Hey guys, just a reminder that while what we went through was horrible and completely wrong....and while it never should have happened, that doesn't mean that you can't turn it to something good. My traumas and abuse from childhood still hurt like hell sometimes, but it gets better I promise . I've wanted to die so badly before too, but I am at the point where every day I am so thankful I never did. Life is beautiful. No matter how ugly it can be at times, the beauty remains, hidden in the small things, and I think that itself is beautiful. You have to pay attention and be thankful for those moments of beauty everyday. You are beauty, the fact that you are living and breathing right now is beautiful....after everything you have gone through and after how horribly you have been treated. And even though all of our stories are different, we can be the same. We can heal our traumas and be the kind of parents, siblings, or friends that we never had growing up...we can stop the cycle, and while that task can seem overwhelming and heartbreaking at times, I hope you see the beauty in it. That is so cool. That you, yes you, have the power to overcome hate with love and make a ripple effect in peoples lives...not just that, but the world. It really is a cycle, and what you do matters. So please please please, love yourself, that is a whole other subject I could preach on, but please...it it the least you deserve. Breathe....it will be okay...the darker your past is, the brighter your future is, and stay here...stay alive....I promise your future self will be proud and thankful, even if it takes a long time to get there. It will be worth it all. I love you random stranger, and you are worthy of being loved correctly even if you aren't being treated like that right now. Set boundaries, and leave toxic situations and relationships. Heal yourself before looking for others to fill your emptiness. And remember you can't love others until you love yourself. I love you and if no one has told you today, I am proud of you, you are loved, you are lovable, you are worthy of being loved, you are strong, you are brave, and you will get through this. If you can't stay alive or heal for yourself, then do it for me, because even as a stranger, my life is sadder without you. The world is sadder without you.
@@titanofsaturn6234 I'm glad someone in need got to hear it. You alone are worth the time it took to make that comment. I wish you the best in life. If you ever get to the point where you think no one cares, remember me. I am rooting for you. Always.❤
If you think about it, the most f-ed up ones in Penthouse had abusive upbringings and that was passed on to their kids, specifically Eun Byol, her mother Seo Jin, the twins and their father Joo Dan Tae as well.
My dad beat me as a kid, and sometimes I thought death was better than his abuse. This is an accurate representation of forms of abuse people go through, thank you
I'm really sorry for you, sorry that you had to through it all Not a single kid deserve this sort of treatment, wish you all the love in the world because you deserve it
my own mother told me "i wish you were never born" and beats me,abusing me physically and emotionally, so watching this video did make me cry but atleast this video explains my emotions while i try to comprehend them :)
You're strong I wish I could hug you rn but I can't One day u will be strong and God will u give you the reward! (ignore the god part if you're an atheist)! Love you 💕💕
I really hope to it okay if it gets worse talk to someone and this might be far but sometimes child services is needed I am sorry she does that I hope you know your not alone and your strong 💖💕
My mom also say it to many times that she wish I was never born Or i should die! She also swear me a lot But she says it when she is angry! But she also cares for me! I don't know is she abusive or good parent!
I feel bad for the people who have toxic parents Edit: I read my comment section and I feel so bad for you yall you don’t deserve to go through all of that
True. I actually met my best friend over the internet in an amino group. Exchanged numbers in a private chat and now it's close to hitting a whole year of friendship It's such a shame that me and him live so many counties apart tho
I never felt jealous of anyone.....but I feel jealous of my classmates how their families are good , supporting them, loving them and many more... Edit: Reading my comment section , I just realised the fact that many people like me are suffering like me..But don't worry , endure a little more who knows someday all these pain, hurt, tears will go away and u will get happiness.... let's just believe in God and try to live even if it's painful.
Seeing this after being beaten up by my own parents everyday and mistreated and humiliated every single moment by friends and other people makes me cry. Good to know that I am not alone bearing all this s**ts. Wish one day we all will get out of this.
I'm watching it's okay to not be okay and when I saw her laughing after her dad tried to kill her.... Too relatable. It's just idk maybe because we're tired of it?? And we just start to find it funny?? I don't remember how many times I thought I was crazy because I was laughing or smiling just after something bad happened to me...never mind Btw it's a good edit
i'm sorry that you can relate, i sincerely wish you all the love and that everything will get better ❤️ thank you for staying here even if life is hard for you and particularly unfair, you are so strong. & tysm
@@nayabiggestyerifan oh no it's not your fault and in between something worst than this happened (I got sexually assaulted) but I will say I'm fine I still laugh and hang out with my friends and I make some people's day better so I guess I'm important :))) Thanks for your comment it was so sweet and kind! I love you! 💜😊
Same. That one shot was too relatable. I think we laugh because it's the same old shit. We know it's happening to us again. We know we can never escape the trap. Sometimes I feel like I need to feel that pain again (not in a psycho way) but rather to convince myself that im the victim, im the one who suffers. Just a thought tho.
There comes a time when you get tired of trying to please them, trying to make them happy, trying to prove yourself to them and you just give up because no matter what you can never be what they expect you to be 💔
Same happens to me and I find it hard to even explain my mom's behaviour to myself. Sometimes she treats me like a damn blessing in her life and then she goes back to treating me like I'm some kind of curse to her. I don't even know what she feels about me for real
I also suffered from this state . My dad was an alcoholic and my mom dead when I was 15 bcz of depression . My dad's mistress used to hurt for entertainment and one day I stand against her so she throw me out for the house at the age of 17 . I called my childhood best friend and tell him whats happening so he told me to stay with him and I agreed . Now everything is fine I'm in relation ship with my best friend from 2 year hehehe I love him Edit : if u read that much that's for 🎉🎉
I felt a tear rolling down my right cheek by the end of this video. I pray for everyone's safety and acknowledgement of their own worth. Please know you are valued by someone. Hold on.
My parents are extremely passive-aggressive. They never let me have one good day. The best times of my life were away from them. Honestly, I wouldn't care too much if they died. They always make me feel bad about myself. I'm pretty sure I've been through self-hatred and depression. But they don't care. They just yell at me for everything without trying to understand me first. But worst of all... They make fun of me for feeling sad, angry, or numb. They make fun of me in a humiliating way and expect me to take it as a joke. I have a strong sense of anger which never seems to go away. Also, This song perfectly describes our relationship from my pov.
I'm so sorry to hear that u have to go through this much. I somethimes talk to myslef when im in my room and my family makes fun of me not knowing why i talk to myself(cuz i don't have anyone to talk to) im 17 now and still going through depression and anxiety and my family just makes fun of me. I'm still suffering. I'm just waiting till im 18 so i can leave this place and honestly i won't care even if they die. They just made me hate them this much. I honestly don't hate them that much but hate myself for not hating them.
@@mlfmpov7428 IKR!! I can't wait to get away from them too. For me things are getting better since I made new and meaningful friends and my physical school started. I think that when a big change happens, then your life will get better, or worse, depending on what your experience and choices are. I think that my life changed for good because I had been through too much already. My parents still make me sad, but I should less time with them due to school. Your life will also change. You're almost 18 and that's good. You can make your own decisions, maybe move out, go to college etc. Trust me, if you've been through a lot at a young age, things will only get better as you grow.
