Rule of thumbs: - if it sounds too good to be true, it isn’t true - send no money to anybody - don’t be desperate, I know you’re lonely and want a mommy, but find somebody local and in person first. - send no full body photos to anybody.
Much respect. Thank you for this warning. I've been a victim of fake mommy scams on Facebook, losing about $50,000. I'm now going to subscribe to your channel.
Finally someone has been addressing the elephant in the room with topic. This has been going on for years. I've personally never been scammed, I don't hand over any money without seeing things. I also run my own business so I know a dodgy deal when I see one. If you have a legit business with abdls, make it very obvious because there are way too many scammers out there and the real one's are disbelieveable. If its too god to be true, it probably is.
I remember when I first got out of high-school a gazillion years ago, after I got my first job, I had the rep for catching people trying to scam the bizz I worked for. Check and credit card scams, I could smell them a mile away. My boss joked that I was either really good at catching scams or I'd end up being a master scammer in future. I love messing with phone scammers and acting like I'm agreeing to what they want me to do, playing their games, keeping them on the phone, driving them nuts with loads of questions, etc and messing with them at the end. The frustration is beyond hysterical! I absolutely love sniffing out scams. I'm a ginger and a nerd and there's literally no way anyone can smoke one passed me! This example really bites! Poor Fred. That's really messed up. Your comment about a vulnerable contingent of the population being targeted just gets me too. GeeeeZz, shouldn't happen to anyone but least of all to ab/dls who don't need anymore to deal with as it is. This one p@sses me off!
I hope you have BROADCASTED this to all abdl sites and groups so they can share it with folks they know. Notify story sites also since they are alot of them so they can pass the info out.
That is up to y'all!! I'm SO BAD at social media. Like, terrible. I'm just barely getting to comments now and it's been a zillion years. Not intentional, of course, I need more stamina!!! 😢
I remember when I first found out in my teens there where other ABDLs online I was so excited but most profiles on most sites are fake. I really love the TH-cam community because it's very easy to see who's real and who's just uploading old videos.
I’m so sick of scammers I never send any money and I hear this all the time over the last 11 years hope every baby has a nice Valentine’s days try and stay safe everyone
Sadly , ABDL's make themselves scam targets, and they have to be smarter. The scammers aren't going to stop, it's successful even if they get 1 out of whatever number of people. There's all sorts of videos on this, thank you Mommy Black ! Big love !
Something you need to understand is that there are a lot of littles who are autistic or vulnerable in other ways. They aren't making themselves targets, and saying they need to be 'smarter' is very victim-blaming. This scam is very sophisticated, and it's understandable why they've been scamming people successfully. So much so that this video needed to be made. Don't blame the victims in this situation.
@krullerized Eh, I don't necessarily agree with that. That's like saying that the elderly are to blame for being scammed. Same goes for cult members. These scammers know what they're doing and they apply all the right pressure points - telling them exactly what they want to hear to get them to bite. Then they start reeling them in with more promises of exactly what they're looking for. It starts small and is very methodical. There's also a lot of gaslighting involved, etc. And I think that, especially with this dynamic, if they can get you into littlespace... you're pretty much a gonner. You know what I mean? Have you seen those documentaries on the Twin Flames Universe? Totally fascinating and shows exactly how this scamming is done.
They very nearly got me, which was honestly my bad but there's a lot of internal justifying. "Man, their website is really weird and hard to use and sparse on detail" well, web developers are expensive. "Man, this person from the same city as me speaks kinda strangely" well, you know, sometimes people are like that, I mean not everyone is native to where they live. But them being really eager to have the payment go through, even though it was late and could be done tomorrow, and the fact that it was going to be converted into Philippine Pesos, was just too strange to ignore. And before I paid I finally decided to do my due diligence and found this video, so thank you.
I’ve actually dealt with this a lot on Instagram and I’ve had to put my account on private to try to stop them from contacting me or getting into my DM‘s it always happens when I comment on ABDL post. Thanks for the warning though. I’ll be sure and spread this around to anyone I can.
