SHY/ INTROVERT PROBLEMS (RANT)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 พ.ย. 2024
- Hey Guys,
So i've been getting super bored of TH-cam lately, I just never know what to upload! I find it easier to blog. Then I realised I find it easier to blog because i basically just publish rants because i enjoy expressing my opinion so I thought hey, lets make it a TH-cam thing too!
If you're shy or an introvert you might be familiar with a few of these situations I talk about! Leave a comment if you can relate.
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As an introvert I'm instantly attracted to girls who are "too quiet". So I don't get guys who say that. My first thought is "I bet she is somebody who is genuine and highly intelligent."
Joel A that’s cute 💛 and very refreshing
I am similar but more extroverted. Initially i think the same as you, but as i (try to) talk to them it feels like pulling teeth. And as it can be hard to tell whether a person is quiet or uninterested, i consider it the better option to cut my losses and move on.
I'm 16 and super introverted and shy, well my best friend calls herself an introvert yet she is super outgoing and makes like a new friend every week and since I'm very introverted and shy I have like 2 friends and she's like "Oh you just have to get out more meet new people don't be so shy" like how am I supposed to just "NOT BE SHY" it doesn't work like that.
Samantha Kuntz story of my life! Don’t worry you’re not alone 😂 I still only have about 2 friends and I’m 25 now! I’ve learned that I actually feel better that way, il never be super sociable but that’s fine. We are who we are, don’t feel like you have to change for anyone x
Samantha Kuntz
"well my best friend calls herself an introvert yet she is super outgoing and makes like a new friend every week"
Your friend sounds like a liar who is possibly a narcissist as well, as she is not shy or introverted, and by saying to you, that you should just go out and meet new people and don't be shy, she is basically making fun of you as her life sounds great compared to yours.
@@memyselfandi6422 narcissistic sociopaths they lie and use people to get their way
I'm an introvert. I love it. I just pass off as the strong, mysterious, silent type. Which is really who I am.
Love that :D
same
I can relate to this video so much. I’m an introvert and I’m quiet and never really feel comfortable in big social groups, I’ve one best friend and I can be quite talkative when one on one with her. Whenever she’s not around, I do stuff by myself and just basically get labelled as a loner but I can’t be social and loud even if I tried. So making friends and dating is definitely a difficult thing for a introvert quiet person like me 🤷🏻♀️
Lien Nguyen I’m the same 😣 I think it gets easier as you get older.
Im a shy introvert guy its hard to start a conversation with people especially with girls
john i I’m exactly the same but with everyone 😂 girls and guys. You just have to find a common ground. Humour is a big one, if you have that in common and like the same tv shows, you can chat for ages!
Robyn Jane See that's some really good advice. The majority of my friendships have been made over bonding about tv shows, movies, or anime(that can get you a lot of friends).
You just have to find the right person, that's all. And when day when you mature, you will meet someone who has the same interests as you and someone you can anticipate with. Not as an object, as a person. Just keep pursuing your happiness and that someday will come
I'm black it makes it 50 times worse
When you're black people expect you to be something but it's not always like that it destroys me inside
Damn. Just recently learned about being an introvert. All this time I thought I was just super shy and quiet
there are types of introversion, one of them being a shy introvert - so maybe, you can be both :D
You are very pretty. I am also a shy person. Whenever Daddy's physical therapist comes over to the house to help Daddy with his physical therapy since he had a stroke almost 5 years ago, I go to my room and stay quiet. Then when Daddy's physical therapist leaves, Mommy has to come upstairs and say, "Hannah, the guy left."
Hannah Duggan aw thank you! ... lol I was the same when I was younger! I hated strangers especially in my home ! X
This is what I hate because I don't talk much people don't really talk too me witch I don't like. All I need is maybe a hi how your you today or how's it going but I don't wanna talk too you for 20 minutes or something but I do still want people too acknowledge me instead of ignoring me. Oh the struggles.
Ryan Scherbluk 😂😂😂 what are we like! It's hard being an introvert
Sometimes it gets to the point where you feel like you are n irrelevant being in this world. So sad but true.
