Once upon a time I was fed up of society about being 30 plus. Felt like leaving the country and live alone abroad but who knew that I will get married to a foreigner and live here permanently.
Should we try for second chance as of now dont wanaa be in relationship again. Whole fam and frens trying to conv me for marriege again but is it worth I just wanaa live alone but again every one saying "akele jindagi nai kat ti aage kuchhogayaa toh kaun samhalegaa and all" Fadup withall this Plzz share ur opinion as u have given second chance to your self . Dont take it otherwise
@@sunil.m6567 please don't marry...girls will torture to boys family after marriage and girls will enjoy with boy's hard money. Please enjoy yourself with your family and friends
@@harrisn3693 what if you get your life partner in your 30s 🙃🙄😏 ab aisa zaruri toh nhi ke aapko 25 ,26 saal me aapka Zeevan saathi mil jaaye ... already said we all have our things done at our own times ... and remember khush rehna zda important h , shaadi and having kids shouldn't promise you happiness
@@harrisn3693 yes.. Women these days are brainwashed they think they can wait until eternity but we women have a time period for givinh birth to healthy baby... So we must become smart and find a good mate soon and get married and also dont waste time on boyfriend if the boyfriend is not ready for marriage after a year of dating than dump him coz we have no time
yes, I am, I believe in self-love, Self-Worth, self-care, and Inner happiness. You have to love yourself when you are alone with yourself. And that's the real deal.
The first girl has already negatively judged him and avoiding him. Guys must not be needy, over optimistic. The best matches never require trying too hard. A delayed response equals a No - guys need to understand it asap to avoid trouble. The second girl is always on the lookout for better "content" - so just because she was good to him doesn't necessarily mean anything.
I'm 29 , haven't found the right one & it feels like everyday struggle when everyone is forcing you for arrange marriage. The mental pressure is killing me
It's always better to wait for the right time than to rush into something and regret it later on and better to get married to the right person than to get married at the right age
M 28 completed 29 running but sometimes i feel like i am 82 or 92 just opp f age no. Due to frustation,irritation,stress,pressure ,force..with all these strains occurred in body.But yes..its ok to marry late instead to marry to a wrong person..Wts say guys?
I can closely relate to this man, in a 32 years old , pretty settled in life, had few heart breaks in past but still I hope I can get in a fresh relationship
@@Here_we_go..557 why do u draw a conclusion without knowing the story. I didnt take a single penny alimony and I'm financially independent since the age of 21.so even while I was married I never required his money!
I am 26 , Getting forced to get married this year only . When we will understand age is just a no to get married ... iss society ne jaan le li h ... are ab to job kar rhi ... shadi q ni ... ittni badi ho gyi ho ... i feel like 40 already .
Don't ever marry ok..... Shaadi barbaadi hai...... Financial loss......think about inflation..price rise.....a person alone earning can't satisfy his own needs.....also recession period is going...on.....Don't think socially when some one says u to marry....Think Economically
Damn! I am 31 and just realised that i am going to be in this situation soon. I haven't realised this till now cuz i am the only child of my parents and have no relatives in India and i look younger than my age.....i still feel like a college guy, can't believe marriage is round the corner.
Bhai was in exact same situation as u...single son, well settled, look young, feel younger...BC pata nhi chala kab 37 ho gya...I still feel nothing over 27 even today !!!
Of all my batchmates from school, college, tuition, more than 50% of them married after the age of 30. The other 40-50 percent also didn't marry at any 12 or 25 age. Marriages in our batch started after the age of 27 with many all of a sudden marrying at that age like a viral challenge. By 30, only few were marrying each season but in every season since then, there was, is and will be marriages up till when all of us are 35 and married. Some may be left out, but there is no written rule anywhere that all should marry. It seems like this creation is run in such a manner that all possible outcomes should and must happen. It is only us, the society that for some reason(s) want to challenge the creator by completely negating some outcomes while overly and overtly favouring some particular outcomes.
I am also unmarried at 31 about to turn 32 and now I just don't want to marry. Women feel to me like a huge responsibility. Looking at my friends and relatives marriages I can see marriages are no fun for guys just more tension and after spending 7 yrs to find that govt. Job that society wants and giving my entire youth to it now I want peace.
Matrimonial websites are just full of disrespectful gold diggers (majority of them), and that's a sad reality Hope society changes a bit till I reach that age🤞
Mujhe koi nahi poochta na tokta hai.. mujhe khudbfeel hota hai. Jada feel tab hona shuru hua jab ek ek ker k meri saari childhood frnds ki shaadi ho gayi... Esa laga jaise mere paas ticket hi nahi hai train me chadhne k liye or sab ek ek ker k apni train me chadh gaye an I m still on the bench looking at them...
Really hard when have not met society's expectations. Who can explain to society that God has a plan for your life and you are not in control of meeting your life partner. Someone up in the stars is pulling those strings.
Society won't feed us when we''re hungry, won't TC of us when we fall sick .Hence we don't have any obligation to meet its so-called expectations IMO for our own lives.
@@yogeshdesai5999 expectations bhai. The current gen is not willing to settle for anything average. And also not willing to put efforts and not willing to bear the frustration of multiple rejections or multiple calls. No patience at all.