Hey, I'm not part of the ABDL community but I'd like to provide some information on the scammers. It seems quite clear that most people who scam are from Nigeria, but it's not always true. You can tell when it's someone from another country because they use Google translate to speak. I've stumbled upon scammers from Mexico, Brazil, Canada, US (most are phone services), Philippines, UK, India, Pakistan, Nigeria, the list goes on. Most ask for gift cards, which are completely untraceable, like iTunes, Apple gift cards, Western Union, just ways to get money. I was suspicious about someone who constantly begged people for Steam gift cards. Turned out it was someone trans who pretended to be a woman and flirted with guys. Much like you said, they pretended to be in a hostile environment, claimed their parents were kicking them out and they needed money. That's how I found out about ABDL because it was a boy (underaged) who was scamming people. He's not on hormones, it was just his way to scam people into feeling sorry for him. The scam he did was obvious, but it bugged me because he basically took money from friends of mine. I actually got inspired to make videos warning people about these scams. Same with 'Furries', and I often mock people in the videos. But I'm just responding to you, I'm not here to make jokes, just think it's cool you addressed the scammers. Most scammers are men, and like you mentioned they take pictures of models or random women on Facebook (or online in general) and pretend to be them. They also take photos of the play areas, like how you have pictures on websites, even some places that sell diapers and clothes. And while I don't understand the fetish, I'm against scammers. Finding all sorts of junk about people on Craigslist and Telegram who have 'Mommy' in their names or 'Baby' just to fool innocent people. I'm not at liberty to tell people what they can or can't spend their money on, but I can tell when people are getting scammed. Plus most of those scammers turn out to be guys who have a history of commiting crimes. I've done enough research on the scammers, but I can't bring myself to make an account on some diaper website lol. But the scammers are real, and if anything I'd like to warn people about them. Sorry for the long post, but I've been into exposing scammers for quite awhile. Thanks for reading if you did.
You know what's interesting... I tracked these folks back to... I wanna say Louisiana. Which was very surprising to me. Thank you for your post! Yes, go after all-the scammers, they make me so mad. They're completely targeting a vulnerable population and it's just so... wrong!
@@LittleBabyBooNursery Yeah, they always claim to be somewhere local but with VPN's and such you never know. That's the reason why I like to find them, not like do anything physical, but you have to track them and find their location to expose them. The odd part is, after watching your video I stumbled across a bunch of "fake mommy" accounts, and one of them was in California. I live in Minnesota, but I used to live in Orange County, California so it was interesting. This person posted photos of some type of daycare, with baby stuff. The thing is it didn't match the layout of the house, so I looked it up on Zillow and found out this person posted photos of apartments and houses in the area to lure in victims. With that being said, I reported the account and messed with the owner of the property a bit, you know ordering pizzas and placing Craigslist ads. You never know if this person could lure innocent people, and basically rob them or doing something evil. I also posted a fake ad (with no phone number or e-mail) on Craigslist, basically making it clear they're scammers. I included the exact same photos the person uploaded, even making comments about "please, I only accept apple gift cards, your money is no good" and included "her" address. I'm pretty sure it's a man, but whatever. The irony is that he was from India, I have no idea why he would try to scam people by pretending to be a woman. It's strange, but most scammers use WhatsApp and only text with it. I don't get how they can scam people, these days everyone has a phone and can talk. The other was a 1-800 number (I think it's 'Call a Mommy') and it's illegal in the state of California to scam people through phone services. Out of curiosity, I got a burner phone and decided to find out if they're an office or if they're using their actual phone to scam people, and it turned out it was their personal phone number. They're basically telling people to pay them, I don't know how it's organized but the women who answer the phones are really dumb. After 20 minutes of talking with them they snapped on me, I was just curious what their phone service provided and if they were worth chatting with. I don't get it, but they're basically a phone sex hotline and moan constantly. I managed to upset her when I found her Facebook profile, it's not hard to find when you have someone's personal phone number, but it had her real age listed and she was much older (she says 24 but is 46) than what she claimed to be, There's rules with prank calling that I go by, if someone is doing malicious stuff I begin to prank them. You basically can't call someone multiple times, there's harassment laws, but it's funny when you call someone from their own phone number. Now I do admit, whoever calls them is the reason they're a service, and they are actual women who answer the phones. I only bugged them for a few minutes, but that's because their service is flawed, they have to ask people for money. I'm just doing this in my free time, not promoting or protecting anyone. Figured it might make you laugh, but wrong is wrong, and nobody should break the law to earn a living. I don't like people doing wrong things.
