Thank you for this video. It made me cry!! I also have my Scorpion venus in 8H with Venus square Saturn aspect, and I always felt like I'm born heartbroken. My mom used to be in the serious blues, and I also went through her verbal assults when I was a child. Also, my family expected me to be born as a boy, and I felt I should not show my feelings, used to wish I was born as a boy. However, I really cherish this aspect and my tough life. This life has given me thousands lessons of femininity, and I'm so glad that I could understand how they feel, and this even leads to understanding of being the marginalised, a ultimate humanity towards all kind of humans. Ironically, having this hard aspect means that we are naturally caring person for others for worse or better, and I began to love my life and me... I'm still learning that I'm actually worthy of love, and I hope everyone but especially people born with this aspect will be happy and peaceful and know they are worthy of love and luxuries of the life! ❤
Thank you, cried the whole time. Relationships are the most painful thing there is. I'm scared I won't ever have a healthy and loving relationship with a man. I didn't have a loving father present in my life. I don't know how to receive and give love. Wish me strength to rise above it all.
Me too, this is crazy i was going to comment the same thing before i saw yours. Cried the whole time i am absolutely heart broken. And i already knew this about venus square saturn. She described it perfectly.
Yep, have this. Your explanation on this aspect is one of the best I have come across. My venus is also retrograde so an extra layer of not feeling good enough attractive enough, overall lack of self worth etc. Takes quite its time to go through the lessons of this one. It really resolved for me when I had to deal with it as a double whammy, when I had Saturn transiting opposite my natal Saturn, so in consequence I had not only natal Saturn squaring my venus but simultaneously also transiting Saturn squaring my venus. I am sure there is still always more left to resolve but from that point I saw a huge shift for the better. I also agree with you I don't think it's necessarily bad karma accumulated from past lives, never felt that was the case for me. What you say about clearing family lineage issues resonates quite deeply. And also having to go through it in order to truly understand how it feels so can later use it to help other people. By now I've actually come to appreciate this aspect.
It's been minutes after i watched this whole video and im still crying, i cried the whole time. I knew this about venus square saturn, but you described it perfectly. I also need to add that my venus is retrograde and in the 8H. I've had to deal with extreme backstab from family and friends. I was in a coma, mother tried to hit me the day after my coma while i was vulenerable couldn't talk or walk. Every single guy i have ever dated something absolutely horrible would happen or get cheated on. Sexually assaulted by so many guys including my 'best guy friend' at the time... I'm trying to replace the void with success. I also try to show extra love to every single person i meet as if they have also suffered like me. Love feels impossible to attain after all the hurt in this life and i have come to accept it. But you also made me feel a lot better, so thank you.
OMG!! thank you so much for doing this aspect, you are so good at describing and explaining synastry aspects, this is one of the best description I've ever heard of venus-saturn square, I felt as though you were talking to me because it's exactly how I felt my entire life 😭😂 now I'm learning to love more and open my heart. My venus is even conjunct my south node so I think his is something that I'm bringing from a past life but I have neptune conjunct my venus at the same time so I think that's a saving grace. Thank you!! ❤❤
@@marinak9035 It's in the sign of aquarius. Since I have venus-neptune I'm very empathic and compassionate towards others even though I was hurt many times but met great people too, if I were to only have venus square saturn that wouldn't have been the case I guess
I have venus and moon in leo conjuncting in 10th house, opposite neptune and uranus in 4th, and saturn in 7th forming a tsquare to this opposition. And its all in fixed signs, which makes it tougher. I never experienced trust, reciprocal gentleness in love or emotional connection. Everything is about facade, ego and looks. When I show vulnerability, its projected on me as weakness, and often times gets used against me. My emotions and love are like frozen flowers, that everyone gets to see and observe from afar, but no one can smell them or see their true color because of that ice. In other words, i often felt in my life like i am always behind some kind of glass cage away from other people, im the animal in the zoo. No one really cares, they just look at you for entertainment.
I have this aspect and it has not been easy. I have venus conjunct , neptune and ascendant in scorpio and saturn in aquarius. Have been single most of my life.I'm 62.Think I have worked through a lot but still get attracted to unavailable men.
