Wasted 8 years on someone whom i see now as an immature person. Ten months ago i met an amazing guy , who loves GOD, Loves me, getting married in few weeks!!!! So worth the wait!!!!!!
True! As a man, when we know what we want, and pray for a wife that is on the same spiritual path, goal minded as myself! You just know. I met my wife at a family cook out, I introduced myself, got her number, called her, texted her, visited her to let her know I am serious about her. 3 months in, I brought her an engagement ring April 2008, two months later we got married. 10 years in, and still going strong!!! When a man wants to marry you, you are going to know it!!
I absolutely love your comment. 💖💖May God continue blessing you and your wife.👍Your comment was inspirational. I would love to be married, but the right man hasn't came yet. But I still have Faith.
Gabriel Sanders Some men do all that. Have a wonderful woman that was a God sent and still step out. Y’all may know but what makes y’all stop caring? I already know the answer to this because of countless research but no answer is ever good enough. Cause what I feel is that a woman can be all y’all want but when y’all are bored, undisciplined, out of covenant with God and horny...y’all forget about the wife (for a short while).
You're not the first person telling such a story. I have heard and read about a ton of men who meet their future wife for the first time and say they are going to marry her, or see a picture and say they are going to marry that woman. They usually do marry that person and the marriage lasts until death parts them. It's like they know straight away that's the one :) Thank you for sharing your story, you're really fortunate to have such a husband!
I’ve been engaged twice. The first popped the question after dating 6 months. After he proposed, I had doubts and had to let go. The second proposed after two months. Once again, I started seeing signs, thought we could work on these issues before getting married. I let that one go also. Just because a man wants you to be his wife, doesn’t necessarily mean he’s the right one.
And my friends laughed at me when I said I'm given a man 1 year if he ain't talking about marriage he is wasting my time 😳🚶🏾 Thank you for this confirming video 🙌🏾
Why? Though they are right you can't put a time frame on when a question should be asked. There are so many variables that may prohibit him. Such as things he wants to achieve or make right before marriage. Have you ever stop to think maybe the man isn't ready for marriage so he didn't ask. That's why communication is so key. Stop jumping to conclusions and sit down and talk. Talking usually clears up and gives you the clarity you need. Don't just assume he is wasting you time. Like me for instance the reason why I won't propose after a year is because I don't want to be married as yet. Also there are things I want to achieve for me and for us before I put a ring on a female finger . Obviously I will communicate that with you. But not all men are good at communication
That's amazing, but I wouldn't advise for everybody to do that. I know too many couples who married quickly and got divorced later. Also, we don't know what their marriage is like.
My parents dated for 8months, married on the 9th! (No they were not pregnant). By God's grace 31 years later they are still together ♥️. May God protect us from time wasters 🙄 as we protect ourselves.
I wasted 14 years of my life with my daughter's father after being single for 5 years growing, praying, healing, setting boundaries & dating myself i learned so much from those life experiences, which helped me grow into becoming the woman i am today. Then i reconnected with my childhood friend about a month later God spoke/revealed to both of us he was my husband and that I was his wife. several months later he ask me to marry him. It's never to late to find true love; it was so worth the wait!
Lucky you :) i dont believe it for me. Just because I would never be sure. No matter if he looks like he is from God and feels 100% like it. I will never feel sure. Never! Never! I dont believe the words I hear if its really from God or not. Even if I get confirmation. Been through that and nothing is reliable what involves another person in a relationship. Thank you God. Whatever
@@susannarose3574 my love you need to spend time in the secret place with God. Ask the Holy Spirit to bestow on you the gifts of the word of wisdom, the word of knowledge and the discernment of Spirits. You'll be just fine
I knew just after a couple days that she was the one. I just knew that we would never do anything to each other to break up with each other. That was 18 years ago
my brother met his fiance' in november and said he new by febuary. bought the ring in march but waited till her birthday in july to propose. wedding is set for march 2017 in the virgin islands. it doesn't take years to know. i know people who have been together for 10 plus years still talking about, "i'm not sure". rediculous.
@@themightyruler1319 There is a difference between a man who isn't ready and a man who isn't interested in getting ready. If a man is serious about you and sees that you will be a good wife but knows that he isn't qualified, he will take steps to become qualified, and she will know it. If she asks him about marriage, he will not get cagey or defensive. He will be honest with her about why he doesn't feel ready to marry. There are men who are happy to waste a woman's time for years on end because they aren't ready to marry and yet have no problem coupling up with her. If a woman wants to get married and have kids with her husband, she doesn't have 5-10 years to waste on somebody.
@@misspriss2482 yep i knew a guy just like that. When a man says he’s not ready , he is not. He wasn’t intentional on getting ready either , he was acting as if one day it’ll just magically happen. Not wasting anymore of my time, already wasted two years, God taught me a lot on that one. It’s hard to believe it wasn’t me , but he even said it wasn’t.
"The counterfeit and Godsent will look the same in the beginning but their destination is different" boyyyyy when I tell you I FELT that deep within, it brought tears to my eyes. Definitely experienced that 😕😔
Just found out today that the man I've invested myself into for almost 2 years (who initially wanted to marry me) no longer has plans for me and is now "unsure" if we have a future. I'm devastated and my heart is broken, I don't want to get out of bed. But, this video has shed a lot of light on my situation...thanks for speaking to my heart today. Be blessed and please keep the videos coming! Yall are a Godsend!
