Don't think that you are a burden. People just don't understand what you are going through. You are one special mom. You are the kind of people that deserve to get help. God Bless
Thank you for sharing such a horrible experience, and life altering. Your a awesome Mom, and I can feel you have a beautiful soul. I love to hear Daniels laughter and see he's beautiful smile, always makes me smile even on my not so good days. I suffer from fibro as well and a few other medical conditions.
that company and corporation, code word for that manager/s and that lady, owe you a huge apology. Im sorry you where treated so horrible day after day and time after time, for so long. You didn't deserve any of it, not even one little bit of it. I truly am sorry that these things happened to you and effect you till this day. I'm so thankful that you make your videos. You walked away from all of it, to a beautiful family and now to others who you continue to help and inspired. It is very very rotten what they did to you, people probably wouldn't know any of this if they didn't do what they did to you. I or we would be missing out on knowing such a kindhearted lady and her family. This will be your success story. People want to be around your children and your family. We can see you care about people and you deserve to be around people who care about you. Daniel and you are very amazing and yes there's definitely something about him and his soul that is very very special and radiant, we can see it even through these vloggs. We care and know that you aren't greedy. You deserve all the help you can get and I hope your channel grows. I pray I can meet Daniel and your family someday. God bless you!!! Have a great week!!!
You are strong, beautiful, loyal and the most amazing inspirational lady Julie. I feel blessed to have found your channel and family. Im sorry Ive been quite lately, Ill explain but maybe not publicly xo
You should put a post outside saying "Daniel's House". But I'm so sorry for what they put you through! That was disgusting! I know what it's like. In my last job as a support worker in a group home for adults with severe learning disabilities, my boss was a bully & I was one in a long line of her targets! When I left, I'd also picked up the CMV from being assaulted at work, which caused my CFS! But I was too ill to take legal action. I've been bullied in previous jobs, but not like that! I will need major counselling before I go back to work, if I'm ever well enough. I have PTSD from all the bullying growing up, abuse from a Church leader, the abuse from my Dad & this as well! Certain words trigger it, I rarely have a dream at night that doesn't involve me being bullied or abused in some way, etc. I know how horrible PTSD can be. I wish you weren't going through it & I'm so sorry they were so nasty to you. But it sounds like you did the best thing for you. The last thing you needed was to be forced to go back to a place where they don't treat you with the respect you deserve! And you're an awesome Mum to Daniel, Sarah & Thomas & an awesome wife to John!
I have had so many friends that won't talk to me anymore because both of my kids have disabilities, I haven't changed but my situation did. Thanks for sharing your story and your right we all have a story to tell and maybe when I'm brave enough I can share it on my channel. I get a lot of inspiration from you.
they saw a strong women who was a threat to them and became like bullies on a playground no one should ever deal with that kinda crap i too lost my job i worked harder longer fought tears and still in the end the bigger people won i wasn't willing to compromise my patients meant the world to me i was there voice and no bully was going to get me to back down sadly mentally it became too much and i wanted to no longer be here but through gods will and my strength i made it i still deeply miss that part of my life and even cry but now i have another purpose to comfort others be kind and try to ignore those who say I'm mean so angry have attitude your video is such a reality so many seem to forget or close there eyes to never stay silent your voice and inspiration helps so many your soul is amazing
I'm so sorry for what you went through Julie. No one should ever, ever go through that. I have been without work since my sons birth because of the cmv, its been dr after dr. Its alot but god did not give us this without knowing we can do it. You have done such an amazing job with Daniel. He is so lucky to have you, you are such an inspiration. God will bless us
You are so brave. Even though it was so long ago, there's a process of healing to go through. You did nothing wrong and I truly believe that company lost a truly hardworking employee. Their Loss! Peace and blessings to you Julie, your my she-ro. :0)
Thank you for sharing this experience with us...I'm sorry you went through it, and the pain that it caused. :( HR is such a tough job...especially when YOU are the person to go to if there's a problem. I had a bad experience that lead to me being a stay at home mom too, with the same realization that there wasn't a place in my former career for a mom with a child with disabilities. I haven't worked full time since 2010. I just started a part time job, which is flexible thankfully. There are days though where I miss my career, and specifically the paycheque! But at the end of the day, our kids come first, right?
I'm so sorry for the struggles that you have faced. Your story is amazing. Through everything your faith and smile always come out on top. You are a very strong family. I'm here for your family. I love to help, and it frustrates me when I can't do anything. I don't have money right now, but I still want to help. Please let me know of anything I can do.