@@who_xyz thanks alot i appreciate it alot... and im happy to know that ur life is getting better now...im planning on keeping morning shift at my college as i just gave my last year of highschool exams... ill also start working a part time job just so i can stay away from them as much as i can
I hate seeing these types of videos tbh, they hit too close to him, watching It's Okay To Not Be Okay was a pain itself cuz my parents used to think of me as this perfect child til I was young, and now they see me as a psychopath, good for nothing and all that, and I know they think that cuz they've said it to my face, and oh, if I even dare to speak back, I get hit, but I still will, cuz I'm not gonna take bullshit, even from my parents. I've done self harm many many times because of them, spent so many nights crying and on the bathroom, not even being able to cry out loud cuz then they'll just yell at me again and hit me saying "what will the neighbors think? Shut up, you attention seeker" Everything used to be so happy and good, I just don't know what went wrong and where, I've tried taking my life and been suicidal for the longest time not only because of my parents, but other stuff too. Now I'm diagnosed with severe clinical depression from one of my friends who's a doctor but I can't even tell my parents or somehow get the medication required cuz then I'll probably just be hit and yelled at again, or just thrown out of the house I'm just hoping I can move out of here soon, I hate it here :]
Hey don't worry we are here for you never consider yourself as a psychopath . No matter what happens love yourself and don't worry we are here tell us your stories and let out your pain
Yeah dumbo if you don't love your life who will and I can understand I know it hurts so bad . But don't worry buddy whenever you feel sad or angry just comment on this and I will keep responding kay 😊 I wish I was there to console you be with you but don't worry you are a good person and that never changes never let those things change you ❤ always fight for yourself and I know you can
Hi, I'm really really sorry to know that Whenever you need to express your feelings, feel free to share them here, i'll always be here trying to comfort you
I'm so sorry for you I'm sorry for me that i can relate. But let's try to look at from another angle! Psychopaths r SO FREAKING HOT!!! WE BOTH R HOT AF😌😌😌 Hi, I'm so Called Weirdo, Psycho, and the living aimlessly
Being grown in such type of family I experience this everyday and idk why I'm still alive when my own parents make me feel shit every single day, getting abused everyday, growing in a traumatizing environment, flinching on small small things. I just don't know how I'm still alive. Hope y'all have good day. Just came here to lighten my heart. Thanks for reading this.
Damn you're making me cry in the middle of the night lol. It's been years but I am still not used to it. I still damn cry. It still fucking hurts. Although he rarely hurts us physically, the emotional and mental pain he causes has ruined me. Actually while I'm typing this comment, painful memories comes back. I remember those countless times that I've thought it's better to die and those attempts to be gone. I hope someday, I'll be free from him. Soon, we'll be free from him. I just need to hold on a little tighter. For those who have been experiencing any kind of abuse, hold on. Someday, they won't be able to hurt us. We will be free. We will be happy and safe. Stay there, it'll happen soon. For those who have been experiencing emotional abuse, we see your pain. That pain you've been feeling is valid. You don't deserve those hurtful words. Don't believe on his/her words. Be patient.
Omg I really felt that I have stepdad and he has daughter with my mom but he hates me. They're couple for 9yrs and I am going crazy he is really emotionally abusive and I feel like that my dad will love me more but he was drug addicted so he cant take me to his care But my stepdad is the wrost ,manipulative ,abusive and angry person and I wanted to common suicide 😢 Thank you for reading my comment I feel with you. And thanks for comfort words
I have just turned 18 this year and truly it's fvcking over...no more abused mentally and physically. Hold on a little bit more one day everything will be alright, just do not give up.
I love this. I am proof that if you hold on longer you will make it. You will be happy and free, regardless of what they try to do. You've got this. I love you and I believe in you💜
I never cry in front of my abusive family ... yesterday i was controlling my tears ..... today my mom said "kiske gam mea roo rhi thi " ☠️ .... she just beat me . .. just because i said .... i Can't you guys be silent when I'm studying ...
I literally feel so bad for ppl who go through this, like I’m reading all the comments and freaking crying so bad….this shit really hurts, y’all don’t deserve this.
Every kid deserves parents , but not every parent deserves a kid. But thank to God for giving me such a wonderful and loving mother, she is like heaven poured in a human mold (touch wood).
Yes, we really should be thankful to have good parents! It break my heart to see how many kids are suffering of abusing parents, thank you for the positivity in your comment ❤️❤️ May God give your mom and you a happy and long life
Watching this makes me thank god for giving me good parents, and my parents for raising me well...i feel so bad for all of these characters, and of course even the kids who are going through this in REAL LIFE, like that shit is so scary...sending love to you guys.
The fact that Soojin is hated by most. Nobody notices her consequences. What she did was wrong but if she was helped before she would've never done that. She needed genuine love which she got from no one. I feel bad for all those who are considered as bad just because their consequences made them like that.! They deserve better. They're so strong. And whoever here is dealing with such hard consequences, I love you. Feel free to express yourself here y'all.💕
Exactly! People complain about her being bad, but they never tried to understand what make her like this. She wasn't a bad person, but she get hurt and nobody was here to help her. From that we can't complain about her doing bad actions when it was only the logics consequences or what she had through. Your comment sounds so right,and i hope that all the people who can relate to her will become happier
to the person who reads this: abuse is NOT normal. If you are subjected to abusive attitude, or you have had such an experience, I am sorry to the point of pain in my heart. You don't deserve to go through this, and I will hope that your happy days are going into a long life that will fill you with the strength to live. Just live. You deserve all the love on this earth and beyond, you will cope with everything, I believe in you!
It's weird sometimes to think that there are people who didnt go through this,at some point each of us that did learned to cope with it in our own ways and make the abuser feel accomplished faster so it would be over faster and i personally think the actors did great in showing this.
Thank you,dear parents Thank you for contributing to my mental health issues, to feeling suffocated,like i have no right on my flaws and life, on wanting to d*e, for hurting myself and for making me apologize for it... for expecting to be "good" and not to tell you when you do wrong when it was your fvcking choice to have me in the 1st place When i watched from distance,spring is green... i literally cried my eyes out... that blond guy literally did nothing wrong...even if he "did", there is no excuse for a parent to mistreat you
@@nayabiggestyerifan Thank you ... ♡ Hope you are doing well I just wish my life to be better I just feel so stuck and trapped I want to be free like a bird
I agree! Even though it was written about an ex-lover, it's perfect to describe dysfunctional families as well. I made a video to this song about Yeo Jin Goo's character in Beyond Evil, because his relationship with his father matches every song lyric almost perfectly! I hope you enjoy it!
Currently it's 3 a.m. and I am watching this and thinking how relateble it is as just few hours ago my mom told me that I am big headache for her and she would just push me from the rooftop.
When I was younger I was beat up a lot by my father, I tried to reason with myself and become better behaved but it never changed anything.He has stopped doing things like this now and only has a few outbursts here and there but he still makes me feel very uncomfortable.
Its ok, it feels really bad when our parents tell something that really hurts. I always feel jealousy when my friends parents treat them like a prince's and im here who don't deserve this parents. It really hurts😭
You know , parents usually beat u up and then when u actually get the courage to talk about it to someone , they say "it's for your own good". Abusing kids is not for their good.
I can relate to this. My childhood is just a mess. My parents are very strict, they never let me do anything i want, they always try to control me, i am never allowed to go out, all they allow me is to go to school, but i wanted to play and enjoy like other girls too, i always wanted to go out and play with my friends, one day while my mom was not at home, i went to my neighbours house [my classmate] to play volleyball because i really liked playing it but the next day she knew that i went to my friends house to play and then she scolded me and said that she will break my legs if next time i again go somewhere, she said i was turning into a bad girl, like c'mon just going to friends house for playing will not make me a bad girl, and also they always force me to study every single day and always compare be with everyone, i never go to my friends house nor i invite any of them in my house because am afraid that my mom will scold me or beat me infront of them, there are many a times when i thought of doing suicide, the last Sunday while i was going to extra classes with mom and dad then my mom scolded me in the car itself for some reasons and i cried there and entered the classroom with a crying face and all my friends asked me what happened but i hesitate telling them, i wanted a very good childhood but nooooooo all my dreams are gone, i was always a funny girl who likes to hangout and joke around with friends but my mom never failed in making me a introvert. I hope to die soon :)
Hi 😊 first of all I don't know how to say this or express my feelings right now but you have went through a lot and you know what you are really precious and I really just want to hug you or comfort you and say everything is going to be fine and please don't ever say that you want to die soon you are really a pure soul and you deserve the best and you will get through all of this you are strong and lots of love 🥰🥰
I wish i could escape from all these traumatizing events and people,sometimes strangers understand us better than people we know, i just want to live my life in peace, i dnt understand why only few of us have to suffer from this..whoever is reading this i wish ur life full of happiness n peace u deserve! Ur not alone..stay strong! Just know that no storm remains forever in our life..
