Puas Muaj Hnub Ncaj Ncees Rau Poj Niam. 9/13/2022
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- Puas Muaj Hnub Ncaj Ncees Rau Poj Niam.
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As a husband and father to two beautiful daughters, I wouldn’t allow my son-in-laws to abuse my daughters. If one gets abused and comes to me for help, I will ask her for her decision not mine. Fathers and brothers should protect his daughters/sisters, especially in an abusing relationship and never force her to go back. Only US law will protect abusive relationship and never go to 18 clans.
@@judythoj6904 yep…they all tradition old guys, and they do the old ways only.
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Them ogs that are still into the old 1975 horse raddish tradition are close to extinction. We the newer generations should bury or ntawg the old tradition with cov niag ntsej muag laus ruam tsab ntse ntawv.
@@chilanxiong3814 I’m totally agree 👍!
Amen!!.. sister. I'm agree on everything you said. It's a great opportunities for us to become single again. No one to worries, share you income and paying their debts. We don't new that cheater men to tortured our heart, mine, and life. We have our freedom to do/go anything we want to. Our children are all grown and they love us unconditionally. Thank you for standing strong for our hmong women ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏 also thank you to the AMERICAN DREAMS EQUAL OPPORTUNITIES..
I hope these 2 past stories may told will bring courage to all women especially in the hmong community to come out, step out, and speak out loud! We need more support like this. Another woman's story can be another's strength.
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People fail to see, right is right and wrong is wrong. Don't forget men built this world. Name the last thing that was created by women??? I'll be waiting for your empowering women speach.
@@bigkou_916 wow, which woman hurted you? Not going to waste another minute being at your level of perception. Your response is already an empowering reaction to my statement 😉
@@iabeeine8990 No women has hurt me, but it's women like you. Are you a women? My attitude is if you do like it, leave. Youre the type to complain about America's ways, but won't leave. Lol
@@bigkou_916 your grammars speaks louder about you 🤭 have a bless day ❤️
Yes I agree to this story! 100! In the same boat with you sister. Thank you for being strong!
Sister you did the right thing. I’m pretty fortunate to have parents that love and support me on my decisions. This is the 20th century, everyone deserves the same respect. Hmong relatives and in laws will NEVER support the woman. It’s sad but hopefully our generation now will not follow the old Hmong folks footsteps. I once told my dad when my sisters got married to donate the money to the police academy instead of giving it to the uncles or relatives because they will never support and love someone else’s daughter.
Yes, our women in this generation are lucky to have lived in this country where there are laws to protect us! We are so blessed! 🙏
I definetly agree with her. This is so on point 100%. This tradition is so sexist and messed up. Men rising above women, having so much privilege to cheat and marry so many wives, no wonder this generation a lot of divorcées out there. It don’t matter how good of a nyab you are, they’ll always give him the upper hand regardless of his ways. Don’t try and make her look bad when your sons are the ones who cheat and lie over and over again. Thank god this is America and this generation more women are speaking up for themselves. The law is our only hope if our husbands beat or kill us. Relatives won’t do nothing but say you deserve it only.
Our Hmong women need to form an organization or committee to bring women’s rights together for our children, future, and the community. No wonder our people have no land to be ours, it’s mainly because of these men only focus on themselves.
We alway have right. Most just doesn’t use it for their benefit.
Preach it!! I agree with you 💯!! You're right!! Hmong men/people need to change their disgusting mindset thinking all hmong men have the right to cheat while expecting their wives to stay loyal!
Yes sis!!!! You keep doing you!! I'm right there with you & totally understand!! You deserve more than any of these stupid relatives & family members who are only there to put you down! I'm sorry but not sorry to say all these ignorant people who feel that it's a man's right to cheat can go to hell! If you don't educate our sons & daughters to be better human beings they'll all turn out to be shii heads like the men in this story! Not to disrespect Hmong men but fk all those feel that they are superior to woman!
Our husband's are our partner in life.. NOT our masters !
Sorry you had to go through this sis but thank goodness you know your self worth!
Oh I love her story and her advice! Women power! We ARE worthy. We can make our own way here. You go girl!!!