@@LittleBabyBooNursery Oh and for some strange reason, they absolutely ruin the lives of people who are looking for the service. The person who lived at the house said they'd ruin my life by posting my phone number on the "internet" and telling people I wore diapers and all that junk. This is why I use burner phones when I call strangers.
Thank goodness I'm not a scammer, I'm going to be joining this fun community instead because it's super safe and for school students, things would be easier
Oh no! I wish Fred had checked first, but I can see why he'd be so trusting wife you guys are such a trustworthy group. I just signed up for Instagram and I think I followed them trying to find other accounts to follow. I was just talking to a friend that went through something similar. Want abdl community. She was just a terrible person that robbed his career. He's still scarred from it. Unfortunately, my photos have been used in the past for a catfish account. I don't post my have online anymore
*sigh . . . . . * why do people do this to each other. This right here prevents us as a people from reaching paradise on our little blue ball we call home.
I kind of wonder if it's a certain Facebook page. A lot of what they share might be stolen pics and to say they sound"sketchy" feels like an understatement. After at least 20 years of being a babies I like to think I got pretty good at what to spot
I am from where different country and even my English is not the best. But I wouldn’t fall for something like that. I think only depressed and desperate people would fall for something like this. Stranger who I never met asks for money for some kind of accident or wants me to pay his or her hospital bills? WTF?
It doesn't start out that way, though. It starts out as attention: someone giving you attention and playing along with whatever fantasy you have. Then they bait you slowly over time to the point where you think that you have a genuine connection with them. And the you know there's something off, but you have an even stronger drive that thinks, "What if this IS real?" You hold onto that glimmer of hope that this COULD be the real deal.
Avoiding being scammed is so simple, I don't get why so many people fall for it. Any time someone asks you to send a payment, via cashapp, Pay Pal, debit card, for "Registration"..or ANYTHING. Prior to meeting you, It's a scam.
Can you mention when those "mommies"who pretend their birthday is like next week or soon? I'm just saying most of them pretend it's their birthday, and those are the people who accept whatever present and completely ditch the people they try convincing.
I've been swindled by Mommy Cherry Mommy Jada registration fee diaper license Mommy pay 2 play role-playing fee. I've kept all correspondence from ABDL community and emails and cashapp payments
I have heard of the ABDL Community for all scammers from another video, and they said they use AI images to make there profile. Wether that is true or not is a diffrent question. I must agree this one is a wild one. 2:25 The website looks just looks like any ordinary ABDL website which is scary. Sure I have seen ABDL websites because I have visited ABDL nursery websites before and granted some of them have more of a cute design to them others go for the simple look. 2:35 As much as they maybe people out there that say don't put down information, Mommy Black says it herself. 3:10 if you want to come to BabyBoos nursery you have to fill out information. Some people may say that you should not give money to people like these. Well most of the ABDL Nurseries websites I looked at usually cost on how long you are gonna stay. The MAX Nights are usually one, the lowest usually can start at $100 = £78.75 or £100 = $126.95 and that is just for hour stay. It can go up to $500 = £393.83 or £500 = $634.76 for a night in the adult nursery. I used a conversion site so if it is wrong it is xe[dot]com, not me. I have sometimes seen overnight prices starting at 450 £/$ before. Sometimes the nursery may charge extra for changes, usually mess. (XD hay nobody wants to deal with your sh💩t, unless they get paid lol!) Also the cost goes to the up keep of the nursery, buying big babies like yourself nappies/diapers, paying for the heating and water bills, as sad as it is just because your a baby dose not mean adult stuff will stop. The only way to go to a abdl nursery that you don't have to pay top dollar is a privert one. They are quite a few Daddies/Mummies/CG/Switches that have a nursery part in there own home and are willing to let you play there. After they get to know you of course. You may need to chip in for travel and food and padding because not all of them are made out of money. But this way stops them declearing it as a business. Sorry if I went on a tangent there but yeah. 