Teenager Conspires with Lover to Murder Her Family | Erin Caffey Case Analysis
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- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Erin Caffey and the Caffey family murders?
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Parents worried about her friends, when she is the primary monster in the story.
Denial runs deep.
How ironic even the amount of denial in that household.🤔❤🇺🇸
The father still blames the boyfriend and other friends. The father is in total denial. Erin hated both her parents and family. She had zero feelings. It seems sex ia the only happy feeling she had in life.
Kevin Schmevin eh, i think mostly everyone involved were messed up/wrong to an extent, but her parents were far from being the monster, more like the catalyst. Her parents weren't saints for sure and def had a bad influence on her, but at the end of the day, Erin still chose to murder instead of seeking some other tame method like waiting till 18 so that she could have the freedom to leave. Lots of people in toxic households don't end up becoming monsterous killers, she had other choices, but instead she chose to destroy everyone's lives and in the process, her own. By this she looks more like the monster of this case.
Not that Dr. Phil us great but his interview with her really showed she is a true sociopath. She has straight shark eyes
Imagine if the friends blew the whistle on this plan instead of just roll their eyes
I cannot think of 1 friend that would be serious saying that. At all.
Watch the movie Bully dir. Larry Clark, about the true story of high school kids who convinced each other to murder their friend. Crazy story, even crazier movie
I saw the Dr Phil episode about this case, apparently she also asked her ex boyfriend years prior to murder her family, the boyfriend didn't have a problem with her parents so I'm not so sure about her having to break up with Charlie being the motivation. She wanted them dead long before she met Charlie.
Edit: I commented before finishing the full video, so the ex boyfriend is mentioned in this video, I thought it was a boyfriend but apparently it was just a boy she kissed.
Right?!
@@noam2315 your point is still valid, though. She clearly wanted them dead.
Crazy how easily the other people just went along with her plan, including murdering two kids just so that they wouldn't be witnesses.
I'm stunned the father still visits his daughter behind bars......where she absolutely belongs!!
I guess you don’t have children?
You would NEVER understand until you have them.
Yes she is a criminal, yes she is where she belongs, but I can sympathize with the father, the extreme pain he must feel about what his baby girl did. To him that was HIS BaBY GIRL... it is his daughter after all, that’s what unconditional love is and what most parents do.
He's a Christian, so he 'has' to forgive her; plus, she probably snowed him like she did the therapist.
It’s sad could be a coping mechanism
I think he's also hollow. Removed from the whole tragedy. She'll never be released, in my opinion, that is.
I would never speak to my child again after this. Ever.
I'm noticing a trend in these teenage crimes from Skylar Neese tragedy and the Loveless case to this one: the perps blurted out their plans yet nobody took them seriously. Had one person said something this whole mess could've been avoided. Sadly this was not the case
I had a 15 year old boy tell me that he was feeling out of control and his mom wouldn't let him get help. That he felt like he would do something "bad" and he was mad at the girl rejecting him. I tried to report it but was met with "if you don't know who he is and where he is there's nothing we can do." So, I guess we'll see this fall if he got over it or not...
The police will probably just tell you that teenagers talk about killing their parents all the time, don't pay attention to them, they're being dramatic.
Not really. So and so heard some dude say such and such about these ppl over here. Go arrest them officer.
Problem is, according to the police there’s nothing they can do. It’s super frustrating
The entire country is a troupe of drama queens. So you learn to ignore it. Then the one who wasn't a drama queen speaks up, and we're used to ignoring it.
Erin Caffey has always given me the creeps. Very manipulative and no conscience whatsoever. My skin crawls when I watch her interviews. IMO she's one of the more dangerous people we've reviewed. Tyfs Doc!
Jill Coit as well.
You're talking nonsense about Trump. Trump is a competent no nonsense succesful statesman that improved everybody's lives
Now we need an analysis of her dad. Poor man is in TOTAL denial about his daughter’s role in this horrific case.
Exactly. He doesn't want to believe that she could do this. Sad
I believe he forgave Erin partly, bcz he’s a religious Man, but to listen to her lie after having her whole family killed. I’m not able to wrap my head around him being so naive about her involvement. 7/30/22
Guys a major pushover
He's probably in denial because, to accept the truth, that means losing his only remaining child.
@@bcpr9812 still though, like she's the reason the rest of the people you loved are dead.
