Answering your Most Uncomfortable Questions
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Always fun to share your most intimate thoughts and feelings online 😅 Hope you'll like the video ❤🌲
Fun and emotional😊
The unofficial term in American English is "Hangry." Lol.
Hungry + Angry = "Hangry". 😉
@@roadrunner5481 This... except the mice might eat the toilet paper. 🤔
I would looooove to know your star signs - Christine reminds me of a scorpio!
I am 42 years old and when i started working at 19 the older men told me that you spend 8 to 9 hours with the people at work but onely a few hours a day with the lady you love and that is true
Your lifes sound better 👏
As a father I can tell you, don't overthink possible personal flaws. I had a child unplanned in a difficult situation, but it's the most valuable part of my life now.
You just called your child IT
Love is when kalle sitting on the background to let his woman sitting in the front. So we can see that she is the most important person in his life. 💚
That's called getting more views 😉
I think in the relationship all the childhood traumas come up or experiences as a trigger and it's a blessing to find a partner who is going to be on the healing journey with you together.
So so true❤thank you
"Sometimes all this hard work makes me feel so alive." Christine - that is a secret you have discovered, many of us middle class westerners never learn it - things that take us to our edge - also take us deeper into life. As to the tears - all good, tears are an evolutionary advantage - humans who don't cry are LESS evolved. I cry from time to time (105kg, 183cm, shaved head, long red beard ...) and I feel GOOD about that, I feel strong to be connected easily to my emotional truth. I don't cry and quit - I cry, learn something, feel a bit of 'release' and then keep going. It sounds like you do the same - that is a strong thing, be proud of it.
Christine, your laughter is so contagious and I love it.
I can be with my cat every day for hours, and every night, and I never get tired with my kitty. 😾 Love him so.
Large part of love is "enduring" the annoying thing. Accepting, sometimes letting go.
Love is inspite, not just because
My wife occasionally does things that annoy me (and vise versa), but if something ever happens to her and she is no longer around, oh how I would miss those things.
@@wayneblanchard 👍 Know the feeling
I love hearing Christine laughing!
We have a cabin in the woods in the UP Michigan we are going to be living there full time in the next month- but talking about mice- we put peppermint oil everywhere- clean with it- and put it on cotton balls and put in all the drawers and it has helped and smells amazing..
Funny logbook entries from airplanes and how maintainance reacted: Problem: _Mouse on board._ Written solution suggested by mechanics: _Install. Cat._
(I think in reality the mouse was removed and quickly. Not only would it freak out the passengers, a rodent could be a hazard. If it gets to the innards of the plane and eats at cables. There is a backup for everyting that is crucial ... but in reality sometimes unexpected things coincide.
Maybe you could get a local cat - that might be trained by the mother not to stray or it will be eaten by wildlife.
I’m 70 years old. I have tears running down my face. You two are such an amazing couple. Your living my dream. Your a lucky man and she is a lucky woman.❤
Christine, I totally understand your frustration about the children question. Even if you do want kids, there is so much pressure on women to start a family and do it as soon as possible, and it can be really overwhelming and make you feel like you lose value as an individual person. I'm 35 and just a few weeks away from having my first baby, and I have been asked those questions for years and years. When I got married, the first thing people asked was "when are you having kids?" And even when we decided to have a baby, we struggled with infertility for three years before we got pregnant, and that question really hurt because I didn't know the answer. I really wish people would just stop asking at all. If it happens, it happens, and if you decide you don't want kids, that's fine too! It's nobody's business but yours and Kalle's.
It's brutal. I don't think people understand how rude and hurtful it can be. Specially if you are dealing with infertility problems. They just add unnecessary pressure. And if your choice is just not having children... it's even more brutal.
@Säker tagning have heard of infertility? .... Distracted? Trolling?
@Säker tagning yes. It's very hard and you don't necessarily have to tell everyone that asks your medical troubles, so people should have discernment and stop with the questioning. If someone choses not to have children should be respected too. Only they know their reasons. We are not on this world to judge eachother. I sure know a lot of people that had children and have zero patience, that provide food and a roof but lack on the emotional side. We live in a very selfish society and more than ever the meaning of family is disintegrating and being attacked and people are none the wiser.
