Why are you blaming your son-in-law? It's not all his fault... your daughter is to blame too, she could have fought for custody but she rather be happy with her new family too. Smh...
Kuv yeej pab tu siab heev rau tus tub xeeb ntxwv tabsis yus tus ntxhais yus yeej mob siab mas tabsis muab hais mas tus niam tais no kuj yog niam tais cov ntxhais thiab. Twb yog koj tus ntxhais txaus siab mus thiab os tus niam tais.
Fr, her daughter chose to marry that guy and stay until she had four kids. This niam tais is trying to make her daughter out to be a victim. The daughter and son-in-law are both to blame equally. They both were too focused on their new marriages and didn't give a crap about the kids.
The ones at fault are all the adults in this story who child traffic a 14 year old girl to a pedophelia, they all knew about did nothing, remember we don't like in laos anymore there's only one law and that's not the hmong laws
My first time travel to Thailand, I learned how rude all the foreigners (Asians, Indian, European, Russians etc). After two weeks, I stop being polite.
Sister Jenny, I agreed that most Asian abroad and even many here in the US don't have public etiquette/manner. That's one thing I dislike about traveling.
You should’ve called the police and press charges, especially because your daughter was 14 and this guy was over age. He can still go to jail. So sorry for the loss of your grand son. May he rest in peace. Koj tus kwv ntawd muaj lub siab phem yeej xav ua kom koj tus ntxhais lub neej tsis tsheej.
Yes, sister Jenny, a lot of Asians are rude. Even at the Asian markets here in America, there are many rude people. Rude drivers, rude pedestrians, rude shoppers, etc. My husband hate shopping at our Asian grocery stores because 8x out of 10, we always have a bad experience. One time, we were waiting in line at the cash register and a Vietnamese lady just cut us because she knew the lady infront of us. Long story short, when we got home, we got a random bag with some fruits and candies and I realized it was the ones that the Viet lady was holding in her hands. I believe that is her karma. 😂 I'm glad you were ok and made it back home safely. 🙏
Txhob tu siab niam tais aw, tim koj tus ntxhais thiab os. Nws yog ib leej niam lawm phem zoo yuav tsum tau check nws cov me nyuam tab sis zoo li nws twb tsis check thiab. Nrog khuv xim tus me tub kawg tab sis qhov no ua tsaug koj tham tuaj ua kev kawm rau tej niam tej txiv nim no thiab rau cov me nyuam ntsib lub neej xws li no.
Both parents failed tubmas. The mother should have gone to court to take full custody. Tubmas can make the decision which parents he wants to live with.
You are so right about some other countries and their mannerisms. A lot of those countries need to learn about courtesy and respect. In the end we are paying them to do their job to service and help us. Glad you overcame that flight.
Yeej muaj li koj hais, Cov neeg suav tsis paub kev cai. Txhob mus Chinese airline xwb. Qhov paub kev cai (courtesy) ces swb cov neeg Meskas. Thaum muaj turbulence hauv nyob hoom yuav tau remain calm tsis txhob qw quaj li cov vivncaus hmoob peb pom dhau los. Ua li lawv ua ntawd tseem ua rau cov neeg nyob ib ncig ntawd ceeb thiab ntshai. I know it’s scary but acting like that scares people even more. So annoying!
Hindsight is 20/20. Yes, that rotten ex-son-in-law should have spent time in jail instead of living free and ruining lives! Your daughter should have fought for full custody of her sons when she realized they were not loved or cared for properly by their father! She should have disregarded the Hmong tradition since her ex-husband is such an irresponsible loser! So sorry your late grandson lost his life due to negligence (both parents are at fault here---father for causing the depression and mother for not stepping in to help her son)!
Exactly! She would’ve won if she fought it bc her ex was a cheating loser. It’s your daughter’s fault for not fighting for custody while he dumped them while he fled to Laos.
I was your fault for not reporting the incident. It was your fault that you forced her to marry him. It’s your fault that she didn’t live a good life. You should have protected your daughter.
You could've stopped all this by calling the cops yourself. Ya'll were just preserving your face in the beginning. Your daughter was young and impressionable, so you should've fought harder.
Yog kawg cov neeg hu ua ceeb no yeej siab phem nawb. Kuv niag txiv hu ua ceeb no thiab mas siab phem tshaj plaws li nawb........ Hais rau suav daws txhob muab me ntuam hu ua ceeb no lawm nawb phem tiag tiag......li os lawv.
