What a disturbing story. Made me sick to the bones that her family still forced her to stay in a marriage that did her wronged so badly. Fucked up family, I’d have cut all ties.
Sister, I feel your pain. What your husband and sister did is unforgivable and can’t believe your family expect you to live this life with them and needless to say, to forgive them! I agree with you 💯 that they got what they deserve.
Some women have the heart of gold. They remain single for the sake of their children. I applaud ladies that put their children first. Her children are loved by her and they will her back.
Koj zaj no mloog tau kv npau taws heev kv ntxhub koj tus niam hluas heev thov kom lub ntuj txhob muab cov niam hluas siab nyoos zoo li koj tu no los yug rau lub ntiaj teb lawm mog
Older sister if this just occurred yesterday, I would say divorce him and go find a new life with someone that loves you. But you wasted your entire lifetime by choosing to stay. They have their own karma but you also had no happiness and wasted your youth and life for nothing.
Don't judge this sister. Easy for us to say but we don't wear her shoes. Alot of our sisters don't have the courage to leave but in their hearts and soul only like her. Much love for you sister. ❤️
How can u call urself a parent if u allow or make ur two daughters share a husband?! So twisted and sick! Hmong elders should be ashamed of themselves!!
The father rather have his daughters share a husband than have a daughter who has a child out of wedlock. He cared more about his face then the lives of his daughters. I agree with you, the elders should be ashamed of themselves.
Hell would break loose if I was her. I would not forgive the entire family who hid it from me all that time and would cut them all off including the spouse.
I feel so sorry for you. Your whole family betrayed you. You should of cut all ties with everyone. But you are seem like a loving kind woman. Good things will come your way. Please don't forgive them.
Koj niam koj txiv koj tus niam hluas lawv tsis muaj leej twg hlub koj li yus tus sister ntawm yus xubntiag es muaj peev xwm ua yus tus txiv ces nws yeej tsis fwm koj lawm tsis tas hlub lawm os me vivncaus mloog koj zaj neej neeg no ua rau ntshavsiab mob siab nrog koj hlub koj tus kheej mog
Im glad n hope that this is one of the hmong traditions that we no longer are forced to do. Her parents n his relatives should had encouraged and hive her the strength to move on n not forced her to stay.
Don't ever invite any females into your lives or your homes. Not even your blood sister/s. Relatives will be the first to pull the trigger on you. My own sister invited 2 females to live with her for FREE. I told her she'd better becareful bc her man has money and the 2 girls she invited into her home are younger than her. She just brushed me off like such a thing won't happen. Lol! I've seen first hand what can happen already. It's a disaster waiting to happen.
This story is disturbing and incomphrensible. I can't believe you are as raum and qias neeg as your husband, his clan, your sister and parents to enable all of this.
yep, this is America! You don't have to allow anyone to tell you what to do when you know it's wrong. I think she's too old fashion and still living in the 70s
No judgement on this sister and her story at all. My heart goes out to her. However, I do not like to use the word 'hate' but when it comes to certain aspects of the Hmong culture, it's BS like this that I will us the word hate for. Why would you hide something like this from your family/daughter & still tell them to stay in the marriage to save face? Disgusting.
Koj niam koj txiv ca tseem muab koj tu niam hlua lo ua koj tu niam yau thiab na txai tau tia koj niam nkawv hlub nw tshaj koj lawm thiaj yuav koj ua niam loj nrog koj tu siab tshaj li os
I understand the times were different in the 80’s & 90’s, but dang…I would’ve canceled my entire family/relatives for forcing me to try & accept my baby sister & husband like this. where’s jerry springer when u need him?!?! 🤢 🤮 🤮
Wow, I don’t think I could forgive my sister neither! The whole situation is straight messed up and just heart breaking! I know it’s better to forgive, but how do u do that? You just can’t, I know sometimes you can’t help who you fall in love with. Come on your sisters husband of all people! You have to have some self control. If we know what we knew then and the times were different, I’m sure you could of moved on. Glad you have you children. Still not right what he, and she did to you. Karma, alway tell my kids do good, good comes, do bad, and bad will come.
Nws tsis ntshai npam li yom pab koj tu siab tshaj plaws li os...Lawv pab koj tus niam hlua xwb mloog li kws koj hais mas tus siab kawg li os...Yeej muaj kev npam tiag2 li os tus vivncaus aw yom...Yes I'am agree with you sister aw hlub koj tag ib simneej li os...Thov kom vajtswv foom koob moov rau koj mog.
