They were the scapegoats. When you have to fight for your rights even in your own family, you develop a strong personality. But only after healing! I'm now able to recognize evil persons after they say only two or three things. I can feel it. They don't fool me anymore
My mother was a covert narcissist, she fitted every point of that diagnosis. She made my childhood a hell pit specially for me. I had to fight for every breath I took, defending myself for every thought, idea, activity I wanted to do. She didn't teach me anything else usefull than figting for my right to be who I'm. There was always sometnig inside me that stood firm and helped me to sustain beating, humiliation, all kinds of mental abuse. She wanted to break me to control me. I left house at 19 and learned to live a better life. But it took me years to heal myself, to free myself from patterns that my parents engrained in me which made me have many problems in relationships. I was finally able to learn how to love myself and give myself everything my parents weren't able to give.
19 is pretty late to leave home! How much of "the abuse" was due to taking things for granted, not pulling your weight as an adult and disrespecting your parents though? Did you even want to learn anything?
@@ChelleMEis Then, should I run away from home at 10 or 15 yrs old and become a beggar or prostitute or something like that? By your opinion I probably should - to learn something? I was an excelent student, ofcourse I had to finish middle school or should I also ruin the rest of my life by having no education? After all - way before I was 19 I already got used to beating and mental abuse that my mother bestowed upon me, few years more were not so hard to survive. If not giving me love they could at least give me a roof to live under until grown up and let me get education, which is free, by the way, in my country. If they had to pay for it I definitelly wouldn't see more than primary school... After leaving home I went to university, got scholarships, worked part time jobs and took care of myself on my own. Is there soimething I should be ashamed of or feel sorry to my parents? You just judge and don't know anything.
I agree with this no one knows what I'm going through all this years but I survived age 13 i run away from home never go back to my home town. Life is full of challenges makes sigma stronger fighter wiser
I agree with everything you said, even though it took me a while to see past a fake smile because I used to only see the good in people even though I have experienced the bad from a very early age. "Real love should uplift, not restrict" is the hallmark and foundation of how I love. I grew up in a challenging environment, to put it mildly. It was not only toxic but abusive. For many females, my childhood and parents would have broken them but for me, it was training for the marathon of life and how to deal with all of the bullshit that people outside my family could bring my way pretty much unscathed.
My mum used to hide her controling attempt behind her love, care and worrying nature. She started to change her approach only after I was completely broken. In the end we are all humen. Nobody's perfect.
❤❤❤❤❤ - this is so encoraging! - Thank u. I'll go thru what i need to go thru, n come out on e other side stronger. 🎉 #ThankYou!!!❤❤❤ life is not easy.
Love this “Love is not RESTRICTED BY CONTROL… it is enhanced by it” I believe Love + Freedom are one ☝🏽 in the same + you honestly can NOT have one without the other + most humans get this misconstrued…. 🙅🏽♀️
Motives, actions, deceptions, facial tells, a significant change in voice, manipulations, but most telling is the creepy feelings or energy surrounding an individual, their biorhythms or hurtful intentions can be felt in a room, their eyes and smiles don't match up, or they smile at the wrong time or enjoy the chaos of miscommunications or create fictitious events. If you have endured emotional abuse, the above mentioned are easily seen, because you have experienced them routinely .... patterns are eventually, the tell. Awareness in the detail or reactions of a person's body are all there ... just listen, see, and feel your senses. Intuition is never wrong.
When I got first place in my class my father told me that,maybe you cheated and ranked first.how demotivated they are! They even don't know about how they impact on my carrier day by day.. they always drag me down 👇
@@Jtohfaye I'm so sorry for you. I suffer the same behaviour from my own father. Never in my entire life has he ever said anything good of me, or praised anything I achieved. His words are poisonous, filled with backhanded sneaky hurtful insults. I know deep down he wishes for my downfall, and probably my death. Because he hates that I follow my dreams, when he was always too cowardly to pursue his own.
All these women look like they should be on the cover of a Harlequin romance novel 😅 Where's the scars?! It was still a good video, thanks. Good character traits we all can aspire to, and how to turn scars into beauty marks.
Standing to the side supporting the others whome deserve the spotlight, not controlled by their own soul tribes insecurity and always is kind knowledge of real pain does that
To balance ying and yang. Divine Masculine & Divine Feminine. To obtain Eternal Life ♾️ A direct line of communication outside the firmament = kundalini 🔼🔽🧬💎⚖️
I would say I agree with most points except the last bit about it being a duty to help others. That's just another manipulative lie. I'll help if I damn well want to, not because of duty. I've not endured 30 years of nonsense to give it away for free.
