If you are raised by a responsible father, the one unique thing he gives you is to become independent. He does not expect anything from you. My Dad was a single father and he trained us exactly like this men❤❤❤
Discussing everything before marriage doesnt help if you are getting married to a Narc.They are always on a love bombing mission so they will agree to everything and anything .Just know what you want in marriage and observe the other person's behaviour if it matches with what you are looking for.
Hahahaa those daemons will tell you everything you want to hear and sweep you off your feet! One topic the video failed to mention. My sister was killed by a Narc in the U.K. He had just been promoted, so not like he wasn’t as successful as she was, he was jealous of her beauty and feared the work colleagues will make moves on her. He even wanted to run over their work colleagues and asked someone to spy on her. She was innocent and many men in the U.K. kill not only cos they lost their jobs, they are jealous of their wives successes when these women are self made, and many more reasons. These are weak men who can’t cope in the west, even when wealthy! The police who dealt with my sisters case said it was very common for our African men to kill their wives. 🥴
Please do brother. Some of us men take these decisions in our minds daily but never walk out of toxic marriages to our early graves. And i promise you,there are many of us
For real, all what he said is very true, we not need to rush , into what we don't know, having unplanned kids, before wen we had arranged marriages in Africa the rate of single mums was very low, and the society was so disciplined
Many women do everything for their children,paying fees, buying shoes,e.t.c. More women are in loveless marriages,so as to maintain an image. Personally,a marriage without genuine care or friendships doesn't flourish , it might work but it will have a missing element .
With unhealthy relationship with yourself, Your partner becomes a requirement, a condition for you to feel good about yourself, for you to feel complete. And even when you get the person now, there's all the paranoia about losing that person. And then subtlely and most of the time unconsciously, manipulation will kick in to try to keep that person there, or to try to keep that love coming your way. A relationship is not you complete me , fuck that. It's two people that are whole coming together and synergy happens.
Wisdom Wisdom Wisdom... This is the Day today Message our generation Needs to hear.... Listen to people like him, you'll live long and healthy in this world.
Traditionally marriage should not or had nothing to to with materials. As we know we have traditional belief, religious belief and atheism which all have a part to play in marriage. The surprising truth is the arranged marriages last longer than the rest, this is because people marry their cousins or other well known and respected family members. The table is turning now this is due to the world businesses, competition and educational standards. People become selective, careful and have thoughtful approach when come to engage in marriage or who to marry. Sadly materialism has widely put great pressure on both males and females in such a way that no one would easily adapt your seduction unless you are either a successful person, famous or very wealthy indeed.
Guidebook written by our loving creator explains it all. Deep respect for husband and love wife as own body and worship God together. Simples. Ephesians 5:33❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hapo kwa skills ni ukweli, sahizi am benefitting from the skills i learnt ,those days i thought i was learning something to pass time but skills are paying
An arranged marriage is a transaction…and the children who you marry off are just the currency. It’s a way of maintaining power and status … but at the expense of what? Throughout Africa I see it a lot. People are being pressured by their parents to find someone and have kids … even when they don’t want to. So they find someone, have a kid or two and then they go on with their lives. Many young people aren’t even interested yet in family planning, but they feel forced into it by their parents … so, it doesn’t last because after they have satisfied their parents desire to be grandparents, now they can finally move on with their own lives.
Good advice but for a few ears to hear , the best place for such guidance in relationships is in schools from high school all the way to university and colleges,coz how many hv data or smart phones to get to hear this, very few, coz times now no parents hv advice like this to there teenagers or youth , all think it’s love or nothing
Please with all due respect the ratio of women to men the guest mentioned is wrong. I just googled it 😅, it’s rather 50.25 men and women are 49.75😂. Please google it for yourself
Your problem is that you're trying to prove "him" wrong instead of understanding what is being said,and unfortunately you got the concept wrong. Women!
Bringing rules even in love, jameni. It's a boring life to live. Come-on. Anyone who has experienced love in any degree will know this should be taken with a pinch of salt. Obviously, take care of the person you are marrying but being fixated on all these rules. Wueeh wueeh. Wueeh. Life is for the living. 😅 Anyway .
Love alone cannot sustain a marriage, I know of many who were madly in love when the got married but are now divorced or separated. Marriage is a bit complex and there are a lot of factors one needs to consider apart from the "puppy love." These factors are finances, religion, cultural background, sexual/health history, values, future goals and aspirations. Marriage is not a vacation, you gotta be intentional and put in the work for it to be successful.
