Jenni Baker well that’s actually quite normal with Asian families I take care of kids we had one who where half Chinese and her grandma traveled to take care of her bc that was her responsibility and how they like doing things the parents as for my understanding traditionally don’t do that they work and the grandma takes care of the house and kids I am not Asian so I can’t really tell but I have seen many family’s where that’s how it is so if it’s tradition and makes her happy and she feels like that what’s right then why shouldn’t she help out
I hope Nakamura wife and kids do help out Nana and give her time off. Wife doesn't look like she gives her respect for her work. That's a very large home!
That was so cute when the kid saw the blonde mom for the 1st time without makeup early in the morning and was like "why does your face look so different today than it did last night?... Yesterday you looked like a movie star and today you just look...different." 😂😂😂 The kid was being completely genuine.❤
Tammy reminds me of a plantation owner's wife. "My slaves love me because I'm so good to them! Someone give me a gold medal". The ignorance is astounding to say the least.
I feel so bad for the lady, she’s in her 70’s and dos everything around the house. They can’t even take their own plates. The blonde is not a good person so is her husband.
@@JS-uj2yi I was BLOWN away by that. That woman is 72!! She deserves take a damn break! And this white Diablo is horrendous!! My God she has zero redeeming qualities!!
How you gonna go into someone’s home and demand them make you food. And plus knowing their financial situation also demanding them go buy you food . Absolutely disrespectful
A lot of the stuff in these shows is scripted for entertainment plus they deliberately pick polar opposites. They're not going to pick families that are similar to each other. The way all of these people treat other people's homes is disrespectful though, the people are always confrontational, loud and rude
Victoria Guerrero, I absolutely agree with you. I'm homeless and have absolutely nothing to my name. Before I was homeless years ago, I've struggled making ends meet and if I still had a place, the entitled priss wouldn't last a mili-inch past the door frame bc of her attitude is towards struggling families and individuals like myself. I guarantee it. As soon as she would even try to step out of the car, her brain would be like ice slowly melting in her head and she'd be wanting to go back to the "life she's used to. I'm sure they're are some people who might agree with me or come close to it. 😊😊😊
@@Debsterism, I agree. If that woman or anyone for that matter were to try demanding me to play "bitch boy" in my own home for the person, I'd ask," are your arms and legs broken? If not, do it your damn self". Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I really wonder how ppl become as self delusional as Tammy. She needs to realize the only thing SHE has "done" is marry well. She can't take any credit for bringing in the money or anything else. And rather than realize how fortunate she is and maybe trying to give back or be useful she does nothing and treats her 72 yo mother in law like hired help. Heaven forbid she lift a single manicured finger to help out. She considers herself caring and giving when really she's just a useless oxygen thief. Props to Melea for giving all the money to nana. Not that it will phase Tammy bc her self centered bubble is tougher than that.
You took the words right out of my mouth you were just way more polite so figured I'd jump on yours 😉 i've never seen someone so delusional and truly grossly self-centered in so many ways!!! I can believe she would treat her mother-in-law like hired help her son though??? REALLY DUDE!!! How about the woman who raised you and keeps your home going gets treated w/ privilege not that narcissistic psychotic delusional whack job SMFH Mrs Biggins on the other hand showed so much class and has such a good heart I wish I knew her!!! I'm so glad she left that $ to Nana 😍 DID U HEAR WHACK JOB AT THE END TALKING ABOUT TAX BRACKETS DOWNING HER MOTHER-IN-LAW ONCE MORE??? 😂🤣🤣 SICK!!!!!
she is delusional about herself...zero self-awareness...spiritually devoid of others...but her husband is just as bad...he lives with his mommy still and married a woman who is neither a wife or mother...the cocktail wife...worthless!
She was used to being treated differently by her daughter inlaw. Anyone notice who was doing dishes and cleaning up after dinner the night Mrs racist got home?
Its not a lot if you have student loans, debt, buying a house or a desire to go back to school. Thats the cost of most 2-4 year programs. If you have no debt, a home, a vehicle and a good career, then $50000 is a lot.
This woman was insufferable. Reading that story and convincing herself that she was some type of savior...ugh! She's wants so bad to be revered. She is Miss Millie from The Color Purple. "I've always been good to you people!"
have watched this many times n loved it 4tmp however as my spouse comes down mentoining camera , i was just realizing this time how is it they can film in a restruant ? i guess come to think of it and some other places that arent the home , i can only imagine being around the filming
it's kind of a lie tho. Because it's not enforceable. The company just writes them a check and they can do w/e they want with it. No one is watching them to make sure they do exactly like it says.
Tammy is delusional. She thinks her Presence alone impacted their family in a positive way. She didn’t do anything but criticize and treat them like they were below her. Smh 🤦🏽♀️ the definition of a Karen
@Livia, Barreto, I doubt it. But my issue is, Tammy's husband cosigns the BS. He can do better, but I see that they both use each other in a way, so I don't feel sorry for him, just nana & the kids. Him, for her looks, & her for his $$. Because I guarantee you if he wasn't who he was, she wouldn't give him the time of day.
Nope. I remember right after this episode aired she spoke to Ryan Seacrest in an interview and blamed bad editing making her look like “the bad guy.” She learned nothing.
@@AlexandraBernabela playing the race card and using as an excuse to stereotype typical white women makes you look just as bad. And I can say the majority of white women doesn't act like her.
Nana is so young looking at 70? she's amazing,.her daughter-in-law is nothing but lazy, mouthy who really didn't do her share in anything at Melia's home,.just over the top snob...didn't even do Melia's chores,..I don't get it either, why the show would pick a wealthy family who don't need help..
Ace I can only hope I'm in that good of shape when I'm that age shit... But they pick polar opposites to make the show as interesting as possible. Thank God that Barbie brat didn't get what she wanted.
Yes I know and she had no right talking to that little girl like that about her weight. She is so pretty the way she is and she's REAL not fake like that Tamy lady.
Sometime people would want to give everything back just to have peace with their self though the other family do not have with the other family have they have a lot of love and everybody works together
😭 her reading that story at dinner was hilarious... here it goes I always cry at this part 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 edit: she thought she was making a difference in their lives 😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 she is arrogant she acted like she thought she was a prize for them all throughout!! The kids and husband were great sports!!
Nana wouldn't like living with Mila. Nana took that role on herself. My MIL is just like this. My SIL let's her, but I don't. The house is less turmoil when you let the Nana do what she wants and run the house. My SIL is smarter in that way, I lived in my husband's country and know what she really says, so there's that too.
@@jelynn6463 Wrong! Your story is just that, 'your' story. Nana and Mila formed a bond which was more in 1 wk than in the years the witch daughter in-law who is a user, loser and full of vain pride but has zero to bring to the table, unlike Mila.
@@jelynn6463 I understand other cultures. YOU don't understand respect of humans or human rights......let me guess, you're a trumpanzee. Obviously you are, if you think a comment like that is appropriate towards another human being.
If someone of another culture excepts their role in life as a servant, well them so be it. If someone outside that culture expects them to be a servant, that's horrible.
The Chronic Procrastinator Yes he was shockingly rude! I would bust my sons butt if he ever said something like that to someone when he first met them. Tammy is a total diva though of course! Gross!
Mela is truly a blessing to this world. She was the sweetest most welcoming person on this show. Her personality really shines through and her and Nana’s relationship was precious I’m sure they still talk to this day. Probably talk way more then Nana and Tammy. Honestly love the person Mela is and her family is so kind as well. Truly wonderful people. Tammy on the other hand…
It really gets on my nerves every time she says positivism because that word refers to a philosophical theory, and is not used in the context that she is using it....I can't stand this woman! Lol
especially since she's misused the word. POSITIVISM - 'a philosophical system recognizing only that which can be scientifically verified or which is capable of logical or mathematical proof, and therefore rejecting metaphysics and theism.'
