What I hate in the HQ community || mainly Haikyuu texts

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ต.ค. 2024
  • ❗️ DISCLAIMER ❗️
    I haven’t seen pt. 2 of season 4 and only watched complications of videos of Aran, Kita, and Miya twins, so I may not be completely right so correct me if I’m wrong, please 🐒 I skipped all the way to the time skip so my bad. 🐥

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  • @bokutoslastbraincell2454
    @bokutoslastbraincell2454  3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    🐒 Heyyyy. 🏃 Lemme hope I don’t get cancelled.

  • @avreeb7197
    @avreeb7197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    The haikyuu fandom takes one character trait and makes that the character's whole personality... like people aren't all one-sided??

    • @tsukkishimasfreckles6712
      @tsukkishimasfreckles6712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      aaaaaa fr 😫 they see the character rejecting affection then before you know it that character is some sht who doesn't give a fck abt anyone 😫✊

    • @toruoikawa8347
      @toruoikawa8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I'm most annoyed how they changed Oikawa and Bokuto. Yes Bokuto goes on emo mode, but his actually self aware of his actions and can sometimes even go philosophical. The fandom just made him a grown ass baby while Akaashi became a babysitter or something.

    • @toruoikawa8347
      @toruoikawa8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Then Oikawa, ilhsm wtf, his so strong, independent, hardworking, and prideful. His character is beautifully written and the fandom just made him a whiney ass pathetic btch who seems like he can't live without Iwaizumi by his side.

    • @avreeb7197
      @avreeb7197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@toruoikawa8347 Yea as someone who kins bokuto and oikawa it makes me kinda sad

    • @rzephh
      @rzephh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Frrr

  • @hanerok
    @hanerok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    I extremely hate how some creators make certain characters personality only revolve around how they like it in bed.
    Especially the ones who don’t age them up, it’s uncomfortable.

    • @ilgarcia5785
      @ilgarcia5785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Fr they're minors like wtf-

    • @reallylostmymind9624
      @reallylostmymind9624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ilgarcia5785 not really- after timeskip

    • @yeontanii
      @yeontanii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ilgarcia5785 They’re not , they’re adults now

    • @infinitexvoid7605
      @infinitexvoid7605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ilgarcia5785 Their canon ages are around 22-27 now but when they use stuff of them from when they’re minors it’s disgusting.

  • @Mw-de3vt
    @Mw-de3vt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Kageyama: drinks milk on screen. ONCE.
    THE WHOLE MF FANDOM: AYYYEE WRITE THAT DOWNNNN

    • @Error-gz3pp
      @Error-gz3pp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I mean, people who watched the first Season 1 intro for all 13 or so episodes probably thought that Kageyama really likes milk. I’m fine with that, but “I like milk” and “BOKE” is not enough to make a whole personality.

    • @reesebennett8357
      @reesebennett8357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      IT WASN’T EVEN MILK IT WAS SOME SORT OF BLUEBERRY YOGURT DRINK

  • @sajima7995
    @sajima7995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 🥳🥳😊😊😄😄

  • @prettylay1504
    @prettylay1504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I feel like the fandom is just toxic. Like literally I hate seeing how they make the bottoms wear maid outfit as if the tops can’t wear that too. Also I hate when they make it seem like the bottoms can’t fight/defend themselves. Like their men they can fight and even if they can’t they could still defend themselves to a bear minimum.

    • @Aayusha-i4p
      @Aayusha-i4p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      the whole tops and bottom thing just pisses me off and seems heteronormative its also giving me very much Fetishization

    • @reallylostmymind9624
      @reallylostmymind9624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed

  • @avageraldine9426
    @avageraldine9426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    wouldn’t it be way more realistic for natsu to like take a bunch of pictures or like play a game idfk if she were to steal hinatas phone? usually when someone takes my phone and manages to unlock it the most they do is send an ugly photo to themselves not a weird one to my friends or something

    • @bokutoslastbraincell2454
      @bokutoslastbraincell2454  3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Frrrr 😭 like I feel like she’d turn on dnd of the gc texted so she can keep doing what she was doing.

    • @sunshinepeach9718
      @sunshinepeach9718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      that so true,every time my little niece and nephew have my phone they always either take a photo of the wall or themselves or download games

  • @crishnadianbea1697
    @crishnadianbea1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    And for Natsu, why won't ppl age her up??? It's disgusting for a 9 yr old to see something like that

    • @lillycant
      @lillycant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Isn't she 8 tho-?

    • @crishnadianbea1697
      @crishnadianbea1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@lillycant I think she's 9

    • @lillycant
      @lillycant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@crishnadianbea1697 oop🤭 but i totally agree to what you said 😌💕

    • @loveanime2258
      @loveanime2258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I tottaly agree. Especually when we know she is not 8 anymore

    • @crishnadianbea1697
      @crishnadianbea1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@loveanime2258 they could've use time skips for all characters

  • @toruoikawa8347
    @toruoikawa8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Wait, the stoner Suna came from the shape of his eyes? 😬 so who's gonna tell them that almost everyone in Inirazaki is designed based from foxes...

    • @addyot7854
      @addyot7854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      True plus suna eyes are amazing

    • @anelly9558
      @anelly9558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      RIGHT i was so shocked like how! at some point I honestly believed he smoked because they take it too far

    • @MaeArt725
      @MaeArt725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Honestly I never got the whole stoner suna thing. Like most of the headcanon stuff I see for him are about him using drugs or smoking.

    • @user-dr7ek4zt3t
      @user-dr7ek4zt3t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@MaeArt725 IKR, especially on Instagram there's a lot of stoner suna edits on there and it's really annoying like excuse sir/ma'am/person maybe people just have eyes like that...but yes its everywhere and getting on my nerves, because it's like going up to a person irl and saying "bro you look like a stoner" like wtf

    • @heather2701
      @heather2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wait, really? I didn't know that, that make sense! And yeah, the racism in the community is disgusting. Plus, honestly, Suna's eyes are so stunning?

  • @tsukkishimasfreckles6712
    @tsukkishimasfreckles6712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    it's not in the video, and one thing that actually pisses me off is when some creators like overly judge the character or make them a more overreacted version. LIKE LET'S SAY FOR EXAMPLE, KYOU AND YAKU???? LIKE WTF???? THEY'RE NOT SOME PPL WITH MASSIVE ANGER ISSUES??? WHAT ARE Y'ALL'S PROBLEM? THEY'RE SO MISUNDERSTOOD.

    • @blinkracha
      @blinkracha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      EXACTLY AND THEY MAKE THEM B*TCHES TOO LIKE IWAZUMI ISN'T A JERK

    • @yoom_ss
      @yoom_ss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Fr, i actually see kyotani just someone whos very quiet and kinda socially awkward but would give glares to feel more confident and probably not to have people bully him. And the dude seems like he admires iwazumi so much

    • @thefrog69
      @thefrog69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The same fucking thing happens to Tsukishima and Yamaguchi like omfg, they make Tsukishima the most insensitive, bitchy, little prick and then turn around and make Yamaguchi "baby UwU shy boy". I was so used to this when I went and rewatched Haikyuu and I was actually a bit shocked at how salty Yamaguchi was as well, he's literally one of thoses background bullies you see in movies. Like when Tsuki is teasing people and poking fun at them Yamaguchi isn't like, "Tsuki!! Stop that!!😠😖" he's more like "Hehehe, what he said🤣" Yamaguchi is almost as much of a jerk as Tsukishima he's just shy and insecure

    • @reallylostmymind9624
      @reallylostmymind9624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@thefrog69 I agree, especially the yamaguchi part

  • @alexedits4368
    @alexedits4368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    The thing I hate the most is how they make Suga or something like a mother or Daichi a father? Like they're teenagers? Am I the only one who has a problem with this shit? The toxic fandom also annoys me. Iwaizumi, Kageyama, Sakusa and Kenma. They may not be the best at socializing but they're not toxic. Kenma loves playing games but would give his partner attention and not just to his games. The same goes for Kageyama, Iwaizumi, and Sakusa. Yes, Sakusa is a germaphobe but not to the point where he puts Lysol in his partner's fucking food. Iwaizumi and Kageyama are also not the best at love so they treat their partners differently. I love the Haikyuu fandom especially the texting fandom but COME ON PEOPLE 😒

    • @orishapaudyal5347
      @orishapaudyal5347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      LITERAL FUCKING LY

    • @toxo1408
      @toxo1408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Sakusa is a germaphobe, not a dumbass ✌️

    • @heather2701
      @heather2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Absolutely, plus he plays volleyball?? Are we forgetting what the actual anime is about?? They are all volleyball dorks who want to achieve their dreams. If Sakusa was on that level of germophobia, how would he still be playing? During the training arc, we see him sitting on the floor and stretching his wrists. He doesn't even sanatize the area he's sitting in, he just has a mild phobia.

    • @iamthevillain9041
      @iamthevillain9041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      first of all - if sakusa's phobia was that bad, he wouldn't be even dating in the first place... they sometimes also make it seem like he doesn't really care and is not trying to overcome his phobia... like wtf? as a person with quite a few phobias i can say that that is not true, cause even tho i actually don't care that much about my phobias since they don't affect my life that much, i still am trying every day to overcome them or at least make them better...
      also since one of my phobias is (mild) haphephobia (phobia of physical touch), it sometimes makes me feel like they're trying to say that people with a phobia that makes it harder for them to interact with people are unable to have an actual relationship or are even unable to feel that kind of feelings and that just disgusts me, especially since i have actually 4 people that i am okay with hugging or holding hands (yes, i hold hands with my best friends xdd) and because it's normal in my country to hug your friends, i made more than 2 of my friends more than once sad, because it's just hard for me to hug them, but i do sacrifice myself for them (i actually never told them i have phobia of physical touch, cause i don't wanna annoy them with it, even tho they probobably wouldn't be annoyed... so just please don't blame them) and i know germaphobia and haphephobia are not the same, but they are quite similar, so i'm pretty sure germaphobes can have a "safe person" as well and i'm pretty sure they're trying all the time to overcome it for themselves and their friends and family...
      i'm sorry if it didn't make any sense, i tried... also english isn't my native language, so i apologize for my english and feel free to correct me if there are any mistakes...

