He discarded me once..I told him I don't do break ups and getting back together. He tried it again and I've been no contact since April. He will NEVER hear my voice again. He couldn't do anything with me. I made him discard me by telling him about himself. I was firm all the time and gave no 🤬
Every time you accept a hoover, you are admitting to the narc that they can keep abusing you no matter what evil they do. Narcs come back to treat you worse after every hoover. It took me about a dozen times to stop taking the narc back. I finally changed my number and moved toa different state over 900+ miles away. It also helps that the narcissist what going through criminal trial and could not hoover/ fake apologize because it would require admitting what he was charged with. Now the narc is in jail for felony vehicular assault and their third DUI. I burned that bridge down by giving the district attorney evidence. The narcissist went from thinking they could play me (hoover) over and over again to being too afraid to speak to me without incriminating themselves. I hate that felonous narcissist. I am glad it's finally over. My life is 10,000 times better without that demon in my life. Never ever answer the hoover. They've only returned to finish the contract with the devil to destroy you.
I needed to read this today, I got a random message saying “I hope you had a good day” I almost answered with a thank you but I’m 100% sure I’m not now, and gonna continue with my No Contact! He wanted something better, now I want something better for myself! I now love being alone. 🙏🩵
The biggest flex is not accepting the Hoover and pretending the person no longer exists or if you have to be cordial with them…you just keeping it real short and not giving any reaction no matter what…😂a huge flex..💯
They don't deal with people that have a opinion of there own they do not deal with people with boundaries they want someone who won't hold them accountable for anything
💯!!! I’m an old warrior here. Married 40 years. I finally discarded him 3 years ago. Just filed for divorce. He never believed I would do that. From the beginning I told myself to trust the experts. I listened to TH-cam videos day and night. Getting educated is so important to your recovery. Someone said that it takes a year for every 10 years to heal. This seems to be very accurate. I’m starting year 4 and I’m finally feeling like I did the right thing. I’m finding myself again. Stay strong and trust the process!!!
My narc put me through hell for years cheating, emotionally abusing me and even rape. He got off on ignoring me all day then waiting for me to fall asleep just to force himself on me. Everything you talked about in this video is dead on. Once I stop caring and taking him back I’m now the enemy. He tells everyone I’m crazy. He tried to Hoover a couple of years ago. I ignored him then he left a voicemail telling me he’s dying. I ignored that too. I think he knows I’m done so he lives me alone. Matter of fact he acts like he hates me, I’m cool with that.😊
The most important thing is to never go back once you leave. They hoover,as well as temperature checks to see if and when they can come back. YOU KEEP YOUR FOOT ON THEIR NECKS!! I made SURE THAT I EDUCATED MYSELF, AND STILL TODAY I CONTINUE LEARNING, BECAUSE THEY NEVER SLEEP, AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU!!! get video
After the 3rd hoover tactic I finally told him if he didn't leave me alone I was going to send his new supply he cheated on me with all his texts and emails trying to get me back, trying to torture me with her and even threatening with her she is in jail so now he has finally stopped. Exposure their greatest wound to a narc. Thank God🙏
I turned down the Hoover after 10yrs.with a 70yr.old Narc so now he been gone 1yr.didnt find out he was narcissistic until he left...My door is bolted shut & locked for life I'm glad I got my power back...
What you say is absolutely accurate. Every word even down to the community regarding them as a 'good person'. Notably covert narcs. Master manipulators, so devious, so clever. They will even cry their eyes out. .. real copious tears to so that you appear a heartless bad person to everyone. They will be out for revenge for life. Person has stalked me non-stop for TWO years. They should be listed as dangerous alongside sexual offenders to protect the community.
