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  • @MichaelEmery94
    @MichaelEmery94 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I hope this really helps someone! I was blessed just to be giving our testimony together 🙏🏾

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      In the name of Jesus it will! Thank you SO much for your steady support in my passions with serving God. I love being by your side transforming lives. 💜

  • @ChristopherClyde12
    @ChristopherClyde12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised.

    • @RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed
      @RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @ChristopherClyde12
      @ChristopherClyde12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white

    • @RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed
      @RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

    • @ChristopherClyde12
      @ChristopherClyde12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You wont regret it.

  • @KgothatsoMofomme-uo4lj
    @KgothatsoMofomme-uo4lj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thank you guys for this video. I just started dating as a born again Christian woman. All my life I’ve been dating in a worldly way but now I am doing it the Godly way 😊

  • @maddieleon2922
    @maddieleon2922 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This video came perfect timing! “The seeds you plant when you’re single will grow when you get in a relationship” this was so good! God bless you both. Thank you❤️

  • @osiaprosper2514
    @osiaprosper2514 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think the most simplest decisions is when two people that want to build the future together decide their life's journey together and put God at the center of their plans helps get things right done 👫🙏🏿

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    To save you tons of heartbreak, I wouldn't suggest dating unless you're ready for marriage. Not the idea of marriage or the benefits but honoring God and sticking it out for life.
    Dating is navigating through a world where everyone's motive for dating is different. Some people are just looking for a pillow talk and sex buddy while they want to continue to live single and come and go while others want a relationship and marriage. Find someone who has the same values

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@12Messenger thank you for sharing! I 100% agree with you, in the end, this video is made for Christian dating, not worldly dating. You do have to get to know someone and get confirmation from God before throwing a ring on it, dating is needed in todays time considering everyone’s toxic agendas, but to stick to the commandments God has given us regarding marriage is important especially when dating to marry. I’m glad you shared this for others to see! God bless 🤍

    • @shalomimafidon2992
      @shalomimafidon2992 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I believe courtship is a more better word because the word already conote something different ...." Worldly"
      Like it's either you are in it for marriage or you both are just friends , any other thing in between can be a slippery slope

  • @SifundoSamente
    @SifundoSamente หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey I'm watching from Pretoria South Africa ❤🎉

  • @jessicataylor5096
    @jessicataylor5096 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your message was so inspirational and gave me new found hope in having a Godly relationship/ marriage despite some bumps in the road. Thank you for sharing your powerful testimonies and keeping it 💯!! Your wisdom and knowledge in the Word of God and personal experiences are impactful! May God continue to bless you both and bless your union! 🙏🏽

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      GOD IS SOO GOOD!! this absolutely makes me so happy, thank you for taking the time to uplift the work I’m doing for Gods kingdom! Thank you for watching and I’m so glad this gave you hope, I pray God guides you closer and closer to the plans He has for you Jessica! God bless you and beautiful spirit sister 🤍😭

    • @jessicataylor5096
      @jessicataylor5096 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jahlana Thank you for your response! Many blessings!! 🙏🏽

  • @Anna-vy4hb
    @Anna-vy4hb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this!! So many good nuggets .

  • @yngk.i.r.k_8805
    @yngk.i.r.k_8805 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Bro was speaking to me at the end lol 😂 said they have financing options for a ring you right tho lol

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

  • @Africanbaddie
    @Africanbaddie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That grandma conformation yesssss 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Africanbaddie you know grandmas be having that wisdom!

  • @AbideJ157
    @AbideJ157 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I CANNOT PUT ENOUGH CLAPPING EMOJIS ON THIS VIDEO!!!!!! Yall spoke so beautifully, powerfully, and strongly about the truth. Thank you for your honesty and sharing your journey with us. I'm so glad The Lord led me to this video. I have so much peace as I continue to wait patiently for my spouse. I'm praying for you both as you continue to do the will of God and find yourself in His word. I'm so glad we are in this together. Much love and respect!!! 🥰🤎🙌🏽🙏🏽💍 #subscribed

  • @Africanbaddie
    @Africanbaddie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations on y’all being engaged ❤❤

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Africanbaddie thank you beautiful 🥹🤍🤍

  • @KamiaMcWilliams
    @KamiaMcWilliams 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jahlana!!! I did not know that you are an artist! That piece would have caught my attention too, good move Michael! But God bless both of you, I appreciate both of you for being so transparent and open. This conversation is going to help so many single men & women but also engaged couples, even married! ❤

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      SIS you’re going to make me cry! 😂 but THANK YOU!! GOD IS USING US! thank you so much for watching and uplifting us with kind words sister. God is so good, God bless you lovely and everything God has for you. 🤍

  • @poppy03-m4v
    @poppy03-m4v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i love you two , God bless you thank you ❤️

  • @CL-do5eq
    @CL-do5eq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This advice came with so much peace ❤ thank Yall ready for part 2 !

  • @lifewithpromise
    @lifewithpromise 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is so good! I love the conversation, such great wisdom from the both of you 🤍

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      awe thank you SO much for watching, God bless ✨🥹🤍

  • @davidmj4504
    @davidmj4504 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved every minute of this, you dropped nuggets after nuggets
    Really thank you so so much .

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      GOD IS SOOO AMAZING! I’m so happy this helped you in any way, thank you for watching & God bless you!! 🙏🏽🤍

  • @ImFuzeable
    @ImFuzeable 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The whole video was so good!

  • @jademalanchefservices
    @jademalanchefservices 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    love this !