Ok, so true. I was with a guy off and on for over 5 years. I did not start off on the best foot with him. What turned into a fling was more like a relationship. He gave me mixed signals all the time, like we should get married but when I say something back he gives me a totally different attitude. My friends all said he was just leading me on, keeping me near because I was his emotional support for now til he finds someone else. Finally, I asked God. 3 times I prayed (thought out) and God immediately gave me an answer back which was he is not serious and is seeing other people. Finally, I asked him why, why not him, I really bonded with him and everything, but God said in a clear voice, because I have so much better for you. I was shocked. God was showing me what type of man he was, even in marriage he would not be a faithful partner and he had someone who would totally be faithful and give me all the spiritual and emotional support I needed. So slowly be surely i ended things. Took a while but I'm good now.
Wow this is Really powerful I'm finally seeing its not always about what you desire but what god desires someone that is really seeing god and lifestyle
God sent and counterfeits look the same in the beginning. Amen 🙏🏿. That's we have to test the spirits and pray. Seek the Lord. I believe that a man after God's heart will not lead you astray but rather draw you closer into the presence of God. If that man isn't pursing God, he isn't ready to pursue God's daughter.
Queen Karen I love this. I couldn't help but notice that I always come across your comments in almost every video that I watch. I feel like we both watch the same videos!😂😄 Much love💝
I think it's important to be still and let things flow naturally. Alot of times when we force a situation, it doesn't feel right, it feels forced and the end result isn't what we desired.
It took my mate less than a month! Only because we are led by the spirit first! God will always answer you in his way if you pay attention! Answers come in different times and different ways!
TRUEFXMEDIA Facts, sis!! My guy knew right away too. I was telling God to send him away because it must have been some kind of practical joke or something being played on me. ‘No one knows that fast! Definitely not church guys!’ But boom! God was like “Minimah, it’s him. I sent him. Focus on what he’s doing.”
TRUELove1 yes! I prefer the Holy Spirit method. I'm smack in the middle of a mental whirlie about a guy who I thought was ok before I had fellowship of the Holy Spirit.... I know what I want now. If he's not more in sync with the Holy Spirit than I am, then I don't want... Don't wanna wait to watch it grow either. You gotta show up ready.
@@ngreat4390 THIS !!!!!! amen I feel EXACTLY the same way ! I don't want to wait for you to get right while we are in a relationship .. I rather just be patient and wait on what's already mine to be 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Y’all better PREACH that thing. My first wife and I met in July, 1979, and almost 5 months to the day, I asked her to marry me-she said YES! We married another 4 months later, and following two wonderful children , we stayed together 37 years until she went to Glory over 2 years ago. So yes-if you are in relationship with God, you WILL know up front. Now I am believing God that in HIS time, He has another amazing woman for me to pursue and find. I already have a Word from the Lord on it, so I know she is coming!
I was two months shy of a 7 year relationship. I was ghosted, abandoned and destroyed by a man who said he loved me right when I found out I was losing my job. After working on myself this past summer and my relationship with God, I got my job back and was able to pay all my debt off! I thought that was it. I reconnected with a classmate from high school who I thought was so cute. It's only been 2 weeks and we ALREADY know! He said I'm it for him. I'm the one and he has already posted my pic on Instagram and then is posting on Facebook tomorrow. The ex never posted me on all that time and I took it. This man is so intentional. We literally think the same thing and have so much in common. He has the qualities I prayed for and then some! God is blowing my mind and is definitely standing by my side in all this craziness.
My honey told me 3rd conversation," I'm coming and I'm going to marry you!" I was shocked 😲 Never met a God-fearing , articulate, focused, consistent man! I remember when I asked him to sing to me thinking he was going to sing something romantic. He closed his eyes and took a deep breath and blurted out JESUS I LOVE YOU 😳😳😳😊😊😁😁🙌🙌🙌 I'm pretty sure THAT'S the moment I fell in love. Now we worship and sing love songs to God together ❤️
Also you may not be ready for marriage yet with a certain person. God sometimes brings two people together then keeps them apart for a while so they can grow and heal.
Yeah, my boyfriend and i met and were friends for a few months but we were too immature to be talking at that time and about 3 years later we picked up where we left off and he moved to be with me in a month. He did have to move back where he came from bc covid but is still trying to come back
This calmed my fears soo much! My bf told me he loved me first. Told me very early he wanted to marry and have kids. We’ve been together 5 months. I have had doubts about his intention because of bad past relationships. I’ve been abstinent for 4 years before meeting him. Had to focus on myself, love myself and heal.
Summer K yes we talk about it often! We have strong communication and that has helped me so much! He’s so patient and loving and caring with me when I start doubting us. (Trust issues) but I think it has passed for now lol
a man can only play with you if you allow him to. we show people how to treat us. I have had mean who think they could pull it. when they realized they couldn't then they backed off.
My husband & I met in church. We became friends, then started seeing each other a few months later, but was mindful on how we did things. He said he knew within months that he wanted me to be his wife. So we knew each other about 15 months before we were married. We've been married 8 years & we have a small ministry together. May the LORD continue to bless your union as well as your ministry♡♡
I can’t tell you how many guys told me “God told me you are my wife” ... and I literally met them with the same response how she reacted. My prayer is that we all move forward with wisdom, discipline, and discernment so that we as children of God can have what He has planned for us to have!
