It’s crazy how you become a new personality when your stomach changes. It was then when I realized that my gut had been renewed and completely cleaned after surgery and everything has changed physically and mentally for the better. 3 months out, 80lbs down. 🙌🏼
I am just stumbling across this video two years after you made it and I must say I was very touched by your testimony. I am curious to know how you are doing today: are you maintaining your weight loss, has it been steady I mean. How are you feeling overall? I am considering the surgery and I'm doing research. Would love your feedback.
@Shaden Airoid Greene, I'm just seeing your comments from 2 years ago. I'm curious to know how you're doing now. I'm 3 months post surgery. I had the revision done. I was down 10 lbs before surgery and down 8 lbs after surgery. I've had some problems with my left hip which makes walking and exercise difficult but I'm not giving up. As my hip gets better, the more I'm able to do.
I am two weeks post RnY and I miss binge eating so much. I never realized how much of a comfort it was for me. Hopefully as my stamina gets back to normal I will find other activities to bring me joy because food was the only thing that made me happy. Thank you for sharing your story.
You’re so pure and honest I’m currently feeling these types of feeling rn I just had my bypass done on 10/27/22 and I can already feel myself becoming different. Positively love and worthy!
Omg you are such a inspiration to me. I'm 3weeks out and I have lost about 26lbs and I must say I feel amazing! I don't mind looking at myself in the mirror, I park further away when I'm going to stores so that I can walk, I don't try to find a riding cart I push my cart and walk I'm starting to like myself again. Everything you said I can relate to. Thank you for sharing ❣️
I'm heavily considering this surgery, and this makes me feel better about it. I am so terrified of getting any type of surgery, mostly because I'm terrified of dying during surgery. Which is insane, because the side effects my morbid obesity are far more likely to kill me than this surgery is, but the feeling of not being in control is a big part of it I think. Anyway, thank you for sharing your experience. It is so helpful to a ton of people.
I was the same way before my surgery, which I had done this past Tuesday 12/06. Once I spoke with the surgeon and the anesthesiologist, who both told me I’d have more of a chance of dying in a car wreck than during general anesthesia, I felt better. Go for it!❤
Same! I finally decided to go for WLS because at the end of the day, I'm killing myself with my weight. I've heard more success stories that negative things.
I’ve never heard someone so perfectly articulate the thoughts snd feelings I have about how it feels to live life as a fat person. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable - you’re clearly helping a lot of people by sharing your story and you’ve definitely helped me. I’ve been overweight for 24 of my 45 years and I’m over it. My quality of life has been absolute shit for years and that “voice” does nothing but yap in my head 24 hours a day. Hearing that, for you, that voice has shut the hell up and that it’s a possibility for me, too, is the deciding factor for me. I’ve been on the fence for a long time about getting surgery, but your video has been the tipping point - I’m going to do it. A million thanks and all of the best wishes in the world!
The weight that we put on our soul, beating ourselves up, is as damaging, as any additional body weight, we carry around. Its wonderful that you are learning how that negativity is damaging 💜.
I am just finding this post and the timing is incredible I'm balling my eyes out. I have just gotten my surgery date - September 15th. I am so looking forward to the freedoms. My head and heart have aspirations that my current body just can't handle. Thank you for sharing your story! WHAT?! And I'm in Kingston Ontario! That's incredible!
Can I ask where you went for your surgery. I’m in ontario also. I’m going to Humber river. But it’s so up and down with the Covid thing. Wondering how you did and how your experience has been. If you don’t mind. Ty.
Girl, thank you for your vulnerability in this video. I truly feel like I got to sit down with a best girl friend and have a heart to heart about this new journey. Thank you
This makes me more excited about getting my sleeve, I just want to have energy, no pain and no negative thoughts or body paranoia. Thanks for being open and honest. The vulnerability really helps cause it’s clear it’s not a sales pitch, it’s real life. ✌🏾+ 💜
Well Kara, You didn’t cry but I did. I love that you are sharing your story with us. I’m all getting ready to have surgery and I’m at the worry stage. I too gained a significant amount of weight starting about 12 years ago and all I want more than anything is to live again. So thank you for letting me view what I might feel in just a few months💕
Living again is the perfect way of looking at it! Of course I'm excited to buy smaller clothes and see a physical improvement but it's the energy that I now have and the excitement over feeling better that I'm loving the most. I feel like I've been given a second chance. I wish you nothing but the best as you go along your own journey. It's hard but it's so worth it.
Thank you so much for your honesty. I have not had surgery yet but I have been following different platforms to get myself ready. You have made me feel so much better in making the decision I have made. By the way I am 66 years old. I hope I can do this as well as you have . Thank you
I've very recently decided that this surgery is about the only option I have, after my doctor pressing me to consider it for quite a while. My quality of life is virtually 0 and like you, just moving and doing activities is too much to consider and I avoid most social activities purely because I know I physically will struggle and be in pain. I have a lot of years of life left - I don't want to spend them locked at home feeling exhausted and depressed. Thankyou for making this video - stories like yours are so valuable to people like me.
Me too. I have hypothyroidism and it's crazy how I feel with my weight. I can't anymore, and exercises don't help when I have injured lower back and groin and hip caused by car accident. My life is not the way it should be. My kids deserve better life.
There aren't many ppl on here who have had bypass. Unless i am not looking hard enough. Just had my surgery March 4 2021, grateful to hear your experience.
I’m 34 with no kids and 235lbs, 5’8. I need to get down to 150lbs. I’ve been walking but eat out and continue to gain weight! Strongly considering the gastric bypass for this July but nervous about pregnancy around age 37 and after surgery. I don’t want many kids btw..maybe one or two. How are your post op results????
