Everything will be alright.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ต.ค. 2024
- there's a song i enjoy with the same name as this video..Everything will be alright by The Killers, wonderful song :) Anyway, life is a journey and a collection of beautiful experiences, so don't get too worried if you're caught up in one at the moment. This too will pass
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Everything will be okay
No it won’t!
Its gonna be a good good life
Thanks, I quit my job yesterday because I couldn't take the abuse from terrible customers anymore. I drank myself into a mess last night, found myself waking up in dirt fields and by a train track. Thankfully I recovered today and tomorrow I'm gonna go look for a new job.
I like your way of thinking, we are still here so there's still time to change things. In a way, I got away from a bad job anyway so it's kind of a good thing too.
I appreciate your message
I made a huge change in my life about 3 years ago. I had been living with my fiancée for about 5 years, but our relationship started 14 years before that. Our finances were bad, I had a shitty job, and I needed support from my dad. Then the change came... I decided to break up, and months later, I got a new job (earning 10x more, with remote work 15 days per month and other advantages) in another city/state (I'm now living in a warmer climate). And all this happened in my 40th year of life, when the majority of people are stable, married, with children, and a good job. I now have an excellent job, and I'm single in my 43th year but enjoying living alone.
I decided to break up, I decided to find a better job, and now I'm better. My ex-fiancée is also better because she found another guy, and later they had a baby, and now she is happier. And when I broke up, I told her: this will be better for both of us. And I was right.
I guess the lesson is: don't be afraid to follow your plans of life, even if you know it will be difficult (emotionally). And financially, have patience because life will give you the opportunities, not when you want but when the time is "right", just don't lose the hope.
In my 18 years of life, one thing i can say for certain that no matter how terrible the things are and how unrecoverable they seem, they always seem somehow go away or they always somehow pass. Which at first seem like a great thing which it is but the downside of that is that no matter no good things are they will also pass too and be replaced by something terrible. So overtime, i become distent to both the postive and the negative.
Also 18, i noticed the same pattern. Everything just seems so temporary. On one hand it helps me to get through tough times, but on the other hand it really messes with my ability to live in the moment when life is good because I know it will end
as someone who achieved a lot despite ADHD and depression in the past.. i can tell you, having a North Star as your ultimate goal will brighten your life.. but at the same you need to deal with the issues at hand to keep things on course.....the Procrastination is mainly a trauma response to starting something.. because of the potential failures/shame down the line. As long as you can change your mindset to 70% WHATEVER .. you dismantle that need for perfectionism. All you need to do is do the 70% of something, badly..... if you are staring at a blank page, just put 70% headspace into filling it up... and that is how procrastination vs perfection vs low-self-esteem gamut is addressed and hopefully managed.
This was inspiring to hear. You're right, life is a gift, I don't have to be miserable! I wish you well in your move and future endeavors. I heard 10% of life is what happens to you and 90% of life is how you react to it
When there's a will, there is a way. You're absolutely adorable btw. Thank you. 🌞
I agree that life isn't linear I feel like its like a big web
nodal
It's a matrix. You know, THE Matrix.
Thanks for the video. I’m also going through a tough time and I really enjoy hearing this :)
I'm glad this popped up in my feed. A long time ago I was struggling with the same issue of deciding what I would do with my life, especially since I had no real sense of direction. Eventually after some self-reflection, I decided on a path that was long and difficult, but ultimately true to me and has now put me in a good place both in terms of surviving and self-fulfillment.
I now find myself in a similar place again, where I want to pursue an additional path to the one I am on in a completely different field. I never pursued it when I was young because my family was against it. Now that I am established, they can't really tell me anything, and I still have a yearning to pursue it. I have to strike sooner rather than later if I am serious, and I have already missed personal deadlines of doing research and prep out of laziness and complacency. After watching this, I'm going to get on those plans because I don't want to be like those dying full of regrets. I already know what it's like to live with them.