I’ve been in many relationships some of them lasted years but they never went nowhere yet when I met my wife we dated a few days later after meeting, got engaged 2 months after that then married two more after that. 2 years strong with God at the center of our lives.
My husband told me he knew I was the one on our 2nd date. This scared me. But he told me most men know...sometimes even just after a few days/weeks exactly what he wants with you. We got engaged withing 3 months. Married 6months after that. Been together for almost 7years.
GOD KNOWS...😭🙏👣💞THANKING ABBA FATHER!!!!😭👣🙏💞💝💑😰💝DEAR GOD!!!!😰👣🙏💑OOOOOH DEAREST, BE-LOVED GOD!!!!😭👣🙏💑💝💞🙌💞💜🤡NO*COUNTER*FACTS🤡NO*COINCIDENCES🤡💞💑WHY/TRY * WHY/TRY * LORD GOD A-MAN/A-MEN👣A-MEN👣🙏💑
I ain't married yet but I know she's the one. Never even met her yet, she's the sister of a good friend. One month after we started talking well, I already knew. Now I'm sticking to her even amongst the challenges we face.
After a month of dating we said I love you. After a year he proposed. Together for 14yrs. Currently separated. Praying for marriage restoration & my husband to be restored to God. Love these videos. ❤
The power of a praying by Stormie Omartian and Love & Respect by Dr Emerson Eggrich, are 2 great books, you should read. I pray y’all can reconcile 🙏🏽❤️
You answered my prayers! The way I know now is when I have to compromise my purity! If the answer is yes- I have to compromise my purity, the answer is no from me.
SPEEEEAAAKKK!!!!!! My Lord my GOD what a mighty word!!!!! This truly blessed me!!!! I pray my husband ministers the word of GOD with such substance and profound depth as you!!! I love the facial expressions your wife was making when you spoke things that were on POINT 😂😂😂😂 OMG you all have a beautiful relationship may GOD continue to bless your union forevermore 🙏🏾❤️
This was the normal back in the day...less than 6 months to an engagement. No one in their right mind would wait longer..if you're a Christian, the longer you go out, the greater the chances of sinning.
When I was single, after college - men got one year, one year of 4 seasons, all the holidays, both birthdays...thru that you know. And that was before I came back to Jesus. Praise God!!!
You are definitely on Point with this. it is vital that you know for sure God has sent you the wife . He has already ordained for you. by all means don't allowed your flesh dictate to you what is right. vs what God is saying. .
Met my husband 04/28, six years ago I was sure as hell attracted and tempted...but didn't give it up We got married less than a month later! 😲 Had our first child one year later, the next child the following!!
Come on! God has to tell me too. I was in a relationship with someone who seemed to be what I wanted but that gut feeling, red flags, and uneasiness caused me to break up with him when I realized he was going to propose. I felt like a terrible person but I don’t want to marry wrong.
Same happened to me!! Just how you described. Feels terrible to break someone’s heart but like you said, its better than to marry wrong. In the end, we did ourselves and them a huge favor and saved us heartaches
God sents and counterfeits look the same in the beginning. Keep praying and remain pure. I am in total agreement because counterfeits are coming in abundance. But everytime I pray before 7 full days. I see the true character and notice the fruit of the spirit isn't right at all. This is a great word. I'm coming to the conference in May 2020.
“The God sent and the Counterfeit start off looking the same, but their destinations are different. The Counterfeit always tries to make you compromise.” Good Word.
Preach on it! You know when God introduces you to your wife. He presents you what you have been believing Him for! That's called confirmation. Peace and love fam
Amen! So profound. God revealed a counterfeit to me.. I knew he was before but I kept ignoring it because I thought he was "righteous" and when he made mistakes he always said he's gonna pray about it and fix himself. All lies. And I kept making excuses but no more! God delivered me from investing any more time n I couldn't be more grateful. God is good! Love this video.. Just subscribed.. 😉 ☺ God bless!
I like these devotionals. I do believe God is merciful and gives us multiple chances. I also think that Moses being unable to walk into the promised land due to his continued disobedience is evidence that God will remove blessing from us If we keep purposely disobeying Him. Mistakes are one thing but repeated out right rebellion is something else. I've also seen this happen in my own life with various things I've asked God for but didn't receive because I didn't follow His instructions to Get it.
I agree with this video and the comments. There is also a flipside to be careful about- there was a man who wanted to marry me after 1 week, and he kept pushing to get married in the next 1-2 months, I kept saying let's get to know each other first. In the 2 months I noticed his behaviour being manipulative- he wanted to quit his job and make me work; he wanted me to get a skilled migration overseas so that HE could live his dream of moving there, and later saying he is bringing his abusive parents to come live with us (his mother used to hit his SIL) , and he was so stingy with money. Then he started playing mind games. I didnt need anymore time with him and RAN. Long story short- some men are desperate to get married and it's got nothing to do with love either or thinking "you're the one". Even if it's romantic or you feel this person is the one, make sure the man is of high quality for you too
I’m just discovering this channel. This one episode confirmed that I made the right decision about cutting that joker loose. Thank God for ordering my steps. You guys are dope!! 🙂
Wasted 8 years on someone whom i see now as an immature person. Ten months ago i met an amazing guy , who loves GOD, Loves me, getting married in few weeks!!!! So worth the wait!!!!!!
