Coming from a man has been married for 25 years young people please don’t sleep with a man until he puts the ring on your finger saying I do that will impress him the most he want to say so but in his heart he will
I think this is pretty good advice. Though to be honest, I think some of it could also apply to the other side as well. Even though I'm a woman I would also be curious to hear your advice to men wanting to make a good impression on women.
I think one of the most important things for a woman to do around a man she is interested is PUT YOUR PHONE AWAY. This is all such beautiful advice and spot on. I would just add on also to your thoughts about ‘look good’, is to make it obvious that you have good habits when it comes to your health and appearance that will last in the long term. Men don’t want high maintenance, but they want reassurance that you are not going to let yourself go after you get comfortable, or have babies. It matters.
Love it!! Thank you! It’s so nice to see a channel that teaches women how to be a woman, not like today the culture is trying to discourage women to not be a real partner to a man. Thank you! More of this please!!
Hi Abby. Great video. Do you have any advice for older millennial women who are past the age of having children but would like to find a (traditional) life partner? 🙏
As a 1982 millennial guy the biggest issue I have is constantly paying the price for her ex's behavior. "My ex cheated on me so you can't have female friends." or "my ex would yell at me when we argued so I won't engage in disagreements." Or "my ex belittled me so I take everything as an insult."
This advice could work in multiple settings, not just going out on a date. If you are in the big city, working with CEO's or want that promotion then this is probably your best bet. I personally wouldn't use all of this for dating advice, I think people in general are more real and authentic now, they show their true selves on a first date as opposed to 50 or so years ago where this kind of stuff was really important for snagging a marriage. But this can be used well in a business setting for important companies, so either way it's a good video. 😊
Absolutely! However there are also other people (Christians, Jews, other religions, etc.) that tend to prefer the traditional way and I think that was more the target audience for her. However, I also agree with the business perspective as well. It makes a lot of sense in a lot of areas tbh
@@hannahware3751 True, yeah I know Abby is very religious and that's her target audience. I'm not religious, I'm Pagan but I understand where she's coming from. I watch her for her pregnancy, newborn, baby and house care videos. Though I don't fully agree with her politics or religious videos, I still like her stuff and she always looks so pretty. 😊
Kind of funny, in a good way. In my first, and hopefully only, relationship. We’ve been together about a year and a half and are very serious. I did pretty good on our first date, judging off of these. Maybe that’s what did the trick! 😂
There is no one size fits all men/women approach to dating. Continue to improve yourself (fitness, education, spiritual and mental well-being), have something in life that you care about, be authentic, and you’ll find someone eventually. These “how to catch a keep a man” tips are kinda outdated :/
Abby said all these things lol 💁🏻♀️ My son is single, so are most of his friends, and trust me most (not all) of these TikTok, Instagram, porn saturated young people NEED a reality check on how to interact with each other; it's more timely than ever.
@@rickybobby9797 You so depressingly missed her point sir. Most guys don't actually 'groom' themselves or behave in ways in which they think women would prefer them. The scales haven't actually tipped to the other side. Modern women do still do that, not as much though. Much of it is for self-improvement (like how the nice lady above pointed out). Women do not exist for men and men do not exist for women (at least not in first world countries). Staying attached to traditional and extremely outdated values will only hinder you and hold you back. Of course you're welcome to have your views and I hope you have found/will find someone w/ similar views that is perfect for you. But it's not a good look to sit back and complain about how 'women just don't care anymore'. Trust me, they do. Maybe not to you.
Hey Abby - I always thought that would be a niche angle for a dating site. Women who want to be moms/homemakers meeting men that are OK with that. Unfortunately it sounds like nowadays men want their wives to work also, but I guess im a traditionalist. I guess Christian mingle caters to this?