Thank you for sharing. I got treated similarly but it was because I chose to give up my teaching career and be a stay at home mom. People treated me like I was crazy especially my own mother, that I was staying home. I am so sorry that you went through that and you were treated that way, it is just awful.
Your so right about not being able to work ! My son is in his first year of kindergarten and people keep saying when are you going back to work ? ....aww my kids in school 2.5 hours a day on and off and I have a 20 month old ..so never ! My god
This might sound crazy but I live in ct and would love to meet you and Daniel sometime. I watch your videos every night and you have all become like family to me
Julie I cried with you as you told this story and what happened to you is just unacceptable! I would have named them in this but that's up to you and I totally understand and respect that. That was a terrible era for working women. We were looked down on if we put our children in day care. It was frowned upon to have babies and work. What really angered me is that they brought Daniel into it! That is unforgivable! I can only imagine what you have gone through emotionally over that. It made me so mad that they would do that to you and get away with it. Now you are where you belong and being with Daniel. He needs you and you take care of him like no one else can. You are a wonderful Mother and wife and your family is very lucky to have you. I am so sorry you went through that I kept saying name them Julie! Do it! Let me at them! lol i was pissed. I also see though that Daniel has you right where you belong :o)
Julie when I hear stories like this I just have to wonder how it is that some people have no compassion . Where is the kindness ? Do they not have a conscience? I am like you . I care about people and when they don't return the caring I just don't get it .
Wow you were treated horribly.when I was born my mom had me who was disabled and my 2 sisters and at this time my mom was divorced she had 3 jobs she had to she had no other way. March of dimes would not help she could not get state aid.My mom worked hard. Then she got married and my step dad immediately adopted me and my sisters so we could get on his insurance. Now even though she had insurance my mom and dad had to pay 20percent of medical.It is hard to raise a disabled child now and way back then in the 60's and 70's. I so feel for you Julie and this video made me cry so hard.
Julie, thank you for sharing your story. You are very brave to tell it publicly and I commend you for it. Yes we live in a 'dog eat dog world' . I understand where you are coming from, it happened to my hubby 2 times, and it is always a difficult thing to get over. Thankfully he is in a better position now with a boss who is Christian, so God gave him a working place where the owner has Christian values. People in his prior employment were just horrible mean people only out for themselves. I know this maybe difficult for you to read, but at some point you will need to FORGIVE, these people, for your own sanity. Forgive and leave it up to God, He sees everything, every wrong that has been done to you He will avenge if you will trust Him. God bless😍
Lisa Gibbons from new Zealand That's awful. I know HR is one of a top jobs in a company. we have a HR in Auckland she has a big role Hire and firing and complaints. You think you would be left alone because you are good at your job. People should not judge. if you were still there without this you would be more secure with bills . You never know you could get a better job much friendly people.
Dont know how to best say this but i feel your place is being a Mom...beung a mom is the hardest job ever without monetary pay.You were done very wrong at that job maybe you letting some of the stuff that happened to you can kinda help you heal from it.Maybe best thing was you not working for them maybe later down the road it could have been worse.I hope they regretted pushing you out the door! Thanks for sharing something so personal.
I can't believe they would do that to you. Could you have gotten a lawyer or gotten the labor board involved, People can be really mean. You are very dedicated mom and really care for your son. Too bad you are so far away my job in CA is looking for a HR manager. I would recomend you in a heart beat.
You need to sell on Ebay. Go through your house and started listing and selling. You will be amazed how much money you can make and clean you house at the same time. I have been doing it from home for a few months and have brought in a couple thousand dollars so far and I love it.
Those jackasses didn't deserve you. Pardon my French. And you're right, I'm sure they were really done when Thomas came along. I know they either assumed or expected you to want all these extras as a parent to a severely disabled child and also another new baby. They put their heads together to figure out how to get you out. I bet they expected you to resign when they found out about Daniel's situation.
Family always come first in life you are a very good mother thanks for sharing your story Julie.
Julie loved hearing your story. I just love you!
Thanks for sharing Julie.
