I love this message as well. I was raised to chase financial success and higher education. I graduated college but did not get a masters or a graduate degree to the disappointment of my parents. I work in the medical field and it's exhausting and like a factory. Long story short. I quit my full time job and work part time. I down sized my life just so I could take care of myself physically, emotionally and mentally. If I had continued to work as I once did I would be too exhausted to date and meet people. My idea of success is to have a partner and a family. Sometimes you have to make a choice for yourself to the dismay of your family and society. People don't understand why I don't want to work full time or chase a dollar. I rather have my sanity and my time. I spend my time working out and reading. I love it. I don't need more material things. We've been sold a lie. I'm so happy for you and I'm glad you are speaking on this. It's not being anti feminist, it's empowering women to make the best choice for themselves and what they want out of life. I want a good man and partner to grow old with lol.
I feel part time in healthcare is d best of both worlds for the people that really care about people n r not money driven. I’ve been a nurse since 2003 n have only worked part time ever…I always have abundance because I live within my means.
This is the dream, my problem is finding part time jobs that actually pay enough to afford rent lol All the ones I see are close to minimum wage unfortunately
Same here! I lived in Miami and worked hard and studied all my life. I left a high level in education to a lower one to make room for my femininity. I also aspire to have a family. Any like minded girls in Miami and Broward who sage this same mentality, let’s link up!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I love this message. I’m 64, divorced and haven’t dated in years but I still love men and love doing my hair and wearing makeup for me, so I look good and feel good about myself
I’m 34 and waiting to get out of my longtime relationship but I don’t want to date. I just want to look pretty, get in shape and go on cruises … but I have toddlers so probably not for a while
1) Be rich in God 2) Increase your executive functioning skills 3) work on your gift 4) maintain, protect, and grow your blessings I love seeing you win ❤
I’m so happy for you. 🤩 I’m 52 and I’ve been divorced for 11 years. It took me that long to heal from my past and find a provider who appreciates and adores everything about me, especially my journey. It was worth the wait and all the inner work. ❤
You are not missing anything. I had kids at 31 yrs old and it is hard work. I don’t regret it however it is not for everyone and don’t feel pressured. Enjoy your freedom
Yes, that is not radical feminism. I’m happy to spell woman correctly and not womyn and spread hatred towards other women who choose to live my life 😘😘
@@Las645Feminism gets credit for everything that women used to not be able to do either by law or by culture that they can do now. From voting to choosing what your life looks like. None of the old options were ever taken away. Only new options have been added.
@@KellyStamps not sure what this means because none of that is inherent to modern feminism they’re just things people do lol.. not everything annoying having to do with women is “feminism” 😭
im in a very similar space not only because ive met someone great (he's amazing and i feel so blessed) but also because im not sure i want to become bigger in my career...im a lawyer (lol) but being the lawyer that i am right now makes me very happy...i only work 3 days a week and in my offf time i like baking and catering to him...i love it here and wont let society pressure me to do more. he has his fancy tech job and i have my little baby lawyer job and its just great
YES! Absolutely! I’m with you 😍 the girls that get it, get it! My man and I are so in love and he and allows me to have a life where I can have and do whatever I want and pursue all my passions. I feel safer than I ever have. Cheers to you too 💗💗
Or when you dress cute and girly and people are like “where are you going?” “Why you dressed like that?”. Like I want to be cute shopping at the grocery store for myself but also - you never know, I just may find a husband and a boyfriend there. Y’all quit now.
Girl, right. When I turned 28 I found my style and every time I leave my house I dress nice. Idc if I'm grocery shopping or taking my kid to the park. I'm going to look cute because it makes me feel good.
@@leslieelizabeth3024 and people will stare because they didn’t put as much effort into looking good and coordinating. Especially women. Like sis you can do it too lol
Loved this! Jesus is literally the only thing that fills that weird void, that feeling to be truly loved. The next closest thing is companionship; I got married last November and life feels so stable- God and family (and good friendships) just make life great. Currently working on not having to do a 9-5 so I can be in my true femininity too😁😁😁😬😬😬 Very happy for you Kelly Stamps!
This made me happy. I'm happy for Kelly and her new love. I'm also happy to know that I have the same medical degree that Kelly has. Maybe I'll open a practice. But I think that I'm supposed to just chill.
I am single (45years old!), happy and love when people find happiness in romantic relationships. Some of us were dealt another set of cards that unfortunately are beyond our control (trust me, it is beyond my control, lol). We should never say that those who are single are actually really unhappy and we should never say that people who find healthy romantic relationships are just co-dependent. Everyone's path is different. Happy for your you and your partner! :)
I think people take femininity into two extremes. Boss baddie or mother Theresa lol. I think women are feminine being exactly what they choose to be. In actuality, we’re all those things. Married mothers who take care of kids and homes and families to women making big changes in the workforce. We all have parts of that in ourselves and the best thing is choosing what we wish to put our lives and hearts into.