    • @koijoy_z7
      @koijoy_z7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The only parent figures I see in the whole karasuno team is takeda and ukai to be honest (my opinion pls no hate 🖐🏾)

  • @simsim8089
    @simsim8089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I hate that the fandom literally made Kenna's whole personality video games, ignoring Kuroo and loving Hinata. The whole reason Kenma joined volleyball is *because of Kuroo*

    • @heather2701
      @heather2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      EXACTLY

    • @grumpycatz
      @grumpycatz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      e x a c t l y

    • @Xiao-jm5xx
      @Xiao-jm5xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Y E S

    • @bestgirlieyn5330
      @bestgirlieyn5330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACKKKK

    • @aey1ix
      @aey1ix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      exactly like i have to search DEPTHS of youtube to find a single video of kenma not being toxic to kuroo, it just shows how normalized toxic kuroken is in the haikyuu community is😐

  • @MaeArt725
    @MaeArt725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    With the whole hating on and demonizing Yachi thing, it’s also the same with how the fandom can act towards Michimiya Yui. Like people get so mad about Daichi and her ever being together and just making Suga hate her because he wants to be with her. It’s really weird honestly and kinda toxic.

  • @ididntdoanythingwrong1466
    @ididntdoanythingwrong1466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    SOMEONE FINALLY TALK ABOUT THIS!! Although I also hate how some creators make Tsukishima mean/rude I mean he's salty specially when he's pissed but in the anime He's kinda quiet and really respectful towards his senpai's , He also respect both Bokuto and Kuroo Cause he's totally indepted to them he looked up at Kuroo too but in text videos I often seen him being disrespectful 😃

    • @MaeArt725
      @MaeArt725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      He’s a bit sarcastic and blunt, but I’ve seen people make him flat out mean and sometimes make him a trump supporter??

    • @toxo1408
      @toxo1408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And in Japan, kouhai have to show their respect towards their senpai- you can search for this, gg is free. Don't ever think you can be a disrespectful brat in Japan high schools.

    • @weirdweeb6141
      @weirdweeb6141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I just see people make him heartless like in some text vids they make tuskishima so joyful when someone is dead or he gets happy when someone is rude

  • @kyoutaniseyeliner
    @kyoutaniseyeliner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    pls ppl, "sugapapa" sounds just as good as "sugamama"

    • @grumpycatz
      @grumpycatz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      or sugadada (IM NOT TRYING TO SEXUALIZE IT JUST SO YOU KNOW I JUST THINK ITS FRIKIN CUTER THAN PAPA JSOSIJFIR)

  • @violetlife7607
    @violetlife7607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Addressing the “sugamama” to “vodka aunt” transition. Imagine thinking that going from degrading a character to one personality to degrading a character to a different personality is any better.
    Is it that hard to think that a character maybe be both chaotic AND motherly?

    • @Aayusha-i4p
      @Aayusha-i4p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yesssssssss thank you

  • @SunSun004
    @SunSun004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I don't really like when they make the ' bottoms' wear maid outfits...i tried bringing this up to one person and they got defensive saying I was saying I didn't like boys in skirts or dresses...I'm completely fine with boys wearing skirts or dresses but what haikyuu text does is...sexualize it WAY too much...it makes me uncomfy. Like...idc if you put them in a skirt or whatever but like...PLEASE don't make it sexual...its just a skirt...let them chill-

  • @kageayamasblanket5905
    @kageayamasblanket5905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Aran is so underrated! He's so kind and nice to everyone...
    We need more Aran content in Haikyuu text community!
    I agree with all your opinions, I'm glad someone finally said that

    • @bokutoslastbraincell2454
      @bokutoslastbraincell2454  3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Not my next video includes AranKita 🏃 pls gfhdjsjs I’m deprived of AranKita content

    • @kageayamasblanket5905
      @kageayamasblanket5905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@bokutoslastbraincell2454 OMG YASSSS

    • @yoom_ss
      @yoom_ss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yesyes!! Ive been actually looking for arakita content but theres not much:/

    • @xxx28410
      @xxx28410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aran is so adorable! He is such a great haikyuu character and I cant think of inazaraki with him :)

    • @Aayusha-i4p
      @Aayusha-i4p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It pisses me off when an artist "forgets" to put Aran in their fanart but puts Sakusa in it, HES LITERALLY FROM ANOTHER SCHOOL

  • @justakidtryingtosurvivelif6719
    @justakidtryingtosurvivelif6719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Ngl I kinda hate the "Kawababe" and "Tsumubabe" like Canon Oikawa would just Call Atsumu, Sumu. and I feel like Atsumu would respect Oikawa because he's a year older than him plus the easily jealous Iwaizumi and Sakusa.

    • @norma7589
      @norma7589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PLS I HATE THAT SO MUCH I CAN NEVER FIND A VIDEO WITHOUT IT😭😭

    • @briiiii_lovesyou7715
      @briiiii_lovesyou7715 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yea and this isn't to hate any ship's but none of the relationships are actually canon besides Tanaka and Kiyoko

  • @peaakie
    @peaakie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    i 100% agree, as a young female i would make myself uncomfortable writing a gay sex scene or sexualizing them like that.. thats just weird because i dont personally know how gay relationships work.

    • @bubbleguppy6892
      @bubbleguppy6892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hm, though I agree, but I kind of also feel as though there should be some openness and meaningfulness to it. (Sorry, I’m gonna rant even though you didn’t ask for it.) There a plenty of bl manhwa writers that are females. Although that has nothing to do with Haikyuu community, I feel as though when writing a story at least don’t make sex the main point or if someone is writing only a sex scene, there should be more to it than just that. In other words, give it backstory (plot) and show the characters caring for each other or how it enhances the characters relationships afterwards the same way someone would do it with a straight smut.
      Separating gay relationships because it’s gay is also harmful when the LGBT community is fighting for that equality. As long as the characters are legal and have a reason to do it, then a scene isn’t that bad. The only issue within that Haikyuu community is that the vast majority of text-tubers or writers are young and impressionable, so they’re easily playing monkey see, monkey do. Or they’re chasing clout.

    • @peaakie
      @peaakie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bubbleguppy6892 ur 100% right

    • @oreo3574
      @oreo3574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@peaakie YOU READ ALL OF THAT? I WOULD NEVER 💀

    • @peaakie
      @peaakie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oreo3574 bro my social studies teacher had me writing a whole 10 page speech this is nothing😭

    • @oreo3574
      @oreo3574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peaakie LMAOO- im a good student but I don't do my work which makes teachers fustranted. So I would say Im dumb and don't wanna read 😃

  • @anikxa6401
    @anikxa6401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I would also mention something that bothers me the most in haikyuu fandom which is glorifiyng toxic relationships. Like, i can't stand how many creators make abusive and/or ignorant Iwaizumi towards Oikawa, Yaku towards Lev, Kenma towards Kuroo etc. No one should stan a non healthy relationship

  • @tsukkishimasfreckles6712
    @tsukkishimasfreckles6712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    since I'm at it, let's talk about Bokuto. Bokuto isn't a person who just relies on Akaashi all the time--- Like, idk abt y'all but he's the team CAPTAIN for a reason??? And it's even stated in one of the episodes that Bokuto isn't someone who is brought up by the team, because he also brings up the team. It's a vice versa relationship in their teams. And the rare ships or just all the ships in general, if you dislike the ship, SKIP. I for one, who isn't a fan of DaiSuga and AsaNoya, I skip their parts whenever I'm watching. If it makes you uncomfortable when you're watching it, please just skip them and respect those who want to watch and are comfortable with them. There's no need to hate on the ship, the creator or the viewers.

    • @blinkracha
      @blinkracha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      PREACH

    • @user-dr7ek4zt3t
      @user-dr7ek4zt3t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      FUCKING PREACH

    • @zen-nb2fd
      @zen-nb2fd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you!! I also fully agree with the Bokuto part, like in the manga there's several chapters dedicated to Bokuto being shown to be an amazing volleyball player and captain all by himself with little to no influence from the team. Also, when people make Bokuto dumb because he's energetic and can sometimes be run by his emotions, it pisses me off. There are also instances where Bokuto actually says smart things that cheer people up, he did it with Akaashi multiple times and he's the one who gave Tsuki the idea that he's going to have a moment where he loves volleyball. Sorry for the rant I'm just very passionate about this topic because Bokuto is literally my favorite character

    • @Xiao-jm5xx
      @Xiao-jm5xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As someone who’s comfort and favorite character is Bokuto,I AGREE!!!!!
      The fact that he’s energetic doesn’t make him dumb...
      Like Hinata,he is energetic as heck,mostly because volleyball is a passion for him. He cheered multiple people through the anime,as well as he did with Tsukki and his inspiring speech.
      For the Akaashi babying Bokuto,its just dumb.
      Akaashi only took care of him in his Emo mode,BUT ONLY IN HIS EMO MODE. Beside that,we can see that they act as friends/best friends or lover (whatever you see it like)

  • @toruuchii
    @toruuchii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Y'all if you get canceled we'll protect you
    👁👅👁🔪😌✨

  • @Madeleineee-
    @Madeleineee- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I also hate the Sugamama thing. One boy decided to care about others and now all the sudden he is a mother. Like I don't have a problem if someone says he acts like a mom but the fandom took it to far. First of all Kageyama and Hinata aren't even dating and y'all being like making Suga put knife emojis because apparently Kageyama kissed Hinata. Even if they were dating I'm sure Sugawara would support them and wouldn't want to interfere with their relationship. Anyways, sorry for going a bit off.