Cov niag neeg suav ces nyob lub teb chaws twg los yeej tsis paub kev cai li. Lawv xav tias lawv muaj hwj chim tshaj lwm haiv. Don’t let them treat you like that.
Koj tus ntxhais los zoo li koj tus ntxhais thiab mas es yog 1 tug txiv tsis tseem ceeb es twb ua tsis tsheej 1 txog hauj lwm es tsis mus hais court ces nws niag txiv dev ntawv twb tsis tau 2 tug tub mos es tseem muab tseg cia rau niag txiv dev ntawv dabtsi naw
Wow! Cas tsis ntsib koj na! Lub 3/18-4/12/2024 kuv mus thiab lol. It was so hot over there in Laos and it’s so stinky and I don’t like the toilets there at all. It’s my first time in 45 years and it’ll be my last time.
Thaum muaj 2 cua xob cua nag nyobhoom co 2 sawv daws yuav tsum zaum ntawm ntawm nyias lub rooj sia siv khov 2 txawm dim quav dim zis los tos kom cov cua no dhau tso thaum zoo li no lawv twb tshaj tawm kom sawv daws txhob mus ub mus no los sav ab !! Hos cov neeg uas tsis tau caij nyobhoom dua no yeeh yog khoom thamabdas tej thaum yeej muaj tej nthwv cua los tsoo nyobhoom es tsis txhob mus qu quaj cuag li ntawd, yuav tsum ntsia sawv daws ua li cas ces ua li ntawd xwb es tsis txhob mus hem tag nrho sawv daws li ntawd…
Be very careful of your surroundings! You don’t know who people is and how people are!! You don’t know whose trustworthy & who isn’t but the truth is anyone can hurt your daughter(s)! Very sad! I’ll be traumatized if I was her!! 😢❤😮 An answer for your questions bout airplane & airport; would be mad if the dad lets my kids do the work and treat them as a slave and love his new kids! Like, why you treating our son like a slave and treat your other kids like ROYAL Prince & Princess! That’s so cruel!! I’ll be on their butt like Meow! 😮❤😢
Txawm yog tshai tsam zoo li no es lwj siab npaum twg los tsuav cov me nyuam muaj txiv xwb no os es thiaj uv tag los uv dua xwb os cov me Viv ncaus aw!!
Yog ceeb yog neeg Loj leeb ua cas Leej niam tsis qhia qhov tseeb es txhob tso ob tug tub rau leej txiv ma poj niam yeej muaj cai txeeb tag nrho cov me nyuam los sav 94 twb muaj cov koos haum txhais Lus coob kawg Nev tej zaum Leej niam tsis tshua xav yuav xwb
Tus me niam tias aws....koj zaj no yeej chim siab kawg vim koj tus ntxhais mus yuav tus vauv thaum tseem yau2, tus ntxhais kawv ho sib nruaj thiab tus me tub xeeb ntxhwv los ho xeem lawm thiab. Tiamsis....qhov kuv tsis nkag siab cas koj tus me txhais ho yuav siab loj2 ua luaj cia tus vauv yuav 4 zaug niam yau daim ne? Kuv ntseeg tau lawm hais tias peb cov pojniam tsis muaj tus siab zoo npauv? Txawm li cas los yeej yog tim tus ntxhais thiab....yog tsis ti😂m ces yeej tsis nrauj. Nrog khuv xim tus me tub xeeb ntxhwv ua nws hla tsis dhau nws txoj kev nyuaj siab.
Sad to tells you only American and great British people can be polite I have not travelled the world yet but a few countries I visited is not the skin color they have if they polite you communicate with them they are mostly American or great British Just so you know what to expect when traveling
Yes, your Ex-Son-in-Law was a loser of a father/husband...But why didn't your daughter just take All her children or be more involved in her sons' life?!!! When one parent stinks at being a Parent, the better one should Always be there for their children! My condolences to the family.
Twb yog tim koj tus ntxhais tsis saib xyuas 2 tug me nyuam thiab ne niam tais aw. 2 tug me nyuam twb muaj kev nyuaj siab twb tuaj tham qhia leej niam los leej niam twb tsis pab es 2 tug me nyuam twb tag kev cia siab rau leej niam leej txiv lawm
Me Nkauj nyuam ntxhais 14 xyoo es niag hmoob dab hmoob tsis es ho nrog mus ua sis Tim koj tus ntxhais tsis xyuam xim tsis mloog lus es. Peb cov no 13,14 tus hluas nraug pom deev xwb mas tsis lam nrog lawv Caij tsheb mus li nawb.
