Sandy B. - AA Speaker - "Everything is Perception" 12-Step Alcoholism Recovery

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  • @marshafisch
    @marshafisch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    24 years sober and just went through the worst "emotional sobriety relapse" ever! It was in the making for at least 2 years. I didn't drink but I was still very - very ill. All because I DID NOT CHOOSE GOD! Oh, I love God, I talk to Him and seek Him. But I was so out there in FEAR that He was pushed out. Honestly, it was being in a sober blackout! I don't know if you can relate but I am on the mend and looking to re-work my steps on ALL those fears. They were ALL fear based. There is a reason we do a fears list in our 4th step. I am ready to look again... work again... change again.

    • @lyndastacks9132
      @lyndastacks9132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      marshafisch praying for you

    • @biglee3107
      @biglee3107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hope your well Marsha well done for surrendering again. 🙏

    • @jeffrey5682
      @jeffrey5682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for the inspiration Marsha.
      I’m also looking to do my steps again. Having a great life in sobriety, but find myself drifting away from God a day at a time. 😌

    • @tanyaanderson8779
      @tanyaanderson8779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Marsha, I can relate. Never had the want to drink but, those fears, pride resurfaced! Praying for you

    • @brentroman4265
      @brentroman4265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know exactly what you mean. This is something we don't talk about enough, openly. And it happens to all of us. I struggle with the same place. Your doing great. I promise

  • @craigtravisfehr
    @craigtravisfehr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    25 days no booze or weed or pills or meth. Thank you for these tapes.

    • @johnjones4572
      @johnjones4572 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Travis Scott well done buddy.. keep it up bro, you can do it 👍🏼

    • @augustinehourigan7453
      @augustinehourigan7453 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      WELL DONE TRAVIS.

    • @morphosis7655
      @morphosis7655 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well done! How are you getting on?

    • @realascanb222
      @realascanb222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@morphosis7655 I would like to know as well

    • @tonysimmons9296
      @tonysimmons9296 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@realascanb222 hope you are doing well

  • @mozerm
    @mozerm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is a great message. When he talks about the fact there’s no point to regretting mistakes he’s talking about how free will is an illusion. You did what you did because in that moment it’s all you could do. It’s very freeing to understand this. I love Sandy. One of the best AA speakers ever.

  • @brandonwilson2732
    @brandonwilson2732 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    8 years sober thanks to AA.

  • @beauskelton7819
    @beauskelton7819 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was the best speech I’ve ever heard in AA

  • @horryh74
    @horryh74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Sandy really knows how to fire up my spirit and imagination, he has such a great way of putting the program into practical terms, so much to learn from him, We only know a little..

  • @LinaCavalliXXX
    @LinaCavalliXXX 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    15 yrs sober and free

  • @jenniferanncattell3672
    @jenniferanncattell3672 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    he was so incredible~~so blessed to be able to hear him speak ~~

  • @curtisyuen6058
    @curtisyuen6058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Whose here during quarantine?

  • @stephendoyle252
    @stephendoyle252 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Thanks Sandy for being in this world..............your light shines on....................

  • @Thetonetemple.
    @Thetonetemple. 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Dearest sandy, The gift of AA keeps giving thanx to you and so many. Beyond this life you help me everyday.

  • @clee8862
    @clee8862 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    One of the best speaker ever...🛩️✌️

  • @richardnavarro5664
    @richardnavarro5664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    34 days of recovery its slow going but I'm all in...

  • @ricklarsen3644
    @ricklarsen3644 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i have found my way thankyou sandy 100 percent dependant on GOD

  • @peteshaw5288
    @peteshaw5288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for helping me stay sober

  • @davisoneil
    @davisoneil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this guy. Perception is everything. Great speaker.

  • @liamrichards1761
    @liamrichards1761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I wish I could have met this man. Been in and out of the rooms for a few years now, when times get tough Sandy B gives me a reprieve before anything else does

  • @pamelafranklin3452
    @pamelafranklin3452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I did not have the pleasure of meeting him but he help me see the world 🌎 differently

  • @tpckable
    @tpckable 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you Sandy!I feel your spirit as I write.

  • @morphosis7655
    @morphosis7655 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks Sandy, I love listening to you. RIP x

  • @Havanasyndromev2k
    @Havanasyndromev2k 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Eternally grateful to this man and his work .....
    If only people knew how much we had to lose to come to the table with god .... And how truly far we had to go ... Thank you god ... Please never under any circumstances think its futile
    You can recover on all we lost and all we have i know this to be true

  • @ynmamflm
    @ynmamflm 10 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Perception is everything!!! This is good. I will have to listen to this about 10 more times.

    • @augustinehourigan7453
      @augustinehourigan7453 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I listen to an AA speaker daily.

