As a sister, I really appreciate sheikhs shedding light on these problems! In our communities this is real problem and shows how behaviours of people can cause so much harm in innocent peoples' lives. Subhan'Allah :-(. May Allah swt protect us from transgression and help us to attain good deeds and His forgiveness. Ameen
Tbh it could have been done in a much better way. So many female reverts to Islam and they will see this video and get disheartened. I expected better from the sheikh
We really needed this lecture shaykh. Women these days are the reason why other women are isolated. You're either in their clique or you're not. Astaghfirullah may Allah make us of the pious women of Jannah ameen. May Allah reward you with the fruits of Jannatul Firdaws ameen
Wallahi this is something we need to talk more. jazak’Allahu khairun tor ustadh abdur rahman Hasan. Please do more videos on this issue. Divorce is the biggest threat to the ummah.
You should talk more about these men going to Misjad at the same time ruining their kids and wife life at home because they aren’t satisfied with one woman.
@@ItsFran. Have to immediately turn it into gender war issues don't you, typical feminist tropes, deal with your issues first and what the talk is about specifically before point fingers at men when there's 3 pointing back at you, brother's are not betraying their families by being ideological feminists and making western government kaafir leaders their wali instead of their husbands or fathers. Many of you deliberately plan and plot against your husband's and father's and their status that Allaah gave them in Islam and are quick to wreck their homes deliberately and go to family courts and demonise, insult and belittle Islam to impress the kuffar so you can play the 'domestic abuse' card to intentionally abduct Muslim fathers children by slandering them and accusing them of matters that are from our religion and calling them 'controlling, abuse' etc go and sort out your feminist 'sister's first because it is the women destroying their homes like nobody else in the West. This is a major epidemic with the so called 'sisters' that amongst yourselves need to urgently deal with but no rather you encourage and support those who wreck their homes over lies and believe them blindly without any verification or referring it to the right people to deal with such marital matters with knowledge, no instead you all involve yourselves in her marriage and wreck her home and sit back as if you have not harmed Islam and the Muslim community whilst hiding your feminism behind a hijaab. Why do we need enemies to harm us when what is happening amongst the women is worse than what the non-Muslims can do to us in deliberately wrecking their marriages and homes for the most foolish social media influenced reasons and allying with the enemies of Islam despite what Allaah has told you about them but you will ally with them against Muslim fathers whilst falsely playing the victim and destroy your own children so you can get some universal credits from the kuffaar and to bring your new 'boyfriends' around the children and become more westernised and un-islamic. No, go and sort out the your own first, men will deal with the men but the men are not the greatest danger to the Muslim community in the west and that's for damn sure the case, the 'sisters' are quick to ally with the disbelievers at the click of a finger against all aspects of Islam in the West it is undeniably the women who are ripping apart the Muslim community due to various satanic influences they love to follow especially from so called 'sisters advices' and social media...💯
@@thecultarchives3440 stop generalising all women. nobody is encouraging the bad people. It is not gender wars both muslim women and muslim men must be held accountable for the issues in muslim societies all around the world not just in the west. It is supposed to be teamwork for both genders to make the world better.
Wallah these topics are so important. I am a very private person and I myself do not ask unnecessary questions so when I get asked such questions I get extremely uncomfortable. Ajeeb that everyone wants to know everything.
Dear sister I totally relate to what you're saying! With years I have learned to either give the intruders a blank look, not answer the questions, give a smile or simply say «That's personal or even I'm not that close to you so I don't feel it necessary to have a conversation about it». Yes, Some people want to know it all... Healthy boundaries are essential! Yet, I'ud add that some people genuinely care and are sincere... That's why they may ask... They are the kinds to sincerely wish well for someone and even count you in their du'as. As humans I guess we feel who are genuine and who are not. May Allah bless us all with good people in our life. Ameen. 🤲
17:03 Salam this is so true about free mixing outside the masjid. Subhanallah I loved this particular big masjid but seeing the gossiping and skipping tarawah to freemix during salah. Alhamdulilah now my family and I moved and go to relatively small local masjid where the environment was only to worship Allah there’s no time to gossip and there’s a protocol where women leave first and separate exit. Alhamdulilah I’m so happy now it’s peaceful.
Jazakallah Khair, thank you for this reminder and identifying the main culprits - the aunties 😅. I'm a revert. Many new Muslims avoid masajids because of this sort of gossiping, interfering and nosey-parker behaviour from some of the senior aunties. They also shout and abuse their privileges, e.g. insisting younger sisters move away from a front row prayer place because they want to occupy it even though they come after terawih started. Very few young sisters behave like this. The young sisters seem to have a better understanding of the Deen compared to some of the senior aunties who behave like the mafia in the Masjid!
Hahahaha mafia aunties in the masjid 😅 Their intention is usually good, but the ignorance and even racism 😢 There’s one particular Aunty Who’s always talking during taraweh to those who are praying . She’s so loud and acts like a mafia!
I think this is universal to be honest. Some of my most horrible experiences since being Muslim, has been from the ill mannered older Aunties. They are something else honestly and have a superiority complex about them. May Allah guide us all, and help us not to grow into the old Aunty's that can cause havoc in their masaajid and communities. They're an unspoken about fitnah if we're being honest, and it needs to be addressed.
So true. It over three years now I haven't prayed in the masjid. The last time I went with my 1 year daughter and the aunties asked me to pray outside because of my kid. I sat outside and you can't hear the khutubah of jummah and the aunty next to me was busy talking to me about how I can lend her my dress so that she can take it to her tailor to get a similar style. I tried so hard not to respond but it was impossible. Since that day I never had the zeal to be at any masjid
Someone spread rumors about me in a town I used to live in and those rumors followed me all the way to another town in another state. Someone actually came up to me and said, "I know what you did." I said, "What did I do?" She wouldn't tell me, but I was shunned by several people. The woman who did whatever she did had the same profession as I and that's how they got the idea it was me. I was shocked, because as a revert, I really believed that Muslims were better people. I found out differently and now I keep to myself and have no Muslim friends.
It may not feel like it but Allah has blessed you. When people backbite and gossip about you, on the day of Judgement you will be given some of their good deeds based on what they have said. If they do not have any good deeds- Allah will give them your bad deeds. May Allah remove any pain from your heart and grant you peace and a strengthen imaan. May Allah remove any loneliness from your heart and replace it with loyal friends who guide you to the right path and May Allah change the hearts of those who lied about you and make them repent.
This is very true. Must needed reminder before Ramadan . Last year Ramadan I went to pray taraweeh prayer and there were 4 girls next to me laughing so much during salah… Very disturbing and sad
This why I believe women are told to pray at home to avoid these types of sins Absolutely avoid the masjid like the plague because of narcissistic nosey women they’re the reason many youth left islam
This kind of incidents are very common in Somali community. When a wife is brought to the west by husband, some auntie come to see the sister, and they interrogate the sister and tell her about the money the government gives and she needs to have her own bank card etc, then the sister asks the husband about money etc then conflict starts from there and it leads to divorce. May Allah Azza wa jalla protect the Muslim families.
They need to just mind their business and keep their mouth shut but it seems like a lot pple can’t keep their mouth shut cuz they like drama And destroy Families with their tongue like the shiekh said Also I think It says alot about their husbands cuz They should be telling their wives To mind their business, Also idk if Somalis r the only pple who do this it’s possible it exists in other Muslim communities but My comment nd ur comment only concerns somali pple since I’m somali my self We should All try to control our tongues since it’s dangerous weapon and can cause allot of fitnah Insha Allah and Allah Knows best .
Stop 🛑 it is in every community. May be you are somali and you have been around these fraudulent people and now think all somali community is like this.
@@wm9669 I know it's in every community but since I am from Somali I hear about such incidents, of course there are in other communities too, but I don't know about them since I don't belong there. I have never been around such people but this incidents is common in Somali community since many families moved to the west due to different reasons, since its a social society the relatives from family and even clan they come to visit the family which arrived from somalia, so here is where the wife is asked questions and given ideas since she's is new, so if the wife is smart she will dismiss there advice and trust her husband, but if she's not then such problems can happen. May Allah Azza wa jalla protect the Muslim families.
