My heart goes out to Shikhar Dhawan who has shown all throughout this turmoil what a gem of a person he is. My respect for him has grown many folds. As for his ex-wife I would only like to tell her that “karma will catch U” for deceiving a good man.
Ayesha, comes across as a Sociopath! And Shikhar comes across as too Bhola-Bhala! Why did he buy so many immovable properties in Australia that too in the name of that Sociopath? Why so much of generosity? And wonder what kind of understanding he had with her to be convinced that she is the right woman to his wife? She already had her house in Australia. Here 2 kids from the first marriage are Australian citizens. She was getting Alimony from her 1st husband. It seems she didn't have any honest plan to shift to Bharat after marriage to Shikhar. She was lying if she said so. I repeat, Shikhar comes across as too Bhola-Bhala! And he paid the price for it.
@@rajupatnaik7776bhola bhala bro is that a word people fell in love they fell deep they believe these is the person who can spend whole life with me sometime they fell in love with wrong person that doesn't mean they are bhola bhala don't use these term. It's not bhola bhala it's like they betrayed with person who doesn't care about there fealings.
Those who think that men should suffer because women in the past have suffered at the hands of men is like saying that a person should be punished for the crime committed by his father. Support equality, not reverse discrimination..
Well said if those women think that now men should suffer then what's the difference between them and the past generation men?Only times have passed but the roles have reversed. Women need to realize that not all men are same..there are a lot of innocent men who are suffering because of their revenge on some men
I guess it's high time for men in India to become more aware about their rights as a husband. Also they should unite and start approaching the lawmakers to make laws more equal rather than being heavily biased against men.
@@venktesh6600 national commission for men and state commissions for men would be addressing men's problems, social, cultural, legal, financial and political. They would have to undertake research on men's problems, suicide rates, causes, solutions, political and social oppression of men etc.
Good Job, 👏👏👍 I'm a Girl. This type of cases or matter should be discussed on social media platforms. Equality & justice is the right of Every human. No discrimination. No exploitation.
Shikhar got attracted to her physically and she knew it. Shikhar could have married a much better woman. When you have a lot of money, be careful about who you marry. Shikhar is a nice man. Hope he starts playing cricket for India again.
@@Geniere10 Whatever reason he married her for, he still did not mistreat her like the way she did. Every woman actually wants a husband who is loving but also financially secure but some women are very greedy and wicked.
@@vinaybhade7046 mistreatment is not the bar for setting any kind of standards! The wickedness of women still cannot parallel the evil of wicked men in general. The kind of widespread cynicism, violence & destruction evil men bring is unparalleled in this world.
If the life of the wife is destroyed due to the adultery of the husband, the court will grant alimony to the wife, even if the husband is a wage laborer and the wife is a government employee, but the wife does the same. If the husband's life is destroyed due to his wife's adultery, why is the husband not allowed alimony in return? Look, here the wife is in government service and the husband is a wage earner. It is not right to have two laws for the same fault, male and female.
I also have a feeling he was a massive pro fmnist kind of man....who used to ridicule guys talking about issues faced by men. I have seen a lot of those types...... they keep supporting pro fmnist stuff to get praises from women around and show themselves as some kind of singham,,,.....till they get personally destroyed by biased laws that they supported.
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230not really, it was initially a movement for equality. But now, especially in India, it has gone completely out of hand and become synonymous to male bashing
@@trustdivine2611 it was never a movement for the good of society. After the industrial revolution, as more mechanisation happened, all of a sudden in the western world, women started demanding "equality". They wanted to work outside and earn like men. Until the industrial revolution happened, women were quite happy to work inside the house. Post second world war, there was a shortage of men to work in factories and the capitalists decided that they should hire women to fill this gap. And hence they started funding feminists to promote their deviant concept of "women should be equal to men and for that they should work like men". How can such a agenda be good for society which banks on one sided misinformation and false notions? And it is bankrolled by vested interests
Being a woman i feel bad for shikar men shud be very careful while choosing their partners do not give away or blindly trust anyone especially be careful with ur money
There's a saying in Punjabi - " Raah pya jaaniye jaa waah pya jaaniye" meaning you get to know about real nature of a person only after dealing with him/her, not before that by just meeting a few times..
@@siddhant3093 , that Punjabi saying is a self-evident truth! Ayesha, comes across as a Sociopath! And Shikhar comes across as too Bhola-Bhala! Why did he buy so many immovable properties in Australia that too in the name of that Sociopath? Why so much of generosity? And wonder what kind of understanding he had with her to be convinced that she is the right woman to be his wife? She already had her house in Australia. Her 2 kids from the first marriage are Australian citizens. She was getting Alimony from her 1st husband. It seems she didn't have any honest plan to shift to Bharat after marriage to Shikhar. She was lying if she said so. I repeat, Shikhar comes across as too Bhola-Bhala! And he paid the price for it.
@@siddhant3093 , but I don't feel sad for Shikhar. And I have already explained why. He is too भोला-भला...complete simpleton! Ayesha took advantage of this quality. Here's something you mayn't know: Shikhar Dhawan & Ayesha bought 3 immovable properties in Australia with their joint ownership. 2 were sold and Ayesha kept all the money with her. She also demanded that the 3rd property be transferred in her name. Shocking! Unbelievable! That is what Shekhar had complained about in a report I'd read. He is a भोला-भला अनाड़ी!
i say never never marry such a woman...you will always come at 2nd number...she will always put her child before you.... she will traumatise your life like hell
No offense to any women but according to me a man should NEVER marry a divorced woman. But in case if a man really wants to marry a divorced woman please check her background and why her previous husband left her or why they divorced what was the reason behind it. For Example Md. Shami(cricketer) Shikhar Dhawan (Cricketer) There are many more countless cases.
To be very honest, I saw a tweet of u yesterday and I just thought that if Raj does a podcast with deepika mam, I wanted to dm you to bring her on ur show and now u have already made it, what a co incedence.
I could not be agreed more on this point which she mention in this podcast. finally someone has so far I have seen address this wrong perceptive about feminist.