This is the song I turn to everytime I realize how bad the relationship between me and my father is and i'm so glad it was used in an abusive parent multifandom
You know physical abuse is better than mental abuses!! That's exactly what happens to me and alot of people in this world!! Coz of that we feel like we lose ourselves, all alone in this world, feeling so numb... It hurts more when it's our own family is the one who sees us useless!! Not knowing or understanding what we feel!!
This chat box just breaks my heart that so many people go through this I personally don't go through it that much but sometimes I feel like I'm just loved for my grades but then i realise not (i guess)
Eh why am I crying... Why does this feel suffocating Specially the true beauty scenes I- I can’t deny my father is just like king su Jin’s I can’t stop crying How do you stop these
How strange it is . We all are from different background with the same pain , same scream . When again sun shines in the morning we put our happy mask again just to show how strong we are . But then again after midnight we face ourselves again . Same tears , same pain , same loneliness Let’s stay with each other . After all we all are young and have lot to do ✨♥️✨♥️✨ Sorry for my bad English.
While reading all these comments tears are falling down my eyes I wish I could give a tight hug to everyone of you'll I hope you'll are safe💘 be happy ...
i am suffering through depression and mental health issues and try not to break out but my dad's cursing words caused the reason of my tears ,last weak just blasted with tears .....
I can understand, how alone you all are, but don't feel alone anymore. If you think that you are alone, you don't have any friend to share your feelings with. If any one of you needs a listener, then I will listen to you, I'll understand you👍👍
To whoever needs it, As someone who gets physically and mentally abused, I can tell you that it’s not our fault There’s gonna be times when we can’t help but feel at fault and hate ourselves, while the person who should be getting blamed gets away with it. Don’t let them win, you might as well pronounce them dead to you, especially if you already went through the phase of thirsting for their love. If you don’t end up killing them from your life, you’ll end up mentally dead and empty inside (if you think what your going through is bad, it gets worse when you let them win). As someone who killed my person out of my life a little to late, I feel empty, so just make sure you do it in time. I have faith in you, and don’t you dare think of hurting yourself😡, been there, done that, just made me more sad. Love you ❤️
ngl, Self love is one hell of a good thing that's keeping me alive in a toxic and abusive house ... Whoever reading this, please love yourself. I understand how hard it is nd will be for you, but hold on to yourself. Only you can love you better ❤
One thing I'm gonna say is If you're trapped in a pitch black room alone, crying and hoping for some on to come to your life as the light who will guide you out of there, just forget that you will ever see the outside again, cause no one is gonna come, you have to become the light for your self and guide your self out, there is no point in waiting for someone as they don't appear most of the time, only you can save yourself. Another thing I would say is that the day you learn to respect yourself, the day you start to love yourself, everybody will start respecting you and loving you. ( ok, maybe not everybody but you know where I'm goin, right?)
It's sad that I can relate to this. My family has been psychically and emotionally @busive to not just me, but my siblings as well. We have no way out. We just hope things get better. :c
I do relate a lot, my parents love me, but they always say I can't have a mind to use and they don't let me live as I want and I have even been told that if I don't study they will never let me go out and they also scold me and sometimes even beat me so hard. Never imagined life like this they are abusive but don't want me to die
This is really sad that there are many people like me 😔my parents are really abusive..... When i was younger i often got beaten up and even after growing up i still get beaten up and tortured mentally...... This is really heartbreaking 😔😔once they told me to die and said that they wish they had killed me when i was a child 🙂💔
I just wanted to let you know my story when I was years 4 years old then I went to study outside but after 5 years I came home back then I heard my family bad mouthing about me and telling me to die or they hope that I was never born I was about to break down but my uncle who i lived with said to come his house and went and its total 9 years I came home back but they never really care . Kpop kdrama is many happiness now . This video triggers my depression anxiety everything . I am really crying after 4 years I was controlling my feelings but I badly wanted someone to comfort me and talk to me .which uncle I was talking about is now really busy he can't get time for me now .
My parents love me. They give me what i want. They let me have my freedom. But there's one problem. They always underestimate me. Compare me. I hate it. I don't need to follow others. I do it in my own way
My friends keep saying this to me "You can not achieve anything in life" and this words is still my brain and thinking on that so.. just forget what they will say... :) But myself keep saying "don't believe to your friends" :)
They are not your friends. Just insecure people masked as your well wishers. You'll meet sincere people eventually, begin by believing in yourself and being sincere to yourself. Care and respect yourself
Even though I am late I proud of you all y'all are strong enough to made it till here don't let anyone break you i hope and wish y'all a bright and a happy future ahead!
For anyone who feels like taking out everything you have in your mind and feel like you can't talk about your problem with anyone, I'm here for you. If you want, you can comment whatever you want to down. I won't judge you. No one would. So write anything you want. I know there are few things you can't say to anyone and u just keep it inside, which is not good. So just let it out. Maybe we can relate to each other.
I was verbally abused for a while, not so much physically, but the verbal lasted for about 7-8 years😔I haven’t rly talked about this much in the past few years…after a while I started to just feel sad, overwhelming sadness. Eventually that turned to just feeling dead. I burned the journal where I had all my stories of what happened, and I finally felt free. But now it’s like I have no idea what happened in my past, apparently the brain naturally blocks out trauma so I don’t remember a lot, and…it’s rly weird, kinda like someone else lived that abusive life, almost like it wasn’t me… anyway, thx for letting me write here😊ur wonderful
@@sarahprain6584 ik that verbal abuse has much more damage then physical one. I understand how you must be feeling in all this messy situation. But trust me, time does really somewhat heal you. I was there few months ago, but now I feel a bit better. Always remember, I'm here cheering for you. Please go easy on yourself.
I always tell people to be nice and positive but I can rarely see myself smiling and when Im annoying Im happy but someone has to say Im annoying and ruin my life
when people say kdramas are bad influence and dont do any good neither show realistic stuff. Meanwhile kdramas here are showing us realistic representation of how abuse and bullying is so common these day...kdramas are showing us the real side of some families, some kids who try being perfect because of their own families.
this !!! there's so much stuff to learn from dramas, like you can see lots of different perspective of the world and so much individuals with different struggles you can relate to, and it's clearly my favourite things about kdramas!
This reminds of the time I was having an argument with my mom and I shouted out "I wish I was never born! " cause I was mad and I say things that I don't mean when I'm mad .But when i said that my mom said " yes it would have been better if I weren't born! " I got upset and ran to my room .And that's not the first time my mom said things like .
My mom started to physically abuse me when I was 5 . And after that when when I was 10 my dad started too they beated me so badly that I could never forget those traumatic memories and after that my dad went to jail because he was a drug seller and mom started to beat me to death and told me She wished I was never born. She said I was a mistake . She once tried to kill me because I was listening to her . She always wanted to order me and treated me like trash and she always loved my sister never me . I always get jealous that my fake friends have better parents . Even if i die no one will care everyone would be happy ...