I totally agree with the sister she is talking about something in her own it's not her business about other community Plus, it's true a lot of people coming they get to be your migration advisor and also your family breakers
I wouldn't get involved in someone's marriage/ask questions about their finance but I'm confused as to why it would be bad for a sister to give financial advice to another sister with good intentions just to help her if it's brought up by that sister in conversation, with the intent to just help her family financially/practically and not to destroy the marriage? If someone asked me about it, I would tell them some ways to make their financial lives easier depending on the country they're in and laws they have but why would this knowledge destroy a marriage? I'm confused on why a husband wouldn't want his wife to know about any money the government could give to help her and her family (for example child benefit) if the couple doesn't already have it? Why is that an issue? If someone asks me about it sure I will advise but only if they ask me. Obviously, people overstepping and getting involved when no-one asked is not correct or polite but advising each other with good intentions if someone asks isn't bad if it improves financial literacy in the muslim community. Why would the husband not want the wife to know unless he either just has serious trust issues or is taking advantage of her or financially abusing her? Maybe he should question why he doesn't trust his wife enough to have just a basic discussion about finances when it should be normal? Sorry but the husband not wanting her to know and divorcing her without any discussion just due to her asking him about it is a bad sign to me in this story. He should not have divorced but could have easily talked and reasoned with her when they both calmed down, and they could have simply discussed it with each other. Conflict resolution should be the first step in a marriage not divorce for a petty reason. Also keeping the wife ignorant about financial literacy in a family is not wise at all, especially if they have children together. Allah forbid something happens to the husband and the wife has to handle their financial affairs, what would happen to the family if the wife is kept ignorant? It could cause financial problems for the family so it's best for a couple to be open about finances with each other and it is beneficial for both the man and woman to have knowledge in that area for their family. They can decide who is taking care of it, whether it is the husband who deals with it only or whether it's both of them or whether it's just the wife dealing. No matter who is dealing with the finances, there should be honesty and clear communication about it.
A tip for the sisters. When you go to the masjid take the quraan or an other book with you. If someone wants to talk or ask questions, smile at them and show your book... In other words; im sorry im gonna reas now. It always helpes me to keep nosy people away. Keep doing this till the moment you become known as 'the woman who wants to read.." And if they keep asking let your standard answer be Khayr in sha Allaah and smile.
Perfect topic just before Ramadan, myself being a women I can't tell how much I hate n number of questions by sisters which are just of zero use except they put ayn and hate and harm others. For two minutes of Salaam they want to know whole biography. That i why I chose to be alone no matter how many sisters I see outside, I just say Salaam and answer no questions.
So true. I've been feeling left out seeing so many sisters talk in the Masjid. Alhamdullilah, at least by not talking we're not engaging in idle talk and not disturbing others during prayer.
And this is why I stay at home. Alhamdullilah Allah(swt) knows and so do I. When your not able to uncover to make wudu, then it is time to seek refuge with Allah(swt) and take your goat to the mountain. Alhamdullilah
As a brother, i actually learned something, Especially in the 2nd half of the video and it's only about making mistakes in the prayer and subhnallah I wasn't aware on some ruling related to it, i add this in my prayer playlist Jazakallah khair ustad
Assalamu Alyakum. This issue I was mentioning to my Bangladeshi community for some years. Because a political group was encouraging sisters to come to Masjid. My argument is people getting degree online nowadays. So, women can get knowledge online. Now another issue I face how to find a islamic wife for my sons. I raised my sons with Islamic values. Now don't find any wife! They finished their university without intermingled with Femail students. I was interested in revart Muslims or, Muslims from Gazza. But how to find them? To raise a Islamic family someone need a good wife.
Jazzakallahu Khairan Khatheeran Ustadh for talking about these issues because it is vital to our progression as Allah SWT servant and as an Ummah at large
The home is best for women stay home Masha Allah . Women get more rewards praying in her bedroom than the masjid 😊. Our blessings is in the home Alhumdullilah 😊😊😊😊
If only the the phone line could be cut off too this month As soon as iftars over it’s hrs spent on the phone finding out ppls business and lives especially social media addicts
SubhaanAllah what a needed video. May Allah bless the whole AMAU team and may He ﷻ put barakah to your work. May Allah accept it from you and may He ﷻ add it to your scale of good deeds. Allaahumma Aamiin.
@@HMD1986- Many Muslim men focus on beauty and a cheerful personality, even if she is liberal and does not actually practice her religion, but she wants a traditional marriage and the benefits that follow whit it , but she remains liberal in her mentality. If a man sees a woman who is committed and practices her religion, he thinks that she is boring and not worthy of him, so he makes the other choice. Then he falls right on his face , so men are responsible for there bad choice too , they should marry the practicing Muslimhas just like I'm planning incha Allah
you too must be a feminist muslim, saying him stupid shows your upbringing and how much you knows about deen, and why are you here instead of liberal imam who'd allow free mixing? marriage is hard because of muslim feminist who wants 6 ft tall guy who's gonna buy a separate house for her, gives hundreds of thousands of dollars as mehr, and prepare dishes n so on, still won't listen to him.
Allahu akbar. Many sisters use the hadith 'Do not forbid the women from going to the masjid' as an excuse to use the masjid as a place for all their fitna but look at the difference between that which is only just barely a permission - to the command of Allah to 'Stay in your houses' and the hadith that a woman's prayer in the house is better than outside. Clearly in almost all cases it is better for women to be in our houses
I was about to marry a sister who reverted... She met some sisters at the masjid and after sometime of she realized how bad their hearts were and left ISLAM. They would judge and gossip so much that she left ISLAM
i meed clarify aroud 1:19:00- can we not hold a mushaf at night prayers?. Especially since majority of Muslims aren't hafidhs. Do we just repeat the same surahs fwe memorized for tarawih the whole Ramadan?
Best to pray behind an Imam, masjid for night prayers in Ramadhan. But if you do pray on your own for some reason, sometimes within Ramadhan, then recite what you know and memorized. But if you have, some scholars have allowed reading from the mushaf whilst in Salah, how do you hold the mushaf , whilst standing in Salah, both hands or on hand? As our hands have to be on our chest, or above navel
@@AbuMoosaa Jazakh'Allah khair, I had to really look around to find an answer from the scholars... I have found that the great scholars of Islam, Sheikh Uthaymeen, Ibn Baaz and Al Bani (May Allah be pleased with them) have said it's not Sunnah to hold mushaf when standing behind the imam and one should listen. However, if someone is praying tarawih alone at home and haven't memorized enough, it is permissable. Sheikh Assim Hakim answered it..he said it's permissible. Sheikh Ibn Baaz said "there is no harm or sin for a believer to read from the mushaf for the night prayer...." Since not all Muslims have memorized long chapters in the Qur'an. All in all, The Hanbali, Maliki, Shafi'i has said it's permissable in nafl/ night prayers. And Hanafis say it's not permissable. And Allah knows best. Still researching....
Aisha used to pray behind her slave who wasn't hafidh and who was reading from the mushaf. The scholars have said it is no issue for the nawaafil prayers but a matter of disagreement for the faraaidh.
Waxaa isoo xusuusisay ustaad shicirkii imaam shaafic رحمه الله احفظ لسانك ايها الانسان لا يلدغنك انه ثعبان فكم في المقابر من قتيل لسانه كانت تهاب لقاءه الاقران نسال الله السلامه والعافيه
I think we can add to this the brothers who come with over full stomachs from iftar and start burping all over the place, and the brothers who cough burp or sneez in Salah without covering their mouths, throws off the khushu3 completely
I heard a similar story yesterday of an immigrant sister from Sudan receiving public assistance (housing, medical and food) who was scammed by another immigrant man who tried to exploit her. The women in her circle gave her very bad advice that put her and her four children in danger. Rather than telling the woman to immediately stop communicating with the man, they listened to a terrible story that should not have been repeated and spread it to others. When I hear such stories it reminds me of two haddith, the one about the inhabitants of jahanam and the one about women being deficient in their intellect. The shaitan enters into many households by the tongues of gossipers, audhzbillah.
What are you talking about? All the first generation sahaba they slaughtered each other this is a disease that have been in your society. Hypocrisy, backbiting what do you expect? The disease was long time ago no love no peace
bad manners and bad character starts at home, so these people who behave that way in the mosque can't fake being a good person. yes some of these sisters are brutial ,especially to reverts!
Great advice for both brothers and sisters, barakallahu feek. Regarding 1:04:50 there is a hadith that mentions that the best rows for women are the back rows (Muslim 440a). Is there some proof against or clarification for this hadith that I don't know about?
Im in Nairobi atm at a big somali masjid. When its time to stand for prayer all you hear is women side gossing so loud the men side have to tap the walls for them to keep it down. Just fitnah. The old grandmas specially
Brother I’m in Amsterdam, the Netherlands and it’s the same issue here. I am avoiding the masjid at this point because I truly feel ashamed by our sisters and their behavior Subhan’Allah
Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked: Is it permissible to respond to the adhaan that comes from a radio or TV? He replied: If that is at the time of prayer then it is prescribed to respond to it, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When you hear the muezzin then say what he says, then send blessings upon me, for whoever sends one blessing upon me, Allaah will send ten blessings upon him in return, then ask Allaah to grant me al-waseelah, which is a position in Paradise that will be granted to only one slave of Allaah, and I hope that I will be the one, then intercession will be granted to him.” Narrated by Muslim in his Saheeh. And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever says when he hears the call to prayer, ‘Allaahummah Rabba haadhihi’l-da’wat il-taammah wa’l-salaat il-qaa’imah, aati Muhammadan al-waseelata wa’l-fadeelah, wab’athhu maqaaman mahmoodan alladhi wa’adtahu (O Allaah, Lord of this perfect Call and the Prayer to be offered, grant Muhammad the privilege and also the eminence, and resurrect him to the praised position that You have promised), will be granted my intercession on the Day of Resurrection.”Narrated by al-Bukhaari in his Saheeh. Al-Bayhaqi added with a hasan isnaad after the words “that You have promised” “innaka laa tukhlif al-mee’aad (You do not break Your promise).” End quote. Majmoo’ Fataawa Ibn Baaz (10/363). And Allaah knows best.
