What a disturbing story. Made me sick to the bones that her family still forced her to stay in a marriage that did her wronged so badly. Fucked up family, I’d have cut all ties.
Some women have the heart of gold. They remain single for the sake of their children. I applaud ladies that put their children first. Her children are loved by her and they will her back.
Sister, I feel your pain. What your husband and sister did is unforgivable and can’t believe your family expect you to live this life with them and needless to say, to forgive them! I agree with you 💯 that they got what they deserve.
Koj zaj no mloog tau kv npau taws heev kv ntxhub koj tus niam hluas heev thov kom lub ntuj txhob muab cov niam hluas siab nyoos zoo li koj tu no los yug rau lub ntiaj teb lawm mog
Older sister if this just occurred yesterday, I would say divorce him and go find a new life with someone that loves you. But you wasted your entire lifetime by choosing to stay. They have their own karma but you also had no happiness and wasted your youth and life for nothing.
How can u call urself a parent if u allow or make ur two daughters share a husband?! So twisted and sick! Hmong elders should be ashamed of themselves!!
The father rather have his daughters share a husband than have a daughter who has a child out of wedlock. He cared more about his face then the lives of his daughters. I agree with you, the elders should be ashamed of themselves.
Hell would break loose if I was her. I would not forgive the entire family who hid it from me all that time and would cut them all off including the spouse.
Koj niam koj txiv koj tus niam hluas lawv tsis muaj leej twg hlub koj li yus tus sister ntawm yus xubntiag es muaj peev xwm ua yus tus txiv ces nws yeej tsis fwm koj lawm tsis tas hlub lawm os me vivncaus mloog koj zaj neej neeg no ua rau ntshavsiab mob siab nrog koj hlub koj tus kheej mog
Im glad n hope that this is one of the hmong traditions that we no longer are forced to do. Her parents n his relatives should had encouraged and hive her the strength to move on n not forced her to stay.
Koj niam koj txiv ca tseem muab koj tu niam hlua lo ua koj tu niam yau thiab na txai tau tia koj niam nkawv hlub nw tshaj koj lawm thiaj yuav koj ua niam loj nrog koj tu siab tshaj li os
Don't ever invite any females into your lives or your homes. Not even your blood sister/s. Relatives will be the first to pull the trigger on you. My own sister invited 2 females to live with her for FREE. I told her she'd better becareful bc her man has money and the 2 girls she invited into her home are younger than her. She just brushed me off like such a thing won't happen. Lol! I've seen first hand what can happen already. It's a disaster waiting to happen.
I feel so sorry for you. Your whole family betrayed you. You should of cut all ties with everyone. But you are seem like a loving kind woman. Good things will come your way. Please don't forgive them.
Ntuj aw..yeej tim Koj Thiab Koj niam Koj txiv nrog tib si os. Txawm Koj tus niam hluas yuav2 Koj Tus txiv los Koj niam Koj txiv kuj hais es cia kho xwb los pob lawv tseem cia los yuav Koj Tus txiv thiab ces, oh yau nej tsev kwv tij thiab cov neej tsa ces tsim nyog ntiajteb thuam thiab tsim nyog Koj thiab Koj Tus niam hluas neb ob leeg tau teeb meem ib yam nkaus lawm.
Don't judge this sister. Easy for us to say but we don't wear her shoes. Alot of our sisters don't have the courage to leave but in their hearts and soul only like her. Much love for you sister. ❤️
Nws tsis ntshai npam li yom pab koj tu siab tshaj plaws li os...Lawv pab koj tus niam hlua xwb mloog li kws koj hais mas tus siab kawg li os...Yeej muaj kev npam tiag2 li os tus vivncaus aw yom...Yes I'am agree with you sister aw hlub koj tag ib simneej li os...Thov kom vajtswv foom koob moov rau koj mog.
This story is disturbing and incomphrensible. I can't believe you are as raum and qias neeg as your husband, his clan, your sister and parents to enable all of this.
yep, this is America! You don't have to allow anyone to tell you what to do when you know it's wrong. I think she's too old fashion and still living in the 70s
No judgement on this sister and her story at all. My heart goes out to her. However, I do not like to use the word 'hate' but when it comes to certain aspects of the Hmong culture, it's BS like this that I will us the word hate for. Why would you hide something like this from your family/daughter & still tell them to stay in the marriage to save face? Disgusting.