Brit, you explained it perfectly ❤️ I don't have this aspect myself but I know a person who does and this is literally the best description and also very compassionate. I also love how you talked about karma at the beginning. 🌼
This resonates in such a real way. I have quite a few difficult aspects/placements in my natal chart, but Venus square Saturn as well as Moon in 6th house probably take the cake. I have always struggled with insecurities in love and in relationships in general and have felt like an outcast for as long as I can remember. It’s so hard for me to express myself and be uninhibited, especially sexually, but I am getting much better with it - this is why I love learning about my chart! I have a degree in psychology and recently started working for a suicide hotline; it is healing for me to be able to understand others’ deepest hurts and depression 🩷
@@hubermarcelo4273 it is one of the most difficult placements for the moon; you can tend to be overly critical of yourself/your emotions and of others, and can be rigid in routines. Your emotions can also be very easily affected by daily activities or slight changes in schedule. Also moods and emotional well-being are strongly connected to physical well-being with 6th house moon, so if you’re not well emotionally it can manifest as a physical illness
@@DaysofOurLives2005 wow! I love this so much💛🙏 it seems like you’re really living the higher side of this! And I have moon in 6H too and agree it’s a hard one . Hugs to you! 💛🙏
Love this description, and the little pep talk- ty ❤ I have this aspect as part of an exact T square with my Uranus and Mars. Natal Venus in Virgo in the 12th. So yeah. Pain 😂🥴 Thankfully I’m a Libra rising finishing up a progressed moon through my 12th, with Chiron transiting my 7th. Lots of healing opportunities for me. Staying positive. Loving your videos, keep up the awesome work 🤗
Thank you, spot on! I have this and my Venus is conjunct Mars so I also have Saturn square Mars and my low self worth has been debilitating! No compliment sinks in, I may understand it in my head but not in my heart. Extremely challenging, especially when I consider myslef quite a Jupitarian person so I will focus more on that, thank you :)
I know someone who has this aspect, while I have Venus conjunct Saturn. I feel like my saving grace is that my Venus is also conjunct my Sun, so even though I also struggle with my self-worth, expressing love to everyone is fullfiling for me. When I met them, they looked like they're in so much pain. They would refuse any help anyone would be extending. It's like they don't think they deserve anything good in life. They do not have any other aspects to their Venus so I think it's extremely difficult. My Neptune conjunct their Venus and their Jupiter conjunct my Venus and Saturn. Their Venus is in my 12th house.
*sigh* i have this (as well as merc square saturn and cap moon😅) It's been a long hard road. I am a venus dominant person with venus in the 1st in taurus and am actually an attractive woman who gets alot of compliments but man really feeling that your beautiful is a different story! I think this aspect is the ugly duckling aspect and i certainly experienced this after years of bullying about my appearance, the glow up was insane! But at 32 still no love or really any true friends 😢 My heart is open but i just can't seem to find my people, oh well
I have it in my natal chart. It does have some challenges but if you do your Saturn ‘homework’ rewards are also great !( as I watch this video transit Venus conjuncts my natal Saturn )
Born with a burden is crazy because at 3 i remember being told i would go to hell if i like the same sex and i prayed so hard for years because i wanted to be changed. I have Venus, moon, and the North node all squaring Saturn from 0-3 degree orbs. I was always told i had an old soul as a kid. Now I’m 25, gay, and never been in a serious relationship. I’ve tried but all my insecurities would come up. I also learned i can’t do anything casual. Appearance is also a thing with this aspect. Sometimes I’d do my best to look good but there would always (and i mean always) be that one thing or incident or spill or stain or wardrobe malfunction that would throw me off. It made me become hyper aware and overly prepared to go out. I look my best when i plan and coordinate my outfits way ahead of time. Though i don’t really have a strict type, i have always been more attracted to older men. 😅 Thanks you so much for this, this was spot on. 💚
I don't know how to thank you for this video and its synchronicity ❤ I have this aspect in my chart. Venus 6th house in taurus square saturn 2nd house in aquarius and jupiter square venus, opposite saturn in 8th house in leo. Hopefully I have uranus conj neptune in 2nd house in capricorn and MC in virgo trine to venus. Yesterday, i was saying my lover how much it's difficult (whereas so many years of therapy, trying everything) and I wanted to die and give up (difficult childhood, relationships, sex and money difficulties, transgenerationnal issues, indigny of being...). Everything that you are saying is a blessing and hope for me to end this cycle for one and for good. Hopefully, a lot of synchronicities in my life when I am so down. I have a transit of Pluto on my Saturn natal in 2026. I feel that something is coming... Thank you again 🙏 Ps : sorry for my english, I'm French ^^
Hi Brit, recently I have transit Saturn square my natal Venus and I also briefly met a person who Venus sextile Saturn in their chart. Long story short our composite have Saturn conjunct Venus which I find very interesting. That person is like a transit to me, but in a human form. It feels fated and I've learn a lot about love and fear and insecurity. Anyway, I've not seen a lot of information on unaspected planets in synastry. I wonder if you have any insight on it! I hope it can be an idea for a new video. Thank you so much!
