I finally can say that I have achieved the goal of being alone without being lonely. The scary part is it is addicting. Once you love your own company, your own toughts, you dont need people anymore. I got my disicpline up to point I couldnt imagine, my willpower is skyrocketing, my patience is improving. Things that bothered me before cant really affect me anymore and yeh sure I can feel the growth, I can feel the tunderous willpower in my chest but what I feel the hardest is just the peace. The kind of peace I didnt know Could exist. The kind of piece where you feel like you are just watching the world as it is a movie. Sitting, sipping away at my coffee and watch people hurry to whatever they are doing, not noticing the sun that is beginning to shine now that it is spring, or the sound of the birds in the park. If I can reach it, everyone of you who took the time to read it can do it to. Find your inner peace and learn to enjoy your own company and toughts. Love you all, have an amazing day.
“Some times, some thing, some where in this acursed world. Just needs to be left alone as a gratitude in a place where he was when he changed. Because when others will fell the same, they could see what other had to do to save them self or the ones they consider.”
I love, this. I am striving to be at this point with myself and I know I will get there cause now I am on my journey with GOD and not doing things my way. Can I ask, do you go out by yourself and what types of places will you go??
@@lonsp.t3568 That's great to hear. I wish you all the strength for this road ahead. You will learn a lot about yourself. As a matter of fact, I am on my own 95 % of the time. This doesn't mean I don't have friends. In fact, I have all the friends I need in life, but I just see them maybe once a week or less. If I go out I go either for a walk on the beach or in the park to clear my head, because that's where the good ideas are born, or I do work out. Either gym or street workout. Apart from that if I feel like I am going mad at home but I still have work to do, I visit a cafe and work there for a few hours. Every week at least once I try to do something bigger. A walk in the forest or something that takes a bit more time and brings joy. Very rarely, when I feel like I have worked enough for it I take myself out for a dinner at some resaurant, but usually it is not the case. I hope this was usefull for you.
@@haraldgoffart yes, thanks I understand. Wanted some ideas as to what I can venture out to do with myself. I do go to the Gardens alone to pray, read and enjoy GOD'S awesome creation and scenery. Been in a cafe to read and listen to edifying, fruitful, motivational and spiritual videos. Want to make it a habit and discover other places I can go to do the same and enjoy on my own. Well thanks again and I wish you all the best in life's journey, GOD BLESS. Goodnight 🙏🏼
@@scumlord2232 you make your own path. Try new things, activities, which may lead you to discover a possible hobbies or passion. You may have talents you never once knew. Which may lead to a goal You’ll want to achieve. It happened to me! Just don’t sit and mope. It won’t get you anywhere
I have always been a loner and I will always be one. This year has been one of the hardest I don't know why, but I'm finally getting back on track. I know that everyone is going through something not just me.
I hope this inspires someone that it doesn't matter if you don't have any of them right now; you can start TODAY regardless of your age to invest and change your future! I wasn't financially free until my 40s and I'm still in my 40s, have already purchased my third house, earn on a monthly basis through passive income, and achieved 4 out of 5 goals. I made a wise decision when I decided to invest in the financial market.
Although I am aware that no one can guarantee a bright tomorrow, I find it difficult to invest today because I have no notion where or how to do so. As I am prepared to follow the passive income road, I would be grateful if you could provide me advice based on how you went about yours.
@@rachellovescats8481 Even with the right strategy and resources, some investors would still outperform others. As an investor, you should be aware of this by now. For me personally, I had to ask a market analyst for advice in order to grow my account close to a million dollars, withdraw my profit just before the correction, and start buying again.
@@CatalinaTaylor-gt5jx Please identify the expert who is helping you. As a novice investing in cryptocurrencies without the correct direction of a professional, I have lost a lot of money.
@@julioSmith-xg6hp My financial advisor is "KARIM E KARIM," who I discovered through a CNBC interview in which he was mentioned. I contacted him soon after. Since then, he has offered entry and exit points for the stocks I pay attention to. If you want to make sure he's being watched, you can look him up online. I haven't regretted adopting his trading strategy.
@@CatalinaTaylor-gt5jx Thank you for the advice. As soon as I typed his name into Google, his website appeared on the first page. I glanced over his resume, which seemed rather concise. I sent him a message, so perhaps he will respond soon.
I'm a 17 years old boy from afganistan and now I'm studying alone in iran. In first its a little hard but then you can feel the scene of power and strength. Maybe i needed to suffer from lonely to find meself . all of this pains tell us who we are and what we need. Im very happy that you can understand me 🙂
You can get whatever it is you have thought of on a everyday basis for the world will come to you. I speak truth from my immediate initiative seeking manner. I'm not perfect but vibration is turbans turn king's must be born in a minute top Theron will you stand. I send my Angels of pertaining abound greatness the corners of Heaven will clear out to help you when week feed you my friend with epic piece. Take this 🧩 This is The past missing one of the journey puzzles
Man I have been going through some really difficult time in my life both mentally and physically. My mom was diagnosed with both breast and lung cancer but now although she is stable for last year on oral chemo and me being the doctor have to take care of her through all those chemo and radiotherapy sessions and also lost the love of my life of 4 years because I went into dark places because I didn't know how to cope with all of that but I was always afraid of asking for help but God as if got your videos in my TH-cam home page and I can't help think as if each of your video resonates with me and it is helping me along. Keep making and creating and God bless you man!