The feel when you see your classmates are laughing and enjoying their lives with their parents the feel when they tell how they celebrated their holiday with family but the only thing is you can't relate ☹️😖😖 the feeling when you want to scream and cry but you can't 😖 after reading all comments I came to knew that I'm not alone with these 🙁🙁🤧 I hope we all will deserve something better in our life someday
Thank you SO much ❤Naya❤ biggest yeri fan for being the first person I’ve seen on TH-cam for posting about child abuse, and for one of the few, if any before you, for posting about child abuse in general. It has become so few and far between to anyone who cares about the unspeakable damage it’s doing, and the role it plays in the development of the number of mass murderers, serial killers, cult leaders, terrorists, and dictators. It’s like all they seem to think about is stupid things like gun control, porno, media violence, and metal or rap music when, for all we know, indie film The Childhood of a Leader is on set right next door!🤬 Your family was dog shit too, huh? My Mother was about control, my Stepfather just got off on it. They liked to dig their claws into my body, shake me like a rag doll, wrench me together with wrestling moves, throw or push me down to the ground, and again when I tried to get back up, go for my throat, scream at me in a room full of people and get them involved, smash and destroy my movies, or toys, my books, my iPod or whatever, or take them all away for weeks, or even months, for stupid things like not wanting to finish a conversation, or eat a last second lunch, stomp on me, make me do hard labor in their tree properties in the scorching heat all day, encourage all the other kids to get rough on me, scream at me for four or more hours, box my ears, snatch me bald headed, or lift me up by my ears or hair. They even got me arrested three times for what THEY did to me. Third time, I was eighteen and finished school. It was the big boy jail for me this time, and then system spat me back out. Fifteen years after that, I’m still trying to get the court to quit crawling up my ass! As if getting sent to 33rd after your stepfather got hurt while trying to strangle you to death while actually tasting your own blood wasn’t humiliating enough. As far as I’m concerned, you want to stop all the mass shootings happening every week, the sudden influx of violent crimes, the economic uncertainty stemming from dysfunctional suburban communities, or media conflict, and by extension, roughly 90% of all the pain and suffering happening all over the earth? The cause of all of it is pretty much right in front of them. It’s right there, but nobody gives a good goddamn. But they always manage to find a scapegoat though.🙄
thank you so much for this comment, it means a lot to me! i'm super sorry you had to go through all of it, and i think we both agree that no human beings should ever live this kind of things. it's just terrible and it's so upsetting to know that this isn't even took seriously by most. while violence is prohibited everywhere child abuse is sooo looked down which is insane cause children should be the first priority as they can't protect themselves. again i'm super sorry for everything that happened to you and you are so brave to speaking up about it, i know you must be living with a lot of traumas still to this day but don't ever give up! lots of support to you!! 💓
So I am not the only one going through this :) I hope everything will be fine soon. To the people suffering, everything will be fine, don't give up. Just smile and move on. Don't let it affect you,I know it hurts but just smile at them and be strong. :))))
It hurts so bad when your parents talk shit behind your back to some outsiders, beat the shit out of you just to take their anger out and then blame it you for not being good enough..... you know physical pain is nothing infront of mental pain. Sometimes i literally cut myself so hard so that i can die at once, sometimes i take the whole srip of meds just in case it can be my last day..... The pain that child suffer form having a abusive parents are unbearable.... I know the pain .. Those who are suffering all best dont give up
@YUQI💜 please don't. You're so precious and amazing, you don't deserve to die if things get to hard, feel free to open up here. we'll always be here to console you
Hey guys, just a reminder that while what we went through was horrible and completely wrong....and while it never should have happened, that doesn't mean that you can't turn it to something good. My traumas and abuse from childhood still hurt like hell sometimes, but it gets better I promise . I've wanted to die so badly before too, but I am at the point where every day I am so thankful I never did. Life is beautiful. No matter how ugly it can be at times, the beauty remains, hidden in the small things, and I think that itself is beautiful. You have to pay attention and be thankful for those moments of beauty everyday. You are beauty, the fact that you are living and breathing right now is beautiful....after everything you have gone through and after how horribly you have been treated. And even though all of our stories are different, we can be the same. We can heal our traumas and be the kind of parents, siblings, or friends that we never had growing up...we can stop the cycle, and while that task can seem overwhelming and heartbreaking at times, I hope you see the beauty in it. That is so cool. That you, yes you, have the power to overcome hate with love and make a ripple effect in peoples lives...not just that, but the world. It really is a cycle, and what you do matters. So please please please, love yourself, that is a whole other subject I could preach on, but please...it it the least you deserve. Breathe....it will be okay...the darker your past is, the brighter your future is, and stay here...stay alive....I promise your future self will be proud and thankful, even if it takes a long time to get there. It will be worth it all. I love you random stranger, and you are worthy of being loved correctly even if you aren't being treated like that right now. Set boundaries, and leave toxic situations and relationships. Heal yourself before looking for others to fill your emptiness. And remember you can't love others until you love yourself. I love you and if no one has told you today, I am proud of you, you are loved, you are lovable, you are worthy of being loved, you are strong, you are brave, and you will get through this. If you can't stay alive or heal for yourself, then do it for me, because even as a stranger, my life is sadder without you. The world is sadder without you.
Thank you so much for that, i wish you the best ❤️❤️
@@nayabiggestyerifan I wish you the best too💜
Thank you for your kind words. I really needed them at this moment 😊
@@titanofsaturn6234 I'm glad someone in need got to hear it. You alone are worth the time it took to make that comment. I wish you the best in life. If you ever get to the point where you think no one cares, remember me. I am rooting for you. Always.❤
@@heystobit803 Thank you so much. I wish u have an abundant happiness in the world❤❤
"every children deserve their parents, but not every parents deserve their children"
Sadly true :(
This comment literally made me burst into tears
My parents dont except my dad
It's bitter but it's truth!
fr
these dramas are so triggering for me cause of my toxic and emotionally abusive family but i love to know i’m not alone
I'm really sorry for you sweetie, I'm here if you need to talk
Wishing you that it'll get better
Don't loose hope please love you 💓 💗 💖 💕 💜 ❤ 💓
Stay strong plz . We need you .
I know I came to click into this video cuz I was feeling a bit of these vibes personally too, youre not alone!
Same. hope you all for the best :)
EunByol from Penthouse really suits this video. I mean, the pressure of being perfect made her crazy. She wasn't hurt physically, but also psychology
Yes she really does! I forgot to add her in this video but she is just like them :( no one of them deserved this treatment
If you think about it, the most f-ed up ones in Penthouse had abusive upbringings and that was passed on to their kids, specifically Eun Byol, her mother Seo Jin, the twins and their father Joo Dan Tae as well.
@@pandaaaaa4 yes,the penthouse basically wouldn't have started if cheon seo jins father wasn't shitty and only cared abt the trophee and pride
Seojin also, she is an abusive mother because of her parents too
@@nayabiggestyerifan The Twins too were a big part of the abuse!
My dad beat me as a kid, and sometimes I thought death was better than his abuse. This is an accurate representation of forms of abuse people go through, thank you
I'm really sorry for you, sorry that you had to through it all
Not a single kid deserve this sort of treatment, wish you all the love in the world because you deserve it
@@nayabiggestyerifan aww ty, i appreciate it
@@kaithefly811 you're welcome ❤️
No one deserves that kind of pain
I hope you're alright
you are so so loved, i hope the pain is better now.
my own mother told me "i wish you were never born" and beats me,abusing me physically and emotionally, so watching this video did make me cry but atleast this video explains my emotions while i try to comprehend them :)
You're strong I wish I could hug you rn but I can't One day u will be strong and God will u give you the reward! (ignore the god part if you're an atheist)! Love you 💕💕
Stay strong dear,ik it must be hard for you but please don't lose hope
I promise one day u gonna be so happy ,I promise. Just hold on a little 💜
I really hope to it okay if it gets worse talk to someone and this might be far but sometimes child services is needed I am sorry she does that I hope you know your not alone and your strong 💖💕
You know I am proud of you baby this universe gave space for you bcz this world needs your love your smell your voice ♥💕💖❤💗
My mom also say it to many times that she wish I was never born Or i should die! She also swear me a lot But she says it when she is angry! But she also cares for me! I don't know is she abusive or good parent!
"A CHILD THAT IS BEING ABUSED BY ITS PARENTS DOESN'T STOP LOVING ITS PARENTS, IT STOPS LOVING ITSELF."
It's so true😶
well then that's me then🙃🥺🥺🥺🥺
@↳ꗃ𝐑0𝐒ⁱ𝐄𝐏𝐇0𝐁𝐈𝐒 ↲ hello
@↳ꗃ𝐑0𝐒ⁱ𝐄𝐏𝐇0𝐁𝐈𝐒 ↲ heyyyy its good evening for meh😊
Their*
Themselves*
I feel bad for the people who have toxic parents
Edit: I read my comment section and I feel so bad for you yall you don’t deserve to go through all of that
Same, hope they can get some help :(
@@nayabiggestyerifan yeah I hope some day….
Thank u for the sympathy 🙂
i feel bad for me too
@@grace11_ aww I am so sorry
this hits different when your family isn't supportive but controlling
Fucking hate that- is this umi btw?