@himani. It's obvious that girls or women will never agree on many points that suit for men. 99 % girls or women will always support another girl or woman. Unfortunately boys or men communities have not supporters for their own community like girls or women have support for their own community whether that particular girl is wrong or right. So let's it happen. Women should hate men and men should hate women. This war will either end inequalities or will end this mankind. After that no woman would have any complain agaisnt men and No man would have any complain against women. So don't support men. As we won't support women.
Sad you came up with that conclusion. The point is treat each individual as individual and not as gender.. treat each case as a case and not as a generalised fact. One should have enough intelligence to judge each situation in its entirety and not let that situation be a basis of judgement or stereotype.
If you are married and have kids then you are fully screwed. Doesn't matter how much verbally & psychologically abusive your wife is, how much she demeans you, blackmails you, disrespects you, calls you names, calls you a "piece of shit" you cannot do anything to her, even if the thought of raising a little finger towards her crosses your mind, she will pick up the phone and call police and then not just you, but your Mum, Dad and siblings .. all will be behind bars. Even after Divorce you will end up giving away around 75% of your property value to her and give maintenance money towards Alimony, kids expenses and you only get to see your own Kids based on her conditions. Marriage is a BAD BAD CONTRACT. Men should never sign up for this, whatever delusion of LOVE you feel before Marriage will evaporate soon after Marriage and reality hits you with baseball bat behind your head. You have to be really LUCKY to get a reasonable and rational wife these days. To my fellow Men, please please please .. Don't get married until this Women biased laws are fixed. There's only 20-30% chance you get a sane wife these days, rest 70-80% men are screwed and have to suffer in silence, there's no way out
Jis tarah Ram aur Ravan me fark h. Usi tarah Sita aur supnakha me bhi fark h. I mean to say any individual can be anything good or bad. Both genders can be good or leathal.
@@healthwisdom7665 the problem is the laws and we as a society have made a much poorer choice by adopting feminism and its draconian anti men laws. Lets address the root of evil. Not bark at some guy here and there. Because feminism and its laws not just mess up relationships, a random lady on the street can send you to jail on a mere allegation without proof. Its not even your choice. And you can't judge anybody then. What will you do then?
@@healthwisdom7665 even if men have women with a past or baggage, if the laws are fair and balanced, there won't be any problem. With bad laws, even women with zero baggage will create huge problems.
this mantra is only accepted in countries where men are weak to core,after being brought up by feminist mothers or surrounded by people who are henpecked right from their birth...salient examples are west and India...thankfully other part of world is still unharmed or safe from this monster called feminism
We never need some laws written on a piece of paper to make us equal to someone we know we are superior than woman its only about time when a women realizes the truth that men are much much stronger than them but unfortunately realization comes when they get physically assaulted by a maniac man and apart from crying and begging for help they cant do anything.😂😂
I am really waiting for a day where I'd be able to see Shikhar being blessed with what's due. Went through so much even the recent most retirement felt very sad. Idk how long but hopefully soon he gets to feel happy and leads a really fulfilling life❤❤
Kudos Mam and Raj! You just made a whole lot bunch of men so happy and healed with this one video! Hardly we see media and specially women voicing their opinions on hardships against men! Not all Men are bad! Not all Women are good! Let us start see every person as an 'individual' rather than gender!
My family is also suffering because of my bhabhi 😢 hum logon ne apne bhai ki shadi uski hi marzi se karwayi. Bahot khush the hum log😢. Bhabhi k maa baap nhi h ye soch kar aur b jyada pyaar diya mere maa baap ne usse aur shadi m kuch b nhi liya unki trf se. Fir dhire dhire wo mere bhai k liy ladayi k bahane bnane lgi. Ek pvt naukri krti thi aur daily subah kisi aur male collegue k sath office jati thi😢. Mera bhai jb usse office chhodne ki baat krta toh mana kr deti😢 aur helmet utha k roz subah kisi aur k sath jati. Ye sb bhi mummy papa ne dekha aur kuch nhi bola. Fir jb mummy papa ghr nhi hote toh wo bahot ldti mere bhai se aur ab shadi k 2 saal baad bina kisi wjah usne jhutha case kr diya h court m divorce k liy ☹️ aur kehti h ya bahar 5 lakh m settle krdo ya case krungi. Mere maa baap bhai shareef hai. Inhone kuch kiya b nhi fir ye sab dekhne ko kyu mil rha h☹️☹️. Usne jhutha case kiya mummy or bhai k khilaf aur uske paas abhi tk sabit krne k liy koi proof b nhi h. Mere maa baap jinhone itne pese ulta inki shadi pr lga loye 25-30 lakh. Aur bdle m kuch nhi manga na liya. Shadi k baad b unke khrche uthate rhe aaj unhe ye sb dekhne ko milra h😭😭. Pta nhi kyu ache logon k sath bura hota h. Muje toh ab pta chlta h ki ldkiya jhutge case bhi krti h orr fsa skti hai.
Abhee woh dowry case karegi aur tumhare maata pita ke oopar domestic violence ka case bhee lagayegi. Yehii hotaa hei bharat mein aur koi political party iskey khilaaf action leney ko raaji nahee hei
sc st ko saare rights hain yaha tak ki general se bhi jyada. fer bhi agar unke andar capacity nhi hain khud ko saabit karne ki to usmein general kya kare. kal ko agar 10 saal baad ya 15 saal baad reseravation khatam ho gya to fer sc st niche a jayenge.
@waytoofficer6201 Ishiliye humare bade bujurg kahake gaye hein kisi society mein education ko hamesha top priority mein rakhni chahiye. Jo ki SC/ST walon ne kiya hi nahi hey pichle 75 salon mein
@@ayushmankar4100 unhe kbhi krne diya gya? they were treated worse than animals grow up kiddo and stop crying about reservation. PEOPLE LIKE YOU EXIST BECAUSE WE DONT TOUCH THE TOPIC OF UNTOUCHABILITY.