Ntuj aw yog koj koj thiaj tseem yuav koj nyiag txiv yog kuv ce kuv puab kiag xwb ce kuv twb TSi yuav lawm o tuag twb tuag kuv yeej tsi yuav li o txaj muag ntau o ntuj aw
Kuv yeej nrog koj mob kawg li txob rawm Cia nws tuag yog tuag lawm Cas nws yuav taught zoo lawm Cia nws txom nyem Kom txaus2 too nawb especially nws that kawm taught nawb mog me niam hluas
Wow, I don’t think I could forgive my sister neither! The whole situation is straight messed up and just heart breaking! I know it’s better to forgive, but how do u do that? You just can’t, I know sometimes you can’t help who you fall in love with. Come on your sisters husband of all people! You have to have some self control. If we know what we knew then and the times were different, I’m sure you could of moved on. Glad you have you children. Still not right what he, and she did to you. Karma, alway tell my kids do good, good comes, do bad, and bad will come.
Tim koj niam nkawv thiab tim koj tus niam hluas thiab tus txiv ua rau koj. Tsis tsim nyog kiag qhov koj pab7 koj niam tais yawm txiv nkawv...nkawv yog tus ua rau koj lub neej puas.
I understand the times were different in the 80’s & 90’s, but dang…I would’ve canceled my entire family/relatives for forcing me to try & accept my baby sister & husband like this. where’s jerry springer when u need him?!?! 🤢 🤮 🤮
Yeej tsimnyog foom npaum li koj hais no tiag yus tus niam hluas kiqg los xeeb yus tus txiv thiab tseem los tsim yus npaum li no thiab ces cia npam kom kawg ps
Koj niam thiab koj txiv coj tsi ncaj rau koj xwb tsis thas hlub lawm los tau yeej tsi npam vim niam thiab txiv twb yug tau neb 2 leeg los nkawv twb hlub neb tsi sib npaug
Lo koj twb yog niam loj koj nrauj tsi tau ces yeej yog tim koj mas viv ncaus peb uas neeg nyob yog luag yuav ib tug lawm ces yus tsi yuav yeej tau kawg koj yog tu npam ntsag mas
koj ua yog lawm yog luag qhua lwm tus ce teb chaw muaj kuv zam tau sib si yog tus kos ce kuv yeej zam tsi tau kiag siab phem dhau lawm 10 tiam lo yeej zam tsi tau
I’m thinking it’s an older grandma telling her story. Back then Divorce for the Hmong community was harder. Too many people losing face. Parent would rather lose their daughter than lose face
yog kuv lo kuv yuav tsis zam txim thiab...tus qhua sab nrauv kuv zam tau vim lawv thiab kuv tsis koom roj ntshav es lawv thiab thiaj ua tau tiam si nws yog yus tus niam hluas kiag nws tseem ua tau rau yus thiab ces no kuv lo yuav tsis zam txim tsis hais tsawg tiam lo yuav tuag nco ntsoov rov lo ua pauj thiab ntag...txhob zam os niam laus aw
Niag maum dev lim hiam maum dev ntxeev siab ntawm kj ma lubntuj yuav g tau Pub nw tuag sai li os hnub twg nw qhuav ib tog zuj zu ko taw ti taub hau ma xyov pua tseem tuag thiab vim lub siab txia ntshav tshaj qhov hai tau lawm ca yuav txau ntxub tshaj plaw li os ntuj aw
Koj lub neej lwj siab txhua yam tim kiag koj niam thiab koj txiv ob tug dev laus xwb nej sim xav seb ma yog vim li cas nkawv ho muab koj tus niam hluas pub dawb rau koj tus txiv mas qhov no koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv ua rau koj no tub qaug koj mus tag tiam no nas
Koj ua yog lawm niam tais. Neeg lim hiam ces cias nws lwj nws liam mus kom kawg. Tiam sis nco nroov ov ib hnub niag mawm dev lwj ntawv tuag txhob rub koj niag txiv dev liam txwv ntawv rov los. Cia nws tuag lawv qab mus ob niag mam mus ua dev thawj thiab rau pem nyuj vab...