👌 Assalamu alaykum. I do not understand all the complaining subhanAllah. Ustadh is doing exactly what SallAllahu Allayhi Wassallam did which is remind man, woman and child. We should accept the haqq as reminders benefit the believers Alhamdullilah
Those women definitely shouldn’t have been nosey and should be told by their husbands or fathers or brothers but a wife asking this question to her husband and him not managing his anger, knowing how Allah has made women, is the problem. He’s the reason the marriage failed. Life will always throw fitna at you through your wives and children and society and if you are quick to anger then you are the problem not the shaitan around you. Weak brothers need to fear Allah and speak better especially when he knows his wife is new and doesn’t understand. He could have just explained. Communication is so important. Asking a question doesn’t mean she doesn’t trust him at all subhanallah May Allah help him to be more patient. All these sisters with these issues need to be taught better by our leaders. By the men. The fathers and husbands and brothers should manage their families better and stop allowing so much haram.
Assalamualaikum my sisters and brothers in Islam, I have evil shaytaans Jinns in my body who are destroying my health and attacking my body, I'm very sick because of these evil shayteen Jinns, shayteen Jinn and evil shayteen Jinns with me destroying my body and oppressing me. These evil shaytaans have destroyed my whole life, so PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH MAKES DUAA FOR ME AND PLEASE DO TAHAJJAD FOR ME... "My name is Gul MY DATE OF BIRTH 21/12/1978" PLEASE ASK ALLAH SWT TO REMOVE ALL JINNS FROM ME AND MY SON PLEASE!. Make Duaa for me and my son only for the sake of Allah swt. Please... I'm not ASK nothing from you but Duaa only for the sake of Allah swt. Please Please Please make lots of DUAA for me, I beg you! In you're salah please make duaa for me!.
I don’t agree. As a woman I believe the man is right. She has been swayed so quick to almost attack her husband by the words of other people in a masjid of all places. How easy will she be swayed for years to come? And to what extent? Some people cannot handle being in the west and this sister is an example of that
I believe those shameful brother and sister that destroy families without an ounce of regret they have been too far from death or salat janaza. from time to time they should go visit the morgue to remember where they will end and that they will return to Allah with their actions. Some women are really perverse, real snakes with their intention and not only in masjid, but in families... May Allah keep us away from such people and such behaviors
@@JewelsLaPerlei know it’s frustrating for you sister, but try your best not to backbite. may Allah reward your patience in this difficult situation and allow you to marry the best man for you. ameen💕
@@JewelsLaPerle Allah is the ALL KNOWING, Allah is aware of what people do. Remember that anything that happen in life happens only with the will of Allah and anything that doesnt happen it is the will of Allah. Be close to Allah, tell him your difficulties and what you need, Allah respond to the one that call Him. Make your tawheed stronger by learning how to worship Allah properly and Who is Allah with his names and His attributes. Learn the religion and make the quran your companion because it will help you in this dunya and it will help you in the akhirah to gain jannah. Allah created us to worship HIM alone. Remember marriage, money, children.. is a rizq and it is written. Place all your hopes in Allah the one that can say Be and it will be ! May Allah ease your pain my sister and grant you beneficial knowledge and grant you good friends that you will enter jannah with. And may Allah grant you a good spouse, the one that follows the quran and the sunnah. Ramadan Kareem
@@JewelsLaPerle Allah is the All Knowing; Anything that happen it happens by His will and anything that doesnt happen it is by the will of Allah.Allah is aware of the oppresor, liars... dont worry they will be punished by Him. Allah is just and severe in punishment. Put your trust on Allah for all your affairs, rely only on Allah. Ask Allah, tell him your difficulties and what you want Allah answers his slaves. Learn how to make duaa, learn and make stronger your tawheed to understand how anything in our life is under Allah will and we are only slaves that will go back to our Creator. Make the quran your companion it will help you to distinguish the good and the bad in this life and it will help you to enter Jannah. Allah created us for one purpose : our ibadah to Allah. Money, children, marriage ... is a rizq that can ONLY be granted by Allah. Rely on him in your affairs, All of them. For the wrongdoers, dont worry Allah is aware of what they do. Focus in your ibadah and Allah will reward the people of sabr. May Allah protect you, grant you good friends that you will meet in Jannah and may Allah grant you a pious husband according the quran and the sunnah. Ramadan Kareem
@JewelsRoyale Allah is the All Knowing; Anything that happen it happens by His will and anything that doesnt happen it is by the will of Allah.Allah is aware of the oppresor, liars... dont worry they will be punished by Him. Allah is just and severe in punishment. Put your trust on Allah for all your affairs, rely only on Allah. Ask Allah, tell him your difficulties and what you want Allah answers his slaves. Learn how to make duaa, learn and make stronger your tawheed to understand how anything in our life is under Allah will and we are only slaves that will go back to our Creator. Make the quran your companion it will help you to distinguish the good and the bad in this life and it will help you to enter Jannah. Allah created us for one purpose : our ibadah to Allah. Money, children, marriage ... is a rizq that can ONLY be granted by Allah. Rely on him in your affairs, All of them. For the wrongdoers, dont worry Allah is aware of what they do. Focus in your ibadah and Allah will reward the people of sabr. May Allah protect you, grant you good friends that you will meet in Jannah and may Allah grant you a pious husband according the quran and the sunnah. Ramadan Kareem
@@JewelsLaPerle @JewelsRoyale Allah is the All Knowing; Anything that happen it happens by His will and anything that doesnt happen it is by the will of Allah.Allah is aware of the oppresor, liars... dont worry they will be punished by Him. Allah is just and severe in punishment. Put your trust on Allah for all your affairs, rely only on Allah. Ask Allah, tell him your difficulties and what you want Allah answers his slaves. Learn how to make duaa, learn and make stronger your tawheed to understand how anything in our life is under Allah will and we are only slaves that will go back to our Creator. Make the quran your companion it will help you to distinguish the good and the bad in this life and it will help you to enter Jannah. Allah created us for one purpose : our ibadah to Allah. Money, children, marriage ... is a rizq that can ONLY be granted by Allah. Rely on him in your affairs, All of them. For the wrongdoers, dont worry Allah is aware of what they do. Focus in your ibadah and Allah will reward the people of sabr. May Allah protect you, grant you good friends that you will meet in Jannah and may Allah grant you a pious husband according the quran and the sunnah. Ramadan Kareem🙌
They were interfering but perhaps meant well,likely ignorant at best and nosey at worse.But he was harsh and that can’t be denied.Especially if she was young and ignorant.Its not worth losing his whole family and a sister he displaced.May Allah forgive her and give her and her children that which is better and protect us all from the interference of people.
One thing i see so much. We get ao many videos, youtubers who do dawah about what woman do bad and how sad men are. When woman say i get hurt when my man wants to marry another woman. The woman gets a simple... It is his right. You have to accept. As if she is not allowed to feel sad. But men are always allowed to be sad. And it is always the womans fault for him to be sad. Why be hurt if your wife says something about your income? Just be a man and tell her that is all I have. Why care about it? 😊 I understand this video is about homewrecking. It comes in different ways
The first wife of Ismaeel عليه السلام complained about the income and his father Ibrahim عليه السلام told him to divorcee her. Nd then he did. Comparing a man's right to another wife to a wife being provided for. All bevquse what u say is gonna "hurt there feelings" Has never been a islamic principle. The man's right is another wife. The woman's right is ro be provided for regarding home, shelter, and food. You compmaining for him to have more money so he can spend on u more. Is not ur right. Because he's already fulfilling ur right
Assalamualaikum my sisters and brothers in Islam, I have evil shaytaans Jinns in my body who are destroying my health and attacking my body, I'm very sick because of these evil shayteen Jinns, shayteen Jinn and evil shayteen Jinns with me destroying my body and oppressing me. These evil shaytaans have destroyed my whole life, so PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH MAKES DUAA FOR ME AND PLEASE DO TAHAJJAD FOR ME... "My name is Gul MY DATE OF BIRTH 21/12/1978" PLEASE ASK ALLAH SWT TO REMOVE ALL JINNS FROM ME AND MY SON PLEASE!. Make Duaa for me and my son only for the sake of Allah swt. Please... I'm not ASK nothing from you but Duaa only for the sake of Allah swt. Please Please Please make lots of DUAA for me, I beg you! In you're salah please make duaa for me!.