@Monsieur Monster I am an extreme introvert and was always afraid of asking for help. Eddie’s content made me realise that one doesn’t have to go through the life which is full of adversities alone and asking for help and giving help to those in need is all there is to have a blessful life. It’s all about changing the mindset. Like his story of two brothers brought up by an abusive father. It’s about taking pause and decide whether to chase the past or do something positive for present. May God bless us all and those who are going through difficult times.
ive been through this too i lost my mum to cancer .i became dependant on drink i worked and no one realised how badly i was coping except my partner of 20 years she took advantage and didnt help or comfort me at all .she saw a weak person so she cheated repeatedly with drug dealers and i burried my head in the sand carried on working went on holidays with her and my five beautifull children things were ok i thought so i convinced myself i was paronoid even didnt listen yo my daughters who told me they had msgs to prove it i.couldntt cope with the truth until one day i thought i could the relationship became voilent at times id go out and fight anyone i gave up everything i cared about fishing my art my boat i still didnt get the results i thought i would .i became a doormat with no friends no family babysitting the kids while she went out drinking all night and sleeping around but all i could do was try to stay in the house with my children to feel the only love i knew was pure .i wouldnt touch or go near her and ine day i looked in her phone and saw things no partner should ever see .id already looked into a garenteed way of ending my life becuse i thought i couldnt jump of a bridge or hang myself so i drank antifreeze in a huge amount she called the services on me so i ran to the woods climbed 40 foot up into a tree and was going to sit in that tree till i died i told her i forgave her and didnt want her to be hurt it was just a choice i was at peaCe with .i saw those hi vis jackets coming so i tied my belt to the branch and jumped i didnt want to be saved the belt snapped
@@lee-tx5mw I feel what you have been going. But I shave no words. All I can say is God has plans for you and you are not alone. Leave the toxic relationship and devote your time to your own self development and shout beautiful children. They don’t deserve a parent like your partner. Give them the love and teach them the reality and how to cope. Don’t be afraid to ask help. You are not alone. I have done a year in Psychology and also practice online as medical specialist, clinical psychologist and USA ECFMG certified MD, via telemedicine at my home country but I am going back to states in a month or two. I am dropping my email for you. You can contact me If you want to talk and share the hell you have been through. My offer for you is just from a friend to friend and I won’t charge a dime for you. I know how lonely a person can become to what extent one can go to just end this life because one thinks that’s a easy way out. Same with drugs. But that’s not the reality. Here’s my email. Remove the spaces Stay blessed a .rafay. javed@gmail .com I am looking forward to talk to you. Stay safe and blessed. There is always a sun even out there at night.
I listen to this every time I feel like I'm getting distracted or not being able to focus on my work, when it feels like "this is not me, this is not what I had decided to do today, I cannot focus". Helps me a lot seeing what matters the most and to concentrate better on my tasks.
There’s 2 very important things to know about loneliness: 1.) Loneliness hits so much harder when you’ve experienced what it’s like to commit all your love and energy into someone and have that reciprocated, and then lose that person and have to go back to your mediocre relationships. 2.) The most painful form of loneliness isn’t just lacking good friends or family, but knowing that your friends, family, and the vast majority of people you meet can’t understand your powerful, above average mindset that seeks a real, quality life above all else
Never had a woman say I love you to me, my ex finally said it one night in bed even though it was a "friends with benefits" thing. But then we hooked up, suddenly a year later its as if she forgot we were together and said she had a date lined up and wanted to just be friends. I was like yoooo wait you got a date what? Why didnt you talk to me before, why did the bitch ever say she loves me... More like she liked my cock in her butt
@@infktiousvenom1061 Sleeping around and saying disgusting things like that is why no woman will tell you she loves you and genuinely mean it. Start understanding that sex isn’t a game and you’ll find more in a woman than just sex. Where to start? Go to God first, and his son Jesus who died for people like you and me
@@skyleruballe2265 it does but he said it wrongfully… its meant to say; when you are truely feeling alone…. Because at that point you start to wonder the way we are supposed..
People confuse lonely with being alone. Lonely is when you feel like nobody in the world cares for you. Being alone can be very positive and powerful in your life because you'll learn by being alone what bring pleasure and enjoyment in your life. Also, being alone helps the mind with goals and plans. You cant achieve your full potential in life when you are constantly distracted by activities from the outside world. Many of the most successful people in history were either loners or spent a lot of time being by themselves.
And me also just moved to a new city and am having time without my children before they move with me too and as a solo mum I will get little to no time on my own, it is hard being alone but there is a deeper healing happening in this process .
It's so easy to get caught up in a world of distraction, and fall into the trap of looking to be acknowledged by strangers, when we never even confront the real thoughts and emotion buried deep inside.
To you reading this right now: you are beautiful and loved. You’re not alone in this. Many others right now are thinking the same things you are. But, we all have something to offer each other. Stay connected in this chat and help others who need your insight and experience. One day, all this will make sense and you will be called to use what you have gathered and learned from all this and use it to help someone who will truly need you. Meanwhile, know that you have the support and love of all of us in this chat. We can be here for each other, as I need you to be there for me as well. I promise you, this upcoming day will be wonderful and you will sleep well and with great peace.