@@dinajones2761 Well my wife was enrolled in this class for Kaiser with her sister a few years ago, they're both about your height, we both have kids individually from previous marriages, so we didn't have any kids of our own. But her sister, about two years after the surgery gave birth to our Nephew. Little to no complications that I'm aware of. I sat in on some of the classes, and from what I understand, they don't recomend getting pregnant for at least a few years but it is certainly possible to have children after the procedure. But please consult your doctor. My sister in law did experience some hair thinning, and my wife did have a little probelm with acid reflux.
@@juliancain3872 How old was your sister in law when she had a baby? They recommend 12-18 months to wait for kids which I understand. How have they adjusted to post op life as far as eating?
Goodness girl! You nailed it!!! I KNOW that voice too! THAT dialogue that runs constantly in the background. I'm 55, so I've lived with that voice for many MANY years. I am so grateful you brought this up! I was on the brink of cancelling my surgery (July 14th) because I'm getting so nervous. You are a godsend!!!
So inspiring… I’ve been back and forth with if I should go through with this surgery now that I’ve completed all my pre-op task. Makes me feel better knowing that I can possibly become stronger mentally and genuinely feel happy again
@@KaraChapman I don't think you realize it until it's not there. That's how it was for me. I really didn't realize the mental exhaustion until I noticed the quiet.
8 days post op and I so needed this video. Doing great with my protein and vitamins but struggling to get enough water in. I start puree at the end of next week and I am so looking forward to it. I cannot wait to be one month out. I've found myself extremely emotional post op just from getting off my meds and having a regular blood pressure daily. Ugh and now I'm ranting about my personal life in a comment section! Well I needed to here all of this. Girl you just got a new sub!
Kara, I have just found your channel and I’m binge watching all of your videos as you traveled through this journey. My bypass is in 7 days, and I’m so scared. I hate being nauseas. I worry about something going wrong, as I’m a single mother to a beautiful boy. I’m worried I’ll backslide in the future. But I feel I need to just take this leap of faith and give myself a chance at a real life. I’m 380, so have a long ways to go, but you’ve really inspired me so far and I feel it’s very possible. Thank you for sharing all your feelings, for being vulnerable, and for your incredible insight. All the best to you as you continue your journey.
I completely understand all of your fears; I had them too. I'm still worried about going backwards bit i just keep refocusing on today and not tomorrow. I wish you all the best with your surgery. Your life will change as a result. It's a process, for sure, but it's so worth it. xo
Kara C thank you for responding! Wow, I’m so impressed! And thank you for your reassurance! I love makeup too...so I’m loving watching your other videos too! Have a wonderful day!
I am about to have this surgery early December here in Australia. I have binged watching your TH-cam channel and on the other social media platforms and just wanted to say Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us X bless your heart 💖 I am so happy for you. I'm scared as heck and don't really have close family to help support but I know your vids are there and will definitely be re watching them as I go through this process. Keep on shining xo 👑✨🙋🏻♀️🇦🇺
For you to literally describe the voice & statements that go on within my mind really caught me off guard I can’t wait to complete this process & silence that inner critic that NEVER seems to give me a break
watching this video was like talking to my mirror. you worded everything perfectly, i can relate to your emotions, the freight, pride, worry.. all of it. i’m so proud of you for being this open on social media when it’s so hard these days. thank you so much for sharing this.
Beauty is more then what we put on our faces, its also how we perceive ourselves and your new positive outlook has been a joy to watch! I am so happy for you and can't wait to hear what happens next!
Please keep updating us on your journey, a lot of us that fear the same thing about missing food or are stuck in the same self loathing cycle but doing minimal effort because were always tired, need to hear what you are saying. I was recently told I’m pre diabetic by my doctor and my brain still didn’t want to believe, and was in denial. Now I’m spoken to my doctor about weight loss surgery and I’ve changed my diet to carb and sugar free to loss some weight before the procedure and I have a sleep study coming up soon because I too wake myself up from snoring and my partner prefers to sleep alone because of it. I’ve been watching people like you and I can relate and you’re so honest about your experience that it inspires me knowing I’m making the right choice to take my life back. Thank you
I wish you nothing but the best as you move forward on your journey. My diagnosis of severe sleep apnea was my rock bottom. Having to strap myself to a machine was humiliating for me and it pushed me through the pre-surgery liquid diet phase. Making changes in your diet now will definitely help make the transition easier. I'm basically Keto by default now. I don't have to count carbs, but because I have to focus on protein first, I rarely have room for carbs after I eat my protein. The food cravings are very infrequent now and nowhere near as intense as they used to be. I was terrified that I'd be desperate "for a fix" but that hasn't been my experience at all.
Here I am in 2022, watching a video you made 3 years ago. I'm excited and scared that I will be having my surgery soon and this video has boosted an inspiration in me that I didn't know I had. Thank you.
congrats on your weight loss :) I too had gastric bypass about 15months ago. I was 105kg (i went into surgery at 95kg after the 2week liquid diet)now I'm sitting on 71kg. I find that burping is a lil problematic after a feed, makes me feel uncomfortable. My sweet tooth has not gone away. i have adopted a vegan lifestyle. good luck on your journey...
Thank you Kara for making this video. Currently 2 weeks out and it’s been rough but I know I’ll come out of it like you did. I wish they told people how much of a mental thing this is. You’re such an inspiration, please continue to make these types of videos! ❤
Just starting my journey and your videos are a godsend. I have a zillion questions and even more fears. Hearing you be so honest helps so much! Dr answers the clinical stuff but you are answering the realistic human stuff, like a best friends advice. Thank you.
I feel like you were reading exactly what is in my head and heart. Thank you for sharing! I have a couple more classes before I'm ready for a surgery date. I'm so ready to be healthy again
This is my fav eye look of yours to date! You look happier. Be proud of yourself and keep going. I’m still considering the surgery for the beginning of January.
Thank you! I used the Flair palette from Ace Beaute. Good luck with making your decision. It's a big one. I'm happy to answer any questions about my experience, or just chat, any time. DMs on Instagram are always open and my email is kara_c@outlook.com
I"m a week and a half post-op. I happened upon your videos and I am so incredibly grateful I did. this video is beautiful, thank you so much for sharing and being so open and sharing. This brings such warmth to my heart.