The issue of mixity normalised by the Somali culture has huge consequences like rape within the family members, uncles left alone with young girls. This need to end!
Two women dropped sihr on my legs in the masjid and i couldn't walk for a whole year just so they can stop me coming to the masjid. They sit there guarding the women's area and make problems for everyone. In the other masjid i was bullied and a lady threaten to kill me just because i didn't want to discuss personal information. Another lady stood in the masjid giving curses to me because she thought i wasn't wearing cloths like her. The ones running the masjid are visiting the magicians. I havn't gone back to the masjid in many years
@@SinaAla like it or not, Myron & Andrew Tate are representing Islam in the Redpill community and Muslim men are more afraid of other men than Allah (swt)
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله انا لا أحبب قواك أنه لا يجب على الأولاد الذهاب للمسجد ، لو لم نذهب بهم و هم صغارا فمتى ناخد عندنا يكبرون و يرفضون الذهاب إليه . نعم نعلمهم و نريبهم على احترام المسجد و توقيره. بارك الله فيكم
1:45:34 Assalaamu Alaikum. Is the Imam’s salaam after tashahhud one or two actions to follow? (1) One Action - Wait for the Imam to finish giving salaam to the right and left, then immediately follow, or (2)Two Actions - Give salaam to the right immediately after the Imam, then to the left immediately after the Imam. I appreciate the detailed topics preparing us to maintain taqwa in Ramadan and beyond. May Allah SWT reward this team for spreading beneficial knowledge and the viewers for seeking beneficial knowledge. Ameen.
Sorry wait. If the sister was actually entitled to money why did he not give it to her? And why is the problem the people who told her she should look into that as opposed to the man who divorced his wife for such a minor reason. A man divorced his wife due to a minor argument but somehow it’s meant to be the women’s fault?
The brother didn’t blame the wife, he blamed the meddling women in the masjid? It was not a minor argument, they made her call him and interrogate him in front if them subhannallah
Is it wrong to go to the masjid to get married? Not mixing but trying to find a spouse in a halal way? If not how do I go about trying to marry because my father is an older man he isn’t able to go out to find me a mate?
Assalamu Alaikum sister, my humble opinion would be that you try speaking to the sisters if not try Emailing the Imam of the masjid if not able to then try speaking to him in a way that wont cause fitna of course, for example approaching him when hes surround by other men wouldn't be smart. Also there are telegram channels that do marriage services in a halal way, where you write your profile age, height, about you, what you're looking for etc.. and it's all in a halal way as the admins are in control and no one can get through to you without the admins speaking to YOU first to get your permission to give them your mahrams number/Email if you like their profile aswell. Avoid standing in parking lots and try to catch the attention of men etc.. like the sheikh mentions. May Allah reward you for your efforts, keep you firm and grant you the best of husbands. Ameen
I can’t speak for the Uk but minnesota masjids are pretty segregated and they all have separate doors and curtains so men and women don’t see eachother
freemixing still takes place in segregated masajid. it happens in the common areas like the lobby, hallways, empty offices/classrooms, and parking lots.
I’m in the UK and it varies, even some of the masaajid upon bid’ah maintain segregation because the fitnah is well known. May Allaah keep us firm upon the haqq
(correct timestamp 1:47:00 and topic starts at 1:46:00) The ustadh is saying, if you leave the Takbiratul Intiqaal تكبيرة الانتقال ، (the Allahu Akbar said when switching positions), out of *Forgetfulness* then, scholars say (eg Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal) that you should do what's called the "Sujood of Forgetfulness", "Sujud Al Sahw" سجود السهو These are actually two Sujoods done at the end of a prayer when a very important part of the prayer is left out of Forgetfulness, however only when the part is not crucial to the validity of the prayer (not a "rukn". If the part was essential you'd have to redo the entire rak'a). To do Sujud Al Sahw, the most common way is to do your tashahhud+salatul ibrahimia at the end of your prayer, but then rather than saying assalam aleikum, you say allahu Akbar, do Sujud, then allahu Akbar and sit, then allahuakbar another Sujud, then allahu Akbar, sit and then say your salams (basically two extra sujuds). And he goes on to mention, if you are praying behind an Imam, you don't need to do the Sujud Al sahw because you just follow the imam (unless he does it of course). And Allah knows best and may Allah forgive me for errors.
Parents household during Ramadan is one big Iftar feast gossip fest Entitled elders siblings demand banquet iftar parties the whole time greed gluttony backbiting gossip month Delay to pray taraweeh or pray short prays Absolutely depressed during this holy month Selfishness entitlement ignorance They fast to eat show off then cry why tehre children leave Islam
@@JewelsLaPerleplease pray for me I’m in desperate need of my own home asap I can’t afford to go to madinah saved juts enough to be able to afford rent somewhere
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As a sister, I really appreciate sheikhs shedding light on these problems! In our communities this is real problem and shows how behaviours of people can cause so much harm in innocent peoples' lives. Subhan'Allah :-(. May Allah swt protect us from transgression and help us to attain good deeds and His forgiveness. Ameen
Allahuma Ameen
Allahuma Baarik. Allahuma Amiin
@@resoluterockExactly
@@resoluterock to give them advice is best way لان الدين نصيحه
Tbh it could have been done in a much better way. So many female reverts to Islam and they will see this video and get disheartened. I expected better from the sheikh
We really needed this lecture shaykh. Women these days are the reason why other women are isolated. You're either in their clique or you're not. Astaghfirullah may Allah make us of the pious women of Jannah ameen. May Allah reward you with the fruits of Jannatul Firdaws ameen
Wallahi this is something we need to talk more. jazak’Allahu khairun tor ustadh abdur rahman Hasan. Please do more videos on this issue. Divorce is the biggest threat to the ummah.
You should talk more about these men going to Misjad at the same time ruining their kids and wife life at home because they aren’t satisfied with one woman.
@@ItsFran.exactly
@@ItsFran. Have to immediately turn it into gender war issues don't you, typical feminist tropes, deal with your issues first and what the talk is about specifically before point fingers at men when there's 3 pointing back at you, brother's are not betraying their families by being ideological feminists and making western government kaafir leaders their wali instead of their husbands or fathers.
Many of you deliberately plan and plot against your husband's and father's and their status that Allaah gave them in Islam and are quick to wreck their homes deliberately and go to family courts and demonise, insult and belittle Islam to impress the kuffar so you can play the 'domestic abuse' card to intentionally abduct Muslim fathers children by slandering them and accusing them of matters that are from our religion and calling them 'controlling, abuse' etc go and sort out your feminist 'sister's first because it is the women destroying their homes like nobody else in the West.
This is a major epidemic with the so called 'sisters' that amongst yourselves need to urgently deal with but no rather you encourage and support those who wreck their homes over lies and believe them blindly without any verification or referring it to the right people to deal with such marital matters with knowledge, no instead you all involve yourselves in her marriage and wreck her home and sit back as if you have not harmed Islam and the Muslim community whilst hiding your feminism behind a hijaab.
Why do we need enemies to harm us when what is happening amongst the women is worse than what the non-Muslims can do to us in deliberately wrecking their marriages and homes for the most foolish social media influenced reasons and allying with the enemies of Islam despite what Allaah has told you about them but you will ally with them against Muslim fathers whilst falsely playing the victim and destroy your own children so you can get some universal credits from the kuffaar and to bring your new 'boyfriends' around the children and become more westernised and un-islamic.
No, go and sort out the your own first, men will deal with the men but the men are not the greatest danger to the Muslim community in the west and that's for damn sure the case, the 'sisters' are quick to ally with the disbelievers at the click of a finger against all aspects of Islam in the West it is undeniably the women who are ripping apart the Muslim community due to various satanic influences they love to follow especially from so called 'sisters advices' and social media...💯
Your bitter truth podcast is haraam. It is Ramadan brother. Fear Allah and stop it. You have become so changed from your older days...
@@thecultarchives3440 stop generalising all women. nobody is encouraging the bad people. It is not gender wars both muslim women and muslim men must be held accountable for the issues in muslim societies all around the world not just in the west. It is supposed to be teamwork for both genders to make the world better.
Wallah these topics are so important. I am a very private person and I myself do not ask unnecessary questions so when I get asked such questions I get extremely uncomfortable. Ajeeb that everyone wants to know everything.
Dear sister I totally relate to what you're saying! With years I have learned to either give the intruders a blank look, not answer the questions, give a smile or simply say «That's personal or even I'm not that close to you so I don't feel it necessary to have a conversation about it». Yes, Some people want to know it all... Healthy boundaries are essential! Yet, I'ud add that some people genuinely care and are sincere... That's why they may ask... They are the kinds to sincerely wish well for someone and even count you in their du'as. As humans I guess we feel who are genuine and who are not. May Allah bless us all with good people in our life. Ameen. 🤲
@@زَيْنَبعبدالله-ه2سAmeen.