It's less that men want their women to work and more that due to the oppressive economy men and women can't survive in a traditional marriage by and large. I hope with a greater understanding of the economic hardship facing modern couples you find greater understanding of the simplicity of this problem. If you aren't born into wealth, it's an uphill battle that becomes impossible if you are also expected to be the sole breadwinner on wages that have been stagnating for decades while the cost of domestic goods has only ever gone up. It would be a great dating site where only the wealthiest couples could LARP as traditional christian. relationships while everyone below the upper class has to work for a living or die. Abby perfectly understand this, it's why she runs her own lucrative business.
When you say all these things, all these girl bosses on the internet will call you a "pick-me girl". But the ironic thing about pick-me girl is, they get picked. Who would of thought that behaving in a way that men find attractive and appealing would make men want to date you.
Getting picked is only worth it if you are picked by the right person. Abby tells girls in her other videos to look past negative qualities in men to get picked, this is terrible advice.
Saying that men are more visual than women is a heavily debatable notion and likely oversimplifying gender-based tendencies. A simple Google search will teach you that.
Yes, this. Just because some men go AWOOGA and act like they can't control themselves when they see a sexy woman does not mean they they are "more visual" than women. It just means that society hasn't held them accountable enough to keep their nasty thoughts about women to themselves. (I use this as an example because this is the primary thing I hear about when people try to prove that men are somehow "more visual".)
•Cover your mouth with your hand when you chew I don't mean this as a command, it's just extremely endearing to see women do this. My friend started dating a girl from Central Mexico so she's extremely Traditional, so seeing her do this was like seeing a mermaid or something.
So see if you can agree to this: all religions in the world are imaginary. Merely there are women and men. A receiving forcefield mingled with a giving forcefield. And amongst them some choose to make connections amongst women-men, others do men-men and others do women to women. Thoughts?
Sadly, most women today believe that they are prize. Hence, they could care less about male preferences. In addition to the items Abby mentions there is one method that will impress a man most of all: A woman who has saved herself for her husband. No man of value wants to take the risk on a woman who lacks virtue. We all know the games that most modern women play and are, therefore, unworthy of marriage.
I understand traditions have their place and respect people w/ such views. However, the concept of marriage has changed w/ the times. As a result, it is important to adjust values accordingly.
It’s couldn’t care less. Could care less makes no sense. No woman of value wants a man who hasn’t saved himself. Sadly, most men don’t. They sleep around but expect a different standard for women
LMAOO, no I could not care less about "male preference"- especially if that preference also requires a chaste virgin woman. Any man who needs a virgin is a huge red flag- he obviously has self esteem issues and is possessive. A person's sexual history is their business alone
@@hannibalmontanabal4398 The only time I find it wholesome is when a religious (doesn't have to be but usually are) couple, both save themselves for marriage (b/c they're waiting for THE one). Though I'm not all that myself, I do have some guy and girl friends who are
Why?! She gives good advice here. A man can apply these things too. Look good, listen, talk good about the things you like, show you can build a home (even if it's only you) and have good manners... What's sad about it?
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Coming from a man has been married for 25 years young people please don’t sleep with a man until he puts the ring on your finger saying I do that will impress him the most he want to say so but in his heart he will
FOH boomer
Listening was a good addition to the list. It’s a very underrated skill, it will definitely make you stand out from most others.
I think this is pretty good advice. Though to be honest, I think some of it could also apply to the other side as well. Even though I'm a woman I would also be curious to hear your advice to men wanting to make a good impression on women.
Men are the prize, my dear. Feminism, sadly, has deceived you and most of Western women about this very simple fact.
You seem like a throw back from the 1950's
I think one of the most important things for a woman to do around a man she is interested is PUT YOUR PHONE AWAY.
This is all such beautiful advice and spot on. I would just add on also to your thoughts about ‘look good’, is to make it obvious that you have good habits when it comes to your health and appearance that will last in the long term. Men don’t want high maintenance, but they want reassurance that you are not going to let yourself go after you get comfortable, or have babies. It matters.
As a guy - yes to everything. Especially the phone.
