How to deal when you don't feel valued? | Paano Ba 'To with Jodi Sta. Maria

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  • How to deal when you don't feel valued? When you feel lacking? Na kulang ka? One of my absolute dream guests, the wise and beautiful Jodi Sta. Maria gives wonderful advice.
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ความคิดเห็น • 307

  • @rosalieporciuncula4543
    @rosalieporciuncula4543 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pag ganyan Ang kausap mo ma tatameme ka talaga at makikinig ka talaga puno talaga Ng matalinghaga at edukasyon kung magpaliwanag SI Amor kaya napapahanga nya Ang mga nakakausap ni ms.jodi eh

  • @liliannieborski6714
    @liliannieborski6714 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOU'RE SPECIAL ALWAYS JODI. BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUTSIDE.💕💕💕

  • @benettonoller
    @benettonoller 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Our Value is not defined by those around us, your value comes from him 🙏😊🙌

  • @HanA-cw9tx
    @HanA-cw9tx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just love everything what Jodi said. Especially this... Hindi kailangan ng validition ng ibang tao to feel valued or to fill the emptiness. Sobrang totoo ito! 💜

  • @kerrwingarcines9204
    @kerrwingarcines9204 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    OF ALL THE VLOGGERS, YOUR CHANNEL MAKES ALL SENSE 💙

    • @mehmhe
      @mehmhe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totoo nman talaga to

  • @reygaza7671
    @reygaza7671 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Si LORD JESUS lng talagang makapagpapasaya sa atin,, wala ng iba..When you fill lonely because ikaw ay taken for granted ng mga tao sa paligid mo,, PRAY,PRAY at PRAY lng kasi kay Lord importante tayo 🙂♥️🙏

  • @oyzoe
    @oyzoe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Exactly what I need to hear at this moment of doubt. Getting myself together, thank you Ms. Jodi and Ms. Bianca! ❤️

  • @LungStrongHeart
    @LungStrongHeart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    obviously, Ms. Jodi is filled with the Holy Spirit. That answer she gave requires a LOT of wisdom, and wisdom comes from God.., I'm smiling the whole time she's talking. Ms. Bianca, maybe a part 2 with Ms. Jodi in the near future po sana.., this less than 6 minutes video will actually change a lot of people's view of their self worth 😊

  • @exodusmatthew7195
    @exodusmatthew7195 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    prang kahit maghapon kami mag usap ni jodi ayos lang. ❤️❤️ ang sarap sarap niya kausap. ❤️

  • @carlojacintollanes5946
    @carlojacintollanes5946 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A friend told me to watch this video.
    I am experiencing existential anxiety these past few weeks and I love what Miss Jody said "Our value is not defined by those around us, your value comes from Him (God)" I know in my heart that God loves us no matter what as long as you have a strong faith and you trust Him wholeheartedly.

  • @sheenaoser1357
    @sheenaoser1357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This vlog deserves a million views. Especially to millenials, we all need to hear these. Thank you Ate Jodi and Ate B ❤ Truly an eye-opener vlog.

  •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow naman sa anim na nagthumbs down sa video na to ha? Anong rason ithumbsdown ito? This is a life changing video kaya.

  • @shairaricalde7289
    @shairaricalde7289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We need part 2!!! Woman of words. Iba talaga si Ms. Jodi Sta. Maria

  • @cedezvillareal4110
    @cedezvillareal4110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sobrang galing talaga mag share ng wisdom ni Jodi 😘

  • @ykangrinmotokimiko5902
    @ykangrinmotokimiko5902 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Grabe yung wisdom ni jodi, ramdam mo din na si biro mga pinag daanan nya

  • @jasminebule4182
    @jasminebule4182 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I was so down this past few weeks and was crying every night because I feel that the other person doesn't value me but thanks to this video I'm finally awakened by the truth. Thank you, Miss Jodi and Bianca

  • @darkchocolat3lov3r58
    @darkchocolat3lov3r58 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A woman that is full of wisdom. 👏👏👏 galing talaga Jodi!

  • @bernadethsulo
    @bernadethsulo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Always remember: kay God sapat ka na. ❤ and we all have different timelines. Siguro yung iba nagshine na tapos ikaw hindi pa. Don't worry hindi ka nagiisa. We will have our time soon. Si God pa ba? He won't let you down. 🙏🏽😊❤ Thank you ate Bianca, another inspiring video. Always looking forward to next ones. 😁😁😁

    • @micahsilvestre9236
      @micahsilvestre9236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thats my mentality! God set a different timeline for each and everyone of us. Never compare, never question, never surrender. God plan is greater than ours.