Koj yog ib leej niam zoo rau koj cov me nyuam. Thov lub ntuj foom txoj hmoo zoo rau koj mog tus sister. Love yourself.❤️
In this case, family isn't everything. Love yourself and your children.
If u asked me I would've burned her family and cut off all communications and ties
Niam tai yawm txiv ces liam tshaj plaws li os txov koj lub neej
What a disturbing story. Made me sick to the bones that her family still forced her to stay in a marriage that did her wronged so badly. Fucked up family, I’d have cut all ties.
Hell yes! What betrayal of your blood sister and husband.
@@magicalunicorn5853 Such sickening people, they must be born without livers & lungs.
Some women have the heart of gold. They remain single for the sake of their children. I applaud ladies that put their children first. Her children are loved by her and they will her back.
Sister, I feel your pain. What your husband and sister did is unforgivable and can’t believe your family expect you to live this life with them and needless to say, to forgive them! I agree with you 💯 that they got what they deserve.
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I agree with you
Niam laus aw cas kv mloog kj zaj neej neeg es kv nim pab kj mob siab khib siab ua luaj li og
Koj zaj no mloog tau kv npau taws heev kv ntxhub koj tus niam hluas heev thov kom lub ntuj txhob muab cov niam hluas siab nyoos zoo li koj tu no los yug rau lub ntiaj teb lawm mog
Tus me niam tsev zaj neej neeg (Ntshaw2 viv ncaus) koj mloog zaj no vam tias koj yauv kag siab tsis muaj viv ncaus lo txob tu siab heev mog
Sister koj ua yog tshaj plaws li. Kuv yog koj los kuv yeej ua ib yam li koj ua.
Older sister if this just occurred yesterday, I would say divorce him and go find a new life with someone that loves you. But you wasted your entire lifetime by choosing to stay. They have their own karma but you also had no happiness and wasted your youth and life for nothing.
She’s the same she choose to stay with the dogs.
She also into the karma too… that why she stuck with them
lpppp
she did not want to stay
I know these women are so dumb..I was lonely just stroking my brother ..she could at least call me lol
How can u call urself a parent if u allow or make ur two daughters share a husband?! So twisted and sick! Hmong elders should be ashamed of themselves!!
The father rather have his daughters share a husband than have a daughter who has a child out of wedlock. He cared more about his face then the lives of his daughters. I agree with you, the elders should be ashamed of themselves.
Hell would break loose if I was her. I would not forgive the entire family who hid it from me all that time and would cut them all off including the spouse.
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Koj niam koj txiv koj tus niam hluas lawv tsis muaj leej twg hlub koj li yus tus sister ntawm yus xubntiag es muaj peev xwm ua yus tus txiv ces nws yeej tsis fwm koj lawm tsis tas hlub lawm os me vivncaus mloog koj zaj neej neeg no ua rau ntshavsiab mob siab nrog koj hlub koj tus kheej mog
Niamlaus aww kuv twb pab koj qias neeg li thiab o
These story of siblings betrayed another siblings is so sickening.
Nrog koj tu siab os niam laus a😭😭😭...Koj tu niam hluas thiab koj tu txiv es lub siab phem2 tiag li os niam laus a hlub2 koj li os nawb❤❤
zoj no mas tu siab kawg nrog tus niam laus no mob siab kawg
Mloog Xwb twb mob22 kuv siab lawm, thov kom koj txoj kev zoo txhawb koj mog tus mi niam laus aw…kuv yog koj los kuv yeeb tsis zam txim rau niam hluas li thiab nawb.
Im glad n hope that this is one of the hmong traditions that we no longer are forced to do. Her parents n his relatives should had encouraged and hive her the strength to move on n not forced her to stay.
yg lm 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Huh! Listen to this story makes my blood boiling 🥵
Niam laus aw cas tu siab ua luaj li os
Koj niam koj txiv ca tseem muab koj tu niam hlua lo ua koj tu niam yau thiab na txai tau tia koj niam nkawv hlub nw tshaj koj lawm thiaj yuav koj ua niam loj nrog koj tu siab tshaj li os
Es vauv haib haib ne. Yog vauv kam ces, niam tais yeej los ua niam 3 lawm thiab las mas.
