I honestly don’t think that what Cam said was wrong. We all know some women (not all) who looks wise are BAD but doesn’t have much to offer outside of looks.
Seriously, there was nothing wrong with what he said. People on the internet are addicted to being mad at literally anything. it's annoying sometimes 🤷
I was raised to cater to my man so,I see nothing wrong with what he said. Social media has contributed to the demise of the dynamic of genuine relationships.Everyone has unrealistic options and everyone is disposable now.
See RESPECT to Bigga he always come in and just seal the deal!!!! Absolutely well spoken.. this was such a great conversation. They were not disrespectful to women nor bashing women. It was just a friendly discussion that was well articulated… good job fellas!
What’s amazing in all of this, is that you see women break down their preferences in men all day & night on SM. The moment one man outlines his personal preferences, it becomes WW3. If nothing else, this shows how emotional and hypocritical many women are.
😂😂😂😂 This is not at all what women had an issue with. The fact that so many males do not understand that is why we are in the state we are in now…… Emotion is not synonymous to being a woman. Not being able to rationalize rebuttals and illogically make gaslighting arguments is out of pure emotion/ignorance and arrogance not logic. The fact that males can’t understand that says a lot. If you think women have an issue with Cam definition of what is or not being a “bad b****” is to him, women have absolutely no chance in reciprocated/healthy relationships.
I think it’s because Cam contradicted his own statement. Cam temporarily settled with a woman that was a former stripper and had multiple children with her. Then left her only to have another kid with an IG model that worked for him. How is a “bad bitch” worthy of having your children but not being taken serious enough as a girlfriend/wife? If “bad bitches” have nothing to offer, why have kids with them? It’s a classic message > messenger situation.
Cam is right. Everybody needs to know the role they play and the requirements of that role. The main issue with society now is everybody wants to be everything but do no work and suffer no consequences. We want to be leaderless, we want to be faultless, we want to avoid responsibility but at the same time we want to be heard and we want to be boss and we want all the spoils of a lifestyle or lifestyles we don't want to do one ounce of the work required to actually achieve it. Women on the one hand want to be in positions of leadership and power and at the head but at the same time want to pull the victim card with a quickness and want to be taken care of like they are children. Men on the one hand want women to sit back and be seen and guided but don't want to lead a family or give any directions. We got kids now who tell their parents what to do and what they are not going to do. Solutions. Be true to who you are and let others know what you will and won't accept. It may mean you don't get who you want but rather who you need by your side. Lastly beat kids asses when necessary and also give them direction not just tell them they can do whatever they want.
A woman once told me that to combat the insecurity about the wage gap in her family dynamic (she was the bread winner), she gave her husband the responsibility of paying the bills. She had both of their checks deposited into a joint account and he managed the household finances from that account. She says this worked for them because he was in charge of the household finances. Personally, I want to stay home with the babies, make the home, cater to my family / man etc. I have my passions on the side that I would like to continue to work on but it’s for the love of it not the $. I believe like Math said a man WANTS to provide it’s just natural. I believe in the natural order of things.
ITS NO ? straight FACTS THAT MAN GOTTA CUM HOME AND A FAMILY is MAN A Foundation stands and builds woman which makes understanding to not put yourself as a woman in a MAN shoes.COMMUNICATION between the2 except Comfort between the Brain…Which SETTLE THE TONGUE TO RELAX THE BODY OF YOUR MAN SO THAT YOU CAN COMPLETE THE PEACE THAT OF HIS HOME ….money shouldn’t be a key Just knoe God is a Lock…..And as women/MY OWN HAS Prayer you gotta bless his space so wat either came in wit IT STAY OR WAT EITHER HAVE IT GROW BOSS B!!!! Is like as the world turns who made the rules at this point..
Love this show 🙌🏽 so much, salute gentleman! I agree both parties have to work to maintain stability, due to the economy. It’s hard out here, so teamwork is definitely necessary.
Me and Wifey both cater to EACH OTHER. It takes years of living together and getting to truly know each other. And when you have no problems of truly respecting and supporting your significant other then you got the one. Salute to Math Hoffa and the Crew on this build.
@@jamint.jaddua1771 get some air with others? Nah bro we both run our own businesses and spend plenty of time apart so when we have OUR time we appreciate it, its just that simple.
@@Djaytiger yeah with others .. as far as for me I need that time and space apart because she is one person .. I think overall if you give that person enough time and separation apart in-between time one will clearly see as the man Inn the relationship if she is the right person to have Inn your life or not
I got fired from my job because i almost fought my 50 year old coworker.. and It got toxic yo so now, i spend most of my time smoking weed on my TH-cam channel now, meanwhile i get back to the grind fam
I really enjoy seeing black men communicate their honest opinions on topics like this that matter. Really felt like I was sitting in the barber shop listening.
This episode deserves a TH-cam Emmy! It’s so good to hear real brothers talking about shit that affects us! Real Spit.. this conversation has to be had and I hope lots of women in particular hear this dialogue and take heed! I wrote a book called How To Attract a R.E.A.L. Man. Real is an acronym for Responsible, Educated, Ambitious and Loving. If a man possess these 4 qualities he usually is a King 🤴🏽 and got his shit together in a major way. A woman gotta respect it or she’s getting canceled no matter how much of a bad bitch she thinks she is. Thanks guys for representing for real men! Great episode! 👊🏽👌🏽💯
In my home my wife makes sure the food is cooked or delivered.I make sure the funds are straight and the bills are paid.She provides the nurturing and love for our home.I am the protector and disciplinarian and goofy energy in my home.I make sure to please her and keep her satisfied sexually and mentally.She freaks me and rubs me down when im in need of healing.We never disagree in front of others.She can come and go as she pleases but she makes sure the home is top notch at all times.The beds are always made, the kitchen stays clean, and my home stays clean all the time.The yard and maintenance of our house I take care of.The cars I take Care of.We have have separate bank accounts and one joint account.Basic things that a woman and man should be taught.
That mic drop at the end was the best thing I heard out of this entire segment...Great job guys!!!! Love the different viewpoints and the debate styles are very powerful, insightful and enlightening. Glad I came across these....The conversations are very good and I love the barbershop vibes
A traditional woman wouldn’t have a problem with wat he said some might agree today woman r a different breed we all know this u can’t tell a woman nothing these days💯
What Cam's saying is, If you don't understand how to respect and look after a man, you're not a" bad chick". You can sell that to other women, but we're not buyin' it. All men want is our respect as men. don't tell us what to do, or talk slick.