I m 30 and also recently got unemployed but seriously not having any thought about marriage yet bcz I m happy with myself. I need to set my financial life. No need to get married soon😊
32 is very very very very young whats wrong with these people? Getting married at 23 24 are those people who will become old faster....DNA gets shrunk for them
@@justvlogging9155 Indian community having cheap mentality they thought marriage means having kids....to carry forward their surnames....I don't knw where they're carrying 🤣🤣🤣 once I'm dead means I'm dead what the hell I'm doing with the fuckin surname...!!!!
@The Quiver they have to find ideal 👨 by themselves simple They have only one option is love marriage simple. I have two options 1. arranged marriage 2. Love marriage.
I'm 36. Never married. Single. No gf. Educated but Unemployed. I've reached the level where having a girlfriend or life partner irks me. Yet, I fancy the thought of having a girlfriend or life partner. Mixed feelings, you know. Kabhi chahie. Kabhi nahin. 🙂
I am 30. Just married. Sala Aisi jagah Job li jahan sirf 200 logo ki population thi,duniya k khich khich se door... sala or kismat dekho, shadi k dosare din Transfer ho gya ,apne app🤣😂... Now I am Happy. Pehle sab shadi kab hogi puchte the,ab Honeymoon me kab jaa rhe.. time change , place change.
Next 20 years prediction: Humans will avoid marriage/live-in and population will decrease. Too much expectations will ruin the relationship. Why mother and child relationship is so pure. Because mother never expect anything from kid. Zero expectation signifies purity. Husband-Wife relationship should be like a true friendship. If you are poor in friendship then mostly it won't workout for you.
Why So Relatable? This should be the tagline of Gabblin. As always, loved the video. That number game wala rant can definitely compete with Kartik Aryan's ladki wala thingy. Ab to aisi aadat ho gayi h k kahi Manav suno to Appy naam yaad aata h & vice versa. As I always say, Gabblin is an authentic content wala channel. By the people. For the people. The answer is: Vanika. Spelling & accent might differ.😄 Lots of love to Team Gabblin.🎊🎉🥳🤗❤🙏
Marriage is like a borad exam certificate if you dont have it in time people will look down on you and if you get the certificate but somehow not gracefully people will still talk about it. Its high time we stop judging people on their maratial status and age.
Great Video... But Biggest Problem today is Both Men and Women are not willing to adjust or compromise on anything.. as we age our habits ,thought processes gets fix,rigid ,stubborn and we find fault only on opposite parties. Its as simple as that Working men and Working Women both think that I earn a living so I am not dependent on anybody and don't need to adjust to anybody. So marriage breaks easily. Unless and until there are pressure from in-laws (that too can be solved) I think any marriage can sustain. COMPROMISE and ADJUSTING and CARE is missing only thing matter is Money and comfort .
I am 33.. Preparing for government job..my Family is supportive.. But i feel that probably time has come for my marriage.. Will definitely marry within two years because little stress is building up within me to marry soon with the right lady of good heart
@atul Sharma Media, journalists, politicians, women NGOs project women do lot of house work that is not true in reality. These people say dowry wrong at the same not critising girls who select man based on salary, property, height, professional status. Remember one thing all girls select man based on salary , property, height, professional status. That is reality. If you are getting less salary, no job, no property, not much height no girl , girl parents cares you. Girls, girl parents treat men as ATM. Media, journalists, politicians, women NGOs encouraging this for doing business. More over family laws are fully women oriented. Read all the laws. Becareful don't get trapped by simp men, media, journalists, politicians, journalists.
@@88stuti Right my family forced me to meet a Girl. Then sutbandhan program etc.. She was good everything was ok time passed we broke up. Now my concentration is gone. I was so focused on getting a job now I am unable to study... Life has gone upside down.
This channel is awesome and my favourite on TH-cam , this channel deserves 1 million subscribers and the people who hurl abuses have millions of followers , our society is not mature enough to digest good content.
Are you kids mad or what? 32 years is like kindergarten. Life begins at 40. If you are lucky you'll wake up at 50. Most people don't - they keep sleepwalking thru life. It's better to be single and lonely than be married and lonely. Married and lonely can be suffocating. And remember - if you are happily married then there is another level above you. It's called "blissfully single". It has no comparison.
32, enjoying my work and my friend circle. Had relationships before and I can vouch that they are overrated. Your happiness should come from satisfactions of your own work and moments. For eg-I’m constantly hounded on why I’ve not bought a car, I enjoy my bike so much. Guys and Gals ensure you are contributing to the society and have moolah in the vault that’s it There’s nothing like a good book in the outdoors with a good coffee or standing high up in the sky scrapper with glass walls watching the city with a great single malt
I'm 33 and single from India currently working in Seychelles also its been my similar experience in my life. But no one still has been so special in my life
I am 33, and I don't even go out to meet any woman, life is settled, got looks health money fat pay job savings but no interested in marriage at all! Perfectly straight guy! Never had an indian gf or proper relationship, partly my fault that I stayed at local area in bangalore (Near Hennur) till 30 with my relatives so I never even met any decent girl, no worries, don't need it now.