May Allah increase us in beneficial knowledge and righteous actions.
Aameen
The thumbnail and chapter names are super creative to be honest 😅
I had look because of this comment.😂
"Nosy aunty" "concerned sister" "786" Red flags right there lol!
Chanel NO:5, Chatter box in the masjid😂
17:03 Salam this is so true about free mixing outside the masjid. Subhanallah I loved this particular big masjid but seeing the gossiping and skipping tarawah to freemix during salah. Alhamdulilah now my family and I moved and go to relatively small local masjid where the environment was only to worship Allah there’s no time to gossip and there’s a protocol where women leave first and separate exit. Alhamdulilah I’m so happy now it’s peaceful.
Subhannallah, people think that not eating food is the struggle of Ramadan and their lives...it is the TONGUE that will burn you and needs change.
PREACH!!! SubhanAllah!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Jazakallah Khair, thank you for this reminder and identifying the main culprits - the aunties 😅. I'm a revert. Many new Muslims avoid masajids because of this sort of gossiping, interfering and nosey-parker behaviour from some of the senior aunties. They also shout and abuse their privileges, e.g. insisting younger sisters move away from a front row prayer place because they want to occupy it even though they come after terawih started. Very few young sisters behave like this. The young sisters seem to have a better understanding of the Deen compared to some of the senior aunties who behave like the mafia in the Masjid!
Hahahaha mafia aunties in the masjid 😅
Their intention is usually good, but the ignorance and even racism 😢
There’s one particular Aunty Who’s always talking during taraweh to those who are praying . She’s so loud and acts like a mafia!
I think this is universal to be honest. Some of my most horrible experiences since being Muslim, has been from the ill mannered older Aunties. They are something else honestly and have a superiority complex about them. May Allah guide us all, and help us not to grow into the old Aunty's that can cause havoc in their masaajid and communities. They're an unspoken about fitnah if we're being honest, and it needs to be addressed.
So true. It over three years now I haven't prayed in the masjid. The last time I went with my 1 year daughter and the aunties asked me to pray outside because of my kid. I sat outside and you can't hear the khutubah of jummah and the aunty next to me was busy talking to me about how I can lend her my dress so that she can take it to her tailor to get a similar style. I tried so hard not to respond but it was impossible. Since that day I never had the zeal to be at any masjid
Someone spread rumors about me in a town I used to live in and those rumors followed me all the way to another town in another state. Someone actually came up to me and said, "I know what you did." I said, "What did I do?" She wouldn't tell me, but I was shunned by several people. The woman who did whatever she did had the same profession as I and that's how they got the idea it was me. I was shocked, because as a revert, I really believed that Muslims were better people. I found out differently and now I keep to myself and have no Muslim friends.
May Allaah bless u with righteous companions and remove slander/harm from u and ur name ❤
May Allah make it easy for you my dear sister.🌻♥️
There’s always some pple that don’t represent Muslims well but Insha Allah you’ll meet better muslim friends .
Make us your friend, internet is also filled up with good people if you look up at the right people ❤🙃
It may not feel like it but Allah has blessed you. When people backbite and gossip about you, on the day of Judgement you will be given some of their good deeds based on what they have said. If they do not have any good deeds- Allah will give them your bad deeds. May Allah remove any pain from your heart and grant you peace and a strengthen imaan. May Allah remove any loneliness from your heart and replace it with loyal friends who guide you to the right path and May Allah change the hearts of those who lied about you and make them repent.
This is very true. Must needed reminder before Ramadan . Last year Ramadan I went to pray taraweeh prayer and there were 4 girls next to me laughing so much during salah… Very disturbing and sad
This why I believe women are told to pray at home to avoid these types of sins
Absolutely avoid the masjid like the plague because of narcissistic nosey women they’re the reason many youth left islam
Allaah gives whatever He wants to whomever He wants, being rich dosen't mean Allaah is happy with you.
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32:58 - Most discussions of people don't have good in them
34:33 - Most speech in masjid is idle speech unless you're talking about Allah
mashallah, thank you for this beautiful reminder
This kind of incidents are very common in Somali community. When a wife is brought to the west by husband, some auntie come to see the sister, and they interrogate the sister and tell her about the money the government gives and she needs to have her own bank card etc, then the sister asks the husband about money etc then conflict starts from there and it leads to divorce. May Allah Azza wa jalla protect the Muslim families.
They need to just mind their business and keep their mouth shut but it seems like a lot pple can’t keep their mouth shut cuz they like drama And destroy Families with their tongue like the shiekh said Also I think It says alot about their husbands cuz They should be telling their wives To mind their business, Also idk if Somalis r the only pple who do this it’s possible it exists in other Muslim communities but My comment nd ur comment only concerns somali pple since I’m somali my self We should All try to control our tongues since it’s dangerous weapon and can cause allot of fitnah Insha Allah and Allah Knows best .
Stop 🛑 it is in every community. May be you are somali and you have been around these fraudulent people and now think all somali community is like this.
@@wm9669 I know it's in every community but since I am from Somali I hear about such incidents, of course there are in other communities too, but I don't know about them since I don't belong there. I have never been around such people but this incidents is common in Somali community since many families moved to the west due to different reasons, since its a social society the relatives from family and even clan they come to visit the family which arrived from somalia, so here is where the wife is asked questions and given ideas since she's is new, so if the wife is smart she will dismiss there advice and trust her husband, but if she's not then such problems can happen. May Allah Azza wa jalla protect the Muslim families.
I totally agree with the sister she is talking about something in her own it's not her business about other community
Plus, it's true a lot of people coming they get to be your migration advisor and also your family breakers
I wouldn't get involved in someone's marriage/ask questions about their finance but I'm confused as to why it would be bad for a sister to give financial advice to another sister with good intentions just to help her if it's brought up by that sister in conversation, with the intent to just help her family financially/practically and not to destroy the marriage?
If someone asked me about it, I would tell them some ways to make their financial lives easier depending on the country they're in and laws they have but why would this knowledge destroy a marriage? I'm confused on why a husband wouldn't want his wife to know about any money the government could give to help her and her family (for example child benefit) if the couple doesn't already have it? Why is that an issue? If someone asks me about it sure I will advise but only if they ask me. Obviously, people overstepping and getting involved when no-one asked is not correct or polite but advising each other with good intentions if someone asks isn't bad if it improves financial literacy in the muslim community.
Why would the husband not want the wife to know unless he either just has serious trust issues or is taking advantage of her or financially abusing her? Maybe he should question why he doesn't trust his wife enough to have just a basic discussion about finances when it should be normal?
Sorry but the husband not wanting her to know and divorcing her without any discussion just due to her asking him about it is a bad sign to me in this story. He should not have divorced but could have easily talked and reasoned with her when they both calmed down, and they could have simply discussed it with each other. Conflict resolution should be the first step in a marriage not divorce for a petty reason.
Also keeping the wife ignorant about financial literacy in a family is not wise at all, especially if they have children together. Allah forbid something happens to the husband and the wife has to handle their financial affairs, what would happen to the family if the wife is kept ignorant? It could cause financial problems for the family so it's best for a couple to be open about finances with each other and it is beneficial for both the man and woman to have knowledge in that area for their family. They can decide who is taking care of it, whether it is the husband who deals with it only or whether it's both of them or whether it's just the wife dealing. No matter who is dealing with the finances, there should be honesty and clear communication about it.
This was very needed for us. جزاك الله خيرا
A tip for the sisters.
When you go to the masjid take the quraan or an other book with you.
If someone wants to talk or ask questions, smile at them and show your book...
In other words; im sorry im gonna reas now.
It always helpes me to keep nosy people away.
Keep doing this till the moment you become known as 'the woman who wants to read.."
And if they keep asking let your standard answer be Khayr in sha Allaah and smile.
!!!!! I’ve been doing this since last year + noise canceling headphones.
@@DummyAccount-xg7uu 😂😂😂! Some people deserve that
Perfect topic just before Ramadan, myself being a women I can't tell how much I hate n number of questions by sisters which are just of zero use except they put ayn and hate and harm others.
For two minutes of Salaam they want to know whole biography. That i why I chose to be alone no matter how many sisters I see outside, I just say Salaam and answer no questions.
May Allaah bless u with righteous companions sis. Hard to find in this day and age, but not impossible In shaa Allaah ❤
So true. I've been feeling left out seeing so many sisters talk in the Masjid. Alhamdullilah, at least by not talking we're not engaging in idle talk and not disturbing others during prayer.
Same with men tbh.
Thank you so much brother for your advice. We need more preacher like you who guides us in everyday practical matters.