    • @bernadethsulo
      @bernadethsulo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Micah Silvestre ❤️✨🙏🏽

  • @maamsarah2336
    @maamsarah2336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kaya love na love ko kayong dalawa beautiful inside and out. ❤️

  • @paulabelle8437
    @paulabelle8437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Grabe, I came accross this in such a perfect time. GOD IS GREAT talaga. Thank you Bianca for being an inspiration to many and of course Ms Jodi too! Love and light. BIG HUG! ❤️

  • @meriejoyparedes9762
    @meriejoyparedes9762 ปีที่แล้ว

    saktong sakto yung sinabi ni ms. Jodi..thank you sobrang nalinawan ako sa mga sinabi mo..at dahil jan lalo akong humahanga sayo..

  • @charissebugais4336
    @charissebugais4336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Maybe I am currently experiencing a spiritual dryness right now. The reason why I feel undervalued. Thank you for that helpful advice. :)

  • @ricafegalquin4412
    @ricafegalquin4412 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Simply but a good reminder who we belong!we are a child of God and we belong to Him😊

  • @sheeng2132
    @sheeng2132 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seek your worth from Him and let it radiate. When you finally found your own value, you no longer need other peoples validation. 😊😘

  • @christinerebustes02
    @christinerebustes02 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    iba talaga ang Ms. Jodi Sta. Maria super nakaka inspire at super nakaka encourage yung wisdom everytime she speak makikinig at makiiinig ka talaga. kaya thanks Ms. Bianca for guesting Ms. Jodi 💕👟 God Bless!

  • @aliahelijah1522
    @aliahelijah1522 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bagay talaga sayo ang pagiging Psychology kasi ang galing mong mag advice then parang ang gaan-gaan sa pakiramdam kapag ikaw ang kausap 😊 and pretty face too ❤

  • @alexispar1332
    @alexispar1332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    More of "Paano Ba Ito?" with Jodi Sta. Maria please, ate bianca :( Her pieces of advice are what teenagers truly need especially when faced with commitments.

  • @RAE-gb7ls
    @RAE-gb7ls 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ayyy ibaaa naman Ms.Jodi 💓

  • @shiemartin9632
    @shiemartin9632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Talino ni Ms Jody may sense ung mga sinasabi nya may wisdom...saktong sakto napakinggan ko sya ngayon kase ang bigat bigat ng nararamdaman ko

  • @JM-ux4uh
    @JM-ux4uh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I super agree with Jodie. Our value should not depend on other people. ❤️🙏

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA1013 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good Morning super B at sa lahat ng kapamilya!!! mahigpit na yakap sa lahat! ❤❤❤

  • @lorelaiscoffee7472
    @lorelaiscoffee7472 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Idol ko yann🤩🤩🤩🤩
    Hi ms. Jodi

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA1013 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    #LabanKapamilya #KapamilyaForever #AbsCbnForever

  • @virtualecho777
    @virtualecho777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    naiiyak ako salamat i needed this

  • @movablepoet8787
    @movablepoet8787 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    more of jodi please.. love her!!!

  • @shesjeanwanderer9948
    @shesjeanwanderer9948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Kelangan tong marinig ng mga tao. Talagang natututunan to through experience and time ❤️ ang galing 🙏🙏 salamat po

  • @imedsly8027
    @imedsly8027 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bingewatching rn. The most underrated channel ever! Pero im sure time will come na it magtretrend talaga tong channel nato

  • @lovelylove3264
    @lovelylove3264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am going through something that I can’t sleep and so i open instagram and immediately saw this. I was like, this is made for me 😱..It helps big time Biancs ang Jods! Thanks
    Glory be to God!

  • @jaycustodio6686
    @jaycustodio6686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ang ganda ng advice nya , totoo yun n empty k padin dahil gusto mo n validation s iba or maapreciate mg iba yung ginagawa mo , mgnda be yourself tlga mhirap mgpabibo kung ayaw nula sayo mas ayoko din s knila hahahha

  • @eugenemedina2570
    @eugenemedina2570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I've learned a lot... so thankful that I know up there 🙏 He valued us so much!!!

  • @senseiplazo9544
    @senseiplazo9544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Ms.B❤ Ms.Jodi

  • @josiebvlogs7458
    @josiebvlogs7458 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Naiyak nman ako.

  • @zekekasichiro-smith4725
    @zekekasichiro-smith4725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We always valued maybe not from other people, but with him (GOD) all the glory for him!