Awww Mila and her hubby raised those kids right!! It really touched my heart to hear her son say, make sure you donate some to the church too! Most grown ups don't even think of paying it forward like that and most kids his age are probably thinking about the latest console or toy! 💝 Mum and dad should be very proud of their family!
Dude...that stuck-up rich woman keeps acting like she's benefiting the Biggins family & impacting THEIR life for the better, when it was Mrs Bighins that showed the Nakamura family, what a better influence was
Because she didn't bring a positive impact on their life in anyway! She added no value to their life in any way! If she was an example of another ethnicity or economic class it would be that they are judgemental, lazy, classless, hypocrites, delusional, lack self awareness, rude, have micro aggressions, entitled, think they are better than they actually are, takers, feel money alone makes them somehow better regardless to what means got them money while this poor family are more decent people then she is....... not to mention she put on a facade and definitely needed that money! A hillbilly who lucked up marrying a doc but having financial problems! Need I say more?
Tammy Nakamura, in this episode, is the racist schoolboard member who finally revealed that the black principal at Grapevine HS was terminated because of his anti-racism activism. Funny, she had a live-in Japanese maid, I mean mother-in-law doing the chores and took care of her house. She had lots of money but no class!
Mela is so respectful. Day one she straight up came in with "No, I'll take care of this." And was just so attentive to this family and so open to everything they did and wanted her to try. I love Mela. I want to be her. Also Mela's whole family is wonderful. And Tammy's family seems lovely but Tammy is awful.
Quick fact: I was watching this around 2003-2004 when it first aired. I still remember like it was yesterday, honey I was 5"5 -129- thick thighs...oh, back to the story. The kids were calling their mother Mela short for Amela, that was my 1st time hearing that name I thought it was so freaking pretty. I had a daughter in 2005 and named her Jamela her name came from this show. 😃
Omg when they were in the nail place and she said “your mother had kids straight out of high school. So stay in school” like bitch!! Who are u to even come to this child’s family and disrespect her mother like they even KNOW you?? U could tell that the girl felt insulted, but was raised well enough not to disrespect her snobby ass back!
Giirl me too, I need to do something, am so ashamed of myself 😂 72 year old and she said she used to do 600 crunches, I can barely do 15, I get to 10, I convince myself am dying n believe myself then I stop.🥴
Wow the nerve of Tammy. ..nana does everything. ...and she was in shock that the 50000 was left for nana..hence the fact it's also her mother in law! Her husband makes the money she does jack s### very selfish and money hungry
Dang I watched the whole episode. Even when the son said Tammy had a grandma at her house she shoulda brought with her I still didn't get that she was the actual m-i-l. They had her doing everything like the hired help. 😬
@@rahkelthejackel3697 I can't believe her son had her doing all of the chores like the hired help. He could have given the children chores to help his aging mom out or hired help as a plastic surgeon. I know she probably mind but he should. She seemed to enjoy her break with Mela after she got used to the idea of relaxing a bit.
I'm absolutly astonished that Tammy's kids turned out so respectful with her as a mother.. Thank God for Nana is all i can say!! P.S. 'Is that really your face, because yesterday you looked like a movie star' Had me dying Hahahaha
YES I WAS TRULY TOUCHED WHEN NANA SAID THAT AS WELL BECAUSE SHE NEVER HAD A DAY OFF AND FOR MILA TO COME IN AND TO GIVE HER THAT IT MENT THE WORLD TO NANA. MILA SHOWED HER WHAT A REAL DAUGHTER -N-LAW SUPPOSE TO BE LIKE
Yuki seems like a REALLY nice guy modest also for the amount of money he makes and the way he lives. Theres nothing I hate MORE than when rich surgeons doctors lawyers professionals flaunt their money and education like they are better than everyone else. Hes a GREAT man in my opinion.
not generally an Eastern background...My ex in India comes from an area highly status conscious and material brands are important... I have lost connection with my Japanese friends so it's been15 years since I had a lot of awareness. I know I always wanted a Japanese boyfriend, and I had two in high school. But in college, I went on a couple dates with a different Japanese dude, a cancer researcher in San Diego (also called Nakamura, funny enough) and he was kinda mean about money, asserting himself as a better person because he had more affluence? Some guys are just jerks, so I dont think it has anything to do with race. Plus, Asians have high respect for their elders, and the son's wife is supposed to take over the whole family duties for Nana. Maybe Nana has some control issues of her own, and thats why she was still doing everything. No doubt there is a culture clash on that issue, but miss whitie should KNOW that isnt okay since she says she is so culturally aware. Plus then she goes over and make the black kids listen to country music? Does any black people listen to country? Ive never seen that happen... those lyrics half the time dont apply.
@@AnaliseFrank black people do listen to country music especially back in the days because that's what was played on the radio....I'm 48 years old and my grandmother had us watching Hee-Haw....so yeah black people do listen to country music
I love Mela and her family! I love how she allocated the whole $50,000 to go to Nana. Tammy needs to learn how to filter and how to treat others. I fully support speaking your mind, but she says things that are highly inappropriate! Not to mention the way she treats the Biggins’ in their own home. I almost lost it when she said Nana would have to pay taxes in a different tax bracket. ARE YOU SERIOUS? YOU’RE MISSING THE ENTIRE POINT!
How sad the Nakamara Children were better behaved then the Nakamara Adults those people showed their true elitist colors. Just goes to show that money can't buy class. The Biggins should really be proud of their extremely well behaved children and the kind, loving home they built.
@ G M , Is d hard work of d nana , she brought old method of parenting to kids , which is gold . U can see d effect on d son ( Nakamura snr) . If is left 4 his wife ( diva queen), those kids will turn out to be rotten spoilt brats .
@@amberrose1108 I don't mean this to sound racist or anything but people from that area of the world are very picky on certain things and don't like change very much. But see even when the mom insisted on nobody brings food he was still respectful to her
Shawn Hunter She was doing way too much! Kept bringing up race... I guess in her eyes if she keeps making a joke about it, that shows him she’s not a racist... but actually it shows the opposite! lol and her subtle flirting pffffttt... Stevie Wonder can see she is NOT his type! And never will be!
Me too she was a sweetheart, warm, kind ,loving. I think Tammy could take some classes from her on how to be a human being, but first you need a heart ❤️
@@anyib.3150 yes but if nana was paid for all the jobs she does and the hours overtime paid time and a half ...50k Maybe her salary plus all the years she didn't get any pay she was due for it...at 72 maybe overdue
Tammy went to that family's home & made them do everything for her. They're too nice to that lady . She insulted that daughter, when she's only 13 , when her own son is overweight. My heart was breaking for nana and the other family.
I caught that too. I feel bad I thought her daughter was 18 :( but tammys son is way overweight as well especially for half Japanese/white….he’d be considered obese too. Cute kids in both sides non the less
Yes, but a male child of a surgeon is not near as badly in danger as a black girl from a financially truggling home. He gets a heart attack, they buy new organs over in Asia and schedule surgery same day, while if the girl stays like that, can't afford college goes to teenage pregnancy and can't afford diapers and finally can't afford treatment and the circle continues.
Her son is not as severely overweight as the young lady. And most of his life is surrounded by healthy food and people who value exercise. He’s just going through a chubby phase; he will most likely experience a growth spurt and not be an obese adult. The girl on the other hand has some extremely bad and unhealthy habits.