@@yeilyn24 how so? Mothers have always worked. Then we have teachers, nurses, scientists, chefs, military women etc. Think of the women who can’t have kids. Are they no longer feminine when they work to make the future better for all kids?
@@chi2om A mother who spends majority of her time at work is competing with men. Ultimately having to adapt to the environment by taking on more male characteristics such as aggressiveness, assertiveness, dominant, low on agreeableness, competitive in order to climb the social ladder within the company. The most high earning women within the workforce tend to be portray these masculine characteristics over the feminine characteristics. A women who stays at home or works part time has more of an opportunity to get in touch with her feminity. Feminity is a relaxed state of being. How can you be fully present, patient, nurturing, kind and empathetic for you children when you come tired from work? When you are solely or for the most part taking care of your children, you are generally not competing with someone else. You have more time to self-reflect on your behavior and consider how you treat yourself and others.
@@chi2om Women who are not able to have children or choose to be single can still acquire or already learned to be in touch with their femininity. However a women who’s sole purpose is on work ultimately will have to acquire more masculine characteristics in order to excel in the workplace and will struggle to stay in touch with their feminine side as a result.
@@yeilyn24 we would have to disagree then. I see femininity as women being themselves in all aspects of life. All the work women do is feminine and does not take away from their nurturing or patient side. Femininity isn't relaxed to me, but very actively being a woman in every space. Like mother bears that fight and provide for their young. It's all work and very important.
Kelly, this video came to me at the perfect time. I’m realizing that over the past couple of years, I’ve let myself go and coped by saying things like “idc if men find me attractive” but now… I do care. And now I have a lot of inner and outer work to do. I wish I would’ve realized sooner. Love this direction you’ve been going and glad to still be here supporting.
They could never make me hate you, I’ve been here since 2020, you convinced me to start on TH-cam. I love this channel lol ❤girl when you lifted your bangs and it said smart I HOLLERED
I think we should all do what’s best for us. There are women who don’t want men and that’s ok. Love and be loved in whatever way works for you personally ❤️
I have been married since 22, 5 children and 20 years later, I do not regret it, I would not have chosen it. God led me here, and I love it. Congrats, Kelly!
My next video is talking about how starting a new channel made me feel richer than ever 🥹🥹 But honestly, I didn’t really care anyway because I knew I was going to be a housewife and milf lol. I INVESTED AND SAVED WELL. GOT ALL THE CHANEL
Your channels are exactly what I needed right now in my life. Thank you for your authenticity and love for Jesus💗💗💗Also, happy to see you thriving in my city!
This video is a VIBE! I love me some Kelly and her shenanigans! That "medical" degree showing gets me every time. I love you found love. You seem like a GEM that shines wherever you go!
So happy I can make a comment about that video that never existed lol😜. Everyone was encouraging you to be a career woman so it seemed weird to go against most of the praise but sis I am so glad you dropped that narrative! 😂😂😂 There is so much more to life than school and work! Please go be free, feminine, fabulous away from those rigid ideas/institutions! I love this version of you ❤️
I actually didn’t get a chance to read the majority of the comments but the ones that I saw from the first two weeks were just saying maybe don’t get a job, maybe just try volunteer work. It was a great suggestion and I definitely got fulfillment from doing that!! (But I also realized how much easier it is to be an influencer.) Obviously, it’s not easy otherwise everybody would do it, but you know what I mean. In my position as somebody who has the bandwidth to create every single week, has a good community, there’s no other job I should be doing. (Except podcasting or acting) I have no issue finishing college, but nowadays we can’t never ourselves down to one path
YOU GO GIRL!! the title alone is what i'm tryna be in life. ever since being closer to 30 than i am 20 (im 26) i don't have time to waste tryna fit the mold this world is trying to force me into! i refuseee
yes girl, i got married at 22 and im 30 now with three children! Its the best and i am so proud of myself for my life decisions and how my life has turned out
i agree w the 4b movement but i also agree with the idea that woman can do whatever tf they want with their lives, even if it includes guys 😂 i’m just in this comment section for the stay at home girlies to be sure that whoever is taking care of you is not financially abusing you!! i hope ur relationship goes well for a long time kelly ❤❤
I found your channel 3 years ago after going through a bad breakup and I've been watching you ever since. You bring so much joy just being yourself and you give amazing advice. I been going through a rough time mentally because of pcos and feeling a void because I changed career paths, and this video is just what I needed. Thank you for sharing ❤
Seeing you be happy and transparent about your imperfections is so encouraging and refreshing. Im here for it. Bcuz life has really really tore me up and im tored of this psycho rat race of people pleasing. Thank you kelly stamps i pray that God will continue 2 draw u to his heart and will for your life! 🎉❤
Yassss I am all for this! 😂 I am a wife a stay at home mother and nurturer! I to was thinking about getting a corporate job, but honey the thought of it made me run away 😂😂 I love doing girly stuff and playing with children and animals
This is so real. I’m currently in nursing school (about to graduate 🥳) and I did meet someone who made me feel so feminine and he was a gentleman. I turned off my brain with him lol, but unfortunately he didn’t want a relationship and his reason was the fact he’s not where he wants to be in life and just wants to do more in life before he settles (he’s 25, I’m 21 btw), and it sucked we really liked each other, but I guess he just wasn’t the one for me ☹️. But I pray i eventually find someone who just makes me feel soft, loved, protected and provided for. While I love nursing I know it’s a hard job, and eventually want to do prn/part-time and not at a hospital and doing IV hydration/infusion or maybe even aesthetics (but Florida requires you to be a nurse practitioner 😢) I have no desire to go back and do my masters or become an entrepreneur.