I’ve done this already several times, but I have to say again to you that I have stayed away from my ex narc after he discarded me during and after I lost my dear sweet mom! He was pulling away months before and then the final dump was after I lost her. My heart was so broken over losing mom that I looked to you and your videos to educate me on what I was and would deal with. I didn’t except his Hoover the day before our Florida hurricane and a week after! When I didn’t take him up on his invitation to hangout over the weekend, he sent a 👍! I’m sure That was his final Hoover because he is wayyy too proud and thinks he’s so much better than me! Lol! I feel happier and healthier being alone for the last 8months and I give the credit to God, My Mom in Heaven, and My TH-cam friend “You” thank you for guiding me! 🙏❤️💛🌺
I would not dare to take my husband back because if I do and I end up seeing any little sign of his narcissistic ways I'm ripping his ass because he know he is a fukd up PERSON
Wow my ex narcissist threw me out of his house with only a bag of clothes 3 days before a cervical spine fusion and my son had just passed away because I wouldn't give him $1000 towards his bills.He said no one lives with me for free
She knows I'm done, done, after 20 years Im done! There is nothing she has to offer, not interested in being with a demon! Ive been 5 months no contact and rejected so many hoovers ive lost count! Im not threatened or worried cause God is my protection and strength!
I have been separated from my husband of 20 years for 16 months now. He has hoover me several times, and i fell for it. Each time, he pulled me in and then threw me away like trash. He just wanted to see if he still had control. I became tire of the game so on 11/06/23 I blocked him. He smeared my name to his friends and family he accused me of something so low, so horrific, and so beneath my character i was so devastated that i didn't think i was going to make it. I can't express how thankful I am to you for making these videos they are helping me to begin rebuilding my life. ❤ God bless you all
The demonic being left me when I was sick, without $$, and baby in tow. After ALLLLLLL I DID to help elevate him, he tried to take me out. Of course he is the victim, BUT GOD! knows the truth and so does that demon. I pray for him to move out of the darkness and find the light. But I am so grateful to be out of that!!! What a blessing!!!!
My ex threw me out of his house 6 months after my son passed away and had to max out my credit cards staying in hotels until I could find an affordable apartment
@@puertoricanprincess7035 I am so sorry you had to experience that ordeal. Don’t allow it to make you bitter - that’s what the enemy wants. Stay in the Lord.
Facts Mami, the female narc rides around my house, parking up my street be using other people's cars trying to be different. I laugh at it. 3 years no contact coming up February 21st 2024 👊🏿💯👍🏿💪🏿⚔️🔥🙏🏿
God is my support system. I left my covert narc last January after he gave me HPV, which turned into cancer. I made him rent me a house and then while I was in the house closer to the hospital, I called an attorney and I left. I watched hundreds of TH-cam videos to get the tools to leave. I told God that I would never go back… Promised! In exchange for keeping me on my path, and in the light.
God doesn't have anything to do with it. That narcissist made his choice..to follow the devil. God will not help that narcissist until that person comes to God and repents. But until then God does not help them.
Dear friend, thank you so much, your videos are so impactful that is like building a fortress in my heart, I personally can’t take his hoovering because he killed every drop of interest I could have for him. He destroyed it. Now I noticed he’s angry with me because I’m totally indifferent. I just can’t help it. I don’t care one bit about this guy that was my husband for 30 years.
it was my first discard at 31 december i cried for 1 night then God came in my life and broke the traumabond and i saw my whole life was full of narcissists. i gave him no explanation and went ghost yesterday he drove 2 hours to my house to left a note breathing is difficult i choke. I trew it away give yourself to God and see how he reveals it all and remove the chackles. Jezus is King be strong don't hold on to an illusion ❤
So true when you go back things start going awkwardly wrong with them and you notice money low, your being told you don't believe I'm God, you have issues, their more desperate because they have nothing to give and they know soon you'll catch on, once you heal you'll 😂 at them, their children guys and want you to be the parent. Also keep note they will miss your supply, so they may want their mom, or Dad back, meaning you survivor, they think were their parents, weak fragile demons😂
Good morning MamiSoTrue yes I left that evil creature he has tried to come back several times my door is slammed shut bolted forever he burnt the bridge there is no coming back to me ever again yes. I always talked back to that demon I told the narc satan is riding him hard on his back he hates me I told him you will never be perfect and your a sinner, I said God will deal with you I’m out forever I would never chase that loser lame I’m good enjoying my peace thank you you Jesus for getting me out 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.