None of us are alone by themselves. If nothing else, we are alone together. Most of the greatest minds, and souls in history valued being alone. You find yourself when you are alone. It's powerful, and beautiful in its great simplicity. Don't end it. March forward as you always have. Don't quit. You can rule the world. Win. Fight, and win. It will change.
The state of loneliness I'm in now is not intentional but exists because of my inability to make a lasting impact on my friends and the people I meet in life. The relationships formed start to gradually fade until I never see those people again. Making new ones isn't easy and going through this process over and over again wears you down immensely. I've just decided to embrace my loneliness and live solo from now on.
Into consideration is that some people that come into your life may be interested in what you can do for them, and no interest in doing for you when you need them.
Stop seeking external validation! It’s a restless tedious journey! In this time, we spend it perfecting ourselves! The only validation you need starts within! God Bless!
Being in a toxic relationship will wake you up to embrace your loneliness more than ever when you walk away . I find peace being alone as a single mom. 😌 No amount of relationship will bring you peace. I am the only person capable of finding my peace and staying sane for my children. Happy mom happy kids.
No I don't really have any words to explain how good this actually is! It's too good. Way too good! This message touched me and it will help me in improving me as a person and to draw a better plan to get to my goal!
"Wow, this message really hit home! Learning to embrace being alone has been a game-changer in my life. Instead of fearing solitude, I'm starting to see it as a time to grow, reflect, and truly understand myself. It's empowering to know that you don't need anyone else to validate your worth-self-love is the most important kind of love. Thank you for the inspiration!
Stay strong fellas you will grow wise on a single path pls trust what i say. Find healthy hobbies i play 4 instruments. Keep yourself and faith strong Christ is above us all. You will find peace on a solo path.
I ain't scared off anything was just playing my part I get bored easily so to test my faith I created a seemingly impossible task God did change me and I am forever gratefull ppl have to just by knowing the way I am see God is real and even if I am down on myself and think I am not worthy of His love He doesn't God loves without condition and fearsly that is why I trust Him
Because of your speech, i started to get outside with nothing but myself. I'm trying to think, but my mind tends to wander to unimportant things. Maybe it's because i just started doing it. But i love it nonetheless and i didn't know i needed it until now. So thank you! 💕
This talk really resonates with me because I am an introvert and also have social anxiety. As a result I especially need more time alone for introspection and processing. We are all different. Vive le diference!
With 12 siblings, I have always tried to be alone. You think of you knowing that everyone is out there waiting for you. My friends don't understand why I sit alone everyday quiet no radio tv cell phone just peace and thought. Rejuvenation in 30 minutes if I get it but ready for the world again. Smiling confidence and I coined it. Walking in quiet confidence you can feel it people see it. Thing's attitudes emotions don't bother you anymore. Peace to the beast of being able to be alone.
@@Yourworldwithin valuable is an understatement these words are what I need right now quintessentially fundamentally inspirational. i am scared of taking a walk without my phone. it is a fear that I must face. time alone.
The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; My God, my strength, in whom I will trust; My buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower. In Jesus name amen 🙏🙌✨🙋🏽♂️🧎♂️⭐🌍
Instead of "lone wolf", a better one will be the "golden eagle". A raptor that rose up like a phoenix from the remnants of the almost complete global mass extinction 65 million years ago, to dominate the skies. flying alone, or with his only lifelong mate, at 13000 to 16000 feet above the ground and yet keenly aware of the happenings on the ground at all times. visible only to the one who happens to look up or just before he (or they) swoops on his prey at the blistering speed of about 200 miles per hour with talons that has total grip strength that is greater than the bite of a lion. Simply amazing!
I am no where close to who I want to be or how I want my life to be. My decisions in my young years has shaped my adulthood. Today their are to many people that would be impacted negatively if I decide to become my true self. So I choose to be alone alot. One day I hope to be brave enough to be who I truely would like to be.
At the end of the day we are alone, the only people constantly around you are gonna be your parents and family. Work on yourself, stay hungry , keep moving.
Two hours every night while my son is at work...no phone, no TV.....just me and the cat 🐈. I have doing this for over a month and I am enjoying my time with me. I have learned a lot.
You’re so great Eddie! I am so inspired and motivated with all your videos. I never go to bed without watching your videos. You have touched lot of peoples’ lives. Keep up the good work!
I did this without anyone telling me to. I did this while detoxing of 20 percoset a day and making the decision to shut off from the world has been a life saving moment for me. I was able to find out who I really am and what my demons were as well. And I made the choice to save my own life!
Wow crazy timing, had just done this yesterday just sat outside on the patio of my Airbnb watching the ocean and did some deep reflection, even shut off my phone to make sure of no distractions. And will say if I like the Audiobook - Will buy the Physical so can re-read seeing it to really soak it in.
When you've lost all abilities to examine the self because one minute alone with your thoughts is agonizing, you won't be able to see past the surface of who you're and what you're capable of. There are some dangers that we way too easily overlook, that when you outsource your thinking, you outsource your future. It's like we're scared to completely immerse ourselves in solitude, but solitude is where we uncover so much. It's not only our work that needs saving but ourselves. We can't lose touch with what matters most. We can't become so shallow in our thoughts and our actions that the beauty remains buried away...There are pieces of you that need to be assembled and if left alone will wither away. It is about recognizing the spaces we need to carve out from the outside world so that when we reenter the outside world we know who we are, we understand where we are headed, we don't go where the wind blows.