I feel this. Got called quiet at work yesterday . It makes me feel small. I hate it. I’m an awesome person. But it’s hard for me to get it out. Especially when I’m nerves with anxiety. I’ve recently started a new job . ☹️
I'm sorry.. The same thing happened to me today and I started the job 3 weeks ago. I don't understand the need for people to say it. 😔
So this is me. I'm talking one on one to this friend (I call). She's a very lovely person. And then sooner or later her friend comes along and interrupts and starts a diferent conversation and I immediately forget where I even belong anymore. Then a whole group of girls (heaps taller than me) starts standing in front of me overcrowding this.converastion with their thoughts and opinions about whatsoever (I have no clue)and there's me. I start to slowly skedaddle without being noticed and go find someone else to talk to. But that someone is reading so I'm stuck here alone. So since I'm Descent, I go and nestle outside their conversation listening to everything. But I hate it because I feel like a stalker or an alien that does NOT belong in that conversation anymore. But I started it with this one girl and one by one it expands as girls start interrupting not even listening to a word I'm saying or even Taking notice that im there. Like I start saying stuff but nobody is answering or commenting so I'm just talking to myself in this oddly confused category of confusion in a conversation. And there's me. The little speck that doesn't belong.
I can totally relate to people asking me what’s up and my mind going blank😂
Star Wars Don’t Hug Me I’m Scared 😂 😂😂😂 literally my life still to this day
I am a introvert and quiet and shy I totally understand where you are coming from
This hit me right in the feels. So true. I am just like this.
😂
I do believe that we are the best kind of friends to have. Because we all have the time to reflect on ourselves, have the ability to genuinely connect with other people about the most interesting topics and mostly, we value the few friends that we have. I mean I'd like to have a friend like me.
You have just described my daughter and you look very similar too. She struggles with peoples opinions of her. I used to be so like this when I was young.
Haha i love this video! Specially the part when you say "when you try and say something within a group of people but all that comes out is noises because you voice is so low" This is soo me....lmao
Stephanie's Journey 😂😂😂 the struggle is real!
So relatable! Especially when your friend is narcissistic like I dont care about your story but they dont mind sharing their own.
You’ve just described my life.😀
Heather McCulloch 😂😂🙌🏻🙌🏻
"It's actually nice to have a Peaceful Relationship"... lol Lots of Breathing Experiences, Exploring & Amazements.
mixed race introvert girl here too!
"I changed my bed" hahahaha
Well I don't see how being an introvert is an issue. It shouldn't be. If anything introvert people are able to focus more and tend to be more intelligent. I would describe myself as an introvert aswell but overtime, like you, I have developed a circle of close friends. For me University and living away on my own got me out of my comfort zone and got me interacting with people but i would still very much describe myself as an introvert, mainly because at times I like my peace and quiet.
I wouldn't let these things worry me too much. Enjoy life, take it as it comes. Everyone has their own mechanism and be what makes you happy!
I'm a shy extrovert XDXDXD
How come you don't have a 100.000 subscribers? 😊 you deserve so much more! You are so beautiful 😍 I understand your pain. I used to be super quiet and people would ask whats wrong with me. Since I have moved to India it has changed. Being quiet doesn't work here 🙈😂
Beinginger aw thank you! 🙊😊... yeah I definitely think environments can force you to change. Doesn't help that the English manner is very awkward anyway lol 😂x
What I always hear when Daddy's physical therapist comes over.
Daddy's physical therapist: Do you really have a daughter?
Daddy: Yeah.
Mommy: Yes. She is 21 years old.
Daddy's physical therapist: Does she still live with you?
Mommy: Yes. She still lives with us.
Daddy's physical therapist: Where is she?
Mommy: Upstairs.
Daddy's physical therapist: Why does she never come down?
Mommy: She does. She just gets very shy around new people.
Daddy's physical therapist: How long has she been like that?
Mommy: Ever since she was born. She was born prematurely at 2 pounds and 12 ounces. I think that's why she's shy. And she is short and looks so much younger than her age.
Daddy's physical therapist: Aww I think that shy girls are adorable. Is she cute?
Daddy: Yeah.
Mommy: Of course. She is adorable.
