how to stop dimming your own light & embrace your best self
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We’re good at recognizing other people’s light and dimming our own
THATS ME
So true
This is literally what I’m working on breaking out of😮💨 I miss myself
I’m 17. I have a hard time maintaining friendships, it’s like I’m scared of them really. I have this one friend who is always checking up on me and asking how I’m doing but it’s like I can’t get past the idea of her wanting something from me. What exactly? I don’t even have an answer for that. I’ve got this job. And I’m around these new people and it’s cool they’re all great but I can’t stop thinking about how calculating I seem to myself in my head when i interact with them. How disingenuous, it all feels. I ghost people a lot, some have voiced their dislikes for it and all I do is apologize. I can’t even count how many times I’ve done it. I’ve texted some people and they haven’t responded and I feel so anxious and sick. And I’m trying to relax and I found this video.
Where in your life did you place trust in someone and they failed u? Where did the abandonment happen? When did you shut down? Im proud that you see yourself at such a young age and that you are interested in healing! 🖤
I think this applies to our SO’s/close friends too! Sometimes we stop seeing our loved one’s light! and we have to step back, and appreciate them for who they are!
So excited to hear your wisdom today, HINDZ. We’re all making it together out here
Amazing message Hindz! Self doubt is a great marker that you need to face something that is holding you back. On the other side of that challenge lies growth and liberation.
A micro-step today, is the very step that can change the whole course and direction, and bring you in the position that you desire and deserve 💛🍀
I love how you mentioned that people will "Remind you of Your Light" - such a wonderful and uplifting reminder! Thank you, HINDZ! I also admired your courage in asking someone the question to remind you of your light. How did this experience feel to you, when asking the question? 🧡🌴
Lmao nah you had me cracking up at 0:55 🤣 and I’m glad you got out of there!! ❤
"In that moment I realized I rely on myself way too much to learn everything on my own" OMFGGGG you just dropped a BOMB with that one. Thank you so much for that Aha moment LOL
Feel quote : It is impossible to heal what you do not allow yourself to feel. For a long time I have been in a stupor and do not quite understand what to do. But these words were important to hear. Thank you Nindz.
currently camping right now….sitting at table watching this with boyfriend🥺🙏🏻❤️
YOU REMIND ME OF ME HAVING A SERIOUS DISCUSSION WITH MY DOCTOR. AS I LISTEN YOU GENERATE THE CORRECT MENTAL DIALOG. YOU CALM THE SPIRIT WITH A DEEP LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING
you always pop up in the perfect moments man. thank you for all you do for the people. blessings to you and yours
Bout to get me some hella fresh fr fr😂
Hindz, I’ve been listening to you for a few years now. I love to play these videos in the morning while I make my coffee and prepare for the day. It’s the positivity and energy I need and can’t quite seem to find within myself. This video particularly called me, and told me what I needed to hear. I genuinely smiled for the first time in a while. Thank you.
Your insights and tips for stopping self-sabotage and embracing our true potential are invaluable. Thank you for sharing this uplifting message, inspiring us all to shine brightly and believe in ourselves.
hindz, you’re absolutely beautiful and have helped me so much already. im at my lowest right now and the more i think how i feel or whats wrong i start realizing more things abt myself, i been feeling like im showing signs of bipolar disorder, i want to be wrong. i had a breakdown earlier and i was talking to myself abt relapsing, i told myself “hey thats not you, thats someone else” and i had second thoughts but i didnt relapse. im very close though i will admit that. i dont know who i am or what to do. i feel like i need a change in my life, but i dont need to change myself. if you read all of this i love you so much thank you
i’m proud of you for pushing through and hope you’re doing better 6 months later. sending you so much love💌
Your words feel like the first rays of sunshine after a long winter.
This winter has been long, very long. Thank you for providing me with your light, it's helping me find my own 🌞
When your light is so strong it radiates to the external -- it’s all making Sense - I studied the unknown my whole life and just so blissed to gravitate to Angelic Warriors like You brother we all need leaders and Mentors to take us back Home Within
thank you, my girlfriend, and I just broke up. a mutual decision but honestly it was her bringing up the fact we both needed to change for the better. I have been going to therapy for a few months now and have learned some of the ways to help me through my traumas and it's been easier for me to see these things I've been doing to dim out my own light. She on the other hand I think has just become too guilty of seeing me try and be a better person and not knowing where to start. I have tried and tried to convince her to do things with me or even while I'm doing them do them on her own, but it hasn't worked. deep down we both know we are become too codependent of one another and there is no space for us to just BE US. it sucks, it really sucks. I am so anxiously attached to her and she's an avoidant we clash in ways that both just trigger us to our core. we wanted this mutual break up so we don't end up resenting each other so much that we have to hate each other. like we both have done with so many previous relationships either love or friendships. I just need to learn how to love myself again, do things for ME again, things that bring me joy, and realize how much worth I have in this world. I was always constantly asking and or hoping to get it from her. but it never came, and if that's whoever's fault, or whoever's thought process is wrong, I know what I need to do. Even though it will be going against the grain of what I have been doing for a while now. It's what must be done. I genuinely believe she was either a lesson in disguise or a right person wrong time experience. I want to be in her life forever, and if that has to be just as friends.. well. I will be the best friend I can ever be. :(
Let fully go and if your connection shall be it'll be, but to truly change you have to walk alone from time to time
I think we uplift others and dim our own because we know what it feels like to dim and we don’t want others to feel that. We want them to feel good. We want to feel good.