😊 This looks uncanny to a point it looks normal and that is the scary thing about ABDL community for all. I do feel bad for Fred. As a ABDL myself and I have seen other ABDL's doing this . We want to be in a safe environment where we can express ourselfs. . We want to be around others. Whether that maybe other littles in a small room with a adapted playpen and a changing matt. Or a kitted out nursery with Mummy and Daddy looking after us. We want that sort of thing. . Some of us want to be changed when we make a "accident" and not let it end up in a NSFW way (I Know a few of you may love a happy ending at the end of your change, but I have a Daddy for that. 😉) We get so exited of the possibility that this person, is going to take care of us and we get so exited and build ourselfs up then when it comes down to it 💔 they don't show up, change of plan, or in Freds case a scammer. Then you cry 😢 and cry 😭 and cry some more 😥 You might start to wonder wheather it is your fault, you go into depression. Then once you're over that you start again only to repeat the cycle. 🔄 DO BE AWARE NOT EVERYONE IS LIKE THIS THOUGH, THEY ARE SOME GENUING GOOD PEOPLE THAT WANT TO MERT YOU IN OUR ABDL COMMUNITY! 9:56 It is upsetting that they are stealing photos from other sites/nurseries/people and making it look like there "nursery" is big, hey we even take our babies to the ABDL nappy shop. Look how many members enjoyed coming to visit us. Actually maybe keep a eye 👁 out because they may have taken a few photos from the Baby Boo nursery. Hay even a quick google search you can find all the nursery images you want. It would not put it past me if they used a few AI image/art generators to get a few. I am just hope that Fred can get the help he needs. And maybe a night in a real ABDL nursery free of charge and I hope that this site and any other scam sites get taken down.
Yah, there have been scammers who have stolen our images. Luckily we have a LOT of littles out there who call them out and/or let us know. Thanks for your comment! xoxo!
I litterly had a man where i was recieving counseling ciberstocking me then following me and threatening me for being on abdl sites he was a legit sex offender and kidnapper now i litterly just had to hope and pray that when he got kicked out word wouldnt get out it was horrifing it still is im a person with complex ptsd and autism spectrum disorder so theres oviously some truth to there being people looking for freinds mommies and daddies just like i was
Registration fees Form these Gas fees Or Mommy's on her period and they ask for pads and us little's. Give them money. Money Or they say I'm in the hospital because coming To get you and Mommy had an . Car accident Baby, pay the hospital bills, so Mommy can be on the way to be with you. Mommy feels so sorry that Mommy couldn't be with you. They're more than just one way to scam a little. I've been scammed for 17 years by so many scams. It's not fair
Hey I never knew about ABDL until I was 13 has started looking for momme. I've got scammed from 13 to 30. I've never dated I am p***** off more than you ever. Can imagine I want 1 person in 1 person only. To be with me. I really want to talk to u
I was talking to an "abdl" on TikTok it started out good she even said she was in my state in a town I used to live in I always thought I was the only one in Wyoming but I digress we were chatting things were going well then she wanted me to pony up 200.00 bones to join the national abdl nursery which I had never heard of before when I asked for the Websight she kept dogging me and I was like I've got two words for you honey yeah no
YAAAAS! "No thank you, please drive thru..." Well, at least you wasted their time. It'd be funny if folks just started stringing these scammers along, giving them excuses, but taking up all of their time. Can you imagine? 😆
I tried to control my email accounts my Facebook my Instagram and yes the phone number that come back to came from Nigeria this is like the third time that someone has tried to scam me this way
Hi I have just join this ABDL community I Really need your help, I think I have been scam. I was talking to a mommy in Nebraska. She told me I have to paid $125 to meet with here the boss told me. If I do not meet with her. there will be a late fee of $15 per day. But i am not for sure is there any way I can get your email address so I can send you the information to take a look at it. Thank You!!
Rule of thumbs:
- if it sounds too good to be true, it isn’t true
- send no money to anybody
- don’t be desperate, I know you’re lonely and want a mommy, but find somebody local and in person first.
- send no full body photos to anybody.
I think breaking rule #3 is how people get scammed in the first place
@@Krullerized they want a quick way around it but it bites them in the end
Much respect. Thank you for this warning. I've been a victim of fake mommy scams on Facebook, losing about $50,000. I'm now going to subscribe to your channel.