    • @jenniferanncattell3672
      @jenniferanncattell3672 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Augustine Hourigan~~ i do too~~

    • @augustinehourigan7453
      @augustinehourigan7453 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Jennifer Cattell Thanks for you response Jennifer. We have a great saying in Ireland. TOMORROW IS CANCELLED DUE TO LACK OF INTEREST !!!

    • @navinansal7879
      @navinansal7879 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Navin Ansal really good

  • @candacepowell3238
    @candacepowell3238 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sandy, I miss you! I used to go see you at Sibley Hospital on Saturday mornings, the whole experience. Was and still is electric! Love to Conway!

  • @franklewis6653
    @franklewis6653 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sandy your teachings will live on. Rest peaceful. ❤

  • @user-zb6hb4fs4p
    @user-zb6hb4fs4p 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am a Al Anon and love listening to Sandy’s messages.

  • @NavinHarry
    @NavinHarry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AA love this program but for the grace of God that you

  • @blair4661
    @blair4661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, Sandy, you are loved eternally. 😇💖💛

  • @ricklarsen3644
    @ricklarsen3644 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    BEEN SOBER 19 MONTHS

    • @christopher8809
      @christopher8809 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How's it going Rick Larsen? Hope youre still hanging in there

    • @jakejacob6464
      @jakejacob6464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy, Joyous, and Free

    • @creepy3973
      @creepy3973 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      still? hows this 24 hours?

  • @devinmc8452
    @devinmc8452 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm ready to get sober I have nothing left.

    • @bazjef
      @bazjef 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Devin MC you can do it! Goto a meeting. Surrender ! I belive in u!

    • @indigostar2979
      @indigostar2979 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Devin MC welcome . Keep coming back. Your in the right place 🍪☕️

    • @mikhailiwanow2864
      @mikhailiwanow2864 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope your doing good

    • @augustinehourigan7453
      @augustinehourigan7453 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      WELL SAID DEVIN MC. JOIN AA, GET A SPONSOR AND WORK THE 12 STEPS DAILY.

    • @fredrikbanke8252
      @fredrikbanke8252 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its works

  • @taylorsmith4128
    @taylorsmith4128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Right now i am going through “the test.” And im grateful.

  • @amandacerami6143
    @amandacerami6143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Most amazing share I've heard yet.

  • @fredrikbanke8252
    @fredrikbanke8252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this guy.

  • @72fishing
    @72fishing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nearly 2 weeks off it, hopefully for life now please god...

  • @alexkirk5879
    @alexkirk5879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Negative thoughts = negative actions / positive thoughts = positive actions - Emmett fox

  • @robwinsall
    @robwinsall 10 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Good Talk - RIP Sandy

    • @BARBARADUNLAPITR
      @BARBARADUNLAPITR 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Almost 50 years in this program, but I am greatful for him sharing.

    • @fredrikbanke8252
      @fredrikbanke8252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rip

  • @amycrane4988
    @amycrane4988 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Asking for more help, every day ❤

  • @catherinetarantini8549
    @catherinetarantini8549 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love his Buddha giggles throughout his talks. Hes like the Buddha, he always had a giggle.

    • @peaveejay1
      @peaveejay1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You knew the Buddha?

  • @LoriTrott
    @LoriTrott 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you!

  • @karabuller
    @karabuller 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    oh my god he's a freakin genius. 32 days today no booze.

  • @richardgarlands3270
    @richardgarlands3270 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this man🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @thetruthwillsetyoufree9209
    @thetruthwillsetyoufree9209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Alcoholism is a disease of perception. Or as my first sponsor told me, 'alcoholism is a disease of the thinking'.

    • @skateboard4415
      @skateboard4415 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The main problem centers in his mind rather than his body.

    • @betsyjohnson9777
      @betsyjohnson9777 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pms, physical mental and spiritual.

  • @surfman72
    @surfman72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Sandy’s talks they have helped so much.

  • @sarahlarson2172
    @sarahlarson2172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Who is Tozer? I’m so glad that someone recommended these to me! So good. 💓 🤣🥰

  • @jasonyung5749
    @jasonyung5749 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    [8:45] when true spiritual learning occurs

  • @pontificaterebal677
    @pontificaterebal677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thumbs down? Even though I accept that, I still wonder- why?

  • @user-zb6hb4fs4p
    @user-zb6hb4fs4p 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am Alanon and just love listening to Sandy. I wish my dad would have heard him maybe he would have quit drinking.

    • @daniellelichtblau5340
      @daniellelichtblau5340 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We learned we are powerless over people places and things. All we can change is what we do. Our reactions and our attitudes towards life and others. I'm sure your Dad is proud of you and is working on himself on the other side. It's quite a journey

  • @craigtravisfehr
    @craigtravisfehr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you

  • @pablomoz
    @pablomoz ปีที่แล้ว

    All-time great. A disease speaks through thoughts and judgments about things. Yes!