Natalie S congratulations, I wish you all the best
@@thandiwemafhoho3898 Thank you!!!
Natalie S this gives me hope! Congratulations!
@@GracetoConquer yes!!! Never lose hope!!!!!! Blessings!!!
Congratulations! To God be the glory. Thanks for sharing your testimony.
My husband asked me after 4 months. 20 years later we are still married.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Preach🙌🏽
🥰🥰😍💕💕wow! God bless you both always!
I receive this 🙏💞🤗
Lovely!! Happy 21st anniversary to you both ❤️
True! As a man, when we know what we want, and pray for a wife that is on the same spiritual path, goal minded as myself! You just know. I met my wife at a family cook out, I introduced myself, got her number, called her, texted her, visited her to let her know I am serious about her. 3 months in, I brought her an engagement ring April 2008, two months later we got married. 10 years in, and still going strong!!! When a man wants to marry you, you are going to know it!!
Gabriel Sanders wow Amen to this!!!!
Amen, preach brother
I absolutely love your comment. 💖💖May God continue blessing you and your wife.👍Your comment was inspirational. I would love to be married, but the right man hasn't came yet. But I still have Faith.
Wow
Thanks for sharing.
That is insightful.
Gabriel Sanders Some men do all that. Have a wonderful woman that was a God sent and still step out. Y’all may know but what makes y’all stop caring? I already know the answer to this because of countless research but no answer is ever good enough. Cause what I feel is that a woman can be all y’all want but when y’all are bored, undisciplined, out of covenant with God and horny...y’all forget about the wife (for a short while).
My husband told a friend of mine he was going to marry me when he saw a picture of me and he never met me 😂 been married 15 years now.
AMEN
You're not the first person telling such a story. I have heard and read about a ton of men who meet their future wife for the first time and say they are going to marry her, or see a picture and say they are going to marry that woman. They usually do marry that person and the marriage lasts until death parts them. It's like they know straight away that's the one :) Thank you for sharing your story, you're really fortunate to have such a husband!
wow
Awe that's a blessing.
Same as my sister
I’ve been engaged twice. The first popped the question after dating 6 months. After he proposed, I had doubts and had to let go. The second proposed after two months. Once again, I started seeing signs, thought we could work on these issues before getting married. I let that one go also. Just because a man wants you to be his wife, doesn’t necessarily mean he’s the right one.
Drea Amen
I agree.
What were the doubts you experienced and the signs you saw?
AMEN! Just because he can pick a good one doesn't mean he's a "good one" for you!
Drea thank you and vice versa
And my friends laughed at me when I said I'm given a man 1 year if he ain't talking about marriage he is wasting my time 😳🚶🏾 Thank you for this confirming video 🙌🏾
She is Jasneth giiirrrllll....I said the samething! wont be borrowing my time!
She is Jasneth Yes girl. I'm doing the same. I ain't got time to waste
Why? Though they are right you can't put a time frame on when a question should be asked. There are so many variables that may prohibit him. Such as things he wants to achieve or make right before marriage. Have you ever stop to think maybe the man isn't ready for marriage so he didn't ask. That's why communication is so key. Stop jumping to conclusions and sit down and talk. Talking usually clears up and gives you the clarity you need. Don't just assume he is wasting you time. Like me for instance the reason why I won't propose after a year is because I don't want to be married as yet. Also there are things I want to achieve for me and for us before I put a ring on a female finger . Obviously I will communicate that with you. But not all men are good at communication
Tanecia Moniqué well said!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yes! They're so quick to say "that's too quick/not enough time." I'm grown and I don't have time 😞😌😏
My bible teacher married her husband after 2 weeks of meeting this year they are celebrating 40 years of marriage in June
wow!
2 weeks? ...oh my...
Awesome!!
SkepticRunner uuummm
That's amazing, but I wouldn't advise for everybody to do that. I know too many couples who married quickly and got divorced later. Also, we don't know what their marriage is like.
This man said its too late to have an interview after he's already entered you.😂😂😂PREACH!!!
Damn straight from the source a man....
Hahahha!!! Truuuee!
Too TRUE!!
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Wow!!!!!!!!
I love the way she looks at him with admiration
Yessssss. . ..
Yes me to. It's so sweet.
And he reciprocates.. so supportive ! ❤️
Me too! So sweet
yesss me too i notice that in all their videos together !!
My parents dated for 8months, married on the 9th! (No they were not pregnant). By God's grace 31 years later they are still together ♥️.
May God protect us from time wasters 🙄 as we protect ourselves.
Amen
Amen!
Sexual purity is the way to go 😭😭😭!
Amen
Yassss indeed
I know 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌😭😭😭
True
#Amen & Hallelujah🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌!!!!
In 1 year if there's no engagement ring, you better run ladies!!!!!
kay c preach!!
I'd say 2
6 months is my cut off. Used to be a year, until I got in my 30's. I JUST cut someone off after 6 months. My tme and energy is valuable. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@@natashaluo5697 Too long! He knows way before 2 years.