A new life is a miracle.
Oh this was so heartwarming! And ps: the questions about the children NEVER stop no matter what you do. At first it's like when when when, then we had a boy and then it was like 'oh are you going to try for a girl??' then we had a second baby, and she is a girl, and since then it's been like 'so, are you done now? Are you dine now?' No, we had another... 'but now you're done right? Don't you have your hands full? Oh but you really must have your hands full, you're done now, right?' Ugh lol. Can't please people, so just do what you do and don't let them bother you ❤
Well when a child comes into the world you can’t really blame it’s family members for pestering their other family member about them 😆
@@Saber23yes you can blame the people asking shitty questions
The two of you are so wholesome and hilarious it melts my heart 😭😂❤️ I hope you can make a video talking about how the two of you met and came together, I feel like it must be such an interesting story!
Aw, you're so sweet ❤ Yea, that video is coming later this year! 😊
I'd love to hear that story, too! :)
Kalle is like me. I can’t move forward until we have ironed every crease.
And I love how confident and self aware Christine is. ♥️
Children are a gift and the two of you will embrace the changes this brings to your busy lives. Christine wanting a clean & neat home environment is the only way to function. I could never live in a messy chaotic home. I loved your honesty in this video.
"what if i want to propose?" LOL christine i love that response! and then kalle is like "that's not going to happen" LOOOOOL you two are so cuuuuute! this video is bringing me so much joy today, thank you!
"Perfect!" Great job!
My sister did not have her first child till 39, 2nd at 42, it’s your life, you will know when your time is right 👍
Couldn’t have explained having a clean more better. So true!
Love Nathaniel Drew! Toilet Paper...you just need a big stick or rod so you can stack about 6 rolls at a time...or a big beautiful basket..protected from any critters...thanks for sharing!
you guys, are really good people. Looking healthy, sparkling eyes.. and Kalle, you are manly but also a sweet guy in one body, love that kind of guys .Wish you all the luck!
“And in the end, the love you take
is equal to the love you make” (Paul McCartney)
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aw, that was good fun! thanks for sharing ☺️🌻
P.S., ‘when we decide to’ is a complete response to ‘when are you going to have kids?’ you don’t owe anybody answers to that question!
Thank you for being so honest - I would say one big challenge could be if kids come along and you really want your parents nearby - especially the mum needing her parents.
I identify with cristina in having a clean house, my head is not clear if everthing is dirty or messy but I also identify with you kelly in relation to being in a bad mood if I don't eat 😅😅😅 my husband know me well, when that happened he send me to eat 🤣
Thank you for sharing these intimate things with us. Corage and paciente for you guys send you a lot of love
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Wonderful Christine, she knows her stuff! Confident, touching, Christine inspires everybody who want to pursue their passions and lifestyle. Yes, I love you both, you are so intelligent and clairvoyant
Perhaps you mean intuitive rather than clairvoyant ?
@@karobythell4425 Hi. Good thinking
We call that “hangry” meaning, “ I’m hungry! It’s making me I’ll.”
That’s why I’m plump! 😂😂😂😂
She is the definition of what a elegant, rational woman should be. Kalle you did good mate. I wish you two the best forever.
Ha, ha, I like more of a messy house then worrying about constantly dealing with cleaning all the time.
Really love you guys honesty ❤️
Open and honest video, thank you🦋
Great question and answer session.
Beautiful video! Congratulations!
You two are so lovely, love her energy and laugh. I was smiling the whole time watching this. Good vibes 💜
Thank you both for talking so honestly.
Love how game you both are in this!
Brand New to your channel, love it!
Just found you. You are delightful! Thank you for sharing.
Lovely honest couple. Love watching ya. Genuine 👍
Inspiring and heartwarming!
Thank you 😊❤
19:03 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you for sharing this christine, you did it so eloquently and beautifully. i have been through the same thing and i shut down as a way to protect myself as well. you're not alone. i'm so glad kalle is so understanding and advocates for you to communicate while being a safe person. thank you so, so much both of you for being so open ❤️
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You have a great channel. Very well done👍
How very precious you too are together! So sweet and honest :)
This was a very enjoyable video ! Thanks for sharing your life with us !