@@heyheyhey40 that is extremely optimistic of you. He looks exactly like he will look. Slamming a joystick around won't teach him either health hygiene or work ethic.
When Omar ‘I think’ said since Tammy has her grandma clean up she should’ve brought her over to clean our house I literally collapsed 😭😂 that’s hilarious but he’s got a point
@@nebulousmaybe1811 I thought she said in the beginning that she wished he found a young one so she could continue to live a lavish life lol..let me check! Edit: yes! at 5:20 lmao
Nakamura family, the children especially were awesome, kind and humble. I really liked the daughter. The son was sweet too. Nana was perfect, adorable. The other family's kids were so nice too
When she said that I was just shocked SHOCKED! Who do you think you are this woman birthed your entire husband who then grew up to be a successful man she’s living of off🤯
That’s the difference, he’s not a man. He provides like a man, but he does not act like a man. Sits around on his arse and probably justifies it with “I’m a doctor” all day. His wife is his spine, without her, he folds into the little boy he really is. His son is older if not wiser than him
she is exactly full to the brim with micro aggressions! White savior can do no wrong! (except offend everyone else with their entitledness.) Sure she means well, she paints herself as always a do-gooder, but in reality expects everyone to conform to her way of life. God forbid she married an Asian man who hadn’t confirmed easily to American elite life...She could never adapt to another culture easily. She believes hers is best....and all others are less.
I’m glad rap music never gave me a headache. In the 90s rap music was so educational. It brought the struggles of the inter city and poverty to the forefront. Rap music got me tough some dark times. I listen to all types of music from country to jazz and trance to heavy metal. Music is a universal language.
When she started talking about that young girls weight. Imagine being a kid and having some random woman you don’t know go on about your eating habits and weight
Tammy your son isn't skinny. But they are children. They change as they grow. What do you say to him about his weight? No wonder you spend little time with him. Anyone else notice, the son didn't run up to kiss Tammy.
Austin Gibson also puberty I know I gained weight when I went through it I was a constant 95 pounds for 3 years then I all the sudden was 120 and then 180 and no matter what I tried or did I couldn’t seem to drop it I’m still struggling 😂 😭
Honestly it’s true, that family was eating horribly and they were teaching the daughter to have bad/unhealthy habits. They should be more concerned about their kids health and what they eat more.
Tatyana Buie She’s a young girl this is the time to be eating junk food because once you get older it just sticks and you’ve only seen not even a week of their lives it simply wasn’t her fucking place
While I do agree Tammy was taking advantage of her in most Asian cultures the MIL does a lot of the house work etc. They keep taking care of their children even after they marry. If my mom didn't live hundreds of miles away she would still be coming over on a regular basis to clean my house and I'm in my 30s; to me it's annoying but I can't tell her no cause she won't hear it.
Nana Nakamura is the most incredible person in this whole show. What a beautiful soul. And Mela is right there with her, only falling behind in life experience due to the decades between them. I have to believe they’ve kept their friendship alive. And I hope Tammy and Mela’s children have learned to take less for granted in their lives.
Mela was only 29 here. She carries herself with such mature-ness that makes her seem older than she is. She’s, by far, one of my favorite trading spouses wives. (I hope she’s doing well. ❤️)
@@mochasoqrimey really?!! Wow that's surprising. God. Tammy is a pos. And to know we just let anyone in to be a counsel women is disgusting. She's a horrible person. No wonder we have the world we do. With people like that having control of anything.
Whoah!!! I'm surprised no one mentioned the very end when all of Tammy's wickedness came out!! Talking about how she was glad Nana got the money because she'd be paying less tax money out of it then if they would of received it. Basically saying they were gonna get the money from her anyway, now with less taxes. So totally sickening!!!
@The Economic Prophets I think she'd be a lot more upset about the Nana thing if she was a debtor and the dad too. The dad actually seemed really happy that his mother got all the money.
I grew up with a neighbor who Nana reminds me of so much. I don't know if it's the Japanese culture or they're just amazing women but my neighbor is the sweetest, most self-less,generous person I've ever met. She would drop everything to help someone in need and was always doing things for other people. My mother was alot like Tammy, very self centered, and self absorbed, acting one way to the outside but totally different at home (in a bad way) and my neighbor set a good example for me and was a comfort that without her living next to us that's would have never had.
She truly did. She was supposed to initially do what Mela did; do for others and care for the home. Not only did she not do anything for them or the house, she had them do/get everything for her! I was in shock.
Nana deserves the world and Tammy deserves a reality check 🙄
Nana's son needs to stop treating her like hired help
@@fayezentner619 He does and it says a lot that he lets his wife treat him and Nana that way. He hates himself.
Man I could not have said it any better. Nana is the shit and tammy is shit. Haha
They lucky to have nana, for real
She is For real delusional. "I enriched their life" by making them wait on you?
Tammy must be a horrible person. She is not as positive as she thinks, she treats everyone like a slave. Go warm up your own coffee.
In life I've learnt that people who constantly talk about their positive aura/positivity are not!
@@breakfastattiffanys741 So True.
@Sydney Allen 🤣
Olivia Hall I would’ve made her leave after the 1st day!
🤣positism haaahaaahaha
Poor Nana!
Shame on them for treating her as a hired hand!
I think nana likes doing what she does...I think she feels needed and that's a good feeling
Jenni Baker well that’s actually quite normal with Asian families I take care of kids we had one who where half Chinese and her grandma traveled to take care of her bc that was her responsibility and how they like doing things the parents as for my understanding traditionally don’t do that they work and the grandma takes care of the house and kids I am not Asian so I can’t really tell but I have seen many family’s where that’s how it is so if it’s tradition and makes her happy and she feels like that what’s right then why shouldn’t she help out
I hope Nakamura wife and kids do help out Nana and give her time off. Wife doesn't look like she gives her respect for her work. That's a very large home!
Tbh I dated a Filipino. Her mother and grandmother are the same. I think it’s just part of the culture
nearly cried when nana and mela said goodbye
That was so cute when the kid saw the blonde mom for the 1st time without makeup early in the morning and was like "why does your face look so different today than it did last night?... Yesterday you looked like a movie star and today you just look...different."
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The kid was being completely genuine.❤
That was hilarious. 😂
Hilarious! lol. I love him.
I actually didnt like the way she looked made up, she looked pretty without her face all painted but yeah it was pretty funny
Nana knows her place? sickening
future cartoonist they are disgusting. Thank God nana got all the money. Shows who actually cares for her
They TOTALLY respect the elders in that household . Disgusting
Such a fake snob!
That husband allows her to disrespect his mother. If Nana couldn't work like a maid, Tammy would truly throw her out or take her to some nursing home.
@@disabledbabe yup
Tammy reminds me of a plantation owner's wife. "My slaves love me because I'm so good to them! Someone give me a gold medal". The ignorance is astounding to say the least.
I only whip them twice a day!
Hit the nail on the head!
Yeah, it’s disgusting.
I was gonna say that too.. omg.. the way she acts.. the world suppose to be spinnin around her or something. HAHaaaaaa I soOoOO could not stand her
You took the words out of my mouth❤❤
nana is probably thinking " why didn't my son marry someone like Mila."
man i was half convinced they'd just keep her. Like, "so uh....Mila is going to be ours now, thanks." lol.
Her son is an asshole and his wife knows it.
I feel so bad for the lady, she’s in her 70’s and dos everything around the house. They can’t even take their own plates. The blonde is not a good person so is her husband.