Your daughter was only 14! She shouldn't have gone out with some random dude that she had just met. It's both parties' fault, not completely your ex SIL only.
Why agreeing for your daughter to divorce and come back home. She’s only 14year old at that time. You should’ve protect her and followed the law. You can’t say it’s her life since she doesn’t listen. She’s ONLY 14!!!!!!! It’s your job as a mother to step in cause at that age they can’t think straight. She already traumatized from the rape why would you even agree to let them married. About your grandson if your daughter really want him she could’ve take custody the min her ex husband went to Laos. She see how he treat her son but she makes no regard to protect just the same as you back then when you didn’t protect your daughter at 14!!!!!
Why are you blaming your son-in-law? It's not all his fault... your daughter is to blame too, she could have fought for custody but she rather be happy with her new family too. Smh...
Kuv yeej pab tu siab heev rau tus tub xeeb ntxwv tabsis yus tus ntxhais yus yeej mob siab mas tabsis muab hais mas tus niam tais no kuj yog niam tais cov ntxhais thiab. Twb yog koj tus ntxhais txaus siab mus thiab os tus niam tais.
Fr, her daughter chose to marry that guy and stay until she had four kids. This niam tais is trying to make her daughter out to be a victim. The daughter and son-in-law are both to blame equally. They both were too focused on their new marriages and didn't give a crap about the kids.
The ones at fault are all the adults in this story who child traffic a 14 year old girl to a pedophelia, they all knew about did nothing, remember we don't like in laos anymore there's only one law and that's not the hmong laws
My first time travel to Thailand, I learned how rude all the foreigners (Asians, Indian, European, Russians etc). After two weeks, I stop being polite.
Sister Jenny, I agreed that most Asian abroad and even many here in the US don't have public etiquette/manner. That's one thing I dislike about traveling.
You should’ve called the police and press charges, especially because your daughter was 14 and this guy was over age. He can still go to jail. So sorry for the loss of your grand son. May he rest in peace.
Koj tus kwv ntawd muaj lub siab phem yeej xav ua kom koj tus ntxhais lub neej tsis tsheej.
Yes, sister Jenny, a lot of Asians are rude. Even at the Asian markets here in America, there are many rude people. Rude drivers, rude pedestrians, rude shoppers, etc. My husband hate shopping at our Asian grocery stores because 8x out of 10, we always have a bad experience. One time, we were waiting in line at the cash register and a Vietnamese lady just cut us because she knew the lady infront of us. Long story short, when we got home, we got a random bag with some fruits and candies and I realized it was the ones that the Viet lady was holding in her hands. I believe that is her karma. 😂
I'm glad you were ok and made it back home safely. 🙏
Txhob tu siab niam tais aw, tim koj tus ntxhais thiab os. Nws yog ib leej niam lawm phem zoo yuav tsum tau check nws cov me nyuam tab sis zoo li nws twb tsis check thiab. Nrog khuv xim tus me tub kawg tab sis qhov no ua tsaug koj tham tuaj ua kev kawm rau tej niam tej txiv nim no thiab rau cov me nyuam ntsib lub neej xws li no.
Both parents failed tubmas. The mother should have gone to court to take full custody. Tubmas can make the decision which parents he wants to live with.
You are so right about some other countries and their mannerisms. A lot of those countries need to learn about courtesy and respect. In the end we are paying them to do their job to service and help us. Glad you overcame that flight.
Pab koj tub saib kawg li os me naimtais aw.
Yeej muaj li koj hais, Cov neeg suav tsis paub kev cai. Txhob mus Chinese airline xwb. Qhov paub kev cai (courtesy) ces swb cov neeg Meskas.
Thaum muaj turbulence hauv nyob hoom yuav tau remain calm tsis txhob qw quaj li cov vivncaus hmoob peb pom dhau los. Ua li lawv ua ntawd tseem ua rau cov neeg nyob ib ncig ntawd ceeb thiab ntshai. I know it’s scary but acting like that scares people even more. So annoying!
Hindsight is 20/20. Yes, that rotten ex-son-in-law should have spent time in jail instead of living free and ruining lives! Your daughter should have fought for full custody of her sons when she realized they were not loved or cared for properly by their father! She should have disregarded the Hmong tradition since her ex-husband is such an irresponsible loser! So sorry your late grandson lost his life due to negligence (both parents are at fault here---father for causing the depression and mother for not stepping in to help her son)!