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching! God bless you 🤍

  • @allenervin6350
    @allenervin6350 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was good ❤

  • @TheKeyIsKeey
    @TheKeyIsKeey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So proud of you both! Love y’all! This was a great video! 🙏🏼🫶🏼

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love you more! Thank you so much for your kind words and for watching!!! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @HandsthatglorfiyJesus
    @HandsthatglorfiyJesus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Also wanted to say that the Lord is going to bless y’all when yall get married
    There’s a commanded blessing find the wife find a good thing in obtains favor from the Lord
    “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord.”
    ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭18‬:‭22‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@HandsthatglorfiyJesus receive this sister! Love this verse, it very reassuring! Thank you for sharing these kind words of biblical encouragement. God bless you beautiful 🥹🤍🤍

    • @HandsthatglorfiyJesus
      @HandsthatglorfiyJesus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jahlana you’re welcome sis be blessed 🥹

  • @jademalanchefservices
    @jademalanchefservices 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would definitely watch y’all podcast lol

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s really nice to know! 😂😂😂

  • @whitneyagyapomaa5838
    @whitneyagyapomaa5838 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved listening to this 😍😍❤️❤️

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad it found you sister! God bless you beautiful 🙏🏽

  • @Tblade_DareToBeDifferent
    @Tblade_DareToBeDifferent 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for being transparent

  • @faithkiraboedelia
    @faithkiraboedelia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was really amazing!!!!

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad it encouraged and served you! God bless you sister! 🤍

  • @lorraine4483
    @lorraine4483 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Jahlana for this video 😊it was really helpful. And you guys are literally goals, may God bless you guys. ❤

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you SO much for watching beautiful, it’s blessing to hear it was helpful. I appreciate the sweet words and may God continue to bless you and shower His love upon you! 🤍🤍

  • @HandsthatglorfiyJesus
    @HandsthatglorfiyJesus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yall almost look alike 😮
    That’s what Marriage does ❤

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@HandsthatglorfiyJesus I laughed at this harder than I should’ve lolll, I noticed a lot of couples this happens too 😂😂

  • @marthafrans
    @marthafrans หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing

  • @Officialshannonbrown1
    @Officialshannonbrown1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this conversation

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you watching! I prayed it helped you in some way in your walk. 🙌🏽

    • @Officialshannonbrown1
      @Officialshannonbrown1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jahlana Yeah especially during this generation they need to hear it

  • @clareuche
    @clareuche 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank You Jesus for this video

  • @efyarhborngreat438
    @efyarhborngreat438 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New subscriber here
    I'm Blessed listening to y'all

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ahhh welcome beautiful! You’re going to transform so much! Thank you for watching and I’m so happy to have you apart of this journey! 🤍

  • @kendrawilliams5703
    @kendrawilliams5703 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing!

  • @blessedngrateful2254
    @blessedngrateful2254 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!!!🙌🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🤍🤍🤍 God bless sister

  • @clementinehonyini9600
    @clementinehonyini9600 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm also 24 girl😊

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ahhh I love meeting people my age! 😇

  • @professionaljourneytopro9851
    @professionaljourneytopro9851 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this so much man, question tho do you think personally physical attraction to the opposite gender matter to an extent or what’s is more important is to seek after their hearts and fruits after God because for me that’s the most important things is the relationship with Christ part and also try to make some confirmation with the Lord of God that’s the type of persons I am you know in proverbs 31:10 talks about it more in depth! I want to hear your personal opinion!!

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I believe the heart we have for God matters most, looks can be deceiving and can take us places God never intended us. Focus on the heart and spirit of the person God has for you. We can get caught up on appearances, materialistic things people have, titles, we forgot if they even follow Christ, make sure you witness if the person has the fruits of the spirit and that they hold the qualities of a Proverbs 31 woman. God bless you brother, I hoped this helped! 🙏🏽

    • @professionaljourneytopro9851
      @professionaljourneytopro9851 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jahlana Thank you so much sis also I appreciate your man for touching on this too man may the Lord bless you and keep you and the lord makes his face shine on you and may he be gracious to y’all. Love the content it helps a lot of us out here be able to listen to ya story!

  • @poppy03-m4v
    @poppy03-m4v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOORRRDDDDD !!!!!!!!

  • @thando_tlng
    @thando_tlng 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    5:27 🥹🥹❤️🙌aww you guys are cute and I want to find love at 20, because I have been single for 19years to date 🥰. Just waiting to pass the 19 theory 😂😂😭

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thando_tlng 😭 haha awe thank you beautiful!! I literally wasn’t expecting love at 20 but God has His way of blessings seasons! & I know God sees your obedience and patience, your person is preparing right now for you!! Remain rooted in God 🥰🤍✨

    • @thando_tlng
      @thando_tlng 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jahlana AMEN THANK YOU 🙏❤️

  • @JoshuaDaWriter
    @JoshuaDaWriter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Need time stamps

  • @Africanbaddie
    @Africanbaddie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So are you guys intimate now that yall are engaged or yall waiting until marriage?

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@Africanbaddie we’ve both repented and we are waiting until marriage! We didn’t want to enter marriage displeasing God.

    • @Africanbaddie
      @Africanbaddie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Jahlana wow amazing

  • @afiajazz3644
    @afiajazz3644 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Are you Melody Alisa's sister?

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂 haha no sister, but it would be so beautiful if I was 😇

    • @afiajazz3644
      @afiajazz3644 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @Jahlana oh OK lol you too look alike 😂 great video btw.

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@afiajazz3644I’ve heard this before lol! Thank you for watching 🤍

    • @afiajazz3644
      @afiajazz3644 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Jahlana you're so welcome thank you for being so transparent.

  • @Boujeedess
    @Boujeedess 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    haha i called it

    • @Jahlana
      @Jahlana  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