@@JS-uj2yi I was BLOWN away by that. That woman is 72!! She deserves take a damn break! And this white Diablo is horrendous!! My God she has zero redeeming qualities!!
I was really hoping this woman would somehow gain a better personality and perspective by the end. But clearly she is a horrible person.
“I have a dog too. Her name is Shuga.” - cut to Shuga whimpering in a cage all alone. 😂😂
That made me FURIOUS!
I died laughing! My husband had to get used to a “house dog” back in the day most dogs lived outside in our community-
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How you gonna go into someone’s home and demand them make you food. And plus knowing their financial situation also demanding them go buy you food . Absolutely disrespectful
A lot of the stuff in these shows is scripted for entertainment plus they deliberately pick polar opposites. They're not going to pick families that are similar to each other. The way all of these people treat other people's homes is disrespectful though, the people are always confrontational, loud and rude
I agree! Her attitude was absolutely horrible!
Man! In my house as s teen I would have told her to get real. We ain't your slaves heffa. Do it yourself you lazy bum.
Victoria Guerrero, I absolutely agree with you. I'm homeless and have absolutely nothing to my name. Before I was homeless years ago, I've struggled making ends meet and if I still had a place, the entitled priss wouldn't last a mili-inch past the door frame bc of her attitude is towards struggling families and individuals like myself. I guarantee it. As soon as she would even try to step out of the car, her brain would be like ice slowly melting in her head and she'd be wanting to go back to the "life she's used to. I'm sure they're are some people who might agree with me or come close to it. 😊😊😊
@@Debsterism, I agree. If that woman or anyone for that matter were to try demanding me to play "bitch boy" in my own home for the person, I'd ask," are your arms and legs broken? If not, do it your damn self". Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I really wonder how ppl become as self delusional as Tammy. She needs to realize the only thing SHE has "done" is marry well. She can't take any credit for bringing in the money or anything else. And rather than realize how fortunate she is and maybe trying to give back or be useful she does nothing and treats her 72 yo mother in law like hired help. Heaven forbid she lift a single manicured finger to help out. She considers herself caring and giving when really she's just a useless oxygen thief. Props to Melea for giving all the money to nana. Not that it will phase Tammy bc her self centered bubble is tougher than that.
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Dee Rockman - Oxygen thief... I like that. I never heard that before.
You took the words right out of my mouth you were just way more polite so figured I'd jump on yours 😉 i've never seen someone so delusional and truly grossly self-centered in so many ways!!! I can believe she would treat her mother-in-law like hired help her son though??? REALLY DUDE!!! How about the woman who raised you and keeps your home going gets treated w/ privilege not that narcissistic psychotic delusional whack job SMFH
Mrs Biggins on the other hand showed so much class and has such a good heart I wish I knew her!!! I'm so glad she left that $ to Nana 😍
DID U HEAR WHACK JOB AT THE END TALKING ABOUT TAX BRACKETS DOWNING HER MOTHER-IN-LAW ONCE MORE??? 😂🤣🤣 SICK!!!!!
This is so true and not funny...but funny. If that makes sense.
she is delusional about herself...zero self-awareness...spiritually devoid of others...but her husband is just as bad...he lives with his mommy still and married a woman who is neither a wife or mother...the cocktail wife...worthless!
Nana out here staying fit so she can outlive her daughter-in-law 😂
Lmao 😁
Agreed
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Mela is a beautiful soul. Her love for Nana and Nana's love for her was heart warming. I hope they stay in touch.
I literally cried when nana said she felt like she had a new friend and could talk about what she wants... she gets treated like a maid it’s so sad :(
Omgoodness I’m just in but I love swap. When son said we gotta donate some to the church… 💕
Loved this episode. Wonderful.
Perfect Match
Touched My Heart Strings
She acts like a maid,though.
She was used to being treated differently by her daughter inlaw. Anyone notice who was doing dishes and cleaning up after dinner the night Mrs racist got home?
@@deborahthompson3213 That Tammy's such a mess!
Omg she said $50,000 doesn't sound like a lot to you or me..seriously she is so out of touch
Sindee B Yeah I was thinkin what kind of job pays that per year?? That’s a bad car accident settlement...
Its not a lot if you have student loans, debt, buying a house or a desire to go back to school. Thats the cost of most 2-4 year programs. If you have no debt, a home, a vehicle and a good career, then $50000 is a lot.
Cause she's never earned a dime in her life.
Sindee B deluded
Seriously! Growing up, my dad never made more than $44k. Like. What?
This woman was insufferable. Reading that story and convincing herself that she was some type of savior...ugh! She's wants so bad to be revered. She is Miss Millie from The Color Purple. "I've always been good to you people!"
R. Alexandria 🤣🤣🤣 facts
🤣okay
Right...
I cringed!
Your comment deserves so many thumbs up!😀
The children of both families are incredibly wonderful.
Very true!
indeed I am shocked that Tammy had such wonderful children and she's far from Wonderful
have watched this many times n loved it 4tmp however as my spouse comes down mentoining camera , i was just realizing this time how is it they can film in a restruant ? i guess come to think of it and some other places that arent the home , i can only imagine being around the filming
72 years old doing 600 crunches...go granny!!!
Does Nana deserve the money?
Absolutely.
She's doing practically all the housework!
Damn straight she deserves the money!
Damn right ! And yes she may love to do it all for her son and grandkids but mama has to have to time for herself like relaaaaaaaaax.
Absolutely
it's kind of a lie tho. Because it's not enforceable. The company just writes them a check and they can do w/e they want with it. No one is watching them to make sure they do exactly like it says.
Not just all the housework but all the cooking too
She probably expected her son to always work as hard as she did. Hence him becoming a doctor
Tammy is delusional. She thinks her Presence alone impacted their family in a positive way. She didn’t do anything but criticize and treat them like they were below her. Smh 🤦🏽♀️ the definition of a Karen
She was rude
She is useless
Typical White Savior complex
The connection between Nana and Mela was just beautiful. Two wonderful souls. ❤️
Nana you WORKED for that money. Go spend and have a breeze
Yeah, but... you know she’s on allowance right? She makes more than you very likely. Ghee whiz
@@arabbit9396 lmao all you do is defend that family💀 it’s ridiculous
@@arabbit9396
Lmao she prolly gets paid minimum wage 😩🤣
AND YOU ARE RIGHT NANA EARNED EVERY DAM DIME OF THAT MONEY AND PLUS SOME.
Tammy is the worst 🤣. Every negative stereotype all rolled into one 😆😆😆
She voted for trump. Soooo
@@JAVONEETHEMOMMY really how do you know?
@@JAVONEETHEMOMMY how tf would you know that? this episode is over 15 years old
did you see how she gave the phone to nana
she's the "LINDA" and "KAREN". so disrespectful.
Nana probably made more of a connection with Amia in one week than her own daughter in law in years!
Iililliiliilipilllooooooooloooooooipooiiiopiiooioooplioiiiloloopoiill
You know it right!!
That face is upset!
That's because Amia doesn't think nana should know her place
Love ❤️ nana she like a Chinese version of my mom. She has to help all time. Yeah I’m white but not about that it attitude and respect
Whoever did the editing during Tammy's "Dinner Story" deserves an oscar, that was hilarious.
Hahhahahah yeah exactly
Omg..yesss!!! That was gold😂
This woman has just about the biggest white savior complex I've ever seen.
Well put🙌
Myathewolfeh1 oh. Is that what racists call it?
Kathy Myers girl u sound dumb. ain’t nothing racist about it
Myathewolfeh1 She’s a damn actress! Lol she doesn’t even know how to show she’s genuine if she wanted to! She’s creepy!