Exactly! She would’ve won if she fought it bc her ex was a cheating loser. It’s your daughter’s fault for not fighting for custody while he dumped them while he fled to Laos.
I was your fault for not reporting the incident. It was your fault that you forced her to marry him. It’s your fault that she didn’t live a good life. You should have protected your daughter.
Tus Niam Tais es nrog koj tu siab thiab yog li koj hais, yog tua txiv dev twg txhom cov ntxhais ua phem muab nws foob kiag xwb!
Tim nkawv 2 leeg koj tus ntxhais twb paub tias txiv tsis hlub ua cas ho tsis txeeb los
kv twb txhawj 2 lawv kawg thiag tiag
Hehe! Koj hais yog kawg Asia people don’t have respect and no English lol.
You could've stopped all this by calling the cops yourself. Ya'll were just preserving your face in the beginning. Your daughter was young and impressionable, so you should've fought harder.
Hahaha, just found out Jenny was referring to May.
Yog kawg cov neeg hu ua ceeb no yeej siab phem nawb.
Kuv niag txiv hu ua ceeb no thiab mas siab phem tshaj plaws li nawb........
Hais rau suav daws txhob muab me ntuam hu ua ceeb no lawm nawb phem tiag tiag......li os lawv.
So sad for the children divorced parents!
Hniaj hnub niam no los yog xav foob tau kawg tsi hlis kiag li os.
Cov niag neeg suav ces nyob lub teb chaws twg los yeej tsis paub kev cai li. Lawv xav tias lawv muaj hwj chim tshaj lwm haiv. Don’t let them treat you like that.
Kpoomm koj hnawb❤❤❤❤❤❤
Koj tus ntxhais los zoo li koj tus ntxhais thiab mas es yog 1 tug txiv tsis tseem ceeb es twb ua tsis tsheej 1 txog hauj lwm es tsis mus hais court ces nws niag txiv dev ntawv twb tsis tau 2 tug tub mos es tseem muab tseg cia rau niag txiv dev ntawv dabtsi naw
Agree with you sister they're has respect at all.
Tiim neb ib niam txiv tsis txawj coj. Hu tub ceev xwm ces tsis muaj tej no. Koj twb pab tsis tau koj tus ntxhais es ces yuav pab tau tus xeeb ntxwv.
Wow! Cas tsis ntsib koj na! Lub 3/18-4/12/2024 kuv mus thiab lol. It was so hot over there in Laos and it’s so stinky and I don’t like the toilets there at all. It’s my first time in 45 years and it’ll be my last time.
puas yog!
I think May Vang was on that flight too. She said something today in her story that it happened about 15 min. Eeek scary...
Thaum muaj 2 cua xob cua nag nyobhoom co 2 sawv daws yuav tsum zaum ntawm ntawm nyias lub rooj sia siv khov 2 txawm dim quav dim zis los tos kom cov cua no dhau tso thaum zoo li no lawv twb tshaj tawm kom sawv daws txhob mus ub mus no los sav ab !! Hos cov neeg uas tsis tau caij nyobhoom dua no yeeh yog khoom thamabdas tej thaum yeej muaj tej nthwv cua los tsoo nyobhoom es tsis txhob mus qu quaj cuag li ntawd, yuav tsum ntsia sawv daws ua li cas ces ua li ntawd xwb es tsis txhob mus hem tag nrho sawv daws li ntawd…
Parents should know your right to protect your kid. Anything wrongful or abuse occurred to your kids you need to report to authorities.
Be very careful of your surroundings! You don’t know who people is and how people are!! You don’t know whose trustworthy & who isn’t but the truth is anyone can hurt your daughter(s)! Very sad! I’ll be traumatized if I was her!! 😢❤😮
An answer for your questions bout airplane & airport; would be mad if the dad lets my kids do the work and treat them as a slave and love his new kids! Like, why you treating our son like a slave and treat your other kids like ROYAL Prince & Princess! That’s so cruel!! I’ll be on their butt like Meow! 😮❤😢
Txawm yog tshai tsam zoo li no es lwj siab npaum twg los tsuav cov me nyuam muaj txiv xwb no os es thiaj uv tag los uv dua xwb os cov me Viv ncaus aw!!