I’m so happy for you! I’m an only child too… also with no family… so I can REALLY relate to that part of you. Other than you, I have never met another person in that situation. I was blessed enough to meet an awesome guy. We just celebrated our 15 year anniversary. He’s my world! There ARE great guys out there, and it sounds like you found one. I’ve been watching you for a number of years, and I’ve watched you change and grow. I just want you (and everyone!) to find their happiness. Thanks for sharing the message of love of God, Self, and Family. Hoping all your dreams come true. 💗
👏👏👏 don’t let other people try to dictate how you should be or live your life. You like what you like and go for what you want, point blank period! Congratulations on finding happiness! ❤
Love to see you Happy! I personally love being feminine, absolutely enjoy my days off, walking around bare feet in the grass and on sand at the beach. Smelling the beautiful flowers around me and simply enjoying the beautiful things in life but i also did realize that my partner and i live in a very expensive city (NYC) and we love it here so we wanna build a life here for ourselves. We wanna provide the best opportunities for our future children. And unfortunately, that will require making more money, though i hate working too hard i do need to advance in my career in order to make our dreams happen. I think if a woman is career oriented because there’s a greater goal in mind, something that involves the well being of others, thats admirable. Lol once i gain a more advanced degree which will take 3 years of very hard work, i will def slow down again. Its a short term sacrifice for long term benefits
I believe sometimes it’s hard to rest and femininity when you don’t have a man helping you through the rough patches. If you’re the type of woman that has to provide everything on her own, then I think it’s harder to rest in your femininity.
I love this for you, I have just turned 30, and I have seen that society wants to you be man hating and alone and focused on work and consumerism. I was saved a year ago, and I have slowed down and started living life, still with a full time job though. I want to find my husband and I won’t be lied to to be alone and sad in 10/20 years. I am putting myself out there and finding really quality friends and being setup on dates. It’s amazing seeing how working on your self finally pays off
I realized smarter not harder is going back to corprate for me instead of freelancing. the key is I don't have to find work in a full time job. think I had to quit corprate to realize things about myself and learn to not be emtionally attached to my job anymore. we go through phases we don't understand! So makes sense you felt like you needed to go to school for a second, I have freinds feeling that way too. And now I am more open to a man if the man wants to pay for me to stay home if we have a kind lmao.
So that's what the 4B movement is about...and here I thought it was referring to girlies with 4B kinky curls and I was like yes that's me! But never mind lol
The 4b movement is a bit more nuanced. I'll try to explain to the best of my knowledge but I encourage you to look it up. Women in Korea were being abused/mistreated by their significant others. So in protest they are abstaining from men until their society does a better job of protecting them.
But yeah you're totally right, we're the same age and I've been following you for a few years now. The biggest difference between us is that I don't have an undergraduate degree, so I am on track to going back to school but I do not want to be a coorporate baddie at all, I just want to make enough money to treat myself to spa days and trips to Italy. Thank you for affirming that for me!
All women are truly feminine because it’s just who we are. Resting around and doing nothing isn’t “true femininity”. Very few women in history just sat around and rested. This is the actual toxic feminism everyone should be talking about.
Loved this video, Kelly! It's lovely to see you flourishing more and more with each and every video!! Would you consider making a video giving tips on how to become an influencer based on this new perspective (being feminine, prioritizing yourself, your family and home, etc.)? I'd love to know more about this topic and apply this to my life! Remain blessed, much love!! 💛
High key happy you chose not to go back to school. I dropped out of college after 2 years after realizing school wasn’t for me. I was doing well and only stayed that long because everything was free (bc of my scholarship), but now I run my own shop and now I’m free 😫🙌🏼. I can travel anywhere I want and now, my next goal is to settle down and live on a farm (or anywhere) with my future husband (God willing).