Love it!! Thank you! It’s so nice to see a channel that teaches women how to be a woman, not like today the culture is trying to discourage women to not be a real partner to a man. Thank you! More of this please!!
Hi Abby. Great video. Do you have any advice for older millennial women who are past the age of having children but would like to find a (traditional) life partner? 🙏
As a 1982 millennial guy the biggest issue I have is constantly paying the price for her ex's behavior.
"My ex cheated on me so you can't have female friends."
or
"my ex would yell at me when we argued so I won't engage in disagreements."
Or
"my ex belittled me so I take everything as an insult."
@@michaeldalton1874 Thanks for the insight, Michael. That would drive me nuts too.
@@michaeldalton1874 I get the frustration but that seems like a woman who has trauma and that kind of thing doesn't resolve over night
I'm a guy watching this. Thank you for the tips!
This advice could work in multiple settings, not just going out on a date. If you are in the big city, working with CEO's or want that promotion then this is probably your best bet. I personally wouldn't use all of this for dating advice, I think people in general are more real and authentic now, they show their true selves on a first date as opposed to 50 or so years ago where this kind of stuff was really important for snagging a marriage. But this can be used well in a business setting for important companies, so either way it's a good video. 😊
Absolutely! However there are also other people (Christians, Jews, other religions, etc.) that tend to prefer the traditional way and I think that was more the target audience for her. However, I also agree with the business perspective as well. It makes a lot of sense in a lot of areas tbh
@@hannahware3751 True, yeah I know Abby is very religious and that's her target audience. I'm not religious, I'm Pagan but I understand where she's coming from. I watch her for her pregnancy, newborn, baby and house care videos. Though I don't fully agree with her politics or religious videos, I still like her stuff and she always looks so pretty. 😊
I love you 💕 this was soo helpful
Kind of funny, in a good way. In my first, and hopefully only, relationship. We’ve been together about a year and a half and are very serious. I did pretty good on our first date, judging off of these. Maybe that’s what did the trick! 😂
I have met this guy and i want to date him how do i do it with out getting nervous all the time
Can we get a tutorial on this hair? It’s perfect!
There is no one size fits all men/women approach to dating. Continue to improve yourself (fitness, education, spiritual and mental well-being), have something in life that you care about, be authentic, and you’ll find someone eventually. These “how to catch a keep a man” tips are kinda outdated :/
Abby said all these things lol 💁🏻♀️
My son is single, so are most of his friends, and trust me most (not all) of these TikTok, Instagram, porn saturated young people NEED a reality check on how to interact with each other; it's more timely than ever.
Most modern Western women either simply don’t understand OR care about the preferences of men-which clearly explains your comment.
@@rickybobby9797 You so depressingly missed her point sir. Most guys don't actually 'groom' themselves or behave in ways in which they think women would prefer them. The scales haven't actually tipped to the other side. Modern women do still do that, not as much though. Much of it is for self-improvement (like how the nice lady above pointed out). Women do not exist for men and men do not exist for women (at least not in first world countries). Staying attached to traditional and extremely outdated values will only hinder you and hold you back. Of course you're welcome to have your views and I hope you have found/will find someone w/ similar views that is perfect for you. But it's not a good look to sit back and complain about how 'women just don't care anymore'. Trust me, they do. Maybe not to you.
Abby the goat 🙌
Abby, I hope my daughter finds your content when she is older and dating. Thank you for your content!
I absolutely love your channel!!
I could have used this back in February. 🥴
Honestly though, I think I did these things on my first date, so oh well.
Why are you so angry right off the bat?
Eating a burger while your talking about eating healthy... 😬 never felt so guilty.
hi! i love ur channel 😊
Hahahahahahahahaha 😂
Hey Abby - I always thought that would be a niche angle for a dating site. Women who want to be moms/homemakers meeting men that are OK with that. Unfortunately it sounds like nowadays men want their wives to work also, but I guess im a traditionalist. I guess Christian mingle caters to this?