Yes
Yesss relatable
I can relate..
its true i never been happy i only have one dream pay them back and die peacefully
"It hits hard when your parent compares you with other kids"
Yes
It sucks so much yet my parent won't stop even though its haram to do that, I really want her to realise that I do have something in me
"Is so weird that apsolutly random strangers on internet are close to you more then your own family"
- Kind stranger in comments
Sadly that can be true sometimes
True
True
it's true
True. I actually met my best friend over the internet in an amino group. Exchanged numbers in a private chat and now it's close to hitting a whole year of friendship
It's such a shame that me and him live so many counties apart tho
I never felt jealous of anyone.....but I feel jealous of my classmates how their families are good , supporting them, loving them and many more...
Edit: Reading my comment section , I just realised the fact that many people like me are suffering like me..But don't worry , endure a little more who knows someday all these pain, hurt, tears will go away and u will get happiness.... let's just believe in God and try to live even if it's painful.
It's okay, everything will be better
Is it just me who felt like crying when I read this comment?- Maybe its because its relatable..
literally so true. I only get jealous over people's perfect families
@@j_8857 i'm sorry that you can relate, wishing you the best in the future. take care
@@wazzaaaapshawtyy2929 so sorry for you, i hope it'll get better !
Seeing this after being beaten up by my own parents everyday and mistreated and humiliated every single moment by friends and other people makes me cry. Good to know that I am not alone bearing all this s**ts. Wish one day we all will get out of this.
I'm watching it's okay to not be okay and when I saw her laughing after her dad tried to kill her.... Too relatable. It's just idk maybe because we're tired of it?? And we just start to find it funny?? I don't remember how many times I thought I was crazy because I was laughing or smiling just after something bad happened to me...never mind
Btw it's a good edit
i'm sorry that you can relate, i sincerely wish you all the love and that everything will get better ❤️
thank you for staying here even if life is hard for you and particularly unfair, you are so strong.
& tysm
@@nayabiggestyerifan oh no it's not your fault and in between something worst than this happened (I got sexually assaulted) but I will say I'm fine I still laugh and hang out with my friends and I make some people's day better so I guess I'm important :)))
Thanks for your comment it was so sweet and kind! I love you! 💜😊
Same. That one shot was too relatable. I think we laugh because it's the same old shit. We know it's happening to us again. We know we can never escape the trap. Sometimes I feel like I need to feel that pain again (not in a psycho way) but rather to convince myself that im the victim, im the one who suffers. Just a thought tho.
Hm ya 🙂
Hmm shes laughing and crying i think cause you see that tear on the side on her cheek 😔
There comes a time when you get tired of trying to please them, trying to make them happy, trying to prove yourself to them and you just give up because no matter what you can never be what they expect you to be 💔
This reminds me of my mom when she is angry. My mom is that she is kind but she just gets aggressive all of a sudden sometimes
So sorry for you, I wish you all the best
Same happens to me and I find it hard to even explain my mom's behaviour to myself. Sometimes she treats me like a damn blessing in her life and then she goes back to treating me like I'm some kind of curse to her. I don't even know what she feels about me for real
@@sista363 Hey, same here
@@nayabiggestyerifan Thanks!!
I'm really sorry for you both
Be honest...many of us are being abused by our parents but mentally....
They don't hurt us physically but kills us by their talks...; (
😥so correct 😫
this just made me feel grateful for my parents-
i love em sm
Same
Not to sound rude or anything but why would you say such thing on a video like this it was completely unnecessary
@@scarlett5591 It's not unnecessary though...?
The woman i knew as my mother said " Don't call me mom.. I'm not your mother.. it's all my fault for giving you birth"
🙂..
I also suffered from this state . My dad was an alcoholic and my mom dead when I was 15 bcz of depression . My dad's mistress used to hurt for entertainment and one day I stand against her so she throw me out for the house at the age of 17 . I called my childhood best friend and tell him whats happening so he told me to stay with him and I agreed . Now everything is fine I'm in relation ship with my best friend from 2 year hehehe I love him
Edit : if u read that much that's for 🎉🎉
Wish I could also run away like uh did
I felt a tear rolling down my right cheek by the end of this video. I pray for everyone's safety and acknowledgement of their own worth. Please know you are valued by someone. Hold on.
My parents are extremely passive-aggressive. They never let me have one good day. The best times of my life were away from them. Honestly, I wouldn't care too much if they died. They always make me feel bad about myself. I'm pretty sure I've been through self-hatred and depression. But they don't care. They just yell at me for everything without trying to understand me first.
But worst of all...
They make fun of me for feeling sad, angry, or numb. They make fun of me in a humiliating way and expect me to take it as a joke.
I have a strong sense of anger which never seems to go away.
Also, This song perfectly describes our relationship from my pov.
I'm so sorry to hear that u have to go through this much. I somethimes talk to myslef when im in my room and my family makes fun of me not knowing why i talk to myself(cuz i don't have anyone to talk to) im 17 now and still going through depression and anxiety and my family just makes fun of me. I'm still suffering. I'm just waiting till im 18 so i can leave this place and honestly i won't care even if they die. They just made me hate them this much. I honestly don't hate them that much but hate myself for not hating them.
@@mlfmpov7428 IKR!! I can't wait to get away from them too. For me things are getting better since I made new and meaningful friends and my physical school started. I think that when a big change happens, then your life will get better, or worse, depending on what your experience and choices are. I think that my life changed for good because I had been through too much already. My parents still make me sad, but I should less time with them due to school. Your life will also change. You're almost 18 and that's good. You can make your own decisions, maybe move out, go to college etc. Trust me, if you've been through a lot at a young age, things will only get better as you grow.
@@who_xyz thanks alot i appreciate it alot... and im happy to know that ur life is getting better now...im planning on keeping morning shift at my college as i just gave my last year of highschool exams... ill also start working a part time job just so i can stay away from them as much as i can
Same with me😔
You're so me at times. (a lot of times, actually)
I hate seeing these types of videos tbh, they hit too close to him, watching It's Okay To Not Be Okay was a pain itself cuz my parents used to think of me as this perfect child til I was young, and now they see me as a psychopath, good for nothing and all that, and I know they think that cuz they've said it to my face, and oh, if I even dare to speak back, I get hit, but I still will, cuz I'm not gonna take bullshit, even from my parents.
I've done self harm many many times because of them, spent so many nights crying and on the bathroom, not even being able to cry out loud cuz then they'll just yell at me again and hit me saying "what will the neighbors think? Shut up, you attention seeker"
Everything used to be so happy and good, I just don't know what went wrong and where, I've tried taking my life and been suicidal for the longest time not only because of my parents, but other stuff too.
Now I'm diagnosed with severe clinical depression from one of my friends who's a doctor but I can't even tell my parents or somehow get the medication required cuz then I'll probably just be hit and yelled at again, or just thrown out of the house
I'm just hoping I can move out of here soon, I hate it here :]
Hey don't worry we are here for you never consider yourself as a psychopath . No matter what happens love yourself and don't worry we are here tell us your stories and let out your pain
Don't you ever think of taking your life
Yeah dumbo if you don't love your life who will and I can understand I know it hurts so bad . But don't worry buddy whenever you feel sad or angry just comment on this and I will keep responding kay 😊 I wish I was there to console you be with you but don't worry you are a good person and that never changes never let those things change you ❤ always fight for yourself and I know you can
Hi, I'm really really sorry to know that
Whenever you need to express your feelings, feel free to share them here, i'll always be here trying to comfort you
I'm so sorry for you
I'm sorry for me that i can relate. But let's try to look at from another angle!
Psychopaths r SO FREAKING HOT!!! WE BOTH R HOT AF😌😌😌
Hi, I'm so Called Weirdo, Psycho, and the living aimlessly
Being grown in such type of family I experience this everyday and idk why I'm still alive when my own parents make me feel shit every single day, getting abused everyday, growing in a traumatizing environment, flinching on small small things. I just don't know how I'm still alive. Hope y'all have good day. Just came here to lighten my heart. Thanks for reading this.