Guy doesn't have to hate her, but if it were me in his shoes I definitely wouldn't be doing anything for her.
Idk if that says more about me than anything, but seriously, fck that. 🤦🏼♂️
Guy is a better person than I am I guess. Lol
I’ve seen interviews of Erin and she doesn’t seem even the least bit remorseful to me. I feel so bad for her dad. I can’t imagine finding out my whole family was massacred at the hands of my other child.
Severe denial Erin involved. I’d be in shock to, but at some point after hearing the evidence you must doubt your belief in her innocence. Parents worst Nightmare made Reality! 7/30/22
Psychopaths...crazy.
Her facial expressions looked hollow to me, even tho she's pretty, zombie like.
@@jeaniechampagne8831 Psychopath in making. If/When ever released, not last we’ll see of her. Something very wrong. Sad really
No kidding when interviewed and asked what happened she said , " well I just made so bad choices that how I ended up here " no emotion doesn't feel bad at all bout taking her mothers and brothers lives and ruining the dads life on top of his life long physical injuries !! She saud, I made some bad choices as if she just shop lifted something weird and the dad is weird as can be in total denial doesn't blame her says, the boy manipulated her despite ALL EVIDENCE to the contrary!!
A couple of the guys on the behaviour panel names Erin their favorite psychopath ever, partly because she was unintelligent, female, and very young, while we typically think of psychopaths as male, extremely smart and at least older than a teenager. Thanks for your analysis, Dr Grande. Always a pleasure!
The Behaviour Panel is pseudo-scientific nonsense, unfortunately.
@@eadweard. So what? :)
The Behavior Panel is engaged in pseudoscience, per Dr. Grande. I agree.
Weird as the psychopaths
i don't understand killing someone when you can just leave! you have to be an idiot monster to do that. although i'm sure she would have ended up in prison no matter what she chose, she's just rotten.
A teenager can't "just leave" plus, her parents probably tried to rule every aspect of her life. Those highly religious parents can't do real psychological damage to their children. Add that on top of already being a psychopath, and you end up with a person willing to kill to get what they want.
@@dextermorgan1 they're not highly religious, they're heavily controlling. They never taught their daughter any values, they just give orders. They hide behind the facade of religion, to throw fits about a 17 year old drinking, like it's a federal case. It's an extreme form of virtue signaling.
Some are just born bad seeds.
@@dextermorgan1 She could have waited.
@@Noodlepunk Yes, she could have, but she's obviously psychotic, so in her mind, that probably wasn't an option. Crazy people don't think logically like we do.
Dr. Grande's statement that people grow up "unevenly" opened my mind. Such clarity!
What amazes me is that no one involved, even friends of Erin, contacted the police before the murders. When I was in school, if someone talked about murdering their family, I think I would have reported it to someone in authority.
Same here...most definitely.
No kidding if nothing else or a sick joke. It would have been a deal breaker for me to hang out with them! Lol You are not alone in your thinking.🤔❤🇺🇸
Yeah you would think so...until you do so and people think you are crazy for be living it
Part of the problem is that the authority figures do not take it seriously enough. We have already seen evidence of that in several recent mass shooting cases.
Yeah but so many kids just say stuff to vent and yet could never even fathom someone actually going through with it.
The instigating factor here is psychopathy. Being young and sex crazed is fairly normal, they simply find a secluded place and do it. No one took the dialog of killing her parents seriously because, while anger is virtually universal, killing them was, well, insane. There was an element of wanting to injure and kill the parents, and the brothers while being witnesses, were completely disregarded. The woman had zero empathy, zero judgment, zero regard of consequences, also obsessive, thinking and talking about it all the time. The mystery is the recruitment of the co-conspirators, where they all crazy? Was drugs involved?
No, no and no again. This is clearly the parents' fault, 100%. When Grande said "a girl kissed her so the parents pulled all three kids from school" tells you everything about what kind of people they are. These parents were bigots and religious extremists who drove their daughter to this.
Yea in the current state of society an obvious parallel runs through the course of society use of drugs including those now accepted as legal for recreational, and crime ,sometimes the most serious, also misinformed phoney religious upbringing, basic truths ,Peaple are known by the peaple they keep as company, bad associates hang out together. Some of the religion practiced by families in an attempt to guide themselves to doing good are the source of their hypocritical actions . Whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one .God of this present system of things is Satan the devil himself .Look forward to the end of this corrupt world of this man,human governed society. All the failed efferts of human to bring about kind compassionate loving caring grateful members of human family earthwide, instead of sick warped ,self-centered, egotistical, imitators ,of Satan himself prideful , con artists,.Ultimately all reap what they sow.