Actully SC ST still stucked in old religion. It is easy to manipulate them on the basis of religion. I really appreciate my ancestor they embrace Buddhism. Now we are ahead in literacy and in progress. If we had huge land like the upper caste have, we would achieved lot more.
At the first place why these kinds of concept came into picture, everyone's situation is different and you have to treat tthose situation differently.. Sometimes mens are right and sometime women..
By being aware. If a celebrity can be affected, what about ordinary men? Any woman can file a rape case on you and doesn't require proof. You will be arrested and jailed.
Wrong God did not created men and women equally Men are physically stronger emotionally stable and women are physically weaker and emotionally labile But that doesn't mean women cannot do what man can If she can then it's the ability of a woman that she stood up with extraordinary talent and power
Wrong women cannot do everything that man can that's why sports are separated and in army men fight battle also even in chess like sports women have seprate category despite of an open catogery.change your mentality of feminist
Yesterday I went to a shop located bang opposite Tirumala shopping centre ,Andheri. A girl about 24-28 age, was dressed in a shirt and jeans with the shirt hanging loosely off shoulder, and the condescending behavior of hers to the salesman was like "Quick, quick, quick, jaldi Karo Karo, ye bata, wo bata", ....it was highly irritating to see her behaving extremely badly to the simple salesman, I wish I could tell her straight to behave nicely. But this can happen only if laws are equal.
Always observed in 38years, men not respect themselves, myself being men agree that we men are more emotional than women. Men must understand women evolutionary nature
The problem with men is that they are still caught up in the 10th century mentality of protecting and providing women and think of women as devis, goddesses, morally superior to men, and that women are weak. And men think about their families while women think about themselves. Women have moved onto the 30th century. I know many women having extra marital relationships and their husbands can't even figure it out. Even in front of them, the wives chat with their boy friends and the husband doesn't even know about it. It is done so discreetly. And if at all he finds it out, she will file dowry case, rape case etc. Men need to update their software. Stop living in the 10th century
Equality ke chakar mein mard barbaad ho raha hai. Justice is important rather than equality. Aurat ki apni qualities n strength hai aur mard ki apni qualities aur strength hai. Celebrate the difference.
Women are highly manipulative by nature and evolution. And men are getting manipulated due to their weakness of sex and women. And men are today living in the 10th century culture and customs protecting and providing women whereas women have moved onto the 30th century manipulating men all the time, playing the victim card, using women card and making false sexual harassment allegations against men, drawing the attention of the public, gathering a mob and getting the man thrashed for nothing.
Whether it is feminism or reservation, in todays date it is not at all equality or equity. It has now become anti men and anti Brahmins and other castes.
We are a screwed up society which creates a new and bigger problem on the opposite side while solving one. Thats in short feminism and its affects for you.
My wife deserted my 5 yr old son and me in 2014. 10 years later, when i seek divorce , my kid and me are harrassed by our own law. Cases against me and kid is forced to go to her house every vacation after 10 years. What kind of men will we raise like this.
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230bro feminism se phle ek word hota hai common sense waise toh gender neutral hota hai but the amount of comments jo iss comment section hai usko dekh k lgta nahi hai ki common . Comment section me har kisi ne apna judgement de diye. When then maybe men are judgemental and aggressive. Women are also human like men accept that. 😢
@@shrawaniverma4454 u just said bunch of bs to look morally superior than men 🤔 EQUALITY ki definition pehle padh le behen fir ye sasta feminist monologue ya speech dena !!! Feminism is not about equality anymore the funny thing is I m not even pro patriarchy because I know there are men who will punish or abuse their power but feminism believes in matriarchy , no Feminists wants to talk about fake r*pe allegations , no feminists is preaching for father's parental right , no Feminists wants to talk about patriarchal standards are actually harmful n hypocrite for men 🤔 no feminist page or channels are talking about good dads , brothers or husbands They don't want EQUALITY they just wants superiority just like u clearly expressed in your comment... औरत को इंसान मानते मानते मर्द को ही जानवर potray कर दिया इस छीछोरे empowerment ने !!! " Men are judgemental n aggressive " ???? Wow !!!! जब किसी r*pist या महिला के साथ कोई गलत हरकत करे और बाकी मर्द बोले की तुम्हे की तुम aggresive or judgemental हो तो कैसा लगेगा तुम्हे ????? 🤔 तो जब आदमी बुरी औरतो के लिये बुरा बोले तो तुम्हारे गुरदे क्यू छिल रहे हैं बहन ??? 😆 मतलब अब बूरी औरतो को बूरा बोलना भी misogny बन गया ??? तुम आदमी को इंसान समझती हो या कोई प्लास्टिक जीस मे कोई emotions नहीं है ?? जिस को दुःख नहीं होता ? गुस्सा नही आता गलत बात पर ??? पहले आदमी को तो इंसान समझ फिर बाद में ये इन्सानियत का ग्यान बाट
Women were never suppress historically There is nothing like patriarchy In different periods in history different qualities are given importance by the society earlier physical strength and ability to kill to defend oneself was of prime importance and those not having the physical strength were at the bottom of the social order, women being weaker than men were lower than men in social order When society develops some other qualities matter more than physical strength and a different set of people flourish So all this theory of women subjugation is simply base on wrong presumptions
This video has a very balanced approach... But I look forward to red flags in men which young girls are unable to detect.... What should be the first step a woman or a girl should do when she is abused. Also have discussion on emotional abuse men do on women and vice versa... As it has been said in society, if you can't prove it there is no domestic violence. Men after some time realise such behavior and try to get out of it... But women/girls don't even realise that they are being emotionally abused.... So they never protest too
Pls read Indian laws, there are plenty of laws which protects women and not a single law for protection of men.. pls raise ur voice for helpless men who are suffer!ng..
Pls read Indian laws, there are plenty of laws which protects women and not a single law for protect!on of men.. pls raise ur voice for helpless men who are suffer!ng..