I was in a relationship for 8 months & I was dumped. I always been a loner. I have had 2 relationships in the last 8 years.It's best for me to be alone. I live alone & I run a small business. I need to focus just on me.
Partner of Sarah: this is amazing and being in a relationship does not mean you can not be alone. Being alone sometime is actually Healing.People who say other wise need to actually think about it a little
Ive let doubt control me for far to long and a big source of it is social media. I see an attractive woman on face book and I'll compliment her in hopes maybe something will click. But it always ends with me getting ghosted or I think "there's no way she's interested in me". But as much as I think that...that's not the case. I am worth the time and effort. If nobody chooses me, I CHOOSE ME. And while my heart still breaks and aches for that love I yern for. It's not worth breaking my heart over and over. So I will keep moving forward. I will keep my head up and my mind open. I will keep chasing my dream. Because I'll choose me every time, any day. My self love is more important than choosing self centered love.
Outstanding motivation speech 100% facts Social media is keeping too many guys distracted if you can't have alone time and focus you are losing a lot. This is the reason why they call us lone Wolf it's cold
I love these. I wish the background music wasn’t so loud and swelling though, it’s so distracting and overwhelming as someone neurodivergent. Definitely counteracts the inspirational feel of your speech.
So true Eddie! The way you deliver these videos is truly remarkable. I've been listening to your videos for many years now and I'm so grateful for the content my brother! Thank you!
Ok so I am guilty of spending hours on TH-cam and TikTok because I only watch educational or motivational content 99% of the time and telling myself it is ok because “it is educational it isn’t mindless screen time” no it is mindless screen time just with information attached but like yeah I try to stay off my phone like if I stay off my phone I don’t want to go on my phone but when I am on my phone I am desperate to keep on it great video btw I think it is one of the best I have seen on this topic so far
I think it is silly we are all lost, hurt, and such. Yet we judge others, laugh at them in the shadows. But we all know we are at war with the darkness. All it takes is us to stand together.
Joe dispenza helped me with his knowledge of the brain. He is such a smart man and i listen and watch him on TH-cam for over 4 years now. I finaly live alone now and that was a long proces to get used to and to detach from al the People i know. Now in have peace of mind back again and i turned my live 360° you can never be lonley i you like the person youre alone with! ❤ yourself more then annyone else and respect yourself🎉
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I don't want much for myself. I just want the person reading this to be healthy, happy and loved, Wishing you a amazing day❤
You too brother
I wish you the same brother and some more!
Needed that amigo
Thanks 🙏
I finally can say that I have achieved the goal of being alone without being lonely. The scary part is it is addicting. Once you love your own company, your own toughts, you dont need people anymore. I got my disicpline up to point I couldnt imagine, my willpower is skyrocketing, my patience is improving. Things that bothered me before cant really affect me anymore and yeh sure I can feel the growth, I can feel the tunderous willpower in my chest but what I feel the hardest is just the peace. The kind of peace I didnt know Could exist. The kind of piece where you feel like you are just watching the world as it is a movie. Sitting, sipping away at my coffee and watch people hurry to whatever they are doing, not noticing the sun that is beginning to shine now that it is spring, or the sound of the birds in the park. If I can reach it, everyone of you who took the time to read it can do it to.
Find your inner peace and learn to enjoy your own company and toughts.
Love you all, have an amazing day.
“Some times, some thing, some where in this acursed world. Just needs to be left alone as a gratitude in a place where he was when he changed. Because when others will fell the same, they could see what other had to do to save them self or the ones they consider.”
I agree with you. Your thoughts are very close to my views as well.
I love, this. I am striving to be at this point with myself and I know I will get there cause now I am on my journey with GOD and not doing things my way. Can I ask, do you go out by yourself and what types of places will you go??
@@lonsp.t3568 That's great to hear.
I wish you all the strength for this road ahead. You will learn a lot about yourself.
As a matter of fact, I am on my own 95 % of the time. This doesn't mean I don't have friends. In fact, I have all the friends I need in life, but I just see them maybe once a week or less.
If I go out I go either for a walk on the beach or in the park to clear my head, because that's where the good ideas are born, or I do work out. Either gym or street workout. Apart from that if I feel like I am going mad at home but I still have work to do, I visit a cafe and work there for a few hours. Every week at least once I try to do something bigger. A walk in the forest or something that takes a bit more time and brings joy. Very rarely, when I feel like I have worked enough for it I take myself out for a dinner at some resaurant, but usually it is not the case.
I hope this was usefull for you.
@@haraldgoffart yes, thanks I understand. Wanted some ideas as to what I can venture out to do with myself. I do go to the Gardens alone to pray, read and enjoy GOD'S awesome creation and scenery. Been in a cafe to read and listen to edifying, fruitful, motivational and spiritual videos. Want to make it a habit and discover other places I can go to do the same and enjoy on my own. Well thanks again and I wish you all the best in life's journey, GOD BLESS. Goodnight 🙏🏼
“Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today.” You got this bestie
Constantly work towards your goal. Trust the process and your goal. Pray and Believe. Being Alone means going your own way
I don't have goals and I have no idea what I would even want them to be
@@scumlord2232 you make your own path. Try new things, activities, which may lead you to discover a possible hobbies or passion. You may have talents you never once knew. Which may lead to a goal You’ll want to achieve. It happened to me! Just don’t sit and mope. It won’t get you anywhere
I know what you mean by process and I agree
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I have always been a loner and I will always be one. This year has been one of the hardest I don't know why, but I'm finally getting back on track. I know that everyone is going through something not just me.