Yea honestly that’s the part I get the least. How this sociopath with no personality got multiple other ppl to kill her parents. Boyfriend I kinda get but the other guy? Why?
@@alfobootidir2474 money 💰
My parents were not overly strict, but I was a bit wild as a teen. They allowed me to go to concerts with my friends to see a very young AC/DC numerous times. But they did cramp my style sometimes. I t never occurred to me to hurt them, or my sisters, and I truly don’t understand how she did not at least care about her little brothers. That is especially sickening.
As always, the deadpan humor embedded in your analysis lightens the darkness of the topics!
“I think you’re rushing things…”
Indeed. I also like the Drs sense of humor
When an honest-to-god psychopath comes in the form of a pretty teenage girl, a lot of people simply don't see it coming. That, to me, is part of what makes this case so interesting. I love The Behavior Panel's video on her. And everything by Dr Grande is amazing, so...
Pretty?????
@@dahe1352 After a 12 pack, though?
@@dahe1352 mostly all young women are pretty, come on, you’re just being unrealistic.
Thing is, all teenagers say "my parents suck". I can see why people weren't exactly taking what she was saying seriously, because they just thought it was an exaggeration.
I also wonder, would she have been less aggressivel if they let her have safe sex with this boyfriend of hers? I'm definitely pro safe sex, I think that abstinence is just not feasible for everyone. This apparently happens when a psycho gets sexually frustrated 😑
@@lostandfound5145 I don’t think that’s true at all. Not everyone can be good looking. It is what it is.
Bobbi Johnson (the girlfriend of the second killer) got an extremely strict sentence. I think it was too harsh. They didn't want to involve her in the plan at first. She borrowed the car to her boyfriend without knowing the plan of the killing. She was nosy and didn't want to leave her boyfriend alone that night, so he finally agreed to take her with them. She found out about a plot by sitting in the car with two armed men and the mastermind manipulator. Imagine the peer pressure. What was she supposed to do? Get out of the car and call the police? But what if they decided to kill her too? She could be afraid for her own life. She didn't plan the crime, she didn't pull the trigger. Nevertheless, she got a crazy long sentence. I agree she should be in prison, but not for 20- 30 years. It's preposterous.
I agree with you..I had the exact same thoughts about her
I agree with you. 15 years would’ve been enough for Bobbi.
Zero time for her. Ignorance is a defense. She was trapped. She should have seen a lawyer the next day, cut a deal and would’ve walked. She must have had terrible representation. The crime, was so awful, everyone had to pay.
@@prant8998 she was very eager to talk with police without lawyer (of course). You can see on the tape in the investigating room that at the beginning of the interview with officers, it didn't even cross her mind that she could be in such a trouble.
@@prant8998 ignorance is not a defense
Her father has convinced himself that Charlie was the mastermind behind the executions. Erin did an episode of Dr. Phil and at one point called her Dad after her interview. She knew that Dr. Phil wasn’t buying her story and at this point she wants her father’s support. Too bad that she didn’t value it before she decided that her family needed to die.
Not to question the legitimacy of loss concerning the mother. Yet, we really do not know what other forces at play could have been going on in the marriage or other family considered. 🤔❤🇺🇸
♀nature at its finest. giving them equal rights was a mistake
I’ve seen this so many times. There’s other killers who tried to kill both parents but one survives. That surviving parent clings to the murdering child. Seems like a coping mechanism because it’s all they have left.
@@Blox117 what are you talking about? There’s always been female murderers, in the past they got away with it because men, in their wisdom, didn’t think a woman was capable of such heinous acts…equal rights has been helpful in dispelling that myth, that being said, most murders are committed by males that’s a fact, still feel superior?
@@DottieMinerva Perhaps 🤔 ❤🇺🇸
Several years ago while teaching at our Juvenile Corrections facility, I had a new "student" who had become involved with a much older man (She being 16 and the eldest of 4 sisters). Her hard working father was adamant about her not dating this man and eventually she and the 26 year old boyfriend murdered him. Of all the inmates on my caseload, all young males mostly in for theft or drugs, she was the one I could not bring myself to even look in the eye. I had seen her mother and sisters crying on television and I felt so bad for them. How could she have been so cold blooded? So cruel and selfish? Now I know. Thank you Dr. Grande for another analysis.