Thank you Olivia. I can't believe it's only been a month. My life will now forever be divided into "before surgery" and "after surgery" and I think the after is going to be pretty awesome.
Hi, I'm going to be scheduling my gastric bypass procedure soon and found your video! I totally totally understand what you were saying about talking down to yourself despite not feeling that way about other people who are overweight. I'm always feeling large and ugly and disgusting, even though I would never feel that way about people who are big like me! It's really, really great to see you speaking so positively just a month after your surgery, and I can't wait to be in the same place :)
Good luck with your surgery!! I'm now 11 months out and still feel just as positive. I have self-confidence now and it's taken some time to get used to that feeling. I'm excited for you to get relief from the negative self-talk as well!
Sending so much love to you ♡♡ i understand exactly what you mean, i would never think like that about other big people but i have so many negative thoughts about myself and i feel so disgusting...hopefully u are doing better now 🥰
Thank you, I think I needed this 🥺 It’s been about 2 weeks since the surgery. I feel like I’ve made the wrong decision because I’m just struggling with food atm, but just to see what other people went through makes me happy and pushes me to get through it. I can’t wait to get to solid food because I am so done with liquid and soft food. Although I never get tired of water… it’s just hard to drink the amount of water I want to drink. Thank you so much 💖
Ugh, the water struggle was such a pain in the butt. I think it was harder for me to figure out how to drink again than it was how to eat. It's almost 2 years for me now and I still can't chug water.
There’s SO much I want to say and I can’t gather all the words right this second. I watched your recent video where you’ve lost nearly 120 lbs! Girl!!!!!!! You only lost 40 here and you were so happy and grateful. That says a lot. I thought I was listening to me but I was watching you. I cried throughout the whole thing. Some people may call those feelings cheesy but it’s simply freedom and peace I’m sure to feel that way. I’m praying one day I can think that way. Right now I’m like you but worse. There’s not a day that goes by where I’m not telling myself negative things and depriving myself from living. I can’t enjoy time out with my husband for all the wrong reasons. Thank you so much for sharing your journey. You are amazing and I will be watching all of your videos ❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕
Hi Mariah. Thank you for sharing that with me. Not a day goes by that I'm not grateful for the renewed lease on life I've been given. Negative thoughts still try to creep in but it's SO MUCH more manageable now and far less frequent than it was. I finally feel like I'm living instead of just existing now.
This is the best uplifting video I have ever had the pleasure to watch. Thank you for sharing your life changing journey with us. You have an amazing spirit.
@Kara C, I just heard you say "I did it" with a very pleasant sound of PRIDE that you accomplished something that you weren't able to do before. Congratulations!!! I had the gastric bypass 30 years ago. I wish in my situation, that I would have joined a gym or done more physical exercise to keep what I lost off. I got down to 145 from 350. Over the past 30 years I've regained to the point of needing a revision procedure done. My ultimate goal is to get back down to the 150-145 area again. After my first surgery 30 years ago, there was no support groups to help me, no one to help me be accountable for my food addictions (cinnamon rolls & pies). This time around, there will be the support groups, post op groups, & physical activity groups to help. I see a great process in my future. All the best of luck in your process.
@@gbrieannful I had the revision done. I'm three months out post surgery with a loss of eight pounds. I lost 10 pounds before surgery. At the current time I'm pleased with my loss. I've had some difficulty with my left hip making walking and exercise difficult, so not able to exercise the way I'd like to.
@@roberthayes6708 to get the revision done do you have to go through the whole 6 month process again like jump through a whole bunch of hoops to get the revision done?
Just stumbled across your video because I’m hopefully getting the surgery this year and I’ve been so damn scared but you just took all of that away! Thank you so much for posting this, you had me crying my eyes out!! Proud of you, keep pushing beautiful ❤️
Thank you for letting me know! I was really scared before I had the surgery too. I was worried that I'd have nothing but regret. I'm now six months post-op and still have no regrets. I wish you nothing but the best in your journey!
Thank you for sharing this.. This Tue is my 4 wk mark. It sounds like a long time to others, but 4 wks is just a tip of this journey.. I feel awful right now, but I think I'm very dehydrated and a lil depressed.. Watching your videos has really helped me to refocus. I haven't lost many pounds but the inches are insane how much I have lost! Not sure how that works, but I will press on and try to enjoy this ride. ❤️
First of all I’m happy I’ve found you.. here I am making up my mind if I should do it or not (cause it scares me to death) but watching your videos, I’m starting to fill up with courage and positive thoughts. Thank you!!
My bypass surgery is scheduled for 06/21/2021 and I can honestly say that I’m so scared.. so anxious, so nervous. I know why I decided to start with the procedure but as someone who has been on multiple diets my whole life.. I’m just tired of failing.. I’m ready to change and be better.. be healthy. Your video is giving me courage and made me feel a bit better.. I hope in a few months I can just come back I say how happy I feel about it. Thank you so much for sharing your experience.
I can't wait to hear your update in a few months time. I had the same fears as you. I thought I'd fail at this. Heads up: you will stall around week 3 or 4 (when you start reintroducing solid food). You will freak out. It's totally normal and it will pass. No one warns you about it but we pretty much all experience it.
I just had my surgery on August 12th, I’m starting to discover that I would cope with eating food. The first two weeks are strictly liquids and I’m trying to find the positivity and not be down on myself.
Thank you for sharing what you are going thru. I’m rooting for you and have been since you started the fasting part. You are so strong! And you are doing so well. Can’t wait to hear more exciting news in the weeks/months to come.
I used to work at a gym years ago and EVERYBODY is worried that everybody else is looking at them and judging them. But trust me, everybody has the same paranoia about that. But people are totally focused on themselves and their own fitness. That comes out in their counseling sessions.