I'm a 33 year old man extremely happily married with three children and my wife and I had a conversation 5 years ago about where we were going and what benefits came from both of us working. Granted she was only 24 at the time and I 26 so you can imagine how lucrative either of our jobs were. After figuring everything out we realized it actually cost us money most weeks for her to work because of her and my schedule, the cost of daycare for our two kids at that time, and vehicle expenditures. If anything happened to the children I would have to take off work due to me being a carpenter with my freedom of schedule. However me getting off potentially three maybe even 4 hours early would cost us more money than if she didn't go to work for the whole day. It made more financial sense for her to leave her position and be home to take care of everything within the home but also mostly anything that would come up throughout the day requiring me to leave work. Plus with the additional freedom of not having to have daycare if I had a side job come up on the weekend I was able to dedicate much more time to growing my business on the side of my regular job. We sit 5 years later with another child, three cars, two tractors, three four wheelers, two dirt bikes, trampolines and playsets and zip lines in the yard. Our house is fully paid off as well as all vehicles.... Had we not made that decision though it would have taken us another 15 years to get where we are today simply because of the monotony of the day-to-day grind and both of us working low-end jobs with not enough time to dedicate to get to high positions. Each scenario is different for every couple so I recommend sitting down and seeing how much extra you're making by having both of you work and how much would truly be lost if one did not work and the other was able to dedicate to their work more
WOWWWWW! MAD accolades to you and your wife! You absolutely must be teaching that same form of UNITY (that is required to even reach that mindset.... which THEN implicates the Lord is your lead!) to those around you because you're "WALKING IT OUT"!!!! AMEN you guy's, aaaaaammmmeeennn!
Most women once they deem themselves “bad b^tches” they no longer see themselves as traditional wives… Plus it’s a different culture and we need to be honest as a people and stop using Celebs and athletes as the standard… They don’t live our lives
This is such a great conversation from you Kings. My take is that most black women have warped ideals surrounding relationships and it has some to do with social conditioning. Society is continuing to destroy black communities through divisive ideologies. To be with a “high valued man” means that relationship comes with sacrifice. A high income earner works more hours per day. Within a particular belief that women don’t want to contribute financially, 50/50, is a little sad to me. I have no problem with paying half. As you all pointed out…that 9% doesn’t exist. When we are all senior citizens, black people will be a lonely group if we don’t take control of our thoughts on relationships and reciprocity.
Most women will/want to cater to their husbands but the majority of the men that wants to be catered to does not take care of his wife's heart. Trust, when a women is treated right and her heart is taken care of (not monetary) he will be catered to, ten fold.
A man who has built himself up financially, physically, and spiritually basically has paid the cost to be the boss, has options, so any woman who deals with him has to cater to his wants and needs or she could kick rocks. A man does not want a woman who is not willing to contribute to his progress.
A man who has taken the time to develop spiritually would understand that to have a healthy relationship both people must have their needs met. This is why women file for divorce the most because so many men were conditioned to consider only their needs. Especially American men. and these guys are speaking about a particular type of woman in their line of work. If all you have to offer is money self absorption you will attract only a certain type of woman. That is not the real world. Young black women who want to be wives and mothers are no longer limiting themselves to black American men. As a collective, most know nothing about marriage and leading a household. They don’t have what it takes to have a wife. No decent father would ever approve of their daughter marrying a man who thinks only his needs and wants matter. That’s an adolescent that is not even qualified to have a girlfriend. A daughter who respects and loves her father, who loved and protected her, as her mother does will never go against him, and those women make the best wives.
Cam was talking from a prepective that little can relate to which was his parents being married for 40 years. He watched his whole life of what a good relationship is.
Being together for 40 years does not equate a "good" relationship. It denotes acceptance, ups and downs and being comfortable which is nothing wrong with it..
@@missb2182 sounds like the wedding vows to me... My parents have been married 52yrs and I have a great idea of what a Good Relationship is BUT just like Cam and many others I picked wrong too!!
@@TheIrapprettygood People definitely pick for the wrong reasons but mostly people are not equally yoked with their partner. People also are not willing to put in the work to maintain a successful relationship/marriage because in all relationships, there are equally goodness and challenges which everyone is not equipped to deal with on the long term..
@@TheIrapprettygood A couple being together for 40+ years does not mean it’s a healthy relationship. There is a lot of tolerance that was likely accepted, furthermore women were not as independent as they are now. Lastly divorcing was frowned upon, no matter the circumstances. Today women have more freedom and options, so the things that women were tolerating before are no longer acceptable. My parents were married at 18, and are still married today in their mid-60s. Do you know how much tolerance it takes to marry an 18 year old?
He said what HE requires in a woman. He spoke solely for himself. For those women who are complaining, he’s not checking for them whatsoever. Therefore, it doesn’t matter. Men are equally allowed to have preferences and boundaries just as much as women. Plus if you don’t know how to cook, there are videos and cookbooks. There is no valid reason on why anyone doesn’t know how to cook. When he said “quiet” he meant for someone who doesn’t always have to be seen or heard all the time. I don’t understand why people don’t like their peace. Why do people have to be on 10 so much? High blood pressure is no joke. I was raised in a traditional household. I can’t do the Roommate or Child Husband thing. I know how to cook, clean and I don’t bother anyone so I really don’t want to be bothered. I just want to live life and have fun. I’m not sure about doing things on his money. 😩😩😩 I would feel funny about it.
I appreciate the fact that ya'll can mesh bigga's elder sense of things with the middle aged, hip hop perspective which creates a deeper understanding for the audience.
Best pod out! I just listened this same video over the weekend and I'm replaying it. IT FEELS GOOD TO HEAR DIALOGUE FOR US! The hidden gem in this is that it's Black Men engaging Black Men. How we treated ourselves and each other is how the world will treat us. 💪🏿🙏🏿
Out of everyone in the room, Bigga took the win. I was waiting for someone to correct the grammer of a bitch to a woman. Big difference. Hopefully Bigga can start getting more time to speak.
Facts, we can’t talk anymore, because anytime we have an opinion about women, we gotta pick our words carefully. We gotta damn near eggshell walk, whenever we speak about women.
Cam has standards... women have theirs...most women want a provider, protector, some women smash niggas for clout etc ...men ain't out here calling women out for that so why are women out here tripping?