As a brother, this has given me an insight on what happens with sisters. I will now approach situations with caution
Much needed video! This is not talked about enough. Thank you brother!
SubhanAllah this is so relevant!!
And this is why I stay at home. Alhamdullilah Allah(swt) knows and so do I. When your not able to uncover to make wudu, then it is time to seek refuge with Allah(swt) and take your goat to the mountain. Alhamdullilah
I hate when people reserve spots. So rude people
Very needed! Jazakallahu khairan!
War waa Adeerkaa war waa Inaader kaa, that’s so true
I love it Wallahi ustadh that such beautiful reminder.
As a brother, i actually learned something, Especially in the 2nd half of the video and it's only about making mistakes in the prayer and subhnallah I wasn't aware on some ruling related to it, i add this in my prayer playlist
Jazakallah khair ustad
Assalamu Alyakum. This issue I was mentioning to my Bangladeshi community for some years. Because a political group was encouraging sisters to come to Masjid. My argument is people getting degree online nowadays. So, women can get knowledge online.
Now another issue I face how to find a islamic wife for my sons. I raised my sons with Islamic values. Now don't find any wife! They finished their university without intermingled with Femail students. I was interested in revart Muslims or, Muslims from Gazza. But how to find them? To raise a Islamic family someone need a good wife.
May Allah bless everyone involved behind the scenes as well as Ustadh! This was a MUCH needed video for our communities. Allahuma Barik!
I hope ustaadh upload recitation of quran again like last year. Alhamdulillah.
Jazaallahu khair. A needed lecturer for us all. Should serve as an admonishment for the guilty ones and a reminder for those who ponder.
Jazzakallahu Khairan Khatheeran Ustadh for talking about these issues because it is vital to our progression as Allah SWT servant and as an Ummah at large
The home is best for women stay home Masha Allah . Women get more rewards praying in her bedroom than the masjid 😊. Our blessings is in the home Alhumdullilah 😊😊😊😊
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Nothing beats staying at home and only leaving it when it's a must must. Alhamdulillah for this deen.
Agree! Home is the best place for the sisters.
If only the the phone line could be cut off too this month
As soon as iftars over it’s hrs spent on the phone finding out ppls business and lives especially social media addicts
@piqueny8872 nah, that's a bit extreme, lol. This is on the individual to practice self-control.
@@BlindOWLLthank you, some sense. It brittles down to self control and self discipline with good communication skills.
Jzk for this brilliant video. Very beneficial knowledge ❤
SubhaanAllah what a needed video. May Allah bless the whole AMAU team and may He ﷻ put barakah to your work. May Allah accept it from you and may He ﷻ add it to your scale of good deeds. Allaahumma Aamiin.
Alhamdulillah. This message is so important for us sisters
Marriage has become already too hard and these stupid people are putting fuel in the fire.
What do you mean exactly?
@@babahadjimohamed9339
Probably it's about a story mentioned in the video.
@@HMD1986- do your home work and do the right research and have plan to be good Muslim husband and may Allah bless you whit the right wife
@@HMD1986- Many Muslim men focus on beauty and a cheerful personality, even if she is liberal and does not actually practice her religion, but she wants a traditional marriage and the benefits that follow whit it , but she remains liberal in her mentality. If a man sees a woman who is committed and practices her religion, he thinks that she is boring and not worthy of him, so he makes the other choice. Then he falls right on his face , so men are responsible for there bad choice too , they should marry the practicing Muslimhas just like I'm planning incha Allah
you too must be a feminist muslim, saying him stupid shows your upbringing and how much you knows about deen, and why are you here instead of liberal imam who'd allow free mixing?
marriage is hard because of muslim feminist who wants 6 ft tall guy who's gonna buy a separate house for her, gives hundreds of thousands of dollars as mehr, and prepare dishes n so on, still won't listen to him.
Mash Allah!! JazakuAllah Khair brother
Allahu akbar. Many sisters use the hadith 'Do not forbid the women from going to the masjid' as an excuse to use the masjid as a place for all their fitna but look at the difference between that which is only just barely a permission - to the command of Allah to 'Stay in your houses' and the hadith that a woman's prayer in the house is better than outside. Clearly in almost all cases it is better for women to be in our houses
I was about to marry a sister who reverted... She met some sisters at the masjid and after sometime of she realized how bad their hearts were and left ISLAM. They would judge and gossip so much that she left ISLAM
That's scary
Astagfirullah
What does their action have to do with finding the Islam to be true or not? Muslims are humans and Islam is perfect
i meed clarify aroud 1:19:00- can we not hold a mushaf at night prayers?. Especially since majority of Muslims aren't hafidhs. Do we just repeat the same surahs fwe memorized for tarawih the whole Ramadan?
Best to pray behind an Imam, masjid for night prayers in Ramadhan. But if you do pray on your own for some reason, sometimes within Ramadhan, then recite what you know and memorized. But if you have, some scholars have allowed reading from the mushaf whilst in Salah, how do you hold the mushaf , whilst standing in Salah, both hands or on hand? As our hands have to be on our chest, or above navel
An alimah told me that we aren't allowed to hold a mushaf or anything to read from. Which does make sense as it is a prayer and we wouldn't usually
Could be a difference of opinion. You can see in masjid nabawi a person behind the imam holding a mushaf and correcting
@@AbuMoosaa Jazakh'Allah khair, I had to really look around to find an answer from the scholars...
I have found that the great scholars of Islam, Sheikh Uthaymeen, Ibn Baaz and Al Bani (May Allah be pleased with them) have said it's not Sunnah to hold mushaf when standing behind the imam and one should listen.
However, if someone is praying tarawih alone at home and haven't memorized enough, it is permissable.
Sheikh Assim Hakim answered it..he said it's permissible. Sheikh Ibn Baaz said "there is no harm or sin for a believer to read from the mushaf for the night prayer...." Since not all Muslims have memorized long chapters in the Qur'an.
All in all, The Hanbali, Maliki, Shafi'i has said it's permissable in nafl/ night prayers. And Hanafis say it's not permissable.
And Allah knows best. Still researching....
Aisha used to pray behind her slave who wasn't hafidh and who was reading from the mushaf. The scholars have said it is no issue for the nawaafil prayers but a matter of disagreement for the faraaidh.
Waxaa isoo xusuusisay ustaad shicirkii imaam shaafic رحمه الله احفظ لسانك ايها الانسان لا يلدغنك انه ثعبان فكم في المقابر من قتيل لسانه كانت تهاب لقاءه الاقران نسال الله السلامه والعافيه
They won't even let you sit peacefully in itikaaf.
Very important message may Allah reward you
I think we can add to this the brothers who come with over full stomachs from iftar and start burping all over the place, and the brothers who cough burp or sneez in Salah without covering their mouths, throws off the khushu3 completely
That’s so disgusting!
These types make it virtually impossible to pray in congregation.
This is also another reason why I stopped going there to the masjid 😢the sisters do too no shame no excuse me I can’t stand burping out loud so much
Baraka. Persue. Look to those who have less than yourself. Strive to be the best you. Praise Allah. Make dua. Have patience. Repeat.
I heard a similar story yesterday of an immigrant sister from Sudan receiving public assistance (housing, medical and food) who was scammed by another immigrant man who tried to exploit her. The women in her circle gave her very bad advice that put her and her four children in danger. Rather than telling the woman to immediately stop communicating with the man, they listened to a terrible story that should not have been repeated and spread it to others. When I hear such stories it reminds me of two haddith, the one about the inhabitants of jahanam and the one about women being deficient in their intellect. The shaitan enters into many households by the tongues of gossipers, audhzbillah.
What are you talking about? All the first generation sahaba they slaughtered each other this is a disease that have been in your society. Hypocrisy, backbiting what do you expect? The disease was long time ago no love no peace
As Salam alaykum I love each bit some women really intrusive about asking others questions. ❤❤
Wa aleykomoussalam
bad manners and bad character starts at home, so these people who behave that way in the mosque can't fake being a good person. yes some of these sisters are brutial ,especially to reverts!
Great advice for both brothers and sisters, barakallahu feek. Regarding 1:04:50 there is a hadith that mentions that the best rows for women are the back rows (Muslim 440a). Is there some proof against or clarification for this hadith that I don't know about?
Im in Nairobi atm at a big somali masjid. When its time to stand for prayer all you hear is women side gossing so loud the men side have to tap the walls for them to keep it down.
Just fitnah. The old grandmas specially
Brother I’m in Amsterdam, the Netherlands and it’s the same issue here. I am avoiding the masjid at this point because I truly feel ashamed by our sisters and their behavior Subhan’Allah
2:00:00 ustaath , i have an athaan clock in my household. Am i allowed to repeat after this athaan to attain the rewards? Or does it have to be live
Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked: Is it permissible to respond to the adhaan that comes from a radio or TV?