I dunno they had another episode with a vegan sooooo
Tammy was an entitled brat. I hope she saw this and was ashamed by her behavior and changed.
@Livia, Barreto, I doubt it. But my issue is, Tammy's husband cosigns the BS. He can do better, but I see that they both use each other in a way, so I don't feel sorry for him, just nana & the kids. Him, for her looks, & her for his $$. Because I guarantee you if he wasn't who he was, she wouldn't give him the time of day.
Nope. I remember right after this episode aired she spoke to Ryan Seacrest in an interview and blamed bad editing making her look like “the bad guy.” She learned nothing.
Hopefully not, ugh
negative. Tammy saves black folks
Just recently she was posing as a city councilwoman with a confederate flag so...nope
If i the phrase "I can't be racist i have (insert minority group) friend" was a person...It would be Tammy.
I know right everyone of her friends were white folks. Her family didn't even blend in.
Mari Roberson🤣👍🏽
Mari Roberson you read my mind 😂😂
very, much, the way she why her husband didn't mention why is minority
@Mari Roberson Finally..
Tammie is truly a person we should all strive NOT to be like 0 self awareness
She really had the white woman ignorancy with her
playing the race card makes you just as bad
@@Buttercup-vw2zo She's the whitest woman ever
@@AlexandraBernabela playing the race card and using as an excuse to stereotype typical white women makes you look just as bad. And I can say the majority of white women doesn't act like her.
Seems like she would benefit from counseling and medication.
Nana is so young looking at 70? she's amazing,.her daughter-in-law is nothing but lazy, mouthy who really didn't do her share in anything at Melia's home,.just over the top snob...didn't even do Melia's chores,..I don't get it either, why the show would pick a wealthy family who don't need help..
Ace I can only hope I'm in that good of shape when I'm that age shit... But they pick polar opposites to make the show as interesting as possible. Thank God that Barbie brat didn't get what she wanted.
jerry s watch Rich house poor house they switch their lives for the whole family
MY GOSH Tammy is so rude and disrespectful! Does she not understand everyone is not as fortunate as her? She must be SO offensive to the family :(
Yes I know and she had no right talking to that little girl like that about her weight. She is so pretty the way she is and she's REAL not fake like that Tamy lady.
Sometime people would want to give everything back just to have peace with their self though the other family do not have with the other family have they have a lot of love and everybody works together
I agree but she did a great job with where the money goes I assumed she is stupid by her behaviour well she is not
Actually to me that family is offensive, they offer nothing to society but their abysmal taxes. The poor kids didn’t even know what a scholarship was?
@@Heaven13420 call it tough love tubby cat 🐈
Tammy nags the girl on her weight but not the boys. Just shows that she feels a young womens value comes from her appearance
Rachelle and that was sooo wrong
I wonder why does she thinks that...
GhostDogg o the fuck are you talking about
GhostDogg o fuck you
well shes gotten to the good life off of just her looks so who could blame her for thinking that
😭 her reading that story at dinner was hilarious... here it goes I always cry at this part 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 edit: she thought she was making a difference in their lives 😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 she is arrogant she acted like she thought she was a prize for them all throughout!! The kids and husband were great sports!!
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LMAO that scene killed meeeee
The white savior complex was strong in this one
@@ItsAMalkavianThingwhich is weird cuz she has nothing she’s done nothing the asian people saved her
😅😅😅😅😅😊😂😂😂😂
the best part of this episode is the love story between nana and Mala. they are truly soulmates from different generations. i hope they still talk.
💗 What a gorgeous heartfelt comment
Nana wouldn't like living with Mila. Nana took that role on herself. My MIL is just like this. My SIL let's her, but I don't. The house is less turmoil when you let the Nana do what she wants and run the house. My SIL is smarter in that way, I lived in my husband's country and know what she really says, so there's that too.
@@jelynn6463 Wrong! Your story is just that, 'your' story. Nana and Mila formed a bond which was more in 1 wk than in the years the witch daughter in-law who is a user, loser and full of vain pride but has zero to bring to the table, unlike Mila.
humanity has not been lost yet god bless you! i hope they kept the connection as well! ❤️🙏🏾💋
@@tim.3695 Wow, you just know it all don't you? It's a Hollywood reality TV show 😂 FYI, she's co-owner to a car wash
Can't believe she actually said "Nana knows her place" What a c**t thing to say about her mother in law.
I thought the same thing. This woman is so entitled that it's disgusting.
Nana made her place and the DIL accepted it. You don't understand other cultures.
@@jelynn6463 I understand other cultures. YOU don't understand respect of humans or human rights......let me guess, you're a trumpanzee. Obviously you are, if you think a comment like that is appropriate towards another human being.
If someone of another culture excepts their role in life as a servant, well them so be it. If someone outside that culture expects them to be a servant, that's horrible.
Yeah...and 'Nana might not be here'
right there in front of her.
Sheesh...zero appreciation
for all that Nana is.
“Last night you looked like a movie star” 🤣🤣🤣
Haaaaa! He kept pressing the issue! Loves it!
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 OMG sooo funny. I looked her up on Facebook and she hasn't aged well. That's not a big surprise though. Lol
Some girls just look ugly without makeup
Yup cause he see his mother natural beauty on the regular. She didn't get that part
The Chronic Procrastinator Yes he was shockingly rude! I would bust my sons butt if he ever said something like that to someone when he first met them. Tammy is a total diva though of course! Gross!
Mela is truly a blessing to this world. She was the sweetest most welcoming person on this show. Her personality really shines through and her and Nana’s relationship was precious I’m sure they still talk to this day. Probably talk way more then Nana and Tammy. Honestly love the person Mela is and her family is so kind as well. Truly wonderful people. Tammy on the other hand…
Nana, in a hopeful tone: "They're going to kidnap her then?"
😂🤣😂🤣🤣lmao
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Time stamp please?
11:25
😂😂
Nana and Mela’s friendship was so sweet. 😊
I hope they still kept in touch.
Absolutely wonderful
Leahh823 honestly so adorable the friendship they developed. Two ladies that seem so sweet!
That’s how a daughter in law should be towards her MIL. Tammy just looks at her as more of a maid and nanny, doesn’t help her cook, clean etc.
@@iiiMUNiiiQUE I agree, and what get me the son allow it.
"You must learn how to speak"..says the woman who says 'positivism'...like..damn..you too good to just say 'positivity'?🤐
It really gets on my nerves every time she says positivism because that word refers to a philosophical theory, and is not used in the context that she is using it....I can't stand this woman! Lol
The "miner" took me out
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 my thoughts exactly!
🤣THIS COMMENT IS THE ONE!
especially since she's misused the word. POSITIVISM - 'a philosophical system recognizing only that which can be scientifically verified or which is capable of logical or mathematical proof, and therefore rejecting metaphysics and theism.'
Awww Mila and her hubby raised those kids right!! It really touched my heart to hear her son say, make sure you donate some to the church too! Most grown ups don't even think of paying it forward like that and most kids his age are probably thinking about the latest console or toy! 💝 Mum and dad should be very proud of their family!
Mela and Nana's friendship made this a 'feel good' episode.
Can we pls appreciate the husbands? They were both so welcoming to the new wives and didn't make them feel uncomfortable!!
I want to know if the Biggins Husband has a brother!
@@kaarentamm6423 😂😂 you go girl!
@@kaarentamm6423 😂😂 you go girl!
Eh ... the Japanese hubby did a lil when it came to the whole party things but everything else he was cool.