Sister, I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself. Loyalty has an expiration date. Hmong people need to change their old fashioned mindset and culture. Men cheat, women can cheat too. You do you. No need to worry about people's negative words. They only like you when you are good, rich and successful but when you're poor and struggling, nobody cares about you. We need more women esp more Hmong women like you. Setting boundaries for yourself and standing your ground is not evil. Hmong people said you're evil or siab phem but it's not because Hmong people like people who have no boundaries so they can step all over. Do whatever makes you happy sister!!!
I totaly agree! 🙏👌
Kj hais yos lawm os
May you don’t have to say sorry to all those loser leaders out there. I’m talking about the ones that think men are always right.
I am a man, but I hate our culture as well. Hmong culture are practiced by the OG hlwb 75. It is disgusting and backward. Cov 18 xeem has no teeth. They are paper tigers.
I’m with you sister! There has to be a change in our Hmong community!
First of all, I am super proud of you!! I want to thank you for sharing your story. You are such a strong and intelligent lady. I am so glad you got out of this abusive relationship and you are so strong in standing up against these old beliefs and people. Yes, I agree 110% with you! The culture and beliefs needs to change and they should be fair. Its so wrong how they still put us hmong women down and take up for their sons. Us hmong women need to stand up and make this culture change. That's why if I know what they are doing is wrong, I stand up! I refused to let anyone do me wrong. May God bless you and I pray for change.
Now this is a woman! Thank you sister for standing up to the culture and us woman. You are a hero to all of us
My advise is to never ever consult marriage problems with the elders (cousin) unless you see no other options. Take care your own problems. Hmong marriage law only benefits men…don’t play with their system. And if you ( the woman) fight the system, you will be viewed as a bad person and they will completely cut tie with you from all future rituals. This is the hard truth and is coming from a man myself. In all seriousness, I agree we need to fix the Hmong marriage counseling system for future to come.
I agree 💯. People can't do anything about it.
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There are always other options
Well said!! May, I love listening to your stories because you do such an amazing job of storytelling! You put your heart and soul into the story!
Love reading all the comments... I wonder if this is the story that sent the old man yelling at May this morning. Not all women step on men not all men step on women... but boy, when the man that karma came to visit gets a taste of his own medicine... LOVE IT... FACE IT... OWN UP TO IT... LIKE A WOMAN! Times will change. Great story!
We Hmong women should start a movement “Hmong women Me-too”.
Girl...do you. More power to you and the rest of us who are in the same boat. There's nothing wrong with standing up for your rights.
Hmong txiv neej ces yeej zoo li no..thov kom peb cov poj niam hmoob yuav tsum tswj nrees peb qhov birthright as a human being. good job lady..i hope more hmong women are strong like you.
As a hmong man and husband, I agree with you sister. Hmong ppl need to stop using excuses for Hmong men. Our sisters, wife, mother have enough! It’s time for a change! Be strong and do what’s right for yourself and your kids! Men forgot where they really came from!
Yes, stand up for yourself cause no one will! I’m sad the community is still telling the girls and women to put up with this bullsh*t but on the bright side, it’s slowly changing. As a Hmong woman, I can contribute to this change by teaching my kids to love and stand up for themselves and lead by example.
Yos lawm os peb ua neej nyob ces yeej xias tshaj rau peb cov poj niam xwb kuv tus no kias kuv los kuv yus tau ib tse neej zoo li og
Zoo siab rau koj os.. me viv ncaus koj ua tau niam kawg xav kom peb cov poj niam ua tau lub siab tawv li koj xwb os....
Zoo kawg nkaus, Kuv Yog Txiv Neej thiab Tiamsis Kuv yeej tsi txaus siab rau Hmoob Txuj cai Lim Hiam. Hmoob yeej ib txwm phem Yog li ntawd Vajtswv thiaj tu siab rau Hmoob. Qhia rau koj paub tias Koj Ua Yog kawg nkaus os mog.
I’m so proud of you sister for stand up for your right. He teach you how to cheat. Good for you… don’t look back. Keep on moving. You did the right thing.
Sister you did the right thing for yourself. More power to you.
👏👏another great inspiring story for the women . Mays gonna get more phone call from the great husbands blaming her for encouraging their wives leave lol .