Two lovely, genuine souls ❤❤
You are both so inspiring… Such a beautiful couple
I just discovered your channel. People like you give me hope for the future.
Loved this you guys. Beautiful video. 🌻💖
I'm happy you liked it 😊❤
TH-cam suggested your channel. I’m so happy it did. Y’all are adorable. Love your content.
So nice Kalle and Christine! Thanks for this beautiful time with you chatting about interesting topics!
Ahhh loved the chat..well done on 103k 🤗🇬🇧💕
I'm so happy you liked it 🥰 Thank you Suzanne ❤
This was a nice video, I'm happy for you two..
You guys are so adorable and perfect for each Other!!!
All the love to you guys
Thank you Max ❤💪
I just love watching the two of you in your video, greetings from Australia 👍🇦🇺❤️
So nice to meet both of you! Thanks for sharing all of this! For your mice issue, you should get a cat. When you have a cat, mice won't even go near the house because they will smell the cat. I've had a cat for years now and my fiance and I never have issues with mice in our home. Sending you both all the best!
Aww, I love your fur babies. Such beautiful faces. Beautiful family!! Thank you for sharin.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings... very generous of you both😊
Thank you for adding to my entertainment along with Talasbuan.
Noble values, teamwork, wisdom.
That was interesting. Thanks for sharing!
SSSSSoooooooo honest you two.Just love it.Watched your video smiling all the way.Merci from Québec.
I found your channel and I have to say that I have enjoyed watching some of your videos. I also subscribed to it! I'm looking forward to seeing your journey. God Bless you both!!
Hahaha, mid video ad was perfectly timed! Lovely video, thanks for sharing!
Happy you noticed that 😉❤ Thank you!
Just started watching your series, awesome content, visuals and editing. Enjoying your messages also. I will add that I also live by the idea treat people how you would be treated, and tell me what you need and ask for what you want. Looking forward to catch8ng up on your stories. Congrats and all the best. Cheers Michael
I can relate to so many things you mentioned.
Inspiring video, thank you so much for opening up!
I love seeing how you two are in each other's company. :)
I loved this. you are both so natural and honest its lovely to get to know you both and it makes your wonderful videos even more enjoyable. Thank you so much for what you both do for us, my husband and I are catching up with all your videos starting at the beginnging. its May 23 so we've got lots more to look forward to.
I love you both🥺♥️....May God bless you...and you always be with eachother....take care of yourselves....... you both are so good together♥️
Vilket underbart skratt hon har. Man blir ju bara så glad! 😃💕
Nominating what is coming up or what we feel that is not true to the Love we are is such a powerful tool to heal ✨💖✨
Your hair looks great, Christine!!! 🥰🥰🥰 You guys are so sweet!!! Thank you for being real and sharing so much! 👍👍👍👍
I didn't know I needed this Q&A but wow! I love the answers! You and Christine are lovely together.
Also I know that feeling of 'can we change the topic?' when someone asks my boyfriend and me when are we getting married, when are we having children? 'Can we change the topic? I don't have to explain myself to you' You know? We've been together for eleven years - coming next month Sept 17th. So yes, just be happy, enjoy each other and your beautiful home. When you both are ready you'll know. I look forward to new Q&As in the future and the ebooks. Thank you for sharing and keep on smiling! 😊 ❤ ❤
What a treat it was to watch and listen to you guys... Wow... what a lovely chemistry you have. Very refreshing and so natural. Thank you for sharing!
New follower - you guys are awesome!
it's so beautiful to see how well you fit together. I didn't ask any questions, but it was fun to see what others asked and to hear your answers
So interesting to hear how you solve those everyday worries and how you have put your life puzzle together.
you guys are absolutely AMAZING together, talk about a perfect match, really feels like it and her laugh is so contagious, Kalle make he laugh more and more... I can only imagine the beautiful family you will have and I can't wait what the future holds for you both !!!!!
Christine has the best laugh! Adorable! You are a beautiful couple!
You are such a lovely couple. Thank you for sharing your life. All the best to you.