Agreed
I wasted 14 years of my life with my daughter's father after being single for 5 years growing, praying, healing, setting boundaries & dating myself i learned so much from those life experiences, which helped me grow into becoming the woman i am today. Then i reconnected with my childhood friend about a month later God spoke/revealed to both of us he was my husband and that I was his wife. several months later he ask me to marry him. It's never to late to find true love; it was so worth the wait!
Lucky you :) i dont believe it for me. Just because I would never be sure. No matter if he looks like he is from God and feels 100% like it. I will never feel sure. Never! Never! I dont believe the words I hear if its really from God or not. Even if I get confirmation. Been through that and nothing is reliable what involves another person in a relationship. Thank you God. Whatever
@@susannarose3574 my love you need to spend time in the secret place with God. Ask the Holy Spirit to bestow on you the gifts of the word of wisdom, the word of knowledge and the discernment of Spirits. You'll be just fine
@@aygeeawowede1337 agree
@@susannarose3574 it’s sounding like you’re lacking faith , do you trust your father enough to let him tale the reigns and guide you ?
Thank you for your story. I'm wasted almost 6yrs with my son father. But I'm scared of dating again. But I know God has someone for me.
Thank GOD for grace and all the Ishmael mistakes we've made 😂😂😂😂😂
asyoucanbe 😂😂😂😂😂😂 had to laugh
I was laughing too 😂😂😂 yes Lord, thank you!
😂😂😂😂😂 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
I knew just after a couple days that she was the one. I just knew that we would never do anything to each other to break up with each other. That was 18 years ago
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Amazing!
my brother met his fiance' in november and said he new by febuary. bought the ring in march but waited till her birthday in july to propose. wedding is set for march 2017 in the virgin islands. it doesn't take years to know. i know people who have been together for 10 plus years still talking about, "i'm not sure". rediculous.
That's amazing!! Wishing them the best
mstramaine now are they doing now?
They are just wasting each others time in 10 plus years. That is way too long.
A man has to be ready. Half the time the woman has nothing to do with it.
Exactly, throwing away relationships in 6 months because a dude hasn’t proposed yet? Crazy, do people really care about a wedding ceremony that badly?
@@themightyruler1319 I don't think they suggested that someone break up if there is no proposal in 6 months.
@@ladennayoung2939 Yea I think your right haha
@@themightyruler1319 There is a difference between a man who isn't ready and a man who isn't interested in getting ready. If a man is serious about you and sees that you will be a good wife but knows that he isn't qualified, he will take steps to become qualified, and she will know it. If she asks him about marriage, he will not get cagey or defensive. He will be honest with her about why he doesn't feel ready to marry. There are men who are happy to waste a woman's time for years on end because they aren't ready to marry and yet have no problem coupling up with her. If a woman wants to get married and have kids with her husband, she doesn't have 5-10 years to waste on somebody.
@@misspriss2482 yep i knew a guy just like that. When a man says he’s not ready , he is not. He wasn’t intentional on getting ready either , he was acting as if one day it’ll just magically happen. Not wasting anymore of my time, already wasted two years, God taught me a lot on that one. It’s hard to believe it wasn’t me , but he even said it wasn’t.
"The counterfeit and Godsent will look the same in the beginning but their destination is different" boyyyyy when I tell you I FELT that deep within, it brought tears to my eyes. Definitely experienced that 😕😔
Experienced that too!!!!!
Still a virgin after 27 years almost 28 years in 3 weeks
Dominique Banks such a Blessing!!
Dominique Banks such a Blessing!!
Me too! I’ll be 27 next week 🤷🏾♀️
Remain one until God bless you 🙏💖
Dominique Banks Absolutely! Praising God for being a 43 year young virgin who is walking in purity all the way to the altar🙌🏾
"It's too late to have an interview after he's entered you." Wooooow! So much truth to that........
Absolutely
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Yesss Sis, that was a POWERFUL STATEMENT 👏👏
Just found out today that the man I've invested myself into for almost 2 years (who initially wanted to marry me) no longer has plans for me and is now "unsure" if we have a future. I'm devastated and my heart is broken, I don't want to get out of bed. But, this video has shed a lot of light on my situation...thanks for speaking to my heart today. Be blessed and please keep the videos coming! Yall are a Godsend!
something better is coming
you are beautiful girl!!! God's princess!! he is restoring your heart and time
jaymoe8705 Run!!!!!! God has plans of peace not to harm you, but to give you a hope and a future.
jaymoe8705 Happened to me as well I'm praying your Strength it will get Better I am a living Witness. Give it a year or so alone with God
Be better, not bitter.. 🙏❤
Thanks I wasted 10 years of my life waiting for a proposal never again..
You are to beautiful for that 👸🏻
GOOD STUFF!!!! I once read in an article that "a man of vision does not have to take several years to propose".
met my husband and was married in 12 weeks, my ex was in a relationship with him for 5 years and he still didn't know.
OOPS!!!!!!
Wow amazing
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My parents married less than 3 months after they met. My dad has set such a high bar for us. I thank God everyday for that man.