Hmong people do better ! 👍
This story is good samples for Hmoob people to wake up, I am supporting you sister you did good to protect your self,so sorry that your own family did support you but is not every family doing that I know my parents and my brother is well known but he not going to let that happen to me plus we are this United freedom for women thank God’s for that
This story makes my blood boiled as a Hmong woman. Thankful my life is not like this but I am so proud of you sister, for standing up for yourself! This is America, use the law and not your Hmong leaders, clan or relatives to give you your right! There is no law in this land giving men the right to cheat on you or beat you! You go sister! If you are a woman in this situation, get yourself out!
Hmong women have to let go of the clan to be liberated from their oppression. No clan is on a woman's side, and Hmong do not hold men accountable to anything other that that he violated another man. Glad to hear women are waking up to the fact that they don't need the clan or men to have worth. You have worth without a d*ck, women. You are a life form with worth of your own equal to all and every man. The only thing I would correct for this woman is that she endured suffering for too long and wasted too much time on a loser. Get out sooner. Life is short. No time to die.
Tus me niam tsev, koj thov txoj kev ncaj ncees rau ib tsoom pojniam, txoj kev ncaj ncees yeej muaj nyob rau ntawd zoo li koj tsis siv xwb. Kuv yog ib tug txiv tsev kuv yeej hwm nej cov pojniam tsis hais tus zoo licas los kuv yeej hwm tsuav yog tus pojniam tseem ua txoj kev zoo tsis muaj lub siab phem xwb ces kuv yeej hwm.
Txiv neej los yeej tsis muaj cai tham lwm tus pojniam, pojnrauj, pojntsuam, hluas nkauj, los yog nkauj tso li nawb mog. Pojniam muaj txiv lawm los yeej tsis muaj cai tham lwm tus ib yam.
Tus niam tsev koj twb kho neb lub neej txog 3 zaug lawm koj twb paub zoo2 lawm tias koj tus txiv tsis txog twg es cas koj tseem yuav, nov yog kev ncaj ncees rau nej pojniam, koj twb muaj cai lino cas koj ho tsis yuav. Koj twb muaj cas nrauj nws es koj mam mus tham lwm tus cas koj ho tsis ua, kuv muab mloog mas koj yog ib tug pojniam muaj kev kawm tab koj tsis ntse. Kev ncaj ncees rau pojniam yeej muaj tab koj tsis siv kev ncaj ncees xwb. Yog thaum koj twb ua koj sab zoo txaus lawm kev ncaj ncees ces yog koj yuav tsum tawm hauv lub neej mus lawm xwb. Koj nco zoo2 tias peb tug hais tsis tau ib tug lawm. Peb tsis yog tus me nyuam yaus tseem yuav need kev cob los ntawd niam txiv nawb mog.
I wish all hmong women think like u so we all don't disturb each other lives . All poj nrauj needs to think of themselves worthy. Not til we, hmong woman think like this . We will not change the men decisions of putting us down when comes to negotiations. I hope your story wake up some of our women's head. ( this part 4 niam ntuab theev )Keep these stories coming. In hope that it will be a wake up call 4 hmong pojniam
Power to this women.!!! Equal Rights.!
Yes! We woman of the 21st century need to love & stand up for ourselves!!! I don't agree to those Relatives words of non-wisdoms!!!
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Everything in this story is correct! NEVER consult with your relatives...they will never side with you! I was told to be siab ntev with my ex who refused to work. Nope, BYE! Not going to let some loser hold me back cause they have no motivation in life.
Aman to this strongly woman. I a 👏 for you for finding equal rights for woman. Praying for justice in court soon for our daughters in America. Please22222 it's time don't waits any longer. Too many woman's are suffering. They needed it help😑
Hmong women's only friends and relatives is the law of the United States. When it comes to marital problems ask for help from your "green light red light" relatives not from hmong people!!
Damn straight. When they say "Kho" they just mean tell the couple to stay together. The core issue is never looked at or resolved.
Agreed 💯
Or neej tsa kaus mom hlau, neej tsa teeb liab teeb ntsuab.
Hmong men would say that if red lights green lights is her relatives, she should ask them to take care of her in sickness and death. I say, just make a will. Nobody is going to let you rot if you die in this country. 😆
Thankful we are here in the USA muaj txoj cai human rights.