I used to wonder why my parents didn't want me just because I ended up being a girl and not a boy.they tried to traffic me in Germany,but my grandma stepped in, then come to find out,my father molested me every chance he got,which was very often...sad how I never knew what love is,but yet me as a person,have always loved everyone with love n compassion, some thing I never got to experience ever from a human being.... being abused sexually and physically,not to mention mentally,I've managed to c life for how God wants it to b.i have mastered my emotions,and there is nothing a person can to do to me or hurt me,that will make me react the way I used to when I was younger.i now have the blessings I need wisdom, knowledge, discernment,and revelation to face any challenges that I am faced with.
Parents discipline you until you can discipline yourself. Unless it's manipulation as is. And many intelligent children are too young to fully understand good parenting.
! MrI have too as well okay I'm an Empath I'm a fighter t ok o as well I don't want to hurry anyone someone toke my identity I won't be et my past define me either I don't deserve good things healing and I had a tough life I'm a good person caring peron okay I know love isn't control I'm tired of anyone controlling me okay I'm not like that!! I need my identity back I know what happened I deserve to be myself I'm a good woman we all des6bhappiness I know love isn't control indeerve to heal I'm sorry you're hurting I just deserve to heal from my yra to someone put obstacles in my path I feel that I understand bspmine said someone's sister is a narcissist I rem6 but I don't judge an I'm one as an Empath I hope you're okay
Thank you for the message I not accept it completely if you are talking about me, I am not born to harm family, please use the words carefully! Thank you 🙏
Bless you.. You don't have to accept all of it. If it doesn't apply let it fly!.. It's nice to know not all sigma had a rough start!.. It's great to know that we are all learning. Peace ✌🏾
They were the scapegoats. When you have to fight for your rights even in your own family, you develop a strong personality. But only after healing!
I'm now able to recognize evil persons after they say only two or three things. I can feel it. They don't fool me anymore
Indeed
I just feel them. I find myself uncomfortable arround energy vampires and simply reject to have them in my life.
I'm the scapegoat as well.
My mother was a covert narcissist, she fitted every point of that diagnosis. She made my childhood a hell pit specially for me. I had to fight for every breath I took, defending myself for every thought, idea, activity I wanted to do. She didn't teach me anything else usefull than figting for my right to be who I'm. There was always sometnig inside me that stood firm and helped me to sustain beating, humiliation, all kinds of mental abuse. She wanted to break me to control me. I left house at 19 and learned to live a better life. But it took me years to heal myself, to free myself from patterns that my parents engrained in me which made me have many problems in relationships. I was finally able to learn how to love myself and give myself everything my parents weren't able to give.
19 is pretty late to leave home! How much of "the abuse" was due to taking things for granted, not pulling your weight as an adult and disrespecting your parents though? Did you even want to learn anything?
@@ChelleMEis Then, should I run away from home at 10 or 15 yrs old and become a beggar or prostitute or something like that? By your opinion I probably should - to learn something? I was an excelent student, ofcourse I had to finish middle school or should I also ruin the rest of my life by having no education? After all - way before I was 19 I already got used to beating and mental abuse that my mother bestowed upon me, few years more were not so hard to survive. If not giving me love they could at least give me a roof to live under until grown up and let me get education, which is free, by the way, in my country. If they had to pay for it I definitelly wouldn't see more than primary school... After leaving home I went to university, got scholarships, worked part time jobs and took care of myself on my own. Is there soimething I should be ashamed of or feel sorry to my parents? You just judge and don't know anything.
Same thing happened to me growing up
@@ChelleMEis- Don’t blame the victim. Everyone learns at their own pace. I left home at 17, but had the skills to support myself.
I knew a long long time ago I was different. We just never had a word that explains it.
A mixture of tough & gentle.
You're a prophet
I agree with this no one knows what I'm going through all this years but I survived age 13 i run away from home never go back to my home town. Life is full of challenges makes sigma stronger fighter wiser
I agree with everything you said, even though it took me a while to see past a fake smile because I used to only see the good in people even though I have experienced the bad from a very early age. "Real love should uplift, not restrict" is the hallmark and foundation of how I love. I grew up in a challenging environment, to put it mildly. It was not only toxic but abusive. For many females, my childhood and parents would have broken them but for me, it was training for the marathon of life and how to deal with all of the bullshit that people outside my family could bring my way pretty much unscathed.
I am also a scapegoat YET am a cycle breaker, too.
My mum used to hide her controling attempt behind her love, care and worrying nature. She started to change her approach only after I was completely broken. In the end we are all humen. Nobody's perfect.
The part about setting boundaries really resonated with me. It’s so important to protect your energy
Understanding at the age of 48..better than to late. Cheers
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- this is so encoraging! -
Thank u. I'll go thru what i need to go thru, n come out on e other side stronger. 🎉
#ThankYou!!!❤❤❤ life is not easy.