Don't ever invite any females into your lives or your homes. Not even your blood sister/s. Relatives will be the first to pull the trigger on you. My own sister invited 2 females to live with her for FREE. I told her she'd better becareful bc her man has money and the 2 girls she invited into her home are younger than her. She just brushed me off like such a thing won't happen. Lol! I've seen first hand what can happen already. It's a disaster waiting to happen.
Well tell your sister if she wants to get back at him have her call me lol
I feel so sorry for you. Your whole family betrayed you. You should of cut all ties with everyone. But you are seem like a loving kind woman. Good things will come your way. Please don't forgive them.
Hmoob txoj cai ma g zoo li
koj ua tau zoo kawg kuv thov qhua koj nw yog lawm tsi tsim nyog yuav zam txim
Ntuj aw..yeej tim Koj Thiab Koj niam Koj txiv nrog tib si os. Txawm Koj tus niam hluas yuav2 Koj Tus txiv los Koj niam Koj txiv kuj hais es cia kho xwb los pob lawv tseem cia los yuav Koj Tus txiv thiab ces, oh yau nej tsev kwv tij thiab cov neej tsa ces tsim nyog ntiajteb thuam thiab tsim nyog Koj thiab Koj Tus niam hluas neb ob leeg tau teeb meem ib yam nkaus lawm.
Koj yog ib tug niam tsev zoo tiag2 li
Don't judge this sister. Easy for us to say but we don't wear her shoes. Alot of our sisters don't have the courage to leave but in their hearts and soul only like her. Much love for you sister. ❤️
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Nws tsis ntshai npam li yom pab koj tu siab tshaj plaws li os...Lawv pab koj tus niam hlua xwb mloog li kws koj hais mas tus siab kawg li os...Yeej muaj kev npam tiag2 li os tus vivncaus aw yom...Yes I'am agree with you sister aw hlub koj tag ib simneej li os...Thov kom vajtswv foom koob moov rau koj mog.
hai tau zoo heev
Yog ib yam uas zam txim tsi tau li os, cia ua kev kawm rau peb sawv daws
Txawm yg kv lo kv yeej zam txim g tau ib yam thb ntxim ntxub dhau lm
This story is disturbing and incomphrensible. I can't believe you are as raum and qias neeg as your husband, his clan, your sister and parents to enable all of this.
100% totally agree
Agree! Nasty!
Exactly! They’re all dev xwb.
yep, this is America! You don't have to allow anyone to tell you what to do when you know it's wrong. I think she's too old fashion and still living in the 70s
Koj niam koj txiv twb tsis hlub koj lis thiab os txob tu siab
Ruam li koj thiaj Tseem nyob ntsia Koj niag niam hluas caij koj tus txiv
Yog kawg
I would never forgive my sister either if it was me.
Ua neej nyob yuav tau sib zam txim os hmoob
Yog koj yeej ua yog lawm os nws yuav tsum tau nyob nus lub txim
You have been hurt in so many way. My heart goes out to you.
No judgement on this sister and her story at all. My heart goes out to her. However, I do not like to use the word 'hate' but when it comes to certain aspects of the Hmong culture, it's BS like this that I will us the word hate for. Why would you hide something like this from your family/daughter & still tell them to stay in the marriage to save face? Disgusting.
Tsis muaj ib tug neeg yuav zam tau txim rau cov neeg phem es nyiam thiab tsawm lig tug li no..
Cas koj zaj neej neeg ua rau kuv kua muag poob kiag li nrog koj tu siab kawg
Nyob zoo kuv tuaj koj thiab saib nej nyob mes kas thiab os
Niag niam hluas dev
Nrog koj tu siab thiab mob siab os sister aww. Koj qhov experience nyuaj kawg li os. Koj tus sister ua txhaum thiab qias neeg heev li os.
