[FULL STORY] I'm getting married in two weeks and I am totally screwed.

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  • @AbbyAxenty-rv8vh
    @AbbyAxenty-rv8vh 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +141

    “An extremely gusty woman. Like, pushing the limits of science and technology” bro that was absolutely SAVAGE 🤣

  • @TaysTyy_CrusT
    @TaysTyy_CrusT 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +201

    Because the actual story is a hour long here:
    OP saw his soon to be wife on the phone with her sisters husband marty asking where the sister is, the soon to be wife sarah says she was just there and the OP starts to question that because she was not just at the their house, he gets curious and snoops through her phone to find her sister is cheating on marty with a coworker and she's been covering it up, he now doesn't know if sarah is a good person to marry and has decided to cancel the wedding

    • @savannahlynn21
      @savannahlynn21 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      Thank you😂

    • @epicman943
      @epicman943 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      How did bro stretch such a simple story into 1 hour and 20 minutes

    • @Rowan-eb1dz
      @Rowan-eb1dz 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ty

    • @sirbacon761
      @sirbacon761 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      🎶 and a hero will save us 🎶

    • @undyingtricstar8390
      @undyingtricstar8390 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your a g g

  • @Ghosty09
    @Ghosty09 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +461

    Bro graduated from yappingsuniversity with a masters dagree in yapology he is the mayor of yappersburg and he physically can’t stop yapping

    • @Normalname-gu8jo
      @Normalname-gu8jo 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

      You forgot that he was born in the US of yapmerica in north yapmerica on the planet earyap in the yapper system in the milky yap galaxy in the yapaverse

    • @AbbyAxenty-rv8vh
      @AbbyAxenty-rv8vh 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      He lives in the state of yapizona and eats yapgurt with breakfast yaprrito every morning after driving his yapping car to yapping work

    • @Lexusnazario
      @Lexusnazario 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      U chose to listen? 😂?

    • @Normalname-gu8jo
      @Normalname-gu8jo 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@AbbyAxenty-rv8vh you forgot that he orders a yappccino from star yapcks

    • @Ghosty09
      @Ghosty09 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Yapper-man into the yaperverse

  • @Oceanleighside
    @Oceanleighside 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    I kind of think OP and Sarah do genuinely love each other. Hopefully they can work towards getting married and building their life together.

    • @zineguri8515
      @zineguri8515 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      did you hear about the part where he doesnt want marriage in future. If this story is real, this dude will never trust her to marry her. He keeps saying he wont waste her time but hes doing exactly that. Sarah sounds like she'd say yes to anything this dude asks of her regardless of whether it makes her happy or not, and now shes likely feeling very guilty which will magnify things. He should have just walked away

    • @Oceanleighside
      @Oceanleighside 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@zineguri8515 I hear you and even agree to an extent. I said "hopefully"

  • @kristianamarie6762
    @kristianamarie6762 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    OK, I’m really irritated at Evelyn’s parents because just because they divorced doesn’t mean they couldn’t be able to see their grandchild. If I were them, I would’ve worked on having a relationship with Marty even more. And then help my daughter get split custody so that they still could’ve seen their granddaughter when they wanted instead of stooping so low to where they won’t be able to see the child at all. What is wrong with people?

  • @Death87858
    @Death87858 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +64

    19:54 “if it vibrates any more I’m going to take it to evolyns office and charge 10 bucks a minute for her to sit on it”

  • @asmrmaroxa
    @asmrmaroxa 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +85

    I was hoping it was a wedding surprise or something. Why is it an affair? Can't people just stop doing that kind of thing? Break off with the person you're with before getting it on with another person. IT'S SO SIMPLE!

    • @Tensa_Zangetsu1222
      @Tensa_Zangetsu1222 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Because these people are dependent on their partner in some way and still desires someone else, these people will do anything to protect their public image

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@Tensa_Zangetsu1222 Did you hear Evelyn accused marty of SA.