Thank you so much for sharing ❤❤❤ it made me understand myself more❗️❗️❗️
Thank you for the valuable information 😊
Helpful and insightful! Thank you!
Love this “Love is not RESTRICTED BY CONTROL… it is enhanced by it” I believe Love + Freedom are one ☝🏽 in the same + you honestly can NOT have one without the other + most humans get this misconstrued…. 🙅🏽♀️
Thank You for your content!
Love, Light, and Peace!🕊️✌️
I really needed this Video. Thank you very much!
On point 🎯
I can relate to a lot of this .Thank you for your work ❤.
Motives, actions, deceptions, facial tells, a significant change in voice, manipulations, but most telling is the creepy feelings or energy surrounding an individual, their biorhythms or hurtful intentions can be felt in a room, their eyes and smiles don't match up, or they smile at the wrong time or enjoy the chaos of miscommunications or create fictitious events.
If you have endured emotional abuse, the above mentioned are easily seen, because you have experienced them routinely .... patterns are eventually, the tell.
Awareness in the detail or reactions of a person's body are all there ...
just listen, see, and feel your senses.
Intuition is never wrong.
I had to learn to trust my instincts again. They never fail
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Why toxic family not want to recognize their child's success..they jealous of their own child.
When I got first place in my class my father told me that,maybe you cheated and ranked first.how demotivated they are! They even don't know about how they impact on my carrier day by day.. they always drag me down 👇
@@Jtohfaye I'm so sorry for you. I suffer the same behaviour from my own father. Never in my entire life has he ever said anything good of me, or praised anything I achieved. His words are poisonous, filled with backhanded sneaky hurtful insults. I know deep down he wishes for my downfall, and probably my death. Because he hates that I follow my dreams, when he was always too cowardly to pursue his own.
@@JtohfayeThat is sad😢. May God help you heal and move on with your life.
@Quinha-rafa thank you 👍
@@Jtohfayesame as my dad 😢 he never celebrates my achievements
All these women look like they should be on the cover of a Harlequin romance novel 😅 Where's the scars?! It was still a good video, thanks. Good character traits we all can aspire to, and how to turn scars into beauty marks.
😂😂 true
So true ❤❤❤❤❤
thank u very true & clear reader,understand ,really do believe & learn now as a sigma female true sayings,thank you for the respect❤.
Very, very accurate.❤
This is exactly … whoah 😮
From my research, sigma females are made not born. That is why from the most difficult situations, a sigma stands out.
Standing to the side supporting the others whome deserve the spotlight, not controlled by their own soul tribes insecurity and always is kind knowledge of real pain does that
wow.true.❤
I agree
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Amen 🙏🙏🙏
True
😂OmG! Sooo true!👍🏻
To balance ying and yang.
Divine Masculine & Divine Feminine.
To obtain Eternal Life ♾️
A direct line of communication outside the firmament = kundalini 🔼🔽🧬💎⚖️
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I would say I agree with most points except the last bit about it being a duty to help others. That's just another manipulative lie. I'll help if I damn well want to, not because of duty. I've not endured 30 years of nonsense to give it away for free.
I used to wonder why my parents didn't want me just because I ended up being a girl and not a boy.they tried to traffic me in Germany,but my grandma stepped in, then come to find out,my father molested me every chance he got,which was very often...sad how I never knew what love is,but yet me as a person,have always loved everyone with love n compassion, some thing I never got to experience ever from a human being.... being abused sexually and physically,not to mention mentally,I've managed to c life for how God wants it to b.i have mastered my emotions,and there is nothing a person can to do to me or hurt me,that will make me react the way I used to when I was younger.i now have the blessings I need wisdom, knowledge, discernment,and revelation to face any challenges that I am faced with.
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Parents discipline you until you can discipline yourself.
Unless it's manipulation as is. And many intelligent children are too young to fully understand good parenting.
! MrI have too as well okay I'm an Empath I'm a fighter t ok o as well I don't want to hurry anyone someone toke my identity I won't be et my past define me either I don't deserve good things healing and I had a tough life I'm a good person caring peron okay I know love isn't control I'm tired of anyone controlling me okay I'm not like that!! I need my identity back I know what happened I deserve to be myself I'm a good woman we all des6bhappiness I know love isn't control indeerve to heal I'm sorry you're hurting I just deserve to heal from my yra to someone put obstacles in my path I feel that I understand bspmine said someone's sister is a narcissist I rem6 but I don't judge an I'm one as an Empath I hope you're okay
Thank you for the message I not accept it completely if you are talking about me, I am not born to harm family, please use the words carefully! Thank you 🙏
Bless you.. You don't have to accept all of it. If it doesn't apply let it fly!.. It's nice to know not all sigma had a rough start!.. It's great to know that we are all learning. Peace ✌🏾
It's excess
another AI crap video
Starting to dislike these kind of voices too !
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