Beautifully said....nothing but love ❤️
Lady if you’re still single now??…comments in here I will love you to the moon!!!❤️❤️❤️
Kuv pab koj tsav siab os sister
WOW!!! What a story!!! I hope you find peace within your life and drop them like the dead weight that they are!
Ua tsaug rau zaj no os niam ntsuab teev kev khaum ces ua tiag muaj tiag dej ntshiab yeej ib txwm yeej dej nro
Koj niam thiab txiv tsis tsim nyog tso koj tus niam hluas los txeeb koj lub need.
Ntuj aw yog koj koj thiaj tseem yuav koj nyiag txiv yog kuv ce kuv puab kiag xwb ce kuv twb TSi yuav lawm o tuag twb tuag kuv yeej tsi yuav li o txaj muag ntau o ntuj aw
Maiv vang koj twb muaj txiv zoo phim koj lawm ces zoo ua neej kom sib hlub mog
Sister I love how you put a curse on them 🥰💋 but don't forget to put one on your husband too.
No no no, she loves him…can’t do that.
It’s a women thing…they hang on. “He fucked my sister and take her to replace me, but i love him…”
Talk about keep in the family
My heart ache so badly listening to this story. Tears!
Tus txiv neej no khoom zoo heev li es neb 2 Viv ncaus thiaj yuav,koj los xuaj li koj tus niam hluas thiab
Hais yog kawg. Haha liam ib yam .
Kuv yeej nrog koj mob kawg li txob rawm Cia nws tuag yog tuag lawm Cas nws yuav taught zoo lawm Cia nws txom nyem Kom txaus2 too nawb especially nws that kawm taught nawb mog me niam hluas
Wow, I don’t think I could forgive my sister neither! The whole situation is straight messed up and just heart breaking! I know it’s better to forgive, but how do u do that? You just can’t, I know sometimes you can’t help who you fall in love with. Come on your sisters husband of all people! You have to have some self control. If we know what we knew then and the times were different, I’m sure you could of moved on. Glad you have you children. Still not right what he, and she did to you. Karma, alway tell my kids do good, good comes, do bad, and bad will come.
1 yeej yog Tim koj niam thiab koj txiv.
2 yeej yog Tim koj tus txiv tsis paub cai.
3 koj nias niam hluas los Liam dhau lawm
Tim koj niam nkawv thiab tim koj tus niam hluas thiab tus txiv ua rau koj. Tsis tsim nyog kiag qhov koj pab7 koj niam tais yawm txiv nkawv...nkawv yog tus ua rau koj lub neej puas.
Ta si yam koj ua yog qhov zoo os txhawb zog rau koj nawb thov kom koj ntsib kev noj qab nyob zoo
I understand the times were different in the 80’s & 90’s, but dang…I would’ve canceled my entire family/relatives for forcing me to try & accept my baby sister & husband like this. where’s jerry springer when u need him?!?! 🤢 🤮 🤮
Nyb rau lub neej no tseem muaj tej thaj no thiab lo.txaus ntshai dhau lawm os lawv
Niam hlua txeeb txiv lau thaum tuag hle2 rỉ rau tên chaw saib ho
Kwv Tij dev tiag2 koj txiv log yog dev thiab. Nej tsev hmoob yog dev tiag2
Cov neeg Hmoob txhawb nqa lub tswv yim dev no mas qias neeg thiab xav kom tuag kom tas. Nyob los nyhav av xwb.
Tsis muaj hnub yuav zam txim li lau
zaj no tu siab heev li os
qias neeg thiab txaj muag tshaj plaws. U guys most og,s to do this in usa
This is so freaking sad. If I was the oldest sister, I would not forgive her as well too.
Yeej tsimnyog foom npaum li koj hais no tiag yus tus niam hluas kiqg los xeeb yus tus txiv thiab tseem los tsim yus npaum li no thiab ces cia npam kom kawg ps
Koj niam thiab koj txiv coj tsi ncaj rau koj xwb tsis thas hlub lawm los tau yeej tsi npam vim niam thiab txiv twb yug tau neb 2 leeg los nkawv twb hlub neb tsi sib npaug
Lo koj twb yog niam loj koj nrauj tsi tau ces yeej yog tim koj mas viv ncaus peb uas neeg nyob yog luag yuav ib tug lawm ces yus tsi yuav yeej tau kawg koj yog tu npam ntsag mas
Viv ncaus koj mas hais yog kawg nkawd li lawm os.