Ooookay 🙌🏼😩 OmGoshhhhhh, I am soooo thankful for you ❤ I be getting revelations upon revelations & am sooo glad that you are a Beautiful Sister in Jesus Yeshua 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
I got to tell you I love your voice I love your demeanor I like that you keep calm when you get mad it almost seems like a whisper, a warning it’s very calm and soothing to hear you. It feels like you’re really want to help us.
Hey girl! I just have to say…I watch ALL of your videos. This one, whew mami, it hit home. Every word you spoke from beginning to end resonated…I changed my number last month. The ex narc copied me and did the same…which little does he know, he saved my life!! I was really tempted tonight, to almost reverse Hoover myself. And send him an email. Just to talk shit, I watched your video, and I was like nope. I ain’t gonna put myself back in the mental torture. Shits not worth it. Thank you for everything you do. Did you ex narc, Hoover you? You are incredibly strong, And definitely thriving. I’m still a survivor, but girl I am ready to pass this Hoover test, and become a thriver! I love you and your videos. I’m about to watch another one of yours. I binge watch them haha. 😂 love ya girl!
My family in law is toxic towards me. Not towards my wife or my son. They try to isolate me from my own wife and son by not accepting me and smear my name. I can not just stay away from every event for ever. Then my son will never see me interact with his family. So, i have to go to those monks once every other year. I hate it. Narcs are dead and boring. Looking at their acts of being alive and full of joy. 🙄
Thank you for this message ❤ An on time Word🎉 my narcissist sister just pulled a hoover 2x over the past holiday. I am staying no contact 💯 the hoover stirred up my anger after my initial indifference and skepticism. This was a confirmation that I am on the right path 👌
I've passed the test with my baby father. He hoovered me by deciding to live around the corner from me. He hit me with " I want my family back" after he abused me while I was 5 months pregnant with our child. I declined. He threw a fit at first, and then he mellowed down... He hasn't been hoovering or bothering me lately... does that mean he's giving up completely, or is he going to try to attempt again? I never can tell.. I honestly just want him to leave me and my daughter alone.. it's a matter of time, he will disappoint and hurt her.. when will he give up ...
Hi! Honestly because of the precious daughter. It means he left a heavy supply he shouldn’t have fumbled. You will never stop getting hovered. Just stay woke !
A Hoover Equals a Big Yucky Booger LOL. It Rhymes,................ My Narc I feel has driven by my house in unmarked cars like you said, ( probably his other supplies cars) he's a player . LOL...I removed myself from Social Media for a few months to rebuild and reinvent myself .at 11:31 , yes i exposed them and now that I am watching this video , it makes sense . Girl, Thank you .
@@OhSoLovely I took the narcissist back in 2021 and broke up with the narcissist in 3 months ive been stuck in the trauma bond for 2 years the first break up took 8 months but the second is worst
Can we be friends ?? I can 110 % relate to the struggle. They have been coming for me my whole life but I stay lifted. Do you happen to live in the Atlanta area? Because if so, I’d love to meet for lunch on me of course!! ✨❤️
He left God but like you said they think don't do no wrong but they are going to fine out going from one relationship to other he think God finish with him but he's not he wouldn't buy me no gifts or nothing it was like he didn't know who I was he treated me and my son so bad all I could do anything but pray to God to help usm
For the life of me I can't figure out how n why these videos of yours are so timely...like just when I think I dusted yo ass...( Sorry but much as I love u the less I need your videos the better...) but NO ...here we are back in Mami so true office/ living room or wherever with $1000 n tickets paid off and a brand new car😤...where's that Deborah Cox song when u need it cuz how Mami? How do ya get here? Well...thanks for the heads up...now imma need a whole NOTHER video about HOW to give back a car n this yellow page book worth of tickets he done paid off for kidnapping our child...never said sorry just ...here a new car....THATS how I got trapped with the tickets n the first place...😤😤😤😤don't worry...cuz soon as his mask get the slipping...u can call me Ashford n Simpson cuz imma b SOLID! NO n I'm definitely takin this car...😂😂😂wooo...but um...the crocodile tears are scaring me....soon as I heard the HERE N NNOOOWWWW luther blasting i was like🤦here we go chile.