Time has come when the men of India, need laws for themselves against the atrocities of women in a marriage otherwise the saga of misery of men will continue
"I am not a feminist but that does not mean I dont stand for equality" What else does she think feminism means? It is ofc fundamentally for the equal rights of women (since women were the suppressed class for a long time). When one stands for equal rights for women, one is a feminist. All other definitions of it are false. She does not associate herself with the word because of the damage it caused? Going by that logic, she must be against freedom of speech too. Just because some people misused the word for their convenience, it does not invalidate or change what the movement stands for. Not hearing the rest of what she has to say after that line.
Who ever does wrong should be punished irrespective of gender bias. Our society should change the way it treats right from birth. Equality in all respects should be the way of life. A healthy n a happy society is only possible with treating right people with right way irrespective of gender, I guess, since it is not possible, good men n good women continue to suffer...what a tragic or shoul I say terrific, our society that we reside is now😮
It's not that easy. Bolne se nhi hota. rn this has been an almost natural thought to think down of women and vice versa for both the genders. Men are physiologically speaking less fragile than women. But the fact that women despite of physiological and emotional barriers do things that a man does should be appreciated and is worth respecting for.
Shikar Dhawan k sath bahut hi bura hua magar kisi channel pe iske bare me baat hi nahi Hui ye hoti hai hypocrisy or ultra feminist ya kahu ultra sick mentality feminist
My heart goes out to Shikhar Dhawan who has shown all throughout this turmoil what a gem of a person he is. My respect for him has grown many folds. As for his ex-wife I would only like to tell her that “karma will catch U” for deceiving a good man.
Ayesha, comes across as a Sociopath! And Shikhar comes across as too Bhola-Bhala!
Why did he buy so many immovable properties in Australia that too in the name of that Sociopath? Why so much of generosity? And wonder what kind of understanding he had with her to be convinced that she is the right woman to his wife?
She already had her house in Australia. Here 2 kids from the first marriage are Australian citizens. She was getting Alimony from her 1st husband. It seems she didn't have any honest plan to shift to Bharat after marriage to Shikhar. She was lying if she said so.
I repeat, Shikhar comes across as too Bhola-Bhala! And he paid the price for it.
@@rajupatnaik7776true
@@rajupatnaik7776Yes Shikar was simp...he said now he had learned
@@rajupatnaik7776bhola bhala bro is that a word people fell in love they fell deep they believe these is the person who can spend whole life with me sometime they fell in love with wrong person that doesn't mean they are bhola bhala don't use these term. It's not bhola bhala it's like they betrayed with person who doesn't care about there fealings.
@@vinitkadam8196 , your comment is nothing but a piece of Joke! You yourself are another Bhola-bhala!
Those who think that men should suffer because women in the past have suffered at the hands of men is like saying that a person should be punished for the crime committed by his father. Support equality, not reverse discrimination..
Well said I am impressed bro 👏
Well said if those women think that now men should suffer then what's the difference between them and the past generation men?Only times have passed but the roles have reversed. Women need to realize that not all men are same..there are a lot of innocent men who are suffering because of their revenge on some men
This same is applying on general category today😌😌
@@commandercruger6778 +1
Siddhant, you've hit the Bulls' Eye!
That perverse argument is usually spoken by Pseudo-feminists and scatterbrained females !
Even shami a cricketer also facing same problem and many indian men are facing problem with biased law.
Shami is not genuine, rather he was a cheater.
I guess it's high time for men in India to become more aware about their rights as a husband. Also they should unite and start approaching the lawmakers to make laws more equal rather than being heavily biased against men.
Yes, we should do it.
And men should stop thinking about women, chasing women, protecting and providing women.
But the problem is no one will care. Not the law system not the govt
There are rights for men/husband in India.
@@healthwisdom7665government doesn't give a shit about anything.
The movie "Pyaar ka Panchnama" tried to expose this issue but most feminist termed the movie director as misogynist.
Anything or anyone that expose them are termed misogynietic that's their way of threatening anyone from raising their voice for truth.
Feminists are Misandry
Shikar's story start @ 4:45
Thanks
Thanks bro
Feel sad for him❤️❤️
thanks
Thanks
Even though court rejected the idea of National Commission for Men. I strongly believe there should be one.
Judges are funded by feminists what can you expect
whats the National commission for mens role or agenda?
@@venktesh6600 national commission for men and state commissions for men would be addressing men's problems, social, cultural, legal, financial and political. They would have to undertake research on men's problems, suicide rates, causes, solutions, political and social oppression of men etc.
Good Job, 👏👏👍
I'm a Girl.
This type of cases or matter should be discussed on social media platforms.
Equality & justice is the right of
Every human.
No discrimination. No exploitation.
What a refreshing thing to hear! You're a reasonable person!
@@PrasenjeetKumarAuthor Thanks for Appreciating 👍
That's so great, someone clearly communicating the real problem of today's society
It happened same with me in india, I last seen my son when he was 4 years, now he is 22 years.
What are you doing sir..... respect for you patience ❤❤
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Her take on feminism is really true! As a woman I want equality and don't want to demean men.
Mam thank you for bringing the difference between equality and feminism
Shikhar got attracted to her physically and she knew it. Shikhar could have married a much better woman. When you have a lot of money, be careful about who you marry. Shikhar is a nice man. Hope he starts playing cricket for India again.
Bhai Harbhajan Singh ne milvaya tha Ayesha se Shikhar ko pehli baar.😢😢😢
Yeah you’re absolutely right! There’s no need paint him as a monk. Nice man, sure but he also married her for superficial reasons
@@Geniere10 Whatever reason he married her for, he still did not mistreat her like the way she did. Every woman actually wants a husband who is loving but also financially secure but some women are very greedy and wicked.
@@vinaybhade7046 mistreatment is not the bar for setting any kind of standards! The wickedness of women still cannot parallel the evil of wicked men in general. The kind of widespread cynicism, violence & destruction evil men bring is unparalleled in this world.
@@genuineboy2582harbhajan ne milwaya tha lene ke leye ye thodina bola tha shaadi kar lo
If rules will be baised towards women, there will be a time men will avoid or stop marrying.