That’s so sad and terrible.
how? she was a ♀.
there's something about having a vaj that makes you not ok in the head
She got her father killed for a P word guy?! Seriously?
That's so atrocious and ugly.
Did her father assault her though? Physically or sexually? Or was he just trying to keep her away from the creep she thought she was "dating"?
To a psychopath, that's nothing. The girl you mentioned would have killed her mother and sisters without a second thought if it had suited her purposes.
@@Blox117 your comment really says a lot about how you’re unable to understand people that think differently than you. Might want to work on that. If 50% of the population seems insane to you… it might be you, just food for thought
Idk how Dr Grande researches, edits and produces all these tragic stories. A lot of the time I have to pause the video to get myself together. And I truly can’t imagine the nightmare the people involved go through.
This reminds me a case you covered recently Dr Grande, of Christopher Porco. Wonder how she feels when the father visits her in jail knowing each time she looks at him is a reminder that she didn’t “finish the job”.
She probably wash her hands like Ponce Pilate.
But in the end she is a liar, who cares what she thinks ?
If she finished the job she would still be in prison only then she wouldn't have daddy putting money on her books.
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He really doesn't care!
Holy crap her dad forgave her??
Great analysis Dr. Grande. One thing crossed my mind. In many religious families gender roles can be quite strict and girls are often shamed for sexual desires a lot more than boys are. I've also found girls to be manipulative because a lot of times, girls are not taught to be direct, to say what they want, what they mean. I was taught that being direct was "un-ladylike." So in order to get what you want, you learn to manipulate, to go around what you want, to make it seem like it's the other person's idea. Most girls in Erin's situation would probably get pregnant but Erin probably didn't want the responsibility, which was why she had to get other people to do her dirty work for her.
You are absolutely correct! Especially in the south where gender role are prevalent. Women learn how to be manipulative to get what they want.
@@Africanpunkrocker it’s almost like misogyny is the problem wow
Wow, peer pressure sure has changed since I was a teenager.
Wuuut, so u didnt talk about killing someones family? 😲😲😲😲
@@ZombolicBand what?
Our peer pressure was skipping school or sneaking makeup to school and putting it on when we got there. Not killing families!
what you get when sociopath meets stupid.
I've always wondered how the dad still maintains contact with her. He's a way better person than I am.
Jean
Could be her dad was quite pleased he was rid of his wife.
He remarried soon enough.
When I was 17, I would fight with my Mom all the time because "I was in love" with a girl. My Mom already knew what type she was, but I wouldnt listen. So we always fought about it. I put a rift between us so I could be with her for the next year.
I regret that so much now and I wish I could get that time back with my Mom.
I wonder if these young killers ever grow to regret.
But would a psychopathic person really feel guilt & shame? I thought that was one of the "perks" of psychopathy 🤔
Shoplifting or bad checks😂 Love your videos!! The depth you go into cases is genius . Blessings ❤
From watching true crime videos on TH-cam I’ve learned that samurai swords are way more common of a murder weapon than I ever could’ve imagined
They make for great melon slicers
I can't over her father keeping her in his life. Forgiveness is one thing, but this crosses over into stupidity.
It reminds me of the Bart Whitaker case. Would love to see Dr. Grande analyse that one.
I agree!
Just like Kent Whitaker, still visits his son after he killed his mom and brother. But that's the love of a parent.
She's a very sweet girl. I get it, guys do really dumb things for cute girls.
Senseless Murder that didn’t need to take place! She could of just run away, but she needed her Family killed for them to be together! Erin’s a Classic Psychopath! 7/27/22
I agree . Checkout the behavior panel. They did an informative analysis on Erin. Dr . Phil is also featured.
@@kristinekrohn7231 Thanks for info I did catch TBP & Full Interview Piers Morgan did on Women in prison yrs ago, Dad was on it to.
A classic psychopath? Heck, she's a full-blown psychoboulevard.
Hahaha I always look forward to the hidden comedy line, you never disappoint 😂
Erin felt she was too young to get pregnant ...BUT not too young to be involved in the murder of her family ??? I can't even begin to process that type of thinking !
I love how the characters being introduced wearing orange jump suits, kinda foreshadows their outcomes.
