4 generations in one house. Living with in-laws is not easy but priceless | French Korean couple
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 มิ.ย. 2023
- A French who came to Korea on a 'working holiday' and met her husband. Now four generations of her husband's family living with her. Navigating between cultural and personality differences is hard, but they are making their way.
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The little girl is so well manned and has a great personality. The parents did a good job!
Danielle is such a loving, sweet woman and they're a beautiful family! The way she takes care of Granma and father in law is so touching, well done Danielle and I say that as an italian. The letter your father in love wrote and read out loud for you had me in tears. There's so much love in your family, as it always should be ❤
what the heck. Danielle you are AMAZING! SO LOVING! you take care of the grandma as if it was your own mom! you cook & run this household w/out any complaints or attitude? I don't know many asian women who would do as much as Danielle does. How can the husband not love her? She's seriously an angel!!! I'm glad they appreciate her!
Father in law is so appreciative of her taking care of his old mum. He opened up more, and he is even willing to give his apt and move out after his mum passes away for his son and daughter in law. To me father in law is amazing as well
@@OctPSfever I would not want him to move out at all, he is important for the life of the little one and he is old, too. Will he live forever? They need to cherish the time, he is still with them.
I think many asian women would do as much, but I feel what you say. Yes she is amazing and the entire family looks so lovely and kind. Everyone of them is precious.
It IS for the show only. Asian parents are difficult tout live with. Your child IS not yours...
Danielle is a nice woman and I'm just happy that her husband's family appreciates and treasures her
Ubi is a very nice girl. She's fun and outspoken also. The parents did a good job in raising her.
haha it's really funny that the moment the father-in-law steps in the car he immediately becomes a different person!
She should only speak French and/or English to her daughter so that she becomes fully bi or even trilingual.
exactly! + she’s really young so it’s perfect age to learn as many as possible
yeah, she'll appreciate it when she's older!
I believe she only spoke Korean because of the show
Look at you. Telling someone what they should do that you don’t even know. Classic internet people, hahaha
Easy said than done
This family is so lovely. They may not always understand each other but we can see that they care about each other ✨
Father-in-law is quite lovable,grandmother is so sweet,daughter-in-law is very special and the baby is ADORABLE!! This family unit is BEAUTIFUL!
❤😊
"Father in law doesn't converse much"
Put that man in a car and he won't stop ahhahahaha I love it
My heart is full. It was so nice to see your father in law express how he feels. It is not easy, but he was strong.🥰🇨🇦😘
Danielle is so beautiful.. heart and soul. thanks for being so good to grandma. Wonderful wife.
the man tells to hurry up, but they didnt help with the cooking to help !
This french lady is an angel.. so nice to take care family of her husband…. Little girl is so cute…. This family is so loving….
Thinking from another perspective, Dad probably wants his mom to live her last days taken care by the family in a traditional way (kind of filial love), he seems like he doesn't want to burden his son and dil personal life as well. Hope they are living happily and healthy!
Beautiful episode!! I loved how everyone interacted and made an effort to understand each other.
She takes such a good care of her in-laws. She is amazing for learning not only a language but also the cuisine. The husband is really lucky.
But where is the French influence? She’s left her culture totally.
the first 45 seconds are the cutest i've ever seen in my life. ubi's voice and personality is so cute !!!
정말 대단한 며느님
한국 며느님보다 더 효부입니다
문화도 많이 다르고 특히나 시부모님 과 한집에서 산다는 자체가
엄청난 일이네요 결코 쉬운일이 아니지요 효부상을 지자체든 정부든
줘야 마땅하다 봅니다.
복받을거예요 다니엘씨
부디 건강하고 모두함께 행복하세요~
Awww that really sweet I’m so happy to see a family that can get along so well ❤
Act as a housekeeper and short order chef, put your child in daycare so you can go out and work to bring in a good salary to spend on the others. Everyone else will say how well they get along with you.