Finally someone has been addressing the elephant in the room with topic. This has been going on for years. I've personally never been scammed, I don't hand over any money without seeing things. I also run my own business so I know a dodgy deal when I see one. If you have a legit business with abdls, make it very obvious because there are way too many scammers out there and the real one's are disbelieveable. If its too god to be true, it probably is.
I remember when I first got out of high-school a gazillion years ago, after I got my first job, I had the rep for catching people trying to scam the bizz I worked for. Check and credit card scams, I could smell them a mile away. My boss joked that I was either really good at catching scams or I'd end up being a master scammer in future. I love messing with phone scammers and acting like I'm agreeing to what they want me to do, playing their games, keeping them on the phone, driving them nuts with loads of questions, etc and messing with them at the end. The frustration is beyond hysterical! I absolutely love sniffing out scams. I'm a ginger and a nerd and there's literally no way anyone can smoke one passed me!
This example really bites! Poor Fred. That's really messed up. Your comment about a vulnerable contingent of the population being targeted just gets me too. GeeeeZz, shouldn't happen to anyone but least of all to ab/dls who don't need anymore to deal with as it is.
This one p@sses me off!
I LOVE that you mess with them! I wish that people would do that with ABDL scammers. Ug, that'd be priceless!!
Neeerd, you say? *{eyebrows, eyebrows}*
I ASSUME the you all have informed the FEDS and LAW ENFORCEMENT about this TRASH SCAMMERS
I hope you have BROADCASTED this to all abdl sites and groups so they can share it with folks they know. Notify story sites also since they are alot of them so they can pass the info out.
That is up to y'all!! I'm SO BAD at social media. Like, terrible. I'm just barely getting to comments now and it's been a zillion years. Not intentional, of course, I need more stamina!!! 😢
Thank you for the video.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS INSIGHT MOMMY BLACK!!🍼🍼
I remember when I first found out in my teens there where other ABDLs online I was so excited but most profiles on most sites are fake. I really love the TH-cam community because it's very easy to see who's real and who's just uploading old videos.
I’m so sick of scammers I never send any money and I hear this all the time over the last 11 years hope every baby has a nice Valentine’s days try and stay safe everyone
Sadly , ABDL's make themselves scam targets, and they have to be smarter. The scammers aren't going to stop, it's successful even if they get 1 out of whatever number of people. There's all sorts of videos on this, thank you Mommy Black ! Big love !
Something you need to understand is that there are a lot of littles who are autistic or vulnerable in other ways. They aren't making themselves targets, and saying they need to be 'smarter' is very victim-blaming.
This scam is very sophisticated, and it's understandable why they've been scamming people successfully. So much so that this video needed to be made.
Don't blame the victims in this situation.
@@olly8233 It's anything but sophisticated and yes victims are to blame 300%
Agreed.
@krullerized Eh, I don't necessarily agree with that. That's like saying that the elderly are to blame for being scammed. Same goes for cult members.
These scammers know what they're doing and they apply all the right pressure points - telling them exactly what they want to hear to get them to bite. Then they start reeling them in with more promises of exactly what they're looking for. It starts small and is very methodical. There's also a lot of gaslighting involved, etc.
And I think that, especially with this dynamic, if they can get you into littlespace... you're pretty much a gonner. You know what I mean?
Have you seen those documentaries on the Twin Flames Universe? Totally fascinating and shows exactly how this scamming is done.
I totally support you and good luck
They very nearly got me, which was honestly my bad but there's a lot of internal justifying. "Man, their website is really weird and hard to use and sparse on detail" well, web developers are expensive. "Man, this person from the same city as me speaks kinda strangely" well, you know, sometimes people are like that, I mean not everyone is native to where they live. But them being really eager to have the payment go through, even though it was late and could be done tomorrow, and the fact that it was going to be converted into Philippine Pesos, was just too strange to ignore. And before I paid I finally decided to do my due diligence and found this video, so thank you.
I’ve actually dealt with this a lot on Instagram and I’ve had to put my account on private to try to stop them from contacting me or getting into my DM‘s it always happens when I comment on ABDL post. Thanks for the warning though. I’ll be sure and spread this around to anyone I can.
Hey, I'm not part of the ABDL community but I'd like to provide some information on the scammers. It seems quite clear that most people who scam are from Nigeria, but it's not always true.