She did not live in Alba, she lived in rains county just outside of Emory TX. I lived there when this happened. It shook our little small town.
Reminds me so much of Bart Whitaker. Would love to hear you do an analysis of him as well as his father. And if you could weave the similarities and discrepancies between this case and that one, that would be amazing. There’s something about these fathers that go on speaking and media tours talking about how they forgave their kids that murdered their families. Can’t help but think the fathers’ personalities and what the kids ended up doing is related. Thanks, Dr G!
This story is so sad, I feel so bad for the only survivor- Terry, imagine your daughter being the reason your whole family was brutally murdered, including children, I couldn't imagine.
He doesn’t believe Erin was involved at All, not capable. He forgives her (religious)Erin is responsible for his Wife & Sons (almost him) being Murdered. I couldn’t defend my child! Sad situation All around. 7/30/22
I saw the video of the interview with the father. Tbis story is so sad. The young teenager erin hated her entire family yet the father continues to blame the boyfriend and other friends. Erin had zero love for her family. Maybe sexual relations were the only happy feelings she felt? She was not happy and lied to her parents. The father refuses to see his daughter as the evil liar and killer she is. The father still loves and prays for erin. I see erin as a sociopathic killer. She would have gonè on to kill others in life.
Oh yeah, if she had actually gotten away with this she would've learned early that it's a solution to people who get in her way.
I've seen this channel a couple of times before. I like the calm, and thoughtful presentation which is very appropriate as well.
She was a bad seed .
word to parents. unless your kid is being beaten, don't intervene. you're just gonna make them wanna see the person you hate more
Incoherent.
I agree with this. Of course protect them from harm but seriously young love is intense.
Parents need to realize that children are old enough to make their own relationship decisions sooner than they want to admit. Just because you STRONGLY FEEL something is your business doesn't make it true. This includes your children and it includes them way sooner than the "magic number" 18.
This is so true even adults in dysfunctional relationships grow tighter when friends try to convince them to leave
Pretty sure it's extremely difficult bc of the possibility of a baby entering the picture, the young couple unable to handle the responsibility and the poor kid being raised by god knows who
And my parents were afraid I would hang out with the wrong crowd. No one I hung out with even planned a crime. None of the guys raped any women. The only killing was my parents and their overkill to raising their kids.
Outstanding job with this review, thank you Dr. Grande.❤️
Hello Dr. Grande🥰 Thank you for the new video! This was one that I hadn't heard of nor was it one that I could guess what was going to happen with any amount of certainty. Thank you for your great analysis!
We just met and I feel like you're rushing things a bit 🤣🤣🤣
Too young to be pregnant but killing parents fits...
Thanks Dr Grande for reminding me that I'm not as crazy as I sometimes think I am.
I don't get it. Why not just run away? Her moron boyfriend even suggested it. They were just as stupid as they were cruel.
I’m a parent and sometimes I lose track of the fact that we can’t create rules and parameters that enable our children to make every “right” decision. As children mature they need to be able make their own decisions. Even the ones we know aren’t in their best interest
I don't know what's wrong with me but I'm sitting here on a Saturday bingeing Grande when I should be doing something productive.
Thank you, Dr. Grande! 💙
She’s a terrible liar. 🤥
At least her style work well on thirsty teenagers.
I’m not diagnosing anyone just sharing my opinion. He looks so intelligent yet alienate 50% of the population.
Always nice to see another post by The Good Doctor Grande.
Evil is real.
I thoroughly enjoy these videos. They are interesting and informative. I was, however, a bit taken off guard with the comment comparing a baby running a country to President Trump. Wouldn't it be for the best to pass over any politically bias? Surely I'm not the only conservative subscribed.
He has made similar jabs towards liberals and democrats, but this one seemed really out of place. Almost like he was forcing it in. But I am in no way diagnosing, just making an observation.
@@joelpenley9791 It was such extremely low laying fruit to pick for otherwise sharp humor by Dr. Grande. "I made "Trump is a baby" joke, hurr durr..." " Like in old adage: "it doesn't offend me as a conservative, it offends me as a comedian" :)
How horrific...that poor family. 😢 Excellent analysis, Dr. Grande! ❤️
Thank you, Dr. Grande! Always an insightful analysis... 💙
Dr. G is hitting the mark again and again, with consistently thorough and intriguing analysis! Without your work, I wouldn't know about many of these cases. So, thank you for the hard work!