He replied:
If that is at the time of prayer then it is prescribed to respond to it, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When you hear the muezzin then say what he says, then send blessings upon me, for whoever sends one blessing upon me, Allaah will send ten blessings upon him in return, then ask Allaah to grant me al-waseelah, which is a position in Paradise that will be granted to only one slave of Allaah, and I hope that I will be the one, then intercession will be granted to him.” Narrated by Muslim in his Saheeh.
And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever says when he hears the call to prayer, ‘Allaahummah Rabba haadhihi’l-da’wat il-taammah wa’l-salaat il-qaa’imah, aati Muhammadan al-waseelata wa’l-fadeelah, wab’athhu maqaaman mahmoodan alladhi wa’adtahu (O Allaah, Lord of this perfect Call and the Prayer to be offered, grant Muhammad the privilege and also the eminence, and resurrect him to the praised position that You have promised), will be granted my intercession on the Day of Resurrection.”Narrated by al-Bukhaari in his Saheeh. Al-Bayhaqi added with a hasan isnaad after the words “that You have promised” “innaka laa tukhlif al-mee’aad (You do not break Your promise).” End quote.
Majmoo’ Fataawa Ibn Baaz (10/363).
And Allaah knows best.
Assalamwalikum, clock athan or recorded athan doesn't apply in this case, so there won't be rewards for it
@@AbdulazizKider oh okay Jazakallahu khairan
Jazakallahu Khayran Ustaadh
One of the most beneficial videos I’ve watched on yt
Nice and interesting vid, can't wait for the Men that destroying Ramadan & Families part 😁
indeed
Interesting how this one is the most viewed.
@@misslola007Seems like the women found it beneficial Alhamdulilah
I am confused how a family was destroyed over a discussion on child benefit, I really look forward to listening to the rest of the lecture 2:44
Now I understand subhanAllah. This is definitely a cultural difference that brought such tragedy may Allah have mercy.
Beautiful reminder
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Assalamu alaykum. I do not understand all the complaining subhanAllah. Ustadh is doing exactly what SallAllahu Allayhi Wassallam did which is remind man, woman and child. We should accept the haqq as reminders benefit the believers Alhamdullilah
Those women definitely shouldn’t have been nosey and should be told by their husbands or fathers or brothers but a wife asking this question to her husband and him not managing his anger, knowing how Allah has made women, is the problem. He’s the reason the marriage failed. Life will always throw fitna at you through your wives and children and society and if you are quick to anger then you are the problem not the shaitan around you. Weak brothers need to fear Allah and speak better especially when he knows his wife is new and doesn’t understand. He could have just explained. Communication is so important. Asking a question doesn’t mean she doesn’t trust him at all subhanallah May Allah help him to be more patient. All these sisters with these issues need to be taught better by our leaders. By the men. The fathers and husbands and brothers should manage their families better and stop allowing so much haram.
Assalamualaikum my sisters and brothers in Islam, I have evil shaytaans Jinns in my body who are destroying my health and attacking my body, I'm very sick because of these evil shayteen Jinns, shayteen Jinn and evil shayteen Jinns with me destroying my body and oppressing me. These evil shaytaans have destroyed my whole life, so PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH MAKES DUAA FOR ME AND PLEASE DO TAHAJJAD FOR ME... "My name is Gul MY DATE OF BIRTH 21/12/1978" PLEASE ASK ALLAH SWT TO REMOVE ALL JINNS FROM ME AND MY SON PLEASE!. Make Duaa for me and my son only for the sake of Allah swt. Please... I'm not ASK nothing from you but Duaa only for the sake of Allah swt. Please Please Please make lots of DUAA for me, I beg you!
In you're salah please make duaa for me!.
I don’t agree. As a woman I believe the man is right. She has been swayed so quick to almost attack her husband by the words of other people in a masjid of all places. How easy will she be swayed for years to come? And to what extent? Some people cannot handle being in the west and this sister is an example of that
Thank you for the comment. Thought I was the only ones here!!
جزاكم الله خيرا وبارك الله فيكم
I believe those shameful brother and sister that destroy families without an ounce of regret they have been too far from death or salat janaza. from time to time they should go visit the morgue to remember where they will end and that they will return to Allah with their actions. Some women are really perverse, real snakes with their intention and not only in masjid, but in families... May Allah keep us away from such people and such behaviors
@@JewelsLaPerlei know it’s frustrating for you sister, but try your best not to backbite. may Allah reward your patience in this difficult situation and allow you to marry the best man for you. ameen💕
@@JewelsLaPerle Allah is the ALL KNOWING, Allah is aware of what people do. Remember that anything that happen in life happens only with the will of Allah and anything that doesnt happen it is the will of Allah. Be close to Allah, tell him your difficulties and what you need, Allah respond to the one that call Him. Make your tawheed stronger by learning how to worship Allah properly and Who is Allah with his names and His attributes. Learn the religion and make the quran your companion because it will help you in this dunya and it will help you in the akhirah to gain jannah. Allah created us to worship HIM alone. Remember marriage, money, children.. is a rizq and it is written. Place all your hopes in Allah the one that can say Be and it will be ! May Allah ease your pain my sister and grant you beneficial knowledge and grant you good friends that you will enter jannah with. And may Allah grant you a good spouse, the one that follows the quran and the sunnah. Ramadan Kareem
@@JewelsLaPerle Allah is the All Knowing; Anything that happen it happens by His will and anything that doesnt happen it is by the will of Allah.Allah is aware of the oppresor, liars... dont worry they will be punished by Him. Allah is just and severe in punishment. Put your trust on Allah for all your affairs, rely only on Allah. Ask Allah, tell him your difficulties and what you want Allah answers his slaves. Learn how to make duaa, learn and make stronger your tawheed to understand how anything in our life is under Allah will and we are only slaves that will go back to our Creator. Make the quran your companion it will help you to distinguish the good and the bad in this life and it will help you to enter Jannah. Allah created us for one purpose : our ibadah to Allah. Money, children, marriage ... is a rizq that can ONLY be granted by Allah. Rely on him in your affairs, All of them. For the wrongdoers, dont worry Allah is aware of what they do. Focus in your ibadah and Allah will reward the people of sabr. May Allah protect you, grant you good friends that you will meet in Jannah and may Allah grant you a pious husband according the quran and the sunnah. Ramadan Kareem
@JewelsRoyale Allah is the All Knowing; Anything that happen it happens by His will and anything that doesnt happen it is by the will of Allah.Allah is aware of the oppresor, liars... dont worry they will be punished by Him. Allah is just and severe in punishment. Put your trust on Allah for all your affairs, rely only on Allah. Ask Allah, tell him your difficulties and what you want Allah answers his slaves. Learn how to make duaa, learn and make stronger your tawheed to understand how anything in our life is under Allah will and we are only slaves that will go back to our Creator. Make the quran your companion it will help you to distinguish the good and the bad in this life and it will help you to enter Jannah. Allah created us for one purpose : our ibadah to Allah. Money, children, marriage ... is a rizq that can ONLY be granted by Allah. Rely on him in your affairs, All of them. For the wrongdoers, dont worry Allah is aware of what they do. Focus in your ibadah and Allah will reward the people of sabr. May Allah protect you, grant you good friends that you will meet in Jannah and may Allah grant you a pious husband according the quran and the sunnah. Ramadan Kareem
@@JewelsLaPerle @JewelsRoyale Allah is the All Knowing; Anything that happen it happens by His will and anything that doesnt happen it is by the will of Allah.Allah is aware of the oppresor, liars... dont worry they will be punished by Him. Allah is just and severe in punishment. Put your trust on Allah for all your affairs, rely only on Allah. Ask Allah, tell him your difficulties and what you want Allah answers his slaves. Learn how to make duaa, learn and make stronger your tawheed to understand how anything in our life is under Allah will and we are only slaves that will go back to our Creator. Make the quran your companion it will help you to distinguish the good and the bad in this life and it will help you to enter Jannah. Allah created us for one purpose : our ibadah to Allah. Money, children, marriage ... is a rizq that can ONLY be granted by Allah. Rely on him in your affairs, All of them. For the wrongdoers, dont worry Allah is aware of what they do. Focus in your ibadah and Allah will reward the people of sabr. May Allah protect you, grant you good friends that you will meet in Jannah and may Allah grant you a pious husband according the quran and the sunnah. Ramadan Kareem🙌
SubhanAllah, some of these things are so prevalent, like how Shaykh is telling even with the men. it is such a sad reality.
They were interfering but perhaps meant well,likely ignorant at best and nosey at worse.But he was harsh and that can’t be denied.Especially if she was young and ignorant.Its not worth losing his whole family and a sister he displaced.May Allah forgive her and give her and her children that which is better and protect us all from the interference of people.
Thank you for sharing this
Alhamdulillah this is the Haqq!
One thing i see so much. We get ao many videos, youtubers who do dawah about what woman do bad and how sad men are.
