • @doyouliketacosiliketacos5139
      @doyouliketacosiliketacos5139 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yep, I have panic attacks wearing them because it feels like I'm being suffocated by something on my face whether I can breathe or not.

    • @littlecatfeet9064
      @littlecatfeet9064 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@doyouliketacosiliketacos5139 same!

    • @AmazingRebel23
      @AmazingRebel23 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yep, or rape victims... some people have truly had their lives ruined for no reason and get the worst from the pandemic with nobody giving a damn.

  • @LauraBeckerReal
    @LauraBeckerReal ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Thank you for covering my friend Soren's story on your show. Her story is extremely similar to mine and all of our stories. There is a wave of lawsuits in progress and I do think that will be the thing to turn the tide.
    Edit: and Prisha!

    • @kopykat6843
      @kopykat6843 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good luck to you guys!!!!
      Seriously, there are many out here rooting for you to win your cases

  • @tara-arat
    @tara-arat ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I literally laugh out loud every time I watch you. With your dry sense of humor, or that is how I see it. The way you put the clips together too are puuurfectoo!!!
    Thank you for speaking truth and being a guiding light!!

  • @squeegee-c
    @squeegee-c ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Why the hell would a doctor allow that person to undertake serious risks to lactate for NO SEEMING REASON?!? Medical malpractice 😭

    • @starrlitmagic
      @starrlitmagic ปีที่แล้ว

      Because they’re idiots. Plain and simple.

    • @namename9998
      @namename9998 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its their body why does it matter. How is it medical malpractice? If the patient is informed of the risks then the doctor did their job. Prescribing any medication comes with risks. Most medications require 50+ people to take it in order to prevent 1 person from suffering from the condition. The problem is you cant prove that its going to be this person or that person so you need to give 50+ people with the condition the medication. Stop blaming doctors. Theyre not holding guns to peoples heads telling them they need to do these things. People will stop being doctors if they can be sued over everything.

  • @rriicckkyy07
    @rriicckkyy07 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of the points that you made about you growing up and learning that everyone is on drugs, really struck me. I have had my own experiences and would love to see your take on your experience with drugs, and with people on them and how your perception has changed over time, or the wisdom that you’ve attained. Love you.

    • @00loudog
      @00loudog 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As a drug user everyone is on drugs some are worse then others

  • @coffeeandtarotcardswithlis5864
    @coffeeandtarotcardswithlis5864 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love the way you take topics on, take them apart and make them make sense. ;)

  • @kaylanewman3097
    @kaylanewman3097 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I am a born and raised southern person, it is literally ingrained in us to say "yes ma'am" "no ma'am" "yes sir" "no sir". Maybe its me but that shit is insane

    • @ThinWhiteAxe
      @ThinWhiteAxe ปีที่แล้ว

      yup

    • @FakeVenatus
      @FakeVenatus ปีที่แล้ว

      Southern where?

    • @OneMoreDayNParadise
      @OneMoreDayNParadise ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed. Our culture is that way. Like most parents and teachers will get onto you for not saying it growing up. So, as adults, we are already accustomed to it. We say it without thinking and only mean it in a way of respect.

    • @kaylanewman3097
      @kaylanewman3097 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FakeVenatus South Carolina

    • @anonymoushumanhi
      @anonymoushumanhi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Midwesterner here. I was also raised that way. I try to be more “careful” now, but mostly because I’m a musician and don’t wanna ruin my reputation if I start getting too comfortable. Which is fucked up. I could never be a proud conservative in the industry. People are gonna assume that because I write love songs about women and men that I’m a liberal and that’s simply not true.

  • @faffinoodle
    @faffinoodle ปีที่แล้ว +14

    As an Aussie, whenever you mention my home country I cringe. I managed to escape by taking a job overseas during lock down but was interrogated for almost an hour at the airport, asking WHY am I leaving? They had me in tears, yelling that I will not be leaving and my visa is not valid etc. I stood up to them because I don't take shit, but it was brutal. When they called immigration and realised I had a 'permit' to leave, they didn't even apologise. It was a fking nightmare.
    I don't even want to return there because of it.

    • @UnkillableTrump
      @UnkillableTrump 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's scary af I'm sorry you had to go through that

    • @faffinoodle
      @faffinoodle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@UnkillableTrump Thank you 🙏 It's been three years since and I'm returning in September. I have heard it's changed now and not as woke... Let's see 🤔

    • @pheonixjayy70
      @pheonixjayy70 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@faffinoodle its more woke. Publicly the narrative is worse. Privately were pissed.

  • @vanessakay6039
    @vanessakay6039 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Your pain is important. And it matters to give yourself morning. ❤️ be ok, be you. Thank you for continuing this despite a loss.

  • @amandahorne8369
    @amandahorne8369 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Listening to blaire is such a release, bc she literally says what we're all thinking

    • @acomicallylargehorse1752
      @acomicallylargehorse1752 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She says it with such power and stands her ground too, I love her. Im so timid and literally aspire to be as strong spoken as her

    • @skeelatheskink8724
      @skeelatheskink8724 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeeees.