I was 26 years, 2 years back when I too met a girl and it wa an arranged set-up, I was suposed to get married in Feb 2020 however she was 4 years younger to me and there were issues due to which I also backed-off, I don't blame her as arranged setups are as such that things happen too quicky, so its an apeal to all guys and girls out there that Marriage is a life long bond so there are no rules in the age. Every aspect has their positivies and learnings. Best if luck to all.
@@nochance3914 @No Chance Thank you for asking such an important question. There has to be a gap of 2-3 years which is ideal. Too much gap can create a big issue as the younger partner won't be able to match the thought due to a set of difference in general experience, this happened in my case as the girl was too young she was 22 and I was 26. Best of luck, May you get a good match
I'm 26 recently selected to a job and waiting for offer letter, all the comments here are giving the hopes 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 thanks for all the souls talking positively 🙏🏻
I had read in a blog post last year that according to the latest(by then) data on marriages in USA, the average first time marrying age in the US was 32.....…........yes you read it right, it's 32 in the US. It had taken census data from then recent past few months only.
I'm 27 & working. My family is asking me to get married and settle down. After readings the comments of women here getting divorced in their 30s. It scared me 😅😅
Video is superb and the comment section also is really lit and lively here 👌👌👌 I am 30-3 currently.. Not in a hurry to get married but will surely return to this page to share my stories and experiences after few years.. 🤗
Whats wrong in being cool about it. What's so wrong about not giving in to your insecurities. It's ok to feel insecure, scared or confused sometimes. Because all these ppl in comment section deep down wants to settle. So being unsure about future keeps the doors open. But it's completely a choice whether to prioritise insecurities or have confidence to live in moment. For some ppl important decision of life should not be based on insecurity.
It's not any feminism. What do you want people to do who are single? Cry? Go into depression? Moreover if you are not finding the right person then that's not your fault. You will eventually have to accept the life as is. Because I believe each and every one of us are born with some pre defined destiny. If marrying and making children is not the destiny then God has planned something else which will be beautiful and satisfying in the end! 🙏😇
Very cute & relatable (although I will be 27 soon). I think I am just tangled in a war within myself & the external factors that are not in my control.
Good luck. Mostly don't listen to your parents especially if they are rejecting girls for higher dowry. Seen that happen to boys before. Then at 36 they just settle for some girl they never liked.
Well age is important to an extent. If someone is planning on having kids then you don't want to get married real late. But otherwise, it's fine to meet someone at 35 also. Marriage should not be about having another person in your life, it should be a possibility for both partners to be better than what they are as individuals. Be passionate about life and goals, if it's intended to happen it will. Don't have marriage as a destination !! 2 cents
@@anjankumarbhui2988 agr ldka metro city mein rehta ho... Well settled ho.. Lekin parents k sth rehta ho... Ar mama's boy types ho phr kya krein?? .. Abi btt ni kiye hai.... Ldke se ... But puche kaisi lgi.... T bole boy thoda shy hai.. Ar jo mummy k psnd vo usko psnd... Aisa sunke drr lgta hai???? 😕🤨
I think its important to marry early when u want to product kids and thats d only thing u want from ur married life but if u want to find d right one not d one from a Hollywood or bollywood movie then u got to know what u want and be realistic ... nothing wrong or right in waiting. Its a choice or a journey we go through based on our experiences.
relationship is complicated nowadays because of huge expectations from opposite gender. Fast life upbringings , status , looks , money , fame etc etc just ruining the essence of conjugal life. Simple and Happy life has three important things 1) Adjustments 2) Low Expectations and 3) trustworthiness .
will turn 30 soon and I m more balder than this bald guy and single/unmarried and not settled yet and I don't see myself getting settled soon in coming 4-5 yrs becoz of struggles and hurdles and software developer and lower middle class by bank balance.. meri toh buri tarah lagi padi hai
So, anyone who's 30 plus here and fed up of the society? ;)
U guy hit it the perfectly. No one touched it . am 33 same happening. Am waiting and searching for aaparna too .please bring next episode on this.
30 plus & have questions for the society.
Once upon a time I was fed up of society about being 30 plus. Felt like leaving the country and live alone abroad but who knew that I will get married to a foreigner and live here permanently.
I am 28 and I am already fed up of the society which consists of all the fat aunties.....whose only topic of discussion is my marriage...😂😂😂😂
@@Nostalgic_Nooks 26, and its starting 😓
people :get married you are getting old
me:will marriage stop me frm gttng old?
😂😂😂
Nice one 😂😂
Woooooooooo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Lol
No but it will increase probability of having a child in right time.
I am 34 and enjoying my life AF!
Let society do their job and do urs..
Have a great year 🙂
Have fun with your cats. We need leftover women too👍
Well said
So great, like you attitude madam prasannata👍
@@tanmaymane9061 😊
I am 31, quit my job... Jobless... Not married.. planning about entrepreneurship.. life is cool❤️
Best of luck bro..
Fod de bhai.. All the best 👍👍👍
Best of luck bhai!!
All the best bro
Go ahead brother
May your All Dream come true and all your goal achieved
38. Divorced at 32. Living my life. Found my man last year. Having the best time of my life right now.
Everything has its time and place.
Should we try for second chance as of now dont wanaa be in relationship again.