Ntuj aw..yeej tim Koj Thiab Koj niam Koj txiv nrog tib si os. Txawm Koj tus niam hluas yuav2 Koj Tus txiv los Koj niam Koj txiv kuj hais es cia kho xwb los pob lawv tseem cia los yuav Koj Tus txiv thiab ces, oh yau nej tsev kwv tij thiab cov neej tsa ces tsim nyog ntiajteb thuam thiab tsim nyog Koj thiab Koj Tus niam hluas neb ob leeg tau teeb meem ib yam nkaus lawm.
I’m thinking it’s an older grandma telling her story. Back then Divorce for the Hmong community was harder. Too many people losing face. Parent would rather lose their daughter than lose face
Kuv yeej nrog koj mob kawg li txob rawm Cia nws tuag yog tuag lawm Cas nws yuav taught zoo lawm Cia nws txom nyem Kom txaus2 too nawb especially nws that kawm taught nawb mog me niam hluas
Yeej tsimnyog foom npaum li koj hais no tiag yus tus niam hluas kiqg los xeeb yus tus txiv thiab tseem los tsim yus npaum li no thiab ces cia npam kom kawg ps
Ntuj aw yog koj koj thiaj tseem yuav koj nyiag txiv yog kuv ce kuv puab kiag xwb ce kuv twb TSi yuav lawm o tuag twb tuag kuv yeej tsi yuav li o txaj muag ntau o ntuj aw
Love this!! You should've moved on but it is what it is. Your kids love you, you have a place to go when you're old. Karma couldn't have been any better for your younger sister.
Tim koj niam nkawv thiab tim koj tus niam hluas thiab tus txiv ua rau koj. Tsis tsim nyog kiag qhov koj pab7 koj niam tais yawm txiv nkawv...nkawv yog tus ua rau koj lub neej puas.
Lo koj twb yog niam loj koj nrauj tsi tau ces yeej yog tim koj mas viv ncaus peb uas neeg nyob yog luag yuav ib tug lawm ces yus tsi yuav yeej tau kawg koj yog tu npam ntsag mas
Koj niam thiab koj txiv coj tsi ncaj rau koj xwb tsis thas hlub lawm los tau yeej tsi npam vim niam thiab txiv twb yug tau neb 2 leeg los nkawv twb hlub neb tsi sib npaug
koj ua yog lawm yog luag qhua lwm tus ce teb chaw muaj kuv zam tau sib si yog tus kos ce kuv yeej zam tsi tau kiag siab phem dhau lawm 10 tiam lo yeej zam tsi tau
For any Hmoob women out there still seeking acceptance/approval/counsel from the family: this is the 21st century, new world, new rules, new laws, new mentality. If it doesn't fell right and comfortable, you don't have to succumb to family oppression. Follow your gut instinct if you don't feel the support. Love yourself and do what's best for you!
Koj yog ib leej niam zoo rau koj cov me nyuam. Thov lub ntuj foom txoj hmoo zoo rau koj mog tus sister. Love yourself.❤️
In this case, family isn't everything. Love yourself and your children.
If u asked me I would've burned her family and cut off all communications and ties
What a disturbing story. Made me sick to the bones that her family still forced her to stay in a marriage that did her wronged so badly. Fucked up family, I’d have cut all ties.
Hell yes! What betrayal of your blood sister and husband.
@@magicalunicorn5853 Such sickening people, they must be born without livers & lungs.
Sister, I feel your pain. What your husband and sister did is unforgivable and can’t believe your family expect you to live this life with them and needless to say, to forgive them! I agree with you 💯 that they got what they deserve.
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I agree with you
Niam tai yawm txiv ces liam tshaj plaws li os txov koj lub neej
Some women have the heart of gold. They remain single for the sake of their children. I applaud ladies that put their children first. Her children are loved by her and they will her back.
Koj zaj no mloog tau kv npau taws heev kv ntxhub koj tus niam hluas heev thov kom lub ntuj txhob muab cov niam hluas siab nyoos zoo li koj tu no los yug rau lub ntiaj teb lawm mog
Niam laus aw cas kv mloog kj zaj neej neeg es kv nim pab kj mob siab khib siab ua luaj li og
Older sister if this just occurred yesterday, I would say divorce him and go find a new life with someone that loves you. But you wasted your entire lifetime by choosing to stay. They have their own karma but you also had no happiness and wasted your youth and life for nothing.
She’s the same she choose to stay with the dogs.