Thank you for sharing this Julie even though it's very hard..please just know that we're here, listening and supporting you 🙏🏻🌺🌺
THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY
Don't think that you are a burden. People just don't understand what you are going through. You are one special mom. You are the kind of people that deserve to get help. God Bless
Thank you for sharing such a horrible experience, and life altering. Your a awesome Mom, and I can feel you have a beautiful soul. I love to hear Daniels laughter and see he's beautiful smile, always makes me smile even on my not so good days. I suffer from fibro as well and a few other medical conditions.
that company and corporation, code word for that manager/s and that lady, owe you a huge apology. Im sorry you where treated so horrible day after day and time after time, for so long. You didn't deserve any of it, not even one little bit of it. I truly am sorry that these things happened to you and effect you till this day. I'm so thankful that you make your videos. You walked away from all of it, to a beautiful family and now to others who you continue to help and inspired. It is very very rotten what they did to you, people probably wouldn't know any of this if they didn't do what they did to you. I or we would be missing out on knowing such a kindhearted lady and her family. This will be your success story. People want to be around your children and your family. We can see you care about people and you deserve to be around people who care about you. Daniel and you are very amazing and yes there's definitely something about him and his soul that is very very special and radiant, we can see it even through these vloggs. We care and know that you aren't greedy. You deserve all the help you can get and I hope your channel grows. I pray I can meet Daniel and your family someday. God bless you!!! Have a great week!!!
Thanks for sharing your story julie, always great to hear about others life's decisions, enjoyed the vlog, John
Hi there very good video, and touching
Thank you for sharing this story, that is just horrible! You are an amazing mother and have such a wonderful family. Wish you all the best! ❤
You are strong, beautiful, loyal and the most amazing inspirational lady Julie.
I feel blessed to have found your channel and family.
Im sorry Ive been quite lately, Ill explain but maybe not publicly xo
you are beautiful inside and out and I want you to know that you are an amazing person and no one should be treated like that.
You should put a post outside saying "Daniel's House". But I'm so sorry for what they put you through! That was disgusting! I know what it's like. In my last job as a support worker in a group home for adults with severe learning disabilities, my boss was a bully & I was one in a long line of her targets! When I left, I'd also picked up the CMV from being assaulted at work, which caused my CFS! But I was too ill to take legal action. I've been bullied in previous jobs, but not like that! I will need major counselling before I go back to work, if I'm ever well enough. I have PTSD from all the bullying growing up, abuse from a Church leader, the abuse from my Dad & this as well! Certain words trigger it, I rarely have a dream at night that doesn't involve me being bullied or abused in some way, etc. I know how horrible PTSD can be. I wish you weren't going through it & I'm so sorry they were so nasty to you. But it sounds like you did the best thing for you. The last thing you needed was to be forced to go back to a place where they don't treat you with the respect you deserve! And you're an awesome Mum to Daniel, Sarah & Thomas & an awesome wife to John!
I have had so many friends that won't talk to me anymore because both of my kids have disabilities, I haven't changed but my situation did. Thanks for sharing your story and your right we all have a story to tell and maybe when I'm brave enough I can share it on my channel. I get a lot of inspiration from you.
Thank you for sharing I went through something similar. I try not to think about it because it is so hurtful.
they saw a strong women who was a threat to them and became like bullies on a playground no one should ever deal with that kinda crap i too lost my job i worked harder longer fought tears and still in the end the bigger people won i wasn't willing to compromise my patients meant the world to me i was there voice and no bully was going to get me to back down sadly mentally it became too much and i wanted to no longer be here but through gods will and my strength i made it i still deeply miss that part of my life and even cry but now i have another purpose to comfort others be kind and try to ignore those who say I'm mean so angry have attitude your video is such a reality so many seem to forget or close there eyes to never stay silent your voice and inspiration helps so many your soul is amazing
I am so sorry that happened to you.
I'm so sorry for what you went through Julie. No one should ever, ever go through that. I have been without work since my sons birth because of the cmv, its been dr after dr. Its alot but god did not give us this without knowing we can do it. You have done such an amazing job with Daniel. He is so lucky to have you, you are such an inspiration. God will bless us
I think you made the right choice in the end . So sad that you had to go through all of that ..so sorry
You are so brave. Even though it was so long ago, there's a process of healing to go through. You did nothing wrong and I truly believe that company lost a truly hardworking employee. Their Loss! Peace and blessings to you Julie, your my she-ro. :0)
Thank you for sharing this experience with us...I'm sorry you went through it, and the pain that it caused. :( HR is such a tough job...especially when YOU are the person to go to if there's a problem. I had a bad experience that lead to me being a stay at home mom too, with the same realization that there wasn't a place in my former career for a mom with a child with disabilities. I haven't worked full time since 2010. I just started a part time job, which is flexible thankfully. There are days though where I miss my career, and specifically the paycheque! But at the end of the day, our kids come first, right?