When woman say i get hurt when my man wants to marry another woman. The woman gets a simple... It is his right. You have to accept. As if she is not allowed to feel sad.
But men are always allowed to be sad. And it is always the womans fault for him to be sad.
Why be hurt if your wife says something about your income? Just be a man and tell her that is all I have. Why care about it?
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I understand this video is about homewrecking. It comes in different ways
The first wife of Ismaeel عليه السلام complained about the income and his father Ibrahim عليه السلام told him to divorcee her. Nd then he did. Comparing a man's right to another wife to a wife being provided for. All bevquse what u say is gonna "hurt there feelings" Has never been a islamic principle. The man's right is another wife. The woman's right is ro be provided for regarding home, shelter, and food. You compmaining for him to have more money so he can spend on u more. Is not ur right. Because he's already fulfilling ur right
I stay home and Alhamdulillah do my prayers and read Quran that’s way I like it for being theee for my husband.
( 1:21:17 )is ustadh talking about whilst people praying using their phones for the quran? or normal recitation out of salah?
Assalamualaikum my sisters and brothers in Islam, I have evil shaytaans Jinns in my body who are destroying my health and attacking my body, I'm very sick because of these evil shayteen Jinns, shayteen Jinn and evil shayteen Jinns with me destroying my body and oppressing me. These evil shaytaans have destroyed my whole life, so PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH MAKES DUAA FOR ME AND PLEASE DO TAHAJJAD FOR ME... "My name is Gul MY DATE OF BIRTH 21/12/1978" PLEASE ASK ALLAH SWT TO REMOVE ALL JINNS FROM ME AND MY SON PLEASE!. Make Duaa for me and my son only for the sake of Allah swt. Please... I'm not ASK nothing from you but Duaa only for the sake of Allah swt. Please Please Please make lots of DUAA for me, I beg you!
In you're salah please make duaa for me!.
The issue of mixity normalised by the Somali culture has huge consequences like rape within the family members, uncles left alone with young girls. This need to end!
Mashallah. Barakallahu feek
جزاكم الله خيرا
Masha allah lakiin aduu ageed ku nolayd dadkaa kuwalatiga le ayaa lo bahanyay
Subhannallah So true! 😥
Very beneficial and on point
Two women dropped sihr on my legs in the masjid and i couldn't walk for a whole year just so they can stop me coming to the masjid. They sit there guarding the women's area and make problems for everyone. In the other masjid i was bullied and a lady threaten to kill me just because i didn't want to discuss personal information. Another lady stood in the masjid giving curses to me because she thought i wasn't wearing cloths like her. The ones running the masjid are visiting the magicians. I havn't gone back to the masjid in many years
Subhan’Allah!!! May Allah heal you and protect you from such horrible acts
Allah yabarik 🎉
Insha Allah please make a video on Myron Gains saying “Islam can’t guide men in these modern times/situations”
It's not worth platforming an evil degenerate like that individual.
None of that man’s public actions indicate Muslim. Leave him be.
@@SinaAla like it or not, Myron & Andrew Tate are representing Islam in the Redpill community and Muslim men are more afraid of other men than Allah (swt)
@@SinaAla fear Allah more than u fear the manosphear smh
@@SailorMoon37 i don’t fear rubbish, friend. It is something that you felt important enough for the Ustadh to discuss.
Salam and take care
Jazakallahu Khair
very educational video.
Perhaps am not the targeted audience but much appreciated.
Allahu akebar perfect 👐!!
This is exactly the reason my wife never goes to the masjid anymore
Amazing 👏🏽
Deodorants that are sprays spreads fragrance..Mild roll on deos don’t smell outside the clothes.
Jazakallah khair
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Love that sheikh❤ where is he teaching in uae ?
Uk
@@treectrice9180no? Even the studio is in the UAE
Masjid Al Kabeer Mirdif- seerah
Daa Wa Dawaa’ - Mashid Shaikha Ali DSO
Muwatta- At-Twar Masjid as-Sheikh
Sheikh my Allah preserve you. Is there a chance to come study with you in Somalia?
He’s in the UAE brother, he also has an online school.
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله
انا لا أحبب قواك أنه لا يجب على الأولاد الذهاب للمسجد ، لو لم نذهب بهم و هم صغارا فمتى ناخد عندنا يكبرون و يرفضون الذهاب إليه .
نعم نعلمهم و نريبهم على احترام المسجد و توقيره.
بارك الله فيكم
Good video, important topic
1:45:34 Assalaamu Alaikum. Is the Imam’s salaam after tashahhud one or two actions to follow?
(1) One Action - Wait for the Imam to finish giving salaam to the right and left, then immediately follow, or
(2)Two Actions - Give salaam to the right immediately after the Imam, then to the left immediately after the Imam.
I appreciate the detailed topics preparing us to maintain taqwa in Ramadan and beyond. May Allah SWT reward this team for spreading beneficial knowledge and the viewers for seeking beneficial knowledge. Ameen.
First one
evidence: th-cam.com/video/1q6tbrOKE0c/w-d-xo.htmlsi=--B5-KM6I6f1W-4D
@@Lamin-e5j6r Jazakallah Khair.
How does someone new to the religion learn all of these prayer movements etc?
Sorry wait. If the sister was actually entitled to money why did he not give it to her? And why is the problem the people who told her she should look into that as opposed to the man who divorced his wife for such a minor reason.
A man divorced his wife due to a minor argument but somehow it’s meant to be the women’s fault?
The brother didn’t blame the wife, he blamed the meddling women in the masjid? It was not a minor argument, they made her call him and interrogate him in front if them subhannallah
Thank you!!
Allahumma Barik
Is it wrong to go to the masjid to get married? Not mixing but trying to find a spouse in a halal way? If not how do I go about trying to marry because my father is an older man he isn’t able to go out to find me a mate?
Assalamu Alaikum sister, my humble opinion would be that you try speaking to the sisters if not try Emailing the Imam of the masjid if not able to then try speaking to him in a way that wont cause fitna of course, for example approaching him when hes surround by other men wouldn't be smart. Also there are telegram channels that do marriage services in a halal way, where you write your profile age, height, about you, what you're looking for etc.. and it's all in a halal way as the admins are in control and no one can get through to you without the admins speaking to YOU first to get your permission to give them your mahrams number/Email if you like their profile aswell. Avoid standing in parking lots and try to catch the attention of men etc.. like the sheikh mentions.
May Allah reward you for your efforts, keep you firm and grant you the best of husbands. Ameen
Can you give me the telegram information In sha Allah
you can sign up for SunnahMatch, many people around the world got married off that, Alhamdulillah.
@@ummzahra9196 Did you recieve the telegram information?
I can’t speak for the Uk but minnesota masjids are pretty segregated and they all have separate doors and curtains so men and women don’t see eachother
freemixing still takes place in segregated masajid. it happens in the common areas like the lobby, hallways, empty offices/classrooms, and parking lots.
I’m in the UK and it varies, even some of the masaajid upon bid’ah maintain segregation because the fitnah is well known. May Allaah keep us firm upon the haqq
Asalamu alaykum, can someone please explain part 1:47 Ustadh mentioned when you start the prayer, but the Sujood part I didn’t understand.
(correct timestamp 1:47:00 and topic starts at 1:46:00)
The ustadh is saying, if you leave the Takbiratul Intiqaal تكبيرة الانتقال ، (the Allahu Akbar said when switching positions), out of *Forgetfulness* then, scholars say (eg Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal) that you should do what's called the "Sujood of Forgetfulness", "Sujud Al Sahw" سجود السهو
These are actually two Sujoods done at the end of a prayer when a very important part of the prayer is left out of Forgetfulness, however only when the part is not crucial to the validity of the prayer (not a "rukn". If the part was essential you'd have to redo the entire rak'a).
To do Sujud Al Sahw, the most common way is to do your tashahhud+salatul ibrahimia at the end of your prayer, but then rather than saying assalam aleikum, you say allahu Akbar, do Sujud, then allahu Akbar and sit, then allahuakbar another Sujud, then allahu Akbar, sit and then say your salams (basically two extra sujuds).
And he goes on to mention, if you are praying behind an Imam, you don't need to do the Sujud Al sahw because you just follow the imam (unless he does it of course).
And Allah knows best and may Allah forgive me for errors.
BarakAllahu fiki
Parents household during Ramadan is one big Iftar feast gossip fest
Entitled elders siblings demand banquet iftar parties the whole time greed gluttony backbiting gossip month
Delay to pray taraweeh or pray short prays
Absolutely depressed during this holy month
Selfishness entitlement ignorance
They fast to eat show off then cry why tehre children leave Islam
@@JewelsLaPerleplease pray for me I’m in desperate need of my own home asap
I can’t afford to go to madinah saved juts enough to be able to afford rent somewhere
We hear and obey Allah knows what is best for us. Knowledge is protection.