Yes’s
It's already happening bro..
Will avoid? Men are avoiding getting married because of these shambolic laws
If the life of the wife is destroyed due to the adultery of the husband, the court will grant alimony to the wife, even if the husband is a wage laborer and the wife is a government employee, but the wife does the same. If the husband's life is destroyed due to his wife's adultery, why is the husband not allowed alimony in return? Look, here the wife is in government service and the husband is a wage earner. It is not right to have two laws for the same fault, male and female.
I met a girl on Bumble and this entire episode lasted for two months & i must say those two months were the darkest days of my life.
What ?
Shikhar Dhawan case - teaches us never marry a divorce woman , or divorce woman with kids is a big no...
exactly bro exactly
Exactly right
I also have a feeling he was a massive pro fmnist kind of man....who used to ridicule guys talking about issues faced by men.
I have seen a lot of those types...... they keep supporting pro fmnist stuff to get praises from women around and show themselves as some kind of singham,,,.....till they get personally destroyed by biased laws that they supported.
Then what about anil kumble. I wonder why highlight it in this way just because one is wrong doesn't mean others are too.
@@exo-lyeolmae What about Shami then?
I think Shekhar Dhawan got dealt very bad cards but i think his son is an Australian citizen now.
Someone truly said that over the years Feminism has become synonymous with hating men
Feminism was always a hate movement
Absolutely
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 it wasn't it has turned into hate by today's so-called influencer
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230not really, it was initially a movement for equality. But now, especially in India, it has gone completely out of hand and become synonymous to male bashing
@@trustdivine2611 it was never a movement for the good of society. After the industrial revolution, as more mechanisation happened, all of a sudden in the western world, women started demanding "equality". They wanted to work outside and earn like men. Until the industrial revolution happened, women were quite happy to work inside the house. Post second world war, there was a shortage of men to work in factories and the capitalists decided that they should hire women to fill this gap. And hence they started funding feminists to promote their deviant concept of "women should be equal to men and for that they should work like men". How can such a agenda be good for society which banks on one sided misinformation and false notions? And it is bankrolled by vested interests
The truth has been spoken! Thank you
Raj absolutely stunning podcast. This PODCAST gives lot of awareness to our youth.
A huge salute to the lady. What a wonderfully balanced view of the men vs women situation!!
Being a woman i feel bad for shikar men shud be very careful while choosing their partners do not give away or blindly trust anyone especially be careful with ur money
There's a saying in Punjabi - " Raah pya jaaniye jaa waah pya jaaniye" meaning you get to know about real nature of a person only after dealing with him/her, not before that by just meeting a few times..
@siddhant3093 yes but still check on her behavior sometimes it's very important I know it sometimes is fate we can't do anything
@@siddhant3093 , that Punjabi saying is a self-evident truth!
Ayesha, comes across as a Sociopath! And Shikhar comes across as too Bhola-Bhala!
Why did he buy so many immovable properties in Australia that too in the name of that Sociopath? Why so much of generosity? And wonder what kind of understanding he had with her to be convinced that she is the right woman to be his wife?
She already had her house in Australia. Her 2 kids from the first marriage are Australian citizens. She was getting Alimony from her 1st husband. It seems she didn't have any honest plan to shift to Bharat after marriage to Shikhar. She was lying if she said so.
I repeat, Shikhar comes across as too Bhola-Bhala! And he paid the price for it.
@@rajupatnaik7776 I feel sad for him bro..
@@siddhant3093 , but I don't feel sad for Shikhar. And I have already explained why.
He is too भोला-भला...complete simpleton! Ayesha took advantage of this quality.
Here's something you mayn't know:
Shikhar Dhawan & Ayesha bought 3 immovable properties in Australia with their joint ownership. 2 were sold and Ayesha kept all the money with her. She also demanded that the 3rd property be transferred in her name.
Shocking! Unbelievable!
That is what Shekhar had complained about in a report I'd read. He is a भोला-भला अनाड़ी!
Someone finally said it....thank you so much ma'am💗
Marrying a single/divorced mother is like playing another man’s saved game 💀
i say never never marry such a woman...you will always come at 2nd number...she will always put her child before you.... she will traumatise your life like hell
😂
Very sad for your father...😂😂..
Your mother is like hell😂
No offense to any women but according to me a man should NEVER marry a divorced woman. But in case if a man really wants to marry a divorced woman please check her background and why her previous husband left her or why they divorced what was the reason behind it.
For Example Md. Shami(cricketer)
Shikhar Dhawan (Cricketer)
There are many more countless cases.
To be very honest, I saw a tweet of u yesterday and I just thought that if Raj does a podcast with deepika mam, I wanted to dm you to bring her on ur show and now u have already made it, what a co incedence.
Confident on my mind set ...msdhoni kiss no problem 😊
Laws need to be equal.
Right now it's heavily biased against men
They want equality in every thing but laws
Women never wanted equality. They always wanted superiority and privileges
After 4:50 minutes the shikhar dhawan case starts
I could not be agreed more on this point which she mention in this podcast. finally someone has so far I have seen address this wrong perceptive about feminist.
@himani. It's obvious that girls or women will never agree on many points that suit for men. 99 % girls or women will always support another girl or woman. Unfortunately boys or men communities have not supporters for their own community like girls or women have support for their own community whether that particular girl is wrong or right.
So let's it happen. Women should hate men and men should hate women. This war will either end inequalities or will end this mankind. After that no woman would have any complain agaisnt men and No man would have any complain against women.
So don't support men. As we won't support women.
Feminism was never about what was right. Feminism was always about oppression of men, spreading hate and are funded by the deep state.
Feminist ☕️
Keep going Raj ✨✨You are an amazing person and handsome too❤️
Im so glad you are speaking up for men too
Simple thing don't marry a woman who is already married ? e.g Shikhar Dhawan, Mohd Shami.
Sad you came up with that conclusion. The point is treat each individual as individual and not as gender.. treat each case as a case and not as a generalised fact. One should have enough intelligence to judge each situation in its entirety and not let that situation be a basis of judgement or stereotype.