Ok, so true. I was with a guy off and on for over 5 years. I did not start off on the best foot with him. What turned into a fling was more like a relationship. He gave me mixed signals all the time, like we should get married but when I say something back he gives me a totally different attitude. My friends all said he was just leading me on, keeping me near because I was his emotional support for now til he finds someone else. Finally, I asked God. 3 times I prayed (thought out) and God immediately gave me an answer back which was he is not serious and is seeing other people. Finally, I asked him why, why not him, I really bonded with him and everything, but God said in a clear voice, because I have so much better for you. I was shocked. God was showing me what type of man he was, even in marriage he would not be a faithful partner and he had someone who would totally be faithful and give me all the spiritual and emotional support I needed. So slowly be surely i ended things. Took a while but I'm good now.
Wow! Good for you and thank God for the strength to get out!
I had the same experience gave me mixed signals and I've known him for 7yrs but were talking about more now and have a baby
Wow this is Really powerful I'm finally seeing its not always about what you desire but what god desires someone that is really seeing god and lifestyle
Pull that rug from under his feet.
Love it! I inspire to do this!
God sent and counterfeits look the same in the beginning. Amen 🙏🏿. That's we have to test the spirits and pray. Seek the Lord. I believe that a man after God's heart will not lead you astray but rather draw you closer into the presence of God. If that man isn't pursing God, he isn't ready to pursue God's daughter.
Queen Karen I love this. I couldn't help but notice that I always come across your comments in almost every video that I watch. I feel like we both watch the same videos!😂😄 Much love💝
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Amen!
Amen!
Amen!!!!!
Thanks for the confirmation! My ex (when we were dating) said it'll take him over 3 YEARS to know for sure! Chile bye!
My cousin was dating a girl for three years only for him to tell her that he wasn't interested in marrying her. She left him very fast after that.
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Foolishness bye, Ain’t nobody got time for 3 years.... he was taking chances
I think it's important to be still and let things flow naturally. Alot of times when we force a situation, it doesn't feel right, it feels forced and the end result isn't what we desired.
Got told me Jay is not the one Troy is
God sent is troy
I will wait until god do his job
It took my mate less than a month! Only because we are led by the spirit first! God will always answer you in his way if you pay attention! Answers come in different times and different ways!
TRUEFXMEDIA Facts, sis!! My guy knew right away too. I was telling God to send him away because it must have been some kind of practical joke or something being played on me. ‘No one knows that fast! Definitely not church guys!’ But boom! God was like “Minimah, it’s him. I sent him. Focus on what he’s doing.”
TRUELove1 yes! I prefer the Holy Spirit method. I'm smack in the middle of a mental whirlie about a guy who I thought was ok before I had fellowship of the Holy Spirit.... I know what I want now. If he's not more in sync with the Holy Spirit than I am, then I don't want...
Don't wanna wait to watch it grow either. You gotta show up ready.
@@ngreat4390 THIS !!!!!! amen I feel EXACTLY the same way ! I don't want to wait for you to get right while we are in a relationship .. I rather just be patient and wait on what's already mine to be 🙌🏾🙌🏾
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Y’all better PREACH that thing. My first wife and I met in July, 1979, and almost 5 months to the day, I asked her to marry me-she said YES! We married another 4 months later, and following two wonderful children , we stayed together 37 years until she went to Glory over 2 years ago. So yes-if you are in relationship with God, you WILL know up front. Now I am believing God that in HIS time, He has another amazing woman for me to pursue and find. I already have a Word from the Lord on it, so I know she is coming!
Your comment made me smile, let me know when it happens for you!
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So good!! I love the part about God confirmed marriages. If God told one person, I believe He will make it known to the other as well!
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My husband said he knew the minute he saw me that he was going to marry me.... We were married 2 months later. 😬💕
Gussy, How long have you been married? What a sweet first name btw!
is it angry marriage or wrong emoji? lol
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Its too late to interview after he has entered you....... Wow, So True. Love this!
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Very derogatory and sexist
so true
@@alicialopez488 not really.
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My first relationship was 4 years. My second was almost 5 years. Never again will I waste my time with someone with no intentions🙌🏽🙏🏾.
If a man is a womanizer, I won't waste my time.
“Time and purity reveal counterfeits”
I was two months shy of a 7 year relationship. I was ghosted, abandoned and destroyed by a man who said he loved me right when I found out I was losing my job. After working on myself this past summer and my relationship with God, I got my job back and was able to pay all my debt off! I thought that was it. I reconnected with a classmate from high school who I thought was so cute. It's only been 2 weeks and we ALREADY know! He said I'm it for him. I'm the one and he has already posted my pic on Instagram and then is posting on Facebook tomorrow. The ex never posted me on all that time and I took it. This man is so intentional. We literally think the same thing and have so much in common. He has the qualities I prayed for and then some! God is blowing my mind and is definitely standing by my side in all this craziness.
I just shared this video to my lady because she thinks it should take me longer to know she's my forever Queen.
My honey told me 3rd conversation," I'm coming and I'm going to marry you!"
I was shocked 😲 Never met a God-fearing , articulate, focused, consistent man! I remember when I asked him to sing to me thinking he was going to sing something romantic. He closed his eyes and took a deep breath and blurted out JESUS I LOVE YOU 😳😳😳😊😊😁😁🙌🙌🙌 I'm pretty sure THAT'S the moment I fell in love. Now we worship and sing love songs to God together ❤️
Also you may not be ready for marriage yet with a certain person. God sometimes brings two people together then keeps them apart for a while so they can grow and heal.
