OPENING UP ABOUT MY BIGGEST INSECURITY! A VERY HEART TO HEART CONVERSATION | SIMMY GORAYA

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  • @sunidhianand5986
    @sunidhianand5986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Nothing annoys me more than when someone expects you to be okay with something that they wouldn't be okay with if it was happening to them .

  • @pigpigpiggyiscute
    @pigpigpiggyiscute 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm 5mins into the video and m already choking up
    Coz I started with the same when I was 9years old.. m now 26, have undergone every kind of treatment available under the sky (including prp, meso n a batch of transplant).. n I hav lost about 80% of my hair still... Yes everyday is a pain, yes lots of money have been spent, lots of deals with God too.. right now I can only tie whatever hair I have left into the tiniest topknot coz the top is completely balding n empty..n my self confidence is just down in the dumps..n m not comfortable with stepping out of the house or coming infront of people even
    Like at this point the amount of hair that u have would even be a dream for me
    Just listening to u talk about this, n being able to tell my story here is making me feel lighter
    Thanku so much

    • @simmygoraya6060
      @simmygoraya6060  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😘

    • @diyaz888
      @diyaz888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know it doesn't feel good to go through something like that ,
      But you would feel better if you would focus on the things that are good in your body ..
      1. Like you have eyes that which can see
      2. You have a good digestive system which can digest food without bothering you .
      3 . You can speak
      4. You can hear
      5 you can walk
      6. You can write
      7. You have absolutely fine nervous system to understand everything .
      Nobody's life is perfect honey but we need to love ourselves for the good things in us .
      Imagine a cancer patients who need to go bald for chemo , imagine a paralysed patients in hospital who just wish to talk or move their hand or body , imagine a mental patients whose family want him to be just normal like others , imagine a dumb who wants to express , imagine a deac who wants to enjoy music , imagine a blind wanting to see the world , imagine a jaundice patients just wanting his liver to nornal enough to digest food ,imagine a diabetic who wants to enjoy the sweet thing without the pain and worries of insulin for all of them your life / body would be like a dream .
      As long as your life can be dream of someone just enjoy it and love it to the verrry core .
      Duniya me sabko sab kuch nhi milta par khush rehne k liye jo mila hai usi pe guroor karo aur khush raho .

    • @pigpigpiggyiscute
      @pigpigpiggyiscute 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@diyaz888 thank u so much for ur kind n encouraging words 😭♥️

    • @varshamishra3340
      @varshamishra3340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@diyaz888 you are a blessing on humanity. Thanks for existing

    • @Ishasingh19
      @Ishasingh19 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pigpigpiggyiscute hi disha, check out Nishhair if you haven't already, you might find something that might help you a lot! I don't want to ask my parents for it right now but see if you can get your hands on what might suit you best. Parul, the founder of the brand is a sweetheart, check them out on IG as well. Hope this helps in someway 🤍 also, here's hoping we all find better ways to cope and deal with things that bring us down. Have a good year ahead bud. ✨

  • @thekhushigupta
    @thekhushigupta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    This is for those people who know what a person is going through, what battle they are fighting. If you still make them feel awful about their struggles and make fun of them and you rub their insecurities on their face no matter how big or small their problems are, trust me you are a horrible human being. You don't deserve to be called a human.
    And for this lady Simmy Goraya i salute you for opening up about your insecurities. You make me believe there are better humans in this world and you make me want to become a better person. Lots of love and support to you. I m glad i found you here ❤️

    • @simmygoraya6060
      @simmygoraya6060  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @noormarwaha2235
      @noormarwaha2235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Soo true..!!! Absolutely agreed ❤️

    • @shakthisekar187
      @shakthisekar187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow well said. 👌

    • @Mikasa333-x7t
      @Mikasa333-x7t 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i have met such ppl in real life ughh

    • @shailyy3202
      @shailyy3202 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kudos to u simmy ❤u r an inspirational angel to so many out here🤗...
      Miracles do happen 🦄
      Stay Blessed Stay Happy Always 🥰😘🤗🧚‍♀️🦄🌈🧿

  • @arundhatidevi120
    @arundhatidevi120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I lost half of my long hair due to depression for almost 8 years. I'm slowly trying to get back on track and trying my best to take care of me...but hair loss and damaged skin still make me concious in public....☹️

    • @Ishasingh19
      @Ishasingh19 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you find the strength and resilience to cope with it in the best possible way 🤍

  • @akshataindore782
    @akshataindore782 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    hair changes the game, that's true ! take good care of whatever kind of hair that you have inherited/are currently having as per situation, it usually doesn't come back once gone

  • @aishnagupta2497
    @aishnagupta2497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Simmy you are blessed with such an amazing parents!! (Touchwood)
    As you said different people can relate with different content in this video I seriously want to tell you that though you already know but you are the LUCKIEST when it comes to get moral support from your parents. Whatever the situation is your parents support you girl. So tough to find such an amazing understanding parents in India especially when it comes to physical beauty and Dating life. People get into depression just bcz the person they could trust the most don't have their back now. Your own parents starts finding flaws in you making you feel more self conscious. But when you said that your mom used to do that nazar hatane wala thing on every Saturday I started crying.
    I could seriously relate on every damn point. Thanks for sharing your insecurity with us as it gives more confidence to us in ourselves.

