I hope these 2 past stories may told will bring courage to all women especially in the hmong community to come out, step out, and speak out loud! We need more support like this. Another woman's story can be another's strength.
People fail to see, right is right and wrong is wrong. Don't forget men built this world. Name the last thing that was created by women??? I'll be waiting for your empowering women speach.
@@bigkou_916 wow, which woman hurted you? Not going to waste another minute being at your level of perception. Your response is already an empowering reaction to my statement 😉
@@iabeeine8990 No women has hurt me, but it's women like you. Are you a women? My attitude is if you do like it, leave. Youre the type to complain about America's ways, but won't leave. Lol
Amen!!.. sister. I'm agree on everything you said. It's a great opportunities for us to become single again. No one to worries, share you income and paying their debts. We don't new that cheater men to tortured our heart, mine, and life. We have our freedom to do/go anything we want to. Our children are all grown and they love us unconditionally. Thank you for standing strong for our hmong women ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏 also thank you to the AMERICAN DREAMS EQUAL OPPORTUNITIES..
First of all, I am super proud of you!! I want to thank you for sharing your story. You are such a strong and intelligent lady. I am so glad you got out of this abusive relationship and you are so strong in standing up against these old beliefs and people. Yes, I agree 110% with you! The culture and beliefs needs to change and they should be fair. Its so wrong how they still put us hmong women down and take up for their sons. Us hmong women need to stand up and make this culture change. That's why if I know what they are doing is wrong, I stand up! I refused to let anyone do me wrong. May God bless you and I pray for change.
As a husband and father to two beautiful daughters, I wouldn’t allow my son-in-laws to abuse my daughters. If one gets abused and comes to me for help, I will ask her for her decision not mine. Fathers and brothers should protect his daughters/sisters, especially in an abusing relationship and never force her to go back. Only US law will protect abusive relationship and never go to 18 clans.
Them ogs that are still into the old 1975 horse raddish tradition are close to extinction. We the newer generations should bury or ntawg the old tradition with cov niag ntsej muag laus ruam tsab ntse ntawv.
Sister, I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself. Loyalty has an expiration date. Hmong people need to change their old fashioned mindset and culture. Men cheat, women can cheat too. You do you. No need to worry about people's negative words. They only like you when you are good, rich and successful but when you're poor and struggling, nobody cares about you. We need more women esp more Hmong women like you. Setting boundaries for yourself and standing your ground is not evil. Hmong people said you're evil or siab phem but it's not because Hmong people like people who have no boundaries so they can step all over. Do whatever makes you happy sister!!!
Our Hmong women need to form an organization or committee to bring women’s rights together for our children, future, and the community. No wonder our people have no land to be ours, it’s mainly because of these men only focus on themselves.
I definetly agree with her. This is so on point 100%. This tradition is so sexist and messed up. Men rising above women, having so much privilege to cheat and marry so many wives, no wonder this generation a lot of divorcées out there. It don’t matter how good of a nyab you are, they’ll always give him the upper hand regardless of his ways. Don’t try and make her look bad when your sons are the ones who cheat and lie over and over again. Thank god this is America and this generation more women are speaking up for themselves. The law is our only hope if our husbands beat or kill us. Relatives won’t do nothing but say you deserve it only.
Sister you did the right thing. I’m pretty fortunate to have parents that love and support me on my decisions. This is the 20th century, everyone deserves the same respect. Hmong relatives and in laws will NEVER support the woman. It’s sad but hopefully our generation now will not follow the old Hmong folks footsteps. I once told my dad when my sisters got married to donate the money to the police academy instead of giving it to the uncles or relatives because they will never support and love someone else’s daughter.
My advise is to never ever consult marriage problems with the elders (cousin) unless you see no other options. Take care your own problems. Hmong marriage law only benefits men…don’t play with their system. And if you ( the woman) fight the system, you will be viewed as a bad person and they will completely cut tie with you from all future rituals. This is the hard truth and is coming from a man myself. In all seriousness, I agree we need to fix the Hmong marriage counseling system for future to come.
Preach it!! I agree with you 💯!! You're right!! Hmong men/people need to change their disgusting mindset thinking all hmong men have the right to cheat while expecting their wives to stay loyal!
I am a man, but I hate our culture as well. Hmong culture are practiced by the OG hlwb 75. It is disgusting and backward. Cov 18 xeem has no teeth. They are paper tigers.
Hmong txiv neej ces yeej zoo li no..thov kom peb cov poj niam hmoob yuav tsum tswj nrees peb qhov birthright as a human being. good job lady..i hope more hmong women are strong like you.
Hmong women power! This is 21st century. Men and women both had the power. Txiv neej hmoob hais tias lawv muaj cai tham hluas nkauj. Nej txoj cai ntaus thwj liab ploog nyob qhov twg? Vim lawv lub qhov ncauj xwb! Tiamno tshiab no ces peb cov poj niam muaj cai tham hluas nraug ib yam thiab tiag. 😅😆😅 Txhua yam koj hais yeej yog tas nrho tus viv ncaus. Happy for you. You're strong! 👍👍👍👍
Sim neej no ces poj niam hmoob lub tob hau yeej tsa tsis tau ntseg nrog cov txiv neej hmoob li Kuv dhuav hmoob lo lus tias txiv neej thiaj muaj cai poj tsis muaj cai txiv neej txoj cai tham hluas nkauj leej twg yog tus rhawv los tiag tiag yog thaum sib sau los ua neej ua ke lawm txoj cai ua hluas yeej tsis muaj ib yam nkaus tsis hais tus niam los sis yog tus txiv hmoob cov coj yuav tau ua zoo taug hmoob txoj cai kom meej tseeb nawb mog
Tus viv ncaus ua tsaug rau koj zaj neej neeg yog ib qho ua rau peb cov niam tsev nrog koj zoo siab heev li thiab ua rau peb kaj siab zog tuaj nawv mog ua tsaug rau koj
As a hmong man and husband, I agree with you sister. Hmong ppl need to stop using excuses for Hmong men. Our sisters, wife, mother have enough! It’s time for a change! Be strong and do what’s right for yourself and your kids! Men forgot where they really came from!