    • @fluffysheep2876
      @fluffysheep2876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No no no you're fine 😌😌 sometimes I don't like it either

    • @RedBanana_
      @RedBanana_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If anything, Sugawara is the weird uncle but in a weird aunt kind of way? Like, he’s super supportive of everyone but also is so chaotic.

  • @toxic2208
    @toxic2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    If anyone trys to dislike I just wanna talk
    Edit- i agree with you on everything also pls respect the creator pronouns.

    • @Ito2971
      @Ito2971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same

    • @blinkracha
      @blinkracha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

  • @llamaguchi
    @llamaguchi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    ahh i agree with everything said in this! admittedly and unfortunately, i have used the psychotic sugamama trope when i first started just because the fandom did it but actually today i was watching a video with suga in it and honestly it made me realize how much injustice we bring to him as a character. he’s genuinely the sweetest guy out there and so freaking selfless and personify him as this weird, psychotic “mom” that controls everyone?? that’s so unfair and i’m sorry i ever contributed to that. i’m happy i’ve learned my lesson early on but i hope nobody does it again. honestly, you took the words out of my mouth. i kinda didn’t like the stonerhead suna headcanon bc tbh it didn’t even make sense to me since he’s an athlete but then i sorta liked it because i read some good works about it, however once i learned that it was because of the shape of his eyes, i was absolutely disgusted. also i don’t mean to shit on anime but sometimes they really take the whole tanning thing TOO far like there’s a difference between being tanned and blackfishing, it’s just so unsettling.

    • @bokutoslastbraincell2454
      @bokutoslastbraincell2454  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pls same. I didn’t even know DaiSuga was a ship and never paid attention to many characters other than Tendou and Noya, so when I started out, I just used fanon for reference until I took the time to rewatch the anime.

  • @pascalel1855
    @pascalel1855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    All of these things are so true!! Another thing I hate about a lot of text videos is the way Sakusa's mental health is handled. Like when he hurts Atsumu he always rushes over, and then the creator talks about how he "forgets" about all the germs because of his love for his boyfriend. It's just not how mental health issues work and it's pretty harmful. I appreciate that everyone is making less toxic sakuatsu content but it isn't really the way to do that...

    • @peachygyaru
      @peachygyaru 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES AS SOMEONE WHOS MYSOPHOBIC IT PISSES ME OFF SM

  • @violetlife7607
    @violetlife7607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Traversing the ocean of haikyuu content creators is like swimming in vaguely dirty water until you find that (1) content creator who has some basic human decency and finally being able to breathe

    • @violetlife7607
      @violetlife7607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And sometimes you find creators like @Bokuto’s Last Braincell who are rafts that you hold on to for your life

    • @toxo1408
      @toxo1408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Iwaizumi's biceps too

    • @heather2701
      @heather2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lex Black and Bubble Paint too! Noya's Bean was one too, but they deleted all their content.. oooh, also Akaashi's defender! I love them so much! They make amazing non toxic content.

  • @crishnadianbea1697
    @crishnadianbea1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I agree with everything, Aran is good person and I simp for him. And I don't know why ppl still simp for terushima he harassed kiyoko

    • @soap5637
      @soap5637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      personally, i'm pretty neutral about terushima. he did corner kiyoko, but he's also a teenager and tanaka and noya do the same thing but on a less extreme scale ofc. dunno, i dont really see how people simp for him but i also think excessively hating on him isn't great.

    • @crishnadianbea1697
      @crishnadianbea1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@soap5637 Tanaka and noya did nothing, yes terushima cornered kiyoko but kiyoko is already feeling uncomfortable unlike with noya and Tanaka. I am rlly sorry but I hate him that much. And yes I respect your opinion

  • @miya_6677
    @miya_6677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I’m curious on what your other reasons were now.
    1- I hate it when they over exaggerate on they’re personality. For example Oikawa, he isn’t always that whiny, cocky, or dependent on Iwaizumi. People over exaggerate when it comes to him being whiny or cocky. In general he can be both but don’t make it his whole personality. Dependent on Iwaizumi, they always do most things together but don’t always make Oikawa needing Iwaizumis help. Oikawa is capable of doing things himself.
    2- Making Nekoma or any other team in general slander Lev. This happens with two specific characters Yaku and Kenma. Kenma wouldn’t be always slandering Lev. Yaku also wouldn’t be always slandering Lev, also making Yaku the person with severe anger issues is just weird. Yaku wouldn’t be always centering his personality on Lev practicing his receives, only being nice to Kenma and nobody else, and hitting or bashing Lev for one thing he did. Also Kenma being an “ UwU “ femboy and “ shy 🥺👉🏻👈🏻 “ Kenma is beyond those two.
    If your gonna argue with me please use he/him. Also tell me if I spelled something or a sentence doesn’t make sense. Thank you
    Edit Note: okay heres another one
    3- when they bully/like a character cause of they’re trauma. And solely on they’re trauma nothing else. There is other character details you can like why mainly focus on they’re trauma.
    Stan the Haiba siblings for luck 😫

    • @tsukkishimasfreckles6712
      @tsukkishimasfreckles6712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      YES SOMEBODY FINALLY SAID THE LEV SLANDER. LIKE? THEY MAKE THE WHOLE TEAM SLANDER LEV FOR WHAAAT?

    • @miya_6677
      @miya_6677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@tsukkishimasfreckles6712 as someone who likes Lev when I see that I’m like 𝗛𝘂𝗿𝘁 😃

    • @anelly9558
      @anelly9558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I don't think anyone will argue with you and if they do I got your back.

    • @Madeleineee-
      @Madeleineee- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I definitely agree on the whole Oikawa thing. Oikawa isn't five years old he knows how to take care of himself. They also did that with Bokuto except they made him super dependent on Akaashi. I've seen series where it's like Bokuto needs to see Akaashi every day of his life.

    • @miya_6677
      @miya_6677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@anelly9558 thanks 😫

  • @Msstar666
    @Msstar666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how you aren’t being toxic about this. And you’re actually stating actual problems that aren’t like “oh, well, this person said that and it really offended me because _____ “ I agree with all of these

  • @WitchaHorta
    @WitchaHorta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    THANK YOU 👁️ I was only able to discuss this with my sister. Also, people should start to do research if they want to write about someone else's characters. And if they age them up and want to write sex scenes it's fine, but jesus christ, at least write them in love and as adults. We have their grown up versions, RESEARCH FOR MAKING THEM AGED UP.
    As someone who's comfort anime is Haikyuu, I hate how people portray the characters in this stuff. I write (for myself) fanfics and I do RESEARCH.
    People are making Haikyuu characters their own fantasies and it's creepy. They forget there's a story behind them all and that THEY ARE PEOPLE WHO FEEL AND CARE ABOUT THEIR FRIENDS.
    And when they make the team toxic, it's awful. Mostly with Nekoma, Aoba Johsai and Inarizaki. Their teams are their family. I hate seeing Haikyuu texts were their friends abuse them, it's horrible. Atsumu finally has friends and they want to take them away from him? Aran would NEVER hurt Atsumu, neither his twin brother. And as someone with siblings yes, we can fight for stupid shit, but I will NEVER hate my sister and I would never hurt her for nothing. I mean, unless she does something awful to me in purpose like hurting someone I love.
    And Oikawa is the greatest captain there, stop bullying him for not making it to nationals. Plus, his team would NEVER blame him for that.
    And YAKU ISN'T SOMEONE WITH ANGER ISSUES. He cares about Lev and Kenma does so, they would never hurt him or make him feel less for doing something wrong. Kenma helps him and Yaku does so.
    I'm making this a rant, sorry. It's just that there's so much wrong with this community.

    • @Xiao-jm5xx
      @Xiao-jm5xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’re not making a rant,you’re just spitting TRUE facts and that’s great,SAY THAT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! 📢

    • @WitchaHorta
      @WitchaHorta 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Ibuki Mioda I won't stop watch a show because of the fandom, but I have stopped watching thinks like fanarts or fanfics because of it, and it's sad because there's amazing content creators who deserve a lot of love and don't sexualize minors

  • @iyuugurt6919
    @iyuugurt6919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I remembered the time when HQ texts has this scenario:
    Tsuki: (says something)
    Sugawara: TSUKISHIMA KEI
    Not hating tho, haha. I also used that before because it's fun but now I realized how annoying it was 😅
    I also used to write some smexy stuffs but just a little bit of detail. Like I'M VERY UNCOMFORTABLE writing those stuff.

  • @pramila48
    @pramila48 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can't thank you enough for making this. I agree with everything you mentioned in the video, especially the 8th point. Soo many people used to do the 'Sugamama' thing and now the same people are talking about how Suga being a parental figure for the rest of the team is *wrong* and he's more of the wine aunt. It infuriates me 💀

  • @livycore
    @livycore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I agree with EVERYTHING you said, especially Aran and Yachi. Yachi is one of the sweetest, kindest characters and Aran is the ace...THE ACE like they both deserve WAY more appreciation.