Yea that’s cause it’s In their dna 🧬 to be comfortable with any women lol
All the kids in this episode were so sweet. Nana was so kind and loving. She doted on her son and grandkids.
Yesss all the children were so great!
I found Tammy on Facebook. As of this year (2022) Nana is still alive and well.
Oh wow
Are Tammy and yuki still together?!?!
@@shannonceleste5557 based on what I saw last year, yeah. Still married, and Tammy is a local politician.
@@thatnerdinclass3696really?! Good for her! Based on how she was portrayed here, it actually makes sense lmao
Dude...that stuck-up rich woman keeps acting like she's benefiting the Biggins family & impacting THEIR life for the better, when it was Mrs Bighins that showed the Nakamura family, what a better influence was
How so?
@@belladonmoyer6214 super dillusonal
Because she didn't bring a positive impact on their life in anyway! She added no value to their life in any way! If she was an example of another ethnicity or economic class it would be that they are judgemental, lazy, classless, hypocrites, delusional, lack self awareness, rude, have micro aggressions, entitled, think they are better than they actually are, takers, feel money alone makes them somehow better regardless to what means got them money while this poor family are more decent people then she is....... not to mention she put on a facade and definitely needed that money! A hillbilly who lucked up marrying a doc but having financial problems! Need I say more?
Tammy Nakamura, in this episode, is the racist schoolboard member who finally revealed that the black principal at Grapevine HS was terminated because of his anti-racism activism. Funny, she had a live-in Japanese maid, I mean mother-in-law doing the chores and took care of her house. She had lots of money but no class!
Tammy annoyed the cab driver too lmao.
Nana is the best! Glad she got the money
Mela is so respectful. Day one she straight up came in with "No, I'll take care of this." And was just so attentive to this family and so open to everything they did and wanted her to try. I love Mela. I want to be her.
Also Mela's whole family is wonderful. And Tammy's family seems lovely but Tammy is awful.
Mephala Le Triste the love and respect meal showed nana was so heartwarming. Sad that it's more than her own family shows
She raised her kids right. I know one of the boys, good friend of mine.... extremely respectful, has my back, and not many folk are like that
I even think Nana likes Mela better her own DIL.
❤️❤️❤️
I can’t stand Tammy
Quick fact:
I was watching this around 2003-2004 when it first aired. I still remember like it was yesterday, honey I was 5"5 -129- thick thighs...oh, back to the story. The kids were calling their mother Mela short for Amela, that was my 1st time hearing that name I thought it was so freaking pretty. I had a daughter in 2005 and named her Jamela her name came from this show. 😃
Yikes
@@j_rainsgoat3929 wtf that supposed to mean
@@j_rainsgoat3929 im sure thats what ur ex wife used to say everytime u pulled it out .... shrimpy
Yes a very beautiful name. Bless your family. I love this episode as well. So heart warming!
@@brittanyk9101 thank you Brit blessings to you and your family as well
The way she was talking about the daughters weight is so disgusting to me. Like she’s being condescending and rude about it.
Lindsay Redditt The daughter is 13 and very overweight. It isn’t healthy. Obesity is a killer. However, it wasn’t Tammys smith place to say anything.
She's condescending and rude about everything.
GhostDogg o a child does not have to worry about their weight
Omg when they were in the nail place and she said “your mother had kids straight out of high school. So stay in school” like bitch!! Who are u to even come to this child’s family and disrespect her mother like they even KNOW you?? U could tell that the girl felt insulted, but was raised well enough not to disrespect her snobby ass back!
@@BS-dq1kz Fuck you I am the daughter. I was 13 im 30 now. Overweight in all I can still attract your spouse. Im very much healthy Thank you
I don't know why rich people come on this show. They NEVER come off looking good.
For the most part that family was great except for Tammy. She just seemed more like white trailer trash to me.
probably to see how rich they are from an outside perspective. Rich people love to shock poor people with their lifestyles.
And they don’t need the $$ either. Maybe they’re bored haha
I think Tammy wanted to show how much of a gift to world she is lol
I need to get my life together, after seeing Nana able to workout at her age and my ass can’t do half of what she can 🤦🏾♀️.
Same here .
I'm with you. Thought the same and am amazed by her.
Amen 😆🤦🏿♀️
Giirl me too, I need to do something, am so ashamed of myself 😂 72 year old and she said she used to do 600 crunches, I can barely do 15, I get to 10, I convince myself am dying n believe myself then I stop.🥴
Oh my goodness, SAME. Legit, hopped on a treadmill and lifted some dumbells. #hopeful
Nana is incredible.72,with the fitness and energy of a 40 year-old.
Wow the nerve of Tammy. ..nana does everything. ...and she was in shock that the 50000 was left for nana..hence the fact it's also her mother in law! Her husband makes the money she does jack s### very selfish and money hungry
comment queen it said Tammy is co owner of a car wash.
Dang I watched the whole episode. Even when the son said Tammy had a grandma at her house she shoulda brought with her I still didn't get that she was the actual m-i-l. They had her doing everything like the hired help. 😬
@@rahkelthejackel3697 I can't believe her son had her doing all of the chores like the hired help. He could have given the children chores to help his aging mom out or hired help as a plastic surgeon. I know she probably mind but he should. She seemed to enjoy her break with Mela after she got used to the idea of relaxing a bit.
@Zeinab Farah I’m sorry to hear that! I hope one day you’ll figure out how to deal with her
I'm absolutly astonished that Tammy's kids turned out so respectful with her as a mother.. Thank God for Nana is all i can say!!
P.S. 'Is that really your face, because yesterday you looked like a movie star' Had me dying Hahahaha
Chox Noris it is bc nana raised them
Chox Noris they probably take after the Dad lol
Haha! That was the son she liked from the start! Well, make up industry makes money for that reason. She felt slighted.
They probably never saw a black person when they where with their mom
That is all thanks to Nanna who proberly raised the kids anyway...
When Nana said she enjoyed her 1 day off, it broke my heart a little.
YES I WAS TRULY TOUCHED WHEN NANA SAID THAT AS WELL BECAUSE SHE NEVER HAD A DAY OFF AND FOR MILA TO COME IN AND TO GIVE HER THAT IT MENT THE WORLD TO NANA. MILA SHOWED HER WHAT A REAL DAUGHTER -N-LAW SUPPOSE TO BE LIKE
Olivia why you yelling girl 😭
Yuki seems like a REALLY nice guy modest also for the amount of money he makes and the way he lives. Theres nothing I hate MORE than when rich surgeons doctors lawyers professionals flaunt their money and education like they are better than everyone else. Hes a GREAT man in my opinion.
not generally an Eastern background...My ex in India comes from an area highly status conscious and material brands are important... I have lost connection with my Japanese friends so it's been15 years since I had a lot of awareness. I know I always wanted a Japanese boyfriend, and I had two in high school. But in college, I went on a couple dates with a different Japanese dude, a cancer researcher in San Diego (also called Nakamura, funny enough) and he was kinda mean about money, asserting himself as a better person because he had more affluence? Some guys are just jerks, so I dont think it has anything to do with race. Plus, Asians have high respect for their elders, and the son's wife is supposed to take over the whole family duties for Nana. Maybe Nana has some control issues of her own, and thats why she was still doing everything. No doubt there is a culture clash on that issue, but miss whitie should KNOW that isnt okay since she says she is so culturally aware. Plus then she goes over and make the black kids listen to country music? Does any black people listen to country? Ive never seen that happen... those lyrics half the time dont apply.