You're a strong man/women!💕💕
Was that the reason I finch alot like for even stupidest shit now it makes sense 🙂
@@Krishna-lg1je You're strong bestie
@@niaxae thankyou I really wanted to hear that 🥺
@@Krishna-lg1je :) I love you 💕 I wish I could hug you rn
Damn you're making me cry in the middle of the night lol. It's been years but I am still not used to it. I still damn cry. It still fucking hurts. Although he rarely hurts us physically, the emotional and mental pain he causes has ruined me. Actually while I'm typing this comment, painful memories comes back. I remember those countless times that I've thought it's better to die and those attempts to be gone. I hope someday, I'll be free from him. Soon, we'll be free from him. I just need to hold on a little tighter.
For those who have been experiencing any kind of abuse, hold on. Someday, they won't be able to hurt us. We will be free. We will be happy and safe. Stay there, it'll happen soon. For those who have been experiencing emotional abuse, we see your pain. That pain you've been feeling is valid. You don't deserve those hurtful words. Don't believe on his/her words. Be patient.
Thank you so much for these positives words, i'm sure it'll help a lot
Omg I really felt that
I have stepdad and he has daughter with my mom but he hates me. They're couple for 9yrs and I am going crazy he is really emotionally abusive and I feel like that my dad will love me more but he was drug addicted so he cant take me to his care
But my stepdad is the wrost ,manipulative ,abusive and angry person and I wanted to common suicide 😢 Thank you for reading my comment I feel with you. And thanks for comfort words
💖
I have just turned 18 this year and truly it's fvcking over...no more abused mentally and physically. Hold on a little bit more one day everything will be alright, just do not give up.
I love this. I am proof that if you hold on longer you will make it. You will be happy and free, regardless of what they try to do. You've got this. I love you and I believe in you💜
K-drama names with timestamps :)
0:17 It's ok to not be ok
0:50 Dr Romantic 2
0:53 True beauty
1:11 At a distance spring is green
thank you!
@Donkey it’s okay not to be okay
@Donkey I think it’s true beauty, and then doctor romantic after that
Allnll no, l
At 2:36 whats the show name? And can you tell me the name of the show in which the Blonde haired guy shows up and gets hit???
I never cry in front of my abusive family ... yesterday i was controlling my tears ..... today my mom said "kiske gam mea roo rhi thi " ☠️ .... she just beat me .
.. just because i said .... i Can't you guys be silent when I'm studying ...
I literally feel so bad for ppl who go through this, like I’m reading all the comments and freaking crying so bad….this shit really hurts, y’all don’t deserve this.
Every kid deserves parents , but not every parent deserves a kid. But thank to God for giving me such a wonderful and loving mother, she is like heaven poured in a human mold (touch wood).
Yes, we really should be thankful to have good parents! It break my heart to see how many kids are suffering of abusing parents, thank you for the positivity in your comment ❤️❤️
May God give your mom and you a happy and long life
@@nayabiggestyerifan oh my god thank you so much you made my day and you too♥️♥️
@@GarlickBraid you're welcome, anytime! And thank you so much 💗
I feel jealousy
Watching this makes me thank god for giving me good parents, and my parents for raising me well...i feel so bad for all of these characters, and of course even the kids who are going through this in REAL LIFE, like that shit is so scary...sending love to you guys.
take care of your parents ❤️❤️❤️
The fact that Soojin is hated by most. Nobody notices her consequences. What she did was wrong but if she was helped before she would've never done that. She needed genuine love which she got from no one. I feel bad for all those who are considered as bad just because their consequences made them like that.! They deserve better. They're so strong. And whoever here is dealing with such hard consequences, I love you. Feel free to express yourself here y'all.💕
Exactly! People complain about her being bad, but they never tried to understand what make her like this. She wasn't a bad person, but she get hurt and nobody was here to help her. From that we can't complain about her doing bad actions when it was only the logics consequences or what she had through. Your comment sounds so right,and i hope that all the people who can relate to her will become happier
@@nayabiggestyerifan I wish everyone understood this like you do.. 💕
to the person who reads this: abuse is NOT normal. If you are subjected to abusive attitude, or you have had such an experience, I am sorry to the point of pain in my heart. You don't deserve to go through this, and I will hope that your happy days are going into a long life that will fill you with the strength to live. Just live. You deserve all the love on this earth and beyond, you will cope with everything, I believe in you!
They give us everything material, but they don't know that all we want is their love and understanding for wanting to be free.💔
It's weird sometimes to think that there are people who didnt go through this,at some point each of us that did learned to cope with it in our own ways and make the abuser feel accomplished faster so it would be over faster and i personally think the actors did great in showing this.
My parents mentally and physically abuse me , this video helped me realize that I'm not the only one who feels that way.
I’ve watched most of these so it’s pretty easy for me to cry.
They didn’t deserve this at all, it’s so heartbreaking 💔
Same, my eyes are full of tears by reading those comments 🥺💔😭
Thank you,dear parents
Thank you for contributing to my mental health issues, to feeling suffocated,like i have no right on my flaws and life, on wanting to d*e, for hurting myself and for making me apologize for it... for expecting to be "good" and not to tell you when you do wrong when it was your fvcking choice to have me in the 1st place
When i watched from distance,spring is green... i literally cried my eyes out... that blond guy literally did nothing wrong...even if he "did", there is no excuse for a parent to mistreat you
I'm sorry for you sweetie, I really hope everything will get better
@@nayabiggestyerifan
Thank you ... ♡
Hope you are doing well
I just wish my life to be better
I just feel so stuck and trapped
I want to be free like a bird
@@notwerkinginthishouse8634 Thank you so much, I hope the same to you!
I'm sure it will, everything will get better stay strong
@@nayabiggestyerifan
How we can even fix this?
Same
Those childhood trauma we still remember from our abusive parents🙃🙃These dramas are so relatable
i cant help but think about how much this is relatable
so sorry for u :(
This and NDA are honestly some of the best releases this year. Its hard to find stuff thats acrually meaningful in mainstream music nowadays
Agreed!
I agree! Even though it was written about an ex-lover, it's perfect to describe dysfunctional families as well. I made a video to this song about Yeo Jin Goo's character in Beyond Evil, because his relationship with his father matches every song lyric almost perfectly! I hope you enjoy it!
oooh i'll check that out!
@@nayabiggestyerifan Thanks!
Currently it's 3 a.m. and I am watching this and thinking how relateble it is as just few hours ago my mom told me that I am big headache for her and she would just push me from the rooftop.
"Every child deserves parents but not any parent deserves a child"
Parents: I wish I never had child like you
Me : I didn't ask you guys to birth me and then torture me for not being your expectation
When I was younger I was beat up a lot by my father, I tried to reason with myself and become better behaved but it never changed anything.He has stopped doing things like this now and only has a few outbursts here and there but he still makes me feel very uncomfortable.
Omg I'm so sorry that you had to through it, wish you the best
Its ok, it feels really bad when our parents tell something that really hurts. I always feel jealousy when my friends parents treat them like a prince's and im here who don't deserve this parents. It really hurts😭
You know , parents usually beat u up and then when u actually get the courage to talk about it to someone , they say "it's for your own good". Abusing kids is not for their good.
I can relate to this.
My childhood is just a mess.
My parents are very strict, they never let me do anything i want, they always try to control me, i am never allowed to go out, all they allow me is to go to school, but i wanted to play and enjoy like other girls too, i always wanted to go out and play with my friends, one day while my mom was not at home, i went to my neighbours house [my classmate] to play volleyball because i really liked playing it but the next day she knew that i went to my friends house to play and then she scolded me and said that she will break my legs if next time i again go somewhere, she said i was turning into a bad girl, like c'mon just going to friends house for playing will not make me a bad girl, and also they always force me to study every single day and always compare be with everyone, i never go to my friends house nor i invite any of them in my house because am afraid that my mom will scold me or beat me infront of them, there are many a times when i thought of doing suicide, the last Sunday while i was going to extra classes with mom and dad then my mom scolded me in the car itself for some reasons and i cried there and entered the classroom with a crying face and all my friends asked me what happened but i hesitate telling them, i wanted a very good childhood but nooooooo all my dreams are gone, i was always a funny girl who likes to hangout and joke around with friends but my mom never failed in making me a introvert.