Hey, You. Whoever’s reading this, this is your sign. Everything’s gonna be okay. You did not come this far to give up. I believe in you ❤
I don't believe you. I am sorry. Life is unbearable.
I want to be happy and feel alive again. There’s been so much pain in my heart this year
I hope things have improved for you over this span
“All you need is one epiphany, one answer that can change your life” . awesome man
I am alone and happy...people should learn not to disturb others.
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In this generation, yes. I agree
You get it! 🥹
It's about time I embrace being alone and I really do mean it too
"Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you." -Rumi
are uou saying that we are not loners, and we are in fact social creatures? wrong!!! we are alpha loners, and we will always be
No he is saying that we all are part of the universe so whe are never really alone. We are just vibrating atoms on a big rock moving around a star.
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I hope this inspires someone that it doesn't matter if you don't have any of them right now; you can start TODAY regardless of your age to invest and change your future! I wasn't financially free until my 40s and I'm still in my 40s, have already purchased my third house, earn on a monthly basis through passive income, and achieved 4 out of 5 goals. I made a wise decision when I decided to invest in the financial market.
Although I am aware that no one can guarantee a bright tomorrow, I find it difficult to invest today because I have no notion where or how to do so. As I am prepared to follow the passive income road, I would be grateful if you could provide me advice based on how you went about yours.
@@rachellovescats8481 Even with the right strategy and resources, some investors would still outperform others. As an investor, you should be aware of this by now. For me personally, I had to ask a market analyst for advice in order to grow my account close to a million dollars, withdraw my profit just before the correction, and start buying again.
@@CatalinaTaylor-gt5jx Please identify the expert who is helping you. As a novice investing in cryptocurrencies without the correct direction of a professional, I have lost a lot of money.
@@julioSmith-xg6hp My financial advisor is "KARIM E KARIM," who I discovered through a CNBC interview in which he was mentioned. I contacted him soon after. Since then, he has offered entry and exit points for the stocks I pay attention to. If you want to make sure he's being watched, you can look him up online. I haven't regretted adopting his trading strategy.
@@CatalinaTaylor-gt5jx Thank you for the advice. As soon as I typed his name into Google, his website appeared on the first page. I glanced over his resume, which seemed rather concise. I sent him a message, so perhaps he will respond soon.
Hope we all find the peace we have been looking for ❤️
I'm a 17 years old boy from afganistan and now I'm studying alone in iran. In first its a little hard but then you can feel the scene of power and strength. Maybe i needed to suffer from lonely to find meself . all of this pains tell us who we are and what we need. Im very happy that you can understand me 🙂
God bless u. When you're not alone, try be with the right company
Best of luck with you studies. May God bless you.
I am with you brother
I'm 19 and studying alone in Canada. I get how you feel. We push through and we win.
You can get whatever it is you have thought of on a everyday basis for the world will come to you. I speak truth from my immediate initiative seeking manner. I'm not perfect but vibration is turbans turn king's must be born in a minute top Theron will you stand. I send my Angels of pertaining abound greatness the corners of Heaven will clear out to help you when week feed you my friend with epic piece. Take this 🧩 This is The past missing one of the journey puzzles
Man I have been going through some really difficult time in my life both mentally and physically. My mom was diagnosed with both breast and lung cancer but now although she is stable for last year on oral chemo and me being the doctor have to take care of her through all those chemo and radiotherapy sessions and also lost the love of my life of 4 years because I went into dark places because I didn't know how to cope with all of that but I was always afraid of asking for help but God as if got your videos in my TH-cam home page and I can't help think as if each of your video resonates with me and it is helping me along. Keep making and creating and God bless you man!
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@Monsieur Monster I am an extreme introvert and was always afraid of asking for help. Eddie’s content made me realise that one doesn’t have to go through the life which is full of adversities alone and asking for help and giving help to those in need is all there is to have a blessful life. It’s all about changing the mindset. Like his story of two brothers brought up by an abusive father. It’s about taking pause and decide whether to chase the past or do something positive for present. May God bless us all and those who are going through difficult times.
ive been through this too i lost my mum to cancer .i became dependant on drink i worked and no one realised how badly i was coping except my partner of 20 years she took advantage and didnt help or comfort me at all .she saw a weak person so she cheated repeatedly with drug dealers and i burried my head in the sand carried on working went on holidays with her and my five beautifull children things were ok i thought so i convinced myself i was paronoid even didnt listen yo my daughters who told me they had msgs to prove it i.couldntt cope with the truth until one day i thought i could the relationship became voilent at times id go out and fight anyone i gave up everything i cared about fishing my art my boat i still didnt get the results i thought i would .i became a doormat with no friends no family babysitting the kids while she went out drinking all night and sleeping around but all i could do was try to stay in the house with my children to feel the only love i knew was pure .i wouldnt touch or go near her and ine day i looked in her phone and saw things no partner should ever see .id already looked into a garenteed way of ending my life becuse i thought i couldnt jump of a bridge or hang myself so i drank antifreeze in a huge amount she called the services on me so i ran to the woods climbed 40 foot up into a tree and was going to sit in that tree till i died i told her i forgave her and didnt want her to be hurt it was just a choice i was at peaCe with .i saw those hi vis jackets coming so i tied my belt to the branch and jumped i didnt want to be saved the belt snapped
@@lee-tx5mw I feel what you have been going. But I shave no words. All I can say is God has plans for you and you are not alone. Leave the toxic relationship and devote your time to your own self development and shout beautiful children. They don’t deserve a parent like your partner. Give them the love and teach them the reality and how to cope. Don’t be afraid to ask help. You are not alone. I have done a year in Psychology and also practice online as medical specialist, clinical psychologist and USA ECFMG certified MD, via telemedicine at my home country but I am going back to states in a month or two. I am dropping my email for you. You can contact me If you want to talk and share the hell you have been through. My offer for you is just from a friend to friend and I won’t charge a dime for you. I know how lonely a person can become to what extent one can go to just end this life because one thinks that’s a easy way out. Same with drugs. But that’s not the reality. Here’s my email. Remove the spaces Stay blessed
a .rafay. javed@gmail .com I am looking forward to talk to you. Stay safe and blessed. There is always a sun even out there at night.