  • @fairygodbeauty9758
    @fairygodbeauty9758 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    One time nagdadate kami ng boyfriend ko. Saglit pa lang kami magkasama. Nag ayos ako para sa kanya. Tapos nagmamadali na siyang pumunta sa barkdada niya. I felt na hindi ako na valued noon 😔 ayun nag away kami. Nagwalk out ako hanggang sa naintindihan niya point ko. Nag sorry naman kaya ok na. Kaya please boys don't ever do this maliban na lang kung super urgent na talaga. Kasi nagpapakahirap kaming mag ayos para lang maging maganda sa paningin niyo. We also spent time sa kung ano bang isusuot namin. Hindi naman kasi ok lang na kumain kayo together tapos wala na maliban nga kung super urgent na talaga kaya need na umalis ng isa. Make a quality time together as in quality hangga't may time pa kung makakapag antay pa yung ibang bagay. And also kung magkasama kayo, I suggest na put down phones or just share a phone together like manood kayo ng tiktok videos. Hindi yung ganda ganda ng porma ng jowa mo, Nag effort yan para sayo tapos ikaw nag eeffort lang sa ml habang kasama siya? Huwag ganun. Nakakasakit din 😔

  • @wincesrivera6149
    @wincesrivera6149 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love both of them.. everytime they speak.. I learned a lot..

  • @mariemanalo4244
    @mariemanalo4244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We are valued by God regardless how people value us.

  • @IelleFaith
    @IelleFaith 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    C’mon jodiiii 💓💓

  • @isipmarielpaigem.2900
    @isipmarielpaigem.2900 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    love you both, sobrang inspirational nyong dalawa

  • @yvaine6811
    @yvaine6811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sooo true! The empty hole will only be fulfilled by our One true God. Always go back to where you are loved. And sabi nga nila, wala kang mabibigay pag ubos ka na. Kaya fill your love cup with the overflowing love from our Lord God ☝️ 😍

  • @foodsroutes6415
    @foodsroutes6415 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I currently feel the same. I feel im not valued, not enough, not sufficient. So this vid somehow helped me how im gonna handle myself/feeling. These 2 persons (Jodi & Bianca) are so sensible.

  • @nikkiejynebatista-ong577
    @nikkiejynebatista-ong577 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ang galing galing lang ni amor mag salita 😍💓

  • @hamphi0607
    @hamphi0607 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    im happy to listen to jodie santa maria ang miss bianca!! you are both great and you make sense!!

  • @johnmichaelaguilar2221
    @johnmichaelaguilar2221 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love u ms.Jodi and thanks ms.B! godbless to both of you

  • @quieniecabusas3847
    @quieniecabusas3847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sobrang nakangiti lang ako simula hangang dulo. Nakapa light lang talaga. Love u both 💕

  • @annebisyosa2748
    @annebisyosa2748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    now I know.. God will will fill my cup(emptiness in my heart) coz now I that way..but I believe in God's plan. everything happens for a reason.

  • @nicolesab-a3962
    @nicolesab-a3962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ang gandaaaa

  • @ralphisrael1374
    @ralphisrael1374 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We want mooooooore!!!
    Maraming salamat para dito, Jodi and Bianca ❤️

  • @Cdfghjik
    @Cdfghjik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is my everyday struggle sa totoo lang. :( thank you for this Ms. Bianca and Ms. Jodi. Will download this video and watch it every morning talaga. Thank you so much! ♥️

  • @ary.95
    @ary.95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ate Jodi is such an inspiring person to All ❤️🙏

  • @sheenyloureponte
    @sheenyloureponte 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The woman of substance ❤️

  • @jendechavez2928
    @jendechavez2928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is so true Ms. Jodi and Ms. B! That phrase na much better if that person "compliments" you and not "complete" you. Nabasa ko din po yan sa book ni Mandy Hale. And sobrang totoo po yun.. because you, yourself is already complete.

  • @mannalvarezesguerra2168
    @mannalvarezesguerra2168 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sana maraming ganitong vlogger. Gaganda ng content

  • @bettercurly
    @bettercurly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this. Jodi’s full of wisdom from the Lord ❤️🤗 God values us and this is the truth. We are faithfully and wonderfully made ✨

  • @wahtusy3519
    @wahtusy3519 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ang galing ni jodi❤❤❤

  • @mechelleprudencio475
    @mechelleprudencio475 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ,this is me right now.. and thank you so much. this is helpful for me.. ubos na ubos na po ako ei.. malapit na akong maghands-up.. more of this, please..