Women want a traditional relationship/marriage but don’t hold traditional values and traits. Also, many women are saying they no longer want to do chores around the house as the women were in charge of back then. They want to eliminate things a woman should do in a relationship but they still want a man to be the provider. I’ve heard many women say times have changed but when you say why do you want a man to still provide , they’re quiet or say well a man is supposed to lead 🤣🤣. Many roles are eliminating from traditional relationships for a women but why do they all remain for the man? Women don’t want to work or pay bills . They just want to be a bad b*tch with the looks.
This whole session was on point. If you listen with your logic and have paid attention to behaviors over time (use your wisdom), you’ll see no lies told. I really love this jawn…….best conversation.
@@ellesouthernbelle5655 I’m moving to Charlotte at some point. Although it’s 16% higher compared to where I live, it’s still way much cheaper than the east coast and westcoast.
To quote my wife just now..."Cam is kinda crude with it but he makes sense." The interesting thing is that my wife has a doctorate and her own private practice so she would be seen as a boss b@#$h in spite of the fact that for the first 11 years of our marriage she was home with our 4 children while I held it down saving money for her to go back to college. Women today want everything but don't want to endure the humility of the long term grind. We as a couple have lived it and my wife has done both because she told me that's what she wanted(a career and 4 children) and I fell in love with her as a intelligent black woman with her own life and did not want her to drop her dreams because we decided to have kids and we both knew it would take patience ON HER PART(because I just wanted to get married and have kids...I was already deep into my career at the time). (Edit)...As an afterthought I'll add the fact that she now makes enough money that I can switch careers and do what I really want. Moral of the story is that NOBODY is a self made "boss". Everyone either had someone hold them down while they grinded or they had someone extend a hand and gave them a shot. Ain't no real bosses...its a lie people tell themselves to feel good about themselves by taking claim or discrediting all of the people who got YOU where You are. Unless you've made billions and can literally buy cooperation "just because" and your last name is Winfrey/Carter/Knowles/Bezos/Musk go sit down homegirl...you aren't even in the same dimension as an actual boss.
Respectfully, servicing your partner SHOULD BE the standard for relationships regardless of income or gender. Learn what your partner loves and responds well to (that’s within your power to produce), and flood they market with that shit. Be their peace and their pleasure. And as y’all build independently and together, more shit will become available. Westerners ARE too capitalistic though. We are indoctrinated to want the very most profit we can get for the lowest investment we can manage. That’s why we cheat and monkey-branch and misuse each other. We have been ingrained to see ourselves and each other as commodities with and for which to be negotiated.
@@Baxter2012 I’m not entirely sure I understand your question. But I’d say yes. Even with kids, this should be the standard. Not minimizing the complications that kids bring to a relationship at all. Not even trying to or wanting to. But I believe that a concerted effort should be made to keep the pair bond strong. The health, safety, and success of the kid(s) definitely takes priority. But, if and where possible, the health and safety and success of the mother and father relationship should be honored and edified. It’s imminently easier to do that with someone who has proven to be all about servicing you, being your pleasure and your peace AND who receives that energy and motivation from you. It’s awfully idealistic. lol I know. But the alternative is the state of relationships that we have, especially in the Black community.
When Math said “who do we want to be?” That was not only the most important question but he dropped it at the elite moment it needed to be asked per the subject as a broader open ended discussion.
This was interesting topic and I tell you man, ES$O and Mecca drop a great deal of common sense and logical wisdom. One thing to fact check✔️ per several sources the actual percentage of Americans that make $100k to $149k is 15.5% not 9%. The later corresponds to Americans making more than 9%. These are individuals, not households. Households is slightly more of course.
Many times, women don't want to run a household especially career driven because of the historical treatment of women. From the beginning of time, women have been viewed as lesser than or in a subservient role. If men decide to be provider and embrace that it's fine. But women have options too. They should be able to say they don't want to hold down a full-time job and cook and clean. Women can decide the type of life we want and the time of man we want to be in relationship. Esso is right about girlfriend circles having a leader or sometimes several but will defer to one. The reason is because we trust her to do what's best for the group. What you all are leaving out is the controlling factor that women have been subjected to since the beginning of time. In the same way that Math said not to move in with your girl, that goes the same for women. How many women have given up total control to a man because he was the provider, he left and now she's destitute. The fact is that whether male or female, people need to be able to stand on their own two feet.
I appreciate this podcast as a whole the level of honesty and maturity and insight is great to see successful black men being real and transparent. Math and the fellas are on another level nuff respect
There are so many things to unpack in this conversation. The term "bad bitches", role confusion, financial stability/equality, trust and communication. As a woman and of course I can't speak for all women but it is disturbing to me that under the guise of feminism there are women who enjoy being called a "bitch" and even moreso as a "boss bitch", a term that was always used to demean a woman. To add boss to it is a contradiction in terms. A woman is a boss manageing financial and business affairs but she is spiteful, unpleasant or disliked by the definitive meaning of the term "bitch." I would never want to be identified with that term as it relates to my ability to financially support myself well and handle affairs. That would seemingly just need the use of the term "boss" which is neither masculine or feminine. In western culture since the feminist movement, women left the home to work seeking equality in all matters of society, the problem with this is it changed the dynamic of relationships, the roles became confused. That is not to say that women can't navigate in the world and work and perform a plethora of duties, nor should men not help in the home however, the fight becomes who then leads in the household. The connotation of being a "boss bitch" is relative to the confusion of the male/female roles. The man is relegated to being the submissive and would require the woman to lead, protect and provide therefore the idea is a male is not needed in the home. This is the fallacy. Both sexes are needed in the home as well as roles are needed otherwise there is imbalance which we are clearly seeing in the children in their behaviors as well as the great decline in lasting, fulfilling relationships and marriages. The high earning ability associated with "boss bitches" further strains the identity of these individuals. Are they not boss if their earnings are not extensive, can they no longer lead without said income, do they no longer need the male influence without it? Again confusion in the role as well as a straining factor in a relationship. This will cause further disruptions in trust for both sexes in the relationship. He has to figure out where he fits, has to be subservient and in some cases rely on her income. She controls the purse, she distrusts him because he is not a "man" because he earns less (based on the ideology of the traditional roles men protect, provide, etc.) and the seeds of distrust grows. Overall, communication is the key. Most people do not want to take the time to ask those uncomfortable questions or watch their potential mate's moves. What is your credit score, how are you earning your money, do you own stock, insurance, crytpo, what are your debts, do you have savings, what do you feel about traditional roles, etc? All of these things contribute to the progression or demise or a relationship. Many of them should also determine someone's "boss" factor whether male or female. But these are just my humble thoughts which may not be popular in our community today but again these are my opinions. 🤷🏾♀️
@@emekaoparah8665 Thank you. It was a conversation I have always longed to have with men and women in an open forum but most are closed off, intimidated or uninterested in having the kind of depth required for the conversation.🤷🏾♀️
I see NOTHING wrong with what Cam Newton said. There needs to be communication between a woman and a man on what each others needs are as a unit and a family.