Your not obligated to sacrifice your inner peace for people that are at war with themselves 🙏
He discarded me once..I told him I don't do break ups and getting back together. He tried it again and I've been no contact since April. He will NEVER hear my voice again. He couldn't do anything with me. I made him discard me by telling him about himself. I was firm all the time and gave no 🤬
Same here. He had no choice but to discard.
No contact I refuse to ever talk to that demonic being ever again in my life I move in silence
Six years of No Contact. It works people. Stay away and never talk to the demon ever again. Stay prayed up.
Every time you accept a hoover, you are admitting to the narc that they can keep abusing you no matter what evil they do. Narcs come back to treat you worse after every hoover. It took me about a dozen times to stop taking the narc back. I finally changed my number and moved toa different state over 900+ miles away. It also helps that the narcissist what going through criminal trial and could not hoover/ fake apologize because it would require admitting what he was charged with. Now the narc is in jail for felony vehicular assault and their third DUI. I burned that bridge down by giving the district attorney evidence. The narcissist went from thinking they could play me (hoover) over and over again to being too afraid to speak to me without incriminating themselves. I hate that felonous narcissist. I am glad it's finally over. My life is 10,000 times better without that demon in my life.
Never ever answer the hoover. They've only returned to finish the contract with the devil to destroy you.
I needed to read this today, I got a random message saying “I hope you had a good day” I almost answered with a thank you but I’m 100% sure I’m not now, and gonna continue with my No Contact! He wanted something better, now I want something better for myself! I now love being alone. 🙏🩵
The biggest flex is not accepting the Hoover and pretending the person no longer exists or if you have to be cordial with them…you just keeping it real short and not giving any reaction no matter what…😂a huge flex..💯
They don't deal with people that have a opinion of there own they do not deal with people with boundaries they want someone who won't hold them accountable for anything
It's OVER , It's OVER, It's Over NOW
💯!!! I’m an old warrior here. Married 40 years. I finally discarded him 3 years ago. Just filed for divorce. He never believed I would do that. From the beginning I told myself to trust the experts. I listened to TH-cam videos day and night. Getting educated is so important to your recovery. Someone said that it takes a year for every 10 years to heal. This seems to be very accurate. I’m starting year 4 and I’m finally feeling like I did the right thing. I’m finding myself again. Stay strong and trust the process!!!
So proud of you, you got this
Thank you for sharing your story. I have been married for 20 years and separated for 16mo, which means 8mo to healing. Your story gives hope.
Proud of you ❤ sending prayers and light to
You
They drive good people to the point where they can't take it no more
My narc put me through hell for years cheating, emotionally abusing me and even rape. He got off on ignoring me all day then waiting for me to fall asleep just to force himself on me. Everything you talked about in this video is dead on. Once I stop caring and taking him back I’m now the enemy. He tells everyone I’m crazy. He tried to Hoover a couple of years ago. I ignored him then he left a voicemail telling me he’s dying. I ignored that too. I think he knows I’m done so he lives me alone. Matter of fact he acts like he hates me, I’m cool with that.😊
I'm sorry you had to experience this abuse, I pray God's healing and love over your life.
U gotta see Hoovers as an attack !
The most important thing is to never go back once you leave. They hoover,as well as temperature checks to see if and when they can come back. YOU KEEP YOUR FOOT ON THEIR NECKS!! I made SURE THAT I EDUCATED MYSELF, AND STILL TODAY I CONTINUE LEARNING, BECAUSE THEY NEVER SLEEP, AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU!!! get video
After the 3rd hoover tactic I finally told him if he didn't leave me alone I was going to send his new supply he cheated on me with all his texts and emails trying to get me back, trying to torture me with her and even threatening with her she is in jail so now he has finally stopped. Exposure their greatest wound to a narc. Thank God🙏
The harder the love bomb the harder the trauma bond
I’m finally numb I’m not sad anymore. It took me forever to get here but I’m so glad I’m not so burdened.
I turned down the Hoover after 10yrs.with a 70yr.old Narc so now he been gone 1yr.didnt find out he was narcissistic until he left...My door is bolted shut & locked for life I'm glad I got my power back...
What you say is absolutely accurate. Every word even down to the community regarding them as a 'good person'. Notably covert narcs. Master manipulators, so devious, so clever. They will even cry their eyes out. .. real copious tears to so that you appear a heartless bad person to everyone. They will be out for revenge for life. Person has stalked me non-stop for TWO years. They should be listed as dangerous alongside sexual offenders to protect the community.