Your daughter could’ve file for custody of all her children and still divorce him
Agreed 💯
Koj tus ntxhais yeej xuab thiab thiaj yuav tsi nrauj ho txhob cem Koj tus vauv nawb
Vauv thiab ntxhais phem ib yam li os
Yog ceeb yog neeg Loj leeb ua cas Leej niam tsis qhia qhov tseeb es txhob tso ob tug tub rau leej txiv ma poj niam yeej muaj cai txeeb tag nrho cov me nyuam los sav 94 twb muaj cov koos haum txhais Lus coob kawg Nev tej zaum Leej niam tsis tshua xav yuav xwb
Suav yeej coj li no os niam vaj choj
Sounds like a niam tais from hell too. Id like to hear the other peoples version. But i do agreee jail that guy from the start
Tus me niam tias aws....koj zaj no yeej chim siab kawg vim koj tus ntxhais mus yuav tus vauv thaum tseem yau2, tus ntxhais kawv ho sib nruaj thiab tus me tub xeeb ntxhwv los ho xeem lawm thiab. Tiamsis....qhov kuv tsis nkag siab cas koj tus me txhais ho yuav siab loj2 ua luaj cia tus vauv yuav 4 zaug niam yau daim ne? Kuv ntseeg tau lawm hais tias peb cov pojniam tsis muaj tus siab zoo npauv? Txawm li cas los yeej yog tim tus ntxhais thiab....yog tsis ti😂m ces yeej tsis nrauj. Nrog khuv xim tus me tub xeeb ntxhwv ua nws hla tsis dhau nws txoj kev nyuaj siab.
Yeej tim koj niag ntxhais uas tsis tsheej haj thiab os. Neej twb tsis zoo, niag txiv los txiv dev xwb los twb tsis muaj peev xwm khiav thiab nrauj tawm. Nws yeej ntshaw2 niag txiv laib thiab.
Koj tus vauv tsis txhaum ib leeg xwb os. Yog koj tus ntxhais zoo2 cas nws hos tsis coj los nrog nws nyob no. She should've fought for him for custody
This lady has no room to blame others. She failed her daughter so don’t lecture others about protecting their children.
Sad to tells you only American and great British people can be polite I have not travelled the world yet but a few countries I visited is not the skin color they have if they polite you communicate with them they are mostly American or great British
Just so you know what to expect when traveling
u can still report the rape. look up the law in your state.
Yes, your Ex-Son-in-Law was a loser of a father/husband...But why didn't your daughter just take All her children or be more involved in her sons' life?!!! When one parent stinks at being a Parent, the better one should Always be there for their children! My condolences to the family.
Twb yog tim koj tus ntxhais tsis saib xyuas 2 tug me nyuam thiab ne niam tais aw. 2 tug me nyuam twb muaj kev nyuaj siab twb tuaj tham qhia leej niam los leej niam twb tsis pab es 2 tug me nyuam twb tag kev cia siab rau leej niam leej txiv lawm
Cas thaum tseem nyob nej ho tsis cia nws nrog nej nyob es nej twb tsis k pab tu mi nyuam ne. Tsam no nws tuag lawm ces ho khuv xim
Me Nkauj nyuam ntxhais 14 xyoo es niag hmoob dab hmoob tsis es ho nrog mus ua sis Tim koj tus ntxhais tsis xyuam xim tsis mloog lus es. Peb cov no 13,14 tus hluas nraug pom deev xwb mas tsis lam nrog lawv Caij tsheb mus li nawb.
Your daughter was only 14! She shouldn't have gone out with some random dude that she had just met. It's both parties' fault, not completely your ex SIL only.
Why agreeing for your daughter to divorce and come back home. She’s only 14year old at that time. You should’ve protect her and followed the law. You can’t say it’s her life since she doesn’t listen. She’s ONLY 14!!!!!!! It’s your job as a mother to step in cause at that age they can’t think straight. She already traumatized from the rape why would you even agree to let them married. About your grandson if your daughter really want him she could’ve take custody the min her ex husband went to Laos. She see how he treat her son but she makes no regard to protect just the same as you back then when you didn’t protect your daughter at 14!!!!!
Cov ko ces yog neeg suav suav yeej tsis paub cais nyob teb chaws suav
Mas Haj yam phem tshaj thiab
Haub Yau...yog li ces tsis mus li os. Ua tsaug koj pab qhia nawb
I heard Taipei is so mean. That’s y I’m scared to go to their airport. Yeej hnov tias mus rau sab suav teb es neeg suav phem heev li
WTH is wrong with your daughter? Seems like its the life she choose for herself. Shame.
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