I needed this video. I have been killing my self at my job. It’s the first job since I got my degree and honestly I just want to make a TH-cam page like you which I did after I saw your video on needing to start a TH-cam. I gave up after thinking I’d go no where and didn’t even give myself a shot and became a corporate sad overworked girly. Im gonna try again and this time really really give it a shot. So happy for you !!!
Yayy! You go girl 🎉 . Keep making the best of life and love ❤❤❤. I enjoy your presence/vibe... I also hollered when you thought the 4b movement was about our hair 😂😂😂.
Kelly, I’ve been watching your content for a few years and honestly the shift is a little jarring sometimes to be honest😅 but I am so happy for you and happy that you are happy and finding what you are looking for and doing what’s right for you. I’m still learning from your old videos as much as I am from your new ❤ so proud of you 😊
Shouldn’t be jarring, I’m changing and adults go through changes all the time! (They just don’t broadcast their thoughts and wins and fails because they know that they will be judged for shifting)
@@KellyStampsGirl you met a dude and suddenly changed your mind about how you felt about working and getting more educated. Jarring is the most appropriate word anyone can choose to describe it.
We need right men. And right women. Right people. And that’s, period. ^^ Thanks Kells. I enjoy getting to know ur povs.take care. We need. And we can be. We gotta.
Well girl… I love the male gaze but we do it for ourselves. Who cares we are feminine women and love being pampered. We don’t have to center them but we also don’t have to hate them.
I love this message as well. I was raised to chase financial success and higher education. I graduated college but did not get a masters or a graduate degree to the disappointment of my parents. I work in the medical field and it's exhausting and like a factory.
Long story short. I quit my full time job and work part time. I down sized my life just so I could take care of myself physically, emotionally and mentally. If I had continued to work as I once did I would be too exhausted to date and meet people. My idea of success is to have a partner and a family. Sometimes you have to make a choice for yourself to the dismay of your family and society. People don't understand why I don't want to work full time or chase a dollar. I rather have my sanity and my time. I spend my time working out and reading. I love it. I don't need more material things. We've been sold a lie.
I'm so happy for you and I'm glad you are speaking on this. It's not being anti feminist, it's empowering women to make the best choice for themselves and what they want out of life. I want a good man and partner to grow old with lol.
I feel part time in healthcare is d best of both worlds for the people that really care about people n r not money driven. I’ve been a nurse since 2003 n have only worked part time ever…I always have abundance because I live within my means.
I love this, YES YES YES!
I am literally so proud of you for choosing an unconventional road!
This is the dream, my problem is finding part time jobs that actually pay enough to afford rent lol All the ones I see are close to minimum wage unfortunately
Same here! I lived in Miami and worked hard and studied all my life. I left a high level in education to a lower one to make room for my femininity. I also aspire to have a family. Any like minded girls in Miami and Broward who sage this same mentality, let’s link up!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I love this message. I’m 64, divorced and haven’t dated in years but I still love men and love doing my hair and wearing makeup for me, so I look good and feel good about myself
I’m 50 and am right there with you.
Love this ❤
Ditto!
I’m 34 and waiting to get out of my longtime relationship but I don’t want to date. I just want to look pretty, get in shape and go on cruises … but I have toddlers so probably not for a while
@@dmoneytrees take your time you’ll get there. Blessings
We don't wanna talk about toxic femininityyyyy. It's so unkind. Love is such a gift to give and receive. I'm so happy for you ❤
Wait, I totally remember watching your popular silk press video on type 4Z hair 😂😂 what an honor
OMG! Tierra J over heeah 🤟🏽
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WOWWW🔥 BIG T 🔥IN THE HOUSE. 🥳U DEFINITELY GOT SOME IDEAS ABOUT THIS FOR THE PEOPLE 🚨🌎💝💙💚🎥🎬🎶
1) Be rich in God
2) Increase your executive functioning skills
3) work on your gift
4) maintain, protect, and grow your blessings
I love seeing you win ❤
Just those simple steps! And thank you ❤
@@KellyStampsNp. ima also add serve people like community service and donate to your local charities ❤️🙏🏽
Seeing melanin = permanent tan. Love it! 🤎
I’m so happy for you. 🤩 I’m 52 and I’ve been divorced for 11 years. It took me that long to heal from my past and find a provider who appreciates and adores everything about me, especially my journey. It was worth the wait and all the inner work. ❤
Thanks for sharing!! May the entire Stampede find this type of happiness 🪄
@@KellyStampsmay I find this! 😅
Did anyone notice how she is genuinely happy & glowing in this vid? I'm a masculine man & I am attracted to that energy.