Starting my Sunday off with the gospel of Hindz. 🙌🏻 Love it! Thank you for your light this morning ✨💖
Without writing an entire novel. I just want you to know that you have completely changed my view on daily life, as well as life in general. I am a full time student and single mom so for a long time I was living in survival mode, with my days blending all together. Thank you for all you do Hindz. I could write so much more but I’ll keep it simple for now. 🥺🩷
ah wow im so humbled and glad to hear
As an artist living in LA, this was important for me to hear today. Thanks!
Get out of my head Hindz!!! 😂 😂
But in all honesty you hit the nail on the head for me. I’ve been masking self-doubt as humility. I appreciate the tips you shared and insight into my own personal struggles. I know I can overcome it! 🙏🏾🤟🏾
I had (have) problems with self doubt, but like he said celebrating the small Accomplishments is a great thing, cuz last year i WASNT even where i am now. Im a theatre major and it took me 5 plus years to go towards my dream...in the last year i lost my job but i got back in school and was n my first Musical, taking acting classes and started vocal lessons. Last year i wasnt doing anything to move forward with my dreams...i was also in a relationship and it didnt work out and it broke ...me and i realized i put her above my own self ....and Continuously gave her all the grace, but didnt leave any for myself....im still healing from that break up but it pushed the gas even harder for myself....i saw what i needed to work on ect. Im 27 years old and i Frequently have thoughts of "im running out of time" but in Reality im just where i need to be.😊
sometimees i dont want to watch your videos be cause of all of the attetntion it requires but whenever i finish one i love the feeling and i watch another one. You have such an unique way of putting words to all my mental journey which feels more pleasent with your videos. Thank you a lot
I saw 355 likes 😌 and the alignment is beautiful, Im genuinely so happy that I’ve found your channel
Angel number 355 is a powerful symbol of creativity, inspiration, and self-expression, urging you to embrace your unique talents and use them to create a life that reflects your true essence.
Bro just pulled me out of my burnout depression … thank you so much
I needed this. I’m overly aware of my impact which breeds the same doubt and makes me hesitant to act. However, I appreciate how you mentioned how you too have struggled - “moving forward despite it” is a worthy challenge / reminder. *Acknowledge, Understand, Accept, Harmonize; Áse*✨
I find during meditation, when negative thoughts or doubts come in i try to label them. To try and break down where these thoughts to find out what they mean and just let them go and return to the breath. This has been helping me and it’s started to seep through into my unconscious mind.
Boy, did I need this today. Took a nap to reset. Then watch your video. I can and will turn this day around, thanks to you!!
Thank you Hindz for this video 🤍 Our outside world is a reflection of what we feel within, taking those steps toward cultivating compassion and patience for ourselves really changes everything, inside and out 🙏🏻🤍
Trying to do everything by myself and then realizing I don’t want to keep being this way is so true for me
needed this man... love you
Blessings 🙏🏽
You don’t know how much I need this video. I haven’t even watched it yet and I know it was shown to me for a reason. So much love for you.
I am a student athlete that listens to you’re podcast when I need a positive reminder, I appreciate you intergrading sports in this podcast ❤
Thank you so much for this one man. 100% needed.
Thank You for sharing my music fam! 💜
omg !! I'm buzzing!! so many new videos!!! Excited !
thank you hindz for all that you do. stay blessed.
Perfect video. I am currently in a situation where I am chronically procrastinating. This procrastination has been going on for 3 years. I have tried changing myself but I fall back into procrastination. And this video sums up the perfect answer of what I needed to hear. Thank you boss. It is actually really insane how close this video is resonating with me.
i love how you say slippery slope
Love this, needed this ♡
Sending great energy thank you for the last 3 uploads amazing content
I definitely needed this💯
Every video you post aligns perfectly with where I’m at and what I need to hear in that moment , thankyou
Really need this today at work thank you
beautiful message for the night💯
thank You Hindz.