I’ve done this already several times, but I have to say again to you that I have stayed away from my ex narc after he discarded me during and after I lost my dear sweet mom! He was pulling away months before and then the final dump was after I lost her. My heart was so broken over losing mom that I looked to you and your videos to educate me on what I was and would deal with. I didn’t except his Hoover the day before our Florida hurricane and a week after! When I didn’t take him up on his invitation to hangout over the weekend, he sent a 👍! I’m sure That was his final Hoover because he is wayyy too proud and thinks he’s so much better than me! Lol! I feel happier and healthier being alone for the last 8months and I give the credit to God, My Mom in Heaven, and My TH-cam friend “You” thank you for guiding me! 🙏❤️💛🌺
❤❤❤❤Healing, light and love to you.
I would not dare to take my husband back because if I do and I end up seeing any little sign of his narcissistic ways I'm ripping his ass because he know he is a fukd up PERSON
Wow my ex narcissist threw me out of his house with only a bag of clothes 3 days before a cervical spine fusion and my son had just passed away because I wouldn't give him $1000 towards his bills.He said no one lives with me for free
@@fruitypopwhickle6806 Thank you! Love and Blessings to you!🙏
@@puertoricanprincess7035 I’m very sorry! Love and Blessings to you! It gets so much better! 🙏
She tried to hoover me yesterday, but she failed. I ignored her guts hahahahaha
Fact, my ex husband favourite word was i don't respect him🙄🙄🙄
She knows I'm done, done, after 20 years Im done! There is nothing she has to offer, not interested in being with a demon! Ive been 5 months no contact and rejected so many hoovers ive lost count! Im not threatened or worried cause God is my protection and strength!
I have been separated from my husband of 20 years for 16 months now. He has hoover me several times, and i fell for it. Each time, he pulled me in and then threw me away like trash. He just wanted to see if he still had control. I became tire of the game so on 11/06/23 I blocked him. He smeared my name to his friends and family he accused me of something so low, so horrific, and so beneath my character i was so devastated that i didn't think i was going to make it. I can't express how thankful I am to you for making these videos they are helping me to begin rebuilding my life. ❤ God bless you all
Amen
The demonic being left me when I was sick, without $$, and baby in tow. After ALLLLLLL I DID to help elevate him, he tried to take me out. Of course he is the victim, BUT GOD! knows the truth and so does that demon. I pray for him to move out of the darkness and find the light. But I am so grateful to be out of that!!! What a blessing!!!!
And the veil had been lifted from my eyes so I never have and never will accept a Hoover. Completely shut it down.
My ex threw me out of his house 6 months after my son passed away and had to max out my credit cards staying in hotels until I could find an affordable apartment
@@puertoricanprincess7035 I am so sorry you had to experience that ordeal. Don’t allow it to make you bitter - that’s what the enemy wants. Stay in the Lord.
They will Hoover through family members too 😂
Yepppp😂
💯 they’ll use people
Facts Mami, the female narc rides around my house, parking up my street be using other people's cars trying to be different. I laugh at it. 3 years no contact coming up February 21st 2024 👊🏿💯👍🏿💪🏿⚔️🔥🙏🏿
God is my support system. I left my covert narc last January after he gave me HPV, which turned into cancer. I made him rent me a house and then while I was in the house closer to the hospital, I called an attorney and I left. I watched hundreds of TH-cam videos to get the tools to leave. I told God that I would never go back… Promised! In exchange for keeping me on my path, and in the light.
I finally feel free and happy.. God has really blessed me.. Right before my enemies.. Thanks for this beautiful video..
I was used badly but i told her she was a narcissist
Remember that the Hoover isn’t about you. It’s their mode of operation. Just walk on by that Narc.
Yes he use to tell me all the time that I don't respect him because I refuse to take his disrespect.i was always the one who was disrespectful.
God doesn't have anything to do with it. That narcissist made his choice..to follow the devil. God will not help that narcissist until that person comes to God and repents. But until then God does not help them.