You standing up for everyweman I'm so happy for you and be strong
The moment you moved to the U.S. or were born in the U.S. you have equal rights by law, as far as relationship rights go. Hmong women need to take this truth to heart and stop using Hmong txoj cai to do their fighting in any unfair marriage. In fact, there are some states where you, the hurt spouse, can even legally sue the partner that your spouse is cheating with. Hmong txoj cai tsis ncaj for protecting the women and will ultimately push Hmong women away from marrying Hmong men, and it will mostly be the men's fault for being misogynistic in their thinking.
That’s what I’m saying. Hmoob women never keep their justice, but keep asking if there’s going to be any for them…they act like they are the 1970s folks…errrgghh!!
Men will always side with men because it benefits them. We women need to know when enough is enough.
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Ua li koj txoj kev koj nyiam nawb tus muam. Koj ua tsis tau li koj nyiam ces koj kawg mob siab tuag. Kuv paj nrog nej cov poj niam uas nej muaj hmoo nyob rau USA..
Leejmay muam dai2 kuv siab!!💝💝
I honestly, don’t believe in this “mus kho ntawm cov laus.” Like I told my husband, I’m not gonna go have someone out there fix me (someone who marry a second wife or is a cheater himself) to come lecture me. That person better have a clean background for him to come and give me life lessons. Tej niag laus no tham hluas nkauj los twb hais tsis yog lawm, always give the men every right to step on us women.
So proud of you sister! Never back down! 👏👏👏
I’m with you on this tus vivncaus.., my mom told me the same thing uv xwb yeej tsis tuag, I told her this is America.., there’s NO WAY I will do like the Hmong women back in Laos…
Hmong women power! This is 21st century. Men and women both had the power.
Txiv neej hmoob hais tias lawv muaj cai tham hluas nkauj. Nej txoj cai ntaus thwj liab ploog nyob qhov twg? Vim lawv lub qhov ncauj xwb! Tiamno tshiab no ces peb cov poj niam muaj cai tham hluas nraug ib yam thiab tiag. 😅😆😅
Txhua yam koj hais yeej yog tas nrho tus viv ncaus. Happy for you. You're strong!
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Sister you don’t need your relatives’ approval to divorce a man like this. You approached this in the wrong way. Your happiness depends on you
Tus viv ncaus ua tsaug rau koj zaj neej neeg yog ib qho ua rau peb cov niam tsev nrog koj zoo siab heev li thiab ua rau peb kaj siab zog tuaj nawv mog ua tsaug rau koj
What I don't understand is when the relatives said if she was unable to stay with him, then leave, but she stayed and said then said she wanted them to give her the right to cheat. No one in their right mind is going to come forth and make that law. Should have just left instead of being spiteful to prove something or test people. Ur husband was a loser from the 1st incident.
True. No need to waste time cheating. Just leave
Sister, I agree with you. Peb cov neej tsa twb tsis hlub peb es peb cov txiv yuav ua cas hlub thiab fwm peb tiag.
Peb cov poj niam Hmoob yuav kom muaj txoj cai ncaj ncees ces siv txoj cai lij choj neej tsa teeb liab teeb ntsuab xwb tiag. Tsis tas yuav siv txoj cai txiv neej hmoob yeej tsis ncaj ncees rau peb cov poj niam.
We women need to work together and fight for our rights and not support the patriarchal double standard rule. We should teach our sons right from wrong. When we as mothers see our sons mistreat their wives, we need to speak up and discourage bad behaviors. I’m with you 100% sister.
Hais tau yog tshaj plaws!!!!! I agree with her!!!!! Regarding neej tsa!!!
All I have to say is that "txiv neej tsis tas nws ib leeg. You lve your life and let other live their lives".
Thaum twg yog lawn cov tub txawj ntxhais ntse muaj lub tswv yim los kho tau lawm kuv zoo siab kuv txaus siab pab nyiaj ntxiag rau txoj ncaj ncees no kuv yog ib tub poj niam raug tus tsim txom li koj hnub no thiab
I agree with you 💯!!! I’ve always dislike the gender inequality in the Hmong Culture, that is why I refuse to listen to anyone when it comes to lecturing from a male’s prospective about how he has more rights over a woman just because he is a man. So proud of you for standing up for us Hmong Women!
100% agree! Don’t be afraid. I’m just sorry for the sisters back in the country
Congratulations to you sister
We need to fight for our right too.