  • @rastanniva
    @rastanniva ปีที่แล้ว +40

    One of the few sensible TH-camrs left out there. Nobody can argue with LOGIC. Thank you Blaire.

    • @starrlitmagic
      @starrlitmagic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Except they can and they will. None of them will actually win that argument though. 💀

  • @Jdjustsaying
    @Jdjustsaying ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The dr giving medication for a man to lactat needs to be removed from the medical system.

  • @testdep
    @testdep ปีที่แล้ว +253

    maybe it's just me, but I really like when Blaire talks about demons in people..👿 these days no one can deny it.. and I mean no one..

    • @nataliek5134
      @nataliek5134 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The trogolodyte spirit DID jump right out of that one girl tho 😭💀

    • @So_lo_
      @So_lo_ ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I just wish Jesus would encounter her and dassit. She like I’m not sure if I really believe… babes we know ya do. At least with the talk of heaven and hell and the end of times. She’s so close lol

    • @Wallflowerzizme
      @Wallflowerzizme ปีที่แล้ว

      @@So_lo_She’s said before she wishes she did. Just because she talks about heaven and hell… it doesn’t mean she secretly believes. Also, atheists believe in evil. I think that’s the crux of what she’s saying. There’s clearly evil in the world, you don’t need to believe in the supernatural for that. People can talk about Harry Potter and not secretly believe in it, lol. Sometimes you believers are really annoying. It’s not so easy to believe as you would make it out to be. A lot of us feel abandoned. A lot of us would feel foolish for engaging with the unbelievable level of narcissism and optimism that is Christianity. I don’t think there’s any divine force of good on our side… have you seen this shithole planet? God clocked out centuries ago. Reality doesn’t become warm and fuzzy because it would sound nicer. Sometimes, there’s just nothing. And a whole lot of it.

    • @testdep
      @testdep ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@So_lo_ anyone can find and contact Jesus these days, I mean for real.. we are living in the Endtimes. If I can do it, anyone can, even Blaire and whoever else. I'm full-blown New Age fanatic and even I can't deny the obvious. There's no such thing as 'too lost' or 'not worthy', Jesus is right there for anyone to find.

    • @MarlopolyGaming
      @MarlopolyGaming ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@So_lo_ Not everything spiritual is christian lol. Demons and afterlife and endtimes are all concepts that exist in so many other religions, and also you can believe in "demons" but not in a christian way.
      Mind you, I believe that all religions are just on about the same entities just under different names with different interpretations of what the fuck is going on with this world. Even people that believe "in a higher power" etc etc. All the same. People often use religious language to describe things without believing in christianity.

  • @turtlesister1280
    @turtlesister1280 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Loved "you're going to hell just for those glasses!" You crack me up, Blair. 🤣

  • @rileyxriles
    @rileyxriles 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the lactation video pissed me off so much, i’m a single mom and had a hard time producing milk. i had to stop pumping at 4 months pp because of the toll it took on me mentally and the time it took away from my son. i hate hearing people talk about lactating as if it’s super easy.

  • @jenniferterry6775
    @jenniferterry6775 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    So very sorry for your loss, Blaire. Happy to see you back.❤

  • @babygoose8716
    @babygoose8716 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I had my breasts lifted a year ago by one of the top surgeons in my area and they sent my ass home the same way your surgeons sent you home. I was borderline screaming for my Mom because I was in so much pain when I woke up. My surgeon was wonderful and did great work but they are absolutely done with you after the procedure ends haha. 33:49

    • @Rad_Akali
      @Rad_Akali 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's absolutely criminal the way many doctors have begun to behave concerning pain medication. They've developed some hyper paranoia about addiction that has gone to the point of delusion and genuine sadism. I've heard of cases where it's straight up medical malpractice and has caused people to develop PTSD from the pain and the helplessness of experiencing the doctor's sadism in denying them adequate medication that will help.
      The tiny fraction of people who do develop opiate addictions will develop them one way or another, and addiction is a treatable thing. Meanwhile doctors are causing countless medical patients to suffer needlessly out of the paranoia of one or two people taking too much of a liking to the medication. It's an issue that really makes me see red! I am so sorry you woke up in so much pain and were sent right home. You shouldn't have woken up hurting that badly and they should have given you an appropriate supply of medication to alleviate it while you recovered. I hope you are doing well now!

    • @babygoose8716
      @babygoose8716 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Rad_Akali You are so right!! I wish there was more awareness when it comes to that. They are terrified with extreme paranoia just like you said. It’s nuts! Thank you so much! I’m doing much better. It’s definitely something I will never forget.

    • @victoriadiesattheend.8478
      @victoriadiesattheend.8478 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can blame the DEA and the federal government for that. This is why if I need to have surgery I will get my pain relief from the street. I have the ability and equipment to test what I purchase. I am not ashamed. I will use illegal substances for my pain if necessary, or use legal ones illegally. And I'm not talking about marijuana either. If a doctor or surgeon thinks I am going to scream from pain for a flat week, well, let them keep thinking that. I won't and I don't GAF what anyone thinks about it.

  • @jessicapineda4869
    @jessicapineda4869 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She really popped off on this episode and I love it!

