Happy New Year my beautiful sister Spirit and Nadine and Dream 2025 is the year for prosperity and success happiness and peace all for you love ya Spirit looking forward to continue the journey that is yours SOL4Life❤❤
Spirit, I am 20 about to go homeless. I’ve been watching you since 13. I have horribly narcissistic parents. And they made me go crazy and call cops on me to be taken away, they played all kind of emotional manipulation games. Please keep me in your prayers.
Thank you so much for being there for me when I was comfortable and housed. I can’t believe I’ll be going homeless same way you did because of nasty parents / family.
First and foremost- Happy New Year to you, Nadine, and Dream! I am writing this because I have been following your journey with what you have been dealing with this past year with your family and I feel like I’m on the same boat. Time will expose who a person truly is on the inside NO MATTER what they say or how they treat OTHERS. If they are not reciprocating loyalty and genuineness that YOU give to them- then you have to let them be. I read that maturing is about keeping your peace by realizing you have to separate yourself from ADULTS who are not self aware, meaning adults who do not want to put the work in to learn about themselves and why they do what they do and how to mend their ways and stop their abusive cycle. Quick synopsis of my story is I grew up with this family (our families all traveled to America at the same time- we lived together for awhile.) Anyway, they had a younger daughter who was a year older than me so naturally we became best friends and went through schooling together. We slightly grew apart but there was still a connection between us and we would continue to contact each other here and there about our life. Anyway fast forward I met my future husband, moved out and bought a. Home with him. Out of nowhere-I was cut off from her life. She would make up or say hurtful excuses not to talk or see me like “I can’t hang out I’m going out with other girls -single ladies only…” and I would let it go. It got to the point where I was the only one calling to hang out or ask how she was. I gave up for awhile and we didn’t talk for over a year. I found out later on that she finally was in a serious relationship (mind you from my sister) who she had been dating all that time and I had no clue. This hurt me because when I met my boyfriend (now husband) I told her EVERYTHING. I finally said “ok let me be the “bigger” person because our families constantly see each other for holiday gatherings and it was really getting awkward. So I invited her to dinner and spilled the whole narrative and how I felt. She denied everything and said “oh no I was just going through something-I didn’t cut you off.” I would’ve respected her more if she came out clean and said the obvious reason- she was jealous or envious that I got married and bought a house first and she was still living with her parents at the time and felt like she had no prospects for meeting a guy. Once again, I just squashed it and thought everything was going to be back to normal only to find that NOTHING had changed. Meaning One way friendship again to the point that when my mother was on hospice my husband had to ask her if she even checked up on me to see how I was doing. Fast forward again-She eventually married her boyfriend and now they announced this past Christmas to everyone that they are having a baby. I have gotten to the point where I have accepted who she is and that her knowing I am not part of her life is OK with her. It’s really sad because it’s not someone I can literally no longer see ever- because as I said, our families grew up together so we see them at parties and gatherings etc and there’s no getting away from seeing her fakeness. It makes me so sick but sad at the same time because I honestly thought she was the last person to ever treat me like that and know that not having me be part of her life is ok. I’ve told my sister but she doesn’t completely understand. Even though my sis tells me this girl texts my sister all the time with her problems. Isn’t that telling my sister enough?! It’s frustrating because being the black sheep of the family is never an easy journey in life. Just like you-my eyes have opened even wider in 2024 and people have really told on themselves.
Also feel free to share this story for anyone else “stuck “ in this type of situation and if you have any advice for us going through it. ❤️ please share the story but not my handle if you can 😅
@ thank you Spirit. We carry so much unnecessary burden in our hearts we are aware of- it can be lonely to be the only one awake. it’s always nice to hear support and love from others who have opened their eyes too. I appreciate you and your time. Thank you so much ❤️
Happy New Year's Spirit🙋🏽♀️❤️ I'm sorry for what you had to go through with your sisters and what you're still going through but I really don't trust your mom either, I have this feeling she's tryna play both sides with you and your sisters and she's done being mean towards you cause she knows she's much older now and if something happens wit her you are the only one she will really be able to depend on despite how she treated you in the past so I think she will do whatever to stay in your good graces just keep an eye on all of them Spirit you deserve peace and happiness in your life.
Heard a quote recently that says “they don’t hate you, they hate how much the world loves you” and damn. Yeah! It’s very that!
Yazzzzzzz Yes Indeed. Happy New Years Sweetie
happy new year spirit, you are glowing like always! love from Canada
Happy new year!!
XOXO from a 🇧🇷Brazilian fan! Love ya vives! Even though having so many tough times in life, you seem to keep resilient and happy! ❤❤
So blessed to be watching your another year mama spirit ❤
Happy New Year my beautiful sister Spirit and Nadine and Dream 2025 is the year for prosperity and success happiness and peace all for you love ya Spirit looking forward to continue the journey that is yours SOL4Life❤❤
Spirit, I am 20 about to go homeless. I’ve been watching you since 13. I have horribly narcissistic parents.
And they made me go crazy and call cops on me to be taken away, they played all kind of emotional manipulation games.
Please keep me in your prayers.
🙏
You’ve also inspired me to learn florestry and work with flowers like you did. I will try to learn it while homeless
You’ve been like a mother I never had. Caring, kind, loyal to the SOLs..