She also into the karma too… that why she stuck with them
lpppp
she did not want to stay
I know these women are so dumb..I was lonely just stroking my brother ..she could at least call me lol
Niamlaus aww kuv twb pab koj qias neeg li thiab o
Don't judge this sister. Easy for us to say but we don't wear her shoes. Alot of our sisters don't have the courage to leave but in their hearts and soul only like her. Much love for you sister. ❤️
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Sister koj ua yog tshaj plaws li. Kuv yog koj los kuv yeej ua ib yam li koj ua.
Tus me niam tsev zaj neej neeg (Ntshaw2 viv ncaus) koj mloog zaj no vam tias koj yauv kag siab tsis muaj viv ncaus lo txob tu siab heev mog
How can u call urself a parent if u allow or make ur two daughters share a husband?! So twisted and sick! Hmong elders should be ashamed of themselves!!
The father rather have his daughters share a husband than have a daughter who has a child out of wedlock. He cared more about his face then the lives of his daughters. I agree with you, the elders should be ashamed of themselves.
Hell would break loose if I was her. I would not forgive the entire family who hid it from me all that time and would cut them all off including the spouse.
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I feel so sorry for you. Your whole family betrayed you. You should of cut all ties with everyone. But you are seem like a loving kind woman. Good things will come your way. Please don't forgive them.
Koj niam koj txiv koj tus niam hluas lawv tsis muaj leej twg hlub koj li yus tus sister ntawm yus xubntiag es muaj peev xwm ua yus tus txiv ces nws yeej tsis fwm koj lawm tsis tas hlub lawm os me vivncaus mloog koj zaj neej neeg no ua rau ntshavsiab mob siab nrog koj hlub koj tus kheej mog
These story of siblings betrayed another siblings is so sickening.
Im glad n hope that this is one of the hmong traditions that we no longer are forced to do. Her parents n his relatives should had encouraged and hive her the strength to move on n not forced her to stay.
Don't ever invite any females into your lives or your homes. Not even your blood sister/s. Relatives will be the first to pull the trigger on you. My own sister invited 2 females to live with her for FREE. I told her she'd better becareful bc her man has money and the 2 girls she invited into her home are younger than her. She just brushed me off like such a thing won't happen. Lol! I've seen first hand what can happen already. It's a disaster waiting to happen.
Well tell your sister if she wants to get back at him have her call me lol
Niam laus aw cas tu siab ua luaj li os
This story is disturbing and incomphrensible. I can't believe you are as raum and qias neeg as your husband, his clan, your sister and parents to enable all of this.
100% totally agree
Agree! Nasty!
Exactly! They’re all dev xwb.
yep, this is America! You don't have to allow anyone to tell you what to do when you know it's wrong. I think she's too old fashion and still living in the 70s
No judgement on this sister and her story at all. My heart goes out to her. However, I do not like to use the word 'hate' but when it comes to certain aspects of the Hmong culture, it's BS like this that I will us the word hate for. Why would you hide something like this from your family/daughter & still tell them to stay in the marriage to save face? Disgusting.
zoj no mas tu siab kawg nrog tus niam laus no mob siab kawg
Mloog Xwb twb mob22 kuv siab lawm, thov kom koj txoj kev zoo txhawb koj mog tus mi niam laus aw…kuv yog koj los kuv yeeb tsis zam txim rau niam hluas li thiab nawb.
hai tau zoo heev
Koj yog ib tug niam tsev zoo tiag2 li
Huh! Listen to this story makes my blood boiling 🥵
Koj niam koj txiv ca tseem muab koj tu niam hlua lo ua koj tu niam yau thiab na txai tau tia koj niam nkawv hlub nw tshaj koj lawm thiaj yuav koj ua niam loj nrog koj tu siab tshaj li os
Es vauv haib haib ne. Yog vauv kam ces, niam tais yeej los ua niam 3 lawm thiab las mas.
I understand the times were different in the 80’s & 90’s, but dang…I would’ve canceled my entire family/relatives for forcing me to try & accept my baby sister & husband like this. where’s jerry springer when u need him?!?! 🤢 🤮 🤮
koj ua tau zoo kawg kuv thov qhua koj nw yog lawm tsi tsim nyog yuav zam txim
Wow, I don’t think I could forgive my sister neither! The whole situation is straight messed up and just heart breaking! I know it’s better to forgive, but how do u do that? You just can’t, I know sometimes you can’t help who you fall in love with. Come on your sisters husband of all people! You have to have some self control. If we know what we knew then and the times were different, I’m sure you could of moved on. Glad you have you children. Still not right what he, and she did to you. Karma, alway tell my kids do good, good comes, do bad, and bad will come.