Every WORD 💯💯💯 Mami so TRUE 💯💯💯💯♥️
It’s the letting go and letting god for me 😂🎉🎉🎉
This video is going to save so many lives! Thanks for sharing
Is it a Hoover when they reach out from fake profiles?
Yup !
Thank you
Mine tried twice with a fake number recently
Let someone else take your trash - just divorced a narc of 27 years. Can’t stand the poor behavior then being blamed for it time after time.
They come back to drain the life out of you they punish you for no new supply failure
She always begged me back til I got enough. Done experience learned.. don't want closure.
Dear friend, thank you so much, your videos are so impactful that is like building a fortress in my heart, I personally can’t take his hoovering because he killed every drop of interest I could have for him. He destroyed it. Now I noticed he’s angry with me because I’m totally indifferent. I just can’t help it. I don’t care one bit about this guy that was my husband for 30 years.
it was my first discard at 31 december i cried for 1 night then God came in my life and broke the traumabond and i saw my whole life was full of narcissists. i gave him no explanation and went ghost yesterday he drove 2 hours to my house to left a note breathing is difficult i choke. I trew it away give yourself to God and see how he reveals it all and remove the chackles. Jezus is King be strong don't hold on to an illusion ❤
Refused hoovers!!
What turn them into such monsters.could it be child hood trauma.
I’m really done with him..
Thank you so much for letting me know how Narcissist are and what to expect. Thank you.
She is telling the truth
So true when you go back things start going awkwardly wrong with them and you notice money low, your being told you don't believe I'm God, you have issues, their more desperate because they have nothing to give and they know soon you'll catch on, once you heal you'll 😂 at them, their children guys and want you to be the parent. Also keep note they will miss your supply, so they may want their mom, or Dad back, meaning you survivor, they think were their parents, weak fragile demons😂
Good morning MamiSoTrue yes I left that evil creature he has tried to come back several times my door is slammed shut bolted forever he burnt the bridge there is no coming back to me ever again yes. I always talked back to that demon I told the narc satan is riding him hard on his back he hates me I told him you will never be perfect and your a sinner, I said God will deal with you I’m out forever I would never chase that loser lame I’m good enjoying my peace thank you you Jesus for getting me out 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.
I am proud of you yess 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
To raise my kids, mainly. ❤ ...but as soon as they old enough, Imma bounce.
Ooookay 🙌🏼😩
OmGoshhhhhh, I am soooo thankful for you ❤
I be getting revelations upon revelations & am sooo glad that you are a Beautiful Sister in Jesus Yeshua 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
You are right 100 my first time in life experience a narcissist God release me from her now I heal and pray
I'm a man and everything that you said actually happened because I LET THAT back in for a short period. God works mysteriously.
It’s the truth ! Thanks for sharing !
I got to tell you I love your voice I love your demeanor I like that you keep calm when you get mad it almost seems like a whisper, a warning it’s very calm and soothing to hear you. It feels like you’re really want to help us.
Hey girl! I just have to say…I watch ALL of your videos. This one, whew mami, it hit home. Every word you spoke from beginning to end resonated…I changed my number last month. The ex narc copied me and did the same…which little does he know, he saved my life!! I was really tempted tonight, to almost reverse Hoover myself. And send him an email. Just to talk shit, I watched your video, and I was like nope. I ain’t gonna put myself back in the mental torture. Shits not worth it. Thank you for everything you do. Did you ex narc, Hoover you? You are incredibly strong, And definitely thriving. I’m still a survivor, but girl I am ready to pass this Hoover test, and become a thriver! I love you and your videos. I’m about to watch another one of yours. I binge watch them haha. 😂 love ya girl!
Hello survivor!!!! Much love !! The Hoovers do not stop. Actually they get more creative with it. I just keep ignoring lol. Unbothered Asf ! 😇🎉🍾
Yesssssssssssss🎉❤
Bless you sista lv ya 💜💐x
My wife used to say "But I am your wife". If I speak the truth to the people she lies to. Funny 😁 😅now 🤣 I've awoken.
My family in law is toxic towards me.
Not towards my wife or my son.
They try to isolate me from my own wife and son by not accepting me and smear my name.
I can not just stay away from every event for ever.