I hope to die soon :)
Hi 😊 first of all I don't know how to say this or express my feelings right now but you have went through a lot and you know what you are really precious and I really just want to hug you or comfort you and say everything is going to be fine and please don't ever say that you want to die soon you are really a pure soul and you deserve the best and you will get through all of this you are strong and lots of love 🥰🥰
@@simirajiv7982 Thank you so much!!! I am always in a hope too that things will get better.
@@moarmygenestayrat993 you don't need to thank me just remember that you are strong and precious 🥰🥰🥰
I wish i could escape from all these traumatizing events and people,sometimes strangers understand us better than people we know, i just want to live my life in peace, i dnt understand why only few of us have to suffer from this..whoever is reading this i wish ur life full of happiness n peace u deserve! Ur not alone..stay strong! Just know that no storm remains forever in our life..
This is the song I turn to everytime I realize how bad the relationship between me and my father is and i'm so glad it was used in an abusive parent multifandom
i hope it'll get better, wishing you the best, take care of yourself darling 💞
The last 5 second with a sad smile are the deepest thing in the video
In “its ok not to be ok” they don’t care that the stupid old man choked her and she almost died and just left her on the ground
You know physical abuse is better than mental abuses!! That's exactly what happens to me and alot of people in this world!! Coz of that we feel like we lose ourselves, all alone in this world, feeling so numb... It hurts more when it's our own family is the one who sees us useless!! Not knowing or understanding what we feel!!
If i ever had a last wish it would be my parents loving and supporting me and my dreams
This hits so different to me that I forgot how to cry and keep on laughing like crazy
"Abusive parents" the first things that came to my mind are the penthouses and sky castle
This chat box just breaks my heart that so many people go through this
I personally don't go through it that much but sometimes I feel like I'm just loved for my grades but then i realise not (i guess)
Eh why am I crying...
Why does this feel suffocating
Specially the true beauty scenes
I-
I can’t deny my father is just like king su Jin’s
I can’t stop crying
How do you stop these
How strange it is . We all are from different background with the same pain , same scream . When again sun shines in the morning we put our happy mask again just to show how strong we are . But then again after midnight we face ourselves again .
Same tears , same pain , same loneliness
Let’s stay with each other . After all we all are young and have lot to do
✨♥️✨♥️✨
Sorry for my bad English.
Finally someone agrees, everyone always compares this song to their ex but I compare it to my mother
Yes when I heard this song it immediately made me think of abusive parents so I wanted to make this
i compare the song to my stepdad
@@milenyyy I completely get that, I still have bad flash backs because of my stepdad, but I hope everything is going okay for you right now💜
@@fandomlove6607 thank you hope every thing goes well for you
While reading all these comments tears are falling down my eyes I wish I could give a tight hug to everyone of you'll I hope you'll are safe💘 be happy ...
Sometimes it feel like my Mother only love me because of my grades
Aww I'm so sorry for u sweetie always feel free to talk here
U must b Indian then, ig
ada O I'm Vietnamese
i am suffering through depression and mental health issues and try not to break out but my dad's cursing words caused the reason of my tears ,last weak just blasted with tears .....
This gives me some kind of strength, and it's more powerful than anything else. Thanks for making this edit 🖤
awww I'm so glad it did ! Thanks to your appreciate it
I can understand, how alone you all are, but don't feel alone anymore. If you think that you are alone, you don't have any friend to share your feelings with. If any one of you needs a listener, then I will listen to you, I'll understand you👍👍
Thank you so much for that ❤️
To whoever needs it,
As someone who gets physically and mentally abused, I can tell you that it’s not our fault There’s gonna be times when we can’t help but feel at fault and hate ourselves, while the person who should be getting blamed gets away with it. Don’t let them win, you might as well pronounce them dead to you, especially if you already went through the phase of thirsting for their love. If you don’t end up killing them from your life, you’ll end up mentally dead and empty inside (if you think what your going through is bad, it gets worse when you let them win). As someone who killed my person out of my life a little to late, I feel empty, so just make sure you do it in time. I have faith in you, and don’t you dare think of hurting yourself😡, been there, done that, just made me more sad. Love you ❤️
I wish you the best ❤️❤️❤️
ngl, Self love is one hell of a good thing that's keeping me alive in a toxic and abusive house
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Whoever reading this, please love yourself. I understand how hard it is nd will be for you, but hold on to yourself. Only you can love you better ❤
One thing I'm gonna say is
If you're trapped in a pitch black room alone, crying and hoping for some on to come to your life as the light who will guide you out of there, just forget that you will ever see the outside again, cause no one is gonna come, you have to become the light for your self and guide your self out, there is no point in waiting for someone as they don't appear most of the time, only you can save yourself.
Another thing I would say is that the day you learn to respect yourself, the day you start to love yourself, everybody will start respecting you and loving you.
( ok, maybe not everybody but you know where I'm goin, right?)
It's sad that I can relate to this. My family has been psychically and emotionally @busive to not just me, but my siblings as well. We have no way out. We just hope things get better. :c
You'll get better,don't worry
It will be okay one day:) Jesus will give you a way out:) I love you, take care
I do relate a lot, my parents love me, but they always say I can't have a mind to use and they don't let me live as I want and I have even been told that if I don't study they will never let me go out and they also scold me and sometimes even beat me so hard. Never imagined life like this they are abusive but don't want me to die
This is really sad that there are many people like me 😔my parents are really abusive..... When i was younger i often got beaten up and even after growing up i still get beaten up and tortured mentally...... This is really heartbreaking 😔😔once they told me to die and said that they wish they had killed me when i was a child 🙂💔
I just wanted to let you know my story when I was years 4 years old then I went to study outside but after 5 years I came home back then I heard my family bad mouthing about me and telling me to die or they hope that I was never born I was about to break down but my uncle who i lived with said to come his house and went and its total 9 years I came home back but they never really care . Kpop kdrama is many happiness now . This video triggers my depression anxiety everything . I am really crying after 4 years I was controlling my feelings but I badly wanted someone to comfort me and talk to me .which uncle I was talking about is now really busy he can't get time for me now .
My parents love me. They give me what i want. They let me have my freedom. But there's one problem. They always underestimate me. Compare me. I hate it. I don't need to follow others. I do it in my own way
My friends keep saying this to me "You can not achieve anything in life" and this words is still my brain and thinking on that so.. just forget what they will say... :) But myself keep saying "don't believe to your friends" :)
They are not your friends. Just insecure people masked as your well wishers. You'll meet sincere people eventually, begin by believing in yourself and being sincere to yourself. Care and respect yourself
@@symphonyyy7449 Thank you so much...I appreciate :)
1:40 I also lock myself in the bathroom just to cry on how pathetic my life is going
Don't worry you're not the only one who's going through that kind of abuse I'm here too I just wanna turn 18 and run away from my home 🙃
THANK YOU FOR THIS MAJOR MASTERPIECE
Thanks to you for watching it ❤️❤️❤️
The pressure of being perfect is driving me crazy
Even though I am late I proud of you all y'all are strong enough to made it till here don't let anyone break you i hope and wish y'all a bright and a happy future ahead!
For anyone who feels like taking out everything you have in your mind and feel like you can't talk about your problem with anyone, I'm here for you. If you want, you can comment whatever you want to down. I won't judge you. No one would. So write anything you want. I know there are few things you can't say to anyone and u just keep it inside, which is not good. So just let it out. Maybe we can relate to each other.