Congratulations to you sister We need to fight for our right too. Txij no mus tus txiv neej ua dev ces peb pojniam mus tsum kiag xwb vim hmoob txoj Cai yog dev npua Cai xwb peb muaj txoj Cai nyob ameka no Cia peb cov neej tsa teeb liab teeb ntsuab mam nrog peb hais xwb thiaj tag. Kv ntxub hmoob txoj nyiag Cai qia neeg os , yog tus txiv neej twg paub txoj Cai los txiav kom ncaj ces peb mloog hos yog tis tso peb Cai ces muab hlawv kiag xwb zoo dua os mog cov me Viv ncaus.vim yog peb pojniam tsis koom siab cov txiv neej thiaj saub tsis taus peb thiaj muab txhua tus pojniam tsum cuag dev txij no mus sawvdaw tsum los muab txoj Cai dev npua no rhuav thiaj muaj kev vam meej mus tom ntej
Love reading all the comments... I wonder if this is the story that sent the old man yelling at May this morning. Not all women step on men not all men step on women... but boy, when the man that karma came to visit gets a taste of his own medicine... LOVE IT... FACE IT... OWN UP TO IT... LIKE A WOMAN! Times will change. Great story!
Zoo siab ua nej cov ntxhai yug lo nyb rau sab me ka es tseem muaj txoj cai khoo ho peb cov nyb nplog ce yam huab saib g tau cov poj niam li os mloog cov neej neeg nyb teb chaw meka ma yg ib lub teb chaw xi rau cov poj niam hmoob nyb kg li
Tiam nees nkaum ib no, peb cov poj niam hmoob sawv los nrhiav kev ncaj ncees rau peb lawm. Zoo siab heev uas peb feem coob tsis kam raug caij tsuj li yav thaum ub. Ntxub cov kwv tij thiab neej tsa uas pheej hais tias yus yog poj niam lawm ces kom yus kaj tsij ua siab ntev thiab uv kom tiag. Thaum yus tsis kam uv es yus ua tiag tiag tuaj rau lawv mas, lawv ho ua tsis tau siab ntev thiab uv tsis tau yus.
Nej cov poj niam txhob poob siab cov niag txiv neej hmoob laus twb tuag yuav tag cov me nyuam tuaj yug teb chaws no loj hlob tuaj lawv tsis coj hmoob cov niag kev cai uas peb hmoob hu ua dev npua cai no lawm os
Nco ntsoov Hmoob tsis muaj ib txog cai sau nyob twg. Hmoob txog cai yog dev npua cai xwb. Leejtwg yuav ua li cas los tau. that's why txivneej muajcai pojniam tsis muajcai. Nyias ua li lub siab xwb yog dev npua cai. who cares dev npua cai. yog leejtwg coj li dev npua cai ces thiaj li raug ntaus, raug ncaws, thiam cem li tej tsiaj. wake up Hmong people. txhob cia luag them ib pob nyiaj rau rau yus thaum luag tuaj yuav yus tus ntxhais. cia ob tog niamtxiv sib pab tej menyuam kev sib sau ua neej. lawv thiaj li muaj cai sib luag. proud of you sister but you already been hurt so much. forgive them and move forward so that your hurt will be heal and you will be happy. Peace to you.
Hmoob ntshaw kom nyob muaj nom muaj tswv. Niaj hnub no peb Hmoob meskas nyob muaj nom muaj tswv lawm, txhob cia neej tsa thiab kwvtij muab yus yuam nyob kom txog hnub sib tua
Ua li koj txoj kev koj nyiam nawb tus muam. Koj ua tsis tau li koj nyiam ces koj kawg mob siab tuag. Kuv paj nrog nej cov poj niam uas nej muaj hmoo nyob rau USA..
Kj hais yog tshaj plaws li os niam laus cas los ua neeg es yuav raug txiv neej tsim txom tsaj lawm li os tu siab heev li os yog lawm yus li neej tsa ces yog tub ceem xwm xwb os
Yog tshaj plaws peb cov niam tsev na qhov uv tau peb mam uv qhov uv tsis tau yuav tau txhob uv uv. Cov txiv neej hmoob no muaj plhus dhau lawm. Yuav tau xyaum tus niam tsev no nawb.
This story is good samples for Hmoob people to wake up, I am supporting you sister you did good to protect your self,so sorry that your own family did support you but is not every family doing that I know my parents and my brother is well known but he not going to let that happen to me plus we are this United freedom for women thank God’s for that
Yes sis!!!! You keep doing you!! I'm right there with you & totally understand!! You deserve more than any of these stupid relatives & family members who are only there to put you down! I'm sorry but not sorry to say all these ignorant people who feel that it's a man's right to cheat can go to hell! If you don't educate our sons & daughters to be better human beings they'll all turn out to be shii heads like the men in this story! Not to disrespect Hmong men but fk all those feel that they are superior to woman! Our husband's are our partner in life.. NOT our masters ! Sorry you had to go through this sis but thank goodness you know your self worth!