@@SimbaMpasuaMiamba. I agree with you. All your are saying is true and very key. All I am saying is , bearing all that in mind make sure you are in love and you actually like this person you will navigate all these complexities with. A person you can enjoy life with, laugh, and have a good time. We are here for a season, lets make it count.
If your blueprint is not in the word of God U will ALWAYS LOSE! A man shall leave his father and mother and CLEAVE unto his wife! And they become ONE flesh ! if your mindframe of thinking is TWO , U already out of order!
Global statistics indicate the ratio of men to women is almost 1:1 same for Kenya...1:15 is wild, lets learn to actually get credible data from credible organizations not peddling myths.
Many people don't know that if in marriage values are not negotiated beyond the "legs" shenanigans, that relationship is doomed. Both parties MUST be intentional in deliberating on what each party brings to the table. Sex benefit or as a marriage convenience factor is a milage. Sex satisfaction you can get it out there to your fill but a serious uniting bond must be identified. Men are often abused by using legs as a bargaining tool for exploitation to oblivion. Marriage must be a win win partnership. Nothing more or less. Men be wise guys.
But if you get satisfied outside home,,very often,the spouse spends less n less time together,the marriage will seem to be working but is lacking in a key element.
The reason why you should marry is to achieve God's purpose in your marriage. Your marriage is a story that God is telling from heaven. Your marriage is supposed to bring glory to Jesus by serving him.
If you are raised by a responsible father, the one unique thing he gives you is to become independent. He does not expect anything from you. My Dad was a single father and he trained us exactly like this men❤❤❤
This show needed 2 or 3 hours. The guy has a lot of wisdom that we need as young people
It is not wicked enough
I agree, this show needs a lot of time.
What a deep insights into the murky waters of marriages
Half of this man's wisdom is worth billions of dollars, imagine having an uncle like this that gives you ABC from time to time
Discussing everything before marriage doesnt help if you are getting married to a Narc.They are always on a love bombing mission so they will agree to everything and anything .Just know what you want in marriage and observe the other person's behaviour if it matches with what you are looking for.
Hahahaa those daemons will tell you everything you want to hear and sweep you off your feet! One topic the video failed to mention.
My sister was killed by a Narc in the U.K. He had just been promoted, so not like he wasn’t as successful as she was, he was jealous of her beauty and feared the work colleagues will make moves on her. He even wanted to run over their work colleagues and asked someone to spy on her. She was innocent and many men in the U.K. kill not only cos they lost their jobs, they are jealous of their wives successes when these women are self made, and many more reasons. These are weak men who can’t cope in the west, even when wealthy! The police who dealt with my sisters case said it was very common for our African men to kill their wives. 🥴
Bingo! This is what happened to me. They mirror you so everything you want they say they do too
Narc? Lol just say woman.
You nailed it!!! Observe and make decisions
I think i needed this level of honesty as am about to make a very critical decision.
Please do brother. Some of us men take these decisions in our minds daily but never walk out of toxic marriages to our early graves. And i promise you,there are many of us
Don't marry. It's a scam
This man is full of wisdom, the time was very short Dr. King'ori
The truth is sad and hard to hear. A man's life has never been easier!
it can bro.,,just dnt marry
@@waweruian😂
King'ori, do a 2 hour show with this gentleman
The talk was uplifting 🔥we need more of him n such talks
I learned a lot after listening to this. There is so much wisdom from this father.
We need more conversations from older men like these. Yes older men. Speaking to younger men. This is splendid .👌🏾
I worked with Dr Wallace and 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉i celebrate this Foreigner
Quite an insightful conversation, with nuggets of wisdom.
we need more of such content , thank you for this . been a fun since kitambo but this new approach will keep me checking up on whats new and poping
This is very wonderful. Kudos Dr Kingori. This is a great Wisdom edition.
Deep and profound nuggets of wisdom here! Wish we could have a longer session on this. Thanks Dr. King'ori.
Very inspiring, am 40 ,I respect my self, value my life and I can engage a man when we can internalize the above basics. Thanks so much for the info.
For real, all what he said is very true, we not need to rush , into what we don't know, having unplanned kids, before wen we had arranged marriages in Africa the rate of single mums was very low, and the society was so disciplined
I recalled I didn't hit the like button . Had to get back .