You can tell when it's someone from another country because they use Google translate to speak. I've stumbled upon scammers from Mexico, Brazil, Canada, US (most are phone services), Philippines, UK, India, Pakistan, Nigeria, the list goes on.
Most ask for gift cards, which are completely untraceable, like iTunes, Apple gift cards, Western Union, just ways to get money. I was suspicious about someone who constantly begged people for Steam gift cards.
Turned out it was someone trans who pretended to be a woman and flirted with guys. Much like you said, they pretended to be in a hostile environment, claimed their parents were kicking them out and they needed money.
That's how I found out about ABDL because it was a boy (underaged) who was scamming people. He's not on hormones, it was just his way to scam people into feeling sorry for him.
The scam he did was obvious, but it bugged me because he basically took money from friends of mine. I actually got inspired to make videos warning people about these scams.
Same with 'Furries', and I often mock people in the videos. But I'm just responding to you, I'm not here to make jokes, just think it's cool you addressed the scammers.
Most scammers are men, and like you mentioned they take pictures of models or random women on Facebook (or online in general) and pretend to be them. They also take photos of the play areas, like how you have pictures on websites, even some places that sell diapers and clothes.
And while I don't understand the fetish, I'm against scammers. Finding all sorts of junk about people on Craigslist and Telegram who have 'Mommy' in their names or 'Baby' just to fool innocent people.
I'm not at liberty to tell people what they can or can't spend their money on, but I can tell when people are getting scammed. Plus most of those scammers turn out to be guys who have a history of commiting crimes.
I've done enough research on the scammers, but I can't bring myself to make an account on some diaper website lol. But the scammers are real, and if anything I'd like to warn people about them.
Sorry for the long post, but I've been into exposing scammers for quite awhile. Thanks for reading if you did.
You know what's interesting... I tracked these folks back to... I wanna say Louisiana. Which was very surprising to me.
Thank you for your post! Yes, go after all-the scammers, they make me so mad. They're completely targeting a vulnerable population and it's just so... wrong!
@@LittleBabyBooNursery Yeah, they always claim to be somewhere local but with VPN's and such you never know. That's the reason why I like to find them, not like do anything physical, but you have to track them and find their location to expose them.
The odd part is, after watching your video I stumbled across a bunch of "fake mommy" accounts, and one of them was in California. I live in Minnesota, but I used to live in Orange County, California so it was interesting.
This person posted photos of some type of daycare, with baby stuff. The thing is it didn't match the layout of the house, so I looked it up on Zillow and found out this person posted photos of apartments and houses in the area to lure in victims.
With that being said, I reported the account and messed with the owner of the property a bit, you know ordering pizzas and placing Craigslist ads. You never know if this person could lure innocent people, and basically rob them or doing something evil.
I also posted a fake ad (with no phone number or e-mail) on Craigslist, basically making it clear they're scammers. I included the exact same photos the person uploaded, even making comments about "please, I only accept apple gift cards, your money is no good" and included "her" address.
I'm pretty sure it's a man, but whatever. The irony is that he was from India, I have no idea why he would try to scam people by pretending to be a woman.
It's strange, but most scammers use WhatsApp and only text with it. I don't get how they can scam people, these days everyone has a phone and can talk.
The other was a 1-800 number (I think it's 'Call a Mommy') and it's illegal in the state of California to scam people through phone services. Out of curiosity, I got a burner phone and decided to find out if they're an office or if they're using their actual phone to scam people, and it turned out it was their personal phone number.
They're basically telling people to pay them, I don't know how it's organized but the women who answer the phones are really dumb. After 20 minutes of talking with them they snapped on me, I was just curious what their phone service provided and if they were worth chatting with.
I don't get it, but they're basically a phone sex hotline and moan constantly. I managed to upset her when I found her Facebook profile, it's not hard to find when you have someone's personal phone number, but it had her real age listed and she was much older (she says 24 but is 46) than what she claimed to be,
There's rules with prank calling that I go by, if someone is doing malicious stuff I begin to prank them. You basically can't call someone multiple times, there's harassment laws, but it's funny when you call someone from their own phone number.
Now I do admit, whoever calls them is the reason they're a service, and they are actual women who answer the phones. I only bugged them for a few minutes, but that's because their service is flawed, they have to ask people for money.