If you are married and have kids then you are fully screwed. Doesn't matter how much verbally & psychologically abusive your wife is, how much she demeans you, blackmails you, disrespects you, calls you names, calls you a "piece of shit" you cannot do anything to her, even if the thought of raising a little finger towards her crosses your mind, she will pick up the phone and call police and then not just you, but your Mum, Dad and siblings .. all will be behind bars. Even after Divorce you will end up giving away around 75% of your property value to her and give maintenance money towards Alimony, kids expenses and you only get to see your own Kids based on her conditions. Marriage is a BAD BAD CONTRACT. Men should never sign up for this, whatever delusion of LOVE you feel before Marriage will evaporate soon after Marriage and reality hits you with baseball bat behind your head. You have to be really LUCKY to get a reasonable and rational wife these days. To my fellow Men, please please please .. Don't get married until this Women biased laws are fixed. There's only 20-30% chance you get a sane wife these days, rest 70-80% men are screwed and have to suffer in silence, there's no way out
Correct
Baap re ❤
We need men's rights movement, mens liberation and empowerment
Show name which she is talking about
Because of these women.. innocent girls suffer 😢😢
These are women abusers not victim
Jis tarah Ram aur Ravan me fark h. Usi tarah Sita aur supnakha me bhi fark h.
I mean to say any individual can be anything good or bad. Both genders can be good or leathal.
First thing why did he marry an already divorced lady with children. He would have married a better girl
That's his choice. The problem lies with the anti men laws. Address that
That correct men should never have women with baggage or past
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 if thats his choice then he made a very poor choice
@@healthwisdom7665 the problem is the laws and we as a society have made a much poorer choice by adopting feminism and its draconian anti men laws. Lets address the root of evil. Not bark at some guy here and there. Because feminism and its laws not just mess up relationships, a random lady on the street can send you to jail on a mere allegation without proof. Its not even your choice. And you can't judge anybody then. What will you do then?
@@healthwisdom7665 even if men have women with a past or baggage, if the laws are fair and balanced, there won't be any problem. With bad laws, even women with zero baggage will create huge problems.
shikhar is an example of happy man to the world, but destroyed inside
feel really sympathetic for him
Women had suffered in the past.but today after seeing many situations a question arrises is that "are men the new women"😌😌
this mantra is only accepted in countries where men are weak to core,after being brought up by feminist mothers or surrounded by people who are henpecked right from their birth...salient examples are west and India...thankfully other part of world is still unharmed or safe from this monster called feminism
We never need some laws written on a piece of paper to make us equal to someone we know we are superior than woman its only about time when a women realizes the truth that men are much much stronger than them but unfortunately realization comes when they get physically assaulted by a maniac man and apart from crying and begging for help they cant do anything.😂😂
How women has suffered and oppressed?
Even today many heroins marry business man when their is carrier is downfall
@@VarunTomee-kr6nfwow😂😂😂 how women suffer?? Really u dunno ? Den u need to educate yourself
I am really waiting for a day where I'd be able to see Shikhar being blessed with what's due. Went through so much even the recent most retirement felt very sad. Idk how long but hopefully soon he gets to feel happy and leads a really fulfilling life❤❤
Kudos Mam and Raj! You just made a whole lot bunch of men so happy and healed with this one video! Hardly we see media and specially women voicing their opinions on hardships against men!
Not all Men are bad! Not all Women are good! Let us start see every person as an 'individual' rather than gender!
My family is also suffering because of my bhabhi 😢 hum logon ne apne bhai ki shadi uski hi marzi se karwayi. Bahot khush the hum log😢. Bhabhi k maa baap nhi h ye soch kar aur b jyada pyaar diya mere maa baap ne usse aur shadi m kuch b nhi liya unki trf se. Fir dhire dhire wo mere bhai k liy ladayi k bahane bnane lgi. Ek pvt naukri krti thi aur daily subah kisi aur male collegue k sath office jati thi😢. Mera bhai jb usse office chhodne ki baat krta toh mana kr deti😢 aur helmet utha k roz subah kisi aur k sath jati. Ye sb bhi mummy papa ne dekha aur kuch nhi bola. Fir jb mummy papa ghr nhi hote toh wo bahot ldti mere bhai se aur ab shadi k 2 saal baad bina kisi wjah usne jhutha case kr diya h court m divorce k liy ☹️ aur kehti h ya bahar 5 lakh m settle krdo ya case krungi. Mere maa baap bhai shareef hai. Inhone kuch kiya b nhi fir ye sab dekhne ko kyu mil rha h☹️☹️. Usne jhutha case kiya mummy or bhai k khilaf aur uske paas abhi tk sabit krne k liy koi proof b nhi h. Mere maa baap jinhone itne pese ulta inki shadi pr lga loye 25-30 lakh. Aur bdle m kuch nhi manga na liya. Shadi k baad b unke khrche uthate rhe aaj unhe ye sb dekhne ko milra h😭😭. Pta nhi kyu ache logon k sath bura hota h. Muje toh ab pta chlta h ki ldkiya jhutge case bhi krti h orr fsa skti hai.
Abhee woh dowry case karegi aur tumhare maata pita ke oopar domestic violence ka case bhee lagayegi. Yehii hotaa hei bharat mein aur koi political party iskey khilaaf action leney ko raaji nahee hei
She is not muslim!! If anybody is curious!
She was married to a Muslim previously !! If anybody is curious!!
@@MackyMehra proof?? N how is that muslim responsible for shikhar?
Such a deep respect to Deepika Bhardwaj, with all due respect to women, but men rights should also be considered. God bless all
Same is the case of sc/st and general category
Bhaag BSDK . Yaha aakar vahi reservation ke baare mein hag Raha hein
sc st ko saare rights hain yaha tak ki general se bhi jyada. fer bhi agar unke andar capacity nhi hain khud ko saabit karne ki to usmein general kya kare. kal ko agar 10 saal baad ya 15 saal baad reseravation khatam ho gya to fer sc st niche a jayenge.