Txhua yam koj hais no kuv agree nrog koj 100%. Cov neej tsa Los xuab ua luaj kwv tij Los xuab ua luaj tsis ncaj ncees koj mus ua mis Kas kev Cai rau xwb mas yog tshaj plaws. Ua siab loj muab laws kiv Kom ti ntsa ces yog hauj lwm xwb mas tus ntxhais aw. Koj yog ib tug niam muaj peev xwm kawg li.
Nkauj hmoob koj yuav zoo nkauj npaum li cas los hnub twg los hnav dub xwb thiab tsis pom koj lub me cev nkauj xwb ces tsis pom koj ntxim hlub li hnav kom pom koj lub me cev nkauj xwb thiab thiaj tsim nyog koj txoj me kev zoo zoo nkauj ok
I wish all hmong women think like u so we all don't disturb each other lives . All poj nrauj needs to think of themselves worthy. Not til we, hmong woman think like this . We will not change the men decisions of putting us down when comes to negotiations. I hope your story wake up some of our women's head. ( this part 4 niam ntuab theev )Keep these stories coming. In hope that it will be a wake up call 4 hmong pojniam
Koj hais thiab ua yog lawm os tus viv ncaus cov kw tij thiab neej tsa ces zoo ib yam xwb os cov neej tsa yuav muab txoj cai rau tus ntxhais ces lawv tos thaum tuag .taglawm ces lawv tuaj nplua 1200 xwb ces lawv twb zoo sab lawm tias lawv yeej lawm . Nrauj tag nrho ces mus church kiag xwb mog .
Hmong women's only friends and relatives is the law of the United States. When it comes to marital problems ask for help from your "green light red light" relatives not from hmong people!!
Hmong men would say that if red lights green lights is her relatives, she should ask them to take care of her in sickness and death. I say, just make a will. Nobody is going to let you rot if you die in this country. 😆
Me los niam tnsuabteev ua tsaug ntau nawb koj hais tau zoo kawg tus phem thiaj phem tus zoo cia zoo yog li koj ua tus cev lus hais koj hais kawg zaj xwb txoj kev yuav ncaj ncees yuav tsum mus txhawb qa hmoob kavmeej thiaj pab tau txhua yam xwb mog
Kj hais yog lawm os kv tsis paub tias cas cov txiv neej uas mas pheej tias txiv neej muaj cai ua ho peb cov poj niam ib nyuag ua mas peb yog tus txhaum no peb hmoob mas yeej tsis pab peb yog li no peb thiaj mus rau nram xaam xwb os kv los raug li kj khej thiab ntag os meviv ncaus kv thiaj yog poj nrauj lawm os peb thiaj tsis xav yuav txiv lawm os
Txiv neej hmoob txoj caij muaj tham hluas nkauj .quav dev rau tiam 21 ...poj niam txiv neej vaj huam sib luag...yog nws coj ncaj ces kuv fwm nws...yog nws coj ncaj kuv cia li Liam aws kuv yog tus txhaum...tiam si nws yog tus Liam ces u kawg Liam thiaj phim...twb tias yus tus txiv tub sab ces yus tub sab...nws tub nkeeg ces yus tub nkeeg ces nws tham hluas nkauj ces kuv kuj tham hluas nraug...tej chaw me ka no txoj nyob ntug ntoob tias yog koj tus poj niam tsi yeej yuav koj ces koj yuam ces koj mag ntes xwb....
I’m so proud of you sister for stand up for your right. He teach you how to cheat. Good for you… don’t look back. Keep on moving. You did the right thing.
You are so right sister. No need to be advise by the others. You are free to decide for your own life because no one would feed you and give you money.
We are same human beings , and now we live in the country of law that made from the bible. We must treat each other as equal as the law. No one important than others . I support your thoughts, but next time try not to fight back by yourself bur pray god to open the ath for you yo go my dear friend, may our lord continue to lead your family ‘s future, Gid bless you
I agree with you 💯!!! I’ve always dislike the gender inequality in the Hmong Culture, that is why I refuse to listen to anyone when it comes to lecturing from a male’s prospective about how he has more rights over a woman just because he is a man. So proud of you for standing up for us Hmong Women!
Yog nej cov kwv tij neej tsa pheej kom nej cov poj niam ua siab ntev thiab tuaj tus txiv tog xwb ces mus Meskas txoj cai muab niag txiv siab phem nrauj kiag xwb, teb chaws no lawm nom tswv mas hlub nej txhob tos txiv neej HMoob los cai HMOOB uas tsis siab zoo rau oeb cov poj niam....
Cas yov tu siab yug los nyob nplog teb twb g muaj ib txoj cai twg los pab tau yus li lm os tu siab tiag neej tsa lospab tsis tau kwv tij los hais g tau
Zoo siab rau koj os.. me viv ncaus koj ua tau niam kawg xav kom peb cov poj niam ua tau lub siab tawv li koj xwb os....
I hope these 2 past stories may told will bring courage to all women especially in the hmong community to come out, step out, and speak out loud! We need more support like this. Another woman's story can be another's strength.
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People fail to see, right is right and wrong is wrong. Don't forget men built this world. Name the last thing that was created by women??? I'll be waiting for your empowering women speach.
@@bigkou_916 wow, which woman hurted you? Not going to waste another minute being at your level of perception. Your response is already an empowering reaction to my statement 😉
@@iabeeine8990 No women has hurt me, but it's women like you. Are you a women? My attitude is if you do like it, leave. Youre the type to complain about America's ways, but won't leave. Lol
@@bigkou_916 your grammars speaks louder about you 🤭 have a bless day ❤️
Yes I agree to this story! 100! In the same boat with you sister. Thank you for being strong!