  • @hindobasoko8898
    @hindobasoko8898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    PEOPLE IN THE BACK IK YOU HEARD THEM!!!! Aran was so cute as a kid and he still is

  • @kirstenbrenya8977
    @kirstenbrenya8977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    no bc you ate this UP. you said everything that has needed to be said. this fandom has just been going downhill ever since early november and we rlly need to step up our game before we either become a dead fandom or the toxic side of the bnha fandom. i have loved this show for years and now looking at it after the manga ended i'm like how did we get here? cancelling an anime character?? racism in the fandom?? fetishizing mlm?? c'mon now y'all 😭 i know we can do better than this and we ARE better than this. if some of you guys aren't careful, big contributors to the fandom like Deathbelle, mysecretfanmoments, and deanpendragon are going to start dipping. it should never come to the point where big fan fiction creators are saying goodbye to the fandom because of some of the shit some people are pulling, and i frankly won't forgive anyone if those ppl leave the fandom because of this 🚶🏻‍♀️ this is the actual lowest we have ever been and i'm not rocking with it 😐

  • @nonab3852
    @nonab3852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don’t like how Kageyama’s whole personality is reduce about him drinking milk (which he did just 2-3 times in the show). He’s the character I relate the most, and it annoys me that people take that for his one trait of personality, he’s been misunderstood by people on the show, but he’s even more by those watch/read haikyuu. This guy dedicated his whole life to volleyball, besides being naturally talented he worked everydays to become better. So knowing his worth on the court is not arrogant, he’s fully aware abt his own strengths/weaknesses and other’s. Also, i’ve seen many videos where he’s shown like some sort of sexual predator towards Hinata. Again, this is totally out of the character and a big misinterpretation of their relationship first off, Tobio is younger than Shoyo by few months and assuming he would be like that, is weird. Because those boys are just 16-years-old teenagers who are really passionate about volleyball and the fact that they complete each other is really good. There is nothing wrong with their relationship but the way some people are seeing them is really inaccurate.

  • @gdjedehwaeyhweyhrhwshwrjhr1153
    @gdjedehwaeyhweyhrhwshwrjhr1153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Also about the Suna part, they apparently made the whole "' stoner '''' trope because of his eyes. Like miss gurl what? 😀

  • @muichiroussmile1522
    @muichiroussmile1522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think it’s important to remember that there are also brighter and amazing sides of the fandom, but if we’re looking at the less appealing sides then I completely agree

  • @Sorraux
    @Sorraux 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Please I’m so glad you addressed it especially the feminine aspects. I personally didnt find I could talk about this since I’ve been avoiding the top and bottom, genderbend and most of those topics for a while now. I can’t stand arrogant hinata plss like he’s 16, people who write these things probably aren’t even that age. I can see sugamama as a small joke that could be reserved for the team but when their personalities the based around that, I will say I am guilty of the dadchi and sugamama trend but I’ve heard about this topic a lot recently and know better now. I think this video is really important for everyone in the community if they’re a creator or just a viewer thanks

    • @anelly9558
      @anelly9558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right Suga is literally as chaotic as everyone else.. like that one episode where Daichi leaves to talk to the coach and tells Ennoshita to watch what they do and Suga said why not me the vice-captain, then Daichi says something along you'll just encourage them

  • @meesta_
    @meesta_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    OoOoOoOhhhh I don’t think this was mentioned in the video but umm wth have some ppl done to YakuLev...they seriously makes it seem like Yaku doesn’t give a flying fucc ab Lev and that Lev is like the only one invested in the relationship...last time I checked it takes at least 2 people to make a relationship work-Yaku also doesn’t have anger issues 😃 like he may be on the slightly more aggressive side but he doesn’t want to hurt Lev, or anyone for that matter...anyways hope you enjoyed my rant 😌 have a wonderful day/night

  • @jjinterlude
    @jjinterlude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    (Probably a lot of grammar mistakes)
    I haven’t watched these texting stories in a while, but a lot of problems you point out, honestly do disturbed me in some texting story videos. like I love oikawas hq character, and I love how they make him a “bad bitch” for say, but when they make him rude and like hurtful because of it, it really bothers me.
    YES PLEASE DO AGE THEM UP THOUGH... I mean...Natsu for example especially in the “natsu goes through hinatas phone” i used to not mind all the “sexual” tension in those videos, but I was immature and young at the time. I honestly feel uncomfy with nastu or anybody posting those inappropriate photos of their friends in a group chat, it reminds me of a person sending their friend private photos that should not be shared.
    - I hate Hinata being the “dumb” character as well. I don’t really like his character in general, but I still still don’t think he’s “dumb” and wouldn’t know what “sex” or “periods” are. They honestly need to make him smarter, like he is.
    -The suicide videos USED to be my favorite angst videos, but I honestly despise them now, they make me feel a bit uncomfy and some of them make me want to cry due to trama, I know that some of them are “okay” but most of them who make the characters (ESPECIALLY/NORMALLY OIKAWA) pretend they want to end their lives for attention is honestly disgusting.

  • @feerspeciar4546
    @feerspeciar4546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    i really don’t like the flat jokes about oikawa and maybe other characters bc it just feels like they’re saying that if u’re flat, u’re unattractive or smth?? i, myself, is flat and i personally think that there’s nothing wrong w being flat. it also just may lead to flat ppl being insecure bc of their body type when there is nothing wrong w it. ily girl/bro/non binary

    • @beag.cabales2813
      @beag.cabales2813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And they say “Body positivity” like..wth boo? They think it’s humorous but it’s not. 🤨

  • @witchway1074
    @witchway1074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    TOXIC👏SHIPS👏 Like NO?! And teams as well Some people would make them so rude to there partners and thats no right example Oikawa is body shamed Kuroo is neglected Lev is overworked and hit Atsumu is made fun of like noooo body shaming is wrong they can tease him whatever but you can do that without bullying him Kenma wouldn't just flat out ignore Kuroo and Kuroo is his CHILDHOOD friend he wouldn't abandon him for Hinata yes Kenma would sill play his games but he would also make time for Kuroo. Yaku omg he would never overwork someone like that he's such a nice character he just doesn't like being called small also when he hits Lev its not ever second or any time he says anything and then Bokuto and Akaashi first things first Bokuto is not a child he can take care of himself also his emo mode isnt that bad they always make it like if Bokuto got insulted he would go to emo mode like no and then Akaashi he does not baby Bokuto they always make that Akaashi has to do every little thing with or for him
    I literally had to rewatched Haikyuu because i was forgetting what the original characters where like

  • @lenep3884
    @lenep3884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Idk it makes me so sad that the hq fandom is like this :( i really liked the hq fandom but the i see things like u mentioned in the video and i get really sad because thats not the hq fandom i know and love and support. Im soo glad that i found a little place where none of these things happen and where i actually can enjoy the fandom and chat with people who feel the same about the characters like i do (im sorry if this comment dont make sense to u- english is not my first language and i find it really difficult to explain my feelings about that) and i think im in this cool and really nice hq place for so long that i forgot how toxic the fandom can be and now every time i see it , it breaks my heart.. i always felt comfortable in the hq fandom (before i saw how toxic it can be) because i met some really cool people because of it and i felt like nobodys dragging me for my (legal) ships (like in other fandoms i got much hate because of my ships- and no i dont ship anything controversial or illegal, they just hated me because they didnt like the ship) and idk about the sugawara thing- i think many people were just like forgetting that he can be chaotic too and doesnt act like the „mom“ an then they realized that he acts chaotic often and tried to change his character mom kinda thingie (idk if thats true but thats what i thought) -please dont hate me- these are just my opinions

  • @yoom_ss
    @yoom_ss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Haikyuu fandom may be the most chill for me (coming from someone whos been in other anime fandoms, kpop stan, and the mcyt comminity)
    but they of course still have problems. Especially with how they bring natsu to very inappropriate scenes of his brother.
    Not only that, they make the characters too mean, characters such as iwazumi, Tsukishima, Shirabu(ish since hes not use much), Kunimi, Kenma, Kageyama, kyotani, yaku, Sakusa.
    Then those who seems to just revolve about sex like, atsumu, kuroo, noya, terushima, and oikawa. And those who making characters dumb, and not innocent, like hinata, yachi, and yams just doesnt sit right.
    Theres more but idk am too tired to type it all out
    Edit: oh yeah! Ive seen Aran a few times but not as much as the others:(
    It makes me sad since i really love his character especially his dynamic with kita.
    OH AND YACHI, i love her so much, it makes me so mad when people makes her the homewrecker. I hate it more than people just hates the female characters of haikyuu, theyre all nice and pretty.
    the rare pairs, i havent seen much people hate on rare pairs since i myself is a multishipper with a few more people i know agrees with me, and if i dont like the ship i would just not say anything about it.

  • @ruru_bee3253
    @ruru_bee3253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    i hate it when the creator makes "this" character so rude to their "boyfriend"
    i don't know, that's what i hate about the community😷
    and when they make sugawara the "overprotective mom" and hinata as the "innocent child that you must protect" like, hinata isn't that innocent🤠

  • @aey1ix
    @aey1ix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i’d like to add about the whole body shaming oikawa thing. i get that he’s a fictional character and he did something wrong but, still your words can be sensitive for other people and others might think it’s okay to do this in real life (others as in younger kids who watch anime). treat your characters with the same respect and decency with other humans. i’ve seen so many text videos of oikawa getting called “flattykawa” or “doorkawa”, it may be funny back then (although i never thought it was), but now it’s just so overused. other than that, i agree with everything you said in the video.

  • @tangerine8725
    @tangerine8725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I hate how how in some texting videos hinata or yamaguchi call suga and/ or daichi mom/dad. Like it just makes me uncomfortable. Also aran is a very underrated character

  • @bruhbruhbruhbruh128
    @bruhbruhbruhbruh128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!!! I honestly used to like the whole "Smoker" Suna head cannon bc I thought it was because of his chill and laid back personality but once I found out it was because of his eye shape I was like wtf bc thats just straight being racist. Anyways I agree with you on a lot of this!

    • @tsukkishimasfreckles6712
      @tsukkishimasfreckles6712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wait??? it was because of his eye shape??? 😃😃😃

    • @ayumiii.urdarlinggg
      @ayumiii.urdarlinggg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Honestly I didnt really that headcanons about him smoking because I have a very relationship with cigarettes and I it's bad for and i feel like is provoking people to smoke in my opinion.