Whole fam and frens trying to conv me for marriege again but is it worth
I just wanaa live alone but again every one saying "akele jindagi nai kat ti aage kuchhogayaa toh kaun samhalegaa and all"
Fadup withall this
Plzz share ur opinion as u have given second chance to your self .
Dont take it otherwise
my man? the same guy u divorced ?
@@sunil.m6567 please don't marry...girls will torture to boys family after marriage and girls will enjoy with boy's hard money. Please enjoy yourself with your family and friends
♥️to hear that, god bless u
#alone #life #injoy #freedom #job #success
People who are in their 30s and unmarried..pls mark your attendance ✋..if you guys live near Delhi Ncr...we can have a social group🤣🤣
Not kidding is there any
🤚
Yes my boss I am 29 years old . Can I be the part of the group
I Just got married, and I'm 32 ...what's hype, we all have our things done at our own times. Meeting someone in your 30s is as special as in your 20s
20 saal kon shaadi krta h
@@nehamishra5529 in your 20s means between the age from 20 to 30 ,
@@harrisn3693 what if you get your life partner in your 30s 🙃🙄😏 ab aisa zaruri toh nhi ke aapko 25 ,26 saal me aapka Zeevan saathi mil jaaye ... already said we all have our things done at our own times ... and remember khush rehna zda important h , shaadi and having kids shouldn't promise you happiness
@@harrisn3693 yes.. Women these days are brainwashed they think they can wait until eternity but we women have a time period for givinh birth to healthy baby... So we must become smart and find a good mate soon and get married and also dont waste time on boyfriend if the boyfriend is not ready for marriage after a year of dating than dump him coz we have no time
@@kyipasbeautyminati4172 aa gayi expiry date lagane aur male approval lene
There are many options these days,and not everyone wants a kid
I am 28 i still feel like 10th std boy and want to play football and sleep.
@@gopalb.320 lucky fellow.
@@whatithinksingh all the best buddy I'm 27 this Feb and preparing for government exam. Wish me luck Yaar🙏
@@moonlover8924 wish you best of luck. Just give your best on present. And your present would be successful.
Same here bro
Same here... I even play cricket with school days
I am turning 40 this year! Still single 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Why are you laughing... ? Are you really happy being single? 🤔
yes, I am, I believe in self-love, Self-Worth, self-care, and Inner happiness. You have to love yourself when you are alone with yourself. And that's the real deal.
Sakt launda 😀
Congratulations.... You are enjoying your life :)
@@chandnichauhan2143 Thank you! The key to living an abundant life is to love yourself first and be happy! 🤗🥰😂
The first girl has already negatively judged him and avoiding him. Guys must not be needy, over optimistic. The best matches never require trying too hard. A delayed response equals a No - guys need to understand it asap to avoid trouble. The second girl is always on the lookout for better "content" - so just because she was good to him doesn't necessarily mean anything.
I hv 5 lakh hair 😂😂😂... Its seriously tiring process to find ur partner 😬
Its better to marry late rather than marrying wrong person
Absolutely!
late?? how late?? 32? 34? 36? 40? 45?
@@rajashekar1848 toh tu jaake karle. Idhar aake gyan kyu chod raha hai
This is so relatable
Very true we really need separate group..
Im 28 but still feel the same..
Yes plsss ... v shud have a group or an app
28. Single. Waiting for the right one, not perfect one❤️
Good luck ❤
28 ..... I m the left one 🤣
Good luck
Marriage can be a blessing or a nightmare, don’t go into it lightly.
It comes with its own responsibility and risks 😂
Benstoke .. what wrong we did
I'm 29 , haven't found the right one & it feels like everyday struggle when everyone is forcing you for arrange marriage. The mental pressure is killing me
Hmm.... uou will find ur dream person soon
Same here
Think About Teenage days masti. It will Help!
@@user-fg1tl8jm7m thinking is not the solution. Future fear will dominate past memories
It's always better to wait for the right time than to rush into something and regret it later on and better to get married to the right person than to get married at the right age
The girl lacked so much maturity and manners i swear.
Immature Behengi type...lacking emotional sensibility
I am 33 single doing my job as a manager and happy with my life 😉and yes I have 5,00,000 above hair 🤣
Few more years like that and u will be even more happier..
Can we meet up Nupur I'm into 30 plus women I'm 22 rn
@@eugene8166 😂
M 28 completed 29 running but sometimes i feel like i am 82 or 92 just opp f age no. Due to frustation,irritation,stress,pressure ,force..with all these strains occurred in body.But yes..its ok to marry late instead to marry to a wrong person..Wts say guys?
Yess, so true
Crct
True
True
First thing I'm not getting my compatible partner so I'm always forced to get married anyone because I'm turning 30
I can closely relate to this man, in a 32 years old , pretty settled in life, had few heart breaks in past but still I hope I can get in a fresh relationship
I am 35, got married at 25 , divorced at 30 , single and happy again
Took alimony then saying that living happily. How pity😂
@@Here_we_go..557 why do u draw a conclusion without knowing the story. I didnt take a single penny alimony and I'm financially independent since the age of 21.so even while I was married I never required his money!