So this is what it looks like when Romeo and Juliet kill their family instead of themselves? Interesting. Tragic still, but interesting. I wonder what your thoughts are on why this instead of that. Specifically, killing her family instead of killing themselves. Either way is crazy, it just seems unusual.
Please don't insult Romeo and Juliet by comparing them to these stupid brats. ;-)~
She had wanted to kill her parents prior to mtg Charlie. He was her instrument to get the deed done. No Romeo and Juliet here just a need to over power (to the ultimate degree, her parents).
Great video! It's so interesting how uneven maturity can combine with personality issues (e.g., psychopathy) to cause someone to go down this road. What a tragic situation for the Caffey family!
Texas DOC website says she is eligible for parole in 2038. That's only 30 years. She will be 46.
Such a tragedy.. I enjoy ur content.. I like how you will slide a little appropriate humor in *some of your videos. I don't disagree w/ the funny ( a baby running a country) comment abt Trump, however, its just as equal to having a well advanced senior citizen who's inattentive and requires a minimum of 15 hours of sleep each day&night..and needs to be reminded daily of what state or city he is currently in.😉
Maturing unevenly... yes...exactly...she developed no feelings singing with her family?
Every so often, a person comes along who is just plain pure evil. Erin Caffey is one such person. I hope she is never released from prison. Why this monster was not given the death penalty is beyond understanding.
Very insightful analysis, thank you.
Interesting and enjoyable. Thank you.
Erin was given 2 life sentences plus another 25 years.
SHE COULD BE OUT IN 40. 🤦🏻♀️
How does this make any sense?
Madamit became
I 100% believe her strict christian upbringing played a part in her feeling isolated from peers and wanting acceptance/'love.' Strict parents raise a good liar as a child.
100%. Not just strict but no communication and no listening to her opinions just control shut up control shut up control. Might not make sense but that’s what comes to mind thinking back on my childhood
Man todd love your videos! I love how objective you are I really appreciate feeling like you have almost zero bias
just when I finish bingeing all of Dr Grandes videos a new one drops 🥰 amazing as always!
Hello Dr. Grande, thank you for this video. For me, it is disturbing how a confused mind can start to focus on evil thoughts but not realize how serious the act or consequences of their actions will end. Very disturbing. Best Regards. ❤👍
Hi Dr. Grande. This video shows that she was an evil, devil, trashy, loser. I hope & may God let her murdered family members rest in peace. Thanks sincerely for your always on point analysis, hope you & your family are having a wonderful evening, love & peace, Janine Smiley😀🙂😎🤩😍✌👍🍰🍪🥧🎂👒👑💍🍫☕🍩🦓🐶🦊🐺🥝🍎🍇🍓🍊🍉🇺🇸
hey dr grande when you have the chance, can you analyze the ruby ridge case with the weaver family?
Amazing analysis. Especially the dry humor. Very well done.
So many amusing comments, Dr. Grande! I always watch your videos for the educational purposes, but stay for the entertainment. Thanks.
Sounds like a nightmare! Let’s do this! Thanks for all the interesting information and analysis, Grande. I appreciate it.
I’m by no means victim blaming here as no one deserves this, however, please please please be the kind of parents that your child can feel comfortable coming to and being honest with about their normal hormones and desires. Do not shun them or shame them.
I totally agree with you on this. We raised 3 well rounded children, always open line’s of communication about everything & anything. Never in trouble with violence, abusive, law. It was the right thing for our family. If they can’t talk to Parents/Parent (secrets kept) sneak behind your back, trust me you’d rather know keep an open mind & listen. 7/30/22
You are victim blaming.
@@sternshadowdude2 that’s not victim blaming, it’s decent advice. The fact is not being open to your kids can make them want to k!ll you. It happens a lot easier than you’d think.
The amount of work you put into each of these topics is amazing. That's before I am
Just way beyond mean. Assuming this is precise and on point. Thank you Dr. Grande another interesting story.
Thank you for covering this story, Dr. Grande. A tragic, senseless crime.
Love your humor❤️have a blessed day!
Hi Dr Grande
Why did Nikolas Cruz the shooter of Parkland Florida cover his ears during the audio of the shooting & Also doesn't look at anyone directly on the stand as witnesses describe their experience of the shooting nor look at medical examiner describing autopsies of each victim
Greatly appreciate your analysis
Marty M Molina
As serious as his story is, I still can’t get past when the word lover is used since watching the SNL will Ferrel skit. My Lovah
Legit fantastic channel Dr. G!