@@AnaliseFrank black people do listen to country music especially back in the days because that's what was played on the radio....I'm 48 years old and my grandmother had us watching Hee-Haw....so yeah black people do listen to country music
@@mickeybell8933Yeah I agree, lots of my family from North Carolina grew up listening to country and still do.
Then why did he marry this type of woman?
Well…all you have to do is look at who raised him AKA: Nana…
I love Mela and her family! I love how she allocated the whole $50,000 to go to Nana. Tammy needs to learn how to filter and how to treat others. I fully support speaking your mind, but she says things that are highly inappropriate! Not to mention the way she treats the Biggins’ in their own home. I almost lost it when she said Nana would have to pay taxes in a different tax bracket. ARE YOU SERIOUS? YOU’RE MISSING THE ENTIRE POINT!
Baby Doll that attitude just reinforced what's great decision it was to give it all to nana.
That "completely different tax bracket" remark just assured me that Mela made the right decision.
She is unhappy about it
when I heard her say that I got actually mad
How sad the Nakamara Children were better behaved then the Nakamara Adults those people showed their true elitist colors. Just goes to show that money can't buy class. The Biggins should really be proud of their extremely well behaved children and the kind, loving home they built.
@ G M , Is d hard work of d nana , she brought old method of parenting to kids , which is gold . U can see d effect on d son ( Nakamura snr) . If is left 4 his wife ( diva queen), those kids will turn out to be rotten spoilt brats .
@Ruddy Bakewell The son is skinny now. You can see them all on Facebook.
The Nakamura dad wasnt too bad
Marieh except when he insisted the guests bring their own food
@@amberrose1108 I don't mean this to sound racist or anything but people from that area of the world are very picky on certain things and don't like change very much. But see even when the mom insisted on nobody brings food he was still respectful to her
I love mela's personality. So warm.
Really? Thought she was kind of mean, she pushed her son and barely hugged her husband as she was leaving
Rose Cox idk about the husband but I think the push was playful. My mom would do that to me but not in a mean way
Rose Cox 😑
She seems like a wonderful person. And how she describes being in love with her husband is so genuine.
Yes. She seems lovely.
I love Mela she's so humble and so cool, and as funny as her kids are I love that they are so respectful and well mannered
Damn the Biggins dad looked done before he even got her to his home
Shawn Hunter She was doing way too much! Kept bringing up race... I guess in her eyes if she keeps making a joke about it, that shows him she’s not a racist... but actually it shows the opposite! lol and her subtle flirting pffffttt... Stevie Wonder can see she is NOT his type! And never will be!
😂😂
He was was becoming aware of how much his own wife suited him
Oh hell no... Tammy got to go 👉🏼
That little boy was so cute, '' you looked different last night '' 😂
That's how you really look?
@@emilyeerosew simp
@@MrTotBalls what?
@@breakfastattiffanys741 😂😂
i loved the black mom mela so positive
She was real !
Me too she was a sweetheart, warm, kind ,loving. I think Tammy could take some classes from her on how to be a human being, but first you need a heart ❤️
The dads a surgeon and clearly makes a shit ton of money and yet they're all upset that Nana got a measly $50,000??
Surgeons don’t make as much as you think and
I assume the wife spends above their means ofc
@@anyib.3150 yes but if nana was paid for all the jobs she does and the hours overtime paid time and a half ...50k Maybe her salary plus all the years she didn't get any pay she was due for it...at 72 maybe overdue
Ok!!!!!!!
Not all. Just Tammy, the pos.
@@JanieBgrand Look at the daughters face too, shes clearly disappointed
Okay when Tammy looked offended that Nana got the money I was mad, Nana totally deserves that money
bruh saaaame. but what was that bit at the end about the tax brackets?
I agree wholeheartedly!👑❤️💎👏🏽👏🏽
Tammy went to that family's home & made them do everything for her. They're too nice to that lady .
She insulted that daughter, when she's only 13 , when her own son is overweight.
My heart was breaking for nana and the other family.
I caught that too. I feel bad I thought her daughter was 18 :( but tammys son is way overweight as well especially for half Japanese/white….he’d be considered obese too. Cute kids in both sides non the less
Yes, but a male child of a surgeon is not near as badly in danger as a black girl from a financially truggling home. He gets a heart attack, they buy new organs over in Asia and schedule surgery same day, while if the girl stays like that, can't afford college goes to teenage pregnancy and can't afford diapers and finally can't afford treatment and the circle continues.
Her son is not as severely overweight as the young lady. And most of his life is surrounded by healthy food and people who value exercise. He’s just going through a chubby phase; he will most likely experience a growth spurt and not be an obese adult. The girl on the other hand has some extremely bad and unhealthy habits.
@@heyheyhey40 that is extremely optimistic of you. He looks exactly like he will look. Slamming a joystick around won't teach him either health hygiene or work ethic.
@@Ebonybeauty84 how did you go from can't afford college to teenage pregnancy
When Omar ‘I think’ said since Tammy has her grandma clean up she should’ve brought her over to clean our house I literally collapsed 😭😂 that’s hilarious but he’s got a point
White wife: "you look just like my son"
Everyone:.............
i think it was more of the chubby-ness than anything
Lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 or "Americas changed now" so you can do anything you want🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Im thinking she saying the fat part
Wow. Some of these episodes are SO cringing but you just can't stop watching.
Tammy Tammy Tammy...someone get that woman Dr. Phil.
Send her to the ranch
Or an exorcism!
@@tonialeeneslein240 that's so funny!!
Tammy gives me "I'm cheating on my husband" vibes.
She gives me "I hope your her husband has a side chick" vibes
Nah, she's too lazy.
@Shawn Conley Fukuda 😂😂
@@nebulousmaybe1811 I thought she said in the beginning that she wished he found a young one so she could continue to live a lavish life lol..let me check! Edit: yes! at 5:20 lmao
She definitely has selfish tendencies. I got the sense money is her lover. That comes above all else.
Nakamura family, the children especially were awesome, kind and humble. I really liked the daughter. The son was sweet too. Nana was perfect, adorable. The other family's kids were so nice too
"nana knows her place" as a man, I would never allow anyone to talk to my mother like that no matter who they are.
When she said that I was just shocked SHOCKED! Who do you think you are this woman birthed your entire husband who then grew up to be a successful man she’s living of off🤯
@@GRT87 Her husband is an idiot too. Why does he let to treat her mom as a servant? So sad
That’s the difference, he’s not a man. He provides like a man, but he does not act like a man. Sits around on his arse and probably justifies it with “I’m a doctor” all day. His wife is his spine, without her, he folds into the little boy he really is. His son is older if not wiser than him
@@evaturk8540 because she's white and Asians think that white people are great they'll kiss up to whites.
Craaazzyyy
whenever someone brings up racist microaggressions, this lady embodies that
Thank you!
SHE ISN'T A LADY...JUST A FEMALE.
A LADY DOES NOT ACT LIKE THAT...EVER!
she is exactly full to the brim with micro aggressions! White savior can do no wrong! (except offend everyone else with their entitledness.) Sure she means well, she paints herself as always a do-gooder, but in reality expects everyone to conform to her way of life. God forbid she married an Asian man who hadn’t confirmed easily to American elite life...She could never adapt to another culture easily. She believes hers is best....and all others are less.
@@austingibson5302 What we're not gonna do is be misogynistic by using female as a derogatory term either... 🙄
@@beastshawnee4987 THIS
All these old commercials are giving me nostalgia lol
I said the same thing
I literally thought the same
Same lmao
For realll
Omg me tooo!!!
The last scene of Nana and Mela had me in tears! Nana needs someone to care for her the way Mela did
“My Positiveism”
Yeah after her little speech about how you should represent yourself well by “knowing how to speak”.