Christina, you have the most amazing beautiful skin!!!! I saw this video earlier and now coming back to comment after watching the video on “She had no idea” video where Kalle mentioned your skin also reflecting your stress and needing healing. Your gorgeous skin was the first thing I noticed in this video and your skin is GLOWING with health! God bless!!
I love the way you are speaking your issues out loud with each other. I really do believe that is one of the key elements of well-working relationships. Good video guys, thanks for sharing 😉👍
This was a great watch, thanks! As a British guy living in Sweden, it’s always nice to hear perspectives like these. Particularly your thoughts on the ‘children’ topic, as we’re a young family about to grow by one more.
Love you two,..I can so relate with you Christine, you are inspiring and I feel like you could be a friend to me!!! 😘🥰😇
Really refreshing that your sharing so openly about what you find annoying about each other and arguements. Absolutely agree with talking it out. If you never argue, it might mean one of you is bottling up or being a door mat. Neither is healthy. You grow together
You are both awesome. It is so refreshing to watch and listen to you. This is wonderful really. I have very recently found your channel but I am already following your journey with huge interest and caring. I am an older lady that like you both have been dreaming of escaping since I was very young. I was born and lived for my first 4 years in a very isolated country area. But have searched for many years for an opportunity like you have built for yourselves. I wish you all success. You are bringing joy by extension to myself and maybe many others who have had these dreams. Thank you for sharing your efforts and lessons. Xx
Thank you for sharing of yourselves so sincerely. These were very practical topics. You are both very funny and certainly seem to complete each other. Whether you get married or not, or have children or not, or whatever or whatever not, I wish you both many more happy years shared together..
You two are a beautiful couple! Love to watch you share with us. Enjoy your videos.
Thank you so much for your authenticity ! It's a pleasure to hear and see both of you !
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Thank you Christine for speaking about periods in the winter without running water - I've wondered that question for many years! I still have unanswered questions, but I expect I'll have to trial and error it myself due to it being an awkward conversation. Thank you for sharing some thoughts about it!
This episode keep me smiling! I can see how kalle love and respect kristine. on d other hand, i can see kalle being Kristine's constant and rock. Keep on loving!
Hei you two (four 😉),
Me and my family moved to a little cabin in Finnland and we have luxurious running hot water in the kitchen, but no bathroom "just" a sauna. And it can SO hard!!!!! Getting fires going everywhere in the mornings and evenings, showeling tons of snow, frozen waterpipe...but we love it!!! We would never go back to Germany and live in a apartment!!
About the mice...we have a very skilled cat taking care of them. Maybe you think about getting one?
And with having kids...we have two of them and we love them so much and they have so much fun in our garden and look at the all the catterpillars, help my wife in the garden planting veggies and they climb every tree. And your right Kalle it's a team effort. Don't be afraid Christine, you maybe give something up for maybe sometime but you will gain so much by becoming a mom! The children taught me what was really important for me personally. Because even with kids you will make space and time for the important things!
And thanks for doing great videos!
Christine has the best laugh! Great video
Christine, I totally understand your frustration about the children question and this is certainly a private thing between you and Kalle. I just love watching the videos you guys make about how you live in the cabin and surroundings. Just live your own life and there are things that are just private and that is no one else's business. Have a lovely day.
Loved this! That is a good looking couple! Thanks for sharing and answering those questions. Thumbs up! Beth
Christine, your thoughts in relation to moving to Sweden is exactly how I feel! It's something i have been thinking about for several years and really hope i can have that dream come true soon. Even though it's super scary.🙏🏼
AWW What a sweet video, I can relate to pretty much all of it! So interesting too, how the past can be so hard to shake, and how as humans, no matter where we are geographically, we struggle with very similar things and need very similar things. Anyway, made me feel like having a coffee with you guys and chat about life! 🥰💖
Im enjoying watching kalle❤❤
Happy you liked it Grace 😊
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I had my first kid when I was 36 and my second at 38 and I don’t regret it. Live your life’s to fullest first as a couple. You guys are a wonderful pair. Thank you for sharing a little bit of your personal life. Be safe!😘🤗🌼🇻🇪
This was fun. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for taking the time to watch it Cathy ❤
At 25.50 my first thought: "A bat!"
Then I realised it was just the dog shaking its body. 😅
Thanks for the video! 💙 x