Absolutely true. We've experienced this
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Disagree. God will bring you two together for marriage at the right time.
@@Candaicelovesjesus That's not everybody's experience. There are people who meet before it's time and get together later.
I've heard testimonies where God bought them together too. And they are happier and closer. God knows.
Yeah, my boyfriend and i met and were friends for a few months but we were too immature to be talking at that time and about 3 years later we picked up where we left off and he moved to be with me in a month. He did have to move back where he came from bc covid but is still trying to come back
We were married in 3 months still the best man I know
He didn’t even kiss me till our wedding day
I learned to pray and fast🙏. I have no time to waste anymore....
Neither do I!
Amen sister same here🙋🏾♀️
This calmed my fears soo much! My bf told me he loved me first. Told me very early he wanted to marry and have kids. We’ve been together 5 months. I have had doubts about his intention because of bad past relationships. I’ve been abstinent for 4 years before meeting him. Had to focus on myself, love myself and heal.
How are you doing now? Anything more about him wanting to purpose and marry you soon?
Summer K yes we talk about it often! We have strong communication and that has helped me so much! He’s so patient and loving and caring with me when I start doubting us. (Trust issues) but I think it has passed for now lol
a man can only play with you if you allow him to. we show people how to treat us. I have had mean who think they could pull it. when they realized they couldn't then they backed off.
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Or maybe BE a man. You are responsible for your own actions. Stop with deceit and cheating. Be honest do we don’t have to investigate..
My husband & I met in church. We became friends, then started seeing each other a few months later, but was mindful on how we did things. He said he knew within months that he wanted me to be his wife. So we knew each other about 15 months before we were married. We've been married 8 years & we have a small ministry together. May the LORD continue to bless your union as well as your ministry♡♡
I can’t tell you how many guys told me “God told me you are my wife” ... and I literally met them with the same response how she reacted. My prayer is that we all move forward with wisdom, discipline, and discernment so that we as children of God can have what He has planned for us to have!
When GOD sends you something its yours!
I’ve been in many relationships some of them lasted years but they never went nowhere yet when I met my wife we dated a few days later after meeting, got engaged 2 months after that then married two more after that. 2 years strong with God at the center of our lives.
A man definitely knows when he found that one! Such an awesome wisdom filled video. Lots of good tidbits and whatnot. Love what you guys do!
"When I look at the Bible I don't see God changing His mind a lot" 100
The way his wife looks at him while he preaches 😍
I wish this video existed years ago before I stayed in a 7yr relationship.
My husband told me he knew I was the one on our 2nd date. This scared me. But he told me most men know...sometimes even just after a few days/weeks exactly what he wants with you. We got engaged withing 3 months. Married 6months after that. Been together for almost 7years.
I don't know how I got here but Lord, I Thank you for this confirmation!
The God sent will be assigned to my life❤️❤️❤️
You can’t detour or run away the God SENT🙌🏽
GOD KNOWS...😭🙏👣💞THANKING ABBA FATHER!!!!😭👣🙏💞💝💑😰💝DEAR GOD!!!!😰👣🙏💑OOOOOH DEAREST, BE-LOVED GOD!!!!😭👣🙏💑💝💞🙌💞💜🤡NO*COUNTER*FACTS🤡NO*COINCIDENCES🤡💞💑WHY/TRY * WHY/TRY * LORD GOD
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I ain't married yet but I know she's the one. Never even met her yet, she's the sister of a good friend. One month after we started talking well, I already knew. Now I'm sticking to her even amongst the challenges we face.
After a month of dating we said I love you. After a year he proposed. Together for 14yrs. Currently separated. Praying for marriage restoration & my husband to be restored to God. Love these videos. ❤
The power of a praying by Stormie Omartian and Love & Respect by Dr Emerson Eggrich, are 2 great books, you should read. I pray y’all can reconcile 🙏🏽❤️
9 years, I know I knew better!!!
Thank God for giving me the strength to walk away 3 years ago. Best decision I could I ever made. God is my rock!!!
Yall about to make me throw this computer you better say it while I listen!
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My dad married my mum with in 9 months of meeting her .31 years so far
You answered my prayers! The way I know now is when I have to compromise my purity! If the answer is yes- I have to compromise my purity, the answer is no from me.
I absolutely love the way she looks at her husband... SHE IS TOTALLY IN LOVE!!! 😍😘🙏
SPEEEEAAAKKK!!!!!! My Lord my GOD what a mighty word!!!!! This truly blessed me!!!! I pray my husband ministers the word of GOD with such substance and profound depth as you!!! I love the facial expressions your wife was making when you spoke things that were on POINT 😂😂😂😂 OMG you all have a beautiful relationship may GOD continue to bless your union forevermore 🙏🏾❤️
I was ready to jump up from this park bench with a " preach"
I've been taking a survey for years. Men know within less than 2 weeks if not instantly. Christian men especially know pretty immediately.
This was the normal back in the day...less than 6 months to an engagement. No one in their right mind would wait longer..if you're a Christian, the longer you go out, the greater the chances of sinning.
I was told that a man knows in the beginning of meeting u.....wow this is powerful
Absolutely true
Can't help it, I had to subscribe.
He proposed after 3 months❤️❤️❤️
Lol. Her face throughout his explanation.
Strong endorsement.. haha
She loves her hubby .
