why i quit at 24, feeling behind in life & uncertain about the future | 100 days of summer

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  • @donyconjux1
    @donyconjux1 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I like this new format! The story telling flow of the video coupled with the things you've learned and hope to keep learning during this chapter of your life was a nice touch. Keep growing Joy :)

  • @CantoMando
    @CantoMando ปีที่แล้ว +14

    proud of u bao bao

    • @imjoyli
      @imjoyli  ปีที่แล้ว

      hehe luv u ૮₍ ˃̵ᴗ˂̵₎ა

  • @aisanxXxpanda
    @aisanxXxpanda ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you sharing your thoughts as you go through your 20s is so relatable and motivating/inspiring, love how you voiceover your montages like that 🥺

  • @spjetti
    @spjetti ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the way mike kept saying “u like?” to the gifts was SO CUTE WHAT THE HECK

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m planning to quit my 100k/year job. This video inspired me to create a video about the great resignation. It took me about 6 months to create this on top of my full-time job, setting aside at least 4x of 1 hr workout per week, cooking healthy foods that take hours to prepare, rejecting so many night outs just to spend more time pursuing my passion while having so many people discourage me from creating meaningful videos online like this channel.
    As you can tell, personal development isn’t a joke because there are so many sacrifices to be made, which are often uncomfortable but knowing that there are also so many like-minded individuals who have passion for becoming a better version of themselves each day and who are willing to show support makes me more motivated to keep pursuing my passion for creativity and intense desire to provide as much value as I could.
    When I was a kid, all I wanted was to have a career that pays well so I can buy whatever I want but now that I’m grown up and went through tons of setbacks from losing tons of people in my life, getting lost in the world with full of life traps, being ridiculed for pursuing my dreams, having so many people tell me that I’m merely wasting my time creating a meaningful content online, and so on, I can say that long-lasting happiness can’t be bought or earned because it comes from within us.

  • @angelmbv
    @angelmbv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that entire haul segment was so cute what the hellll i didn’t know mike could be such a romantic

  • @TinaN-s1b
    @TinaN-s1b ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Joy, I usually never comment but wanted to send you lots of love!
    I adore your vlogs, they are my little Happy Place on the internet no matter what you are talking/filming. This new format is incredibly sweet and cozy, thank you for making such an effort to share with us. I quit my job couple months ago and totally feel your anxiety about the future. But take all the time to settle into the unknown, stay wholesome and you will feel free of all shoulds/woulds/didnts. When they disappear you will know exactly what the right thing to do is, your intuition will guide you where you need to be.
    Until then, I wish you all the best and hope you know we are here to tag along the way (as far as you allow us :P) cheering you on!

    • @imjoyli
      @imjoyli  ปีที่แล้ว

      hiii thank you so much your kind words! seeing comments like yours really does help me find some sort of solace in this transition phase 🤍🤍 I hope everything has worked for you since you’ve quit your job and of course i will keep everyone posted these following months!!

  • @Saratonen
    @Saratonen ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the video format was such a nostalgic summer vibe ~ good luck studying for the LSAT Joy! You seem to be putting your best foot forward so no matter what comes your way, I think you’ll be okay ^_^

    • @imjoyli
      @imjoyli  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for your words of encouragement!! 🫶🫶

  • @jjbuzz9230
    @jjbuzz9230 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed the monologue, I feel the progress of answering this monumental question has been made. I really like how you divulge your inner thoughts, and feelings, and show us how you approach this problem. we get to know your values, your wisdom, and your intelligence, that vlogs don't reveal at all.

  • @dragonsblathers
    @dragonsblathers ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the "work hard but not too hard" at the end, btw your bf was so sweet getting you those gifts you liked, i found your channel from another video, im 30 years old and life can change so much over time :) great video

  • @laneygrande6953
    @laneygrande6953 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's such a joy to watch joy's vid 😭😭 I'm also 24 and i totally understand what u've been thru. U always have my heart girl

  • @Corythehausbaus
    @Corythehausbaus ปีที่แล้ว

    I was still in school at 24, graduated at 25, worked in a field I hate till 27, then took a salary cut and started in a new field, now I’m 32, makes 180k a year , have a house, and about to do my own start up.
    You are 24, have so so so much time and so lucky to be young and have options !

  • @aaronnchan
    @aaronnchan ปีที่แล้ว

    Joy, the first step to finding happiness is being self aware that you are not. These vlogs represent that acknowledgement so you're already way further than you think you are. Keep being kind to yourself, embrace the journey, and you'll be 'there' before you know it :)

  • @kellykwan0
    @kellykwan0 ปีที่แล้ว

    I discovered your vid on my explore page and I love your editing style!!!! can’t wait to see more vids :)

    • @birdtj82
      @birdtj82 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is like super pretty n just genuine.