You gotta realize Esso is speaking from a place of a person who doesn’t earn money like regular people who work a 9-5. He’s in the entertainment world where he probably gets checks on occasion that are 100k and beyond on a regular basis- so to him a 100k a year for his lifestyle would mean he’s broke. I have friends that are lawyers, Teachers etc..,,, who don’t make 100k a year but they live good lives. I myself make a little over 85 a year and my wife makes over 65 and with our combined incomes we live a very good life, don’t let these entertainers and people in that industry fool you.
Respect each other and do what works for YOU. At times folks compare themselves to each other and that’s something you should never do. I think your conversations are dope💯 Respect to you men
Cam Newton basically said..... We need more of Savanah James (Lebrons Wife) in the Worlds than all these IG Baddies that brings nothing to the table.....
Men get their money and find better ways to take care of their woman and family. Many women get money and start justifying why they dont need a man in these past 30 years. Weirdest thing ever.
All of you are focused on money. It's not about the money (the right kind of woman). This is the problem, men like Cam thinks his money should get him catered to. I can almost guarantee he's not a good relationship partner. He probably thinks because he can buy you certain things you should cater to him.
Me and my wife split Bill's I'd be damn if I'm paying Bill's when we both use them that old ass way of putting everything on a man is dead were In this together that's what's marriage is about right
@@redstar4691 yeah let you tell it and to tell you know the truth shes never complained not one time .....I can tell you live society based I dont know why men live that way you work to pay for everything My own Mother never even expected that from my father or stepfather just as long as they keep a job to contribute to the house they both paid for
Cam Newton has said a lot of bullshit throughout the years, the worst one being when he said “racism dosen’t exist” 🤦🏿♂️. So anything he says whether he’s right or wrong, it don’t matter to me. I fuck with this podcast so I’m just tuning in to listen.
I honestly don’t think that what Cam said was wrong. We all know some women (not all) who looks wise are BAD but doesn’t have much to offer outside of looks.
Preach
man they're are average who don't have much too offer except sex lol as time goes on, it'll only get worse
And that falls on him to chose better.
The women he’s talking about are the ones who felt a way.
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Seriously, there was nothing wrong with what he said. People on the internet are addicted to being mad at literally anything. it's annoying sometimes 🤷
Mad annoying!
Super facts
ACTUAL FACTS!
real spill!
Is it people or jus woman?
I was raised to cater to my man so,I see nothing wrong with what he said. Social media has contributed to the demise of the dynamic of genuine relationships.Everyone has unrealistic options and everyone is disposable now.
Sad but true!
Fact.
Your mother failed you
I love this!!! Me & my lady work together on everything & help each other
There's nothing wrong with doing so but a lot of these men that ask for it doesn't take care of said woman's heart. So, he will not be catered to.
She'll want the traditional man, but she doesn't want to be the traditional woman that matches......PREACH💯
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Delusional 101 📚
FACTSSSSS
That’s all woman nowadays
CAM IS RIGHT. A WOMAN WHO IS IN CONTROL DOESN'T HAVE TO SAY BOSS ANYTHING, SHE JUST HANDLES BUSINESS AND STAY PRETTY/FEMININE DOING IT.
See RESPECT to Bigga he always come in and just seal the deal!!!! Absolutely well spoken.. this was such a great conversation. They were not disrespectful to women nor bashing women. It was just a friendly discussion that was well articulated… good job fellas!
What’s amazing in all of this, is that you see women break down their preferences in men all day & night on SM. The moment one man outlines his personal preferences, it becomes WW3. If nothing else, this shows how emotional and hypocritical many women are.
😂😂😂😂 This is not at all what women had an issue with. The fact that so many males do not understand that is why we are in the state we are in now…… Emotion is not synonymous to being a woman. Not being able to rationalize rebuttals and illogically make gaslighting arguments is out of pure emotion/ignorance and arrogance not logic. The fact that males can’t understand that says a lot. If you think women have an issue with Cam definition of what is or not being a “bad b****” is to him, women have absolutely no chance in reciprocated/healthy relationships.
@@So-what692 Can you conclude your novel please? Lol. You did not explain what the women had an issue with. I'm curious to hear your reasoning
I think it’s because Cam contradicted his own statement. Cam temporarily settled with a woman that was a former stripper and had multiple children with her. Then left her only to have another kid with an IG model that worked for him. How is a “bad bitch” worthy of having your children but not being taken serious enough as a girlfriend/wife? If “bad bitches” have nothing to offer, why have kids with them? It’s a classic message > messenger situation.
And insecure and in need of truth. They eating to much lies and manipulation
@@TheSomethingnew1 how he said the difference between a bad b and a woman for him...where did he define that this woman was his wife?
"I Aint Insecure, Oprah I Cant Afford YA" 😂😂 Thats my guy!!
Cam is right. Everybody needs to know the role they play and the requirements of that role. The main issue with society now is everybody wants to be everything but do no work and suffer no consequences. We want to be leaderless, we want to be faultless, we want to avoid responsibility but at the same time we want to be heard and we want to be boss and we want all the spoils of a lifestyle or lifestyles we don't want to do one ounce of the work required to actually achieve it. Women on the one hand want to be in positions of leadership and power and at the head but at the same time want to pull the victim card with a quickness and want to be taken care of like they are children. Men on the one hand want women to sit back and be seen and guided but don't want to lead a family or give any directions. We got kids now who tell their parents what to do and what they are not going to do. Solutions. Be true to who you are and let others know what you will and won't accept. It may mean you don't get who you want but rather who you need by your side. Lastly beat kids asses when necessary and also give them direction not just tell them they can do whatever they want.
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A woman once told me that to combat the insecurity about the wage gap in her family dynamic (she was the bread winner), she gave her husband the responsibility of paying the bills. She had both of their checks deposited into a joint account and he managed the household finances from that account. She says this worked for them because he was in charge of the household finances.