I m 28 not yet married. Planning to go abroad for good job
31. Left my job two years ago. Now I want to move to abroad for peaceful life. Life here sucks a lot.
Which profile was ur previous job and which country you wanna fly to
I too feel the same
Feelings mutual
I am 26 , Getting forced to get married this year only . When we will understand age is just a no to get married ... iss society ne jaan le li h ... are ab to job kar rhi ... shadi q ni ... ittni badi ho gyi ho ... i feel like 40 already .
Mai bolta hu dhamki de de dulhe ko
Dhok dungi man jayega
Dulha to gya tumhara , use sach bta do ki mera shaadi ka man nahi h forcefully kar rahe h gharwale uski jindagi bach jaayegi
Don't ever marry ok.....
Shaadi barbaadi hai......
Financial loss......think about inflation..price rise.....a person alone earning can't satisfy his own needs.....also recession period is going...on.....Don't think socially when some one says u to marry....Think Economically
I am 31 with no hope, no job , no life watching this perfect screened movieclip.
😂😂
Life gets better Chirag! Hang on!
Business karo. Lecturer bano. Tutor bano. Bas job hi kyu karna. Aatmanirbhar bano. 🙂
🙌🙌
Me too
32 is young...until 38 u r young..and then things go downhill and mind goes uphill and u realise u really dont need a partner..
Powerful lines
U dont need a partner and be depress as hell
38 is too late....max 34-35
In USA people start dating at 65 and marry well into their 70s.
Coz by that time they are already parents to some kids who don't live with them anymore....
Haha...very cool
If the USA is doing it we must definitely follow
Damn! I am 31 and just realised that i am going to be in this situation soon. I haven't realised this till now cuz i am the only child of my parents and have no relatives in India and i look younger than my age.....i still feel like a college guy, can't believe marriage is round the corner.
You have good hair to your rescue though 😉😂
👍
Bhai was in exact same situation as u...single son, well settled, look young, feel younger...BC pata nhi chala kab 37 ho gya...I still feel nothing over 27 even today !!!
@@priydarshanpathak523 😅
M 32 n still don't want to get marry 😉.
Of all my batchmates from school, college, tuition, more than 50% of them married after the age of 30. The other 40-50 percent also didn't marry at any 12 or 25 age. Marriages in our batch started after the age of 27 with many all of a sudden marrying at that age like a viral challenge. By 30, only few were marrying each season but in every season since then, there was, is and will be marriages up till when all of us are 35 and married. Some may be left out, but there is no written rule anywhere that all should marry. It seems like this creation is run in such a manner that all possible outcomes should and must happen. It is only us, the society that for some reason(s) want to challenge the creator by completely negating some outcomes while overly and overtly favouring some particular outcomes.
I am also unmarried at 31 about to turn 32 and now I just don't want to marry. Women feel to me like a huge responsibility. Looking at my friends and relatives marriages I can see marriages are no fun for guys just more tension and after spending 7 yrs to find that govt. Job that society wants and giving my entire youth to it now I want peace.
same age like me. gonna turn 32 in November and I am a women
Matrimonial websites are just full of disrespectful gold diggers (majority of them), and that's a sad reality
Hope society changes a bit till I reach that age🤞
Oh no..I m also on same boat.. I'm 25, unemployed right now. Got bored of listening stories of relatives. 😂
Let's get married then whats say?
Marry in haste, repent at leisure. 😀😀
LOL
Hi! I am 30, working in advertising, well settled, got my own house two years back and happily single!
"Kabhi kabhi mood swings aa jatey hain"
going to be 32
These days I'm going through
Hell(the society)
Me too..with so much of anxiety
So true... very difficult phase it is for a lady!!
@@Bumble-Beee🙇dekhne mein teenager hi lgti hoon but age(numbers) tells everything 🙆na
😪
Mujhe koi nahi poochta na tokta hai.. mujhe khudbfeel hota hai. Jada feel tab hona shuru hua jab ek ek ker k meri saari childhood frnds ki shaadi ho gayi... Esa laga jaise mere paas ticket hi nahi hai train me chadhne k liye or sab ek ek ker k apni train me chadh gaye an I m still on the bench looking at them...
27 Single
Still in CA final. Hope I will clear CA within a year & get job & then get married
I can relate
@@sh-pn4fv Thank u bro
Are u also doing CA ??
@@knowledgekokhoji246 yes
How’s life now?😄
The girl who is calling herself 25 looking like 40+ Auntie 🙄🙄
Lol true 🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahah
Trust me it doesn’t happen this way . People die to meet you if you are successful . This is all crap .
You missed the crux of this video! ☺️
They don't care about your struggle.. they just pick the one who crossed the finish line..
Really hard when have not met society's expectations. Who can explain to society that God has a plan for your life and you are not in control of meeting your life partner. Someone up in the stars is pulling those strings.
Interesting perspective, Archana! Cheers!
Society won't feed us when we''re hungry, won't TC of us when we fall sick .Hence we don't have any obligation to meet its so-called expectations IMO for our own lives.
I am 33 and not married. When people learn about my age, they start treating me as some kind of rebel or a loser.
Ignore them focus on ur career, and only get married when someone worth comes over. No point being in a sad relationship.
You are so beautiful. Very surprising to see girl like you being still single.
Dnt worry and don't care about what people think
@@yogeshdesai5999 expectations bhai. The current gen is not willing to settle for anything average. And also not willing to put efforts and not willing to bear the frustration of multiple rejections or multiple calls. No patience at all.