Txij no mus tus txiv neej ua dev ces peb pojniam mus tsum kiag xwb vim hmoob txoj Cai yog dev npua Cai xwb peb muaj txoj Cai nyob ameka no Cia peb cov neej tsa teeb liab teeb ntsuab mam nrog peb hais xwb thiaj tag. Kv ntxub hmoob txoj nyiag Cai qia neeg os , yog tus txiv neej twg paub txoj Cai los txiav kom ncaj ces peb mloog hos yog tis tso peb Cai ces muab hlawv kiag xwb zoo dua os mog cov me Viv ncaus.vim yog peb pojniam tsis koom siab cov txiv neej thiaj saub tsis taus peb thiaj muab txhua tus pojniam tsum cuag dev txij no mus sawvdaw tsum los muab txoj Cai dev npua no rhuav thiaj muaj kev vam meej mus tom ntej
We as parents need to educate our sons to respect women and that they are our equal. Educate our daughters to self love and self worth.
Tus txiv neej tshob cuab khib xuab qias neeg quav dev li ntawd txhob khuv xim nws lawm...dhuav siab dhau lawm o
In the Hmong culture and society man and woman are never equal..there exist a double standard..good for you lady go be happy..don't let this kind of disrespect put you down..only once we teach our children that a woman is just as valuable as a son
I'm the same way. I've been divorced for 6 years now. It's just me and kids. Life is peaceful. We go on trips. We go shopping. We do so much together that we never got to do when we were with their dad.
Damn it’s pretty sad to hear these type of stories it’s unfortunate.. like this aunty story said we all can from a woman it’s sickening to know that some man have no respect for women.. my sister was killed by her husband due to the similarities of this story she never cheated but she caught him cheating and he killed her for that cause she was going to leave this is sickening 😪 more power to you aunty thanks for your words
Perfectly said!!!! Best story yet!! ❤️ 💪
💯!! Sadly, I don’t see it changing with our parents’ generation. Though there are a handful of men in my dad’s generation that would give us women the same rights and advocate for us, these men aren’t always in positions of power to make actual changes. I think those on the tail end of Gen X and Millennials will be able to make these changes. However, I’m not sure if there will be such a need then.
My wish is that we will view women as equal in value to men, just that we have our own roles and abilities. My dad always told me this world is not built for women bc people, regardless of ethnicity or nationality, do not view women as equals. So he taught me everything he knows so that I won’t feel like I’m trapped in a bad relationship or need to depend on people all the time. When I think about it, it’s sad bc I saw what he meant growing up.
We have to remember that Hmong culture or Hmong way of resolving marital problems is not a written law. It is based on lot of elderly interpretation of our past experience. One family might resolve this issue differently than others. Also as more and more Hmong elderly pass away and younger generations become decisions maker, men and women are viewed as equal important.
Yog tos yus tuag mam taug cai tau dab lawm. Ladies You have to deal your own problems without neej tsa and kwv tij. This sister is hit my spot. Love you sister.
This is why Hmong family meetings are hopeless. They tell you as a daughter in law to be patient and to put up with bs but when you make a little mistake, it's the end of the world. You do you sister! Be strong and independent.
If Hmong women all over the world would just stand together, we can make changes. But there are those women who think they're better or above other women. They scowl other women for being a bad wife or being a bad mother because they think these women should rise up to their expectations of what a good wife or mother or woman should be. Just like that current case in Loas where a woman was caught cheating and her female in-laws humiliated/shamed her online. They even told her that they're going to take her son away from her. People cheat and they make mistakes. It's only human but until you're in the shoe of that person, you don't know why they do what they do. Just because you think you're a good wife because you remain loyal to your husband even if he cheats, doesn't make you a woman. You do exactly what the world is doing to women, you participate in suppressing women. Nobody is up in airs when a man cheats but when a hmong woman cheat, everyone attacks her. Hmong women need to change this behavior.
You are so right sister. No need to be advise by the others. You are free to decide for your own life because no one would feed you and give you money.
Nej cov poj niam txhob poob siab cov niag txiv neej hmoob laus twb tuag yuav tag cov me nyuam tuaj yug teb chaws no loj hlob tuaj lawv tsis coj hmoob cov niag kev cai uas peb hmoob hu ua dev npua cai no lawm os
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I am proud of you for step up for ours woman right!!!thank you ❤️
Koj muaj peev xwm kawg ua tau zoo heev li no luag thiaj paub ntshai ov
Cheating is not the way to go. We women should not use this route, we should just divorce him the day they he cheated. Full stop. Do not lower yourself to his level. Leave and rise.