I'm going through a difficult time now when it comes to embracing the call on my life and the purpose I am to fulfil. I know I have everything i need in me to accomplish my calling. But then I get excited, go to the door way, and can't move. You’ve remind me to take one small step at a time, get help when needed, and celebrate the small wins. Thanks Hindz. I can do this!❤✌🏾
this was so powerful, thank you for this ❤
I met your channel by meeting a wonderful person that was too hurt to get in a relationship with me, I hurt her and she hurt me but I know that without her I wouldn't witness this channel. Thank life for all of the good and the bad it brings me. I miss her and want her to feel good but I know it'll never be with me.
I’ve been thinking about you dropping a video like this and you did thank youu
One of your best videos. ❤ thank you!
Thank you hindz, you are exactly where you supposed to be!❤
I absolutely love this video
Such a beautiful message and such perfect timing
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Love from south africa ❤
I would for you to travel here!!
2:02 my heart 🥹, y’all make me smile ✨
Perfect timing my brother. BIG LOVE
Always great perspective and advice 🙏🏾🫶🏾
Thank you HINDZ. Thank you.
I needed this
thank you Hindz for simply being you. a beautiful message I needed to be hear and absorb today. thank you ⭐
Really did need to hear this today ❤I can’t even express how much. Thank you 🙏
Your videos have a way to find me when I need it most
You put this together so well, I needed this! Thank you angel 🤗
Thank you for this
You’ve helped me so much. Thank you ❤
Thank you for sharing your wisdom Hindz, you are more enlightening and encouraging than I feel you realise❤️
You’re so awesome Hindz! I’m glad someone you’ve helped could remind you of that! 💜
Thank You HINDZ, you are appreciated 🙏🏽
You're doing God's work on this channel. feel the divine presence in every video. Major dap for this one
Hi Hindz . Well this might come as a surprise but I am Kenyan living in Nairobi, well not exactly in the CBD but around Nairobi . So I am actually surprised you came here . Anyways I hope you enjoyed your stay here and I really like your content . It's always so inspiring , dope content as well . Keep at it .
You have no idea how badly I needed to hear this. ❤ thank you.
I needed this so deeply today, I'm in tears. Thank you for taking the time to highlight this -- so much of what you said was exactly what I needed to hear from an outside perspective. I appreciate you being mine, today.
Breaking down big goals into baby steps 👏🏾
Bless up! 🙏🏼✨
Thank you, HINDZ! Most excellent teaching! Much appreciated!
Loved it! You have such a beautiful way of delivering your message 🫶
Just found your Chanel. Thank you for your zen. It's truly amazing 👏.
I really enjoy listening to your videos and thinking about things you talk about. It is so fascinating how much i resonate with it. Im so thankful for you!
🇭🇷 greetings and best wishes from Croatia
This message resonates with me deeply.
So glad I found your channel my friend. Your voice is a blessing of calm wisdom. Thank you for sharing!
I have missed you! Thank you!
Thank you!
Thanks for sharing this video Hindz. It definitely inspires me to allow my light to shine brighter
Thank you so much Hindz! I forgot myself these last few months and this wisdom was everything I needed to feel grounded again :)
Thanks!
This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing this words. So much love from Kenya 🩷
You always give me the motivation to get up and do what I need to do. Ultimately you’re Just a great reminder to stay present And stay elevating Asè
Thank you so much.
I love how he speaks and this is exactly what I needed. I feel so much better :)
happy to be here
You pulled me out of a funk today! And I thank you ❤
ngl you might've save me with this video, I don't think i've ever felt this bad and I just wanna apoligies to my future self and my past self and i would never think like this again, and ty Hindz, it has been poor couple months but there's nothing to be this sad about i just gotta take actions
I love you so much Hindz. A true blessing to this earth.
Your videos inspire me to do my podcast every Saturday and speak what comes mind from self and spirit and being reflective and proactive to creating our dream lives for black women. Thank you for being a inspiration. ❤
I am so amazed. I just came across this page today and Ive watched at least 10 videos so far. I started to pause and reflect during each and making voice memos of how i resonate or relate certain experiences in my life. I appreciate you sm because you give guidance to my thoughts that were here but I looked past. Its crazy because at the beginning of this video I was thinking about how Im doubting myself and its preventing me from creating and I looked back on how I got to my current job and was scared and couldn’t think I could do it because it’s something ive never done or imagined I could do. I reached out to people who did know and to help me and give me that push to learn, study and master what was needed. As i resumed the video you started talking about how its ok to reach out to people and I just loved that.
That makes so much sense! Stop relying so much on trying to teach everything ourselves.