Annie Kate Lmao! Exactly
@@lalalife6855 Mhm. This woman got everything wrong.
As she went on a minor harague about how you need to watch how you speak. 🙄
She is such an ignorant ass smh
Tammy is definitely her own biggest fan, that's all i'm gonna say😄... but I was pleasantly surprised at how she allocated the money.
Not even her husband seemed impressed by her coming back ahahaha
Her yelling “Omar!” and making him stand by the closet just so she could dry her hair. 🤢
Then narrators stats it took 40 min...
A true narcassistic bitch
@Alex C lol, actually I have called men "bitches" before
Wow you assume! Think I hate women..?yet I am female. When you ASSume!
That REALLY pissed me off! She treated him like he was her personal servant! 😡
I’m glad rap music never gave me a headache. In the 90s rap music was so educational. It brought the struggles of the inter city and poverty to the forefront. Rap music got me tough some dark times. I listen to all types of music from country to jazz and trance to heavy metal. Music is a universal language.
Also who doesn't love to get buck to some Wu or Hot Boyz, rap is very versatile compared to country
If you haven't you should get into some Dancehall(caribbean) and Afrobeats
Ayooo she said “I gotta watch them in case they drownd, I don’t think they’ve had any formal swimming lessons” Tammy you’re telling on yourself
literally
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i literally went to comment section after that part lol
At least get in the water and interact with the family and kids. I feel she took nothing of true value from that experience.
Her micro aggression throughout this swap was horrible.
When she started talking about that young girls weight. Imagine being a kid and having some random woman you don’t know go on about your eating habits and weight
Tammy your son isn't skinny.
But they are children. They change as they grow.
What do you say to him about his weight? No wonder you spend little time with him. Anyone else notice, the son didn't run up to kiss Tammy.
When I was 13 I weighed 250 but when I started playing football and exercise ing I dropped 50 pounds of fat and gained 40 pounds of muscle
Austin Gibson also puberty I know I gained weight when I went through it I was a constant 95 pounds for 3 years then I all the sudden was 120 and then 180 and no matter what I tried or did I couldn’t seem to drop it I’m still struggling 😂 😭
Honestly it’s true, that family was eating horribly and they were teaching the daughter to have bad/unhealthy habits. They should be more concerned about their kids health and what they eat more.
Tatyana Buie She’s a young girl this is the time to be eating junk food because once you get older it just sticks and you’ve only seen not even a week of their lives it simply wasn’t her fucking place
i just sat and watched the commercials forgetting that i could fast forward bruh
ADELA HAYNES 😂😂
As someone who lives in Scotland I found the American adverts fascinating
how do you fast forward?
@@kellystelow3070 Double-tap the right side of your phone screen
As a Belgian, watching those weird commercials were hilarious. America stereotypes themselves lol
Tammy is body shaming yet her 11 year old son was literally same size as Milas kids
Why do they treat nana like a maid? Is she not the husbands mom? I could never! 😤
I feel you. I would never ever treat my mom in-law like a maid. I respect and love her too much.
While I do agree Tammy was taking advantage of her in most Asian cultures the MIL does a lot of the house work etc. They keep taking care of their children even after they marry. If my mom didn't live hundreds of miles away she would still be coming over on a regular basis to clean my house and I'm in my 30s; to me it's annoying but I can't tell her no cause she won't hear it.
...considering the japanese culture, too, yeah its weird. No respect for the elders, really?
Exactly.. as the elder of the family she deserves the upmost respect. She is the one to be waited on.
I have an awesome mother in-law..Love her like crazy..I would never treat her that way ever...I call her momma.
I have a bad feeling Nana gave the money to them and I hate that.
She did cause Tammy was furious off camera
exactly
FOX 16 2004 I was glued to this show lol I guess that's why they Extream makeover home addiction for the family because she was pissed lol
@@Chalize You're probably right but I hope not.
@@tim.3695 I'm. They wrote an article about it
Nana Nakamura is the most incredible person in this whole show. What a beautiful soul. And Mela is right there with her, only falling behind in life experience due to the decades between them. I have to believe they’ve kept their friendship alive. And I hope Tammy and Mela’s children have learned to take less for granted in their lives.
nana is awesome. I loved her and I believe she showed her true self. at 72 she is just amazing.
Tammy stressing how important it is to be able to speak to people well.
Also Tammy: “positivism” 🙃
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The only cheque Tammy should be receiving is one from reality.
Hanh Dunham good one!
Well tbh she did get a check somewhat..50000 from CMT..and it’s bullshit her and her husband need to be punched down 10 notches
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🗞😂😂😂 nice
Haha
Mela was only 29 here. She carries herself with such mature-ness that makes her seem older than she is. She’s, by far, one of my favorite trading spouses wives. (I hope she’s doing well. ❤️)
She definitely seems like a sweetheart and her husband was a nice person too. He tried but tammy was just too much
Mela and her husband got a divorce and Tammy is a councilwoman in her town.
@@mochasoqrimey really?!! Wow that's surprising. God. Tammy is a pos. And to know we just let anyone in to be a counsel women is disgusting. She's a horrible person. No wonder we have the world we do. With people like that having control of anything.
Erin, Me too.
@@mochasoqrimey oh no a divorce? 😟 When two people both seem to be good, considerate people you hope they stay together
The way Tammy expected to have a grand goodbye was stupid, you haven’t done nor helped in anyway. Was rude since she walked in
This is my favorite episode! Mila and Nana are just two beautiful souls. They inspire me 💖
Whoah!!! I'm surprised no one mentioned the very end when all of Tammy's wickedness came out!! Talking about how she was glad Nana got the money because she'd be paying less tax money out of it then if they would of received it. Basically saying they were gonna get the money from her anyway, now with less taxes. So totally sickening!!!
😳🤢
No one mentioned it because that wasn't at all what she was saying.
Ooooop !
I think that's exactly what she was planning too.
@@roughtoughcocopuff9313 but it was worse...
Lmaooo "I need it now" girl then make some food?? Has she never made a sandwhich before?
She should have yelled out the window too 🤣
‘I was the all American girl who didn’t have any problems’. That just made me sick. No clue.
@The Economic Prophets I think she'd be a lot more upset about the Nana thing if she was a debtor and the dad too. The dad actually seemed really happy that his mother got all the money.
I grew up with a neighbor who Nana reminds me of so much. I don't know if it's the Japanese culture or they're just amazing women but my neighbor is the sweetest, most self-less,generous person I've ever met. She would drop everything to help someone in need and was always doing things for other people. My mother was alot like Tammy, very self centered, and self absorbed, acting one way to the outside but totally different at home (in a bad way) and my neighbor set a good example for me and was a comfort that without her living next to us that's would have never had.
when one of them burped during tammy's story, i SCREAMED lmfaooooo
I was dying
That was amazing lol
I'm SO glad I'm not the only one. I was howling!!! Pretty sure I'm going to hell for the things I found amusing in this episode. 😅
When Tammy was meeting the children and pointing her fingers straight into their faces, it made me feel so uncomfortable.
I really hate Tammy. I feel bad for her family, especially Nana.
She didn't even help do anything! I'm so irritated with her. Guess I grew up in the wrong way lol
Tammy treated the Biggins family like her servants. And Nana is so great.
She truly did. She was supposed to initially do what Mela did; do for others and care for the home. Not only did she not do anything for them or the house, she had them do/get everything for her! I was in shock.
The same "fat facts" Karen giving to this girl, better be the same FAT FACTS she gives to her son!!!!
I was thinking the same