I just stumbled on to your TH-cam video, and since you didn't cry, I did. I'm scheduled for the same surgery as you next Monday. My doctor only requires a one day liquid diet but I have decided to do 7, can't hurt! I understand how you judge yourself, think everyone is judging you and that you are the only fat person on the planet. This surgery decision was a no brainer for me, I have wanted to do it for years but making an appointment and walking through their door was so hard because then it was a realization that I truly was an overweight person needing help. I am fixin to be 61 and to spend this much money on myself was extremely difficult, as most of us have to pay our out of pocket deductible and all the tests that go along with this, I was dipping into our retirement. I finally said fuck it, it's about me for a change and thankfully my husband was on board. Thank you for the video, you have made me see the light at the end of the tunnel will be a beautiful color, and I'm looking forward to going on this journey.
Hi! I’m thinking about getting the gastric bypass surgery. How was your experience? Pain level after surgery? I work a desk job. In your experience and opinion, how long do you think it would take after surgery for me to get back to work? Glad you are doing well and are happy!
You are hands down the best person I have listened to about this subject. You touch on everything that I was worried about. My last visit with my dr is Monday and I will be scheduled.
I’m really happy I came across this video. I’m hoping to have a surgery date soon. Hoping for the end of this month and you’ve made me feel good about having this surgery. Thank you.
Omg I'm so glad I found u its been 24 days post bypass surgery for me. Your story is God sent I am still on pureed foods started to worry but listening to u has helped me. Thank you for sharing 💗💚
Over the years I’ve lost weight , trying hard, low carb, fasting, cancer, and lately Covid,. Now that I feel better, I get to shop for new clothes. That’s more fun than eating. 👍😊😘
You are an inspiration for me and so many others. I'm heading into the gastro bypass, Sleeve next month. You have hit on so many of my own issues. Thank you... Just thank you!
It’s crazy how you become a new personality when your stomach changes. It was then when I realized that my gut had been renewed and completely cleaned after surgery and everything has changed physically and mentally for the better. 3 months out, 80lbs down. 🙌🏼
80 pounds is incredible! Congratulations. You just feel amazing. I've just hit 40 pounds and I'm so excited and grateful.
Update?
How are you now? Did you do the sleeve or bypass?
I am just stumbling across this video two years after you made it and I must say I was very touched by your testimony. I am curious to know how you are doing today: are you maintaining your weight loss, has it been steady I mean. How are you feeling overall? I am considering the surgery and I'm doing research. Would love your feedback.
@Shaden Airoid Greene, I'm just seeing your comments from 2 years ago. I'm curious to know how you're doing now. I'm 3 months post surgery. I had the revision done. I was down 10 lbs before surgery and down 8 lbs after surgery. I've had some problems with my left hip which makes walking and exercise difficult but I'm not giving up. As my hip gets better, the more I'm able to do.
I am two weeks post RnY and I miss binge eating so much. I never realized how much of a comfort it was for me. Hopefully as my stamina gets back to normal I will find other activities to bring me joy because food was the only thing that made me happy. Thank you for sharing your story.
That why im haveing 2nd thoughts
Curious how you are doing now, i struggle with binge eating disorder and being obese and my doctor brought up this surgery
I was only diagnosed with BED about a year ago so I am concerned about this also. How are you doing now?
How are you today !?
I can only imagine looking in the mirror would be the comfort you need. I may need this surgery soon 😑
You’re so pure and honest I’m currently feeling these types of feeling rn I just had my bypass done on 10/27/22 and I can already feel myself becoming different. Positively love and worthy!
How u feeling today ? Was the surgery nerve wracking ? Got a bypass coming up on Monday
Omg you are such a inspiration to me. I'm 3weeks out and I have lost about 26lbs and I must say I feel amazing! I don't mind looking at myself in the mirror, I park further away when I'm going to stores so that I can walk, I don't try to find a riding cart I push my cart and walk I'm starting to like myself again. Everything you said I can relate to. Thank you for sharing ❣️
I'm heavily considering this surgery, and this makes me feel better about it. I am so terrified of getting any type of surgery, mostly because I'm terrified of dying during surgery. Which is insane, because the side effects my morbid obesity are far more likely to kill me than this surgery is, but the feeling of not being in control is a big part of it I think. Anyway, thank you for sharing your experience. It is so helpful to a ton of people.
I just got my surgery date today. I'm down 226 lbs on my own and decided to get surgery to help me the rest of the way ❤️
THIS! This is my exact feeling/fear. I'm so happy she shared her experience. I want/need this change but the fear is unreal.
I was the same way before my surgery, which I had done this past Tuesday 12/06. Once I spoke with the surgeon and the anesthesiologist, who both told me I’d have more of a chance of dying in a car wreck than during general anesthesia, I felt better. Go for it!❤
Same! I finally decided to go for WLS because at the end of the day, I'm killing myself with my weight. I've heard more success stories that negative things.
I’ve never heard someone so perfectly articulate the thoughts snd feelings I have about how it feels to live life as a fat person. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable - you’re clearly helping a lot of people by sharing your story and you’ve definitely helped me. I’ve been overweight for 24 of my 45 years and I’m over it. My quality of life has been absolute shit for years and that “voice” does nothing but yap in my head 24 hours a day. Hearing that, for you, that voice has shut the hell up and that it’s a possibility for me, too, is the deciding factor for me. I’ve been on the fence for a long time about getting surgery, but your video has been the tipping point - I’m going to do it. A million thanks and all of the best wishes in the world!
The weight that we put on our soul, beating ourselves up, is as damaging, as any additional body weight, we carry around. Its wonderful that you are learning how that negativity is damaging 💜.
I agree. It's so exhausting and painful and I'm so thankful that I've been able to gain distance from it.
I am planning to have this surgery and im so scared, I needed this video 🤦🏼♀️
dont do it. u will regret it. please look for other help but dont do it.
@@DarknessToEmbrace why?
@@DarknessToEmbrace what's your rationale to saying that?