  • @architaghatak7585
    @architaghatak7585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Simmy, today in my 21 years of life, I first experienced most hairfall. I have been dealing with excessive hairfall past 20-25 days and today God bless me😖. I literally sat down with my phone sad, not in a mood to talk to anybody, even my boyfriend, was watching some videos and suddenly came across this video of yours. I have been a subscriber of yours since a few months, have watched all of your new videos since then but somehow got missed on this video of yours. I can't tell you how relieved I am to see a youtuber/ instagram influencer has also got issues of her own. Or else I would have thought I am the only one in the world dealing with sudden excessive hairfall, I am going bald, what shall i do and what not. I am so glad you opened about your hair situation. It must have taken your heart and soul to film it as you said. It's okay. I hope we all get through it. Love you Simmy!
    And one more thing, we would love to know more about your hair extension, where did you bought it from, how does it work and everything

    • @ritadevi9220
      @ritadevi9220 ปีที่แล้ว

      How's your now...😢😢

  • @aashishrivastava3179
    @aashishrivastava3179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Your honesty is like one of the best things on the internet rn. We love you di. So much. ❤️

  • @AlfiyaKarimKhann
    @AlfiyaKarimKhann 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a very big deal for you to open up with something so person. I could feel every bit of it and it takes so much courage. Thankyouu for doing this. Big hug

  • @eshadhawan_srmu6632
    @eshadhawan_srmu6632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a very strong woman because it takes a lot of strength to share your biggest insecurities and fear.When I was a teenager I was too very insecured of my height because I am a short heighted person 5’1’ basically so people always used to pass comments on me and lame jokes like complan ni pia kya and stuff it bothered me so much back then but gradually I learnt how to accept myself the way I am and that’s when my self love journey started.We are so proud of you simmy. Lots of love to you

  • @mahekmishra8627
    @mahekmishra8627 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so glad you made this video! I thought I was the only one facing major hair loss as an 18 yr old. I used to have nice, thick, glossy hair as a kid and my hair volume literally decreased by half. I've spent days crying about it, spent my parent's money on medicines and dermatologists and comparing my hair to other teenage friends of mine. I literally just clicked on this video to listen to you just talk but ended up finding something really helpful. I'm looking into telogen effluvium and that sounds very similar to my problem. I really didn't think my problem was common cuz people just brushed it off when I mentioned how much hair I've lost over the course of 2 years. Loads of love to you for making this video and I'm so thankful I stumbled across this on youtube

  • @kiarraeffron9874
    @kiarraeffron9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It is beautiful how you spoke about it coz often such physical problems aren't considered important or valued when spoken by a person who goes through it. I feel you girl.
    And yes you are not alone no one is ❤️
    Shout-out to all the brave ones who are dealing things one at a time.

  • @nadskhan7657
    @nadskhan7657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I never had a lot of hair but it was average. Beautiful brown wavy and not so thick hair. Never had any hair fall or any other issues but then in my second year of college I started to experience alot of hair fall. I did everything I could. diet, home remedies, seeing a doctor, praying. You name it. I literally did everything. Nothing worked and I lost half of my hair. That was really a bad phase. I lost a lot confidence. Then the hair fall stopped just like that. N yes I did few things which my doctor recommended. And slowly in two years I got all my hair back. Alhumdulilah.

    • @deeparathaur105
      @deeparathaur105 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What u did...plz share

    • @nadskhan7657
      @nadskhan7657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deeparathaur105ok.
      1. never oil your hair when it's dirty or you will end up with more hairfall. it's like moisturizing your face when it's dirty. Always oil your hair when it's clean n freshly washed.
      2. This is my personal experience. Castor oil worked wonders for me. I mix it with coconut oil and apply it on my scalp.
      3. Using conditioner before shampoo also helped me manage my hair and resulted in lesser hairfall comparatively.

    • @deeparathaur105
      @deeparathaur105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nadskhan7657 thank u for ur genuine suggestion

    • @deeparathaur105
      @deeparathaur105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nadskhan7657which shampoo n conditioner do u use??