I'm so sorry for the struggles that you have faced. Your story is amazing. Through everything your faith and smile always come out on top. You are a very strong family. I'm here for your family. I love to help, and it frustrates me when I can't do anything. I don't have money right now, but I still want to help. Please let me know of anything I can do.
I love you and you family 😍
Thank you for sharing. I got treated similarly but it was because I chose to give up my teaching career and be a stay at home mom. People treated me like I was crazy especially my own mother, that I was staying home. I am so sorry that you went through that and you were treated that way, it is just awful.
Wonderful video! Happy new week!
Your so right about not being able to work ! My son is in his first year of kindergarten and people keep saying when are you going back to work ? ....aww my kids in school 2.5 hours a day on and off and I have a 20 month old ..so never ! My god
This might sound crazy but I live in ct and would love to meet you and Daniel sometime. I watch your videos every night and you have all become like family to me
Julie I cried with you as you told this story and what happened to you is just unacceptable! I would have named them in this but that's up to you and I totally understand and respect that. That was a terrible era for working women. We were looked down on if we put our children in day care. It was frowned upon to have babies and work. What really angered me is that they brought Daniel into it! That is unforgivable! I can only imagine what you have gone through emotionally over that. It made me so mad that they would do that to you and get away with it. Now you are where you belong and being with Daniel. He needs you and you take care of him like no one else can. You are a wonderful Mother and wife and your family is very lucky to have you. I am so sorry you went through that I kept saying name them Julie! Do it! Let me at them! lol i was pissed. I also see though that Daniel has you right where you belong :o)
Julie when I hear stories like this I just have to wonder how it is that some people have no compassion . Where is the kindness ? Do they not have a conscience? I am like you . I care about people and when they don't return the caring I just don't get it .
Wow you were treated horribly.when I was born my mom had me who was disabled and my 2 sisters and at this time my mom was divorced she had 3 jobs she had to she had no other way. March of dimes would not help she could not get state aid.My mom worked hard. Then she got married and my step dad immediately adopted me and my sisters so we could get on his insurance. Now even though she had insurance my mom and dad had to pay 20percent of medical.It is hard to raise a disabled child now and way back then in the 60's and 70's. I so feel for you Julie and this video made me cry so hard.
Julie, thank you for sharing your story. You are very brave to tell it publicly and I commend you for it. Yes we live in a 'dog eat dog world' . I understand where you are coming from, it happened to my hubby 2 times, and it is always a difficult thing to get over. Thankfully he is in a better position now with a boss who is Christian, so God gave him a working place where the owner has Christian values. People in his prior employment were just horrible mean people only out for themselves. I know this maybe difficult for you to read, but at some point you will need to FORGIVE, these people, for your own sanity. Forgive and leave it up to God, He sees everything, every wrong that has been done to you He will avenge if you will trust Him. God bless😍
I have never heard of that brain deformity . wow .
Lisa Gibbons from new Zealand That's awful. I know HR is one of a top jobs in a company. we have a HR in Auckland she has a big role Hire and firing and complaints. You think you would be left alone because you are good at your job. People should not judge. if you were still there without this you would be more secure with bills . You never know you could get a better job much friendly people.
Julie great video
Dont know how to best say this but i feel your place is being a Mom...beung a mom is the hardest job ever without monetary pay.You were done very wrong at that job maybe you letting some of the stuff that happened to you can kinda help you heal from it.Maybe best thing was you not working for them maybe later down the road it could have been worse.I hope they regretted pushing you out the door! Thanks for sharing something so personal.
The only way you could ❤❤❤❤❤
oh Julie i feel bad for u i hope u find anther job
I can't believe they would do that to you. Could you have gotten a lawyer or gotten the labor board involved, People can be really mean. You are very dedicated mom and really care for your son. Too bad you are so far away my job in CA is looking for a HR manager. I would recomend you in a heart beat.
sad to that people still think like that.
You need to sell on Ebay. Go through your house and started listing and selling. You will be amazed how much money you can make and clean you house at the same time. I have been doing it from home for a few months and have brought in a couple thousand dollars so far and I love it.
WoW I don't know what to say
Those jackasses didn't deserve you. Pardon my French. And you're right, I'm sure they were really done when Thomas came along. I know they either assumed or expected you to want all these extras as a parent to a severely disabled child and also another new baby. They put their heads together to figure out how to get you out. I bet they expected you to resign when they found out about Daniel's situation.
Ugh people can be so damn mean that's all I can say!!!!