@@TheEpicpwnr100 you got this 100%. Your own message motivated me and made me feel better about the path I’m following also. Thank you
@@TheEpicpwnr100 i understood the assignment aswell brobro , yehh 😅 fr alotbetter to act upon those "if's" alot soonner ;(
Thank you for making this video, it seemed to have found me exactly when I needed to see it. I think I’ll be coming back to this every now and then, when I need the reminders.
Ur aura is CRAZY 🌠
elaborate? im curious :0
@@junnipres your very rightous like in a super kind wayy homie + it comes from a gud heart 1
@@Noble-Juan aww thank you :)
I feel so bad for the generation of teenagers growing up nowadays because even as I'm 21. I feel beyond lost in this world and have been through so much just in my first 20 years of life just going through depression at a young age. I did find sanctuary in surrounding myself with good energy and good people and it has helped me find a clearer path to me obtaining the ambition and joy for life that most people don't struggle with as hard. ( kind of a bummer of a life story so I'm sorry if anyone reads this and is going through their own battle right now ).
My life. My choice. Manage your own life. You feel me. And you don't know me personally anyways. But it is ok. You good.
I feel this. Im nineteen. There's so many options for me right now and I'm terrified of them dwindling as I waste time deciding which one to pick. It sucks because just one thing can spin us out of control. I feel like I'm going through quicksand because I just found out my dog is dying. Now I have to start from square one because of the emotional downfall & sinking back into bad old habits. This video is a good wakeup call. I'm worried about what my future brings, but I can't let these bad events cause me to procrastinate.
To whoever reads this comment i wanna remind you that you matter and that even in your darkest moments you always have the choice to not give up on yourself no matter how over it might seem or how lost you are in life because from first hand experience at rock bottom i feel like the beauty this life has to offer isnt worth settling for anything less, it would be a disservice to yourself and the people who love you to give up now.
It's a bit of a tough topic with tons of nuance imo. On one hand yes lots of horrible things are happening to people all around the world. But on the other hand oh the amount of crap I've gone through as well as the amount of irreversible mistakes I've made, and yet I'm still alive. Even having some good days every now and then. Not sure what to call this. A paradox? Or two sides of the same coin?
Either way, I'm starting to think pain is the currency of life. And if that's the case then perception can be both a sin or a virtue. It's all in how you see your situation.
Its unreal how I feel and relate to everything you say !! Thank you for being you and taking the time to share your thoughts :) I was going to complain when you said stop being lazy and procrastinating but then I realized that you are right. In my case its more of a procrastinating thing but a extreme amount of it, I am 29 and I have wasted 10 years doing absolutely nothing productive being stuck in a pattern of wishing and dreaming about a different life but never actually doing the efforts and steps I need to even begin going towards that direction. Thank you for putting me in my place Leilani :) by the way I love your mannerism and your name if that is your name lol hehe :)
@@coshyno ahh thank you :)
I fucking love you for being you.
My biggest problem is
Good luck with anything you are going through
thank you🩵
Everything is not gonna be alright. When you can't learn to fight your own battles.
Off topic but I kinda destroyed the Starbucks bathroom with a crazy watery / solid diarrhea just now. I ran out and from a distance saw the carnage of the baristas rushing to get the plunger and stop the flooding. I just know it smelled like a dead body rotting in the whole cafe from the way they were holding their noses and yelling. They even had to leave the register to deal with it as a team. I had to go to the nearest Sephora and spray a lot of cologne because the horrid stench wouldn’t even leave my clothes. Not gonna lie it made my whole week cuz I was dying laughing. Should’ve never ordered a Venti… nice video! ❤
what the flip bro
You can resign yourself to what fate has in store for you, or you can defy it and find and fulfill your destiny
A few years ago I left a religion that had a death grip on my early life. Last year, I ditched a career I'd invested a few years into, instead choosing to pursue a lower paying but more fulfilling area of work. I've been making actual attempts at forming relationships with the people I meet. I'm making plans to pursue my filmmaking hobby on the side. Up until then I've been stuck on this linear path that you describe, and I got so fed up that I had to take a hard left. I'm still broke af, still working on making the few friendships I have meaningful, and still dealing with my own self-esteem issues. But I'm trying to "get off my ass" at least.