Not sure if you have ever done these synastry aspects: Chiron conjunct North Node and Chiron conjunct the descendant would be interesting as well. Ideas for new videos 😇
Thank you for this video. It made me cry!! I also have my Scorpion venus in 8H with Venus square Saturn aspect, and I always felt like I'm born heartbroken. My mom used to be in the serious blues, and I also went through her verbal assults when I was a child. Also, my family expected me to be born as a boy, and I felt I should not show my feelings, used to wish I was born as a boy. However, I really cherish this aspect and my tough life. This life has given me thousands lessons of femininity, and I'm so glad that I could understand how they feel, and this even leads to understanding of being the marginalised, a ultimate humanity towards all kind of humans. Ironically, having this hard aspect means that we are naturally caring person for others for worse or better, and I began to love my life and me... I'm still learning that I'm actually worthy of love, and I hope everyone but especially people born with this aspect will be happy and peaceful and know they are worthy of love and luxuries of the life! ❤
Thank you, cried the whole time. Relationships are the most painful thing there is. I'm scared I won't ever have a healthy and loving relationship with a man. I didn't have a loving father present in my life. I don't know how to receive and give love. Wish me strength to rise above it all.
I have 12H ♓️ Saturn square 9H ♐️ Jupiter, Mars and Venus.
Me too, this is crazy i was going to comment the same thing before i saw yours. Cried the whole time i am absolutely heart broken. And i already knew this about venus square saturn. She described it perfectly.
Yep, have this. Your explanation on this aspect is one of the best I have come across. My venus is also retrograde so an extra layer of not feeling good enough attractive enough, overall lack of self worth etc. Takes quite its time to go through the lessons of this one. It really resolved for me when I had to deal with it as a double whammy, when I had Saturn transiting opposite my natal Saturn, so in consequence I had not only natal Saturn squaring my venus but simultaneously also transiting Saturn squaring my venus. I am sure there is still always more left to resolve but from that point I saw a huge shift for the better.
I also agree with you I don't think it's necessarily bad karma accumulated from past lives, never felt that was the case for me. What you say about clearing family lineage issues resonates quite deeply. And also having to go through it in order to truly understand how it feels so can later use it to help other people. By now I've actually come to appreciate this aspect.
It's been minutes after i watched this whole video and im still crying, i cried the whole time. I knew this about venus square saturn, but you described it perfectly. I also need to add that my venus is retrograde and in the 8H. I've had to deal with extreme backstab from family and friends. I was in a coma, mother tried to hit me the day after my coma while i was vulenerable couldn't talk or walk. Every single guy i have ever dated something absolutely horrible would happen or get cheated on. Sexually assaulted by so many guys including my 'best guy friend' at the time... I'm trying to replace the void with success. I also try to show extra love to every single person i meet as if they have also suffered like me. Love feels impossible to attain after all the hurt in this life and i have come to accept it. But you also made me feel a lot better, so thank you.