This is a top tier serum only provided by true REST 😂
@@KellyStamps Wakarimashita :)
Women already do more than enough. We should be resting and enjoying life
💕💯💯💯💞
You are not missing anything. I had kids at 31 yrs old and it is hard work. I don’t regret it however it is not for everyone and don’t feel pressured. Enjoy your freedom
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That moment when Kelly raised her leg 😩 It’s another kind of peace when you have someone who allows you to be you💖
LOL
feminism is why you can freely be in the kitchen and vibe as a youtuber that’s why feminism is the best ♡
Yes, that is not radical feminism. I’m happy to spell woman correctly and not womyn and spread hatred towards other women who choose to live my life 😘😘
Not modern day feminism 😂 you guys don’t get credit for that
@@Las645exactly 😂
@@Las645Feminism gets credit for everything that women used to not be able to do either by law or by culture that they can do now. From voting to choosing what your life looks like. None of the old options were ever taken away. Only new options have been added.
@@KellyStamps not sure what this means because none of that is inherent to modern feminism they’re just things people do lol.. not everything annoying having to do with women is “feminism” 😭
im in a very similar space not only because ive met someone great (he's amazing and i feel so blessed) but also because im not sure i want to become bigger in my career...im a lawyer (lol) but being the lawyer that i am right now makes me very happy...i only work 3 days a week and in my offf time i like baking and catering to him...i love it here and wont let society pressure me to do more. he has his fancy tech job and i have my little baby lawyer job and its just great
This is beautiful. Love it!
I’m a law student trying to figure out what I want from this life ❤
I refuse to forget that.
People who forget the past end up repeating it.
Wish you all the best.
YES! Absolutely! I’m with you 😍 the girls that get it, get it! My man and I are so in love and he and allows me to have a life where I can have and do whatever I want and pursue all my passions. I feel safer than I ever have. Cheers to you too 💗💗
LOVE THAT FOR YOU 🎀
Where did you find such a man?
Where did you find him?😭
You're so blessed!
Or when you dress cute and girly and people are like “where are you going?” “Why you dressed like that?”. Like I want to be cute shopping at the grocery store for myself but also - you never know, I just may find a husband and a boyfriend there. Y’all quit now.
Me all the time. I will always go out looking cute in some way. Even in sweatpants lol
Where I live I get "are you from the city (dressed like that)?"
No, I'm just not dressed for bed 24/7 like everyone else here ✨
Lol girl we think the same 😂 keep being you!
Girl, right. When I turned 28 I found my style and every time I leave my house I dress nice. Idc if I'm grocery shopping or taking my kid to the park. I'm going to look cute because it makes me feel good.
@@leslieelizabeth3024 and people will stare because they didn’t put as much effort into looking good and coordinating. Especially women. Like sis you can do it too lol
Loved this! Jesus is literally the only thing that fills that weird void, that feeling to be truly loved.
The next closest thing is companionship; I got married last November and life feels so stable- God and family (and good friendships) just make life great.
Currently working on not having to do a 9-5 so I can be in my true femininity too😁😁😁😬😬😬
Very happy for you Kelly Stamps!
ALL OF THIS
This made me happy. I'm happy for Kelly and her new love. I'm also happy to know that I have the same medical degree that Kelly has. Maybe I'll open a practice. But I think that I'm supposed to just chill.
Let’s face it, we all are living vicariously through Kelly Stamps.👏🏻
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“You are anti black!! 🗣️” 😂😂😂
It’s the walk away from the camera for me. Yass!!! Queen 👸😍🤣
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She ate off of that all dayyyy
I am single (45years old!), happy and love when people find happiness in romantic relationships. Some of us were dealt another set of cards that unfortunately are beyond our control (trust me, it is beyond my control, lol). We should never say that those who are single are actually really unhappy and we should never say that people who find healthy romantic relationships are just co-dependent. Everyone's path is different. Happy for your you and your partner! :)
I think people take femininity into two extremes. Boss baddie or mother Theresa lol. I think women are feminine being exactly what they choose to be. In actuality, we’re all those things. Married mothers who take care of kids and homes and families to women making big changes in the workforce. We all have parts of that in ourselves and the best thing is choosing what we wish to put our lives and hearts into.
Prioritizing work over your children is not a feminine quality to hold.
@@yeilyn24 how so? Mothers have always worked. Then we have teachers, nurses, scientists, chefs, military women etc. Think of the women who can’t have kids. Are they no longer feminine when they work to make the future better for all kids?
@@chi2om
A mother who spends majority of her time at work is competing with men. Ultimately having to adapt to the environment by taking on more male characteristics such as aggressiveness, assertiveness, dominant, low on agreeableness, competitive in order to climb the social ladder within the company. The most high earning women within the workforce tend to be portray these masculine characteristics over the feminine characteristics.
A women who stays at home or works part time has more of an opportunity to get in touch with her feminity. Feminity is a relaxed state of being. How can you be fully present, patient, nurturing, kind and empathetic for you children when you come tired from work? When you are solely or for the most part taking care of your children, you are generally not competing with someone else. You have more time to self-reflect on your behavior and consider how you treat yourself and others.
