Simply wonderful. Ten minutes before he said he was wasting our time, I was thinking how grateful I was to him for being up there showing us how to do the work.
Thank you for sharing this. What a brave man. And his wife, who started the work even before her husband was ready to follow. It has inspired me and brought me peace.
Always in The Now. It fills my heart with great joy, that you have blessed many of us; to a degree, in which you may never know how much, by taking the time and courtesy to upload these precious videos. 🙏🌹💜🐞💜🌺🌌🥀😊⚘
thank you so much for your kind words. these recordings have helped me a lot when i was confused :) so sharing them was the natural step that followed clarity
Oh dear, I needed this so badly. My son who is 21 is depressed for the last 4 years, not going out of his room, not working, not studying and according to me "wasting his days" and "wasting his youth" and I am worried about him and also I fear that I would have to support him throughout his life if he doesn't get any skills... I was looking for something to get me out of these false beliefs. I would like him to be happy and healthy in order for me to be happy, but this is not how it works. I am wasting my days when I worry about him. My days are ruined when I believe the thought that he will not get along in life and will be miserable. Thank you, thank you, thank you, Katie!!!
i haven't finished it yet and i'm sure it turns out well but at 11:11 i hear him experiencing what i experienced the first time i did the work: the sense that "this feels like a denial of my feelings." i wish katie would clock that and acknowledge it in that moment instead of pushing harder towards the turnarounds. experiencing the work as a denial of your feelings means that you are doing the work with an ulterior motive (e.g., to please the facilitator) or "performing" the work, and it can't work that way. anyone else have thoughts on this? i'm loving these uploads, thank you!
I agree. Well said. It is so important that this is not a denial of feelings. An inquiry into what the actual SOURCE of our feelings are from. Inquiry is a slow not rushed meditation.
It seems to me like the deeper problem is this guy's identity as a "hard worker"- he repeatedly says how much he loves his job, how important it is to him, and how perfectionist he is, and as he says it you can hear that he is very proud of himself. This makes me suspect that his overall attitude towards his wife being a housewife is that of disrespect. He never says it outright but what I hear is that he "worked his ass off" but his wife "only" just took care of anything that has to do with housework , and of two children, one of which has special needs. He is utterly blind to the fact that all of that takes a lot of energy, patience and time. I strongly suspect that if that poor woman got a job he would still be annoyed of minor things she didn't get around to do in the house. Until he stops thinking of himself as such a bigshot he might just shift his disrespect instead of getting rid of it, finding a different fault with his wife every time.
This guy has a wonderful,caring woman at home and is blind to see this because of the toughts he believed and the fact that he is a victim of the conditioned mind.I found myself in this Inquiry as the wife and i'm pretty sure i was not the only one.Sad...it's so sad to see what we are doing to each other when the egoic mind takes control..
It's sad to see "house moms" are given such a low status. They are raising the future of the human race. They are giving their entire lives to care for small human beings that cannot do that themselves. You want the equivalent of Walmart daycare raising your kids so you can be secretary and file some papers???
Is there a session anyone knows of where BK is facilitating the wife? Or a woman who has a husband like this guy who feels resentment toward wife? A woman who’s husband comes home and has this look as he scans the room etc. who sees himself as productive and can’t stand to see the mess.. This session was really good but I would love to see a BK facilitation of “her” doing the work on her beliefs about “him.”
lol, wow. this is complete bs. as humans, our judgements come from our ideals not being met. relationships are about reciprocity. the psyop that's being pulled on this guy is so bizarre and wrong. all you need to do to tell that this whole endeavor is horrible is to replace the dude's wife's behaviors that are upsetting him (cleanliness, laziness, organization) with her cheating on him. "now, turn it around" "uh...i'm cheating on my wife? wait, what are you talking about?" "you're simply choosing to believe these thoughts. her cheating on you is your problem, right?"
I had some of the same concerns and questions. If you want to give it another shot, this would be a better example. th-cam.com/video/19IkCTNv50c/w-d-xo.html And if it doesn't still, I'd love to hear about what you thought about it. It would give me some great perspective.
Simply wonderful. Ten minutes before he said he was wasting our time, I was thinking how grateful I was to him for being up there showing us how to do the work.
I’ve been following BK for 10+ years and had never heard this one. So right to the point and so helpful. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much for uploading. Its amazing the borrowed benefits you get from watching other people go through their process.
my pleasure
I admire him for his honesty and his willingness to face himself 👍🏻
I wish every couple could hear this! Heck, everyone!
Thank you for sharing this. What a brave man. And his wife, who started the work even before her husband was ready to follow. It has inspired me and brought me peace.
how wonderful for you :) it's my pleasure to share
These “heart of a rose” treatments of the work, has no less than saved my life and love. Thank you.
my pleasure
That is such a sweet comment. I feel the same also. 💐
Thank you for downloading this record. İt was so funny 🤣listened it 3 times🤣And also İt is very helpful for me. Thanks and loves from Turkey 🇹🇷🥰👏
Thank you for uploading all these wonderful recordings! xxxx
my pleasure
Superb issue for so many of us men. Great real relationship challenge, so many of us experience. So many thanks.
I personally really really like this session. Thank you
you're welcome :)
One of my MOST FAVORITE ever of her sessions. Fun to listen to
Always in The Now. It fills my heart with great joy, that you have blessed many of us; to a degree, in which you may never know how much, by taking the time and courtesy to upload these precious videos. 🙏🌹💜🐞💜🌺🌌🥀😊⚘
thank you so much for your kind words. these recordings have helped me a lot when i was confused :) so sharing them was the natural step that followed clarity
Thank you for uploading this! What a great work.