@@Amy-dt9lu hugs 💛🙏🙏
OMG!! thank you so much for doing this aspect, you are so good at describing and explaining synastry aspects, this is one of the best description I've ever heard of venus-saturn square, I felt as though you were talking to me because it's exactly how I felt my entire life 😭😂 now I'm learning to love more and open my heart. My venus is even conjunct my south node so I think his is something that I'm bringing from a past life but I have neptune conjunct my venus at the same time so I think that's a saving grace. Thank you!! ❤❤
How have you experienced Venus conjuncts Neptune ( and what sign )
@@marinak9035 It's in the sign of aquarius. Since I have venus-neptune I'm very empathic and compassionate towards others even though I was hurt many times but met great people too, if I were to only have venus square saturn that wouldn't have been the case I guess
I have venus and moon in leo conjuncting in 10th house, opposite neptune and uranus in 4th, and saturn in 7th forming a tsquare to this opposition.
And its all in fixed signs, which makes it tougher.
I never experienced trust, reciprocal gentleness in love or emotional connection. Everything is about facade, ego and looks. When I show vulnerability, its projected on me as weakness, and often times gets used against me. My emotions and love are like frozen flowers, that everyone gets to see and observe from afar, but no one can smell them or see their true color because of that ice. In other words, i often felt in my life like i am always behind some kind of glass cage away from other people, im the animal in the zoo. No one really cares, they just look at you for entertainment.
I have this aspect and it has not been easy.
I have venus conjunct , neptune and ascendant in scorpio and saturn in aquarius.
Have been single most of my life.I'm 62.Think I have worked through a lot but still get attracted to unavailable men.
YES❤
Can you do venus trine saturn please? I'm interested to know how the easier aspects between venus and saturn manifest in someone's life
Brit, you explained it perfectly ❤️ I don't have this aspect myself but I know a person who does and this is literally the best description and also very compassionate. I also love how you talked about karma at the beginning. 🌼
OMG!!!! I have natal Venus opposite Saturn and Moon. Saturn and Moon is also on my rising. I SAD!!!
This resonates in such a real way. I have quite a few difficult aspects/placements in my natal chart, but Venus square Saturn as well as Moon in 6th house probably take the cake. I have always struggled with insecurities in love and in relationships in general and have felt like an outcast for as long as I can remember. It’s so hard for me to express myself and be uninhibited, especially sexually, but I am getting much better with it - this is why I love learning about my chart! I have a degree in psychology and recently started working for a suicide hotline; it is healing for me to be able to understand others’ deepest hurts and depression 🩷
@@DaysofOurLives2005 what’s the meaning of having moon in the 6th house? I have it too 😬
@@hubermarcelo4273 it is one of the most difficult placements for the moon; you can tend to be overly critical of yourself/your emotions and of others, and can be rigid in routines. Your emotions can also be very easily affected by daily activities or slight changes in schedule. Also moods and emotional well-being are strongly connected to physical well-being with 6th house moon, so if you’re not well emotionally it can manifest as a physical illness
@@DaysofOurLives2005 wow! I love this so much💛🙏 it seems like you’re really living the higher side of this! And I have moon in 6H too and agree it’s a hard one . Hugs to you! 💛🙏
@@DaysofOurLives2005 great description of moon in 6th 🥹
@@britsoulcoach 💛hugs to you too!💛thank you for the videos!
Love this description, and the little pep talk- ty ❤ I have this aspect as part of an exact T square with my Uranus and Mars. Natal Venus in Virgo in the 12th. So yeah. Pain 😂🥴
Thankfully I’m a Libra rising finishing up a progressed moon through my 12th, with Chiron transiting my 7th. Lots of healing opportunities for me. Staying positive.
Loving your videos, keep up the awesome work 🤗
Thank you, spot on! I have this and my Venus is conjunct Mars so I also have Saturn square Mars and my low self worth has been debilitating! No compliment sinks in, I may understand it in my head but not in my heart. Extremely challenging, especially when I consider myslef quite a Jupitarian person so I will focus more on that, thank you :)
I know someone who has this aspect, while I have Venus conjunct Saturn. I feel like my saving grace is that my Venus is also conjunct my Sun, so even though I also struggle with my self-worth, expressing love to everyone is fullfiling for me.