@@chi2om Women who are not able to have children or choose to be single can still acquire or already learned to be in touch with their femininity.
However a women who’s sole purpose is on work ultimately will have to acquire more masculine characteristics in order to excel in the workplace and will struggle to stay in touch with their feminine side as a result.
@@yeilyn24 we would have to disagree then. I see femininity as women being themselves in all aspects of life. All the work women do is feminine and does not take away from their nurturing or patient side. Femininity isn't relaxed to me, but very actively being a woman in every space. Like mother bears that fight and provide for their young. It's all work and very important.
I cant wait to experience being loved, protected and provided for by my own God sent Man❤. So happy for you Kelly😊
Thank you I hope you are taken care of too!!
Kelly, this video came to me at the perfect time. I’m realizing that over the past couple of years, I’ve let myself go and coped by saying things like “idc if men find me attractive” but now… I do care. And now I have a lot of inner and outer work to do. I wish I would’ve realized sooner. Love this direction you’ve been going and glad to still be here supporting.
They could never make me hate you, I’ve been here since 2020, you convinced me to start on TH-cam. I love this channel lol ❤girl when you lifted your bangs and it said smart I HOLLERED
I’M GONNA GET A BANG WIG
I, as well. Kelly Stamps is engaging and puts a smile on my face each and every time. Such a talented young woman.
As a guy I can definitely agree on this message. Theres so much misguidance on the internet. What makes you happy?.. do that.
Simple 🤌🏾
I think we should all do what’s best for us. There are women who don’t want men and that’s ok. Love and be loved in whatever way works for you personally ❤️
so happy for you Kelly 🥹🥹🥹❤ congrats on your growth and also being in love with someone who you feel is good for you 🥹 live for each moment! ❤
Also I am so happy that a wonderful man has found you because are a complete joy ❤
I have been married since 22, 5 children and 20 years later, I do not regret it, I would not have chosen it. God led me here, and I love it. Congrats, Kelly!
Late 20s you feel a void: same
And we are always chasing that next thrill to make us feel like we’ve done enough!
It's the I AM NOT RICH ANYMORE for me😂😂🤣 The honesty!!❤❤❤❤ will forever love watching your channel Kelly!
My next video is talking about how starting a new channel made me feel richer than ever 🥹🥹
But honestly, I didn’t really care anyway because I knew I was going to be a housewife and milf lol. I INVESTED AND SAVED WELL. GOT ALL THE CHANEL
Your channels are exactly what I needed right now in my life. Thank you for your authenticity and love for Jesus💗💗💗Also, happy to see you thriving in my city!
I'm so glad!!
This video is a VIBE! I love me some Kelly and her shenanigans! That "medical" degree showing gets me every time. I love you found love. You seem like a GEM that shines wherever you go!
I like this hair on you, Kelly. The ponytail is cute!
“Time is the biggest luxury” so true.
So happy I can make a comment about that video that never existed lol😜.
Everyone was encouraging you to be a career woman so it seemed weird to go against most of the praise but sis I am so glad you dropped that narrative! 😂😂😂
There is so much more to life than school and work! Please go be free, feminine, fabulous away from those rigid ideas/institutions!
I love this version of you ❤️
I actually didn’t get a chance to read the majority of the comments but the ones that I saw from the first two weeks were just saying maybe don’t get a job, maybe just try volunteer work. It was a great suggestion and I definitely got fulfillment from doing that!! (But I also realized how much easier it is to be an influencer.) Obviously, it’s not easy otherwise everybody would do it, but you know what I mean. In my position as somebody who has the bandwidth to create every single week, has a good community, there’s no other job I should be doing. (Except podcasting or acting) I have no issue finishing college, but nowadays we can’t never ourselves down to one path
Kelly you've always been loved. Don't let the haters get to you. Now you got a second channel growing, I know your enemies are mad lol.
Also I'm loving that song at 15:50!
She finally got picked FINALLY!!!
Right. Then suddenly she coincidentally changes her mind about wanting to go to school.
YOU GO GIRL!! the title alone is what i'm tryna be in life. ever since being closer to 30 than i am 20 (im 26) i don't have time to waste tryna fit the mold this world is trying to force me into! i refuseee
yes girl, i got married at 22 and im 30 now with three children! Its the best and i am so proud of myself for my life decisions and how my life has turned out
i agree w the 4b movement but i also agree with the idea that woman can do whatever tf they want with their lives, even if it includes guys 😂 i’m just in this comment section for the stay at home girlies to be sure that whoever is taking care of you is not financially abusing you!! i hope ur relationship goes well for a long time kelly ❤❤
I love this so much for you, Kelly!! Haha, when you asked "What does he get me?" I immediately thought, 'Tiramisu?' 😂
My man! My man! My man! Congratulations Kelly!