Nrog koj tu siab os niam laus a😭😭😭...Koj tu niam hluas thiab koj tu txiv es lub siab phem2 tiag li os niam laus a hlub2 koj li os nawb❤❤
yg lm 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Hmoob txoj cai ma g zoo li
Nrog koj tu siab thiab mob siab os sister aww. Koj qhov experience nyuaj kawg li os. Koj tus sister ua txhaum thiab qias neeg heev li os.
Yog koj yeej ua yog lawm os nws yuav tsum tau nyob nus lub txim
Nws tsis ntshai npam li yom pab koj tu siab tshaj plaws li os...Lawv pab koj tus niam hlua xwb mloog li kws koj hais mas tus siab kawg li os...Yeej muaj kev npam tiag2 li os tus vivncaus aw yom...Yes I'am agree with you sister aw hlub koj tag ib simneej li os...Thov kom vajtswv foom koob moov rau koj mog.
Ntuj aw..yeej tim Koj Thiab Koj niam Koj txiv nrog tib si os. Txawm Koj tus niam hluas yuav2 Koj Tus txiv los Koj niam Koj txiv kuj hais es cia kho xwb los pob lawv tseem cia los yuav Koj Tus txiv thiab ces, oh yau nej tsev kwv tij thiab cov neej tsa ces tsim nyog ntiajteb thuam thiab tsim nyog Koj thiab Koj Tus niam hluas neb ob leeg tau teeb meem ib yam nkaus lawm.
You have been hurt in so many way. My heart goes out to you.
Kuv pab koj tsav siab os sister
My heart ache so badly listening to this story. Tears!
Ruam li koj thiaj Tseem nyob ntsia Koj niag niam hluas caij koj tus txiv
Yog kawg
Cas koj zaj neej neeg ua rau kuv kua muag poob kiag li nrog koj tu siab kawg
Beautifully said....nothing but love ❤️
I would never forgive my sister either if it was me.
Ua neej nyob yuav tau sib zam txim os hmoob
This is so freaking sad. If I was the oldest sister, I would not forgive her as well too.
Niag niam hluas dev
Koj niam koj txiv twb tsis hlub koj lis thiab os txob tu siab
Cov neeg Hmoob txhawb nqa lub tswv yim dev no mas qias neeg thiab xav kom tuag kom tas. Nyob los nyhav av xwb.
zaj no tu siab heev li os
Ta si yam koj ua yog qhov zoo os txhawb zog rau koj nawb thov kom koj ntsib kev noj qab nyob zoo
Tu siab tshaj
WOW!!! What a story!!! I hope you find peace within your life and drop them like the dead weight that they are!
Why are u still with them? We are living in America now! Divorce them, live on your own and have your own freedom SMH
Agreed 💯
I’m thinking it’s an older grandma telling her story. Back then Divorce for the Hmong community was harder. Too many people losing face. Parent would rather lose their daughter than lose face
Nyob zoo kuv tuaj koj thiab saib nej nyob mes kas thiab os
I can’t even continue this story. I am so mad with her that I want to find this family and put them in back inside the womb.
Tsis muaj ib tug neeg yuav zam tau txim rau cov neeg phem es nyiam thiab tsawm lig tug li no..
ฟังเรื่องนี้แล้วเป็นอะรัยที่ให้อภัยไม่ได้เลยจริงๆ คนเป็นพี่คงเจ็บปวดใจมากๆ พี่น้องกันแท้ๆไม่ควรทำกันแบบนี้จริงๆ
Sister I love how you put a curse on them 🥰💋 but don't forget to put one on your husband too.
No no no, she loves him…can’t do that.
It’s a women thing…they hang on. “He fucked my sister and take her to replace me, but i love him…”
Nice story..keep bring more stories like this one or more interesting for LIVES...
Ua tsaug rau zaj no os niam ntsuab teev kev khaum ces ua tiag muaj tiag dej ntshiab yeej ib txwm yeej dej nro
Kuv yeej nrog koj mob kawg li txob rawm Cia nws tuag yog tuag lawm Cas nws yuav taught zoo lawm Cia nws txom nyem Kom txaus2 too nawb especially nws that kawm taught nawb mog me niam hluas
Maiv vang koj twb muaj txiv zoo phim koj lawm ces zoo ua neej kom sib hlub mog
Thov txim os mi niam hlus. Kuv paub koj txojkev mob siab vim kuv tau taug koj txojkev iab siab no lawm. Kuv hlub tshua txog koj ntau nawb mog.