Keep it up bro, You and your mom got this! 💪🏼 greets from belgium
I listen to this every time I feel like I'm getting distracted or not being able to focus on my work, when it feels like "this is not me, this is not what I had decided to do today, I cannot focus". Helps me a lot seeing what matters the most and to concentrate better on my tasks.
I celebrated New Year 2022 all alone in my house and i never felt pure than ever. I love being alone
There’s 2 very important things to know about loneliness: 1.) Loneliness hits so much harder when you’ve experienced what it’s like to commit all your love and energy into someone and have that reciprocated, and then lose that person and have to go back to your mediocre relationships. 2.) The most painful form of loneliness isn’t just lacking good friends or family, but knowing that your friends, family, and the vast majority of people you meet can’t understand your powerful, above average mindset that seeks a real, quality life above all else
Never had a woman say I love you to me, my ex finally said it one night in bed even though it was a "friends with benefits" thing. But then we hooked up, suddenly a year later its as if she forgot we were together and said she had a date lined up and wanted to just be friends. I was like yoooo wait you got a date what? Why didnt you talk to me before, why did the bitch ever say she loves me...
More like she liked my cock in her butt
@@infktiousvenom1061 Sleeping around and saying disgusting things like that is why no woman will tell you she loves you and genuinely mean it. Start understanding that sex isn’t a game and you’ll find more in a woman than just sex. Where to start? Go to God first, and his son Jesus who died for people like you and me
Not all of us here are here because of a breakup mate.
@@XLdanielsX only the first point has to do with a significant other, mate
Well ig it hurts a lot when I see people falling in love and have supportive friends 😅
The sooner you realize you are truly alone in the universe, the sooner you figure out life
Actually, we are never alone since we all are the universe. Just vibrating atoms on a big rock floating around a star.
This makes no sense. Every other soul that exists in the universe doesn't count?
@@skyleruballe2265 it does but he said it wrongfully… its meant to say; when you are truely feeling alone….
Because at that point you start to wonder the way we are supposed..
And once you do that, you will finally realize what it's all about. Serving God. Gratitude and service to others.
People confuse lonely with being alone. Lonely is when you feel like nobody in the world cares for you. Being alone can be very positive and powerful in your life because you'll learn by being alone what bring pleasure and enjoyment in your life. Also, being alone helps the mind with goals and plans. You cant achieve your full potential in life when you are constantly distracted by activities from the outside world. Many of the most successful people in history were either loners or spent a lot of time being by themselves.
I love this video.. .. it took me moving to a whole new city, by myself, for me to find myself. 🤔👍🏽 one of the best times of my life.
And me also just moved to a new city and am having time without my children before they move with me too and as a solo mum I will get little to no time on my own, it is hard being alone but there is a deeper healing happening in this process .
It's so easy to get caught up in a world of distraction, and fall into the trap of looking to be acknowledged by strangers, when we never even confront the real thoughts and emotion buried deep inside.
To you reading this right now: you are beautiful and loved. You’re not alone in this. Many others right now are thinking the same things you are. But, we all have something to offer each other. Stay connected in this chat and help others who need your insight and experience. One day, all this will make sense and you will be called to use what you have gathered and learned from all this and use it to help someone who will truly need you. Meanwhile, know that you have the support and love of all of us in this chat. We can be here for each other, as I need you to be there for me as well. I promise you, this upcoming day will be wonderful and you will sleep well and with great peace.
Ofcourse. Shraddha, Strength and Honor Always.
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None of us are alone by themselves. If nothing else, we are alone together. Most of the greatest minds, and souls in history valued being alone. You find yourself when you are alone. It's powerful, and beautiful in its great simplicity. Don't end it. March forward as you always have. Don't quit. You can rule the world. Win. Fight, and win. It will change.
Yes and yes again. Deep work is needed more than ever. People need to get in touch with the spiritually they have within. Thank you. God Bless.
Being alone has helped me to achieve the goals I have always desired.
I'm from Africa 🇰🇪 Kenya...your videos and podcasts have changed my life..
“A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.” - David Brinkley
I’m alone not because I love being alone but because I know people and based on my experience with people I choose to be alone
I'm the same, I find it hard to accept help and people in general because of what I go through.