Knowledge is power 😊
We need a full interview...This guy is speaking sense and as a mid-twenties man I was learning a lot. Bring him on board again and let him ooze wisdom
I agree 100%... plan plan plan.. plan about money, parenting style, insurance everythingggg
We need more of this sir,,the wisdom
Very insightful.
I hope the mainstream media is taking notes...
Baraka Tele Kings 👑
Excellent counsellor.. please have another forum so that his wealth of knowledge can be used by many who need to hear this..
This is not a show. It's a class! So much learning. Greetings from Kampala!
Am glad this conversation has started it was long overdue.
Great conversation there. I hope there's a part 2.
À short conversation with a lot of great insights 👏👏👏
Nothing is more sadder than a disoriented man.
This man should do a show with andrew kibe they speak the cold truth even the pastors cant callout single mothers pandemic ticking time bomb
Many women do everything for their children,paying fees, buying shoes,e.t.c. More women are in loveless marriages,so as to maintain an image.
Personally,a marriage without genuine care or friendships doesn't flourish , it might work but it will have a missing element .
With unhealthy relationship with yourself, Your partner becomes a requirement, a condition for you to feel good about yourself, for you to feel complete. And even when you get the person now, there's all the paranoia about losing that person. And then subtlely and most of the time unconsciously, manipulation will kick in to try to keep that person there, or to try to keep that love coming your way.
A relationship is not you complete me , fuck that.
It's two people that are whole coming together and synergy happens.
i wish there was a longer version of this episode. So much wisdom
Worth watching, big up Daktari. Personally am always inspired by your shows, continue inspiring many 👏
This is so insightful.
I love this perspective. Helping me unlearn a lot of nonsense
Wisdom
Wisdom
Wisdom...
This is the Day today Message our generation Needs to hear....
Listen to people like him, you'll live long and healthy in this world.
boss wee need a longer video from the general the most insightful video ave heard in a while
The guy has a lot of wisdom and and he is a real comedian but very fluent in English and kiswahili and sheng
Dr kingori, kindly we need part two of this great conversation...
a great conversation, wisdom 🔥 🔥
This is a very wisdom filled discussion 🎉. Much appreciated mwalimu
A very wise man! Excellent
Kingori, we need more of him, lessons learnt hard
Bring the gent a gain and add more time for the teachings
Man is making sense!
The very reason why the rich just wanna go for the rich...
Rich conversation 👌🏿 it's not lack of information it is parenting 🤔
Very good points. The world wide statistics for male to female ratio is 102men to 100 women though.
Exactly the concept of the breadwinner died when women empowerment is highly focused.... prenupts is highly recommended
This is so true. WISDOM
Great knowledge....
Awesome conversation, but was every shot
5:43 kingori: arrangement because blood has collected in one place 😂
some incredible wisdom
Relationship planning!😜 On point.
Traditionally marriage should not or had nothing to to with materials. As we know we have traditional belief, religious belief and atheism which all have a part to play in marriage. The surprising truth is the arranged marriages last longer than the rest, this is because people marry their cousins or other well known and respected family members. The table is turning now this is due to the world businesses, competition and educational standards. People become selective, careful and have thoughtful approach when come to engage in marriage or who to marry. Sadly materialism has widely put great pressure on both males and females in such a way that no one would easily adapt your seduction unless you are either a successful person, famous or very wealthy indeed.
good discussion up there
Guidebook written by our loving creator explains it all. Deep respect for husband and love wife as own body and worship God together. Simples. Ephesians 5:33❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It's the kicking you to that corner for me kkkk
Great insights
always have an extra skill 🔥
Good talk here
Wow, amazing
We need part 2
Hapo kwa skills ni ukweli, sahizi am benefitting from the skills i learnt ,those days i thought i was learning something to pass time but skills are paying
Kingori,,huu mdahalo hufanye ngalaa masaa mawili
Love it
Bring him back
An arranged marriage is a transaction…and the children who you marry off are just the currency. It’s a way of maintaining power and status … but at the expense of what?
Throughout Africa I see it a lot. People are being pressured by their parents to find someone and have kids … even when they don’t want to. So they find someone, have a kid or two and then they go on with their lives. Many young people aren’t even interested yet in family planning, but they feel forced into it by their parents … so, it doesn’t last because after they have satisfied their parents desire to be grandparents, now they can finally move on with their own lives.
Part 2 please
The ratio is 101:100
He was wrong about female to male ratio, Arab and Indian culture. He has no research integrity and so I discard everything else he has to say.