@waytoofficer6201 Ishiliye humare bade bujurg kahake gaye hein kisi society mein education ko hamesha top priority mein rakhni chahiye. Jo ki SC/ST walon ne kiya hi nahi hey pichle 75 salon mein
@@ayushmankar4100 unhe kbhi krne diya gya? they were treated worse than animals grow up kiddo and stop crying about reservation. PEOPLE LIKE YOU EXIST BECAUSE WE DONT TOUCH THE TOPIC OF UNTOUCHABILITY.
Actully SC ST still stucked in old religion. It is easy to manipulate them on the basis of religion.
I really appreciate my ancestor they embrace Buddhism.
Now we are ahead in literacy and in progress.
If we had huge land like the upper caste have, we would achieved lot more.
4:32 Shikhar dhawan
You guys are doing a great job. Keep it up.
At the first place why these kinds of concept came into picture, everyone's situation is different and you have to treat tthose situation differently.. Sometimes mens are right and sometime women..
WTF shikhar dhawan & ayesha mukherjee divorce case se hum better leader kaise bn sakte hai
can anyone explain me
Leading your relationships better in future I guess
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By being aware. If a celebrity can be affected, what about ordinary men? Any woman can file a rape case on you and doesn't require proof. You will be arrested and jailed.
Divorce is okay but spoiling someone's career is a sin. Even god can't forgive this.
Wrong God did not created men and women equally
Men are physically stronger emotionally stable and women are physically weaker and emotionally labile
But that doesn't mean women cannot do what man can
If she can then it's the ability of a woman that she stood up with extraordinary talent and power
Wrong women cannot do everything that man can that's why sports are separated and in army men fight battle also even in chess like sports women have seprate category despite of an open catogery.change your mentality of feminist
Equality is the term that is essential for our social fabric. Unfortunately the trend seems to be tilted in the urban pockets.
First time ever I m listening to someone who is actually talking about equality.
Every boy treat her gf like to be his wife...
But Gf can not expect anything like a husband...
Women are more emotional than men...😢😢😢😢😢😢
Yesterday I went to a shop located bang opposite Tirumala shopping centre ,Andheri. A girl about 24-28 age, was dressed in a shirt and jeans with the shirt hanging loosely off shoulder, and the condescending behavior of hers to the salesman was like "Quick, quick, quick, jaldi Karo Karo, ye bata, wo bata", ....it was highly irritating to see her behaving extremely badly to the simple salesman, I wish I could tell her straight to behave nicely. But this can happen only if laws are equal.
StupidHeart, your comment is too one-sided and sexist!
So if laws are equal, she wlll behave nicely?????🤣😅
You are completely scatterbrained!
You dropped this queen 👑
Skip to 4:30 for Shikhar dhawan.
Thnks buddy
Thanks 🙏
Shikhar Dhawan's story was shown in News24 channel.
Always observed in 38years, men not respect themselves, myself being men agree that we men are more emotional than women. Men must understand women evolutionary nature
The problem with men is that they are still caught up in the 10th century mentality of protecting and providing women and think of women as devis, goddesses, morally superior to men, and that women are weak. And men think about their families while women think about themselves. Women have moved onto the 30th century. I know many women having extra marital relationships and their husbands can't even figure it out. Even in front of them, the wives chat with their boy friends and the husband doesn't even know about it. It is done so discreetly. And if at all he finds it out, she will file dowry case, rape case etc. Men need to update their software. Stop living in the 10th century
absolutely heartbreaking
Right diagnosis. On point
Just wow level podcast ❤
Just remember a fact: You are currently living in a world which is and was built by MEN!!
Equality ke chakar mein mard barbaad ho raha hai. Justice is important rather than equality. Aurat ki apni qualities n strength hai aur mard ki apni qualities aur strength hai. Celebrate the difference.
Pehle ladkon ko 10th century culture aur customs se bahar ana hoga. Stop protecting women. Stop providing women. Stop chivalry.
You should mention the detail of the speaker as well ....who is this lady
4:30 shikhar
Feel so sorry for Shikhar Dhawan he is so joyfull but has so much in his heart just living with memories of his kids....
Treu bro 4rabet pe bet place karna fast aur simple hai, kabhi bhi delay nahi hota
Bhai 4ra ke technical support bhi quick response dete hain, full satisfaction
Then who is responsible for this ? The men or the women ? And what is its solution then ?
Obviously Women☕☕
Women are highly manipulative by nature and evolution. And men are getting manipulated due to their weakness of sex and women. And men are today living in the 10th century culture and customs protecting and providing women whereas women have moved onto the 30th century manipulating men all the time, playing the victim card, using women card and making false sexual harassment allegations against men, drawing the attention of the public, gathering a mob and getting the man thrashed for nothing.
Obviously women , our society & also our state
Why breakup or divorce happen????
Only one reason : Third party either from men side or women side🙏🙏🤣🤣🤣🤣
❤wow I can’t believe this
Whether it is feminism or reservation, in todays date it is not at all equality or equity. It has now become anti men and anti Brahmins and other castes.
इसलीये भारत मे एक मजबूत हिंदुराष्ट्र की जरुरत है ⛳⛳
I was shown middle finger by a woman after I said "excuse me" to clear the way. I quietly walked away.
where
Inside a mall
was she drunk or sober?
Madam you are contradicting your self feminism is equality and you say you are not feminist but you stand with equality
Feminism was never about equality. That is a false narrative. Feminism = atankwaad. So where is the lady contradicting.
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 I like your sarcasm. Nailed it.
healthwisdom, Feminism in itself never stood for Equality. It's a pro-woman mentality only. And there also have been Misandrist Feminists as well.
You can consider Shami case too.....
We are a screwed up society which creates a new and bigger problem on the opposite side while solving one. Thats in short feminism and its affects for you.
True. But feminism was never meant to solve any problem. It was always a mafia
Western society is already paying for this. India will go through it soon. Men will start going away.