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I’m having my operation soon and I’m quite excited!
I am just finding this post and the timing is incredible I'm balling my eyes out. I have just gotten my surgery date - September 15th. I am so looking forward to the freedoms. My head and heart have aspirations that my current body just can't handle. Thank you for sharing your story! WHAT?! And I'm in Kingston Ontario! That's incredible!
I'm so excited for what's in store for you! The surgery literally changed my life and opened so many doors. I wish you the best!
I had mine 9/09/2020 how are you doing so far
Can I ask where you went for your surgery. I’m in ontario also. I’m going to Humber river. But it’s so up and down with the Covid thing. Wondering how you did and how your experience has been. If you don’t mind. Ty.
I just had my surgery September 15,2021
Girl, thank you for your vulnerability in this video. I truly feel like I got to sit down with a best girl friend and have a heart to heart about this new journey. Thank you
This makes me more excited about getting my sleeve, I just want to have energy, no pain and no negative thoughts or body paranoia. Thanks for being open and honest. The vulnerability really helps cause it’s clear it’s not a sales pitch, it’s real life. ✌🏾+ 💜
Well Kara, You didn’t cry but I did. I love that you are sharing your story with us. I’m all getting ready to have surgery and I’m at the worry stage. I too gained a significant amount of weight starting about 12 years ago and all I want more than anything is to live again. So thank you for letting me view what I might feel in just a few months💕
Living again is the perfect way of looking at it! Of course I'm excited to buy smaller clothes and see a physical improvement but it's the energy that I now have and the excitement over feeling better that I'm loving the most. I feel like I've been given a second chance. I wish you nothing but the best as you go along your own journey. It's hard but it's so worth it.
Thank you so much for your honesty. I have not had surgery yet but I have been following different platforms to get myself ready. You have made me feel so much better in making the decision I have made. By the way I am 66 years old. I hope I can do this as well as you have . Thank you
I've very recently decided that this surgery is about the only option I have, after my doctor pressing me to consider it for quite a while. My quality of life is virtually 0 and like you, just moving and doing activities is too much to consider and I avoid most social activities purely because I know I physically will struggle and be in pain. I have a lot of years of life left - I don't want to spend them locked at home feeling exhausted and depressed. Thankyou for making this video - stories like yours are so valuable to people like me.
Me too. I have hypothyroidism and it's crazy how I feel with my weight. I can't anymore, and exercises don't help when I have injured lower back and groin and hip caused by car accident. My life is not the way it should be. My kids deserve better life.
There aren't many ppl on here who have had bypass. Unless i am not looking hard enough. Just had my surgery March 4 2021, grateful to hear your experience.
Sooooo how'd it go?
good luck to you...
I’m 34 with no kids and 235lbs, 5’8. I need to get down to 150lbs. I’ve been walking but eat out and continue to gain weight! Strongly considering the gastric bypass for this July but nervous about pregnancy around age 37 and after surgery. I don’t want many kids btw..maybe one or two. How are your post op results????
@@dinajones2761 Well my wife was enrolled in this class for Kaiser with her sister a few years ago, they're both about your height, we both have kids individually from previous marriages, so we didn't have any kids of our own. But her sister, about two years after the surgery gave birth to our Nephew. Little to no complications that I'm aware of. I sat in on some of the classes, and from what I understand, they don't recomend getting pregnant for at least a few years but it is certainly possible to have children after the procedure. But please consult your doctor. My sister in law did experience some hair thinning, and my wife did have a little probelm with acid reflux.
@@juliancain3872 How old was your sister in law when she had a baby? They recommend 12-18 months to wait for kids which I understand. How have they adjusted to post op life as far as eating?
My surgery is next week and this video is exactly what I needed.
Goodness girl! You nailed it!!! I KNOW that voice too! THAT dialogue that runs constantly in the background. I'm 55, so I've lived with that voice for many MANY years. I am so grateful you brought this up! I was on the brink of cancelling my surgery (July 14th) because I'm getting so nervous. You are a godsend!!!
Your video was the most in depth I have seen on YT. This was so helpful and give me great insight of what my bypass could look like.
So inspiring… I’ve been back and forth with if I should go through with this surgery now that I’ve completed all my pre-op task. Makes me feel better knowing that I can possibly become stronger mentally and genuinely feel happy again
I love that the voice has been quiet. There isn't anything worse than hearing the voice every day. Much love gorgeous.
Thanks Kelly. That voice exhausted the hell out of me.
@@KaraChapman I don't think you realize it until it's not there. That's how it was for me. I really didn't realize the mental exhaustion until I noticed the quiet.
@@GlamWithKelly Agreed 100%
I just started my surgical weight loss journey & found your channel. Thank you so much for sharing your story! It's like listening to a friend😊.
You have such joy radiating from your face and voice.
Thanks Darlene. It's a wonderful feeling.
8 days post op and I so needed this video. Doing great with my protein and vitamins but struggling to get enough water in. I start puree at the end of next week and I am so looking forward to it. I cannot wait to be one month out. I've found myself extremely emotional post op just from getting off my meds and having a regular blood pressure daily. Ugh and now I'm ranting about my personal life in a comment section! Well I needed to here all of this. Girl you just got a new sub!
Pureed food has never been so damned delightful as those first "meals" after the liquid stage. Enjoy!!!
Kara, I have just found your channel and I’m binge watching all of your videos as you traveled through this journey. My bypass is in 7 days, and I’m so scared. I hate being nauseas. I worry about something going wrong, as I’m a single mother to a beautiful boy. I’m worried I’ll backslide in the future. But I feel I need to just take this leap of faith and give myself a chance at a real life. I’m 380, so have a long ways to go, but you’ve really inspired me so far and I feel it’s very possible. Thank you for sharing all your feelings, for being vulnerable, and for your incredible insight. All the best to you as you continue your journey.