The state of loneliness I'm in now is not intentional but exists because of my inability to make a lasting impact on my friends and the people I meet in life. The relationships formed start to gradually fade until I never see those people again. Making new ones isn't easy and going through this process over and over again wears you down immensely. I've just decided to embrace my loneliness and live solo from now on.
Into consideration is that some people that come into your life may be interested in what you can do for them, and no interest in doing for you when you need them.
Stop seeking external validation! It’s a restless tedious journey! In this time, we spend it perfecting ourselves! The only validation you need starts within! God Bless!
Constant inner reflection is really important to avoid complacency.
Being in a toxic relationship will wake you up to embrace your loneliness more than ever when you walk away . I find peace being alone as a single mom. 😌 No amount of relationship will bring you peace. I am the only person capable of finding my peace and staying sane for my children. Happy mom happy kids.
Am looking forward to moving on alone ....this is a turn over I say... being alone not only makes you responsible but alsso independent
No I don't really have any words to explain how good this actually is! It's too good. Way too good! This message touched me and it will help me in improving me as a person and to draw a better plan to get to my goal!
"Wow, this message really hit home! Learning to embrace being alone has been a game-changer in my life. Instead of fearing solitude, I'm starting to see it as a time to grow, reflect, and truly understand myself. It's empowering to know that you don't need anyone else to validate your worth-self-love is the most important kind of love. Thank you for the inspiration!
"Right now....all you need is...time with....YOU." Thank you
Being alone is peaceful
This is so beautiful, I hope everything will be okay. And I hope people will get the justice they deserve because nobody deserves that.
Being alone is the only way to fight and conquer our demons. People who can’t be alone are those that would be consumed by them.
Life feels better when I listen to you Eddie. Thank you🙏
Your videos are the ones what's helping me to push my boundaries, please please don't stop. We need this 💜
Stay strong fellas you will grow wise on a single path pls trust what i say. Find healthy hobbies i play 4 instruments. Keep yourself and faith strong Christ is above us all. You will find peace on a solo path.
Focus on the 'Now' , it's all we ever have xxx
Don't let the past blackmail your present to ruin a beautiful future ❤
I ain't scared off anything was just playing my part I get bored easily so to test my faith I created a seemingly impossible task God did change me and I am forever gratefull ppl have to just by knowing the way I am see God is real and even if I am down on myself and think I am not worthy of His love He doesn't God loves without condition and fearsly that is why I trust Him
Because of your speech, i started to get outside with nothing but myself. I'm trying to think, but my mind tends to wander to unimportant things. Maybe it's because i just started doing it. But i love it nonetheless and i didn't know i needed it until now. So thank you! 💕
My Prayer is: Jesus, please guide my husband & i together to serve & honor you and love and care for one another and live in harmony and help others😊
Eddie keep inspiring all of us.
This talk really resonates with me because I am an introvert and also have social anxiety. As a result I especially need more time alone for introspection and processing. We are all different. Vive le diference!
With 12 siblings, I have always tried to be alone.
You think of you knowing that everyone is out there waiting for you.
My friends don't understand why I sit alone everyday quiet no radio tv cell phone just peace and thought.
Rejuvenation in 30 minutes if I get it but ready for the world again.
Smiling confidence and I coined it.
Walking in quiet confidence you can feel it people see it.
Thing's attitudes emotions don't bother you anymore.
Peace to the beast of being able to be alone.
I recommend Cal Newport's book digital minimalism. It is very insightful
Its a nice feeling to be your best company,but you can still get into an argument!!!
i cant say how much this is helping me right now in my life with mere words except to say a simple thank you. thank you.
Appreciate you Steven! Glad it’s been valuable 🙌
@@Yourworldwithin valuable is an understatement these words are what I need right now quintessentially fundamentally inspirational. i am scared of taking a walk without my phone. it is a fear that I must face. time alone.
The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; My God, my strength, in whom I will trust; My buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower. In Jesus name amen 🙏🙌✨🙋🏽♂️🧎♂️⭐🌍
Amen amen praise God!
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Instead of "lone wolf", a better one will be the "golden eagle". A raptor that rose up like a phoenix from the remnants of the almost complete global mass extinction 65 million years ago, to dominate the skies. flying alone, or with his only lifelong mate, at 13000 to 16000 feet above the ground and yet keenly aware of the happenings on the ground at all times. visible only to the one who happens to look up or just before he (or they) swoops on his prey at the blistering speed of about 200 miles per hour with talons that has total grip strength that is greater than the bite of a lion. Simply amazing!
Can i send you?.
True peace is within..
I’m alone in this country, I’ve been to many struggles but I’m still strong, I’m proud of myself
I am no where close to who I want to be or how I want my life to be. My decisions in my young years has shaped my adulthood. Today their are to many people that would be impacted negatively if I decide to become my true self.
So I choose to be alone alot.
One day I hope to be brave enough to be who I truely would like to be.
At the end of the day we are alone, the only people constantly around you are gonna be your parents and family. Work on yourself, stay hungry , keep moving.
Two hours every night while my son is at work...no phone, no TV.....just me and the cat 🐈. I have doing this for over a month and I am enjoying my time with me. I have learned a lot.
I truly needed this. It totally saved me today. Thank you. Hugs!!!
You’re so great Eddie! I am so inspired and motivated with all your videos. I never go to bed without watching your videos. You have touched lot of peoples’ lives. Keep up the good work!