She is like hype man 😂
She’s so cute! She seems like a cool person!
Lol that ummm... hmmm... Amen face
When I was single, after college - men got one year, one year of 4 seasons, all the holidays, both birthdays...thru that you know. And that was before I came back to Jesus. Praise God!!!
You are definitely on Point with this. it is vital that you know for sure God has sent you the wife . He has already ordained for you. by all means don't allowed your flesh dictate to you what is right. vs what God is saying. .
yes truth
Amen
Amen 🙏🏾
Am not married or engaged but what ik is when I guy sees u or when you start talking they know from day 1 that u r the one or not
Absolutely true
really though how come I didn't meet y'all like 29 years ago? y'all have some goooood, goooood insights, Jesus. God bless you
Met my husband 04/28, six years ago
I was sure as hell attracted and tempted...but didn't give it up
We got married less than a month later!
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Had our first child one year later, the next child the following!!
"You can't detour what God has sent your way." I LOVE IT
YOU GUYS ARE LITERALLY THE ULTIMATE HUSBAND AND WIFE PREACHER DUO!!!!❤️❤️❤️ There’s all kinds of truth in this video.
You know what I LOVE YALL MINISTRY... IT'S SO NECESSARY TODAY
Yalllllllllllll better preach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Confirmation!!!!!!!!!!!
You're a beautiful young lady.
Come on! God has to tell me too. I was in a relationship with someone who seemed to be what I wanted but that gut feeling, red flags, and uneasiness caused me to break up with him when I realized he was going to propose. I felt like a terrible person but I don’t want to marry wrong.
Same happened to me!! Just how you described. Feels terrible to break someone’s heart but like you said, its better than to marry wrong. In the end, we did ourselves and them a huge favor and saved us heartaches
Y’all are speaking so much life into me! 😭😭😭
My late husband was praying and knew within a few months he just had to win me ask me to get answer.
“It’s too late to have an interview after he’s entered you.” 🤭🔥💯
It’s too late to have an interview after he’s entered you. I waste my time with him 5 yrs 😭
Woah..... It"s too late to interview once he's entered you. 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯 That's a word right there.
God sents and counterfeits look the same in the beginning. Keep praying and remain pure. I am in total agreement because counterfeits are coming in abundance. But everytime I pray before 7 full days. I see the true character and notice the fruit of the spirit isn't right at all. This is a great word. I'm coming to the conference in May 2020.
I could watch this channel all day long thank you Jesus for this amazing ministry!
Tfs. Was with him for 10 years, we had no kids & no💍. Every year was a new promise and nothing. Adios Amigo👋
BlessedByHim how are you doing now?
Wow 10 years is a long time.
How is everthing now?
Hallelujah i got my man who is a God sent. We married few months after meeting. 12 yrs now still together
"It's too late to have an interview after he's entered you. You said a mouth full, sir!
Thank you Lord for your grace! I'm so grateful that my Ishmael mistake doesn't disqualify me from my Isaac promise!
“The God sent and the Counterfeit start off looking the same, but their destinations are different. The Counterfeit always tries to make you compromise.” Good Word.
Preach on it! You know when God introduces you to your wife. He presents you what you have been believing Him for! That's called confirmation. Peace and love fam
Amen! So profound. God revealed a counterfeit to me.. I knew he was before but I kept ignoring it because I thought he was "righteous" and when he made mistakes he always said he's gonna pray about it and fix himself. All lies. And I kept making excuses but no more! God delivered me from investing any more time n I couldn't be more grateful. God is good! Love this video.. Just subscribed.. 😉 ☺ God bless!
I like these devotionals. I do believe God is merciful and gives us multiple chances. I also think that Moses being unable to walk into the promised land due to his continued disobedience is evidence that God will remove blessing from us If we keep purposely disobeying Him. Mistakes are one thing but repeated out right rebellion is something else. I've also seen this happen in my own life with various things I've asked God for but didn't receive because I didn't follow His instructions to Get it.
I've been married 34 years. I knew she was the one within 3 months. She has been faithful to me thru good times and bad times.
Thanks, that makes me feel better about my last breakup. :) I feel like I wasted a few years, but I guess everyone feels like that sometimes.
I agree with this video and the comments. There is also a flipside to be careful about- there was a man who wanted to marry me after 1 week, and he kept pushing to get married in the next 1-2 months, I kept saying let's get to know each other first. In the 2 months I noticed his behaviour being manipulative- he wanted to quit his job and make me work; he wanted me to get a skilled migration overseas so that HE could live his dream of moving there, and later saying he is bringing his abusive parents to come live with us (his mother used to hit his SIL) , and he was so stingy with money. Then he started playing mind games. I didnt need anymore time with him and RAN.
Long story short- some men are desperate to get married and it's got nothing to do with love either or thinking "you're the one". Even if it's romantic or you feel this person is the one, make sure the man is of high quality for you too
I’m just discovering this channel. This one episode confirmed that I made the right decision about cutting that joker loose. Thank God for ordering my steps. You guys are dope!! 🙂
“It’s too late to have a interview, after he’s entered you!” Mic 🎤 drop right here. 💙
Oh my GOD. Amen. I watched this twice. I’m putting this under my favorite videos.
As a single lady, I relate. Thank you for the honest, straight forward keeping it real approach!