I completely understand all of your fears; I had them too. I'm still worried about going backwards bit i just keep refocusing on today and not tomorrow. I wish you all the best with your surgery. Your life will change as a result. It's a process, for sure, but it's so worth it. xo
Kara C thank you for responding! Wow, I’m so impressed! And thank you for your reassurance! I love makeup too...so I’m loving watching your other videos too! Have a wonderful day!
I am about to have this surgery early December here in Australia. I have binged watching your TH-cam channel and on the other social media platforms and just wanted to say Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us X bless your heart 💖 I am so happy for you. I'm scared as heck and don't really have close family to help support but I know your vids are there and will definitely be re watching them as I go through this process. Keep on shining xo 👑✨🙋🏻♀️🇦🇺
Thank you for this! I’m 4 days post-op. I’ve been following your videos. Thank you!
For you to literally describe the voice & statements that go on within my mind really caught me off guard I can’t wait to complete this process & silence that inner critic that NEVER seems to give me a break
Yeah that hit me.
It sounds like what you found is not happiness but inner peace which is so much more valuable and sustainable
watching this video was like talking to my mirror. you worded everything perfectly, i can relate to your emotions, the freight, pride, worry.. all of it.
i’m so proud of you for being this open on social media when it’s so hard these days.
thank you so much for sharing this.
Beauty is more then what we put on our faces, its also how we perceive ourselves and your new positive outlook has been a joy to watch! I am so happy for you and can't wait to hear what happens next!
Thank you so much. I'm so excited to move forward with a healthier mindset.
You look soooo much slimmer already! So so proud of you
Thank you Jess!! ❤
Please keep updating us on your journey, a lot of us that fear the same thing about missing food or are stuck in the same self loathing cycle but doing minimal effort because were always tired, need to hear what you are saying. I was recently told I’m pre diabetic by my doctor and my brain still didn’t want to believe, and was in denial. Now I’m spoken to my doctor about weight loss surgery and I’ve changed my diet to carb and sugar free to loss some weight before the procedure and I have a sleep study coming up soon because I too wake myself up from snoring and my partner prefers to sleep alone because of it. I’ve been watching people like you and I can relate and you’re so honest about your experience that it inspires me knowing I’m making the right choice to take my life back. Thank you
I wish you nothing but the best as you move forward on your journey. My diagnosis of severe sleep apnea was my rock bottom. Having to strap myself to a machine was humiliating for me and it pushed me through the pre-surgery liquid diet phase. Making changes in your diet now will definitely help make the transition easier. I'm basically Keto by default now. I don't have to count carbs, but because I have to focus on protein first, I rarely have room for carbs after I eat my protein.
The food cravings are very infrequent now and nowhere near as intense as they used to be. I was terrified that I'd be desperate "for a fix" but that hasn't been my experience at all.
Also, good luck with your sleep study. It's complete bullshit and you'll probably hate it, but the test is so important.
Awww, this video is so lovely! My surgery is booked for 2ish weeks from now, I'm so excited!
Thank you I'm was having second thoughts but watching you it is making me change my mind
Here I am in 2022, watching a video you made 3 years ago. I'm excited and scared that I will be having my surgery soon and this video has boosted an inspiration in me that I didn't know I had. Thank you.
congrats on your weight loss :) I too had gastric bypass about 15months ago. I was 105kg
(i went into surgery at 95kg after the 2week liquid diet)now I'm sitting on 71kg. I find that burping is a lil problematic after a feed, makes me feel uncomfortable. My sweet tooth has not gone away. i have adopted a vegan lifestyle. good luck on your journey...
Good luck to you as well!
Omg I’m living for this orange eyeshadow!
This is so far the best video hands down. More more more power to you :-*
Thank you so much!! ❤❤
Thank you Kara for making this video. Currently 2 weeks out and it’s been rough but I know I’ll come out of it like you did. I wish they told people how much of a mental thing this is. You’re such an inspiration, please continue to make these types of videos! ❤
I’m almost in tears.. “I replaced it with peace” … this is why I’m pushing to get this surgery.
Well done you! I’m planning the surgery this September and you’ve answered a lot/9f my questions! Thankyou x
Just starting my journey and your videos are a godsend. I have a zillion questions and even more fears. Hearing you be so honest helps so much! Dr answers the clinical stuff but you are answering the realistic human stuff, like a best friends advice. Thank you.
You are so beautiful inside and out! Thanks for sharing your story. I think you will help a lot of people!
This has been the realist video that I’ve seen so far. This really hits home. I’m almost 1 month post op from VSG and I really like listening to you.
Kara, hello. I am having gastric bypass on 8/22/22. Your videos have been very helpful. Thank you!
How are you feeling?
I really love this video and how open and raw you are! I just had duodenal switch surgery on 9/7/21. I’m so glad I found your video!
I feel like you were reading exactly what is in my head and heart. Thank you for sharing! I have a couple more classes before I'm ready for a surgery date. I'm so ready to be healthy again
You have to take classes?
@@DemmySylar nice
This is my fav eye look of yours to date! You look happier. Be proud of yourself and keep going. I’m still considering the surgery for the beginning of January.
Thank you! I used the Flair palette from Ace Beaute.
Good luck with making your decision. It's a big one. I'm happy to answer any questions about my experience, or just chat, any time. DMs on Instagram are always open and my email is kara_c@outlook.com
Kara C thank you!
I"m a week and a half post-op. I happened upon your videos and I am so incredibly grateful I did. this video is beautiful, thank you so much for sharing and being so open and sharing. This brings such warmth to my heart.
Thank you very much. That makes me so happy to hear!
OMG! Your make up is STUNNING!! You are BEAUTIFUL!!!
Thank you so much!! That's so sweet of you.
You have come so far! Congrats! I had the gastric sleeve on February 18th 2020! It for sure changes your life!
Trish
Thank you for continuing to give updates. It’s great to see you so authentically happy, Kara!
Thank you Olivia. I can't believe it's only been a month. My life will now forever be divided into "before surgery" and "after surgery" and I think the after is going to be pretty awesome.