Ruam li koj tsis, no need to complain.
niam txiv los qias neeg ib yam cov kwv tij thiab tseem yuam koj nyob thiab.
koj ua yog lawm yog luag qhua lwm tus ce teb chaw muaj kuv zam tau sib si yog tus kos ce kuv yeej zam tsi tau kiag siab phem dhau lawm 10 tiam lo yeej zam tsi tau
Listen to this my blood is boiling up to 500 degrees 😭
Same here
ฟังเรื่องนี้แล้วเป็นอะรัยที่ให้อภัยไม่ได้เลยจริงๆ คนเป็นพี่คงเจ็บปวดใจมากๆ พี่น้องกันแท้ๆไม่ควรทำกันแบบนี้จริงๆ
Niag niam tai yawm txiv dev
Why are u still with them? We are living in America now! Divorce them, live on your own and have your own freedom SMH
Agreed 💯
I’m thinking it’s an older grandma telling her story. Back then Divorce for the Hmong community was harder. Too many people losing face. Parent would rather lose their daughter than lose face
yog kuv lo kuv yuav tsis zam txim thiab...tus qhua sab nrauv kuv zam tau vim lawv thiab kuv tsis koom roj ntshav es lawv thiab thiaj ua tau tiam si nws yog yus tus niam hluas kiag nws tseem ua tau rau yus thiab ces no kuv lo yuav tsis zam txim tsis hais tsawg tiam lo yuav tuag nco ntsoov rov lo ua pauj thiab ntag...txhob zam os niam laus aw
Txhob zam txim rau kiag cia kom nws tuag raws nws txoj kev npam ntag nawb
Zaj dab neeg no kuv tshib kiag hauv kuv lub neej lawm chim siab tiag 2 li nawb cov phooj ywg aw cov niam hluas rov taw tuam ntuj mas chim siab plaws li nawb kuv tshib lawm kuv chim heev
Tej nug niam hluas li ko ces tuavpov tseg los tau lawm os nrxim ntxub tiag tiag
Nrauj xwb mas. Niam thiab txiv kiag kwvtij neej Tsa npaum twg los lawv tsis nrog yus tiv txoj Kev mob siab, tu siab, ntxhov siab.
Tsis tim koj tus niam hluas txhua yam koj tim koj txiv.
Koj yog tus niam laus Ua li ko ua thiaj yog Cia npam.
Qhuas koj
You did the right thing.
Niag maum dev lim hiam maum dev ntxeev siab ntawm kj ma lubntuj yuav g tau Pub nw tuag sai li os hnub twg nw qhuav ib tog zuj zu ko taw ti taub hau ma xyov pua tseem tuag thiab vim lub siab txia ntshav tshaj qhov hai tau lawm ca yuav txau ntxub tshaj plaw li os ntuj aw
If she is this bitter, she should have left her marriage/husband.
Npam loj tiag tiag.
txawm yog kuv los yeej zam tsis tau txim rau
Koj lub neej lwj siab txhua yam tim kiag koj niam thiab koj txiv ob tug dev laus xwb nej sim xav seb ma yog vim li cas nkawv ho muab koj tus niam hluas pub dawb rau koj tus txiv mas qhov no koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv ua rau koj no tub qaug koj mus tag tiam no nas
Kuv yog koj ce tsis muaj hnub za txiv nrauv li
Quav dev dhau os..
yog kg li os yug ua zoo ib puag zaug twb tsi tau zoo ho ua phem yeej tau phem os thov kom tug zoo noj qab nyob zoo
Koj ua yog lawm niam tais. Neeg lim hiam ces cias nws lwj nws liam mus kom kawg. Tiam sis nco nroov ov ib hnub niag mawm dev lwj ntawv tuag txhob rub koj niag txiv dev liam txwv ntawv rov los. Cia nws tuag lawv qab mus ob niag mam mus ua dev thawj thiab rau pem nyuj vab...