    • @nadskhan7657
      @nadskhan7657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deeparathaur105 for the longest time i used medicated shampoos. They were ok but were too drying for me. Now I use Tresemme. They suit me well. You can use whatever suits your hair type.
      Alhamdulillah.
      Hope that was helpful

  • @mounikamummalaneni6133
    @mounikamummalaneni6133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The moment she said “should i crack a joke, leave you guys on a lighter note” , mann! that shit just killed me, can never imagine the pain behind that.
    Kudos simmi, really proud♥️

  • @nae6579
    @nae6579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's 3 min in the video and, you're almost tearing up...It takes so much courage and strength to say your insecurities out loud.
    SUCH A STRONG AND BEAUTIFUL WOMAN..
    I love you even more than yesterday. (virtual hugs)

  • @swetaroy2214
    @swetaroy2214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't generally comment but i have to do this time.. This is the most relatable video i have even seen. And i mean it.i never seen anybody talking about there insecurities like this.. I feel so positive after watching this video and promise I will watch this video again whenever I will feel low .
    The situation you have been going through I'm also dealing with it.. My age is just 20 and my hair fall started for no reason 3 yrs ago.. Before that i had really silky voluminous hair everyone used to give complement fir that.. But when suddenly volume of my hair started decreasing I just couldn't except the fact and i used to cry even now I feel really sad and my confidence level is very low. I feel I don't look beautiful anymore.. I have also tried so many things but no results... And not just my hair fall issue from past 2 yrs I'm dealing with so acne prblm... And also bcoz of genetic issues I have horrible dark circles from my childhood... I'm skinny that's another insecurity...
    But now I have trying to change my mentality about my self.. I'm beautiful I'm beautiful I'm beautiful✨
    And people's like you makes a girl who is baby and just growing up strong and positive. Thank you for existing and being such a honest creator.
    I want to say lots of things but i don't know if you will read this or not ..but anyways I feel so relaxed , fresh and positive aftr watching this video.
    Good night have a sweet dream 🤗💜💜

  • @koyeldutta6400
    @koyeldutta6400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    The speed at which I slipped into my blanket and plugged in my earphones is unmatched😀Just to watch your video❤️

  • @khusshbu_sharma
    @khusshbu_sharma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It does take a lot of courage to fight our insecurities and open up on a platform like youtube and that's what makes our bond stronger. We don't just feel we know you, we 'know you' know you and love the person you're. Love your genuineness ❤ 😘

  • @ektaa5
    @ektaa5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Simmy you are literally too good to be real i was legit crying during the entire video and i realized that when you said that joke thing at the end, at that time all of the love "for you" came out. I'm also dealing with body insecurity which is about my breast like i can't even think about it with myself and you are putting everything out. you are such a brave, beautiful and strong woman. I always got inspired by you but now that love and feeling of proud is on another level i can't even express it bro. Thankyou for existing YOO!❤️❤️

  • @pratikshabhattsamant9641
    @pratikshabhattsamant9641 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're such a beautiful, brave and strong person. You're right when you say that things may seem all fairy and bright from the outside, but then every one has their own set of insecurities and problems to deal with. However, in the end coming out strong is all that matters, and there you go girl, you're not just saying this, but in a way doing it and setting an example for everyone out there!!! May God bless you with more courage!

  • @Mishrajnii
    @Mishrajnii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I won't lie, I did notice your hair since day 1 (when I started watching your vids) but after watching this video and hearing you coming out from this so strongly... Coz let's stat the fact, it's not at all easy to deal with. You've dealt this condition with such grace. Am very proud to be one of your subscribers. Much love to you. Keep slaying & be this forever.❤

  • @parminderkaurmua
    @parminderkaurmua 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was in tears while watching this. I am facing the same problem and trust me people are so cruel and rude they will rub your face into the harsh truth. Being a sardarni people expect us to have long thick hair and comment on it. This video has my heart. ♥️ more power to you

  • @shwetajhawar7089
    @shwetajhawar7089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This almost made me cry! I think all of us have flaws- internal or external. Thank you for sharing this❤️

  • @dipjyotimajumdar7210
    @dipjyotimajumdar7210 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You not only have a beautiful face but also a beautiful heart... For me, this vdo is one of the most courageous and inspiring vdos that I have ever seen... You truly have guts not only to disclose this side of you, but also to face the challenge everyday. Kudos

  • @Valeriaa6240
    @Valeriaa6240 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so inspiring , u saying that u have flaws whist still looking like a million bucks ..is gonna teach a lot of young girls that they r all flawless

  • @ananyamehan3014
    @ananyamehan3014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When I first started watching your videos, the first thing that I thought was how beautiful your hair are. And after watching this video I still think the same. You are beautiful inside and out! Watching this gives me motivation to fight my insecurities. Thank you for putting this out 🥰

  • @farhatejaz4110
    @farhatejaz4110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't be sad...dear every incident that happens to us,has a purpose...you can make videos like how to be confident with thin hair...how to make volume to hair with extensions so that we can get help by these supports...we all are imperfect right so we need you to be with us...I am also suffering from massive hair loss,though there is no solution,I want you to help us....