Amen!!.. sister. I'm agree on everything you said. It's a great opportunities for us to become single again. No one to worries, share you income and paying their debts. We don't new that cheater men to tortured our heart, mine, and life. We have our freedom to do/go anything we want to. Our children are all grown and they love us unconditionally. Thank you for standing strong for our hmong women ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏 also thank you to the AMERICAN DREAMS EQUAL OPPORTUNITIES..
I am so proud of you step up for your rights!
First of all, I am super proud of you!! I want to thank you for sharing your story. You are such a strong and intelligent lady. I am so glad you got out of this abusive relationship and you are so strong in standing up against these old beliefs and people. Yes, I agree 110% with you! The culture and beliefs needs to change and they should be fair. Its so wrong how they still put us hmong women down and take up for their sons. Us hmong women need to stand up and make this culture change. That's why if I know what they are doing is wrong, I stand up! I refused to let anyone do me wrong. May God bless you and I pray for change.
As a husband and father to two beautiful daughters, I wouldn’t allow my son-in-laws to abuse my daughters. If one gets abused and comes to me for help, I will ask her for her decision not mine. Fathers and brothers should protect his daughters/sisters, especially in an abusing relationship and never force her to go back. Only US law will protect abusive relationship and never go to 18 clans.
@@judythoj6904 yep…they all tradition old guys, and they do the old ways only.
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Them ogs that are still into the old 1975 horse raddish tradition are close to extinction. We the newer generations should bury or ntawg the old tradition with cov niag ntsej muag laus ruam tsab ntse ntawv.
@@chilanxiong3814 I’m totally agree 👍!
Oh I love her story and her advice! Women power! We ARE worthy. We can make our own way here. You go girl!!!
Sister, I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself. Loyalty has an expiration date. Hmong people need to change their old fashioned mindset and culture. Men cheat, women can cheat too. You do you. No need to worry about people's negative words. They only like you when you are good, rich and successful but when you're poor and struggling, nobody cares about you. We need more women esp more Hmong women like you. Setting boundaries for yourself and standing your ground is not evil. Hmong people said you're evil or siab phem but it's not because Hmong people like people who have no boundaries so they can step all over. Do whatever makes you happy sister!!!
I totaly agree! 🙏👌
Kj hais yos lawm os
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Yes, our women in this generation are lucky to have lived in this country where there are laws to protect us! We are so blessed! 🙏
Our Hmong women need to form an organization or committee to bring women’s rights together for our children, future, and the community. No wonder our people have no land to be ours, it’s mainly because of these men only focus on themselves.
We alway have right. Most just doesn’t use it for their benefit.
Sign me up!
I definetly agree with her. This is so on point 100%. This tradition is so sexist and messed up. Men rising above women, having so much privilege to cheat and marry so many wives, no wonder this generation a lot of divorcées out there. It don’t matter how good of a nyab you are, they’ll always give him the upper hand regardless of his ways. Don’t try and make her look bad when your sons are the ones who cheat and lie over and over again. Thank god this is America and this generation more women are speaking up for themselves. The law is our only hope if our husbands beat or kill us. Relatives won’t do nothing but say you deserve it only.
Sister you did the right thing. I’m pretty fortunate to have parents that love and support me on my decisions. This is the 20th century, everyone deserves the same respect. Hmong relatives and in laws will NEVER support the woman. It’s sad but hopefully our generation now will not follow the old Hmong folks footsteps. I once told my dad when my sisters got married to donate the money to the police academy instead of giving it to the uncles or relatives because they will never support and love someone else’s daughter.
My advise is to never ever consult marriage problems with the elders (cousin) unless you see no other options. Take care your own problems. Hmong marriage law only benefits men…don’t play with their system. And if you ( the woman) fight the system, you will be viewed as a bad person and they will completely cut tie with you from all future rituals. This is the hard truth and is coming from a man myself. In all seriousness, I agree we need to fix the Hmong marriage counseling system for future to come.
I agree 💯. People can't do anything about it.
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There are always other options
Preach it!! I agree with you 💯!! You're right!! Hmong men/people need to change their disgusting mindset thinking all hmong men have the right to cheat while expecting their wives to stay loyal!
Now this is a woman! Thank you sister for standing up to the culture and us woman. You are a hero to all of us
May you don’t have to say sorry to all those loser leaders out there. I’m talking about the ones that think men are always right.
I am a man, but I hate our culture as well. Hmong culture are practiced by the OG hlwb 75. It is disgusting and backward. Cov 18 xeem has no teeth. They are paper tigers.
Girl...do you. More power to you and the rest of us who are in the same boat. There's nothing wrong with standing up for your rights.
Thaum twg yog lawn cov tub txawj ntxhais ntse muaj lub tswv yim los kho tau lawm kuv zoo siab kuv txaus siab pab nyiaj ntxiag rau txoj ncaj ncees no kuv yog ib tub poj niam raug tus tsim txom li koj hnub no thiab
Tus me niam tsev, koj thov txoj kev ncaj ncees rau ib tsoom pojniam, txoj kev ncaj ncees yeej muaj nyob rau ntawd zoo li koj tsis siv xwb. Kuv yog ib tug txiv tsev kuv yeej hwm nej cov pojniam tsis hais tus zoo licas los kuv yeej hwm tsuav yog tus pojniam tseem ua txoj kev zoo tsis muaj lub siab phem xwb ces kuv yeej hwm.
Txiv neej los yeej tsis muaj cai tham lwm tus pojniam, pojnrauj, pojntsuam, hluas nkauj, los yog nkauj tso li nawb mog. Pojniam muaj txiv lawm los yeej tsis muaj cai tham lwm tus ib yam.