Truth is a painful pill to swallow.
Oppose with your facts
Skill very important
The 16:1 ratio is a lie, but I love the conversation
Wisdom 💯
Oyaaa bro. Why is it that this episode is so short? We need another episode
Wisdom reloaded.❤ where is part 2?
This topic is wide, could we have a continuation of it please?
Good advice but for a few ears to hear , the best place for such guidance in relationships is in schools from high school all the way to university and colleges,coz how many hv data or smart phones to get to hear this, very few, coz times now no parents hv advice like this to there teenagers or youth , all think it’s love or nothing
Waaa, weuh, i now where the rain started beating us
I think conversations should be cut to 30 mins then if the conversation was longer you just call it part 1,2,3...
Please with all due respect the ratio of women to men the guest mentioned is wrong. I just googled it 😅, it’s rather 50.25 men and women are 49.75😂. Please google it for yourself
Statistics of death rate men to women….
Your problem is that you're trying to prove "him" wrong instead of understanding what is being said,and unfortunately you got the concept wrong. Women!
@@SupremeEstatesCo123which concept did I get wrong? Master go and listen to the video at 10:40
That's the only thing you grasped from this conversation?
Lovely ❤
Bringing rules even in love, jameni. It's a boring life to live. Come-on. Anyone who has experienced love in any degree will know this should be taken with a pinch of salt. Obviously, take care of the person you are marrying but being fixated on all these rules. Wueeh wueeh. Wueeh. Life is for the living. 😅 Anyway .
Love alone cannot sustain a marriage, I know of many who were madly in love when the got married but are now divorced or separated. Marriage is a bit complex and there are a lot of factors one needs to consider apart from the "puppy love." These factors are finances, religion, cultural background, sexual/health history, values, future goals and aspirations. Marriage is not a vacation, you gotta be intentional and put in the work for it to be successful.
@@SimbaMpasuaMiamba. I agree with you. All your are saying is true and very key. All I am saying is , bearing all that in mind make sure you are in love and you actually like this person you will navigate all these complexities with. A person you can enjoy life with, laugh, and have a good time. We are here for a season, lets make it count.
ratio 16:1 is insane and untrue
True my friend
Lynn Ngugi bring this gentleman in your show
That's just disrespect and total disregard to this show,honestly. They are both good people
Are u listening to yourself?
Why do you think Kingori isnt good enough
Why do u think the guest accepts all/any invite
Damn!
kenyan society is taking a nose dive
If your blueprint is not in the word of God
U will ALWAYS LOSE!
A man shall leave his father and mother and CLEAVE unto his wife!
And they become ONE flesh !
if your mindframe of thinking is TWO ,
U already out of order!
Global statistics indicate the ratio of men to women is almost 1:1 same for Kenya...1:15 is wild, lets learn to actually get credible data from credible organizations not peddling myths.
Dr kingori where is part 2
That's quite and interview man!
Finally
16:1 ratio a lie
Many people don't know that if in marriage values are not negotiated beyond the "legs" shenanigans, that relationship is doomed. Both parties MUST be intentional in deliberating on what each party brings to the table. Sex benefit or as a marriage convenience factor is a milage. Sex satisfaction you can get it out there to your fill but a serious uniting bond must be identified. Men are often abused by using legs as a bargaining tool for exploitation to oblivion. Marriage must be a win win partnership. Nothing more or less. Men be wise guys.
Absolutely yes! I couldn't put it any better.
Very true bro
Very true bro
💯
But if you get satisfied outside home,,very often,the spouse spends less n less time together,the marriage will seem to be working but is lacking in a key element.
Wait and hear wat jobless men go through in the hand of working wives,,,😥😥
Yet a working man can take care of a jobless woman with her entire family
But its supposed to be like that. that was the man,s curse for eating the fruit in the garden of Eden
Woman is created to receive n nature.. money, seed,shopping etc
@@carollynne5943 tupa hii akili yako 😂
😹😹😹😹 because of why 😹😹😹
Ongeza 5 hrs na huyu jamaa bana Daktari
Kingori work for the audio to be clear otherwise the show is nice
We are not arabs or indians .Arent Africans enough by themselves to live in their own cultures
The reason why you should marry is to achieve God's purpose in your marriage. Your marriage is a story that God is telling from heaven. Your marriage is supposed to bring glory to Jesus by serving him.
❤