  • @nyxie.s
    @nyxie.s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ngl im all here for stoner suna hc but NOT because of the shape of his eyes. I genuinely thought it was based on his vibes and stuff. Aran is seriously SO underrated he deserves so much more appreciation.

    • @grumpycatz
      @grumpycatz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      wait i thought the same about stoner suna i didnt think it was because of his eyes ;-;
      lmao i love aran :D

  • @lailabase331
    @lailabase331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I agree with you completely. Also, you dropped this 👑 (you are Haikyuu royalty imo)

  • @zen-nb2fd
    @zen-nb2fd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Oh yo, when you write a whole novel in the comments section and you don't know if it even sent

    • @60311
      @60311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💀💀 it's so infuriating when that happens

  • @kaltrinakameri9532
    @kaltrinakameri9532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    or the whole atsumu thing where they call him a racial slur combined with his name or comparin to a serial killer and r@pist or calling oikawa flattykawa or any rude name like 🤨🤚🏻

  • @hatetwinks
    @hatetwinks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    3:50
    i completely agree with this. its always the bottoms that turn into girls and when the tops act like they are the same it doesnt sit right with me. im not trying to be the "only gay relationships are acceptable" person, but they fr trying to turn something gay into something straight

  • @finnmanielle9129
    @finnmanielle9129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ok i have to say something because your point 14 reminded me of it. It doesn't adress just the hq texttubers but i'm sometimes very unsure to click on a Video that goes into that angsty und depressing type direction
    Often heavy topics are being covered and while there is no problem in using them a video with speechbubbles that maybe goes 20 min is just not enough to have These themes in the Videos because they can't be completly covered and this sometimes REALLY affects the quality of the story
    And sometimes ppl toss those topics arround like they are nothing and the author often can't handle it
    I once saw a Text Video with like 10 or more triggerwarnings and it was just too much.
    Looking at it from one side it isn't really toxic but, again, it can affect the quality of the story.
    My problem comes with people not doing proper research. This ties with people doing su***de and @busiv3 parents and other types of content like this.
    But also to the whole germophobia and sakusa thing it makes me angry at this point when sakusa is portraid as only that and he is mean to everyone bc of it
    And i sometimes don't even know if this is supposed to be a joke or if people actually see it like that.

  • @crishnadianbea1697
    @crishnadianbea1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Very well said btw, we rlly needed this because HQ community is getting toxic

  • @marry_chris
    @marry_chris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this video was literally needed and no one can argue with that. these are all good points, especially about the people that keep misrepresenting communities. like if you don't know what you are making the content about pls research, admit you are wrong, and fix your mistakes. and the terrible illegal content.. i can't even finish reading or watching those, they're sickening. just age em up! and why do ppl gotta sexualize everything.. no one wants to admit it but there are things wrong with this fandom. it's not as bad as others (*cough cough* ahem bnha *cough cough*) but still.. some people are messed up :(

  • @Gladiolus08
    @Gladiolus08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    There is seriously so much wrong with the Haikyuu community 😤
    It’s so difficult to not go off in the comments 😅
    Thank you so much for doing gods work and spreading awareness. We can only hope that people who do that sort of stuff take notes from this and take a good look at themselves in the mirror.
    I agree with absolutely everything you’ve said btw, we gotchu 🛐
    And thank you for making the content the fandom needs and deserves 🧎

  • @littlefoot6
    @littlefoot6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    FINALLY someone with some common sense.... i agree with everything u said !!

  • @atsumusakusa7508
    @atsumusakusa7508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I couldn’t agree more besides the part where you hate Teru😭😭😂 I love him so much💖🥺 but yea this fandom needs to chill before it gets way out of control and causes a bad rep for Haikyuu😤😔

  • @Danielle-ej7vd
    @Danielle-ej7vd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    For the Yachi thing it’s also basically every woman character in Haikyuu, especially Michimiya Yui and Alisa Haiba. Granted I don’t know much about Alisa so I won’t say anything but Yui is such a well written character. She is shown to be caring, determined, and having great leadership skills but the fandom reduces her to being a boyfriend stealer. The DaiYui ship is cute and it makes sense so I don’t see the problem. Michimiya is honestly an amazing character and she doesn’t deserve the hate.

    • @ari._.5089
      @ari._.5089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Preach! I really like Yui and wish that she had more screen time, but I really don’t like the unnecessary hate that she gets. The toxic fans hate that she gets in the way of the DaiSuga ship and acts like she would be toxic. She’s the type that would be supportive, but cry when she’s alone so that she won’t burden anyone. I seriously don’t get some of these fans bc suga literally is supportive of yui’s crush on daichi and had even tried to help her out (daichi was just too oblivious) and they’re even canonically friends!

  • @danananu5120
    @danananu5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hold up what?- Yachi is being hated?? A "boyfriend stealer" nani?? I've never seen a video about her stealing someone and I'm glad I didn't

  • @meesta_
    @meesta_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Also please spare my little angel Yachi- wtf did she ever do to you guys 😭🤚 I see so much Yachi slander it hurts my heart- she’s one of the sweetest characters, and she’s so small and cute and like Kdjdkdjdksn why y’all- just why

  • @hallwayghost6105
    @hallwayghost6105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    YOU CAME HERE AND SPIT FACTS ONLY!!! YOU DESERVE THE THRONE 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @meowb1840
    @meowb1840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I honestly agree with everything you said. I didn't even know about the Aran thing, bc on my tiktok everyone loves him. But I don't know why ppl are being racist when all the characters in the show aren't even white themselves. And she said he looks scary, like um ok your scared of a drawing 😶. I'm like this close to making a WHOLE haikyuu text channel just to make good videos for the poor ppl who had to stop watching haikyuu text videos bc of the community. AND A FEW DAYS AGO I SAW A VIDEO WHERE SAKUSA LEFT ATSUMU IN THE RAIN BC HE WAS MAD THAT SOMEONE TOUCHED HIM. AND THEN SAKUSA LITERALLY THREW ATSUMU IN THE TUB AND PUT BLEACH ON HIM. but ofc atsumu forgave him. Like, I'm sorry but who tf in their right mind does that shit? Ppl take sakusa's phobia way to far sometimes. AND KENMA, omg I hate when ppl sexualizing him. Mostly bc I kin him, but still ppl over look his whole personality and make him a uwu baby. I like to think kenma wouldn't mind wearing a skirt, bc he would think it's just a piece of clothing, but it's like when you make being gay a personality and make him wear one all the time, and your excuse is, "its bc hes a bottom" 😀. Being a bottom is also not a personality, it's a position that ppl prefer. But yeah I just realized that I wrote all of this, sorry for the rant lol

  • @kanmiira
    @kanmiira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If i had to name anything that bothers me about the fandoms, I think it would probably be:
    1. Toxic relationships.
    - Iwaizumi doesn’t insult Oikawa every time they speak. Like, they’re best friends since forever guys, Iwa only calls him like that when it’s necessary.
    - Kenma might not talk to people a lot but that doesn’t mean he pushes everyone away and just... plays video games. Okay, he likes games, we know, but he doesn’t ignore people for that. It’s just toxic. Like, if I took Kuroken as an example, we litteraly see Kenma and Kuroo talking while Kenma is playing in the manga/anime. Besides, if Kenma hated Kuroo, he wouldn’t be his best friend since he was little, he wouldn’t even play volleyball. Still talking about Kuroken, I often see videos where Kenma is just "SHOYOOOO" and when it comes to Kuroo, he just ignores him while they are literraly dating. Just, why? Go out with Hinata if it’s to do that.
    -Sakusa has a phobia, we understand. So what? He is afraid of contact yes but, in a romantic or even a friendly relationship, you have to make an effort, that’s how it works. If it was at this point, he just wouldn’t be in a relationship. He is also a volleyball player, we can clearly see him sitting on the ground with his hands on it to train but that doesn’t mean that he has disinfected everywhere before that.
    - All sibling relationships have arguments, I hear it and I know it since I myself have a brother and a sister with whom I happen to argue but that does not mean that is all the time. We literally saw Osamu cared about Atsumu because he was hanging around on his own because of his character.
    2. The characters of the characters.
    - Yes, Sugawara and Daichi take care of the team but, they’re the last years, it's just normal. I don't mind being seen as "mum and daddy" but not to the point where Suga doesn't want Kageyama to touch "his precious and innocent" Hinata and every time the first and second years say "fuck" or whatever, yell at them.
    - Hinata is 15/16 years old. At that age we literally had sex lessons, I think he knows what the word "sex" means and what an insult. I think so, if he ever had to talk about this subject he would be embarrassed, not ignorant.
    - Okay, we've seen Kageyama drink milk a few times in the anime / manga, but that doesn't make it "his character". Like, "Don't touch my milk or you're dead."
    - Suna has small eyes but that doesn't mean he smokes. It’s just racism to think so. He was just inspired by the foxes that represent his high school, like owls with Fukurodani or cats with Nekoma.
    - Oikawa has fangirls, yes, but that doesn't make him think he's the best. He has insecurities about the way he plays, we know that is clearly stated in the manga / anime when he compares himself to Kageyama. I find him strong, independent, but everyone does it as if without Iwaizumi he was nothing. Besides, always making fun of his ass because they find it flat, I find it extremely heavy. I mean, he's not the only one so why only Oikawa?
    - Just because Tsukishima often says "Urusai Yamaguchi" doesn't mean he doesn't respect and is rude to everyone, especially people older than him. He literally helped Yamaguchi when he was being harassed as a younger boy, if he was mean he would have let it go and get over it. In the manga / anime, he is quite low-key and you can see he respects older people, especially Kuroo who taught him a lot about blocks.
    - Okay, we've seen Kyotani "angry" a few times, but that's doesn’t mean it’s his characters. He doesn’t have anger issues. Sure, he respects Iwaizumi more because he competed with him and every time Iwa won, but that doesn't mean he's violent.
    - Same with Yaku. Yes, he is nicknamed Demon-senpai by Kuroo. So what? Again, that doesn't sum up his character, he's just deep into volleyball, as Kageyama or Hinata might be. In all of the LevYaku I've seen so far, it was mostly a Yaku-based relationship who insulted Lev and he only spoke to him when Lev needed to work on his receives. Come on guys, that's not how a relationship works. Besides, he's not just kind to Kenma, as I've seen him many times, or Shibayama. It's a third year, guys.
    - Kenma is not mean, nor feminine. Okay, he has long hair, so what? Yes, he hates running and when Lev asks him to pass to him, he's not necessarily very nice, but that's doesn’t mean every time they talk to each other Kenma insults him.
    - Speaking of Lev, he has just started volleyball and Nekoma is a defense-based team, so I find it normal that they are hard with Lev on this level, not a reason to insult him as soon as a opportunity presents itself.
    - Just because Bokuto has an emo mode doesn't mean he's necessarily dumb or whatever, if he's Fukurodani's captain, he's for a reason. Akaashi is not his babysitter, far from it.
    - I found it a little funny at first that everyone sees Asahi as "Jesus" but after a while it quickly got boring and heavy. Just because he's often scared and quickly embarrassed doesn't mean he's bound to be an extremely holy person in a relationship.
    - Etc... Basicaly how they all take a trait of their character and make it their whole character.
    3. Racism in the community.
    As said in the video, Aran is just ignored as if nothing is known about him and that he is not the ace of Inarizaki, who was still an important match for Hinata, because he is black. Whereas Terushima, we have only heard about it 2 or 3 times and yet we see him often, much more than Aran. He's a character that I personally find incredible, as much as I could find Atsumu's sets or Kita's ease in staying calm during a national game unbelievable.
    I think I'll stop there because otherwise I'll never end haha 😅
    My pronouns are she/her if you want to argue :)