Tus niam tsev koj twb kho neb lub neej txog 3 zaug lawm koj twb paub zoo2 lawm tias koj tus txiv tsis txog twg es cas koj tseem yuav, nov yog kev ncaj ncees rau nej pojniam, koj twb muaj cai lino cas koj ho tsis yuav. Koj twb muaj cas nrauj nws es koj mam mus tham lwm tus cas koj ho tsis ua, kuv muab mloog mas koj yog ib tug pojniam muaj kev kawm tab koj tsis ntse. Kev ncaj ncees rau pojniam yeej muaj tab koj tsis siv kev ncaj ncees xwb. Yog thaum koj twb ua koj sab zoo txaus lawm kev ncaj ncees ces yog koj yuav tsum tawm hauv lub neej mus lawm xwb. Koj nco zoo2 tias peb tug hais tsis tau ib tug lawm. Peb tsis yog tus me nyuam yaus tseem yuav need kev cob los ntawd niam txiv nawb mog.
Hmong txiv neej ces yeej zoo li no..thov kom peb cov poj niam hmoob yuav tsum tswj nrees peb qhov birthright as a human being. good job lady..i hope more hmong women are strong like you.
Hmong women power! This is 21st century. Men and women both had the power.
Txiv neej hmoob hais tias lawv muaj cai tham hluas nkauj. Nej txoj cai ntaus thwj liab ploog nyob qhov twg? Vim lawv lub qhov ncauj xwb! Tiamno tshiab no ces peb cov poj niam muaj cai tham hluas nraug ib yam thiab tiag. 😅😆😅
Txhua yam koj hais yeej yog tas nrho tus viv ncaus. Happy for you. You're strong!
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Sim neej no ces poj niam hmoob lub tob hau yeej tsa tsis tau ntseg nrog cov txiv neej hmoob li
Kuv dhuav hmoob lo lus tias txiv neej thiaj muaj cai poj tsis muaj cai txiv neej txoj cai tham hluas nkauj leej twg yog tus rhawv los tiag tiag yog thaum sib sau los ua neej ua ke lawm txoj cai ua hluas yeej tsis muaj ib yam nkaus tsis hais tus niam los sis yog tus txiv hmoob cov coj yuav tau ua zoo taug hmoob txoj cai kom meej tseeb nawb mog
Tus txiv neej tshob cuab khib xuab qias neeg quav dev li ntawd txhob khuv xim nws lawm...dhuav siab dhau lawm o
Leejmay muam dai2 kuv siab!!💝💝
I’m with you sister! There has to be a change in our Hmong community!
Kv lo yeej taug txoj kev no ib yam nkaus yeej tsis muaj twg hlub yus lis yus hlub yus tus kheej kj hais yog 100 paws xees
Yog li koj hai lawm os peb cov poj niamyuav tsum sib pab kom peb tau txoj kev ncaj ncee
We Hmong women should start a movement “Hmong women Me-too”.
Well said!! May, I love listening to your stories because you do such an amazing job of storytelling! You put your heart and soul into the story!
Tus viv ncaus ua tsaug rau koj zaj neej neeg yog ib qho ua rau peb cov niam tsev nrog koj zoo siab heev li thiab ua rau peb kaj siab zog tuaj nawv mog ua tsaug rau koj
Men will always side with men because it benefits them. We women need to know when enough is enough.
As a hmong man and husband, I agree with you sister. Hmong ppl need to stop using excuses for Hmong men. Our sisters, wife, mother have enough! It’s time for a change! Be strong and do what’s right for yourself and your kids! Men forgot where they really came from!
Congratulations to you sister
We need to fight for our right too.
Txij no mus tus txiv neej ua dev ces peb pojniam mus tsum kiag xwb vim hmoob txoj Cai yog dev npua Cai xwb peb muaj txoj Cai nyob ameka no Cia peb cov neej tsa teeb liab teeb ntsuab mam nrog peb hais xwb thiaj tag. Kv ntxub hmoob txoj nyiag Cai qia neeg os , yog tus txiv neej twg paub txoj Cai los txiav kom ncaj ces peb mloog hos yog tis tso peb Cai ces muab hlawv kiag xwb zoo dua os mog cov me Viv ncaus.vim yog peb pojniam tsis koom siab cov txiv neej thiaj saub tsis taus peb thiaj muab txhua tus pojniam tsum cuag dev txij no mus sawvdaw tsum los muab txoj Cai dev npua no rhuav thiaj muaj kev vam meej mus tom ntej
Niam ntshuab teev yuav yog twg es peb ib tsoom pojniam hmoob thiaj li muaj vaj huam sib luag li luag lwm haiv neeg yog peb ib tsoom pojniam hmoob koom siab yuav tsum tau ib txoj cai 6 peb ib tsoom pojniam hmoob kuv ntxub hmoob txoj cai uas hais tias pojniam hmoob g muaj cai ua es cia txiv neej hmoob cuag li yog tshiaj xwb los hmoob tseem hais tias txiv neej hmoob yog thiab kuv ntxub txoj cai quav dev no hmoob g muaj ib txoj cai nyob qhov twg es ntaus thwj liab ploog hais tias nyob qhov vim hmoob g hloov pauv hmoob txoj cai phem mas peb ib tsoom pojniam hmoob yuav raug kev tsim txom heev
Love reading all the comments... I wonder if this is the story that sent the old man yelling at May this morning. Not all women step on men not all men step on women... but boy, when the man that karma came to visit gets a taste of his own medicine... LOVE IT... FACE IT... OWN UP TO IT... LIKE A WOMAN! Times will change. Great story!