You have such kind eyes, and personality. I’m genuinely happy for you. 🥲💗
Thank you so much!!
Oh my gosh, I'm crying. I'm so happy for you.
Thank you so much! (sorry for the tears ♥)
I'm so fricken happy for you! It's amazing to hear the positive impact it's had on your life. Thank you so much for sharing!
Thank you! I feel like I've been given a second chance. Its incredible.
Yay for your weight loss so far! That is amazing!
Thank you!!
Hi, I'm going to be scheduling my gastric bypass procedure soon and found your video! I totally totally understand what you were saying about talking down to yourself despite not feeling that way about other people who are overweight. I'm always feeling large and ugly and disgusting, even though I would never feel that way about people who are big like me! It's really, really great to see you speaking so positively just a month after your surgery, and I can't wait to be in the same place :)
Good luck with your surgery!! I'm now 11 months out and still feel just as positive. I have self-confidence now and it's taken some time to get used to that feeling. I'm excited for you to get relief from the negative self-talk as well!
Sending so much love to you ♡♡ i understand exactly what you mean, i would never think like that about other big people but i have so many negative thoughts about myself and i feel so disgusting...hopefully u are doing better now 🥰
*This is such a huge inspiration to me and I'm sure to so many! Bless you! Proud of you!!!!*
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*Holly (from twitter)*
Thank you Holly. I'm so happy that I'm able to so open and have only been met with open arms and love.
Thank you, I think I needed this 🥺 It’s been about 2 weeks since the surgery. I feel like I’ve made the wrong decision because I’m just struggling with food atm, but just to see what other people went through makes me happy and pushes me to get through it. I can’t wait to get to solid food because I am so done with liquid and soft food. Although I never get tired of water… it’s just hard to drink the amount of water I want to drink.
Thank you so much 💖
Ugh, the water struggle was such a pain in the butt. I think it was harder for me to figure out how to drink again than it was how to eat. It's almost 2 years for me now and I still can't chug water.
How are you doing now? Have things gotten better for you? I’m going in 2 weeks to get this done. I’m truly excited but scared the death as well.
There’s SO much I want to say and I can’t gather all the words right this second. I watched your recent video where you’ve lost nearly 120 lbs! Girl!!!!!!! You only lost 40 here and you were so happy and grateful. That says a lot. I thought I was listening to me but I was watching you. I cried throughout the whole thing. Some people may call those feelings cheesy but it’s simply freedom and peace I’m sure to feel that way. I’m praying one day I can think that way. Right now I’m like you but worse. There’s not a day that goes by where I’m not telling myself negative things and depriving myself from living. I can’t enjoy time out with my husband for all the wrong reasons. Thank you so much for sharing your journey. You are amazing and I will be watching all of your videos ❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕
Hi Mariah. Thank you for sharing that with me. Not a day goes by that I'm not grateful for the renewed lease on life I've been given. Negative thoughts still try to creep in but it's SO MUCH more manageable now and far less frequent than it was. I finally feel like I'm living instead of just existing now.
I just had my surgery a few weeks ago, your story is inspiring. Thank you for having the courage to share
Does it hurt
I finally have my surgery date! 6/30/2021 I’m in all my feels but I know why I’m doing it! Thank you for being so transparent
My surgery date is 6/24/21!!! We got this!
@@camille2141 which one are you getting? Im getting the bypass
@@jadearredondo6920 I am getting a revision from a gastric sleeve to the bypass.
@@camille2141 why? When i went to my consultation my dr recomended the bypass because most sleeved patients have to get a revision down the line
I am seven years out but about a year and a half ago started having severe GERD. It is untreatable with meds. So they are doing the revision.
Please continue to share this journey. ♥️💟
This is the best uplifting video I have ever had the pleasure to watch. Thank you for sharing your life changing journey with us. You have an amazing spirit.
Honestly, this couldn't have come at a better time for me. I really needed this. Pre op in a couple of days...
Wishing you all the best!!
@Kara C, I just heard you say "I did it" with a very pleasant sound of PRIDE that you accomplished something that you weren't able to do before. Congratulations!!! I had the gastric bypass 30 years ago. I wish in my situation, that I would have joined a gym or done more physical exercise to keep what I lost off. I got down to 145 from 350. Over the past 30 years I've regained to the point of needing a revision procedure done. My ultimate goal is to get back down to the 150-145 area again. After my first surgery 30 years ago, there was no support groups to help me, no one to help me be accountable for my food addictions (cinnamon rolls & pies). This time around, there will be the support groups, post op groups, & physical activity groups to help. I see a great process in my future. All the best of luck in your process.
Are you getting the revision done?
@@gbrieannful I had the revision done. I'm three months out post surgery with a loss of eight pounds. I lost 10 pounds before surgery. At the current time I'm pleased with my loss. I've had some difficulty with my left hip making walking and exercise difficult, so not able to exercise the way I'd like to.
@@roberthayes6708 to get the revision done do you have to go through the whole 6 month process again like jump through a whole bunch of hoops to get the revision done?
Just stumbled across your video because I’m hopefully getting the surgery this year and I’ve been so damn scared but you just took all of that away! Thank you so much for posting this, you had me crying my eyes out!! Proud of you, keep pushing beautiful ❤️
Thank you for letting me know! I was really scared before I had the surgery too. I was worried that I'd have nothing but regret. I'm now six months post-op and still have no regrets. I wish you nothing but the best in your journey!
Thank you for sharing this.. This Tue is my 4 wk mark. It sounds like a long time to others, but 4 wks is just a tip of this journey.. I feel awful right now, but I think I'm very dehydrated and a lil depressed.. Watching your videos has really helped me to refocus. I haven't lost many pounds but the inches are insane how much I have lost! Not sure how that works, but I will press on and try to enjoy this ride. ❤️
Muscle weighs more than fat and takes up less space love.
