Are You Ready for Marriage? w/ Sheikh Mustafa Shaybani - Firmly Rooted #3
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ธ.ค. 2023
- In this thought-provoking episode, we're diving into the heart of a crucial question: Are You Ready for Marriage? Join us as we navigate the complexities of marriage, self-discovery, and partnership. Our guests share personal experiences, insights, and valuable advice to help you gauge your readiness for this significant life step.
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PLAYLIST: • Firmly Rooted
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-Learn about 5 pillars of Islam , Iman(aqeeda), ihsan (purification of soul)
-Learn about life of prophet (SAW)
-Get ready in Financially (for men)
-Learn personal skills
-Get rid of addictions
- Get closer to Allah
- Fix the relationship with human beings
Correction: there are 5 pillars of Islam which are; the two testimonies of faith (La Illaha Illa Allah Muhammad Rasulu Allah), prayer , alms tax, fasting the month of Ramadan and pilgrimage. And there are 6 pillars of Iman; belief in Allah, the angels, the scriptures, the Prophets, the Day of Judgement and the Divine Decree, the good and the bad of it.
13:50 How do I become mature?
1. Work on you religion and your knowledge of it. Have certain religious practices.
2. Know social skills
3. Set the intention now to get married in so many years and prepare for it from now on by working on yourself
4. Get rid of temper if you have any or (porn) addictions and ask Allah for help.
Actions:
- Take a real look at yourself. And make Tawbah.
The interviewer asks the perfect questions wallah it almost like he reads my mind when asking them questions
True, so relatable to us as uni students 💯🙃
36:20 Every journey begins with a first step. Embrace tauba. Repent to your lord. Feel the guilt. Confess to Allah. Tell ٱللَّٰه that this is my situation
37:26 Only ٱللَّٰه can put happiness in your heart
38:32 Sometimes marriage comes very easily. There is a secret behind that: closeness to ٱللَّٰه.
40:18 Look for solutions
41:11 First step: Ask ٱللَّٰه for help
43:10 Start your journey and ٱللَّٰه will help you.
44:12 First step?
Fix relationship with your lord.
Do 2 rakah. Ask ٱللَّٰه for help.
46:30 Relationship with parents.
47:25 Whoever fixes their relationship with ٱللَّٰه, everything else gets fixed.
Know Iman and Ihsan.
53:03 Marriage is a rizq from ٱللَّٰه.
Best rizq is a pious woman. You will feel peace with them. Need pious children.
Didn't talk about having an income source?
Not only is this video helpful to prepare ourselves for marriage but they have also lowkey given the formula for anyone who wants to fix their life, whether young or old.
42:32 - my favourite part of the video
Indeed a beautiful story. SubhanAllah! ✨
May Allah make us stead fast in our religion. May Allah forgive our sins and grant us jannah al firdows. Jazaka Allah kheyr
ameen
Ameen
Ameen🤲🏿
Ameen
Ameen
This podcast was awesome! JazakAllah Khair Ahki. May Allah ﷻ bless you and the speakers.
JazakAllah khair for sharing this! Was looking forward to listen to Ustadh Hisham for this topic.
JazakAllah Khair Ahki. May Allah ﷻ bless you and the speakers.
Masha'Allah ❤ JazakAllah kher for this much needed episode.
Jazakallah khair. Really loved the practical action points. Amazing!
Thank you so so much for this podcast. You’ve answered most of my worries
Jazakoum Allahu kheiran for this talk. It was really interesting and the advices are realistic for us young people who are at university in the West.
Masha’allah tabarakallah. Jazakallahkeer sheikhs for the much needed podcast for our young generation. People can’t get married because family’s make it hard for them.
This was a deep one yani..Alhamduliah ❤..i needed it May bless nd keep blessing the ummah..inn sha Allah
Welcome Ustaz Hisham!
So many are ready but where are the reputable believers who care enough to help match believers and follow through to help them succeed.
BarakAllahu fik Shaykh Mustafa Shaybani has a way with his words, insightful listening to him. One thing I don’t know is the correct spelling of his second name, it’s different on the Al furqaan channel ö
and dude how is there gonna be a part 2 to this. This episode was so jam packed with beneficial advice and stuff to act upon. I don’t know what’s coming
I am gonna set these action points as goals, for before the next episode comes out! Insha Allah
The sheikh brought very relevant and strong points. Very useful
I loved this video, amazing
Rabbanahab lana min azwajina wathurriyyatinaqurrata aAAyunin wajAAalna lilmuttaqeena imama "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes
and make us an example for the righteous."
Al-Quran Al-Kareem 25:74
My people ❤!