I found your channel 3 years ago after going through a bad breakup and I've been watching you ever since. You bring so much joy just being yourself and you give amazing advice. I been going through a rough time mentally because of pcos and feeling a void because I changed career paths, and this video is just what I needed. Thank you for sharing ❤
Kids are wonderful. They enjoy playing and having fun and being around them we can have so much fun and learn so much more about life. 😀
Seeing you be happy and transparent about your imperfections is so encouraging and refreshing. Im here for it. Bcuz life has really really tore me up and im tored of this psycho rat race of people pleasing. Thank you kelly stamps i pray that God will continue 2 draw u to his heart and will for your life! 🎉❤
I am so happy you're in love. You deserve this. Keep shining, Kelly! 🌸
Yassss I am all for this! 😂 I am a wife a stay at home mother and nurturer! I to was thinking about getting a corporate job, but honey the thought of it made me run away 😂😂 I love doing girly stuff and playing with children and animals
I so love your authenticity. ❤ it okay to be loved by another 😊
This is so real. I’m currently in nursing school (about to graduate 🥳) and I did meet someone who made me feel so feminine and he was a gentleman. I turned off my brain with him lol, but unfortunately he didn’t want a relationship and his reason was the fact he’s not where he wants to be in life and just wants to do more in life before he settles (he’s 25, I’m 21 btw), and it sucked we really liked each other, but I guess he just wasn’t the one for me ☹️. But I pray i eventually find someone who just makes me feel soft, loved, protected and provided for. While I love nursing I know it’s a hard job, and eventually want to do prn/part-time and not at a hospital and doing IV hydration/infusion or maybe even aesthetics (but Florida requires you to be a nurse practitioner 😢) I have no desire to go back and do my masters or become an entrepreneur.
I’m so happy for you! I’m an only child too… also with no family… so I can REALLY relate to that part of you. Other than you, I have never met another person in that situation. I was blessed enough to meet an awesome guy. We just celebrated our 15 year anniversary. He’s my world! There ARE great guys out there, and it sounds like you found one. I’ve been watching you for a number of years, and I’ve watched you change and grow. I just want you (and everyone!) to find their happiness. Thanks for sharing the message of love of God, Self, and Family. Hoping all your dreams come true. 💗
I am soooo happy for you, Kelly! Make sure you protect your peace annd your man's as well :-)
👏👏👏 don’t let other people try to dictate how you should be or live your life. You like what you like and go for what you want, point blank period! Congratulations on finding happiness! ❤
KELLY this video made me smile so hard. Love this for u truly
Love to see you Happy! I personally love being feminine, absolutely enjoy my days off, walking around bare feet in the grass and on sand at the beach. Smelling the beautiful flowers around me and simply enjoying the beautiful things in life but i also did realize that my partner and i live in a very expensive city (NYC) and we love it here so we wanna build a life here for ourselves. We wanna provide the best opportunities for our future children. And unfortunately, that will require making more money, though i hate working too hard i do need to advance in my career in order to make our dreams happen. I think if a woman is career oriented because there’s a greater goal in mind, something that involves the well being of others, thats admirable. Lol once i gain a more advanced degree which will take 3 years of very hard work, i will def slow down again. Its a short term sacrifice for long term benefits
Yes Kelly girl! Keep doing your thing!
This is my life (minus the man and funds…yet) and accepting it may be the hardest part. I’m so happy for you and excited to see you win.
I believe sometimes it’s hard to rest and femininity when you don’t have a man helping you through the rough patches. If you’re the type of woman that has to provide everything on her own, then I think it’s harder to rest in your femininity.
You’re in a beautiful space. 💜 cheers to more love, peace, and comfort!
Congratulations on your relationship and your life journey. God bless you.
I love this for you, I have just turned 30, and I have seen that society wants to you be man hating and alone and focused on work and consumerism.
I was saved a year ago, and I have slowed down and started living life, still with a full time job though. I want to find my husband and I won’t be lied to to be alone and sad in 10/20 years. I am putting myself out there and finding really quality friends and being setup on dates. It’s amazing seeing how working on your self finally pays off
Dammit Kelly when you said “I know that’s right. 4B!” And you pointed to your hair, I almost threw my phone! Hahahahahahha
so proud to be part of the 15% of males blessed by senpai stamps
Same bro , been watching since 2020
HULLO
I realized smarter not harder is going back to corprate for me instead of freelancing. the key is I don't have to find work in a full time job. think I had to quit corprate to realize things about myself and learn to not be emtionally attached to my job anymore. we go through phases we don't understand! So makes sense you felt like you needed to go to school for a second, I have freinds feeling that way too. And now I am more open to a man if the man wants to pay for me to stay home if we have a kind lmao.