Then my son will never see me interact with his family.
So, i have to go to those monks once every other year. I hate it.
Narcs are dead and boring.
Looking at their acts of being alive and full of joy. 🙄
Your message is so true.
Thank you for this message ❤
An on time Word🎉 my narcissist sister just pulled a hoover 2x over the past holiday. I am staying no contact 💯 the hoover stirred up my anger after my initial indifference and skepticism. This was a confirmation that I am on the right path 👌
My wife use to want me tell everybody 🙄 I was the one. When God sees everything
Warrior sis❤💪🏾
I am need of a chat about my scenario all your information has helped me today.
Who cares what they think
it's always good to hear from you ❤
Yes he use to come back physically sick and id heal him
Mami So True, you are speaking my story 😢😢😢
MAMISOTRUE IS SO FINE!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The narcissist taught you that you should have remained a virgin
Your 100 percent correct
You are so On Point. Thanks
I've passed the test with my baby father. He hoovered me by deciding to live around the corner from me. He hit me with " I want my family back" after he abused me while I was 5 months pregnant with our child. I declined. He threw a fit at first, and then he mellowed down... He hasn't been hoovering or bothering me lately... does that mean he's giving up completely, or is he going to try to attempt again? I never can tell.. I honestly just want him to leave me and my daughter alone.. it's a matter of time, he will disappoint and hurt her.. when will he give up ...
Hi! Honestly because of the precious daughter. It means he left a heavy supply he shouldn’t have fumbled. You will never stop getting hovered. Just stay woke !
A Hoover Equals a Big Yucky Booger LOL. It Rhymes,................ My Narc I feel has driven by my house in unmarked cars like you said, ( probably his other supplies cars) he's a player . LOL...I removed myself from Social Media for a few months to rebuild and reinvent myself .at 11:31 , yes i exposed them and now that I am watching this video , it makes sense . Girl, Thank you .
See he always wanted to break up with me but I would always beg him back to stay
When you take them back after you break up again the trauma bond last longer because they love bomb you ever harder
If you go back after a discard... they will punish you
@@OhSoLovely I took the narcissist back in 2021 and broke up with the narcissist in 3 months ive been stuck in the trauma bond for 2 years the first break up took 8 months but the second is worst
You’re so beautiful sis Nigerian girl here
Thank you
Thank you for this!
I DO NOT WANT A HOOVER . PERIOD
Can we be friends ?? I can 110 % relate to the struggle. They have been coming for me my whole life but I stay lifted. Do you happen to live in the Atlanta area? Because if so, I’d love to meet for lunch on me of course!! ✨❤️
I think I saw a UGA hat so I thought I’d ask because I live in ATL too :)
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I am a woman 16 years in darkness
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28 yrs smh 🤦🏽
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That's right momsotrue that's what my husband did to me when he left me he
He left God but like you said they think don't do no wrong but they are going to fine out going from one relationship to other he think God finish with him but he's not he wouldn't buy me no gifts or nothing it was like he didn't know who I was he treated me and my son so bad all I could do anything but pray to God to help usm
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For the life of me I can't figure out how n why these videos of yours are so timely...like just when I think I dusted yo ass...( Sorry but much as I love u the less I need your videos the better...) but NO ...here we are back in Mami so true office/ living room or wherever with $1000 n tickets paid off and a brand new car😤...where's that Deborah Cox song when u need it cuz how Mami? How do ya get here? Well...thanks for the heads up...now imma need a whole NOTHER video about HOW to give back a car n this yellow page book worth of tickets he done paid off for kidnapping our child...never said sorry just ...here a new car....THATS how I got trapped with the tickets n the first place...😤😤😤😤don't worry...cuz soon as his mask get the slipping...u can call me Ashford n Simpson cuz imma b SOLID! NO n I'm definitely takin this car...😂😂😂wooo...but um...the crocodile tears are scaring me....soon as I heard the HERE N NNOOOWWWW luther blasting i was like🤦here we go chile.
Thank you you said it all. True true true is a fact, amen
How do you know so much?
I refuse the hoover, glad I did , you said the truth.
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Your also not going to force yourself in my energy. It aint happening PERIOD.
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