Father is so thankful for Danielle' taking care of his old mum. He is a giving tree although he doesnt express his heart much
This family is too cute to handle! Real life Hallmark movie
Danielle is an admirable wife and I hope people respect also if this is her choice and if this really makes her truly happy to take care of her second family. Although it is not everyone's cup of tea, not everyone came from the same roots or influence. So I think everyone has a valid point whether they like to live or not in a multi-generation household. Just because people don't like this kind of set up because of their personal experience, it doesn't mean it's okay to invalidate those people who want to live in this kind of set-up. Everyone has their own choice and reasons and to be realistic as well, more importantly not to forget respect and boundaries
Proud of her she represents French people real values ❤
Dude that kid is so sweet, she's so happy all the time and nice to others :)
Why should an Indian sitting in a city near Mumbai, find this video an interesting watch. Oh, but i did. Because human emotions are universal. And a foreign heart too can speak with you; heart to heart ..............
I cried like 4 times, such a beautiful family
Ok this is the sweetest family ever 🥰 ❤
Oh ! As a French/Korean family I really enjoyed watching this video! Also this video makes me realise that I have to speak more in French to my son because he naturally chose to speak only in Korean..
please do they learn anything you teach them as a French/Brazilian family leaving in the UK we taught our children both our languages and they are quite good at it and it is very rewarding.
@@estermartins8466 Yes he understand both French and Korean and he is also learning English now since he is going to daycare
@@kjinefamily super 👏c est vraiment important qu ils puissent communiquer avec les deux familles ☺️
@@estermartins8466 Oui! Et les enfants sont très intelligents. Mon fils sait quand il doit parler en Français, en Coréen ou en Anglais 😄
@@kjinefamily exactement ils traduisent automatiquement ce qu'on leur demande de dire à l autre personne par example c est génial.
This was so beautiful! ❤
this was very touching. what a lovely living situation.
Ubi, is adorable! 🥰 Danielle is a wonderful caring daughter in-law 🙏🌎
This is an INSPIRATIONAL STORY. May the FAMILY be continually BLESSED in EVERY WAY. I really love the dynamics of each family member. UBI is BEAUTIFUL. 🙆🏻♀️❤️🔥
Please speak French and English to her. She will have it so much easier when she is grown up
Wishing you a lovely happy marriage. There will always be cultural and generation barriers. But when all is said and done you will always come to appreciate and cherish the memories.
They are so cute altogether, i hope they stay together. To receive love one must also accept it and i feel they are open for each other
Such a wonderful family
Ubi is so cute and well mannered. god bless this fam.
Its nice to see this family esp Daniele sincerely luv d gramdma n fathwr in law. Kudos to u Daniele n may u live happily ever after till eternity.
I love this way of living ❤
❤❤❤very loving and caring to the family she is beautiful and had a good heart. Same to pilipinos we are like that .
I love this channel so much.
The father needs big hug from his son
Ubi so cute, adorable and smart.
Danielle is an amazing daughter-in-law.
Belle vidéo… très touchante… leur vie est harmonieuse et heureuse 😊🙏💖
Thank you for the longer videos 🙏🏽
Just beautiful!😍😍
C'est très chou, Danielle tu es chou et ta famille aussi. Bravo à vous et soyez heureux! kkkkk
th little girl is adorabl as heck. father in law needs to step down and relax
What a wonderful giving woman Danielle is!
I loved the grandpa he was adorable giving Ubi snacks
I cant believe everyone is so sweet to eachothrt😭😭😭
와 너무 귀여워
Husband seems like a super sweet guy. And he's handsome lol
Congratulation and may love and patience be with you always😘
UBI IS SUPER PRETTYYY
Kia ora family, first time looking forward 2 watching yous all❤
Beautiful
I might be bias since I'm half Asian but imo,half mixed race babies are adorable. Wayyyyyy back when was a kid,I was bullied by my peers bcz I wasn't enough of one race and vice versa but my parents always told us that we are the mixture of the best of both ethnicities. And that what makes us special.
moi j'aime Super junior , bravo Danielle tu as une tres belle famille
Muy cansado pero la recompensa es grande yno hablo de material sino de el amor de familia espero ella ee cuide y se cuiden entre todos❤
Danielle i am very happy for you❤ I’m Asian n my husband is French, his father always belittle me always even when comes to me eating spicy food,,, now living in France , I feel down,, no support from my husband … I’m so so happy for you God bless 💖🙏🙏🙏
So sorry to hear that. Your husband should stand UP for you. I Hope it will get better
@@christine-my3gd never since he made us move to his country … hard to breath typing …. Sorry ..