Personally, I want to stay home with the babies, make the home, cater to my family / man etc. I have my passions on the side that I would like to continue to work on but it’s for the love of it not the $. I believe like Math said a man WANTS to provide it’s just natural. I believe in the natural order of things.
ITS NO ? straight FACTS THAT MAN GOTTA CUM HOME AND A FAMILY is MAN A Foundation stands and builds woman which makes understanding to not put yourself as a woman in a MAN shoes.COMMUNICATION between the2 except Comfort between the Brain…Which SETTLE THE TONGUE TO RELAX THE BODY OF YOUR MAN SO THAT YOU CAN COMPLETE THE PEACE THAT OF HIS HOME ….money shouldn’t be a key Just knoe God is a Lock…..And as women/MY OWN HAS Prayer you gotta bless his space so wat either came in wit IT STAY OR WAT EITHER HAVE IT GROW BOSS B!!!! Is like as the world turns who made the rules at this point..
Where u been my whole life?
Love this show 🙌🏽 so much, salute gentleman! I agree both parties have to work to maintain stability, due to the economy. It’s hard out here, so teamwork is definitely necessary.
Ok so THIS is the panel! Great perspective and gems passed down.
The average man earns $50k or less and this dude said $125k is broke, lol.
The real statement " A woman will pass over a good man cause of her preference " that's deep💯
Me and Wifey both cater to EACH OTHER. It takes years of living together and getting to truly know each other. And when you have no problems of truly respecting and supporting your significant other then you got the one. Salute to Math Hoffa and the Crew on this build.
Yeah.. but she is one person bro .. you don't ever feel the need for separation time space apart to explore get some air with others ?
@@jamint.jaddua1771 get some air with others? Nah bro we both run our own businesses and spend plenty of time apart so when we have OUR time we appreciate it, its just that simple.
@@Djaytiger yeah with others .. as far as for me I need that time and space apart because she is one person .. I think overall if you give that person enough time and separation apart in-between time one will clearly see as the man Inn the relationship if she is the right person to have Inn your life or not
I got fired from my job because i almost fought my 50 year old coworker.. and It got toxic yo so now, i spend most of my time smoking weed on my TH-cam channel now, meanwhile i get back to the grind fam
I really enjoy seeing black men communicate their honest opinions on topics like this that matter. Really felt like I was sitting in the barber shop listening.
You cannot have traditional benefits and expect to not have traditional responsibilities. That goes for both Men and Women.
The best comment but not a lot of likes, while warped bs has a million likes. It's good to see some sense on this.
This episode deserves a TH-cam Emmy! It’s so good to hear real brothers talking about shit that affects us! Real Spit.. this conversation has to be had and I hope lots of women in particular hear this dialogue and take heed! I wrote a book called How To Attract a R.E.A.L. Man. Real is an acronym for Responsible, Educated, Ambitious and Loving. If a man possess these 4 qualities he usually is a King 🤴🏽 and got his shit together in a major way. A woman gotta respect it or she’s getting canceled no matter how much of a bad bitch she thinks she is. Thanks guys for representing for real men! Great episode! 👊🏽👌🏽💯
In my home my wife makes sure the food is cooked or delivered.I make sure the funds are straight and the bills are paid.She provides the nurturing and love for our home.I am the protector and disciplinarian and goofy energy in my home.I make sure to please her and keep her satisfied sexually and mentally.She freaks me and rubs me down when im in need of healing.We never disagree in front of others.She can come and go as she pleases but she makes sure the home is top notch at all times.The beds are always made, the kitchen stays clean, and my home stays clean all the time.The yard and maintenance of our house I take care of.The cars I take Care of.We have have separate bank accounts and one joint account.Basic things that a woman and man should be taught.
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THANK YOUUU. That is was a marriage/ relationship is. It’s a partnership. It’s not about I’m a woman so I MUST do…And your a man should you MUST do…
I don't see NOTHING wrong with what Cam said. Great conversation Men!
It’s the so called “bad bitches” making less than 50K a year who mad
Bitches working the register at MACDONALDS 🤣🤣🤣🫡
& They Work @ A Call Center
@@DFossss 😅SO true!
@@DFossss 😂😂😂
@@DFossss lol
That mic drop at the end was the best thing I heard out of this entire segment...Great job guys!!!! Love the different viewpoints and the debate styles are very powerful, insightful and enlightening. Glad I came across these....The conversations are very good and I love the barbershop vibes
A traditional woman wouldn’t have a problem with wat he said some might agree today woman r a different breed we all know this u can’t tell a woman nothing these days💯
What Cam's saying is, If you don't understand how to respect and look after a man, you're not a" bad chick". You can sell that to other women, but we're not buyin' it. All men want is our respect as men. don't tell us what to do, or talk slick.
I'm hooked to this podcast! I enjoy hearing these brothers points of views! Keep it up fam💯
I'm a 33 year old man extremely happily married with three children and my wife and I had a conversation 5 years ago about where we were going and what benefits came from both of us working. Granted she was only 24 at the time and I 26 so you can imagine how lucrative either of our jobs were. After figuring everything out we realized it actually cost us money most weeks for her to work because of her and my schedule, the cost of daycare for our two kids at that time, and vehicle expenditures. If anything happened to the children I would have to take off work due to me being a carpenter with my freedom of schedule. However me getting off potentially three maybe even 4 hours early would cost us more money than if she didn't go to work for the whole day. It made more financial sense for her to leave her position and be home to take care of everything within the home but also mostly anything that would come up throughout the day requiring me to leave work. Plus with the additional freedom of not having to have daycare if I had a side job come up on the weekend I was able to dedicate much more time to growing my business on the side of my regular job. We sit 5 years later with another child, three cars, two tractors, three four wheelers, two dirt bikes, trampolines and playsets and zip lines in the yard. Our house is fully paid off as well as all vehicles.... Had we not made that decision though it would have taken us another 15 years to get where we are today simply because of the monotony of the day-to-day grind and both of us working low-end jobs with not enough time to dedicate to get to high positions. Each scenario is different for every couple so I recommend sitting down and seeing how much extra you're making by having both of you work and how much would truly be lost if one did not work and the other was able to dedicate to their work more
WOWWWWW! MAD accolades to you and your wife! You absolutely must be teaching that same form of UNITY (that is required to even reach that mindset.... which THEN implicates the Lord is your lead!) to those around you because you're "WALKING IT OUT"!!!! AMEN you guy's, aaaaaammmmeeennn!