  • @jayashreemuskaan2241
    @jayashreemuskaan2241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can I say, how much I respect you now..? You're so brave and courageous, Its so admirable.. I'm facing a lot of hairfall these days and it freaks me out.. I don't know about the reason or anything, but it scares me tbh.. I understand how you must be feeling.. Just that, You're beautiful no matter what.. You're this beautiful soul, And we love you..♥️

  • @kirtisharmabhardwaj
    @kirtisharmabhardwaj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is very strong and from today, you have become more close to my heart

    • @AfiyaShaikh
      @AfiyaShaikh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please do checkout my channel as well. I hope you will like it. #Afishorts

  • @fatimasiddiqui1912
    @fatimasiddiqui1912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Massive respect to you simmy. There is no one like you. Your videos are like therapeutic sessions for me. You're the one who is so real.. love you a lot ❤️❤️❤️

  • @586divyasingh
    @586divyasingh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Simi, I have never felt more respect for anyone on the internet as much as you after watching this video. I have the exact same problem, and I have done nothing about it living in denial thinking it's not that bad, even I had such thick hair but around 20s it just went downhill.. I cut them short so they might look a lil voluminous but... Usually I wear a hijab outside but Seriously I have started wondering what to do with my hair at weddings.. Too short for a bun too thin to leave open.. It takes balls to say all that you said... To open yourself up like that it takes so much strength. I salute you. I'm a fan of yours.

  • @manishisharma7629
    @manishisharma7629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And ....am 20 years old ....though my parents are tall ..am just too small in height ! .....and I was thinking to get some medicine or blah blah for it ....but !!....after watching today's video ....I felt ...this was for me only .....now ....I literally just don't care ...JO HONA HOGA DEKHA JAEGA ! ....cuz ...as simmy said ...' we are all in this together ! " ......god bless you with happiness ...more happiness and every. .everything ! Love you ❤️

  • @payal_paul
    @payal_paul 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am dealing with the same thing. It's so painful. I have stopped looking into mirrors. It makes me so so sad. Everyday I wish, some fine day miracle will happen and everything will be fine.
    I really wish and pray, everything is going to be fine. :)

  • @yogawithloveleen1482
    @yogawithloveleen1482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    hello simmy. I'm a trained yoga therapist. Along with other treatments, start doing one or two inverted Yoga poses everyday for about 5 minutes. Ideally 2-3 times a day. Inverted yoga poses like Sarvangasana, Sirsasana, or Halasana. I'm promise you this will work effectively but with consistency and time. I admire you a lot since the beginning of your channel. Lots of love.

  • @KomalSingh-yl2iq
    @KomalSingh-yl2iq 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you man. You are so real, this is what drives me to watch your videos. I’m not dealing with something related to appearance (tw) but something related to my life and I so needed this. Thankyou Simmy.

  • @sonalmoga2721
    @sonalmoga2721 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How brave of u to come up n acknowledge the issue out in public! We all actually are facing some issues but when someone comes up and talks about it, it reassures the fact that we all are humans and no one is krishh...
    it must have taken a lot of strength to talk about it and trying to end it at a high note. More power to u

  • @rittikamallick2696
    @rittikamallick2696 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You just did the greatest things, inspired a thousand minds.You are really pretty. Trust me.We all are having insecurities and trying to hide.Kudos to you that you came out so beautifully.You just made the feel better in every way.

  • @aartipanicker4504
    @aartipanicker4504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dude respect went from 100 to 10000000% for you. I love you sim ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for putting this up

  • @komalrupani1127
    @komalrupani1127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is insane ... i just couldn't watch your video yesterday because i used 100% of my data ... and now i am watching it .... i think you made this video for me only .... i am also just dealing with hairfall .... i had so straight & silky hair but now i don't know what happened i am just losing my good hair texture .... and now I'm trying things to get my hair back ..... maybe good hairs came back 🤞

  • @tanyakashyap9257
    @tanyakashyap9257 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re such a strong, positive, happy soul Simmy di. Just don’t bother what people will think, you’re already doing your best & you’re one of the sweetest person i’ve come across social media. More power to you💪🏻 lot’s of love♥️

  • @pialimondal1551
    @pialimondal1551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kindly make a video on the new hair treatment you are gonna take. I took 1.5 yrs of PRP with IHRT but no results. I too have very thin fine hair. Also, you are very slim and so your hair doesn't show up much. I am towards curvier side and having thin hair adds to my problem. I request you to update on your treatment. Thank You.❤️

  • @nasrinsiddique2585
    @nasrinsiddique2585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am very bad at expressing things... just wanna say love to you and I can understand people always say good things and support us on social media but when it comes to real-life everything just fucked up they just start criticizing. And it really needs guts to share all this in front of 217K subscribers. Just wanna say LOVE YOU and please make more videos like this.