I was verbally abused for a while, not so much physically, but the verbal lasted for about 7-8 years😔I haven’t rly talked about this much in the past few years…after a while I started to just feel sad, overwhelming sadness. Eventually that turned to just feeling dead. I burned the journal where I had all my stories of what happened, and I finally felt free. But now it’s like I have no idea what happened in my past, apparently the brain naturally blocks out trauma so I don’t remember a lot, and…it’s rly weird, kinda like someone else lived that abusive life, almost like it wasn’t me… anyway, thx for letting me write here😊ur wonderful
@@sarahprain6584 ik that verbal abuse has much more damage then physical one. I understand how you must be feeling in all this messy situation. But trust me, time does really somewhat heal you. I was there few months ago, but now I feel a bit better. Always remember, I'm here cheering for you. Please go easy on yourself.
@@user-or3lb9py8w tysm!!!😭😭😭u are so kind and such a blessing to me and this whole world, thank you for being so kind💛💛💛
I always tell people to be nice and positive but I can rarely see myself smiling and when Im annoying Im happy but someone has to say Im annoying and ruin my life
Omg so sorry for u sweetie, please do not listen to these people
Hopefully you'll see how precious you are
@@nayabiggestyerifan tysm and love the video
@@scoph654 aww tysm
Abusive parents manipulate you by saying that we only want the best of you and then they beat you and belittle you .
Mom once told me "if you pushed someone way too hard, they become evil"
I should be the one who should say that, not you.
These are so beautiful but heartbreaking Naya. Amazing job 😭♡
Aww thank you really much
This is so good but so sad 😭 You did an amazing job bestie!
Aww thank you so much ❤️❤️
@@nayabiggestyerifan Of course
These videos make me litrally cry ,thus reminds of myself i can't do anything right
even if the vid didn't, but the comment section made me burst into tears :((
0:06 incredibly,no matter which language you speak, your race. It's the same freaking sentence
The fact that it's true is really sad
@@nayabiggestyerifan Unfortunately, YES!
BTW, it's my first time here, i love the content. You did great job
@@ayafarag3125 thank you so much for your support i really appreciate it
@@nayabiggestyerifan THANKS AS WELL, AND PLEASE KEEP GOING I'M LOOKING FORWARD FOR MORE🥰
@@ayafarag3125 YESS I WILL!!! thank you so much for being this sweet omg this really means a lot !!
when people say kdramas are bad influence and dont do any good neither show realistic stuff. Meanwhile kdramas here are showing us realistic representation of how abuse and bullying is so common these day...kdramas are showing us the real side of some families, some kids who try being perfect because of their own families.
this !!! there's so much stuff to learn from dramas, like you can see lots of different perspective of the world and so much individuals with different struggles you can relate to, and it's clearly my favourite things about kdramas!
@@nayabiggestyerifan ikr, i felt the need to comment this cuz kdramas nowadays are no joke.
This reminds of the time I was having an argument with my mom and I shouted out "I wish I was never born! " cause I was mad and I say things that I don't mean when I'm mad .But when i said that my mom said " yes it would have been better if I weren't born! " I got upset and ran to my room .And that's not the first time my mom said things like .
My Physical and psychological abuse from my own family started when I was 8 I still go through this every day..........I am 16 now by the way:)
I don't even watch kdramas but this made me cry me eyes out cuz my parents are toxic as hell
Oh I'm so sorry for you. You don't deserve this I hope everything will get better luv
@@nayabiggestyerifan thank you, you really made my day better
@@lefthandderivative i'm glad I did, always feel free to talk to me if you need to
My mom started to physically abuse me when I was 5 . And after that when when I was 10 my dad started too they beated me so badly that I could never forget those traumatic memories and after that my dad went to jail because he was a drug seller and mom started to beat me to death and told me She wished I was never born. She said I was a mistake . She once tried to kill me because I was listening to her . She always wanted to order me and treated me like trash and she always loved my sister never me . I always get jealous that my fake friends have better parents . Even if i die no one will care everyone would be happy ...
The feel when you see your classmates are laughing and enjoying their lives with their parents the feel when they tell how they celebrated their holiday with family but the only thing is you can't relate ☹️😖😖 the feeling when you want to scream and cry but you can't 😖 after reading all comments I came to knew that I'm not alone with these 🙁🙁🤧 I hope we all will deserve something better in our life someday
Thank you SO much ❤Naya❤ biggest yeri fan for being the first person I’ve seen on TH-cam for posting about child abuse, and for one of the few, if any before you, for posting about child abuse in general. It has become so few and far between to anyone who cares about the unspeakable damage it’s doing, and the role it plays in the development of the number of mass murderers, serial killers, cult leaders, terrorists, and dictators. It’s like all they seem to think about is stupid things like gun control, porno, media violence, and metal or rap music when, for all we know, indie film The Childhood of a Leader is on set right next door!🤬 Your family was dog shit too, huh? My Mother was about control, my Stepfather just got off on it. They liked to dig their claws into my body, shake me like a rag doll, wrench me together with wrestling moves, throw or push me down to the ground, and again when I tried to get back up, go for my throat, scream at me in a room full of people and get them involved, smash and destroy my movies, or toys, my books, my iPod or whatever, or take them all away for weeks, or even months, for stupid things like not wanting to finish a conversation, or eat a last second lunch, stomp on me, make me do hard labor in their tree properties in the scorching heat all day, encourage all the other kids to get rough on me, scream at me for four or more hours, box my ears, snatch me bald headed, or lift me up by my ears or hair. They even got me arrested three times for what THEY did to me. Third time, I was eighteen and finished school. It was the big boy jail for me this time, and then system spat me back out. Fifteen years after that, I’m still trying to get the court to quit crawling up my ass! As if getting sent to 33rd after your stepfather got hurt while trying to strangle you to death while actually tasting your own blood wasn’t humiliating enough. As far as I’m concerned, you want to stop all the mass shootings happening every week, the sudden influx of violent crimes, the economic uncertainty stemming from dysfunctional suburban communities, or media conflict, and by extension, roughly 90% of all the pain and suffering happening all over the earth? The cause of all of it is pretty much right in front of them. It’s right there, but nobody gives a good goddamn. But they always manage to find a scapegoat though.🙄
thank you so much for this comment, it means a lot to me! i'm super sorry you had to go through all of it, and i think we both agree that no human beings should ever live this kind of things. it's just terrible and it's so upsetting to know that this isn't even took seriously by most. while violence is prohibited everywhere child abuse is sooo looked down which is insane cause children should be the first priority as they can't protect themselves. again i'm super sorry for everything that happened to you and you are so brave to speaking up about it, i know you must be living with a lot of traumas still to this day but don't ever give up! lots of support to you!! 💓
@@nayabiggestyerifan Phillips Boys NEVER give up
@@nayabiggestyerifan hey, us domestic violence survivors gotta stick together, ya know?
To all that are going through all this remember tough times dont last but tough people do❤
So I am not the only one going through this :) I hope everything will be fine soon. To the people suffering, everything will be fine, don't give up. Just smile and move on. Don't let it affect you,I know it hurts but just smile at them and be strong. :))))
It hurts so bad when your parents talk shit behind your back to some outsiders, beat the shit out of you just to take their anger out and then blame it you for not being good enough..... you know physical pain is nothing infront of mental pain. Sometimes i literally cut myself so hard so that i can die at once, sometimes i take the whole srip of meds just in case it can be my last day..... The pain that child suffer form having a abusive parents are unbearable.... I know the pain .. Those who are suffering all best dont give up
“it’s okay to not be okay” s relationship with her parents really was a hurting thing to watch
what are names of other 2 dramas?
@@zahraaslam7943 look at pinned comment for all the dramas :)
btw sorry for the long delay ://
I love how relatable this is.......Amazing editing btw
I'm sorry that you can relate :(
Thank you so much!
@@nayabiggestyerifan Yeri is Red Veltet bias too btw
@@myesharaheel7209 yasss queen yerimm
You killed it bestie. Keep up the good work
Aww tysm kitty 💗
@@nayabiggestyerifan your welcome bestie
It reminds me of my family who never wanted me😂💔💔
So sorry for you, they don't deserve you :(
@@nayabiggestyerifan I wish I could die
@YUQI💜 please don't. You're so precious and amazing, you don't deserve to die
if things get to hard, feel free to open up here. we'll always be here to console you