  • @muk9679
    @muk9679 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gurll I just wanna say that you quitting your job made me feel empowered to consider doing the same. I currently work as an accountant and am now considering doing event planning! I sent my CV last week to a potential employer ❤😊

    • @imjoyli
      @imjoyli  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hoping you hear good news from your next potential employer!! 🤍

  • @czl101
    @czl101 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good luck joy! you’re going to do great things!❤ loved this video!

  • @Littlekateats
    @Littlekateats ปีที่แล้ว

    congrats on the new chapter of your life joy! All the best to you 🤍

  • @FilmwColleen
    @FilmwColleen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inspiring & engaging - great vlog, Joy!❤

  • @iitsthee
    @iitsthee ปีที่แล้ว

    hi joy! i've been watching ur vids and never rly mustered up the courage to comment but i'm deciding to do so today hehe :3 i feel like i really relate to u in many ways (mindset/goal setting/outlook on life etc) i just wanted to say u're doing so great putting urself out there even when u feel scared. u are empowering so many ppl who are in ur shoes to do the same and hope it can give u a sense of peace :) also i'm visiting toronto next month and hope to bump into u hehehe

    • @imjoyli
      @imjoyli  ปีที่แล้ว

      hii!! im glad you decided to comment because i always look forward to what my viewers have to say :) your words are so encouraging and well appreciated at this moment so thank you for that! and yesss hopefully we’ll bump into each other 🤗✨

  • @thekristineway
    @thekristineway ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i really enjoyed the format of this vid :) recently discovered you from cantomando crew

    • @imjoyli
      @imjoyli  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for your feedback and welcome to my channel ☺️🌸

  • @adrienbh
    @adrienbh ปีที่แล้ว

    relate so hard to your feelings joy :') you're not alone and you can do it!

  • @yieldm232
    @yieldm232 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video felt so heart felt and relatable. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. ❤

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best of luck with whatever you decide to do ❤😊!

  • @thekristineway
    @thekristineway ปีที่แล้ว

    i am also in my 20s and not sure where to navigate my life rn😅

  • @birdtj82
    @birdtj82 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do u drink Ulong tea black or u add milk n sugar? I drink -Orange peko with milk/cream Splenda like so much every day lol.

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 5 months ago about self development. Now I have 312 subs and almost > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
    By the way, my next video is about the great resignation because I’ll eventually be part of this population. :)

  • @judyvsworld
    @judyvsworld ปีที่แล้ว

    a new joy video!!

  • @bbittersweet
    @bbittersweet ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re only 24! You still have the rest of your 20s and a whole life ahead… it’s not a waste at all! I’m much older and still struggling 🥲 and prob wasted my 20s

  • @unicorned7159
    @unicorned7159 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this sm

  • @crumbleya
    @crumbleya ปีที่แล้ว

    You got this ❤❤

  • @birdtj82
    @birdtj82 ปีที่แล้ว

    Smart! 🎉 U rather do this now than 10 20 yrs later. Xo. ❤❤❤❤

  • @aarzuki
    @aarzuki ปีที่แล้ว

    I also quitted my job today Joy 🎉

    • @imjoyli
      @imjoyli  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wishing you all the best in your next endeavours!!

  • @moreadventure3627
    @moreadventure3627 ปีที่แล้ว

    What will you be doing for work?

    • @imjoyli
      @imjoyli  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will be pursuing law school!

  • @birdtj82
    @birdtj82 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    UNRELATED. I like every video I’m happy to see your TV hanging up same as MY first Hisense-VA- QLED/MINI LED panel. They are peak brightness 🔆 1600-2000 -VA panel. HIGH FIVE girl 😅😮😮 All the ppl bought SONY OLED peak 600-700nit peak brightness, gooey Duck Dim as soon as u turn lights on, or their mini led blooming -IPS-C.R.A.P with RGB panel. SONY -panic 😮did NOT even SHOW their 2023 TV line up at Consumer electronic show this yr entire booth empty first time 30yrs, due to HISENSE ULEDX premium TV launching. Lol.
    For d Fact U have VERY secret PREMIUM TV … u have my respect :) 😊😊😊. So those ppl come in see yr PREMIUM Google tv on d way they prob think its their low end Roku tv.

  • @kevinlu0
    @kevinlu0 ปีที่แล้ว

    facts though

  • @julia.dalbec
    @julia.dalbec ปีที่แล้ว

    Now I wanna know what Hogwarts house Joy's in.

    • @imjoyli
      @imjoyli  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ravenclaw!

    • @julia.dalbec
      @julia.dalbec ปีที่แล้ว

      @@imjoyli Slay you gave me Ravenclaw vibes, I'm a Slytherin!

  • @kevinlu0
    @kevinlu0 ปีที่แล้ว

    boo hoo