Lol!! We both are on same floor
I m 30 and also recently got unemployed but seriously not having any thought about marriage yet bcz I m happy with myself. I need to set my financial life. No need to get married soon😊
Same here. ...😊😊😊
Keep living and loving, Ananya - life will love you back and give you all the experiences that you want! Cheers!
@@Gabblin ❤️🌼✨
Aur ek🤣
You don't think about future i am very scary about my future.
I'm 27. Unemployed. Younger siblings getting married. Ah my life.
32 is very very very very young whats wrong with these people? Getting married at 23 24 are those people who will become old faster....DNA gets shrunk for them
Well, for Indian women anyone over 30 is not fit for marriage, I guess.
@@natvar06 why ? What happens to them after 30?
@@justvlogging9155 Indian community having cheap mentality they thought marriage means having kids....to carry forward their surnames....I don't knw where they're carrying 🤣🤣🤣
once I'm dead means I'm dead what the hell I'm doing with the fuckin surname...!!!!
@The Quiver they have to find ideal 👨 by themselves simple
They have only one option is love marriage simple.
I have two options
1. arranged marriage
2. Love marriage.
So many unmarried people here. We could make a separate group of 30+single 😊😊
yes we want
I'm 36. Never married. Single. No gf. Educated but Unemployed. I've reached the level where having a girlfriend or life partner irks me. Yet, I fancy the thought of having a girlfriend or life partner. Mixed feelings, you know. Kabhi chahie. Kabhi nahin. 🙂
Bhaiya ji Ghar wale torcher nhi krte hai r u gay kaise Bhai no gf koi to purani hogi it's impossible
@@AvinashKumar-sv8wh bina romantic partner ke bhi ek human gracefully jee skta hai..jeena aana chahiye bus..
@@Jyoti-et4pe nice bro but u r rarest one it is goodvery good
Pehle income source bana lo bhai
Income source banane le liye call kro mujhe 9011970173
I am 31 and preparing for my most important competative exam...
Which exam bro?
I am 29 preparing for fucking usmle step 2
@@superman-sl7qb upsc 😭😭
I am 30.
Just married.
Sala Aisi jagah Job li jahan sirf 200 logo ki population thi,duniya k khich khich se door... sala or kismat dekho, shadi k dosare din Transfer ho gya ,apne app🤣😂... Now I am Happy.
Pehle sab shadi kab hogi puchte the,ab Honeymoon me kab jaa rhe.. time change , place change.
😂
Yaar I'm 30 and I have also tired of these things now.. 😂
Kaash mujhe bi meri Aparna mil jayegi 🤞
👍r mjhe v manav
My best friend is 30 looking for Muslim guys...😊
Yess
Am 24 and ek ladka aya....He's 30...Am like woaah ye toh bhaiya ka age ka hai....Ab tak shaadi kyu nai hui???? Hihihihi 😋
@@overthemoonflorist9135 kyun ki vo 30 saal se 24 age ki ladki ka intazaar mein hi 😉
Next 20 years prediction: Humans will avoid marriage/live-in and population will decrease. Too much expectations will ruin the relationship. Why mother and child relationship is so pure. Because mother never expect anything from kid. Zero expectation signifies purity. Husband-Wife relationship should be like a true friendship. If you are poor in friendship then mostly it won't workout for you.
Interesting!
I am 27 and still unemployed and I am thinking after sometime I will face this situation...... LOL hone wala haiii...
I am 30 and fed up with girls demand....
And decided not to marry now
I can totally relate having Gazzetted government job but ladkiyo ki demand hai tauba 😅
Why So Relatable? This should be the tagline of Gabblin.
As always, loved the video. That number game wala rant can definitely compete with Kartik Aryan's ladki wala thingy.
Ab to aisi aadat ho gayi h k kahi Manav suno to Appy naam yaad aata h & vice versa. As I always say, Gabblin is an authentic content wala channel. By the people. For the people.
The answer is: Vanika. Spelling & accent might differ.😄
Lots of love to Team Gabblin.🎊🎉🥳🤗❤🙏
Yo Punarva - thanks once again for the beautiful comment! :)
@@Gabblin Always a pleasure.❤
Marriage is like a borad exam certificate if you dont have it in time people will look down on you and if you get the certificate but somehow not gracefully people will still talk about it. Its high time we stop judging people on their maratial status and age.
Society be like : hmari life shaadi krke barbad hui inki bhi karo 🙂❤️
I Reached 30 recently and had plans to look for a girl from 32 only, feels like i will face same situations 😂😂😂
Great Video... But Biggest Problem today is Both Men and Women are not willing to adjust or compromise on anything.. as we age our habits ,thought processes gets fix,rigid ,stubborn and we find fault only on opposite parties. Its as simple as that Working men and Working Women both think that I earn a living so I am not dependent on anybody and don't need to adjust to anybody. So marriage breaks easily. Unless and until there are pressure from in-laws (that too can be solved) I think any marriage can sustain. COMPROMISE and ADJUSTING and CARE is missing only thing matter is Money and comfort .
When you do not have siblings parents pressure is more.