  • @Nezuko_277
    @Nezuko_277 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

    0:56 for short users

    • @ishioshi
      @ishioshi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      W

    • @-w-ice-w-
      @-w-ice-w- 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      W

    • @Kuro_the_dog
      @Kuro_the_dog 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks

  • @dNorsh
    @dNorsh 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +156

    Why is this shit an hour long💀💀

    • @Your_mom512
      @Your_mom512 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No bc yeah why is it an hour long

    • @dehydrated02
      @dehydrated02 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yeah ikr

    • @nawaal4011
      @nawaal4011 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Fr

    • @atib5231
      @atib5231 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      Idk but I watched the whole thing and it's now almost 7am and I have skl in 2 hours I'm cooked 😭

    • @EvenMoreExplosions
      @EvenMoreExplosions 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Bro youre not on summer break yet 😭😭​@atib5231

  • @DarkGamerDrew
    @DarkGamerDrew 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +90

    People who have also watched the whole video
    👇

    • @aynun1647
      @aynun1647 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Person who should stop fishing for validation with YT likes👆🏼

    • @rambutan3655
      @rambutan3655 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If you watch it, give us the recap then

    • @cornddog77
      @cornddog77 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@aynun1647wow you are not a happy person

    • @aynun1647
      @aynun1647 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@cornddog77 man, I haven’t had a corn dog in a while.

  • @backbonepictures78
    @backbonepictures78 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    I like how there’s no credit to the person who originally wrote the story, TH-cam is great

    • @TRYME652
      @TRYME652 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah

  • @elijahbrantley4235
    @elijahbrantley4235 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    TLDR: This is gonna be pretty long for a tldr because the whole thing is an hour long. OP helps brother in law get evidence that SIL is cheating and then BIL catches them and starts filing for divorce. OP goes home and finds Sarah comforting SIL and plays dumb on knowing what happened and Sarah is completely honest and then OP drops the bombshell that the wedding is off then SIL puts it together that OP knew and helped get evidence of the adultery and attacks OP but then gets arrested.
    There’s like 1 or 2 days where OP and Sarah don’t talk and then they do talk and Sarah says OP was sexting a OF model but she didn’t bring it up because it had ended but OP had no idea what she was talking about so he goes on his computer and figures out it was his brother messaging the model. OP confronts the brother and the brother explains that it was during a rough patch in his relationship but that rough patch is over and brother’s wife knows.
    OP and Sarah end up not together but in like a exclusive platonic relationship

  • @lostluckk
    @lostluckk 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    this is a whole 20 essays 😭🙏

    • @-w-ice-w-
      @-w-ice-w- 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ong

  • @marybravo8484
    @marybravo8484 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I was gonna comment and say this man writes beautifully despite being in a really hard situation...
    And then the end hit me lmao 😂😂 Poor kid

  • @wendyboothman294
    @wendyboothman294 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The scenery is beautiful ❤thank you. I’m enjoying a free holiday

  • @ArmyGirl1021.
    @ArmyGirl1021. 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    idk why i watched this whole thing but ngl it was worth it i was extremely invested

  • @gemini6166
    @gemini6166 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think that you actually handled all the intertwined crazy situations/events personal matters very well and very level headed as was possible. Well done and all the best in and with your future. Thank you for sharing with us strangers online.

  • @user-mk8fv7mp1f
    @user-mk8fv7mp1f 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The way he said Australia was like having a bomb drop in front of me 😧

  • @novanic7769
    @novanic7769 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Not gonna lie I love how long is this xd

  • @spaceyeevee
    @spaceyeevee 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Bro wrote a whole 100k book essay and 30 years of self-biography 💀
    That ending is wild tho, poor kid-

  • @Poopick
    @Poopick 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    In the end he says "thanks for all the 5 people who are still invested in my crappy life story"
    Bro i have listened to this from start to end. I with OP only the best. He repremended all those situations better than i could have done.

  • @Maryaliece
    @Maryaliece 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    in the end, Sarah is the one who lost most. If her so called fiancé EVER REALLY LOVED HER, once he truly recognized what her family has put her through, he would have been more forgiving…..

  • @cynthiacook4200
    @cynthiacook4200 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You should never marry if you have any doubts it’s best to postpone or cancel the wedding. Get those resolved and then decide what you were going to do.