Niam laus aw, zoo siaab koj taus cov mes nyuam nkag siab koj hlub koj os .
Zoo siab ua nej cov ntxhai yug lo nyb rau sab me ka es tseem muaj txoj cai khoo ho peb cov nyb nplog ce yam huab saib g tau cov poj niam li os mloog cov neej neeg nyb teb chaw meka ma yg ib lub teb chaw xi rau cov poj niam hmoob nyb kg li
koj hais tau zoo heevli
xav kom koj yom peeb ib tug
thawj ncoj dawm peb cov poj niam hmoob
Hais tau yog tshaj plaws!!!!! I agree with her!!!!! Regarding neej tsa!!!
Tiam nees nkaum ib no, peb cov poj niam hmoob sawv los nrhiav kev ncaj ncees rau peb lawm. Zoo siab heev uas peb feem coob tsis kam raug caij tsuj li yav thaum ub. Ntxub cov kwv tij thiab neej tsa uas pheej hais tias yus yog poj niam lawm ces kom yus kaj tsij ua siab ntev thiab uv kom tiag. Thaum yus tsis kam uv es yus ua tiag tiag tuaj rau lawv mas, lawv ho ua tsis tau siab ntev thiab uv tsis tau yus.
Nej cov poj niam txhob poob siab cov niag txiv neej hmoob laus twb tuag yuav tag cov me nyuam tuaj yug teb chaws no loj hlob tuaj lawv tsis coj hmoob cov niag kev cai uas peb hmoob hu ua dev npua cai no lawm os
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Nco ntsoov Hmoob tsis muaj ib txog cai sau nyob twg. Hmoob txog cai yog dev npua cai xwb. Leejtwg yuav ua li cas los tau. that's why txivneej muajcai pojniam tsis muajcai. Nyias ua li lub siab xwb yog dev npua cai. who cares dev npua cai. yog leejtwg coj li dev npua cai ces thiaj li raug ntaus, raug ncaws, thiam cem li tej tsiaj. wake up Hmong people. txhob cia luag them ib pob nyiaj rau rau yus thaum luag tuaj yuav yus tus ntxhais. cia ob tog niamtxiv sib pab tej menyuam kev sib sau ua neej. lawv thiaj li muaj cai sib luag. proud of you sister but you already been hurt so much. forgive them and move forward so that your hurt will be heal and you will be happy. Peace to you.
Koj hai tau yog kawg lawmos thiab peb cov poj nrauj yeej tsi ntshaw txiv lawmos vim peb lub neej ua tsis muaj txiv nyob tau kaj siab dhau
Koj ua yog lawm tus ntxhais yuav tsum ua tau li kom thiaj yog poj niam hmoob nyob me kas teb hom kuv pab koj zoo siab kawg mam.
Hmoob ntshaw kom nyob muaj nom muaj tswv. Niaj hnub no peb Hmoob meskas nyob muaj nom muaj tswv lawm, txhob cia neej tsa thiab kwvtij muab yus yuam nyob kom txog hnub sib tua
Ua li koj txoj kev koj nyiam nawb tus muam. Koj ua tsis tau li koj nyiam ces koj kawg mob siab tuag. Kuv paj nrog nej cov poj niam uas nej muaj hmoo nyob rau USA..
Mentxhai hmoob txoj cai ce yeej yog li koj hais ko xwb tiag koj yog pojniam ua muaj peevxwm tshaj plaws kuv txhawb nqa koj txij hnub mus hais rau koj tias peb nyob lub tebchaws twg peb siv txoj cai ntawd xwb txhob mus hais rau kwvtij neej tsa li yog lub neej koj paub tias nyob tsis tau lawm ce hu cov neej tsa teeblaib teeb ntsuab tuaj xwb ma thiaj pab tau yu xwb nawb cov niag txiv neej no txhob txuag nws li nawb peb pojniam ma tsis muaj txiv los peb tseem muaj lub chaws nyob ho txiv neej ce tsis muaj pojniam ce nws yeej tsis muaj chaws nyob lios zoo siab rau koj nyob kajsiab lug lawm osmog
Peb txoj kev ncaj ncees vaj huam sib luag tsuas yog rau txoj kev nrhiav noj nrhiav haus xwb. Cov pojniam yuav tau rov tig ua twb zoo xav txog ntawm lawv tus kheej ua ntej toob tib txog txiv neej. Thaum luag muab kev ncaj ncees rau yus lawm yus yuav tau coj thiab hwm (self-respect) yog yus tsis hwm yus ces yus tus txiv yeej tsis hwm yus ib yam.
Zoo kawg nkaus, Kuv Yog Txiv Neej thiab Tiamsis Kuv yeej tsi txaus siab rau Hmoob Txuj cai Lim Hiam. Hmoob yeej ib txwm phem Yog li ntawd Vajtswv thiaj tu siab rau Hmoob. Qhia rau koj paub tias Koj Ua Yog kawg nkaus os mog.
Niam ntsuab teev kj mas hais tau lug zoo thiab kj zoo nkauj kaus li
Kj hais yog tshaj plaws li os niam laus cas los ua neeg es yuav raug txiv neej tsim txom tsaj lawm li os tu siab heev li os yog lawm yus li neej tsa ces yog tub ceem xwm xwb os
Yog tshaj plaws peb cov niam tsev na qhov uv tau peb mam uv qhov uv tsis tau yuav tau txhob uv uv. Cov txiv neej hmoob no muaj plhus dhau lawm. Yuav tau xyaum tus niam tsev no nawb.