    • @Xiao-jm5xx
      @Xiao-jm5xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You drop that 👑
      I dont even need to argue,i agree with every single things you said.
      Thank you so much for speaking about Yaku,which is a character that almost no one talk about,and the whole Kuroken + Hinata thing.

    • @kanmiira
      @kanmiira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Xiao-jm5xx Thanks haha 😅
      I just thought it was normal to pick up on what didn’t feel right to me. I really enjoyed Yaku and thought that people direspecting who he was. Besides, the only times we see him "mean" is when Lev comments on his height. It’s just a normal reaction.. well that’s my opinion. And same with Kuroken, I absolutely adore Kenma and the ship and it’s hurt to see that people just make him always mean towards everyone expect Hinata.

    • @Error-gz3pp
      @Error-gz3pp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly, especially with point number 2 and all of its subpoints. Hinata isn’t so dumb that he doesn’t know any adult topics(and he also knows how to curse, he just seems to be uncomfortable with it). As for Sugawara, Daichi, and Kageyama, I’ve seen so many text videos where Sugawara is some form of bloodthirsty psychopath who’s way too protective of Hinata(usually accompanied by “innocent child Hinata” mentioned above). I can’t really say much about Daichi, since he’s not altered that much other than yelling at Tsukishima more often and generally being more of a father figure to the group(which... just no). But Kageyama has two major archetypes that often overlap, and involve him either being obsessed with milk, screaming “BOKE” every other text, or both. Tsukishima isn’t just rude to everyone, either. He clearly respects his upperclassmen who aren’t his definition of idiots, and as you mentioned he helped “save” Yamaguchi from those bullies at a young age. Oikawa also has two archetypes, one of which is a cocky, over-the-top, often flamboyant version of him, and the other is a codependent person who relies on Iwaizumi for everything. In the end, my issues with both archetypes(and the other characters’ portrayals) is that they’re taking a single aspect of a character and building a trope out of it.

    • @kanmiira
      @kanmiira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Error-gz3pp same, I really can’t support all of that, and how almost everyone turns the captains into morons but like, man they’re captains for a reason

  • @kicchyzaa7071
    @kicchyzaa7071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yachi is doing nothing😭why would someone hate her-- because she gets away in your ship? Like, I ship KageHina but I don't think she is a stealer-- She's a nice and shy girl--
    I also heard someone hate Alisa because of the same stupid reason😭 Alisa doesn't even do anything--Pls both of them are the nice person like everyone else🌟

    • @gh03tie30
      @gh03tie30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fr like people don’t remember that the first reason she became the teams manager was bc of kyioko( sorry I spelt her name wrong 😓) but like she isn’t a man stealer she just helped the boys practice and help hinata and kags studie 💀🤚

    • @thefrog69
      @thefrog69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At this point, Yachi and Alisa are the Uraraka and Momo of the Haikyuu fandom and I'm tired, like bone-deep weary of people making them the bad guy for just existing like what? Idgaf, what you ship if berating and hating on these two beautiful women because of a ship that mostly likely not even gonna be canon, is your way of interacting with the fandom... I think need to go outside, touch some grass and re-evaluate 'cause it's starting to look like it's not about the ship.

  • @gh03tie30
    @gh03tie30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Like I can see suna actually really likening the “e-boy” aesthetic and him actually enjoing it but no it’s bc of his eyes 🤨😐

  • @kitty_catra
    @kitty_catra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I agree with all those points, people really be doing stuff like this, which is so out of line and like fir what, for views/fame (this statement leans more towards some points than others)

  • @rat9735
    @rat9735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    For suga why did he go from mom to wine aunt like does he always have to be some "mother" figure can't he just be suga😔

  • @lxvmiia
    @lxvmiia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    *DrumRoll Please* 🥁🥁

  • @fernthe4eyes801
    @fernthe4eyes801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I honestly agree with everything you said, but one of my main reasons that I hate the fandom is bc they hate on teru so much. He was only there for 2 or 1 episodes. we all know that tanaka and noya simp for kiyo as they grow older they are more matured but the fandom makes them their personality. in some videos noya will be dating asahi but still be simping over kiyo like " kiyoko my queen♥😍💗💝✨😩❣️❣️"

  • @pewpewcheechow
    @pewpewcheechow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I thought the suna stoner headcanon bc he was kinda just chilling around and he gave that kinda vibe not for his eyes, this fandom needs help when did we get this bad???? If we keep this up we'll start to be treated like the MHA fandom. I always loved the idea of romantic and funny videos, not sexual fetishization of gay men I liked the prank videos that were like "put your arms up and see what your bf does, those were cute and made me smile but I then more people started making these depressing videos and those super fetishized ones and I didn't like it so I stopped watching youtube and watched anime after anime trying to find a new one to be my favorite but I couldn't so I gave up. I'm glad people are speaking about these now it made me uncomfortable as someone who uses he/they pronouns (sometimes she) and is attracted to men

  • @toruoikawa8347
    @toruoikawa8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I saw a tiktok video asking who's your least favorite character in Haikyuu and most of it is Yachi and Alisa because they're in the way of their ships🧍

    • @bokutoslastbraincell2454
      @bokutoslastbraincell2454  3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Fr it’s always for the dumbest reasons. I’m so tired of fujoshis 🛌

    • @sunshinepeach9718
      @sunshinepeach9718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      alisa??as lev's beautiful sister alisa?? now y'all just goin' to far she's literally the cutest

    • @toxo1408
      @toxo1408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙄 God plz. We only have a canon couple is Tanaka-Kyoko.

    • @lvely4126
      @lvely4126 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@toxo1408 Exactly, people try to force their non-canon ships onto you like they're canon when in fact, they are literally not

  • @shiloh-sherise2804
    @shiloh-sherise2804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im a new simp for aran lastly,but I haven't found ANY fan art of him to simp on yet and I-
    I'm even MORE dark than aran so its borderline offensive that y'all don't give this handsome man the recognition he needs.

  • @jiji5780
    @jiji5780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I knew that these stuff made me uncomfy but I couldn't actually put what made me feel so weird about it into words 🤷‍♀️ and then I saw this video and then I was like 😲 This THIS 😩‼️ Like I just wanna say that I completely agree 💯 (And I also really like your videos lol 😋)

  • @kitasrice7132
    @kitasrice7132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    first of all, english isn't my first language, sorry for any mistakes lol also, sorry again, I don't have really too much to say but wrote a lot💀
    Ok, so... Haikyuu is like literally my favorite anime of all times, I'm a volleyball player and when I heard of the anime during quarantine I watched it and I'm completely attached to it. I just love all the characters, I have read a lot of times the manga, rewatch the anime, read the Haikyuu-bu, official arts, etc. Even when I'm a person that never gets to have a favorite character that I would put above all others, I just watched Haikyuu, met Kita, read about him, his personality and I completely fell in love with this character
    With that said, it just pisses me off to see how people portrayed the characters. Like, hello? A lot of these videos put the "I don't see the characters like this" thing, but still, why would you have write them like that? I mean, it's ok sometimes and it can be funny aT tImEs, but some of them are just too exaggerated-
    I love genderbends, I even have a board in Pinterest with this kind of fanart, but as you said, I only like it when both of the characters are switched, I just like to imagine how some animes would have been if the genders were all opposite, but I don't get to understand the necessity of people to make gay ships into straight ones
    Furudate really make a good job putting in how *teams* works, things like caring for each other in a way it *fits with the character's personality*
    Like Iwaizumi. I have seen first and second season so many times- He is really caring about his teammates, he is Oikawa's childhood friend, I have one too, and we do hit each other but as a joke and only as a joke, we exaggarate and say it hurts when it really doesn't, people really need to stop portraying him like a person that makes fun of his boyfriend, abusive towards him but completely ignores him, like wtf
    Also, Suna
    I never like the headcannon of stoner Suna, specially when I realized it was because of his eyes- (they're so pretty omg, he looks so cute) I like the headcannon of him having an e-boy clothing style, but i really need to see him in a fanart with clothes like the ones he's seen wearing in the Haikyuu-bu, please, that'll make my day KDKSKDKSKS LIKE REALLY, he seems to be so elegant yet at the same time just so calm and sleepy, I really love him
    I don't want to mention other points because the majority just make uncomfortable, sorry for all these lmao