Proud of you sister, in this lifetime it doesn’t work like the old way anymore. We as women need to stand up for ourself and not let anyone walk over us. I totally agree with everything you said. All us women need to be like you if you have a worthless husband like that.
Tus txiv neej no xuab tshaj plaws lub npe hmoob!!!!
Well said… 🙏🏼 you spoke my mind! When it comes to Hmong man. Think twice b4 u decide to get married to a divorcee.
Sister i agree every words you said. Im proud for you good decision
I am so proud of you step up for your rights!
Yog lawm AMEN TO YOU.
Niam ntshuab teev yuav yog twg es peb ib tsoom pojniam hmoob thiaj li muaj vaj huam sib luag li luag lwm haiv neeg yog peb ib tsoom pojniam hmoob koom siab yuav tsum tau ib txoj cai 6 peb ib tsoom pojniam hmoob kuv ntxub hmoob txoj cai uas hais tias pojniam hmoob g muaj cai ua es cia txiv neej hmoob cuag li yog tshiaj xwb los hmoob tseem hais tias txiv neej hmoob yog thiab kuv ntxub txoj cai quav dev no hmoob g muaj ib txoj cai nyob qhov twg es ntaus thwj liab ploog hais tias nyob qhov vim hmoob g hloov pauv hmoob txoj cai phem mas peb ib tsoom pojniam hmoob yuav raug kev tsim txom heev
Txiv neej hmoob txoj caij muaj tham hluas nkauj .quav dev rau tiam 21 ...poj niam txiv neej vaj huam sib luag...yog nws coj ncaj ces kuv fwm nws...yog nws coj ncaj kuv cia li Liam aws kuv yog tus txhaum...tiam si nws yog tus Liam ces u kawg Liam thiaj phim...twb tias yus tus txiv tub sab ces yus tub sab...nws tub nkeeg ces yus tub nkeeg ces nws tham hluas nkauj ces kuv kuj tham hluas nraug...tej chaw me ka no txoj nyob ntug ntoob tias yog koj tus poj niam tsi yeej yuav koj ces koj yuam ces koj mag ntes xwb....
Sim neej no ces poj niam hmoob lub tob hau yeej tsa tsis tau ntseg nrog cov txiv neej hmoob li
Kuv dhuav hmoob lo lus tias txiv neej thiaj muaj cai poj tsis muaj cai txiv neej txoj cai tham hluas nkauj leej twg yog tus rhawv los tiag tiag yog thaum sib sau los ua neej ua ke lawm txoj cai ua hluas yeej tsis muaj ib yam nkaus tsis hais tus niam los sis yog tus txiv hmoob cov coj yuav tau ua zoo taug hmoob txoj cai kom meej tseeb nawb mog
Good good girl you do the right things. No matter what size of relative said is wrong, di the right for you .
I totally agreed with you sister on the law and justice to the Hmong women in the Hmong culture. The ways and justice isn't fair for the women but it's catered to the hmong men only. The parents, the brothers, the relatives on both side only catered to the husband. To said that women have no rights but to be a slave, and to just accept everything the husband does, that no matter what he does he's in the right he can't do no wrong. Be it lies, cheating, abusive, no matter how many times he beat his wife be it even killed her they keep forcing her to stayed with her abuser. It's only once he killed her than her family will be willing to say anything and then fined him for her death. Really they won't do a damn until she's dead. What good is that? O right they only cared about the money.
REMEMBER you live her in the United States. Here there are laws that protect women's rights. DO NOT TRUST IN THE HMONG CULTURE FOR THEY ARE BIASES TO WOMEN. Do not stay in an abusive relationship or marriage. Get out. You can do so much better.
I've been there. I know how it feel. When you are right, you are wrong. When you are wrong, you are even more wrong. Look down upon as a disgrace. I took it all and took all the blame. Now I'm much happier bcuz I don't have to deal with that no more. It's sad too when you have such a toxic mother. Sometimes you just have to cut them off even if they are related. We just have to do us at the end. There will never be any honor for us Hmong women bcuz the old tradition still applies.