  • @Rasheens-Story
    @Rasheens-Story 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    That doesn’t mean she will cheat she is just covering for her sister probably because she feels obligated to do so. Maybe she doesn’t want to see their family ruined but that’s no excuse. If I was her sister I wouldn’t lie for her because I am not getting mixed up in their drama and I’m not lying for anyone

  • @Goldie789
    @Goldie789 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I think that it's sad that the cheater ruined her sisters happiness. She also ruined the grandparent connection for her parents. She is causing issues for her daughter. She ruined Marty's life too. I'm sure that he will be OK and he will help his daughter through this, but she really did cause so much heartache. For what? Some thrills in the bedroom? Was it really worth hurting everyone? I really wanted Sarah and OP to get married. She, more than, proved herself. If he really loves her, I think that they will marry. 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @jessicaalsengutierrez-pere8445
    @jessicaalsengutierrez-pere8445 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I believe sarah did love him

  • @eskewroberts7663
    @eskewroberts7663 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is the video version of " i ain't reading all that"
    if a kind stranger wouldn't mind paraphrasing for me

  • @liciewhiteley7376
    @liciewhiteley7376 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Small price to pay for dodging a bullet. Beauty is skin deep, fun comes and goes and lying to you and her family is not kind.

  • @ejesterhuizen2416
    @ejesterhuizen2416 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I watch th whoel thing and dit not even realize it has been an hour since i began watching

  • @Spartan_Virtus
    @Spartan_Virtus 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Anyone wanna simplify it down in the comments cuz I ain’t watching an hour to understand thus

    • @OreoFresa
      @OreoFresa 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sorry for the long text:
      OP discovered that his fiancée was helping her sister (OP's SIL) cover her cheating. He didn't agree with it and helped his BIL to find evidence and confront SIL. SIL went crazy and attacked him after OP accidentally revealed he knew everything and told her husband and ended up in prison, later turned community service thanks to her sister who helped her.
      OP also canceled his wedding and confronted his own fiáncee who both told him she was bullied from childhood by her own sister and besides, she had found OP's s3xting messages on Instagram from a year prior and didn't say anything.
      Turns out it was OP's brother who sent those messages because he had a rough patch with his wife. OP confronted him later on to prove his innocence and everything got resolved since the wife was ok with what her husband did.
      OP and fiáncee talked and OP realized she needed mental help, that she basically turned into a yes woman to everyone around her as consequence of the bullying she suffered. He mentions he loves her but that he doesn't know the real her and they're in a pause: not broken up but not living together.

    • @wordforger
      @wordforger 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Dude overhears his fiancee covering for her cheating sister. He tells future BIL/friend, and helps gather evidence like a private eye. Fiancee was comforting cheating (soon-to-be-divorced) sis when he got home, and admitted to OP she knew her sis was cheating for 6 months. OP broke off the marriage. Cheating sis assaulted him because she realized he ratted her out and was arrested.
      He talked to fiancee about breaking off the marriage. He explained why... and she accused him of sexting someone on OnlyFans last year. Turns out it was his BROTHER using his account.

    • @makennawright2134
      @makennawright2134 วันที่ผ่านมา

      His wife is a jerk

  • @Linkkus
    @Linkkus 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    For those who finished the short 0:54 for overlap 0:57 no overlap
    Edit: WHY IS THIS VID 1:19:14 LONG

    • @-w-ice-w-
      @-w-ice-w- 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ong

  • @Maryaliece
    @Maryaliece 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sarah has more than proven herself. Much more so than any other woman would have…….

  • @M00nzdr4g0nz
    @M00nzdr4g0nz 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Me at the start:(checks how long the vid is) holy yappatron i am not watching all that!😮
    Also me:(watches all 1:19:14 of the vid)

  • @almostcompletelyrandomcontent
    @almostcompletelyrandomcontent 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    bro could right an autobiography with that

  • @Killahbee168
    @Killahbee168 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What be pissing me off about these stories a person cheats when they talk mess about their significant other to their Affair partner then when they get caught Inn on the verge of divorce here come the Water Works

  • @gemini6166
    @gemini6166 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would immediately halt any marriage plans,engagements and leave her deceptive ass. If she is helping lie and cover for her sister especially about an affair she will lie and deceive you at some point.Good luck with whatever you decide to do. This definately sucks! Sorry you are going through this.