This story is good samples for Hmoob people to wake up, I am supporting you sister you did good to protect your self,so sorry that your own family did support you but is not every family doing that I know my parents and my brother is well known but he not going to let that happen to me plus we are this United freedom for women thank God’s for that
kj ua yg lm o tu viv ncau txoj cia no yg hmoob txoj xb o yu hlub yu tu kheej ua ntej lwm tu tsim yu mog peb cov poj niam txhob ruam2 lm mog
Yog Yog.. tu siab peb pojniam Tsis muaj chai li vim peb tau cov neej tsa/kwvtij Tsis muaj noob qes😢
Tus txiv neej zoo li kos ces nws yuav ua li kos txog nub nws tuag mam tag .yog koj ntsog nws nyob yuav nyuaj siab tag kojib sim neej. Luag yeej tsis hub yus lawm nws thiaj ua ntawm ntawm nws yug thiaj yuav dim txoj kev nyuaj siab. yug nyuaj siab tsis muaj leej twg yuav pab tau yug
Xav kom cov txiv neej hmoob uas phem phem tuag kom tag txhob muaj nyob hauv ntiaj teb no lawm os mog
thov qhuas tus niam tsev no nws hais yog kawg peb yuav tau hloov txhob tsij yus tus neeg mus rau lub qhov tuag
Koj ua tau zoo kawg li og njam laug aw. Tiam sig tsuag yog nej teb chawg xwb peb teb chawg poj njam ceg yeej qig tshaj xb nyob nyab laj
Yog kawg nkaus li os hais raug kuv siab tshaj li o niam ntsuab teev aw
We as parents need to educate our sons to respect women and that they are our equal. Educate our daughters to self love and self worth.
Kuv hais mas los peb nyob rau hmoob kavmeej no ces yog txhua yam mas mus nrhisv hmoob kav meej mog cov vivncau hmoob
Tu siab vim peb tsis nyob mi ka ce ntshe neej tsa yuav cob qwv mu Kom txog hnub tuag xwb
Muaj tseeb li koj hais os me niam laus aws, peb coj poj niam hmoob no mas raug tsim txom heev li, kuv raug tsim txom niam hnub niam no, kuv txiv nram ntej tsim, tsim kuv, es yuav nrauj nws no nws tus txiv ntxawm cem kuv tias poj nrauj coob li coob es twb this muaj tus yuav, yog kuv nrauj nws tus tub lawm yeej tsis muaj tus txiv neej twg yuav kuv li, no cas kuv nrauj kiag xwb twb muaj tus txiv hluas nraug zoo li zoo tuaj thov yuav niaj hnub niam no kuv tus txiv mas hlub kuv li hlub kuv xwb, kuv xav tias ntshe hauv ntiaj teb no yuav tsis muaj txiv neej zoo lawm no tseem muaj yog yus yog neeg zoo lawm yeej yuav muaj tus txiv siab zoo yuav yus xwb mog
Tiam me neej no ces tos peb cov poj niam tag tag nqi los vim hmoob g hloov hmoob txoj kev cai ne
Hmoob kev cai qhauv dev xws. Muab ib hbub yuav tuaj tsuj peb niam tia txiv
Txij thaum muaj lub niag npe hmoob lo txog niaj hnub no ce yeej g hloov e hmoob thiaj li yuav ploj mu vim txoj kev no tiag
Yes sis!!!! You keep doing you!! I'm right there with you & totally understand!! You deserve more than any of these stupid relatives & family members who are only there to put you down! I'm sorry but not sorry to say all these ignorant people who feel that it's a man's right to cheat can go to hell! If you don't educate our sons & daughters to be better human beings they'll all turn out to be shii heads like the men in this story! Not to disrespect Hmong men but fk all those feel that they are superior to woman!
Our husband's are our partner in life.. NOT our masters !
Sorry you had to go through this sis but thank goodness you know your self worth!
Koj ua yog lawm os mi viv ncaus kuv yog ib tug uas yuav txhawg koj lub zog pab koj os nawj
Txhua yam koj hais no kuv agree nrog koj 100%. Cov neej tsa Los xuab ua luaj kwv tij Los xuab ua luaj tsis ncaj ncees koj mus ua mis Kas kev Cai rau xwb mas yog tshaj plaws. Ua siab loj muab laws kiv Kom ti ntsa ces yog hauj lwm xwb mas tus ntxhais aw.
Koj yog ib tug niam muaj peev xwm kawg li.
Nkauj hmoob koj yuav zoo nkauj npaum li cas los hnub twg los hnav dub xwb thiab tsis pom koj lub me cev nkauj xwb ces tsis pom koj ntxim hlub li hnav kom pom koj lub me cev nkauj xwb thiab thiaj tsim nyog koj txoj me kev zoo zoo nkauj ok
I wish all hmong women think like u so we all don't disturb each other lives . All poj nrauj needs to think of themselves worthy. Not til we, hmong woman think like this . We will not change the men decisions of putting us down when comes to negotiations. I hope your story wake up some of our women's head. ( this part 4 niam ntuab theev )Keep these stories coming. In hope that it will be a wake up call 4 hmong pojniam
Koj hais thiab ua yog lawm os tus viv ncaus cov kw tij thiab neej tsa ces zoo ib yam xwb os cov neej tsa yuav muab txoj cai rau tus ntxhais ces lawv tos thaum tuag .taglawm ces lawv tuaj nplua 1200 xwb ces lawv twb zoo sab lawm tias lawv yeej lawm . Nrauj tag nrho ces mus church kiag xwb mog .
Au yo koj cov lus ko ces muaj tseeb tiag zoo siab uas tseem muaj Tus niam tsev muaj peev xwm li koj nawb
Hmong women's only friends and relatives is the law of the United States. When it comes to marital problems ask for help from your "green light red light" relatives not from hmong people!!