Tiam nees nkaum ib no, peb cov poj niam hmoob sawv los nrhiav kev ncaj ncees rau peb lawm. Zoo siab heev uas peb feem coob tsis kam raug caij tsuj li yav thaum ub. Ntxub cov kwv tij thiab neej tsa uas pheej hais tias yus yog poj niam lawm ces kom yus kaj tsij ua siab ntev thiab uv kom tiag. Thaum yus tsis kam uv es yus ua tiag tiag tuaj rau lawv mas, lawv ho ua tsis tau siab ntev thiab uv tsis tau yus.
Proud of you, strong woman
Yog li koj hai lawm os peb cov poj niamyuav tsum sib pab kom peb tau txoj kev ncaj ncee
Khwv ciaj khwv tuag tsis txaus tus txiv niag gau noj ib pluag
Tus niam tsev you're absolutely right 💯!!!
Muaj tseeb li koj hais os me niam laus aws, peb coj poj niam hmoob no mas raug tsim txom heev li, kuv raug tsim txom niam hnub niam no, kuv txiv nram ntej tsim, tsim kuv, es yuav nrauj nws no nws tus txiv ntxawm cem kuv tias poj nrauj coob li coob es twb this muaj tus yuav, yog kuv nrauj nws tus tub lawm yeej tsis muaj tus txiv neej twg yuav kuv li, no cas kuv nrauj kiag xwb twb muaj tus txiv hluas nraug zoo li zoo tuaj thov yuav niaj hnub niam no kuv tus txiv mas hlub kuv li hlub kuv xwb, kuv xav tias ntshe hauv ntiaj teb no yuav tsis muaj txiv neej zoo lawm no tseem muaj yog yus yog neeg zoo lawm yeej yuav muaj tus txiv siab zoo yuav yus xwb mog
I am glad we come to America to bring justice to everyone. Fight for your life, your right everyone, it doesn't matter matter if you are men, women, or children. Do what is right in life. We just need to get rid of the wedding dowry and everything should be fair from the start. So just do the marriage license and be done. Good move and take control of your life.
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Mentxhai hmoob txoj cai ce yeej yog li koj hais ko xwb tiag koj yog pojniam ua muaj peevxwm tshaj plaws kuv txhawb nqa koj txij hnub mus hais rau koj tias peb nyob lub tebchaws twg peb siv txoj cai ntawd xwb txhob mus hais rau kwvtij neej tsa li yog lub neej koj paub tias nyob tsis tau lawm ce hu cov neej tsa teeblaib teeb ntsuab tuaj xwb ma thiaj pab tau yu xwb nawb cov niag txiv neej no txhob txuag nws li nawb peb pojniam ma tsis muaj txiv los peb tseem muaj lub chaws nyob ho txiv neej ce tsis muaj pojniam ce nws yeej tsis muaj chaws nyob lios zoo siab rau koj nyob kajsiab lug lawm osmog
Nco ntsoov Hmoob tsis muaj ib txog cai sau nyob twg. Hmoob txog cai yog dev npua cai xwb. Leejtwg yuav ua li cas los tau. that's why txivneej muajcai pojniam tsis muajcai. Nyias ua li lub siab xwb yog dev npua cai. who cares dev npua cai. yog leejtwg coj li dev npua cai ces thiaj li raug ntaus, raug ncaws, thiam cem li tej tsiaj. wake up Hmong people. txhob cia luag them ib pob nyiaj rau rau yus thaum luag tuaj yuav yus tus ntxhais. cia ob tog niamtxiv sib pab tej menyuam kev sib sau ua neej. lawv thiaj li muaj cai sib luag. proud of you sister but you already been hurt so much. forgive them and move forward so that your hurt will be heal and you will be happy. Peace to you.
Niam aw Kj txoj neej neeg hias Yog nkaus kuv lub neej li os yom
Niam laus aw, zoo siaab koj taus cov mes nyuam nkag siab koj hlub koj os .
In America, we do not need kwv tij neej tsa PERIOD! My neej tsa are law enforcement and the court, and yes, I’m still a married woman. I made it clear to my husband if he doesn’t want to deal with my neej tsa then don’t piss me tf off. My neej tsa put his ass in jail twice and his kwv tij had to go bail him out.