  • @ellecaponong1623
    @ellecaponong1623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Napaka right timing tlga ni Ms. Jodi!!🥺💙

  • @Hannah0523
    @Hannah0523 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is why I adore Jody. She is full pf wisdom. Thank you for this ladies. Made my feelings lift a bit.

  • @JingCLS
    @JingCLS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️❤️❤️ Sana may Love button sa You tube! Thank you so much for this! To God be the Glory!❤️❤️❤️

  • @TintinTomada
    @TintinTomada 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very thumbs up!

  • @noexcuses5524
    @noexcuses5524 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me parang si erich ang magandang tanungin nitong question

  • @chubiba4892
    @chubiba4892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am in this stage right now too and everything's on point Ms.Jodi! Thank you for that reminder..and thank you Bianca for your channel. It inspires a lot of people.. ❤️

  • @user-qv2ju7uj8s
    @user-qv2ju7uj8s 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let go, and Let God. ❤️

  • @jakerichardlevida8014
    @jakerichardlevida8014 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    God Bless you more and More ate Bianca❤️

  • @jeckyubsubansalon2108
    @jeckyubsubansalon2108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love it

  • @SarahManalo
    @SarahManalo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sakto tong topic sa akin 👍😁😍

  • @IelleFaith
    @IelleFaith 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ganda niyooo huhu

  • @DarlDelluta
    @DarlDelluta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sobrang na inspire ako sa Channel mo Bianca. You are doing a great job in changing people's lives. I started doing my own channel din to inspire ordinary people like me. Keep up the good work. God is with you. 😊

  • @miss_rowena
    @miss_rowena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh wow, my fave vlog yet. More of Jodi puhleez. Love you both 😍

  • @theworldofar1680
    @theworldofar1680 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    True. I experienced this now. I did everything just to be valued in terms of my career. Because its my source of livelihood. So , i have to do my best, and sad to say i felt like im not valued.
    What i did is pray and in the right time everything will fall into its right places. I owe it all to him.

  • @jecidy_1186
    @jecidy_1186 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen..
    Super Exactly Jodi.

  • @tinylittle121
    @tinylittle121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gumaan ang pakiramdam ko, thanks to ms jodi very inspiring advise. Thanks also to bianca.

  • @michellepujalte1124
    @michellepujalte1124 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More please!!!!

  • @Geebee2024
    @Geebee2024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always looking beautiful ate biancs! 🧡

  • @jeanalynalinsob
    @jeanalynalinsob 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super like ko miss jodi yung advice mu naka ka inspire

  • @arleenabdulraheemfakhori1048
    @arleenabdulraheemfakhori1048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what we all need to hear♥️

  • @marygianmacalinao2550
    @marygianmacalinao2550 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I could like this video a hundred times more. Oh boy... 👌👌👌😁😁😊😊😊 more of this please

  • @jhen494
    @jhen494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's different when you are in a relationship, esp when your partner or husband is so self centered or narcissist

  • @balonaramainep.6032
    @balonaramainep.6032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Finally! Been waiting for this 💕thank you so much ❤

  • @anneelizabeth7469
    @anneelizabeth7469 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I super love this! 😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @sheentheexplorer3859
    @sheentheexplorer3859 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just got out of a rut ❤️ I’m still healing. Thanks for this Ms Bianca and Jodi 💕

  • @joyreyes2027
    @joyreyes2027 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If my value will depend on other people, hindi matitigil itong nararamdaman ko. :) ♡♡♡

  • @KentotTravels
    @KentotTravels 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yay may ads na Congrats B 🎉🎉🎉 syempre no skip ad 😉

  • @renantepascua1556
    @renantepascua1556 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jodi is such an inspiration. ❤

  • @raquelsaguano3236
    @raquelsaguano3236 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ang sarap pakinggan....

  • @misshanky4975
    @misshanky4975 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So timely! 😍 thanks for this

  • @abbyrelovaaa
    @abbyrelovaaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much Ms. Jodi 💕

  • @ionolired5585
    @ionolired5585 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Napa subscribe tuloy aq thanks miss Jodie God bless you and ate Bianca 🥰

  • @annierosesuobiron4958
    @annierosesuobiron4958 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really need these words!! thank you Ms. B and Ms. J! 🤗🤗🤗

  • @sheenamaecatangui1725
    @sheenamaecatangui1725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much wisdom ☀💖

  • @lettyentea3802
    @lettyentea3802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this..