You seem so excited / joyful , I'm so happy for you
So that's what the 4B movement is about...and here I thought it was referring to girlies with 4B kinky curls and I was like yes that's me! But never mind lol
LOL
KINKY CURLY
The 4b movement is a bit more nuanced. I'll try to explain to the best of my knowledge but I encourage you to look it up. Women in Korea were being abused/mistreated by their significant others. So in protest they are abstaining from men until their society does a better job of protecting them.
@@munchkin4887 Namani?😳😍
@@munchkin4887This. It has nothing to do with hating men.
Thank you so much for this video!
KEEP WINNING KELLY!
But yeah you're totally right, we're the same age and I've been following you for a few years now. The biggest difference between us is that I don't have an undergraduate degree, so I am on track to going back to school but I do not want to be a coorporate baddie at all, I just want to make enough money to treat myself to spa days and trips to Italy. Thank you for affirming that for me!
Kelly I am so happy for you girl you deserve it all!
LOOK at you beauties!!!! SO happy that you're happy, Love. 🥰
this title is everything and also I have just watched 10+ of your videos. glad to have joined the Stampede (bit late)
can't wait to meet the Mr.
God bless you guys!
keep us updated ❤
In a different life you and I had a happy family life together between a few flats around the globe, and a rustic farmhouse somewhere.
Thanks for speaking up for true femininity. It's refreshing to see! Your references of God are subtle, yet understood. You are IT girl💯
All women are truly feminine because it’s just who we are. Resting around and doing nothing isn’t “true femininity”. Very few women in history just sat around and rested. This is the actual toxic feminism everyone should be talking about.
You don´t do enough.
You are enough, Kelly.
Yes!!
Loved this video, Kelly! It's lovely to see you flourishing more and more with each and every video!! Would you consider making a video giving tips on how to become an influencer based on this new perspective (being feminine, prioritizing yourself, your family and home, etc.)? I'd love to know more about this topic and apply this to my life! Remain blessed, much love!! 💛
Kelly you have gained a happy weight I bet it's all that peace of mind you enjoying . So happy for you. You are such an inspiration ❤🎉
So happy and proud of you Kelly. Love from Brazil ☺️❤️🇧🇷
This video is pure clarity.
*NO MORE WORK!!* you’re doing enough everybody!!!❤❤
girl if i ever see you around miami i'm saying hi. so glad you're here & saying the things no one else wants to say lol
High key happy you chose not to go back to school. I dropped out of college after 2 years after realizing school wasn’t for me. I was doing well and only stayed that long because everything was free (bc of my scholarship), but now I run my own shop and now I’m free 😫🙌🏼. I can travel anywhere I want and now, my next goal is to settle down and live on a farm (or anywhere) with my future husband (God willing).
You just made me realize I've been using my lemon press wrong this whole time lol.....so funny and thank you lol!
I needed this video. I have been killing my self at my job. It’s the first job since I got my degree and honestly I just want to make a TH-cam page like you which I did after I saw your video on needing to start a TH-cam. I gave up after thinking I’d go no where and didn’t even give myself a shot and became a corporate sad overworked girly. Im gonna try again and this time really really give it a shot. So happy for you !!!
Also, happy you found love! I pray God will bless your relationship and keep you both. 🙏
It does feel amazing to be loved. Nothing else like it❤
"You are anti black" sent me through the roof 😭😭
Yayy! You go girl 🎉 . Keep making the best of life and love ❤❤❤. I enjoy your presence/vibe... I also hollered when you thought the 4b movement was about our hair 😂😂😂.
Not Gabby Douglas LOL 🤣
Kelly, I’ve been watching your content for a few years and honestly the shift is a little jarring sometimes to be honest😅 but I am so happy for you and happy that you are happy and finding what you are looking for and doing what’s right for you. I’m still learning from your old videos as much as I am from your new ❤ so proud of you 😊
Shouldn’t be jarring, I’m changing and adults go through changes all the time! (They just don’t broadcast their thoughts and wins and fails because they know that they will be judged for shifting)
@@KellyStampsGirl you met a dude and suddenly changed your mind about how you felt about working and getting more educated. Jarring is the most appropriate word anyone can choose to describe it.
We need right men. And right women. Right people. And that’s, period. ^^
Thanks Kells. I enjoy getting to know ur povs.take care.
We need. And we can be. We gotta.
I'm sooo happy for you! Yes girl yes!!
Hahahaha I change my mind all the time too so it's relatable
I'm a new character every few months. You're funny
I am genuinely happy for you! Keep winning!
Miami did you right out of all the cities! You look good hunni
I really needed this today 🥹🥹🥹
U GOT THIS
I love love 🥺 so happy for you and mr kelly stamps
Well girl… I love the male gaze but we do it for ourselves. Who cares we are feminine women and love being pampered. We don’t have to center them but we also don’t have to hate them.
Ahhh Kelly got her swirl on . Kelly is having a pasta and lobster Summer. Awesome ❤🎉😂