I'm just doing this in my free time, not promoting or protecting anyone. Figured it might make you laugh, but wrong is wrong, and nobody should break the law to earn a living.
I don't like people doing wrong things.
@@LittleBabyBooNursery Oh and for some strange reason, they absolutely ruin the lives of people who are looking for the service. The person who lived at the house said they'd ruin my life by posting my phone number on the "internet" and telling people I wore diapers and all that junk.
This is why I use burner phones when I call strangers.
Any time someone discovers a mass of vulnerable people who want something , desperately, they prey on them.
Thank goodness I'm not a scammer, I'm going to be joining this fun community instead because it's super safe and for school students, things would be easier
Oh no! I wish Fred had checked first, but I can see why he'd be so trusting wife you guys are such a trustworthy group. I just signed up for Instagram and I think I followed them trying to find other accounts to follow.
I was just talking to a friend that went through something similar. Want abdl community. She was just a terrible person that robbed his career. He's still scarred from it.
Unfortunately, my photos have been used in the past for a catfish account. I don't post my have online anymore
*sigh . . . . . * why do people do this to each other. This right here prevents us as a people from reaching paradise on our little blue ball we call home.
I know, I just don't get it either.
I kind of wonder if it's a certain Facebook page.
A lot of what they share might be stolen pics and to say they sound"sketchy" feels like an understatement. After at least 20 years of being a babies I like to think I got pretty good at what to spot
Also, I can't say it enough but I love how you interact with your comments and followers. You seem very heartfelt and that's kinda how I roll
I am from where different country and even my English is not the best. But I wouldn’t fall for something like that. I think only depressed and desperate people would fall for something like this. Stranger who I never met asks for money for some kind of accident or wants me to pay his or her hospital bills? WTF?
It doesn't start out that way, though. It starts out as attention: someone giving you attention and playing along with whatever fantasy you have. Then they bait you slowly over time to the point where you think that you have a genuine connection with them. And the you know there's something off, but you have an even stronger drive that thinks, "What if this IS real?" You hold onto that glimmer of hope that this COULD be the real deal.
What are some of safe places that people have had good experiences at?
Avoiding being scammed is so simple, I don't get why so many people fall for it. Any time someone asks you to send a payment, via cashapp, Pay Pal, debit card, for "Registration"..or ANYTHING. Prior to meeting you, It's a scam.
Baby Boo is one of the few nurseries who are trustworthy
Can you mention when those "mommies"who pretend their birthday is like next week or soon? I'm just saying most of them pretend it's their birthday, and those are the people who accept whatever present and completely ditch the people they try convincing.
I have been a victim how do I contact you
I’ve been had by this many many times and latest one today :( they go through Facebook messenger too
That is shocking 😱😱
I've been swindled by Mommy Cherry Mommy Jada registration fee diaper license Mommy pay 2 play role-playing fee. I've kept all correspondence from ABDL community and emails and cashapp payments
Ug, that's terrible. Please consider filing a complaint with the FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center: www.ic3.gov/
What are some safe places to meet other people abdls and Mommy's and daddies
I encountered one who stole my social media accounts and gmail account, and she wanted 100$ to give it back to me…
Ug. That's terrible. I hope you were able to get your accounts back. :(
I have heard of the ABDL Community for all scammers from another video, and they said they use AI images to make there profile. Wether that is true or not is a diffrent question.
I must agree this one is a wild one.
2:25
The website looks just looks like any ordinary ABDL website which is scary.
Sure I have seen ABDL websites because I have visited ABDL nursery websites before and granted some of them have more of a cute design to them others go for the simple look.
2:35
As much as they maybe people out there that say don't put down information, Mommy Black says it herself. 3:10 if you want to come to BabyBoos nursery you have to fill out information.
Some people may say that you should not give money to people like these.
Well most of the ABDL Nurseries websites I looked at usually cost on how long you are gonna stay.
The MAX Nights are usually one, the lowest usually can start at $100 = £78.75 or £100 = $126.95
and that is just for hour stay.
It can go up to $500 = £393.83
or
£500 = $634.76
for a night in the adult nursery.
I used a conversion site so if it is wrong it is xe[dot]com, not me.