Sean Bigga, your words were spoken to at the perfect time, thank you. Peace
Math back at it..Great convo 💪🏾
We ain’t gone stop!
Most women once they deem themselves “bad b^tches” they no longer see themselves as traditional wives… Plus it’s a different culture and we need to be honest as a people and stop using Celebs and athletes as the standard… They don’t live our lives
Dis is gold .. we appreciate dis math
I have no problem with what he said. Maybe because I'm a southern girl
S/o to the southern ladies! 😘
@@Mathhoffakeep doing your thing King!!
I'm southern too but I don't agree
The reason I love your channel!!!! Too many men out there won't touch this subject. And I need that delusional calculator!!
This is such a great conversation from you Kings.
My take is that most black women have warped ideals surrounding relationships and it has some to do with social conditioning. Society is continuing to destroy black communities through divisive ideologies.
To be with a “high valued man” means that relationship comes with sacrifice. A high income earner works more hours per day.
Within a particular belief that women don’t want to contribute financially, 50/50, is a little sad to me. I have no problem with paying half. As you all pointed out…that 9% doesn’t exist. When we are all senior citizens, black people will be a lonely group if we don’t take control of our thoughts on relationships and reciprocity.
i was skeptical about subscribing but yall got some gems on every show 💯💯💯
great content as usual, Hoffa gang.
Most women will/want to cater to their husbands but the majority of the men that wants to be catered to does not take care of his wife's heart. Trust, when a women is treated right and her heart is taken care of (not monetary) he will be catered to, ten fold.
A man who has built himself up financially, physically, and spiritually basically has paid the cost to be the boss, has options, so any woman who deals with him has to cater to his wants and needs or she could kick rocks. A man does not want a woman who is not willing to contribute to his progress.
A man who has taken the time to develop spiritually would understand that to have a healthy relationship both people must have their needs met. This is why women file for divorce the most because so many men were conditioned to consider only their needs. Especially American men. and these guys are speaking about a particular type of woman in their line of work. If all you have to offer is money self absorption you will attract only a certain type of woman. That is not the real world. Young black women who want to be wives and mothers are no longer limiting themselves to black American men. As a collective, most know nothing about marriage and leading a household. They don’t have what it takes to have a wife. No decent father would ever approve of their daughter marrying a man who thinks only his needs and wants matter. That’s an adolescent that is not even qualified to have a girlfriend. A daughter who respects and loves her father, who loved and protected her, as her mother does will never go against him, and those women make the best wives.
Cam was talking from a prepective that little can relate to which was his parents being married for 40 years. He watched his whole life of what a good relationship is.
Being together for 40 years does not equate a "good" relationship. It denotes acceptance, ups and downs and being comfortable which is nothing wrong with it..
@@missb2182 sounds like the wedding vows to me... My parents have been married 52yrs and I have a great idea of what a Good Relationship is BUT just like Cam and many others I picked wrong too!!
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People definitely pick for the wrong reasons but mostly people are not equally yoked with their partner. People also are not willing to put in the work to maintain a successful relationship/marriage because in all relationships, there are equally goodness and challenges which everyone is not equipped to deal with on the long term..
is it me or theses brothers referring to women as Bitch’s and have wife’s.. ija for a friend 🤔
@@TheIrapprettygood A couple being together for 40+ years does not mean it’s a healthy relationship. There is a lot of tolerance that was likely accepted, furthermore women were not as independent as they are now. Lastly divorcing was frowned upon, no matter the circumstances. Today women have more freedom and options, so the things that women were tolerating before are no longer acceptable. My parents were married at 18, and are still married today in their mid-60s. Do you know how much tolerance it takes to marry an 18 year old?
23:00 is where the conversation started to get real. Misogyny started that mixed up mentality
The man with the sunglasses is the only one with a rational explanation. Thank you sir.👏👏
He said what HE requires in a woman. He spoke solely for himself. For those women who are complaining, he’s not checking for them whatsoever. Therefore, it doesn’t matter. Men are equally allowed to have preferences and boundaries just as much as women. Plus if you don’t know how to cook, there are videos and cookbooks. There is no valid reason on why anyone doesn’t know how to cook.
When he said “quiet” he meant for someone who doesn’t always have to be seen or heard all the time. I don’t understand why people don’t like their peace. Why do people have to be on 10 so much? High blood pressure is no joke.
I was raised in a traditional household. I can’t do the Roommate or Child Husband thing. I know how to cook, clean and I don’t bother anyone so I really don’t want to be bothered. I just want to live life and have fun.
I’m not sure about doing things on his money. 😩😩😩 I would feel funny about it.
Thank you for your perspective, I agree
Indeed! Thank you
Agree 100%!
I appreciate the fact that ya'll can mesh bigga's elder sense of things with the middle aged, hip hop perspective which creates a deeper understanding for the audience.
big respect to bigga for that silence cause knowledge speaks and wisdom listens.. he was absorbing all of that and I guarantee he leveled up
Best pod out! I just listened this same video over the weekend and I'm replaying it. IT FEELS GOOD TO HEAR DIALOGUE FOR US! The hidden gem in this is that it's Black Men engaging Black Men. How we treated ourselves and each other is how the world will treat us. 💪🏿🙏🏿
Out of everyone in the room, Bigga took the win. I was waiting for someone to correct the grammer of a bitch to a woman. Big difference. Hopefully Bigga can start getting more time to speak.
I’m happy to see Mecca back! When he speaks it’s typically valuable information.
It be funny how women called themselves and their friends “Bitch” but when a man say it, he disrespected you.
Paid killa -shut up or kill me
Check it out 🥶🤞🏾
I’m the next Jay z🙏
same way we call each other nigga but get offended when somebody not black says it.
@Sean Jones it's facts.
@@lo8020 don't use logic. It'll make people think lol
No lies detected in that statement
Paid killa -shut up or kill me
Check it out 🥶🤞🏾
I’m the next Jay z🙏
"don't beef with anyone handling my food" exactly 😂
Facts, we can’t talk anymore, because anytime we have an opinion about women, we gotta pick our words carefully. We gotta damn near eggshell walk, whenever we speak about women.
Nah fr
Cam has standards... women have theirs...most women want a provider, protector, some women smash niggas for clout etc ...men ain't out here calling women out for that so why are women out here tripping?
I waited the whole video for Bigga to chime in -- i was not disappointed. Well said
Let me just say this, Mr. Math Hoffa is fine as wine! Great Show as well!!