Hannah Duggan I know this is late but I was also born prematurely at 2 lb 12 oz!
My extrovert friends always say that at first they weren't sure I was normal, when they got to know me then they realise I was normal Lol! What classify you as normal? I am reserved at first but I am really nice to people, sometimes I just don't talk because I really don't feel like it, I'm not interested in the conversation or the group of people I'm with... this happens at work too, in most meetings I'm just not interested and only say something when it's important.. I had to start accepting myself and not consider that I'm not good, this is how many people made me feel since I was a child. But if someone says I'm quiet I perceive it as a bad trait and I can't help having a strong negative reaction, I would like to learn how to respond to this in a gracious way without showing that makes me upset..
I'm not trying to say I'm not quiet, I just get offended when I'm called and labeled as quiet. I don't like being called it because it makes it look like being quiet is a bad thing. Kids always try to imitate people as a joke and when they get to me they act as if they're mute to imitate me. But I do talk, even though I don't talk as much as society expects people to. For years I've had all my teachers trying to change who I am (im still in middle school tho.) and here I am. Even though I don't talk to people first, I still want people to talk to me and ask my how I'm going once in a while. People assume that because I don't talk they shouldn't bother talk to me. Many times people refuse to talk to me because I'm "too quiet" and probably won't respond.
If anything, being quiet is a good thing. Many extroverts are too observed on speaking that they forget to actually think. While introverted people think. Just because someone speaks a lot doesn't mean they're more intelligent than someone that doesn't, often the truth is vice versa.
I personally as am introverted am more interested in becoming friends with a quiet person instead of a loud one. Most of the time the quiet person is actually very intresting, they just don't express it. While there isn't much to discover in a extroverted persom because they already express it.
I totally agree
@@RobynJane Very true. That's why I like to socialise with the quiet ones more because I feel that they'd understand and relate to me.
I am introvert people always tell me I am quiet they think it bad thing but it. Not it. Amazing thing you should embrace who you are being quiet is beautiful thing it nothing to be bad about if you quiet say quiet.
Your a really beautiful introvert! 😋 I’m an introvert too
Erik Blue aw thank you fellow introvert 😆💛
You seem like a beautiful person inside as much as on the outside. Your pleasant to watch. Not so high strung as others on TH-cam.
Amber Loretta aw that’s so sweet! Thank you 😘
If am with someone els i can be myself with helps.then ill still do or say silly stuff.but alone in public ill keep most of it to myself
I'm a introvert and I prefer a small crowd of friends because I have trust issues with people who are extroverted because they cut you off during a serous conversation and can't respect you when you talk
Quiet is good!!!
Is social anxiety a boomerang cause I cannot get rid of it?
Beyonce Obsessed fan feels like it 😣 I’m the same
Everything you just said, was true!
Shy/Introvert is not a thing. Shyness and introversion are two very different things.
Introverts love to talk to people they just don’t need to do it as much as extroverts, where as shyness is the thought that what you think or what you have to say is invalid.
Tyrone Spratt yeah I’m both and I think a lot of people are
Robyn we miss your videos. Come back!
Senor eggnogs ahhhh I will make a video soon! Life’s been so hectic with a newborn ! 😂
So bloody true!!
You look like such a nice person, I would love to have you as a friend ^_^
By the way, I can relate to everything you have said :-)
aw :) thank you!
If your so introvert how can you post a public video of you talking? I can’t
Ann it’s only because it’s just me and a camera in a room 😆 I think a lot of actors are introverts too, it’s like my TH-cam personality is a character
I can so relate to this video
I got rejected by a guy because I'm too quiet
where are you from i love your accent
elvie bnz 🙊 I’m from Essex, UK
Girl your accent is delicious!🤩
Cute cat
Haha my bf told me he thought the same thing! 😑
Tayler Nicole oh no 😂 what are they like
This is me 100%
Thanks😊
I don't think your quiet because your personality shows who you can be.
Is that why you have cats? No one wants to be your friend?
Kimberley Smith yep 😂
No one can hear me why is everyone Deaf
get a dog if u want a bet Friend... cats r a joke in the name of pet
Rikth Dcruze aw I love cats and dogs! I have both 😁