  • @anthonyroberson5199
    @anthonyroberson5199 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Last night we did something on integrity this is a perfect fit thank you

  • @pamelakelly5869
    @pamelakelly5869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    INCREDIBLE

  • @KAVEH318
    @KAVEH318 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Made my day !!!

  • @creepy3973
    @creepy3973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1st Sandy B. definitely will be listening to more! :)

  • @johnslone7654
    @johnslone7654 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    way to go , keep up the faith

  • @SandipKarmakarDrummer
    @SandipKarmakarDrummer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks

  • @markbailey-hd1gx
    @markbailey-hd1gx ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you . I truly enjoyed this.

  • @shownconde9088
    @shownconde9088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GREAT INSIGHTS

  • @trukeesey8715
    @trukeesey8715 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Finding is better than seeking.

  • @simon12332
    @simon12332 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spiritual life works, which breeds illusion you don't need it. It's only a theory until you pass some tests. So ask for MORE help. Work the 6th n 7th on loop. Problems Not resolved, removed by perspective shift

  • @nickdiaz6095
    @nickdiaz6095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    19:59 to start on the actual title.

  • @mikerotch7447
    @mikerotch7447 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    isnt this like the power of now? living in the present moment. being present?

    • @peterpetri8571
      @peterpetri8571 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly so!!! This is all about: we are learning to live our lives in HERE and NOW!!!

  • @realdill3569
    @realdill3569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Need a sponsor I need sponsee, how convenient...the fear you can break down by writing it down each fear is stemming from another eventually you'll find all your fears are originated from 1 single fear of death. You have to get to a place where it's 2nd nature to depend on God you don't have to ask him to do songs he's already gonna do this will reduce your praying for certain things but you'll always find comfort in prayer. I need out of my comfort zone to grow my character therefore I simply understand everything is God's will and do the next right thing

  • @davidbarnes1357
    @davidbarnes1357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man obviously has a tremendous amount of both sobriety and serenity and surely lives in conscious contact with his Higher Power (G-d). I just with he, and a lot of other speakers for that matter, would not share there philosophy about reality and or the nature of G-d.

  • @larryhenrichs7819
    @larryhenrichs7819 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sandy should considered for adding a 13th Legacy....All his talks

  • @johndowd6416
    @johndowd6416 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just do alot of listening.

  • @loutcb
    @loutcb 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    wow

  • @jcfg5217
    @jcfg5217 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do I change my perception somebody please give me an example

  • @Denise0752
    @Denise0752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Would like to know what the books were called

    • @alexkirk5879
      @alexkirk5879 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Big book of Alcoholics Anonymous, 12 and 12 of a a
      24 hours a day book,
      Day by day; meditations for daily reading

    • @abdullahibnyahya88
      @abdullahibnyahya88 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was referencing non AA literature I believe. I think AAs often are intellectually incurious and don't look beyond the horizon of their official literature. Bill W himself is a perfect argument against this sort of attitude, one glance at the titles in his library and you can see that he read widely from a variety of authors and sources. There is a reference in one of the books, I think maybe as bill sees it, that refers to AA as a spiritual kindergarten of sorts. It gives us our orientation and a toolkit but we are meant to search more fully and resolutely for God and to grow in our understanding and love of him

  • @innovativesolutionsfordesi1990
    @innovativesolutionsfordesi1990 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chris …. Yes

  • @tammyjanzen151
    @tammyjanzen151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10 months sober here

  • @jakejacob6464
    @jakejacob6464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    6 months

  • @davidwhitcher1708
    @davidwhitcher1708 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like how he says he make up that there is no God.

  • @berniesmith7073
    @berniesmith7073 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    as close to god by way of a new pair of glasses bernie Twickenham London x

  • @TheCaithleen
    @TheCaithleen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don’t drink and go to meetings

    • @marjoriejacobs7867
      @marjoriejacobs7867 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kathleen Carter Steeves u

    • @AlT-th4hw
      @AlT-th4hw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meetings makers don’t make it

  • @merncat3384
    @merncat3384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The audience missed a few of his jokes.

  • @kylepatrickmurphy4058
    @kylepatrickmurphy4058 ปีที่แล้ว

    😁😁😁

  • @jasonyung5749
    @jasonyung5749 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    On Holograms [1:57]

  • @tamarinds
    @tamarinds 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    based and redpilled

  • @shaileshsonegav9908
    @shaileshsonegav9908 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    hindi

  • @ash.sabraski1857
    @ash.sabraski1857 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    They missed the joke about shakespeare lol