  • @namratashetty7630
    @namratashetty7630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can completely relate to your condition. I have been suffering hairfall since last 5 6 years that I have lost almost more than half of the volume and length I had before😭😭😭 and I have tried a lot of remedies and nothing worked as you said even my mother has tried those nazar utarne wala jugaad but nothing worked and sometimes when I talk about my hairfall and cry people make fun telling it's such a silly reason to cry for. But as you said in the beginning of this video when you know someone else is also going through the same situation you feel better and nice I felt the same through your video❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much for this video❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @meenusharma8903
    @meenusharma8903 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the most honest person I have seen on TH-cam. So relatable so genuine..and such an inspiration..more power to you because ppl like you inspire us to give a damn to what others think. Love you 😊😊

  • @eshagusain9718
    @eshagusain9718 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the kind of person you are !!! pretty from outside with a heart of gold and you always have that bubbly smile eventhough you are going through a lot

  • @sukritypandey9610
    @sukritypandey9610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Simmy just don't worry not every one is perfect...u r beautiful lady just be proud of who u r nw!!! U r an inspiration for many... including me..babes love uu... Wanna meet u... REMEMBER U R BRAVE ENOUGH TO TACKLE SUCH SITUATION!!

  • @deepasingh3007
    @deepasingh3007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can totally relate to you I have seborrheic dermatitis from childhood and on top of it telogen effluvium as well... I too have lost 60% of my volume... With you I can relate in every Sunday video. Thanks for sharing❤️

  • @knchandrika4886
    @knchandrika4886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heyy Simmy..my biggesttt insecurity is also my hair..it is soo thin..it used to be soo voluminous at one point of time but when days passed don't know why it became soo thin..i did every single thing possible to get back my hair..but it didn't..I am in the same situation of ur's..I can totally literally totally relate to u when u said it feels good nd stress free when someone else is also going through the same phase as ur's . So many TH-camr's only show the side of their colourful life nd hide their insecurities nd dark side of their life..but u came infront of camera nd said ur insecurity..which is a great thing..thank u thank u so soo much for doing this video..it helped me a lot..this society itself is a judgmental one..but don't care about them there are lot of people who loves u..❤️❤️❤️.. but seriously missed that simmy who droppes things😂😂 ..love love..gud nyt

  • @nihareekapandey5151
    @nihareekapandey5151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am that "Ek adha insan" you made feel good. Also I wanna say this to you as well "We all are in this together", you keep comforting us, sending warm hugs your way to comfort you. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AS YOU ARE ! We love you with/without anything and everything because you are a pure and beautiful soul. Take care of yourself ❤️

  • @sravaniperumalla1112
    @sravaniperumalla1112 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're beautiful inside out Simmy! seriously I salute you to open up about this topic as every person, including me, isn't blessed with a head full of hair and is always looking for ways to get that perfect hair. We have people around to judge us with the way we look, just to make us feel insecure when we are doing good in our career or anything in such a matter. You, my girl, already won lots of hearts :) You are a best friend, a sister, a therapist to many of us... keep continuing helping us in spreading positivity with your videos

  • @vibrantstar
    @vibrantstar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    being such a cutie sharing your insecurities is another level confidence.like during whole the video i was thinking how much confidence you have.but believe me watching this video will make so many girl’s mind to face their insecurities.in each and every video you are just spreading positive vibes i wish they will all come back to you as a blessing.in each and every video you are not just blabbering you are giving so many valid points to make dat much confidence on girls.❤️

  • @salonithakkar4710
    @salonithakkar4710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg till now I used to think you are so beautiful physically perfect and everything but not only physically beautiful you are so much more than that! You are amazing justtt wowwww! This is not an easy job to let yourself or your flaws out in the world of virtual perfection. My respect for you has increased by 100 times!! Even I have many insecurities like stretch marks pigmentation and all but thank you for letting all the amazing girls out there know that we are so much more than just our physical appearance ❤ not all the influencers can talk about their flaws and you did it! This is how you truly influence people💜 lotsss of loveeeee❤