Thank you so much for being there for me when I was comfortable and housed. I can’t believe I’ll be going homeless same way you did because of nasty parents / family.
I have my phone so I’ll still watch your videos while homeless at night! I’ll pray for you too
Spirit please keep doing the vlogs they’ll help me while homeless :) 🌺 🌷 🌹
Hi Sweetie. I Am Praying For You. You Are In My Heart. May God Protect You. Love And Light
First and foremost- Happy New Year to you, Nadine, and Dream! I am writing this because I have been following your journey with what you have been dealing with this past year with your family and I feel like I’m on the same boat. Time will expose who a person truly is on the inside NO MATTER what they say or how they treat OTHERS. If they are not reciprocating loyalty and genuineness that YOU give to them- then you have to let them be. I read that maturing is about keeping your peace by realizing you have to separate yourself from ADULTS who are not self aware, meaning adults who do not want to put the work in to learn about themselves and why they do what they do and how to mend their ways and stop their abusive cycle.
Quick synopsis of my story is I grew up with this family (our families all traveled to America at the same time- we lived together for awhile.) Anyway, they had a younger daughter who was a year older than me so naturally we became best friends and went through schooling together. We slightly grew apart but there was still a connection between us and we would continue to contact each other here and there about our life. Anyway fast forward I met my future husband, moved out and bought a. Home with him. Out of nowhere-I was cut off from her life. She would make up or say hurtful excuses not to talk or see me like “I can’t hang out I’m going out with other girls -single ladies only…” and I would let it go. It got to the point where I was the only one calling to hang out or ask how she was. I gave up for awhile and we didn’t talk for over a year. I found out later on that she finally was in a serious relationship (mind you from my sister) who she had been dating all that time and I had no clue. This hurt me because when I met my boyfriend (now husband) I told her EVERYTHING. I finally said “ok let me be the “bigger” person because our families constantly see each other for holiday gatherings and it was really getting awkward. So I invited her to dinner and spilled the whole narrative and how I felt. She denied everything and said “oh no I was just going through something-I didn’t cut you off.” I would’ve respected her more if she came out clean and said the obvious reason- she was jealous or envious that I got married and bought a house first and she was still living with her parents at the time and felt like she had no prospects for meeting a guy. Once again, I just squashed it and thought everything was going to be back to normal only to find that NOTHING had changed. Meaning One way friendship again to the point that when my mother was on hospice my husband had to ask her if she even checked up on me to see how I was doing. Fast forward again-She eventually married her boyfriend and now they announced this past Christmas to everyone that they are having a baby. I have gotten to the point where I have accepted who she is and that her knowing I am not part of her life is OK with her. It’s really sad because it’s not someone I can literally no longer see ever- because as I said, our families grew up together so we see them at parties and gatherings etc and there’s no getting away from seeing her fakeness. It makes me so sick but sad at the same time because I honestly thought she was the last person to ever treat me like that and know that not having me be part of her life is ok. I’ve told my sister but she doesn’t completely understand. Even though my sis tells me this girl texts my sister all the time with her problems. Isn’t that telling my sister enough?! It’s frustrating because being the black sheep of the family is never an easy journey in life.
Just like you-my eyes have opened even wider in 2024 and people have really told on themselves.
Thank you for everything! You make my heart happy when I need it the most. Love you- from an OG SOL.
Btw- don’t know why some of the text got crossed out? 🤷🏻♀️
Also feel free to share this story for anyone else “stuck “ in this type of situation and if you have any advice for us going through it. ❤️ please share the story but not my handle if you can 😅
Okay.... I'm Reading It. I Will Be Doing A ASMR Advice VideoFor You. Just Wanted You To Know I See It
@ thank you Spirit. We carry so much unnecessary burden in our hearts we are aware of- it can be lonely to be the only one awake. it’s always nice to hear support and love from others who have opened their eyes too. I appreciate you and your time. Thank you so much ❤️
27:14 I think the word you're looking for is choreography ^^
Hey, Sistah Spirit!!
The sound went off towards the end when you were doing your makeup.
Thanks for letting me know. I'll check it out and see what I can do to fix that for next time!
Spirit 2025 I feel it ! This is our year!!! Our Channels will prosper and family will continue to glow. 💖✨💖💜💜💜💜
🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🎉🎉🎉🎉Happy New Years! Let's get it! 💖✨
Happy new year
Happy New Year's Spirit🙋🏽♀️❤️ I'm sorry for what you had to go through with your sisters and what you're still going through but I really don't trust your mom either, I have this feeling she's tryna play both sides with you and your sisters and she's done being mean towards you cause she knows she's much older now and if something happens wit her you are the only one she will really be able to depend on despite how she treated you in the past so I think she will do whatever to stay in your good graces just keep an eye on all of them Spirit you deserve peace and happiness in your life.
Thank You So Much Sweetie. Happy New Years
We love you mama! 💕 2025 is going to be your year and we are here for it and you! 🎉🎉
Awwwwww Thank you Love. Happy New Years
Thank you!!! ❤️💕❤️💕❤️
Why is Nadine so quiet! Girl never gets on cam anymore? We miss her, what did I miss and why she ghosting us?! lol. Mama spirit it let us know
Mississippi Loves You Sweet Lady 😊
There is no sound in parts of this video for some reason.
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Happy New Years Sweetie!!!