Also, what are those flowers you've got in the background?
I can hear the "drums 🥁 of liberation" Doom Dut Da Da
I hear separating from one’s home can at times evoke a similar feeling to losing one’s child. I suppose it lends itself to the idea of getting older is one big lesson in letting go; you can’t always get what you want but if you try sometimes, you might just get what you need or something like that
The Pikachu is so cute
everything is gonna c alright.. keep it 55
Good night, Leila!
I haven't been precisely commenting a lot on your videos, and the fact that i'm up so late kinda explains it.
Strangely enough, the topic of this video relates to it a little bit.
I kinda lost control over my life. Well, not really, it's way less deep than it, but doesn't feel like it though.
In general, the first half of my vacations were FOCUSED, in a straight line, and i liked that, it was kinda like:
Wake up at 7 - Study till 11 - Break - Eat - Break - Gym - Break
I was absolutely comfy with that, but then something came up and just... kinda messed up my emotions, wich are still kinda jiggly, but for example today i didn't do really much, and deorganized at that. I did more like:
Wake up at 10 - Breakfast - Gym - Break - Eat - Nothing else really
I feel quite bad about it, i just have to study psychology, it's not even for school, but feels bad, but at the same time i feel like i'm being impatient with how stationary i am, in the end, i'm in a 2-week break, isn't that just vacations?
So i have lidiated with some anxiety thanks to the situation, as also i've given in and felt relaxed because "yeah, whatever", but both these realities crash eachother, because i like being active, i actually love it and feels GREAT for me to feel minetaly and physically tired at 9PM because i was doing a lot of stuff all day long, maybe not every day, but i could live happily doing it 4 days a week or so. But i also have the anxiety by my childhood wich makes me feel anxious when i'm not doing anything productive, but i can't give in to the break without letting myself aside with this thing about me WANTING to do stuff, but if i keep doing stuff continuously i'm giving in to the anxiety wich is pretty low and i can ignore, and if i give in i don't even feel it, but i'd like to get over it.
So yeah...
That may be why i'm not commenting that much on your last vids.
About what i could do...
I was thinking about reframing my perspective in such a way to say "well, today i went to the gym, it wasn't an umproductive day" and feel okay with it, but also wanna finish up my psychology essays.
Feels weird, i may just talk it with the pillow tonight.
I like the sleeping pikachu and litten
yea of course it will once we die
Sometimes it won’t be.
I've tried 5 different paths of life, thought each one was "the one," got chewed up and spat out by society, and now I'm on path 6. This time I'm smart enough to know there's paths 7,8 and 9 waiting just in case though 😉
i relate to this so much
@@Mariadgv nice to cross paths, if but for a moment, kindred soul 😉
❤❤
Never back down, never what ?
Never give up…
@@boxofspoons8867 LOUDER !
@@Caraunus NEVER GIVE UP!
@@boxofspoons8867 that's right !
Nothing great came from what’s easy
I’m trying to figure out how to bring my dream life into reality. Sadly I haven’t been able to figure it out in one night. Lol
I’ve read before on how to achieve what I want to and I’m following that advice but sadly it’s taking me time to get to where I want to be. I’m an artist so I want my art to go full time and figure out how to live comfortably and be a full-time artist.
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Very young Lacey Sturm vibes! And wise like her too
Didn't know I was miserable. Hm? I am not. If you want to survive you have to work. That's common sense.
don’t worry the simulation is coming to an end
That's what the Eloi thought until they found out too late that the Morlocks were raising them for food.
Shit is crazy boo
Life can be linear tho im completely fine not changing at all and dont look for a new place or job 😂
Serious vocal fry!
It makes me tingle when you yell at me.
yeah, anxiety sucks....
When?
@@IllusionaryUsername right now
Maybe you just need to cuddle
Don't fall for the hatanit❤
I really like your name Leilani
Glhf all
MARRY ME RIGHT NOW PAHLEEEEAAAAAASSSSEEE.
obrigado por existir
ur a cute babe hun x
Daijoubu
Wats ur body count?
gaslighting