  • @Ishasingh19
    @Ishasingh19 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm halfway through the video and I'm pausing to say this. I'm 20 years old. I have lost 70% of my hair and its volume in the past 3 odd years. I have been dealing with trichotillomania since after my 12th preboards. It's a disorder in which one compulsively pulls out body hair from any part, be it your head, your eyebrows, eyelashes, moustaches, even pubic hair, due to stress mostly. I have had it for so long that now I don't only pluck my hair when I'm stressed, which is basically during exams only, but it has very unfortunately also become a habit. Will be taking this opportunity to let people know about this because even if there's one person who might be going through this and they have no clue about what's up with them and they come across this, please know, the sooner you get help (professional help), the better it'll be. You're right, people, my own mother says how having good hair is so important, it's a game changer, and shaadi kaun kaise yeh woh, ugh. Thank you for this video Simmy. I hope you know you have helped an insane number of people out here with this one :")

  • @TheMahaa
    @TheMahaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Damnnn galllll!!! I am about to get married and hairfall is killing me inside. I really donno how to deal with new life with this hairfall insecurity I have in me.

    • @Valeriaa6240
      @Valeriaa6240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Simmy looks gorgeous despite whatever flaws she thinks she has ..am sure u r gonna look stunning as well ❤️❤️

  • @SB-lo2sm
    @SB-lo2sm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It takes a lot of courage to speak about insecurities ❤️❤️ Love and hugs simmy. You're a pure gem.You radiate such positive vibes.Stay blessed 😘😘❤️❤️❤️

  • @shreyashidasgupta7404
    @shreyashidasgupta7404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the best... please keep making such real videos... sending you lots of love and light❤️

  • @unnatiroy1164
    @unnatiroy1164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have faced the exact same thing. Like God gave me beautiful hair then just took it away. This video made me cry Simmy. This is so relatable. Love youuuu💟💟💟💟

  • @jasneetkaurbagga1874
    @jasneetkaurbagga1874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are sucha strong and inspiring woman simmy. This video is what i needed. i admire you and you inspire me. here 👑 you dropped this. all the love and power to you💕

  • @priyachoudhary2918
    @priyachoudhary2918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It feels like it is you speaking my heart out. Yes it feels good when someone is sharing their issues along with all goodie things as well. I have come to a point where nothing is helping me out and it breaks my heart to be balding. I don't know what to do even after trying everything.

    • @Ishasingh19
      @Ishasingh19 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Priya, many people don't know about this website probably, I wish I could afford it, don't want to ask parents for it right now, hopefully some day soon, but check out Nishhair on Instagram or their website. They're apparently the best in business and the founder, Parul is a sweetheart. Hope ghis helps and I hope you have a good year ahead. God bless. 🤍

  • @ms.chaturvedi786
    @ms.chaturvedi786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You made me feel more confident about my insecurities thank you and love you ma'am💕

  • @raveena4539
    @raveena4539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I had extremely long and thick hair when I was around 15-16years old. But you know jab hum bde ho jaate hai stress and tension itni zada ho jati hai and I suffer from the same till today. Now my hair are no doubt long but they are thin as compared to earlier. You know hme tension ki wajah se hairfall hota hai aur hum hairfall problem ki bhi tension le lete hai. But you don't need to worry... there are many people which suffer from the same problem that we have. Stay positive and stay happy Simmi.❤❤

  • @Debalina
    @Debalina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such an inspiration. One of the most hardworking TH-camrs I have come across honestly. And I think you are actually stronger than you know. Much love ❤️ and your work and personality far better and bigger than your insecurity.

  • @ItsmeJayeeta
    @ItsmeJayeeta 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel so happy bcz I have found u (1.5 years back) ... Love you so much dear.

  • @tanzilachunawala5822
    @tanzilachunawala5822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It feels so great when someone opens up without any hesitation with you ❤️ feel proud dat we follow you ❤️

  • @anisharoy4345
    @anisharoy4345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg simmy didi i cant even tell you how much your sunday videos help me ,i just got out of a 2 year old toxic relationship and my ex made me feel soo insecure about myself and this video helped me a lot . Please never stop making such videos , im going to watch your heartbreak video next .love you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shwetaghosh6193
    @shwetaghosh6193 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand. I'm so glad you opened up. And I commend you, and am so happy that you've given people like me, us, a chance to feel absolutely just HUMAN❤

  • @aditikudalkar1849
    @aditikudalkar1849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so honest, I am really feeling better while watching this video because we can tell that honest youtubers exist.
    Glad I found you. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @snehamore3630
    @snehamore3630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are an amazing person, and trust me the people who love you will not notice your insecurities. I never noticed it because you have so much more other things which are so amazing

  • @anushreevelankar4727
    @anushreevelankar4727 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am facing same issue and completely understand your situation.I was blessed with silky straight hair & even me like you trying to not to give fuck about what has happened now.But when I see my hair it still gives me stress.I have also tried all possible options but nothing is helping me.Ignoring it is only the option left and taking care of myself (more internally than externally) is my priority now.I am struggling but will keep on trying.