Damn straight. When they say "Kho" they just mean tell the couple to stay together. The core issue is never looked at or resolved.
Agreed 💯
Or neej tsa kaus mom hlau, neej tsa teeb liab teeb ntsuab.
Hmong men would say that if red lights green lights is her relatives, she should ask them to take care of her in sickness and death. I say, just make a will. Nobody is going to let you rot if you die in this country. 😆
Thankful we are here in the USA muaj txoj cai human rights.
Me los niam tnsuabteev ua tsaug ntau nawb koj hais tau zoo kawg tus phem thiaj phem tus zoo cia zoo yog li koj ua tus cev lus hais koj hais kawg zaj xwb txoj kev yuav ncaj ncees yuav tsum mus txhawb qa hmoob kavmeej thiaj pab tau txhua yam xwb mog
Tiam 21 lawm es txiv neej hmoob mes kas tseem muaj lub paj lhwb liam li no ces yuav cais tawv dawb xwb thiaj muaj vaj huam sib luag.
Tus niam tsev you're absolutely right 💯!!!
Kj hais yog lawm os kv tsis paub tias cas cov txiv neej uas mas pheej tias txiv neej muaj cai ua ho peb cov poj niam ib nyuag ua mas peb yog tus txhaum no peb hmoob mas yeej tsis pab peb yog li no peb thiaj mus rau nram xaam xwb os kv los raug li kj khej thiab ntag os meviv ncaus kv thiaj yog poj nrauj lawm os peb thiaj tsis xav yuav txiv lawm os
Kuv yeej nyiam cov lus zoo no kuv thov txhawb tus niam tsev lub zog koj thiaj yog tus me niam tsev ntse coj yog kuv tuaj koj tog mog.
Txiv neej hmoob txoj caij muaj tham hluas nkauj .quav dev rau tiam 21 ...poj niam txiv neej vaj huam sib luag...yog nws coj ncaj ces kuv fwm nws...yog nws coj ncaj kuv cia li Liam aws kuv yog tus txhaum...tiam si nws yog tus Liam ces u kawg Liam thiaj phim...twb tias yus tus txiv tub sab ces yus tub sab...nws tub nkeeg ces yus tub nkeeg ces nws tham hluas nkauj ces kuv kuj tham hluas nraug...tej chaw me ka no txoj nyob ntug ntoob tias yog koj tus poj niam tsi yeej yuav koj ces koj yuam ces koj mag ntes xwb....
Yog kawg li o
Sister i agree every words you said. Im proud for you good decision
Yes! We woman of the 21st century need to love & stand up for ourselves!!! I don't agree to those Relatives words of non-wisdoms!!!
Zaj no phim rau cov txiv neej mloog thiab kawm zaj no zoo heev li
I’m so proud of you sister for stand up for your right. He teach you how to cheat. Good for you… don’t look back. Keep on moving. You did the right thing.
Yus hlub yus tus kheej zoo tshaj vim thaum yus tuag luag tsis nrog yus tuag
You are so right sister. No need to be advise by the others. You are free to decide for your own life because no one would feed you and give you money.
We are same human beings , and now we live in the country of
law that made from the bible. We must treat each other as equal as the law. No one important than others . I support your thoughts, but next time try not to fight back by yourself bur pray god to open the ath for you yo go my dear friend, may our lord continue to lead your family ‘s future,
Gid bless you
I agree with you 💯!!! I’ve always dislike the gender inequality in the Hmong Culture, that is why I refuse to listen to anyone when it comes to lecturing from a male’s prospective about how he has more rights over a woman just because he is a man. So proud of you for standing up for us Hmong Women!
Peb tseem yuav tshuav ntev npaum li cas es poj niam neej tsa niam thiab txiv mam rub peb tej ntxhais rau peb xub nthiag os, nyob Mekas tau 50 xyoo yeej hloov lawm tabsis tseem tshuav thiab.
Yog nej cov kwv tij neej tsa pheej kom nej cov poj niam ua siab ntev thiab tuaj tus txiv tog xwb ces mus Meskas txoj cai muab niag txiv siab phem nrauj kiag xwb, teb chaws no lawm nom tswv mas hlub nej txhob tos txiv neej HMoob los cai HMOOB uas tsis siab zoo rau oeb cov poj niam....
Yog lawm os zaj neej neeg ntawm tus me viv ncaus ntawv na cov niag txiv neej lub siab ib txwm tsim txom poj niam tag ib sim neej yeej tsis hloov lub niag siab lim hiam rau poj niam tsis raws txoj cai yuav ntau poj niam tuag kiag los yeej tsis ntshai yog ntau poj niam tuag kiag ces rho kiag ob nyuag choj mus ntsaws kiag rau tej niag neej tsa ruam ntawv tes xwb ces tag li ntawd lawm xwb nim no tsis quav ntsej ntshai thiab tsis quav ntsej ntshaw ib tug niag txiv dev siab phem lim hiam los tsim yus lawm os ib tsoom me viv ncaus aw
Hallelujah amen... koj ua taus niam kawg lawm nawb. Thov qhuas koj
Niam laus kj hais yog kawg li os ❤❤❤❤❤
Perfectly said!!!! Best story yet!! ❤️ 💪
Kuc yog ib tug poj niam raug qhov teeb meem no thiab thov peb cov niam tsev sib pab nawg mog ib tsoom viv ncaus.
Cas yov tu siab yug los nyob nplog teb twb g muaj ib txoj cai twg los pab tau yus li lm os tu siab tiag neej tsa lospab tsis tau kwv tij los hais g tau