My favorite podcast yall get them good interviews choppin up wit em dont even feel like interviews 💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏽
Stay single fellas and you will have many years of happiness and success
Great show Math you have a great crew !
Women want a traditional relationship/marriage but don’t hold traditional values and traits. Also, many women are saying they no longer want to do chores around the house as the women were in charge of back then. They want to eliminate things a woman should do in a relationship but they still want a man to be the provider. I’ve heard many women say times have changed but when you say why do you want a man to still provide , they’re quiet or say well a man is supposed to lead 🤣🤣. Many roles are eliminating from traditional relationships for a women but why do they all remain for the man? Women don’t want to work or pay bills . They just want to be a bad b*tch with the looks.
The average black man is not husband or father material
@@redstar4691 says the toxic blk woman
@@redstar4691 you dated all the average black men?
@@MightyInfinity No, I'm speaking on Bad Boys
@@redstar4691 bad boys are only black?
This whole session was on point. If you listen with your logic and have paid attention to behaviors over time (use your wisdom), you’ll see no lies told. I really love this jawn…….best conversation.
If u pay for that one dinner for Oprah..u will NEVER have to pay for anything else again for the rest of your life.
U.S Census Bureau says 97 men per 100 women in America. So, there are less men.
$125k is broke in New York but not Georgia 🤣
Or maryland. I couldn't do NY. Ain't no way.
A complete fact!
@@ellesouthernbelle5655 I’m moving to Charlotte at some point. Although it’s 16% higher compared to where I live, it’s still way much cheaper than the east coast and westcoast.
No wonder everybody scamming 😇
Loving the content!🥰
Social media has women f'd up these days.
Men too. Social media doesn’t just affect women.
Love these Guys I love being from New York!! Real talk allday!! Gotta come on stream Ya hurrddddd!!!
The black family has been destroyed by the independent women movement and it will never be the same as it was with our parents upbringing
why only black families? That's fcking bullsh.. All families deal with this bs
Black family been destroyed it’s not just now starting.
This is real talk thanks fellas 🔥🔥🔥🙏🏾🙏🏾
To quote my wife just now..."Cam is kinda crude with it but he makes sense." The interesting thing is that my wife has a doctorate and her own private practice so she would be seen as a boss b@#$h in spite of the fact that for the first 11 years of our marriage she was home with our 4 children while I held it down saving money for her to go back to college. Women today want everything but don't want to endure the humility of the long term grind. We as a couple have lived it and my wife has done both because she told me that's what she wanted(a career and 4 children) and I fell in love with her as a intelligent black woman with her own life and did not want her to drop her dreams because we decided to have kids and we both knew it would take patience ON HER PART(because I just wanted to get married and have kids...I was already deep into my career at the time).
(Edit)...As an afterthought I'll add the fact that she now makes enough money that I can switch careers and do what I really want. Moral of the story is that NOBODY is a self made "boss". Everyone either had someone hold them down while they grinded or they had someone extend a hand and gave them a shot. Ain't no real bosses...its a lie people tell themselves to feel good about themselves by taking claim or discrediting all of the people who got YOU where You are. Unless you've made billions and can literally buy cooperation "just because" and your last name is Winfrey/Carter/Knowles/Bezos/Musk go sit down homegirl...you aren't even in the same dimension as an actual boss.
Shoutout to yall
Credit to math for dripping the questions that make ppl think, unpack and understand from a pragmatic standpoint.
Big hoffa keep killin it...
9% of 331 million might not sound like a lot , but 29.8 million ppl making over 100k isn’t bad .
Break it down further though. Last I checked it's 17 million people in NYC alone. So no, 30 million isn't that good.
Much love to the whole cast. Keep up the hard work. Respect from TX
The problem with society is everyone thinks their way is the only way.. Cam can decide what he requires and some women may agree and some may not
Matt had me dying at the end 😂😂😂😂 great conversation y’all!
It's a beautiful thing when you're dealing with a female that's A boss that respects you as THE boss.....🏆
Very true
Very rare
It’s a beautiful thing for a man but not for a woman
Been waiting for all 5 of y’all together
Respectfully, servicing your partner SHOULD BE the standard for relationships regardless of income or gender. Learn what your partner loves and responds well to (that’s within your power to produce), and flood they market with that shit. Be their peace and their pleasure. And as y’all build independently and together, more shit will become available.
Westerners ARE too capitalistic though. We are indoctrinated to want the very most profit we can get for the lowest investment we can manage. That’s why we cheat and monkey-branch and misuse each other. We have been ingrained to see ourselves and each other as commodities with and for which to be negotiated.
Thank you👏👏
Every bit of this! Well said 👏🏾👏🏾
🙌🏽💯I love this!
With kids?
@@Baxter2012 I’m not entirely sure I understand your question. But I’d say yes. Even with kids, this should be the standard.
Not minimizing the complications that kids bring to a relationship at all. Not even trying to or wanting to. But I believe that a concerted effort should be made to keep the pair bond strong. The health, safety, and success of the kid(s) definitely takes priority. But, if and where possible, the health and safety and success of the mother and father relationship should be honored and edified. It’s imminently easier to do that with someone who has proven to be all about servicing you, being your pleasure and your peace AND who receives that energy and motivation from you. It’s awfully idealistic. lol I know. But the alternative is the state of relationships that we have, especially in the Black community.
When Math said “who do we want to be?” That was not only the most important question but he dropped it at the elite moment it needed to be asked per the subject as a broader open ended discussion.
This was interesting topic and I tell you man, ES$O and Mecca drop a great deal of common sense and logical wisdom. One thing to fact check✔️ per several sources the actual percentage of Americans that make $100k to $149k is 15.5% not 9%. The later corresponds to Americans making more than 9%. These are individuals, not households. Households is slightly more of course.
There should not be a boss in a relationship. A relationship is for those two people to serve each other.
Many times, women don't want to run a household especially career driven because of the historical treatment of women. From the beginning of time, women have been viewed as lesser than or in a subservient role. If men decide to be provider and embrace that it's fine. But women have options too. They should be able to say they don't want to hold down a full-time job and cook and clean. Women can decide the type of life we want and the time of man we want to be in relationship. Esso is right about girlfriend circles having a leader or sometimes several but will defer to one. The reason is because we trust her to do what's best for the group. What you all are leaving out is the controlling factor that women have been subjected to since the beginning of time. In the same way that Math said not to move in with your girl, that goes the same for women. How many women have given up total control to a man because he was the provider, he left and now she's destitute. The fact is that whether male or female, people need to be able to stand on their own two feet.