  • @Sarah-sj6zd
    @Sarah-sj6zd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was litrally feeling insecure and lonely and suddenly your video popped up on my youtube homepage I felt so better watching your video you feel as if you are our sister or best friend giving us advice you are truly amazing I learned to control my mood swings from you we all love you ❤❤

  • @gargisondhi1640
    @gargisondhi1640 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Two years ago I too lost 60% of my healthy, long hair and its traumatic to see a big bunch of hair on the sink. When you said that you had itni chhoti si pony i FELT you. Hair receives keratin (or some vitamins etc) the ind the end so it is indeed a very very long process. I too agree that when you see hair strands coming out in bunches from roots it is like a nightmare and looks like you're gonna go bald. These treatments take time and even after using every possible organic /nature oil, no matter however good, only does very little to improve the situation. Stay strong, Simmy.

  • @o3341
    @o3341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    girl I can't thank u enough because I'm going through the same I'm 18 rn and I've been facing hairfall due to pcos and in 2019 I had dengue which further elevated the amount of shed per day. I shaved my head last month bc I'm so sick of thinking about my hair and seeing u gives me hope

  • @nandinithakurs1107
    @nandinithakurs1107 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a consultant to a trichologist .. and life coach one thing I want to say is be bindaas. I hv thousands of clients who were facing this problem , only thing helps is be with friends who are genuine and live free. Yoga religiously .

  • @divneetkaurbanga
    @divneetkaurbanga 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loving this series.. feels like we are talking face to face.. thanks for sharing this.. you gave others a lot if strength ❤️

  • @aashimachhibber4700
    @aashimachhibber4700 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    No matter what simmy u have got a flawless bright shining skin which dont let a spectator focus too much on ur hair . not everyone has it and we binge watch ur videos for it.

  • @SakinaMotiwala
    @SakinaMotiwala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey don’t worry, you are amazing the way you are!!! And also, your dating videos give me so much closure on so many things!! You don’t need to be insecure we all there with you! I love you so much💖💖

  • @yaanaakapoor19
    @yaanaakapoor19 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you and this is so strong for you to stay! Talking and opening up more would really help you even more we are here to support you always !

  • @shaneshadowcat
    @shaneshadowcat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've had thickest n head full of hair all my life but ever since i got abdomen TB n recovered from it, it's just falling n falling. They just can't seem to stop at all. It makes me so upset when you don't have hairfall problem whole your life it just worsens.

  • @anushkarajawat5860
    @anushkarajawat5860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are the best in your own way and remember"make your weakness your strength".✨💜
    And keep sharing your feeling with us we'll always support you dear 💜

  • @vaibhaviarya8242
    @vaibhaviarya8242 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the wayy she talks and expresses her feelings...Such a pure soul!! ❤️

    • @AfiyaShaikh
      @AfiyaShaikh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please do checkout my channel as well. I hope you will like it. #Afishorts

  • @Diksha-xf4go
    @Diksha-xf4go 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Simmy, more power to you always!!! Your honesty & courage to open up about your past, insecurities, etc. is really appreciated. I have connected with you on so many levels and just want to thank you for sharing. Sending you a virtual hug and loads of positivity 🤗

  • @sonygairola
    @sonygairola 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anyone can go through what you're going through at this moment. And literally it takes a lot of courage to accept these things publically. We love you simmy ❤️ And I'm really proud of you for doing this 😊💖

  • @zeeniyahasanhasan8726
    @zeeniyahasanhasan8726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I totally understand simmi my hair was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo long Nd very beautiful seriously but I was lost all my hair on the scalp mjhe saare Baal katvane pade ND ganja tk hona Pda bcz of chicken pocks ho gai thi mjhe nd now mere Baal to aae but very dull there is no volume nd all but yes sometimes I really feel bad about my hair I miss my old hair seriously but mjhe apko dkhkr bht Himmt MILi don't loose ur hopes😊

  • @dimpybhatt8992
    @dimpybhatt8992 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So proud of you girl❤️ I am at loss of words to appreciate how courageous you are.. More power to you my girl😘
    And you know.. It's ok! FTW you are awesome any way!!

  • @aprajita.makeup.film.dramaa
    @aprajita.makeup.film.dramaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are one of the sincerest bloggers out there, Simmy. This genuineness of yours is what makes you unique and so lovable. You are so honest and loyal about yourself. It inspires me to another level. I'm touched, too. I want to be this honest and accepting, someday. Love and hugs❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shifaali3903
    @shifaali3903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi simmy i am glad that i found u here coz literally thought life is so difficult and unfair sometimes. But u gave me hope like i am not alone. Thanks for the things u putting here and i pray for u and everyone who is struggling in their lives .
    P. S . We all need to be kind it's very important we never know what others are going through.