  • @Cheetoe_Puff
    @Cheetoe_Puff 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What is this 1950's detective ahh shat?

  • @CriminalsArchives
    @CriminalsArchives 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Loved The story 😂

  • @tiggiegillespie4356
    @tiggiegillespie4356 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Integrity is everything which is sadly lacking at times.

  • @Lettuce_lol
    @Lettuce_lol 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Fuckin hell this was a wild ride lol

  • @chupacabramick
    @chupacabramick 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I feel very bad for Shara and OP is a bit crazy 😅

  • @tammystewart7429
    @tammystewart7429 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So he’s upset about sil but gives brother a pass. WTF.

  • @Mikkytherat
    @Mikkytherat 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro the fact I saw this same story and it wasn’t an hour long💀

  • @DirtEater77
    @DirtEater77 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    People front Alaska gang
    👇

  • @Normalname-gu8jo
    @Normalname-gu8jo 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is so wild

  • @snailmail2000
    @snailmail2000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I remember this story from another channel, but i don't remember it being over an hour long

  • @XElena-yo7gb
    @XElena-yo7gb 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ive gotta stop! Ive listened to this for 45 mins and theres like 30 more to go.
    Im gonna have dreams with this voice narrating

    • @KristenM777
      @KristenM777 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      This is why I listen to my long videos on 2x speed. Gets done in half the time.

    • @myselfotaku9188
      @myselfotaku9188 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@KristenM777 exactly

    • @XElena-yo7gb
      @XElena-yo7gb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I wish I'd thought of that! I just let it go and checked to see how long it was and realized how long I'd been listening! Like an audio book

  • @EzraOliZ
    @EzraOliZ 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am NOT listening to allat⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥

  • @lindageorge6174
    @lindageorge6174 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh for God sake forgive her!

  • @janewick1082
    @janewick1082 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    How is OP'S situation with his brother different from Sarah's situation with her sister. No one wants to be the one to wreck their siblings' family.

    • @springday2385
      @springday2385 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I thought the same thing. The only difference is Sara was actively lying and helping her sister have an affair whereas op is just finding out about it. But the bare bones is the same. He needs to hold himself to the standard, otherwise he’s a hypocrite

  • @shannonleary2399
    @shannonleary2399 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think they should go to the complicit co-worker's s/os as well tho!

  • @joxfoxgaming8329
    @joxfoxgaming8329 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Marriage on paper for tax reasons is always option. You don't need a big wedding.

  • @luvv0andreq
    @luvv0andreq 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I kinda thought Sarah unalived Evie 😭😭

  • @ThatsYOU
    @ThatsYOU 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    *I googled Mandy BUTTON*
    ⬇️

  • @olivergordon-claassens2550
    @olivergordon-claassens2550 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    hobag hobgoblin is crazy

  • @Karma_Necromancer
    @Karma_Necromancer 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Imagine if he wasn’t thirsty at the start 💀💀💀

  • @user-ll6qw3it6g
    @user-ll6qw3it6g 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He should make it a we are going to pretend to get married so we don’t waste the money kind of event. Do they have the marriage certificate already?? If not then put a stop to that secretly. You need to tell her the stuff you actually saw via evidence and save yourself from divorce and wasting more time. If she’s doing that for her sister she will most likely do the same about amd to You.

  • @user-fj2op2wb7w
    @user-fj2op2wb7w 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    YAS OP CALL DA POPO

  • @katherinescobar9448
    @katherinescobar9448 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This story is 1:19:14

    • @N1XHL
      @N1XHL 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for that, Katherin

    • @kokonautus5343
      @kokonautus5343 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is also a youtube video.

  • @chardaehill357
    @chardaehill357 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Requested reads is better

  • @krushercrushall4947
    @krushercrushall4947 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🎉

  • @sockruhtease
    @sockruhtease 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I listen to extra long youtube videos when I've got chores but even I started to feel drained.

  • @That_BookNeRd
    @That_BookNeRd 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Its an hour and 19 minutes long-

    • @plaiinblox
      @plaiinblox 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      U finished it?