I appreciate this podcast as a whole the level of honesty and maturity and insight is great to see successful black men being real and transparent. Math and the fellas are on another level nuff respect
New listener here, love ur content. Keep it up 💯✊🏾
Paid killa -shut up or kill me
Check it out 🥶🤞🏾
I’m the next Jay z🙏
Salute! 💪🏾
@@Mathhoffa 💙 if yu can lock in
Paid killa -shut up or kill me .
Paid killa -make it right
Both bangers
Very impressive show. Thanks my guys
There are so many things to unpack in this conversation. The term "bad bitches", role confusion, financial stability/equality, trust and communication. As a woman and of course I can't speak for all women but it is disturbing to me that under the guise of feminism there are women who enjoy being called a "bitch" and even moreso as a "boss bitch", a term that was always used to demean a woman. To add boss to it is a contradiction in terms. A woman is a boss manageing financial and business affairs but she is spiteful, unpleasant or disliked by the definitive meaning of the term "bitch." I would never want to be identified with that term as it relates to my ability to financially support myself well and handle affairs. That would seemingly just need the use of the term "boss" which is neither masculine or feminine. In western culture since the feminist movement, women left the home to work seeking equality in all matters of society, the problem with this is it changed the dynamic of relationships, the roles became confused. That is not to say that women can't navigate in the world and work and perform a plethora of duties, nor should men not help in the home however, the fight becomes who then leads in the household. The connotation of being a "boss bitch" is relative to the confusion of the male/female roles. The man is relegated to being the submissive and would require the woman to lead, protect and provide therefore the idea is a male is not needed in the home. This is the fallacy. Both sexes are needed in the home as well as roles are needed otherwise there is imbalance which we are clearly seeing in the children in their behaviors as well as the great decline in lasting, fulfilling relationships and marriages. The high earning ability associated with "boss bitches" further strains the identity of these individuals. Are they not boss if their earnings are not extensive, can they no longer lead without said income, do they no longer need the male influence without it? Again confusion in the role as well as a straining factor in a relationship. This will cause further disruptions in trust for both sexes in the relationship. He has to figure out where he fits, has to be subservient and in some cases rely on her income. She controls the purse, she distrusts him because he is not a "man" because he earns less (based on the ideology of the traditional roles men protect, provide, etc.) and the seeds of distrust grows. Overall, communication is the key. Most people do not want to take the time to ask those uncomfortable questions or watch their potential mate's moves. What is your credit score, how are you earning your money, do you own stock, insurance, crytpo, what are your debts, do you have savings, what do you feel about traditional roles, etc? All of these things contribute to the progression or demise or a relationship. Many of them should also determine someone's "boss" factor whether male or female. But these are just my humble thoughts which may not be popular in our community today but again these are my opinions. 🤷🏾♀️
Damn ! You unpacked that!!
Very well put and nuanced response. I applaud the time and thought you put into it
@@blubomber6074 it was always a conversation I wanted to have with men and women but most people frown upon my perspective.
@@emekaoparah8665 Thank you. It was a conversation I have always longed to have with men and women in an open forum but most are closed off, intimidated or uninterested in having the kind of depth required for the conversation.🤷🏾♀️
Glad I took the time to read this
You could seriously binge watch hella videos from MEO 💯
Real everyday topics 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I see NOTHING wrong with what Cam Newton said. There needs to be communication between a woman and a man on what each others needs are as a unit and a family.
Yoo great conversation fellas shoutout to Mecca for his wise words man I fucks wit you Fr you’re a real one
Now I Don't Agree With Esso Saying 100k Isn't Anything... He's Tripping, A Person Can Do A Lot With 100k... When Beneficial To A Cause...
Exactly when the average income is supposedly 55k.
You gotta realize Esso is speaking from a place of a person who doesn’t earn money like regular people who work a 9-5. He’s in the entertainment world where he probably gets checks on occasion that are 100k and beyond on a regular basis- so to him a 100k a year for his lifestyle would mean he’s broke. I have friends that are lawyers, Teachers etc..,,, who don’t make 100k a year but they live good lives. I myself make a little over 85 a year and my wife makes over 65 and with our combined incomes we live a very good life, don’t let these entertainers and people in that industry fool you.
Respect each other and do what works for YOU.
At times folks compare themselves to each other and that’s something you should never do. I think your conversations are dope💯 Respect to you men
Cam Newton basically said.....
We need more of Savanah James (Lebrons Wife) in the Worlds than all these IG Baddies that brings nothing to the table.....
Men get their money and find better ways to take care of their woman and family. Many women get money and start justifying why they dont need a man in these past 30 years. Weirdest thing ever.
Math is on point with every word. Been there done that. Stand on your own 2 its much more attractive. LISTEN!!!!!!!(SWIZZ BEATS VOICE)
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Essos articulates his thoughts 💭 very well….each and every time 🙌🏾
All of you are focused on money. It's not about the money (the right kind of woman). This is the problem, men like Cam thinks his money should get him catered to. I can almost guarantee he's not a good relationship partner. He probably thinks because he can buy you certain things you should cater to him.
I am so enjoying this conversation…
Me and my wife split Bill's I'd be damn if I'm paying Bill's when we both use them that old ass way of putting everything on a man is dead were In this together that's what's marriage is about right
YOU NOT A REAL MAN
@@redstar4691 yeah let you tell it and to tell you know the truth shes never complained not one time .....I can tell you live society based I dont know why men live that way you work to pay for everything My own Mother never even expected that from my father or stepfather just as long as they keep a job to contribute to the house they both paid for
@@firethetruthmarcuscarrollE.T.R Your mother was pushover
All facts
Bigga is truth! Always straight to the point dropping gems. This was a healthy respectful conversation nothing but respect!
Cam Newton has said a lot of bullshit throughout the years, the worst one being when he said “racism dosen’t exist” 🤦🏿♂️. So anything he says whether he’s right or wrong, it don’t matter to me. I fuck with this podcast so I’m just tuning in to listen.
Yeah Cam 🦝🤷🏾♂️🙏🏾
You care to some degree since you took the time to comment about the man lol
@@SolidSnake240 never said I didn’t care I said it don’t matter lol why did you CARE to comment?
Why can’t men have preferences in the type of women they want? Some of these people get mad 😡 about everything.
And another one. Hoffa Gang.