Same thing bro. Khandan ka chirag chahiye :(
@@mystrymanyt hum mar gye mtlb mar gye.....Chirag aur diye ka theka liya.....? Kahin b jaaye
I'm 29 unmarried unemployed zero savings and no goal in life😂😂😂
Good going 👍😂
@@pentakadi 😂😂 why to find permanent solutions in temporary life😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Same here bro
Seems like it's manav and Aparna's real story.
Hahahah ryt
"I heard you talking to your friend"..
Was i too loud 😃😂
The epics , i appreciate to laugh on..too good..
Thanks Birendra!
I am 33.. Preparing for government job..my Family is supportive.. But i feel that probably time has come for my marriage.. Will definitely marry within two years because little stress is building up within me to marry soon with the right lady of good heart
All the best atul.
@atul Sharma
Media, journalists, politicians, women NGOs project women do lot of house work that is not true in reality.
These people say dowry wrong at the same not critising girls who select man based on salary, property, height, professional status.
Remember one thing all girls select man based on salary , property, height, professional status. That is reality. If you are getting less salary, no job, no property, not much height no girl , girl parents cares you.
Girls, girl parents treat men as ATM. Media, journalists, politicians, women NGOs encouraging this for doing business.
More over family laws are fully women oriented. Read all the laws.
Becareful don't get trapped by simp men, media, journalists, politicians, journalists.
Shaadi tabhi when you are ready...if not. Then don't rush. Relax.
@@88stuti Right my family forced me to meet a Girl. Then sutbandhan program etc.. She was good everything was ok time passed we broke up. Now my concentration is gone. I was so focused on getting a job now I am unable to study... Life has gone upside down.
All the best for your bright future😊
This channel is awesome and my favourite on TH-cam , this channel deserves 1 million subscribers and the people who hurl abuses have millions of followers , our society is not mature enough to digest good content.
Thank you Robin! When we read comments like yours, we feel completely contented. Because, ultimately, we want to tell good stories, and entertain! :D
@@Gabblin 🙏🙏
Are you kids mad or what? 32 years is like kindergarten. Life begins at 40. If you are lucky you'll wake up at 50. Most people don't - they keep sleepwalking thru life. It's better to be single and lonely than be married and lonely. Married and lonely can be suffocating. And remember - if you are happily married then there is another level above you. It's called "blissfully single". It has no comparison.
Marrying in 30's is common not a big issue specially for men , 40's can be relatable
Society k liye after 30 comman nhi h. 30 k bad log BUDA samjne lagte h
32, enjoying my work and my friend circle. Had relationships before and I can vouch that they are overrated. Your happiness should come from satisfactions of your own work and moments. For eg-I’m constantly hounded on why I’ve not bought a car, I enjoy my bike so much. Guys and Gals ensure you are contributing to the society and have moolah in the vault that’s it
There’s nothing like a good book in the outdoors with a good coffee or standing high up in the sky scrapper with glass walls watching the city with a great single malt
Exact same age and exact same feeling....High 5 bro 🙏
Same here
I'm 33 and single from India currently working in Seychelles also its been my similar experience in my life.
But no one still has been so special in my life
Chill..marry when u really want. Till then enjoy😁
Its better to run after money by being single rather than running after girl by begging and losing all our self respect
I am 33, and I don't even go out to meet any woman, life is settled, got looks health money fat pay job savings but no interested in marriage at all! Perfectly straight guy! Never had an indian gf or proper relationship, partly my fault that I stayed at local area in bangalore (Near Hennur) till 30 with my relatives so I never even met any decent girl, no worries, don't need it now.
The best pick of this production has to be Raghu.. the ever smiling, always relaxed Delhi dude next door. Wee done guys.. and thank you Gabblin team!
People face a lot of difficulties finding perfect bcoz of our expectations these days. Keep it low, marry early and try to learn and adjust together.
Loved watching it...ur sketches are getting better and better👍👍 keep it up guys 😊
Cheers Mayank!
Running 32 ......😭😭😭
That’s amazing!
I was 26 years, 2 years back when I too met a girl and it wa an arranged set-up, I was suposed to get married in Feb 2020 however she was 4 years younger to me and there were issues due to which I also backed-off, I don't blame her as arranged setups are as such that things happen too quicky, so its an apeal to all guys and girls out there that Marriage is a life long bond so there are no rules in the age. Every aspect has their positivies and learnings.
Best if luck to all.
You are younger than me but as I have not gone through arrange marriage process,what should be age gap which I need to look for in arrange marriage?
@@nochance3914 @No Chance Thank you for asking such an important question. There has to be a gap of 2-3 years which is ideal. Too much gap can create a big issue as the younger partner won't be able to match the thought due to a set of difference in general experience, this happened in my case as the girl was too young she was 22 and I was 26.
Best of luck, May you get a good match
@@nochance3914 I think age gap upto 4 yrs is okay
Age gap should be 1 to 10 years actually not more than that in 21st century.
Hahahhaha cool topic yar.. it's really touched.. 😂😂 age is just a number but a powerful number... Hahahhaha
35. Qualified and self employed. Disabled. Getting dumped left right centre. Blogger poet by passion.
How many of you dream of a virgin bride..? I am 29 still searching for virgin bride.