It's less that men want their women to work and more that due to the oppressive economy men and women can't survive in a traditional marriage by and large. I hope with a greater understanding of the economic hardship facing modern couples you find greater understanding of the simplicity of this problem. If you aren't born into wealth, it's an uphill battle that becomes impossible if you are also expected to be the sole breadwinner on wages that have been stagnating for decades while the cost of domestic goods has only ever gone up. It would be a great dating site where only the wealthiest couples could LARP as traditional christian. relationships while everyone below the upper class has to work for a living or die.
Abby perfectly understand this, it's why she runs her own lucrative business.
When you say all these things, all these girl bosses on the internet will call you a "pick-me girl". But the ironic thing about pick-me girl is, they get picked. Who would of thought that behaving in a way that men find attractive and appealing would make men want to date you.
@@dc2894 Funny how you equate men with serial killers.
Getting picked is only worth it if you are picked by the right person. Abby tells girls in her other videos to look past negative qualities in men to get picked, this is terrible advice.
@@AnonForever70 I'm not lying, go back and watch her content.
I wish more young women would look up to people like you instead of people like Megan Thee Stallion and Kylie Jenner.
Nice tips, you’re looking beautiful Abby
Saying that men are more visual than women is a heavily debatable notion and likely oversimplifying gender-based tendencies. A simple Google search will teach you that.
Shush 🙄
It's 100 percent a fact. You just don't want to see reality. What you see on Google is woke crap.
@@ladev91 alright then, where can I find the sources that aren't "woke crap"?
@@jgwfgyelwhiure how come?
Yes, this. Just because some men go AWOOGA and act like they can't control themselves when they see a sexy woman does not mean they they are "more visual" than women. It just means that society hasn't held them accountable enough to keep their nasty thoughts about women to themselves.
(I use this as an example because this is the primary thing I hear about when people try to prove that men are somehow "more visual".)
Love you Abby! ❤️
•Cover your mouth with your hand when you chew
I don't mean this as a command, it's just extremely endearing to see women do this. My friend started dating a girl from Central Mexico so she's extremely Traditional, so seeing her do this was like seeing a mermaid or something.
I didn't realize this was a rarity these days. 😯
What a gross comment.
I do that. I am just shy... And mexican
Just chew with your mouth closed, that’s all.
I love Abby
damn shawty you dont have to do any of that fr fr 😫😫😫
True, but there are people that prefer traditional ways and I think that was her target audience 🤷♀️
So see if you can agree to this: all religions in the world are imaginary. Merely there are women and men. A receiving forcefield mingled with a giving forcefield. And amongst them some choose to make connections amongst women-men, others do men-men and others do women to women. Thoughts?
Sadly, most women today believe that they are prize. Hence, they could care less about male preferences. In addition to the items Abby mentions there is one method that will impress a man most of all: A woman who has saved herself for her husband. No man of value wants to take the risk on a woman who lacks virtue. We all know the games that most modern women play and are, therefore, unworthy of marriage.
I understand traditions have their place and respect people w/ such views. However, the concept of marriage has changed w/ the times. As a result, it is important to adjust values accordingly.
It’s couldn’t care less. Could care less makes no sense. No woman of value wants a man who hasn’t saved himself. Sadly, most men don’t. They sleep around but expect a different standard for women
LMAOO, no I could not care less about "male preference"- especially if that preference also requires a chaste virgin woman. Any man who needs a virgin is a huge red flag- he obviously has self esteem issues and is possessive. A person's sexual history is their business alone
@@hannibalmontanabal4398 I agree I completely dislike the concept for the same reason
@@hannibalmontanabal4398 The only time I find it wholesome is when a religious (doesn't have to be but usually are) couple, both save themselves for marriage (b/c they're waiting for THE one). Though I'm not all that myself, I do have some guy and girl friends who are
first :3
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This is just sad 🫣
Why?! She gives good advice here.
A man can apply these things too.
Look good, listen, talk good about the things you like, show you can build a home (even if it's only you) and have good manners...
What's sad about it?