  • @StayFruityYall
    @StayFruityYall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's getting harder and harder to find fluff stories these days that actually make sense, and actually have a bit of character development. Personally I watch the channel 'bubble paint' because the stories are actually quite cute and well-written. This channel is pretty awesome too💕💕

  • @thefrog69
    @thefrog69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Trigger Warning for talk of more sensitive topics near the end
    Oh my fucking goodness, I so happy about this especially that Aran part like when I first saw him I was so glad there was another POC in the show on that people could pass off as "just a bit tanned" and then I go to find stuff about him and they only every mention him in specifically KitaAran vids (which there aren't much of anyways) like, sir excuse me, mans is both beautiful and incredibly talented... where tf is he?? Another thing that really pisses me off about the community is that Atsumu = Sangwoo shit🙂, I don't think they understand how insulting and disturbing it is to tell someone, "Hey, you look like a rapist, serial killer, I'mma call you that from now on, plus I'm still insanely attracted to you😘✨", also he's a fucking minor y'all are givin' off really sketch vibes, might wanna get that checked out. This one's really important to me because I've been victim to it but the body shaming in this community to the point where we barely hide it anymore calling people names and making fun of people because of the size of one of their physical features is not okay, it's bullying and sometimes the reason why people develop //TW// eating disorders/eating disorder like tendencies and/or commit deletion. It's an actual issue and playing it off as a joke isn't helping anybody. Lastly, I do believe that awareness for //TW// suicide, depression, anxeity, eating disorders, and other mental health issues, is important especially in a community filled with younger people but if done incorrectly can do more harm than good so video like these aren't exactly "bad" per say(lord knows they're the only things keeping me from derailing) but I feel like if you haven't done any research on how to help these people or the issues themselves then you really shouldn't be part of the conversation and if you're one of those people who just do it 'cause you can... shut up. Stop talking. No❤️. But other than that I completely agree with everything you've said.
    Tl;dr- I agree with everything that's been said and just wanted to add some things, 1) The ignorance of some people in the community for mental health issues of any kind is astounding and potentially damaging to people. 2) We really should stop comparing Atsumu to sangwoo, 'cause it's not cool, plus it's just SO weird 3) Stop body shaming and sexualizing characters please! 4) Give Aran more love

    • @thefrog69
      @thefrog69 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just re-read this and I think I had a stroke like wtf. Spelling? Who tf is she? Grammar? I hardly know her. I apologize to anyone who tried to understand this

  • @kogaswoman1045
    @kogaswoman1045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I don't write these videos but I write quite alot of fanficitons of haikyuu, I feel like its the exact same in fanfictions and these texting story thingies. an example is Fanon and cannon Sakusa, I was reading a sakuatsu on wattpad and then it said, and I quote 'He sprayed atsumu with disinfectant spray.' Yes we know how he's a bit of a germaphobe and he isn't that nice but you have to be honest here, You wouldn't spray someone with chemicals. I also hate it when they make Atsumu take alot of showers and wash his hands. Realistically it would be better if you notched it down to one shower because most people only take one shower a week/few days/day. Sakusa's personality doesn't revolve around him being a germaphobe.
    I hate fanon Iwaoi, Iwaizumi's character is over exagerated, making him the bad guy but if you haven't watched haikyuu, you would know that he cares for Oikawa in the most subtle ways, making sure oikawa wasn't too distracted by his fan girls, and making sure he wouldn't stay up too late because Iwaizumi saw the cd of the match, assuming he was going to stay up late to watch it.
    I also really hate how the fandom make Ushiwaka seem like some sort of rock. We all know that he's just serious and he isn't too energetic like others. the fandom makes him look like my grandfather on facebook.
    When I write fanfictions, I usually do alot of research, I double check scenes of the characters involved and I also look at the haikyuu wiki to analyze the character. I think it's important to get the personality right or else it doesn't work.

    • @cissyintros4594
      @cissyintros4594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you especially about the Ushiwaka part some people make him seen like he doesn't understand basic things like "Pranks" he's not dumb he is probably on of the smartest characters.

    • @toxo1408
      @toxo1408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well they make Atsumu like an idiot always smiling even ppl treat him bad. Ppl can tease him a bit but I bet you don't wanna messing around with him when he's not in the mood. Example: 2 girls who interrupted his serves

  • @meesta_
    @meesta_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jfjsjdja one thing that really made me almost give up on this fandom was Suga, for sure. Like I saw so many videos with him being SO FEMINIZED like bro with the “overprotective mom” or, as mentioned “crazy wine aunt” like that shit was just too much- there are very few text tubers who actually get the personalities and traits of the characters correct...what really pisses me off is that TO THIS DAY, whenever I see a Haikyuu text video with Suga in it, since he is a male, they obviously use the pronouns he/him. So whenever they use those pronouns, just for a split second, my brain gets totally confused as to why they’re using “he/him” since he’s so feminized as female characters, such as, again, mom and wine aunt. I also realize that it’s also partially my fault as well for watching so many of those videos that my brain has switched to automatically processing Suga as a feminine character. It really annoys me and I’m so glad I finally got to rant here ab just one of the hundred things that really fkn piss me off ab this community

    • @pancakewithz
      @pancakewithz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can i get a TH-camr that gets their personalities right

  • @MIRRR-r9k
    @MIRRR-r9k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I agree with everything

  • @zoeythedoubletrouble-4254
    @zoeythedoubletrouble-4254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really agree with 9 as African American myself I was so hyped to see Aran and how much of a power house he is and there being a black character, he became one of my favorites so fast I love his interactions with his team and the Miya twins since I’m a twin my self I just thought they did him good. But the fandom really gave no shit and would pass along to be basically a “forgotten” like wtf even is a “forgotten” Aran should be placed in that role along with many other characters! just because toxic side of the fandom ignores him! It pisses me off when I talk about him or my twin, or my friends, and when we bring him up everyone seems like they forgot him and just push him into “oh, he must be stereotypical black person” like the fuck-I can’t tell you how many times I have heard racism thrown to him. And I am tired of it.

  • @slowheaart
    @slowheaart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    absolutely agree, i especially agree with the fact that it’s always the shorter version or slender one always being feminized, it’s annoying.

  • @kagsluvsmalk6287
    @kagsluvsmalk6287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    (Get ready cause this is long and I have LOTS to say) First, I 100% agree with you. What some people in this community do (like with the racism and obvious fetishization of gay men) is absolutely disgusting and makes me so uncomfortable. And it honestly feels like it’s just normalized and that’s not okay. And to add onto that, making Yachi and Kiyoko obsessed with “their ships” strips away from the strong characters they actually are. And to just make them like that seems completely invalidating. And, to me at least, it seems that some textubers use them as self inserts almost. Nothing wrong with projecting yourself onto a character, I do that. But to only use them to “expose” or obsess over ships is so toxic. And like you brought up with racism, you are 100% correct. Like with your example with Terushima and Aran, we know barely anything Terushima outside of general personality (this includes with the time skip) however with Aran we know so much and he’s such a vital part to the story. This includes with the time skip. And to see people disregard him and instead put a character with like, three minutes of screen time, when you have a fully fleshed out character to use seems invalidating. Like, I guess I could excuse it if the creator hasn’t seen that anime or read the manga up to that point. Or if their storyline doesn’t have Inarizaki as a center. Those I can see. But if you are including all the teams, use Aran. He is such a good character and person honestly and to se people throw him off to the side is really harmful. And like you said with Suna. When I learned that people only thought of Suna as a stoner and an e-boy because of his eyes, I personally felt invalidated. Like, as an Asian person, giving a character an entire personality because of their eyes is so toxic and invalidating I just hate it. And outside of that. Calling the characters rats, even if you know how that term is harmful, is just not okay. If you are not Asian, that is not your term to use. And like you said with the trans and gender bend stories, you are so right. To make only one of the characters a girl (and as you said the one who is usually seen as a “bottom”) is so invalidating and it pushes the heteronormative ideology and honestly seems a bit homophobic. And while their are good trans stories out there, some of what I have seen just seems like it was written by a cis person. As a trans person myself, to see characters not really being given what they deserve for lack of better terms just makes me feel wrong. Like if you want to write a trans character, use correct pronouns for them all throughout the story line, even before they might discover their identity. Like this mainly applies to the narrator. And if you are writing a trans character, it might be good to give them dysphoria. This can be body or perceived dysphoria. (If you don’t know, perceived dysphoria or whatever the term is is when you want to be perceived as your gender rather than your sex. If that makes sense. I personally struggle with perceived dysphoria more than I do body, but that doesn’t make my gender or experience any less valid). And to get rid of that seems to get rid of one of the many struggles that many trans people actually face. One person brought up that they found out they were trans through gender euphoria instead of dysphoria and that totally makes sense to me. So instead of needing dysphoria, you should instead try to have that realization for the character no matter what that may be. That isn’t a must, but it might help push the narrative if you are centering your story around discovering if that makes sense. Thank you Lysander for bringing this to my attention. It was very helpful. Another point like what you said with Natsu is so disgusting. She’s a child and when people do that, it just seems like their fetishizing minors and/or their loss on “innocence”. And with the whole parent thing. I’m going to be talking about actually parenting like in those AUs. More off than not, in the AUs where a couple has a child, one of the partners is seen as a dad and the other is seen as a mom. Like, the kids call them mom and dad. And to do that not only reenforces the idea that their needs to be one man and one woman in a relationship or that a child needs a mom to be properly raised but it also invalidates actual real gay couples with actual real children. I have no problem with making Suga the mom friend of the group (I honestly feel like every friend group has a mom friend in some way shape or form) but to only make him that completely strips away his actual character and his importance to the series. And just in general, people base characters off one single trait. Like they take one part of their personality and make that it. These characters are not one-sided and Furudate does a great job of making every character different and unique and just overall does a great job with fleshing out characters. So to make them only one thing is just invalidating. Most every single character is more than what they present at face value. Now the whole $uicide thing. Like, I have no issues with making a character depressed because mental health is a very important matter. But the way that some people carry it out is just not okay. If you want to write a depressed character go ahead. But that shouldn’t be their only personality trait and it should be done in a respectful way. I wouldn’t go as far to do $uicide because of how sensitive that topic really is. Like, if you want to make a character depressed for a story, do your research and put hotline numbers and other mental health resources in the description. Because that is something people struggle with and something I struggle with to to paint it in such a light is, yet again, invalidating. If you want to make one of those stories to project and cope, go right on ahead, but maybe put a warning saying it’s off your own experience and put those mental health resources in the description. I don’t care how irrelevant that seems, but those resources can quite literally save a persons’ life. I have so much more to say, but if I put it all in this, we’ll be here all day. But if you wanna hear me ramble more, I will gladly do so. TLDR: The Haikyuu textube community is really not the best and Furudate would honestly be disappointed.