Oh dear, I needed this so badly. My son who is 21 is depressed for the last 4 years, not going out of his room, not working, not studying and according to me "wasting his days" and "wasting his youth" and I am worried about him and also I fear that I would have to support him throughout his life if he doesn't get any skills...
I was looking for something to get me out of these false beliefs.
I would like him to be happy and healthy in order for me to be happy, but this is not how it works. I am wasting my days when I worry about him. My days are ruined when I believe the thought that he will not get along in life and will be miserable.
Thank you, thank you, thank you, Katie!!!
Same, son 22
Beautiful. Must feel amazing to have questioned these depressing thoughts which are all false if course ❤️
Thank you, this really helped me with my relationship and needs and suffering that I create around it x
it moved me to tears. the work is amazing. thank you for uploading.
my pleasure
Sabine A. Same.
THANK YOU DEAR BYRON KATIE 💖💖💖💖💖💖
Thank you brother, you really put yourself out there
Undoing the hypnosis and returning to Love 😊 💕
Thanks for the precious videos. Bryon is scathing to the ego and here she won’t let go until it lets go it’s drama. 🤩 wow !
i haven't finished it yet and i'm sure it turns out well but at 11:11 i hear him experiencing what i experienced the first time i did the work: the sense that "this feels like a denial of my feelings." i wish katie would clock that and acknowledge it in that moment instead of pushing harder towards the turnarounds. experiencing the work as a denial of your feelings means that you are doing the work with an ulterior motive (e.g., to please the facilitator) or "performing" the work, and it can't work that way. anyone else have thoughts on this? i'm loving these uploads, thank you!
I agree. Well said. It is so important that this is not a denial of feelings. An inquiry into what the actual SOURCE of our feelings are from. Inquiry is a slow not rushed meditation.
Great catch darwindeez. I agree. I've seen her nail this many times though.
Thank youuuuuuuuuuu
you're very welcome :)
Thankyou a wonderful conversation !
thank you for sharing this awesome truth and freedom with us
my pleasure
remarkable... this man is a prince as he does the work
Awesome Work!
It seems to me like the deeper problem is this guy's identity as a "hard worker"- he repeatedly says how much he loves his job, how important it is to him, and how perfectionist he is, and as he says it you can hear that he is very proud of himself. This makes me suspect that his overall attitude towards his wife being a housewife is that of disrespect. He never says it outright but what I hear is that he "worked his ass off" but his wife "only" just took care of anything that has to do with housework , and of two children, one of which has special needs. He is utterly blind to the fact that all of that takes a lot of energy, patience and time. I strongly suspect that if that poor woman got a job he would still be annoyed of minor things she didn't get around to do in the house. Until he stops thinking of himself as such a bigshot he might just shift his disrespect instead of getting rid of it, finding a different fault with his wife every time.
AWESOME!! TYFS! 💖💜💛💚💙💟
my pleasure
So wonderful! Thanx a lot!
you''re very welcome :)
This makes me feel that I'm not wasting my days.
What a courageous guy
Indeed
I love this! Thanks for uploading
my pleasure :) (nagyon szivesen)
How do you know I'm Hungarian? :)
was just a guess from your name :) i was born and raised in hungary
Oh that's great! Have you got a Hungarian blood? Where do you live now?
yep :) live in new zealand now and was in canada before. are you in hungary?
I love it!!!
This guy has a wonderful,caring woman at home and is blind to see this because of the toughts he believed and the fact that he is a victim of the conditioned mind.I found myself in this Inquiry as the wife and i'm pretty sure i was not the only one.Sad...it's so sad to see what we are doing to each other when the egoic mind takes control..
I hope he and his wife did the worksheet on his father, and that he feels how much it was Not a waste of our time.
Thank you 🙏
It's sad to see "house moms" are given such a low status. They are raising the future of the human race. They are giving their entire lives to care for small human beings that cannot do that themselves. You want the equivalent of Walmart daycare raising your kids so you can be secretary and file some papers???
Thanks from Germany Peter
How does she contribute? She stays.
30:14 If you feel separate from her, then you’re judging her in a way that you may want to question.
Giving up the need to be right is the end of dependency.
❤🙏🏼❤
It's all about the money in his world.
this was so rich and funny
♡
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Is there a session anyone knows of where BK is facilitating the wife? Or a woman who has a husband like this guy who feels resentment toward wife? A woman who’s husband comes home and has this look as he scans the room etc. who sees himself as productive and can’t stand to see the mess..
This session was really good but I would love to see a BK facilitation of “her” doing the work on her beliefs about “him.”
I get it but we have to stay in bad relationships? We don't have to divorce?why people divorce than if it so simple?
The mature mind does not what??
"The mature mind does not do WAR" We are at war with ourselves when we believe our imagination.
patimartinezv i think she said “the mature mind does not dwarf”
Make war
He works to much and that makes him angree. He should work less and accept the she can not do everything.
lol, wow. this is complete bs. as humans, our judgements come from our ideals not being met. relationships are about reciprocity. the psyop that's being pulled on this guy is so bizarre and wrong. all you need to do to tell that this whole endeavor is horrible is to replace the dude's wife's behaviors that are upsetting him (cleanliness, laziness, organization) with her cheating on him.
"now, turn it around"
"uh...i'm cheating on my wife? wait, what are you talking about?"
"you're simply choosing to believe these thoughts. her cheating on you is your problem, right?"
I had some of the same concerns and questions. If you want to give it another shot, this would be a better example. th-cam.com/video/19IkCTNv50c/w-d-xo.html
And if it doesn't still, I'd love to hear about what you thought about it. It would give me some great perspective.
Thanks from Germany Peter
Thanks from Germany Peter
Thanks from Germany Peter
you're very welcome :)