Great reminder. Using our alone time for discovery & growth is a priceless investment worth doing.
Nah, it's not just more time with you, it's more time with seeking holiness.
I did this without anyone telling me to. I did this while detoxing of 20 percoset a day and making the decision to shut off from the world has been a life saving moment for me. I was able to find out who I really am and what my demons were as well. And I made the choice to save my own life!
Wow crazy timing, had just done this yesterday just sat outside on the patio of my Airbnb watching the ocean and did some deep reflection, even shut off my phone to make sure of no distractions.
And will say if I like the Audiobook - Will buy the Physical so can re-read seeing it to really soak it in.
I feel everything with sadness on nothing without my parents but a girl I ever loved 😞🙏🏾💫
one of the most beautifull things ever said
Isolation is nothing to aspire to though you need to be able to endure it.
RIGHT ON EDDIE ! TURNING OFF, AND TUNING IN ! YEAH MAN !
Such an amazing motivator and story teller. Your videos open up new ways to look at life. Thank you
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Self awareness. Be mindful. (Do not think .. ) Be in the moment. Be present and learn
When you've lost all abilities to examine the self because one minute alone with your thoughts is agonizing, you won't be able to see past the surface of who you're and what you're capable of. There are some dangers that we way too easily overlook, that when you outsource your thinking, you outsource your future.
It's like we're scared to completely immerse ourselves in solitude, but solitude is where we uncover so much.
It's not only our work that needs saving but ourselves. We can't lose touch with what matters most. We can't become so shallow in our thoughts and our actions that the beauty remains buried away...There are pieces of you that need to be assembled and if left alone will wither away.
It is about recognizing the spaces we need to carve out from the outside world so that when we reenter the outside world we know who we are, we understand where we are headed, we don't go where the wind blows.
Being alone is a great feeling if you know how to deal with it, it's addicting if you get use to it,
How do you get used to it? Why do I feel I need a partner?
I was in a relationship for 8 months & I was dumped. I always been a loner. I have had 2 relationships in the last 8 years.It's best for me to be alone. I live alone & I run a small business. I need to focus just on me.
Partner of Sarah: this is amazing and being in a relationship does not mean you can not be alone. Being alone sometime is actually Healing.People who say other wise need to actually think about it a little
Ive let doubt control me for far to long and a big source of it is social media. I see an attractive woman on face book and I'll compliment her in hopes maybe something will click. But it always ends with me getting ghosted or I think "there's no way she's interested in me". But as much as I think that...that's not the case.
I am worth the time and effort. If nobody chooses me, I CHOOSE ME. And while my heart still breaks and aches for that love I yern for. It's not worth breaking my heart over and over.
So I will keep moving forward.
I will keep my head up and my mind open.
I will keep chasing my dream.
Because I'll choose me every time, any day.
My self love is more important than choosing self centered love.
U literally talking to me God bless u
I am blessed to hear you...I am motivated everytime I listen those words from you
Thanks brother. Much love 🙏🏼
The title tells me this is the exact thing I was looking for. Thanks Eddie!
Outstanding motivation speech 100% facts
Social media is keeping too many guys distracted if you can't have alone time and focus you are losing a lot. This is the reason why they call us lone Wolf it's cold
We’re not meant to be alone, guys. We just aren’t 😔
It's a better choice than having to bend with the wind to avoid being alone..
I Am
One of my favorite channels on TH-cam great content always
Grateful
Don't just come here to comments and leave the video or just end it in between. It's worth watching. Trust me ❤️
I enjoy being alone! But if we believe in god and Jesus we are never alone
I love this life!!
I truly feel I'm happy alone I love myself wouldn't hurt my self and I trust myself and I don't have 2 worry bout that
I love these. I wish the background music wasn’t so loud and swelling though, it’s so distracting and overwhelming as someone neurodivergent. Definitely counteracts the inspirational feel of your speech.
Just "perfectly" explained !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So true Eddie! The way you deliver these videos is truly remarkable. I've been listening to your videos for many years now and I'm so grateful for the content my brother! Thank you!
Ok so I am guilty of spending hours on TH-cam and TikTok because I only watch educational or motivational content 99% of the time and telling myself it is ok because “it is educational it isn’t mindless screen time” no it is mindless screen time just with information attached but like yeah I try to stay off my phone like if I stay off my phone I don’t want to go on my phone but when I am on my phone I am desperate to keep on it great video btw I think it is one of the best I have seen on this topic so far
Hey I live in Florida 🤣🤣 and thank you for the messages man being an inverter , we never get bored when we alone
This is real motivation
I still found my comment
Keep doing the great work, this world needs more of it.
I think it is silly we are all lost, hurt, and such. Yet we judge others, laugh at them in the shadows. But we all know we are at war with the darkness. All it takes is us to stand together.
It's always a lone road, stay focused my brother's ❤️
This is hitting me hard thank you so much
You got this!!!
❤ great words. This is absolutely true that us people seem to be clued-up by the smart devices that's making us stupid.
Alone on Valentinez Day!
Joe dispenza helped me with his knowledge of the brain. He is such a smart man and i listen and watch him on TH-cam for over 4 years now. I finaly live alone now and that was a long proces to get used to and to detach from al the People i know. Now in have peace of mind back again and i turned my live 360° you can never be lonley i you like the person youre alone with! ❤ yourself more then annyone else and respect yourself🎉