  • @sameekshyasatapathy4853
    @sameekshyasatapathy4853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video was so relatable. I have fine hair too. I had fine hair before but the volume drastically reduced. Whenever I go for a haircut, the stylist would start giving unsolicited suggestions as if I actually don't see what's going on in my head. But still I heard all of that. Actually the female pattern balding is genetic ..infact a lot of women face that. But man! the pain of actually going through it every single day..I feel you dear.

  • @TasmiyaRavoof
    @TasmiyaRavoof 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've seen a video where huda kattan from huda beauty talks about how she has been reversing balding by derma rolling. She literally shows the patches on her head bald and then hair growth. To see that I felt it was super cool. Like you mentioned, hope to make peace. Even I have had this obsession n desperation, I keep talking about my hormonal acne to literally everyone

  • @sonamsahu7295
    @sonamsahu7295 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg ...literally every single thing that you said had happened with me ....it seems like you have said my life story..in childhood I had thick hair then when I reached my teenage years I had almost lost 85% of my hair...we went to so many doctors to get nothing worked until I reached one doctor who after some medical test told that I am anaemic fan also thyroid...I used to cry when teachers used ask question about my hair ..same used make deals with gods ...after taking medicine it got better but still I face hairfall...the amount of hair that you showed na same amount I have right now...I no longer cares about what others say about my hair...I had friends and family who understood and seen through my tough times...i m so thankfull ...I truly can relate same thing happen I know every single emotions pain feeling you have gone through....loooovee uh 😘🥰💞

    • @princessaditi2204
      @princessaditi2204 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you name the doctor please
      I am also anaemic n facing the same prblm

  • @kirtishekhawat7382
    @kirtishekhawat7382 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gurl! Just wanna say more power to you for being such an outspoken human on your own insecurities.
    Love u !! Just remember it's not anything u have to face all life long , times will be good one day.
    Just keep smiling and overcoming these days with more grace and power. ❤

  • @neetu7151
    @neetu7151 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love seeing the raw real side of you.. it takes courage ❤️

  • @sonaltyagi2247
    @sonaltyagi2247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can feel you, i am going through the same situation from past 6 7 years. Did everything to cure it, ayurveda, doctors everything but nothing worked so i accepted it the way it is.

  • @aashimaverma5631
    @aashimaverma5631 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    More power to u yr❤..bt i do want to say it takes guts to speak about your insecurities and it is so important to tell about other side of influencers

  • @unfilteredwith_sneha
    @unfilteredwith_sneha 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you for your honesty💖. Just want to send you a big virtual hug and thanks for sharing this and making us feel we are not the only ones dealing with an insecurity.

  • @drReetHooda
    @drReetHooda 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s why We have to be kind with everyone!!!!!! Seriously everyone because we don’t know what’s going on in their head. Usually strong people I have seen show their weakness!!

  • @Alishhdiaries25
    @Alishhdiaries25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I literally never felt this connected ❤️😭 you literally gave me soo strengthen I am also dealing with my skin problems and this gave me sooo happiness ❤️😚 LOVEEEE you simm 😘❤️

  • @simranjeet3367
    @simranjeet3367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    God has compensated u with a dazzling gorgeous skin that v r all simply awestruck with😍😍...admire ur humility and upfront ness👍

  • @sudeshnapaul2809
    @sudeshnapaul2809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am crying watching this video.. Thank you for making me strong to face my insecurity ❤

  • @keertichaudhary5582
    @keertichaudhary5582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's such a big deal for women n I wanna tell you that you're so so brave. Great video ❤️✨

  • @kanishkaverma4338
    @kanishkaverma4338 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can totally relate to this. I can understand everything very well I'm too facing same issue past 4 years now after my 12th I suddenly started lossing my hairs like hell alot. It's really heartbreaking that time n still too. I always depressed about my hair every single day I lose my hair n I had also done everything and anything to stop them. But nothing works they just gave temporary affect but after sometime again I face same issue still facing it again. I was too blessed with good hair before 12th everyone compliment my hair that time. N yeah you're right hair game plays a important role that just change a look from 0 to 100. I also used to discuss about my issues with every one but I don't think anyone will understand until they face it. Even my friends. But it's fine only you who feel pain about you. It's too sad no one understands issues it's a real nightmare but can't help it. We have to accept every change Yes it's a real pain still I'm facing hairfall 🥺 I can totally relate with you in this. I just wanna let you known you are such a genuine and beautiful girl inside out❤️