First of all I’m happy I’ve found you.. here I am making up my mind if I should do it or not (cause it scares me to death) but watching your videos, I’m starting to fill up with courage and positive thoughts. Thank you!!
My bypass surgery is scheduled for 06/21/2021 and I can honestly say that I’m so scared.. so anxious, so nervous. I know why I decided to start with the procedure but as someone who has been on multiple diets my whole life.. I’m just tired of failing.. I’m ready to change and be better.. be healthy. Your video is giving me courage and made me feel a bit better.. I hope in a few months I can just come back I say how happy I feel about it. Thank you so much for sharing your experience.
I can't wait to hear your update in a few months time.
I had the same fears as you. I thought I'd fail at this. Heads up: you will stall around week 3 or 4 (when you start reintroducing solid food). You will freak out. It's totally normal and it will pass. No one warns you about it but we pretty much all experience it.
I’m so happy for you. I’m very seriously thinking of getting the surgery and I hear you and get excited!
It's not easy but it's worth it (in my opinion, at least).
So happy for you Kara!! You’re looking so beautiful and at peace!!!
I love you ❤️❤️❤️So happy you are finding peace. You are amazing. You are worthy. You rock! and You inspire me 😍🥰😘
Thanks Crystal. I love you too!! ❤❤ I hope we can hang out soon!
I just had my surgery on August 12th, I’m starting to discover that I would cope with eating food. The first two weeks are strictly liquids and I’m trying to find the positivity and not be down on myself.
Congratulations! I wish you a speedy recovery!
I'm thinking about getting it
I am getting the gastric sleeve in less than a month. Thank you for your honesty and for talking about your experience
Well this made my cooking dinner an entertaining event. I laughed, I teared up, ugh. So happy for you! This was amazing 💓💓
Happy I could put you on a rollercoaster. 😊😊
I came home and threw my boyfriend out...I'm so happy and I feel great and it's only7 days post op.....I love it
You inspired me to pursue bariatric surgery and I've just been approved to start the process. Now on to 3 months of doctor appointments
Congratulations!
Me too!!! My count down for the 3 months just started this 4 days ago.
Awesome. Please keep us posted. 👍
Thank you for sharing what you are going thru. I’m rooting for you and have been since you started the fasting part. You are so strong! And you are doing so well. Can’t wait to hear more exciting news in the weeks/months to come.
Thank you so much Debbie!! Your support means the world to me.
I used to work at a gym years ago and EVERYBODY is worried that everybody else is looking at them and judging them. But trust me, everybody has the same paranoia about that. But people are totally focused on themselves and their own fitness. That comes out in their counseling sessions.
You have articulated so much of what I have felt in these last two weeks and you explained it beautifully thank you so much. You are awesome
Aarh this video makes me so happy to watch😍😍😍 Im so incredibly happy for you💜✨
Thank you so much.
I am so proud of you. I always feel like everyone knows any time I gain a pound 😞
I know exactly what you mean. 🙁
I’m 3 weeks post op tomorrow 6/30. Thanks for sharing. Hope you are doing well!
Thank you again for sharing these non-scale victories. They are encouraging as I go through this process.
congratulations on all your progress! you're such an inspiration, love watching the updates to see how you've been doing 💕
Thank you very much! I'm so glad that I can share this with you all and that you're all so wonderful.
I just stumbled on to your TH-cam video, and since you didn't cry, I did. I'm scheduled for the same surgery as you next Monday. My doctor only requires a one day liquid diet but I have decided to do 7, can't hurt! I understand how you judge yourself, think everyone is judging you and that you are the only fat person on the planet. This surgery decision was a no brainer for me, I have wanted to do it for years but making an appointment and walking through their door was so hard because then it was a realization that I truly was an overweight person needing help. I am fixin to be 61 and to spend this much money on myself was extremely difficult, as most of us have to pay our out of pocket deductible and all the tests that go along with this, I was dipping into our retirement. I finally said fuck it, it's about me for a change and thankfully my husband was on board. Thank you for the video, you have made me see the light at the end of the tunnel will be a beautiful color, and I'm looking forward to going on this journey.
You go girl!! This resonated with me so much. I have all the same feels. Keep going!
Omg I can relate so much to you! I'm so glad I found your channel! ❤
You are so easy to listen to. Beautiful voice. And very relatable.
Good self-reflection on her experience of herself. I had gastric bypass 4 weeks ago, I've lost 25lbs and I am very happy.
Hi! I’m thinking about getting the gastric bypass surgery. How was your experience? Pain level after surgery? I work a desk job. In your experience and opinion, how long do you think it would take after surgery for me to get back to work? Glad you are doing well and are happy!
What an inspiration you are, Kara!! Thank you for sharing your story. :)
Thank you Andrea!!
You are hands down the best person I have listened to about this subject. You touch on everything that I was worried about. My last visit with my dr is Monday and I will be scheduled.
I'm so glad this was a helpful video for you! Wishing you all the best with your own journey!
I’m really happy I came across this video. I’m hoping to have a surgery date soon. Hoping for the end of this month and you’ve made me feel good about having this surgery. Thank you.
Honestly, it’s as though you are in my brain. Just started the steps towards surgery and you are inspiring me!
Omg I'm so glad I found u its been 24 days post bypass surgery for me. Your story is God sent I am still on pureed foods started to worry but listening to u has helped me. Thank you for sharing 💗💚
I'm so glad that my video was helpful!
Over the years I’ve lost weight , trying hard, low carb, fasting, cancer, and lately Covid,. Now that I feel better, I get to shop for new clothes. That’s more fun than eating. 👍😊😘
💕💕 Congratulations ! Thank you for sharing your new joy for life! I am eager to be in the post -surgical phase !
You are an inspiration for me and so many others. I'm heading into the gastro bypass, Sleeve next month. You have hit on so many of my own issues. Thank you... Just thank you!
Barely a couple of minutes in and your makeup is amazing!!!