When I met them, they looked like they're in so much pain.
They would refuse any help anyone would be extending. It's like they don't think they deserve anything good in life.
They do not have any other aspects to their Venus so I think it's extremely difficult.
My Neptune conjunct their Venus and their Jupiter conjunct my Venus and Saturn.
Their Venus is in my 12th house.
'It's like they don't think they deserve anything good in life.' its very spot on. made me cry even more haha
*sigh* i have this (as well as merc square saturn and cap moon😅) It's been a long hard road. I am a venus dominant person with venus in the 1st in taurus and am actually an attractive woman who gets alot of compliments but man really feeling that your beautiful is a different story! I think this aspect is the ugly duckling aspect and i certainly experienced this after years of bullying about my appearance, the glow up was insane! But at 32 still no love or really any true friends 😢 My heart is open but i just can't seem to find my people, oh well
I have it in my natal chart. It does have some challenges but if you do your Saturn ‘homework’ rewards are also great !( as I watch this video transit Venus conjuncts my natal Saturn )
In the past i hated my femininity ,now I've accepted it and it became more easy.also my venus square my Jupiter
Sooo happy you’re doing more natal aspects. Can I request Sun conjunct Mars and Mars opposite Saturn? Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Born with a burden is crazy because at 3 i remember being told i would go to hell if i like the same sex and i prayed so hard for years because i wanted to be changed. I have Venus, moon, and the North node all squaring Saturn from 0-3 degree orbs. I was always told i had an old soul as a kid. Now I’m 25, gay, and never been in a serious relationship. I’ve tried but all my insecurities would come up. I also learned i can’t do anything casual.
Appearance is also a thing with this aspect. Sometimes I’d do my best to look good but there would always (and i mean always) be that one thing or incident or spill or stain or wardrobe malfunction that would throw me off. It made me become hyper aware and overly prepared to go out. I look my best when i plan and coordinate my outfits way ahead of time. Though i don’t really have a strict type, i have always been more attracted to older men. 😅 Thanks you so much for this, this was spot on. 💚
Could you do the natal moon square Saturn aspect? 🙏🏾
I don't know how to thank you for this video and its synchronicity ❤
I have this aspect in my chart. Venus 6th house in taurus square saturn 2nd house in aquarius and jupiter square venus, opposite saturn in 8th house in leo. Hopefully I have uranus conj neptune in 2nd house in capricorn and MC in virgo trine to venus.
Yesterday, i was saying my lover how much it's difficult (whereas so many years of therapy, trying everything) and I wanted to die and give up (difficult childhood, relationships, sex and money difficulties, transgenerationnal issues, indigny of being...). Everything that you are saying is a blessing and hope for me to end this cycle for one and for good. Hopefully, a lot of synchronicities in my life when I am so down.
I have a transit of Pluto on my Saturn natal in 2026. I feel that something is coming...
Thank you again 🙏
Ps : sorry for my english, I'm French ^^
Hi Brit, recently I have transit Saturn square my natal Venus and I also briefly met a person who Venus sextile Saturn in their chart. Long story short our composite have Saturn conjunct Venus which I find very interesting. That person is like a transit to me, but in a human form. It feels fated and I've learn a lot about love and fear and insecurity.
Anyway, I've not seen a lot of information on unaspected planets in synastry. I wonder if you have any insight on it! I hope it can be an idea for a new video. Thank you so much!
natal venus conjunct saturn next please
Not sure if you have ever done these synastry aspects: Chiron conjunct North Node and Chiron conjunct the descendant would be interesting as well. Ideas for new videos 😇
@@IloveCamels335 thank you 🙏 and Chiron Conjunct Nn I have done 😁
Do you have a video on natal Mars opposite Neptune?
@@DaysofOurLives2005 added to my list to do🙏
Hi can you do venus opposition chiron? Natal. Thank youu❤️❤️❤️❤️
Please can you do natal venus opposite Saturn? I expect it to be very similar to this?
pluto conj south node in composite?
Venus in Scorpio square Saturn in Aquarius. lol how screwed am I.
Also how can I get you to break down my natal chart?
this plus venus trine pluto has been tough 🥲