Mein toh sirf ek cheej kehna chahungah don't follow Americans society ❤straight up
My wife deserted my 5 yr old son and me in 2014. 10 years later, when i seek divorce , my kid and me are harrassed by our own law. Cases against me and kid is forced to go to her house every vacation after 10 years. What kind of men will we raise like this.
The amount comments from women is enough to understand Feminism kya h
Women know where to remain quiet and where to make a noise. Women are highly manipulative by nature and by evolution
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 exaaaactly , these 304s really don't want equality , they want superiority 🤔
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230bro feminism se phle ek word hota hai common sense waise toh gender neutral hota hai but the amount of comments jo iss comment section hai usko dekh k lgta nahi hai ki common .
Comment section me har kisi ne apna judgement de diye. When then maybe men are judgemental and aggressive. Women are also human like men accept that.
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Feminism chorro equality hi phle accept karlo that would be enough for ppl to understand women. That itself will give you a very humane perspective.
@@shrawaniverma4454 u just said bunch of bs to look morally superior than men 🤔 EQUALITY ki definition pehle padh le behen fir ye sasta feminist monologue ya speech dena !!! Feminism is not about equality anymore the funny thing is I m not even pro patriarchy because I know there are men who will punish or abuse their power but feminism believes in matriarchy , no Feminists wants to talk about fake r*pe allegations , no feminists is preaching for father's parental right , no Feminists wants to talk about patriarchal standards are actually harmful n hypocrite for men 🤔 no feminist page or channels are talking about good dads , brothers or husbands
They don't want EQUALITY they just wants superiority just like u clearly expressed in your comment... औरत को इंसान मानते मानते मर्द को ही जानवर potray कर दिया इस छीछोरे empowerment ने !!!
" Men are judgemental n aggressive " ???? Wow !!!!
जब किसी r*pist या महिला के साथ कोई गलत हरकत करे और बाकी मर्द बोले की तुम्हे की तुम aggresive or judgemental हो तो कैसा लगेगा तुम्हे ????? 🤔 तो जब आदमी बुरी औरतो के लिये बुरा बोले तो तुम्हारे गुरदे क्यू छिल रहे हैं बहन ??? 😆
मतलब अब बूरी औरतो को बूरा बोलना भी misogny बन गया ??? तुम आदमी को इंसान समझती हो या कोई प्लास्टिक जीस मे कोई emotions नहीं है ?? जिस को दुःख नहीं होता ? गुस्सा नही आता गलत बात पर ??? पहले आदमी को तो इंसान समझ फिर बाद में ये इन्सानियत का ग्यान बाट
Women were never suppress historically
There is nothing like patriarchy
In different periods in history different qualities are given importance by the society earlier physical strength and ability to kill to defend oneself was of prime importance and those not having the physical strength were at the bottom of the social order, women being weaker than men were lower than men in social order
When society develops some other qualities matter more than physical strength and a different set of people flourish
So all this theory of women subjugation is simply base on wrong presumptions
3:40 ke pahile faltu ka gyaan
Bhai 4RA ka interface user-friendly hai, bets lagana aur jeetna dono easy hai
Go to 4:30 for Shikhar Dhawan
Very good topic .
Your last edit in this video is not apt for this video, be careful
Ayesha Mukherjee has earned herself a bad name in India. God bless them
Kya kar sakte hai.. Jaisi karni waisi bharni..
This video has a very balanced approach...
But I look forward to red flags in men which young girls are unable to detect.... What should be the first step a woman or a girl should do when she is abused. Also have discussion on emotional abuse men do on women and vice versa... As it has been said in society, if you can't prove it there is no domestic violence.
Men after some time realise such behavior and try to get out of it... But women/girls don't even realise that they are being emotionally abused.... So they never protest too
Pls read Indian laws, there are plenty of laws which protects women and not a single law for protection of men.. pls raise ur voice for helpless men who are suffer!ng..
Pls read Indian laws, there are plenty of laws which protects women and not a single law for protect!on of men.. pls raise ur voice for helpless men who are suffer!ng..
Ayesa ne bcci se kehker dhawan ko odi team se out karwa diya..
Time has come when the men of India, need laws for themselves against the atrocities of women in a marriage otherwise the saga of misery of men will continue
Not just within marriage. Even outside. Women are assaulting men, abusing men, committing atrocities on men openly without consequences
Feel bad for Shikhar Such a strong person he is 😢❤
"I am not a feminist but that does not mean I dont stand for equality" What else does she think feminism means? It is ofc fundamentally for the equal rights of women (since women were the suppressed class for a long time). When one stands for equal rights for women, one is a feminist. All other definitions of it are false. She does not associate herself with the word because of the damage it caused? Going by that logic, she must be against freedom of speech too. Just because some people misused the word for their convenience, it does not invalidate or change what the movement stands for. Not hearing the rest of what she has to say after that line.
Madam aap ke line sune ke baad kan band kardeti hai Kya?
It is some people are using most women are using it,
Who ever does wrong should be punished irrespective of gender bias. Our society should change the way it treats right from birth. Equality in all respects should be the way of life. A healthy n a happy society is only possible with treating right people with right way irrespective of gender, I guess, since it is not possible, good men n good women continue to suffer...what a tragic or shoul I say terrific, our society that we reside is now😮
It's not that easy. Bolne se nhi hota. rn this has been an almost natural thought to think down of women and vice versa for both the genders. Men are physiologically speaking less fragile than women. But the fact that women despite of physiological and emotional barriers do things that a man does should be appreciated and is worth respecting for.
Pata nahi ye divorce case sun’ne se hum acche leader kaise banenge 😅
Shikar Dhawan k sath bahut hi bura hua magar kisi channel pe iske bare me baat hi nahi Hui ye hoti hai hypocrisy or ultra feminist ya kahu ultra sick mentality feminist
Because media leftist aur feminist hai
Acha behen ? Apni ex SIL se toh pucho na ? Tune nahi kia tha discrimination ? Ja kar uska video bhi dekho...!