I'm 26 recently selected to a job and waiting for offer letter, all the comments here are giving the hopes 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 thanks for all the souls talking positively 🙏🏻
Is that girl Aparna, Aayushman Khurrana' s sister...sometimes felt like the Dream Girl
I had read in a blog post last year that according to the latest(by then) data on marriages in USA, the average first time marrying age in the US was 32.....…........yes you read it right, it's 32 in the US. It had taken census data from then recent past few months only.
Divorce rate is 50% and women initiate 80% of divorces in the US.
I'm 27 & working. My family is asking me to get married and settle down. After readings the comments of women here getting divorced in their 30s. It scared me 😅😅
Video is superb and the comment section also is really lit and lively here 👌👌👌
I am 30-3 currently.. Not in a hurry to get married but will surely return to this page to share my stories and experiences after few years.. 🤗
I am 32. Still searching for a guy with good background and education
I'm 31 and makes no sense wasting my prime for addition burden in my life .. will marry some years later
Her expressions are killing... It's mixture of kill and kid 🤣
All in the comments are like behaving cool for being unmarried but deep down in their heart something seems restless.
Whats wrong in being cool about it. What's so wrong about not giving in to your insecurities. It's ok to feel insecure, scared or confused sometimes. Because all these ppl in comment section deep down wants to settle. So being unsure about future keeps the doors open. But it's completely a choice whether to prioritise insecurities or have confidence to live in moment. For some ppl important decision of life should not be based on insecurity.
It's not any feminism. What do you want people to do who are single? Cry? Go into depression? Moreover if you are not finding the right person then that's not your fault. You will eventually have to accept the life as is. Because I believe each and every one of us are born with some pre defined destiny. If marrying and making children is not the destiny then God has planned something else which will be beautiful and satisfying in the end! 🙏😇
Tell me one chiking advantage of being married ... I actually see married PPL and think they are trying hard to be cool .. lol ...
The moment video started I was expecting Aparna on the other side of the table but "ye kaun nayi hai?" 😁
Good she was there in later part of the video
I m 30 single,unemployed and stressed
Half an hour later, still drinking coconut water
Very cute & relatable (although I will be 27 soon). I think I am just tangled in a war within myself & the external factors that are not in my control.
It's an universal problem for 90s kids
I am 34 still looking for the one.
Good luck. Mostly don't listen to your parents especially if they are rejecting girls for higher dowry. Seen that happen to boys before. Then at 36 they just settle for some girl they never liked.
appy k bina manav h adhura ... bhau y frustration original lg rhi thi ..love all videos of u ppl .. name was Venika
Cheers Rohit!
Well age is important to an extent. If someone is planning on having kids then you don't want to get married real late. But otherwise, it's fine to meet someone at 35 also. Marriage should not be about having another person in your life, it should be a possibility for both partners to be better than what they are as individuals. Be passionate about life and goals, if it's intended to happen it will. Don't have marriage as a destination !! 2 cents
Correct
We can have kids at 40 also.. just for sake of kids.. getting marry with wrong person.. n then get divorced..
What's the situation of kids that time
@@chaithanyav6646 past 40 conception is hard and congenital issues arise
@@princeofheaven19 😂😂 then get marry for wrong person, and be single parent
manav meet a girl which a name called as " veneka"
Mere hisab se shadi ko career ke bich nai ghusana chaiye..shadi kr lo chahe bache der se karo..aaj kal ladkiya milna bohut problematic ho gya h
Dundi h kabhi koi
Ha..dundhi h..
@@anjankumarbhui2988 good
@@monikasisodia2918 soch samjh ke hi comment kiya tha. Couple agar ek dusre ka sath de to kuch bhi kr sakte h.
@@anjankumarbhui2988 agr ldka metro city mein rehta ho... Well settled ho.. Lekin parents k sth rehta ho... Ar mama's boy types ho phr kya krein?? .. Abi btt ni kiye hai.... Ldke se ... But puche kaisi lgi.... T bole boy thoda shy hai.. Ar jo mummy k psnd vo usko psnd... Aisa sunke drr lgta hai???? 😕🤨
I think its important to marry early when u want to product kids and thats d only thing u want from ur married life but if u want to find d right one not d one from a Hollywood or bollywood movie then u got to know what u want and be realistic ... nothing wrong or right in waiting. Its a choice or a journey we go through based on our experiences.
relationship is complicated nowadays because of huge expectations from opposite gender. Fast life upbringings , status , looks , money , fame etc etc just ruining the essence of conjugal life. Simple and Happy life has three important things 1) Adjustments 2) Low Expectations and 3) trustworthiness .
will turn 30 soon and I m more balder than this bald guy and single/unmarried and not settled yet and I don't see myself getting settled soon in coming 4-5 yrs becoz of struggles and hurdles and software developer and lower middle class by bank balance.. meri toh buri tarah lagi padi hai
And Me in my 19 worrying that I'll be spinster forever 😭 lol 😂
Bhai society kyun chahiti ki sab shadi karen, let marriage be a choice.
I'm 25 yrs Till now Never ever meet like this before 🙂
Am a fan of u man. Bald @27.
Not getting a girl for marriage.
Watched all the videos ❤️
And, we love you tons too! 💕
Did u get married bro