I think we need to do something to help our youth. They are not able to think rationally. This happens a lot and probably always has. Where do we begin? This makes me sad. I did a lot of stupid things as a young teen because I was impulsive thank God it wasn’t serious but it’s true young people don’t think like adults. How can we as a society do something better to help prevent some from these lifelong tragedies?
I don't understand how people can kill someone for their partners. I've been with my partner for 9 years and if conspired to kill I'd snitch on him. People like that need help and discipline not people helping them to murder
This was so sad and stupid. All these other kids getting in big trouble over something that she wanted. They probably would be having their kids by now. Living normal lives
Good Day, Dr. Grande. Ready for an Excellent Analysis.
Always interesting.
Another reason for Me to stay home.
Thank you.
Peace 💕🇺🇲
Your humor is making the day brighter!😄Thanks so much Doc🌈☀
These types of crimes are more frequent in American families than any other countries in the world , mass killing incidents, and more serial killers in America ? But why ?
This is untrue.
I saw a PRETTY CACTUS ON A PASSING REVIEW …
I said a prayer for you and yours in thanksgiving.
Wonderful!
This was a really good story. Thanks Dr Grande.
Honestly Dr. Grande, none of the things about her background justify her having murderous intent towards her parents.
All kids "become highly interested in sex", some kids can lie well, and a lot of kids behave how she did with the exception of manipulating another kid into killing her parents.
Edit: Dr. Grande, I agree regarding your opinion that many things came together here to cause what unfortunately happened. I really couldn't pick one characteristic or urge that she displayed and go Aha! That was the reason. So I guess it was them collectively.
Makes me glad I never had kids. You never know how they turn out. They can turn into an incredible adult or they can turn into a murderer and betray the family. Happy with my cat! No drama no killings
So funny that the one act they always think will allow them to be together forever, is the act that will ensure that they will NEVER be together! These young minds never seems to think beyond the act. Just another sign that they will not succeed! But it's so sad that this girl had no conscience and would not choose another alternative. Can she ever be reformed?
Erin Caffey babysat me growing up
Having two controlling/overbearing parents can cause huge mental problems for a child/adolescent. Just saying, usually the most fd up people have this in common.
There are also plenty of cases where the parents are overly supportive and would just give everything and anything their kid wants, but they still end up dying from the kid's hands.
@@MadeByChinkee So the two extremes seem to be prevalent alot of the time.
@@HLl564My parents were very overbearing and controlling. They never abused or beat me. I never wanted for anything. But I did hate how overbearing they were. Guess what? I'm not a psychopathic murderer. That's a choice someone makes.
@@kyledavis4325 Yes but for the wrong individual it can be devastating
Dr Grande I’d love to see your take on the case of Brian Blackwell, the teenager who killed his parents and pretended to be a pro- tennis player. He was convicted of manslaughter due to his NPD.
Yeah! In the UK I think? Dude went on shopping sprees and everything as his folks rotted
@@kgonzalez8098 that’s right! Went to New York with his girlfriend on a pretend tennis tour and spent £30k in two weeks. He told everyone his parents were in Spain but actually they were decomposing in the kitchen.
I really love your smart-ass comments. It's pretty funny. Thanks for your videos!
I absolutely love the snarky remarks added in. Dr. Grande is savage!
Baby put in charge of a country - very well described, Doc!
There’s something weird about these hayseed small towns that seems to cause people into casually thinking about murdering their parents and other people. We all would otherwise think these small towns would be less of an exposure risk than big cities.
Such towns tend to have greatly lower per capita crime than do cities.
@@eadweard. Maybe because they are less populated?
@@ReedRosson1987 Well I did say "per capita".
@@eadweard. true
@@eadweard. There has been a spike in murder rates in rural areas since the pandemic, though. The following is just a theory, my opinion: a lot of people manufacture and consume methamphetamine in small town America and that stuff literally will make you psychotic. It's also easier to get away with murder in those areas.
But yes, you are correct, crime is definitely most rampant in urban areas.
Sorry, I responded way too fast.
This reminds me of the Richardson family murders in Alberta Canada. The girl was like 14 at the time, she just got out of prison recently. Her boyfriend is still in until 2030's
He already did....
Wow in my day you just ran away, didn’t need to take out your whole family.