@@cinziabeck954 it's a shame really! I Hope you can move back he doesnt seem respectful AT all
Hope you find strength to get your happiness, i hope that better days are coming for you... so sorry to hear your experience
I have 3 kids so it’s not easy to make a decision …
성과 이름이 진짜 여우비? 예쁘네요
여우가 시집가자 그 여우를 사랑했던 구름이 햇볕에 살짝 내리는 슬픈 눈물
If someone told me to hurry up and cook the meal I would never cook again out of spite hahhaa
same 😂
다니엘이 천사네요.....
That's not true. I am french. Of course we try to don't give too much sweet but children still eat them. Tge mom is just a little picky like a lot of first time mom. It usually become way more relaxed with second child
I think people didn’t watch the full video … so many upset people in the comments about her being a “maid”, but actually I think she enjoys this kind of stuff. This makes her feel closer to her family and she’s able to express her feelings openly to her father in law even if he doesn’t understand her well. At the end her grandmother in law and father in law both express their gratitude towards her. You can tell that she loves them all and they love her back. This isn’t “maid” work. She’s a family woman and is doing a good job of taking care of her family as well as her family taking care of her in return.
Will Asian daughter in law cooks 3 meals a day? Let alone wash grandma-in- law's hair, bring grandma to toilet like this french girl.
Her virture has already surpasses many Asian woman.
I hope the father in law will really appreciate her, clean up after himself. And hubby will dote on her & helps with chores.
Well-said
My father in law also trains me to drive))
Is danielle french or italian? Still a bit confused, from the country she rise up is Nice / Italy, but the flag and her languange represent French. 😅
As for our non Asian friends, it is very common in Asia, a married couple live with their parent or even with their grandparent. Because in Asian culture, Parent and grandparent are very respected person and as a son, their duty to take care of their parent rest of their life. But nowdays, many married couples choose to live seperately from their parent.
In this case, I salute to Danielle, she can catch up to his husband culture and take care her in law and grandmother kindly and lovely. She is very patient and mature. What she done is very rare could we seen nowdays. Hope you all live happily ever after.
Hello, Nice is actually located in France (from 1860 :) .
@@-martilife- thank you for the correction. Have a nice day
My grandpa is the same 😅 he would hide and feed me snacks, pick mee up from school and carry me to the mall, and we got into trouble
After watching this episode I now feel like if she can do it I can do it too.
So many crazy kpop fans ending up in a korean nightmare after finding their kpop husband, it's hilarious how many there are.
다니엘씨 복받으세요.
먹는 문제는 다니엘이 맞다. 아이는 어른과 다름.
할아버지 할머니 식사준비룰 왜 혼자 해요…? 식모 부리 듯…? 할아버지 step down하라는 댓글 좀 보세요…
노인네들이 시대 적응 못하고…. 19세기처럼 농경사회처럼 며느리 식모 삼고 살고 싶어하는게 참 답답하다…. 식당이나 노인정 좀 가세요…
i have fish sauce ! i’ll add a little next time i make my soft tofu stew !
It's common here in Asia.
This is a loving family story. The funny is most viewers comment on this video, probably without watching the whole video or read the subtitle properly.
Of course the daughter in law is very nice helping and living with her farher in law and grandmother. But before living with the elders, the couple live in a very small apartment. Living in her father in law much bigger house, must be great compared to the small apartment before and (its my guess) its free rent.
So its win win situation for all the persons in the family.
Ubi in Malaysia language is potato
Canadians like Korean people. They are friendly like us.
LMAO I love the grandpa eating snacks but yeah that parents should let ubi eat some (not a lot cause kids eating junk is bad still it's just cutting off completely will make ubi want more if she sees other kids with snacks that she can never eat) snacks because if you completely get rid of snacks the kid will want to eat a lot of snacks whenever they can when they're a teen which can actually lead to diabetes because whenever there is a restriction the kid always wants more so she might eat so much at school cause korea has a bunch of snack places near schools but for now ubi isn't wanting it either way but when she's a teen that will probably change.
dad seem misunderstood. he very kind and talk alot. seem they just never tried before this bcuz of language barrier. teaches her to cook and drive... and honestly not knowing how to cook the most simple korean dish is embaressing, still he did not complain.