بارك الله فيكم
That was so beneficial, mashallah
Jazakallah this was VERY very helpful 🙏
MashaAllah, helpful podcast❤
الله يجزاكم خير
Mashallah. Deep podcast
SubhanAllah. JazakAllahu Khairan for this practical informative episode. I have to mention, MashaAllah how respectful and humble Ustad Hisham is. The way he looks at Sheikh Mustafa Shaybani and waits for him to speak before he himself answers. TabarakAllah. ♥
Indeed. SubhanAllah. Beautiful manners. 💯✨
Allahuma barik 🤍 I can listen to these sheikhs for long. Very insightful, May Allah increase their knowledge and accept it from them.Ameen
And the host asked beautiful questions too!!! May Allah bless all who worked on this video🤍
23:45 everyone should go through this part, whoever is visiting this video.
Very true. A big responsibility- don't ever think about it.
The youth want to marry but don’t want to take any responsibility. If the wife is working the ummah men follow western marriages not Islamic based marriages
Allahumma barik
50:36 The wording is:
اعْقِلْهَا وَتَوَكَّلْ
Tie her and trust in Allah.
[Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 2/72: 726 (دار التأصيل)]
May Allah make it easy for our youngsters to marry, I wish they would take pre marital coaching, it’s a lot cheaper than a divorce
اللهم بارك
❤
38:30 As-Salāmu ʿAlaykum; how do we explain the marriages of Prophet Nūḥ, Prophet Lūṭ & ʿĀsiyah (عَلَيْهِمُ السَّلَام), in the end of Sūrat al-Taḥrīm, with this concept in the statement of Allah (ﷻ):
﴿ٱلۡخَبِيثَٰتُ لِلۡخَبِيثِينَ وَٱلۡخَبِيثُونَ لِلۡخَبِيثَٰتِۖ وَٱلطَّيِّبَٰتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَٱلطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَٰتِۚ﴾
*«Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men are for corrupt women; good women are for good men and good men are for good women.»*
[24:26]
Is it true that everything for the believer is good?
39:00
I have a question: what do Islam says about someone who was engaged after pay nika and did everything that required the legalization of the married, some people who are jelous of the couples, did everything within their capacities to distroys it…?
To the interviewer (prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him said you should shave all of your hair or leave it all it's prohibited to shave a part of it. In sahih Muslim 2120a prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him forbade qaza.)
Am ready for marriage I just don't have the fìnance
وَأَنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْأَيَـٰمَىٰ مِنكُمْ وَٱلصَّـٰلِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَآئِكُمْ ۚ إِن يَكُونُوا۟ فُقَرَآءَ يُغْنِهِمُ ٱللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِۦ ۗ وَٱللَّهُ وَٰسِعٌ عَلِيمٌۭ ٣٢
Marry off the ˹free˺ singles among you, as well as the righteous of your bondmen and bondwomen. If they are poor, Allah will enrich them out of His bounty. For Allah is All-Bountiful, All-Knowing.
24:32
Starting and providing for a family involves careful planning and responsibility. To begin, focus on securing stable employment or consider creating your own business to generate income. Develop the necessary skills and qualifications that will make you marketable and ensure financial stability. This will not only benefit you but also lay the foundation for supporting a family. Remember, a solid financial base is crucial, so invest in your career and personal development to build a secure future for yourself and your loved ones
As a man is your religious responsibility to provide financially. So start there while educating yourself on marriage rights responsibilities
@@Amro-elbosatythank you brother you just solved financial struggles 🙏🏾 just get money 🙏🏾
@@Amro-elbosaty am on that path currently
44:10🩶
And now they all said that person is not fit as they responsible for everything that failed the marriage…,they tried to go far in other to make the man sick…,
Oh my Allah
They’re not zero… they’re negative 🤣🤣
Why did I just feel attacked 😂😂
I’m not a university student btw💀
😂😂😂
Shame on any Muslim for making marriage difficult. If by 18 our youth aren’t ready for marriage than it’s a stain on the Islamic society that raised the youth un prepared for something so important.
Its women that have made marriage difficult by preventing four marriages
@@razamughal4582 bruh
36:20 Every journey begins with a first step. Embrace tauba. Repent to your lord. Feel the guilt. Confess to Allah. Tell ٱللَّٰه that this is my situation
37:26 Only ٱللَّٰه can put happiness in your heart
38:32 Sometimes marriage comes very easily. There is a secret behind that: closeness to ٱللَّٰه.
40:18 Look for solutions
41:11 First step: Ask ٱللَّٰه for help
43:10 Start your journey and ٱللَّٰه will help you.
44:12 First step?
Fix relationship with your lord.
Do 2 rakah. Ask ٱللَّٰه for help.
46:30 Relationship with parents.
47:25 Whoever fixes their relationship with ٱللَّٰه, everything else gets fixed.
Know Iman and Ihsan.
53:03 Marriage is a rizq from ٱللَّٰه.
Best rizq is a pious woman. You will feel peace with them. Need pious children.
Very beautiful discussion mashaAllah! Gained so many beautiful insights alhamdulillah. JazakAllahu Kahyran