    • @That_BookNeRd
      @That_BookNeRd 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hell nah

    • @That_BookNeRd
      @That_BookNeRd 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I didn’t even start it😭

    • @plaiinblox
      @plaiinblox 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@That_BookNeRd ☠️

  • @adassabourdon8433
    @adassabourdon8433 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    oh

  • @nawal6842
    @nawal6842 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He hid his own brother's infidelity but broke off his wedding with his fiance for doing the same. Double standards much? 🤦🏻‍♀️ (PS: paying for OF for virtual sex for months is equivalent to having sex with someone physically)

  • @TJS-Real-
    @TJS-Real- 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Ain’t watchin allat 😭

    • @davidhreben9136
      @davidhreben9136 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You can put on subtitles and read it too

    • @MrRandom69420
      @MrRandom69420 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Or plug in earphones and listen to

  • @JGRush567
    @JGRush567 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🥪 Sandwich

  • @user-ve4do5wu4s
    @user-ve4do5wu4s 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😢

  • @RoninDaGoober
    @RoninDaGoober 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nah someone explain it in short terms I ain't listening for 1 and a half hours 💀

  • @waterl3monshark891
    @waterl3monshark891 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Re

  • @wolfie9368
    @wolfie9368 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Is this ai?

    • @oskarblixt9129
      @oskarblixt9129 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Google (bimbo wife mandy) first

    • @ethanstewart8272
      @ethanstewart8272 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Idk seems ai

    • @Blanzed
      @Blanzed 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Its an AI voice reading a story from reddit

  • @limitless4728
    @limitless4728 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1h😱

  • @Polarpity
    @Polarpity 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can someone simplify?

  • @rengoku703
    @rengoku703 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    WHY IS THIS A WHOLE HOUR?! IM NOT LISTENING TO ALLAT🗣️🔥🔥

    • @-w-ice-w-
      @-w-ice-w- 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I AM🗣️🔥

    • @AdesolaRaskai
      @AdesolaRaskai 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@-w-ice-w-me to

    • @-w-ice-w-
      @-w-ice-w- 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@AdesolaRaskai nvm i did NOT listen to allat🗣️🔥

  • @cinnamonj4426
    @cinnamonj4426 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Way too long. Complete description of the table and where they bought it. Who cares.

  • @user-lr3ef3dn6y
    @user-lr3ef3dn6y 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    First

  • @gohappypanda1
    @gohappypanda1 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This guy is an SIU investigator acting like he's FBI. I work in legal defense for a big insurance company, and i work closely with SIU and private investigators. I respect SIU but they aint the shit compared to private investigators and other agencies. This guy wanted an out from the wedding, bored out of his mind at work, and was so thirsty for drama. Everything was about him, how this affects him, hes righteous, he's the hero, etc 🤮

    • @nawal6842
      @nawal6842 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Omg so true. I thought the same 💯 if he really loved his fiance he would've atleast discussed it with her before breaking off the wedding. That thought didnt even cross his mind. He just wanted an out.

  • @simpforthesimpsons-cr1me
    @simpforthesimpsons-cr1me 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i don’t recall ordering a yappuccino💀

  • @EXOTICGrass-sf5kh
    @EXOTICGrass-sf5kh 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Womp womp

  • @Kevbing9825
    @Kevbing9825 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Bro is yapping too much💀

  • @JeffDahmer-ms3lw
    @JeffDahmer-ms3lw 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    YAP GOD

  • @radish6740
    @radish6740 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Rather ironic OP will hide his own sibling’s infidelity, “for reasons”, but he’s thrown a hissy fit about Sarah doing the exact same thing.

    • @zineguri8515
      @zineguri8515 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      and he jumps through loops to make it appear as if hes doing the right thing cause he gets called out big time for it. he than claims that these things are not remotely close to being the same thing. Paying OF and interacting with them/sexting is not the same shit as watching porn but thats what he reduces it all to. If this shit is true, the dude will waste Sarahs time messing with her for months or years, and likely wouldnt marry her (as he made it clear he now doesnt think he wants marriage ever). He also doesnt want to walk away cause shes "hot" and seems to agree with everything this dude ever asks/expects of her.