No I believe he was very rude and that he could’ve been nicer actually I think he’s been spoiled his whole life so he doesn’t know how to do anything himself and relies on others to do so while he complain and tells them to “do better next time” very disrespectful
혼자 못 감는 할머니 랑 사는게 얼마나 힘든지 ? 미국선 도우미가 와서 도와 주는데 보험으로 되지요 . 불란서 여자가 간호사로 살고 있으니 !
참,, 잘낮어요
Id hate to marry and live with my husbands family members AND take care of them. NOPE. Props to her.
She's like a maid & carer but she seems fine with it
If you arent used to multi gen living then you wouldn’t understand. It’s better to pool resources than to live separately. They weren’t living in a great place before the dad asked them to move in. So it’s a win win situation
If cooking and taking care your family is like a maid for you then you may have a bad family example. Feel sorry for you..
My dad was bedridden for the last few years of his life 70 y/o. Taking care of him was hard, but I would NEVER regret doing so. Sorry you don't see the privelage in taking care of your relatives. If her in-laws were cold/abusive to her, we would have seen a spect of resentment at the very least. They seem like a loving normal family to me.
@@henrydcat6725you know what you're saying is inhumane right ? it's ur choice to take care or not but people do realize that whether you accept it or not you're marrying the person and the family that comes with it helping and caring for each others is maid work ??! wtf + we don't really know their personal lives mabye she's okay with that that's the individualism western mindset you can keep for yourself
I'm south Italian.
My mom lived with her in laws for two years because my father had to find a stable job first. She never recommends to do so, her life was infernal there. Above all because she was only 24 and her sister in law lived there too and was especially mean to her... Without counting that brothers in law and respective wives were a pain too. In laws weren't very welcoming and she gave birth to two of my brothers while living with them and felt very lonely. There were funny moments too but most of the times the environment was truly toxic. If you think about it... Strangers meet, not knowing one another well and are forced to live together no matter what. When my father finally found a job worth of the name it has, they finally left and started their lives from scratch. Their house was empty, almost a ruin, but mom felt happy just being alone with her husband and children, nobody butting in, giving side eyes or complaining and mean words.
I would never live with other people, no matter how close to me they can be. My life with my husband is my own. Nobody, aside from my husband, must dare to judge the way I cook or must order me to cook because they have to go to work. That's selfish. My husband is one thing, his father is another. If they need a servant so much, they must hire one. Of course help is important and is also important to give respect to elders, cook out of pleasure... But someone must marry for love and must serve their partner and no one else.
Yeah, it would be trying for most women. Not sure why she does it, but it seems to work for her. I hope her children will at least learn from her example and take good care of their mother always.
Nice father-in law
crazy his father is a perfect example of how men dobt know how to simple things and take care if themselces. always expecting women to clean their shit and make everything f
or them
Where is MIL?
she practically minding 3 children and a husband
육아
시할머니 시아버지 부양
집안일
일
나는 못해
다니엘 그녀니까 할 수 있는거야
칼칼, 깊은 맛 = 액젓 인 경우가 많습니다
We Asian cries easily ❤❤❤
She IS french. She should speak french language with her daughter AT home. It seems not!?
Difference in appearance? She looks very much korean. If I didn’t know her mom is a foreigner, I’d think she’s korean.
The daughter clearly looks mixed, not full Korean. She also looks almost identical to her western mum’s childhood photos.
@@gracea3594 dark hair, dark eyes, similar eyes…not very different at first glance. Now if she was a light haired light eyed kid I’d get it. She’s not so different in appearance that children should feel hesitant to play with her.
ㅏ9ㅑ 요새 한국 며느리도 안 하는 된 시집살이를 !!!
고급인력을 식모, 도움이, 간병인으로 쓰다니?
합가한것을 이유로 며느리한테 이걸 해내라 저걸 해내라 하는 문화는 뭐지?
67 이면 새파란 나이인데 혼자 만들어먹든지 밖에 나가서 사먹든지 하겠다.
며느리한테 음식 만들어달라는 말이 어찌 나오노?
차라리 따로 살겠다.
참,,잘낮어요
How many foreign Western women in Korea take care of their FIL and GIL? She is extraordinary.