Yeej tsimnyog foom npaum li koj hais no tiag yus tus niam hluas kiqg los xeeb yus tus txiv thiab tseem los tsim yus npaum li no thiab ces cia npam kom kawg ps
Talk about keep in the family
Ntuj aw yog koj koj thiaj tseem yuav koj nyiag txiv yog kuv ce kuv puab kiag xwb ce kuv twb TSi yuav lawm o tuag twb tuag kuv yeej tsi yuav li o txaj muag ntau o ntuj aw
Love this!! You should've moved on but it is what it is. Your kids love you, you have a place to go when you're old. Karma couldn't have been any better for your younger sister.
Yog ib yam uas zam txim tsi tau li os, cia ua kev kawm rau peb sawv daws
Nyb rau lub neej no tseem muaj tej thaj no thiab lo.txaus ntshai dhau lawm os lawv
Lady if you’re still single now??…comments in here I will love you to the moon!!!❤️❤️❤️
Quav dev dhau os..
Txawm yg kv lo kv yeej zam txim g tau ib yam thb ntxim ntxub dhau lm
Tim koj niam nkawv thiab tim koj tus niam hluas thiab tus txiv ua rau koj. Tsis tsim nyog kiag qhov koj pab7 koj niam tais yawm txiv nkawv...nkawv yog tus ua rau koj lub neej puas.
Tsis muaj hnub yuav zam txim li lau
Lo koj twb yog niam loj koj nrauj tsi tau ces yeej yog tim koj mas viv ncaus peb uas neeg nyob yog luag yuav ib tug lawm ces yus tsi yuav yeej tau kawg koj yog tu npam ntsag mas
Listen to this my blood is boiling up to 500 degrees 😭
Same here
Koj yog tus niam laus Ua li ko ua thiaj yog Cia npam.
Qhuas koj
You did the right thing.
Viv ncaus koj mas hais yog kawg nkawd li lawm os.
Koj niam thiab txiv tsis tsim nyog tso koj tus niam hluas los txeeb koj lub need.
Niag niam tai yawm txiv dev
Koj haib haib li
Kwv Tij dev tiag2 koj txiv log yog dev thiab. Nej tsev hmoob yog dev tiag2
Tus txiv neej no khoom zoo heev li es neb 2 Viv ncaus thiaj yuav,koj los xuaj li koj tus niam hluas thiab
Hais yog kawg. Haha liam ib yam .
qias neeg thiab txaj muag tshaj plaws. U guys most og,s to do this in usa
Niam hlua txeeb txiv lau thaum tuag hle2 rỉ rau tên chaw saib ho
Koj niam thiab koj txiv coj tsi ncaj rau koj xwb tsis thas hlub lawm los tau yeej tsi npam vim niam thiab txiv twb yug tau neb 2 leeg los nkawv twb hlub neb tsi sib npaug
Zaj dab neeg no kuv tshib kiag hauv kuv lub neej lawm chim siab tiag 2 li nawb cov phooj ywg aw cov niam hluas rov taw tuam ntuj mas chim siab plaws li nawb kuv tshib lawm kuv chim heev
koj ua yog lawm yog luag qhua lwm tus ce teb chaw muaj kuv zam tau sib si yog tus kos ce kuv yeej zam tsi tau kiag siab phem dhau lawm 10 tiam lo yeej zam tsi tau
Wow I applaud you sister for your strength. They got their karma. Thank you for sharing.
1 yeej yog Tim koj niam thiab koj txiv.
2 yeej yog Tim koj tus txiv tsis paub cai.
3 koj nias niam hluas los Liam dhau lawm
Tsis tim koj tus niam hluas txhua yam koj tim koj txiv.
Ruam li koj tsis, no need to complain.
For any Hmoob women out there still seeking acceptance/approval/counsel from the family: this is the 21st century, new world, new rules, new laws, new mentality. If it doesn't fell right and comfortable, you don't have to succumb to family oppression. Follow your gut instinct if you don't feel the support. Love yourself and do what's best for you!
Amen!
Kev npam nyob ze ze lawm tiag.
Ua tsaug uas koj tseem muab koj lub neej tuaj qhia rau ntiaj teb paub tias lub ntiaj teb no tseem muaj tej tug poj niam siab nyoos thiab lim hiam npaum li koj niag viv ncaus no thiab ! Koj mas siab zoo dhau lawm os koj tseem pub koj cov qaib rau ob niag niam txiv dev ntawv noj thiab yog kuv mas kuv xum muab coj mus pub ma noj zoo dua !!
Niam hlob niam yau es paw ua ke ib txaj mas tseem qias neeg tshaj lwm haiv neeg lawm thiab os mhoob aw.
cas yuav tsim nyog ua ib zaug neej tiag2 li lau
Vauv! Npam luj kawg yom!