  • @joedougan8266
    @joedougan8266 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Blair’s so down to earth , so grounded and only speaks the truth , she is so authentic and seems like a really good person.

  • @shadowpoet4398
    @shadowpoet4398 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    13:53
    Me neither, hun. I'm f*ckin DONE!

  • @Tarrynn
    @Tarrynn ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m so glad you’re talking about the important things. Covid and the stupid ass mandates wrecked me in ways that so many people act like they don’t understand, but I think they’re just not in touch with themselves

  • @justylex
    @justylex ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Omg Blaire! I was hoping that you would talk about the Knox family here! They are from my Ottawa (Canada) suburb and we have some mutual aquintances. Can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this one. It just gets crazier and crazier…..but it sells books🤷‍♀️

    • @Lola_Nico
      @Lola_Nico ปีที่แล้ว +9

      And now Amanda and her husband live in my city of Toronto. I walked past her and one of her male partners at pride. But I didn’t say anything because she THRIVES off of negative attention. She’s very mentally ill and suffers from childhood trauma. Social contagion is very real. She’s a victim who has become a villain peddling for child medical transition and males in female sports and prisons.

    • @justylex
      @justylex ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Lola_Nico she absolutely loves the attention, good or bad. I feel badly for the Knox kids. From what I know, they are good kids. I cannot imagine how all of this constant focus on the ideology and constant changes within the family has affected them.

    • @Lola_Nico
      @Lola_Nico ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justylex I don’t feel that bad for the kids. They are probably just as horrible as she is. If they weren’t, I’d expect them to speak out against their parents, at least her adult children anyways.

    • @justylex
      @justylex ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Lola_Nico only one of them is an adult I believe. I think the youngest is 15. And the middle child is the one who transitioned from boy to girl at 11 (but now says they are non-binary🤦‍♀️).

    • @Lola_Nico
      @Lola_Nico ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justylex haha that kid for sure regrets his transition

  • @melissaradvansky7027
    @melissaradvansky7027 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omgoodness, I ❤ you Blair! Thank you for delivering information in a way I can pay attention to for more than 2 minutes. You are knowledgeable and entertaining :-) so sorry for your loss, I hope you are well.

  • @rmbrazz
    @rmbrazz ปีที่แล้ว +9

    BLAIR, I am not a Cis woman. I don't identify as that. I am a FAB woman. FEMALE AT BIRTH. I have been following you for a LONG time. It's none of my business if a person chooses a different gender than they were born with. I only have a problem with making permanent bodily changes to children. Most children go through terrible insecurities as teenagers. Most of them will figure it out by the end of high school. My daughter was very confused about her gender. It started when she started high school. I supported her in the way she wanted to dress, cut her hair etc. When she asked me if she could start hormones, I kindly said that we should wait until she was 18. She didn't push, and by 11th grade, she felt more secure with her feminine side. If she still wanted to change physically, I would have supported her.

  • @emiliakristina
    @emiliakristina ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sweden puts swedish flags everywhere too - even on our Christmas trees! Cause it looks good and we ain't ashamed 🇸🇪 🇺🇲

  • @Lovely_Linda_777
    @Lovely_Linda_777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Preach! I will not be complying either! We the people who have had enough of the insanity in this country need to say NO MORE! 🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
    Love your authentic ability to always say exactly how you feel & I am the same way…
    We need more of us! 😂

  • @JoeReaperX
    @JoeReaperX ปีที่แล้ว +75

    BLAIRE WHITE IS QUEEN

  • @rasmodeus1
    @rasmodeus1 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Hi Blaire I don't know if it's you or you have someone on your crew putting those comedic clips in, but you/they have awesome talent for clip selection and more importantly comedic timing. This really brightened up my day with laughter, thanks!

  • @shereeroth191
    @shereeroth191 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Deepest condolences! You are such an inspiration, your courage says it all!

  • @zombbae
    @zombbae ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I STILL have to wear masks at my dialysis center. If I dont I dont get my lifesaving treatment. Dont think it cant come back.

  • @bricklurker
    @bricklurker ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Hopefully us "essential" retail workers will get to sit on our asses and collect gov money while everyone else works.

    • @KaiLucasZachary
      @KaiLucasZachary ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh, but don't you remember: teachers are the real "heroes" nowadays for being willing to put up with all the germs (even though we never got called heroes when kids rubbed their snot on us before 2019)????

    • @chaneykane3828
      @chaneykane3828 ปีที่แล้ว

      amen.

  • @smiggles942
    @smiggles942 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    im so sorry about the death in your family blaire, stay strong we love u ❤️❤️❤️

  • @BubbleB0T
    @BubbleB0T ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m severely immunocompromised and I agree with Blaire!! It’s not her responsibility it’s never been her responsibility to keep me safe. That is MY responsibility. I’m on chemotherapy and biologic drugs which suppress my immune system. I have to have the covid vaccine to get my healthcare and surgeries which is awful but I have no choice and I hate it. However, Blaire is right, it’s not her responsibility or anyone else’s to look after disabled people like me. That’s OUR responsibility!!!

  • @medic37931
    @medic37931 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Sorry for your loss Blaire