    • @lysander6174
      @lysander6174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I totally agree with what you're saying about the fandom, but personally, I don't think dysphoria is a necessary part of being trans. I am trans myself, and I'm not invalidating your experiences. It's just there are also trans people without dysphoria too, I realized I was trans through gender euphoria mostly, so I don't think it's fair to say trans characters "need" dysphoria. It's fine if the creator includes dysphoria to bring up trans people's struggles, but it's also fine if they don't. It all depends on how they approach the topic and whether they're being respectful.

    • @kagsluvsmalk6287
      @kagsluvsmalk6287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lysander6174 You make an excellent point. I never really thought about finding yourself as trans with gender euphoria but that does make a lot of sense. And it’s totally valid. I’ll adjust my comment. I hope I didn’t offend you that wasn’t my intention. Thank you for putting this into perspective for me.

    • @lysander6174
      @lysander6174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kagsluvsmalk6287 np! Glad that helped!

  • @bellapompom
    @bellapompom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i just wanna hug and praise everyone adding their two cents of their opinion on how terrible the toxicity in the fandom is, say it louder for the people in the back😩

  • @atsushinakajima661
    @atsushinakajima661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ima just say this but I hate Flattykawa jokes It’s not really funny to joke about peoples insecurities even a real person experience this. I think I’m going to get canceled now.

  • @bakibakiniore2492
    @bakibakiniore2492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Came for the entire fandom. But like I agree with everything. I used to not use the timeskips, but then I started doing it because I realized they are minors, so everytime I do a fanfic or smth, I say “They are over 20 years old“ or smth. And finally someone talked about Aran! I was so excited when Aran was introduced because he was our first dark skinned character (minus the 2 others) and people completely skipped him over. Like wtf? | (• ◡•)| He’s literally the Ace. And also Yachi. Wtf? What’s wrong with Yachi? She’s literally scared of people taller than her (mainly guys) and she needed to build up confidence to talk to some of them. Last one. The angst. I get it, the angst is something everyone can do and some people do enjoy watching it, but when it comes to suicide or self-harming or just something terrible, that’s a no-no. People can be traumatized or have PTSD and that’s even more terrible when it revolves around their favorite anime/comfort character

  • @bubbleguppy6892
    @bubbleguppy6892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Someone finally said something about the stereotyping. I really hate the stereotypes. Not every top is mysterious or muscular. Some tops are feminine or on the smaller side and will still dominant better than stereotypical top. The stereotypes comes from hetero-normalcy. Where men have to be masculine go getters and women are dumb and pretty.
    If people are only writing stories with the intent to stereotype characters (in general) then they shouldn’t be writing at all. You’re definitely right that not everything needs to be sexual or sexualized.

  • @johzenjis_1321
    @johzenjis_1321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree with absolutely everything you say. But the last one I have a different opinion on :D I don’t support ANYONE making fun of mental illnesses and making every character depressed bc it’s “sad” or “edgy” BUT I do feel like it would be a good plot if the character died logically in a fan fiction.
    Example:
    An accident (car crash, plane crash, tripping and hitting your head etc)
    Natural causes
    Murder
    And so on.

    • @bokutoslastbraincell2454
      @bokutoslastbraincell2454  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I get that. Like I have a few videos with character d3aths but car accident bc Idk what else to use 🏃 but the character d3aths mentioned in my videos were about su!c!de and they never censor the word and use that word as click bait.

    • @johzenjis_1321
      @johzenjis_1321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bokutoslastbraincell2454 oh sorry I thought you just meant character deaths in general ❤️

  • @kenmakozume6171
    @kenmakozume6171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bro what? I like angst but writing stories about people committing is plain disrespectful like what? 👀

  • @ning-cz9hi
    @ning-cz9hi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I actually agree with all of this, especially to the 'Innocent Hinata' I mean- there's nothing wrong with that but it weirds me out because sometimes they make it seem like hinata is stupid or sm😩

  • @zen-nb2fd
    @zen-nb2fd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Had to drive home so imma watch this, let's see how you pass my personal vibe check /j

  • @jude6422
    @jude6422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I DON’T THINK I HAVE EVER COMPLETELY AGREED WITH EVERY SINGLE THING IN ONE OF THESE VIDEOS BEFORE, BUT YOU’VE DONE IT.
    I love that you didn’t completely bash people who like to see Suga as a parent, but you still made your point clear and the fact you mentioned people making him chaotic or him inserting himself in Hinata’s relationships. Like nah he is a respectful and responsible person and is honestly just trying to chill and live life.
    When people don’t age them up (for more mature videos) it confuses me too. Like I do understand that some people like the school narrative (which is a reason I think people don’t age them up), but you don’t have to make it 20 years in the future. Like college exists, you can make them fully consenting adults and have them be in college if you need that school narrative so badly.
    I’M SO GLAD you touched on genderbending videos (where one is gender bent), cause I always get so sad seeing them. I never watch them, but I KNOW there is always gonna be some type of “I don’t really like you as a man, but your pretty hot as a girl” crap and it makes me cringe thinking about it. So thank you for mentioning it.
    Ugh you are so respectful too??? Like you aren’t alienating people and you’re not just calling everyone toxic, but your being firm in your statements and I’m living for it!

  • @makayla4975
    @makayla4975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They way before watching this video i never thought about most topics in this video. Looking back on some thing i completely agree with this and u have opened my eyes to the things i didn’t see before in the HQ community.

  • @blinkracha
    @blinkracha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    YES TELL THEM PERSON 👏👏👏

  • @tpoweredsi00
    @tpoweredsi00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree. I've been in the haikyuu texts community since the beginning. Some, SOME people make this content, and of course i find it odd. Like i understand if you want to have a ship in a video and have it like not in ALL canon. Like lets say you just change or add a small character trait to a character you may think of as plain without this small trait. Like how about we have

    • @tpoweredsi00
      @tpoweredsi00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      (Adding to the comment since i can't edit it) Yachi being some more confident in herself. Its a small change honestly if you think about it, like instead of her just backing out on convos, she supports and talks more on the topic. And also on Yachi, she's a kind and nice character! I don't understand why some people only see her as "another girl who would steal boyfriends" for the sake of the plot, so a ship's relationship will be better. Like uhhh what?? Tops & bottoms. Ok? I know what these mean, but if someone's gonna label a character "top" or "bottom" for one of the smallest reasons, like please stop. On Natsu, a child, a damn child, "exposing" her older brother with pictures. whAt ThE fU- Why would she do it anyways? Its not weird for a 9 year old to take their sibling's or parent's phone, i've done it, but a 9 year old won't just scroll through their photos and send them to gc, "exposing" the phone's owner. Like she would just watch like an episode of a kids show on the phone, be honest, we know she would most likely. Also for some "[Insert A Character] Exposing TikToks" videos, sort of the same thing, but the very popular or fan-favorite characters. It gets sometimes s3xu@l and why i don't watch them. For 14, i must agree was f*cking hard as i can. Don't get me wrong, i like angst sometimes, but not to the point a character k!lls themself. Its a fragile topic for so, so many people in any actually community.
      Also, i must add to the list, headcanons. I love making headcanons, and seeing other people's headcanons too. But i'll (probably) just hate you for a headcanon that is s3xu@l or just plain out illegal. Some people's headcanons can just not make sense, at all. Like randomly having a character be something that is TOTALLY NOT THEM AT ALL. It's honestly triggering (not in the way of someone having a p@n!c @tt@ck). Thats really all from me.

    • @tpoweredsi00
      @tpoweredsi00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Adding more because it just came into my head to say this: IT'S FINE TO SHIP A RARE SHIP/PAIR, ITS FINEEE- YOU'RE NOT GONNA GET ATTACKED NOR GONNA BE CURSED BY SOME DEMON I SWEAR-

  • @jezyirsmith4591
    @jezyirsmith4591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    And with Kenma, they make him some bipolar bitch to Kuroo, and when it comes to shoyo he’s a whole different person.. Like what? Kenma isn’t even bipolar and Kuro and Kenma have been friends since they were little🤦🏽‍♀️😒