I have sometimes seen overnight prices starting at 450 £/$ before.
Sometimes the nursery may charge extra for changes, usually mess.
(XD hay nobody wants to deal with your sh💩t, unless they get paid lol!)
Also the cost goes to the up keep of the nursery, buying big babies like yourself nappies/diapers, paying for the heating and water bills, as sad as it is just because your a baby dose not mean adult stuff will stop.
The only way to go to a abdl nursery that you don't have to pay top dollar is a privert one.
They are quite a few Daddies/Mummies/CG/Switches that have a nursery part in there own home and are willing to let you play there.
After they get to know you of course.
You may need to chip in for travel and food and padding because not all of them are made out of money.
But this way stops them declearing it as a business.
Sorry if I went on a tangent there but yeah. 😊
This looks uncanny to a point it looks normal and that is the scary thing about ABDL community for all.
I do feel bad for Fred.
As a ABDL myself and I have seen other ABDL's doing this
. We want to be in a safe environment where we can express ourselfs.
. We want to be around others. Whether that maybe other littles in a small room with a adapted playpen and a changing matt.
Or a kitted out nursery with Mummy and Daddy looking after us. We want that sort of thing.
. Some of us want to be changed when we make a "accident" and not let it end up in a NSFW way
(I Know a few of you may love a happy ending at the end of your change, but I have a Daddy for that. 😉)
We get so exited of the possibility that this person, is going to take care of us and we get so exited and build ourselfs up then when it comes down to it 💔 they don't show up, change of plan, or in Freds case a scammer.
Then you cry 😢 and cry 😭 and cry some more 😥
You might start to wonder wheather it is your fault, you go into depression.
Then once you're over that you start again only to repeat the cycle. 🔄
DO BE AWARE NOT EVERYONE IS LIKE THIS THOUGH, THEY ARE SOME GENUING GOOD PEOPLE THAT WANT TO MERT YOU IN OUR ABDL COMMUNITY!
9:56 It is upsetting that they are stealing photos from other sites/nurseries/people and making it look like there "nursery" is big, hey we even take our babies to the ABDL nappy shop.
Look how many members enjoyed coming to visit us.
Actually maybe keep a eye 👁 out because they may have taken a few photos from the Baby Boo nursery.
Hay even a quick google search you can find all the nursery images you want.
It would not put it past me if they used a few AI image/art generators to get a few.
I am just hope that Fred can get the help he needs.
And maybe a night in a real ABDL nursery free of charge and I hope that this site and any other scam sites get taken down.
Yah, there have been scammers who have stolen our images. Luckily we have a LOT of littles out there who call them out and/or let us know. Thanks for your comment! xoxo!
This is wild.
I had no idea about this. Whoa.
I would like some help on Facebook. There’s a lot of scammers for fake mommy for ABDL
I litterly had a man where i was recieving counseling ciberstocking me then following me and threatening me for being on abdl sites he was a legit sex offender and kidnapper now i litterly just had to hope and pray that when he got kicked out word wouldnt get out it was horrifing it still is im a person with complex ptsd and autism spectrum disorder so theres oviously some truth to there being people looking for freinds mommies and daddies just like i was
Registration fees
Form these
Gas fees
Or Mommy's on her period and they ask for pads and us little's. Give them money. Money Or they say I'm in the hospital because coming To get you and Mommy had an . Car accident Baby, pay the hospital bills, so Mommy can be on the way to be with you. Mommy feels so sorry that Mommy couldn't be with you. They're more than just one way to scam a little. I've been scammed for 17 years by so many scams. It's not fair
Or some Mommy's scam babies by saying pay off Mommy's inheritance. And we can be together after that.
Me have been scammed for 17 years
They ask for gas to come
Do we abdls need a diaper license
Me have ptsd
No that not how they scam
Disgusting bait and switch, I had no idea of the scale, mainly familiar with Facebook fake mommy scammers, way, way to many.
Hey I never knew about ABDL until I was 13 has started looking for momme. I've got scammed from 13 to 30. I've never dated I am p***** off more than you ever. Can imagine I want 1 person in 1 person only. To be with me. I really want to talk to u
Because scammer
Soy. Bebe
I was talking to an "abdl" on TikTok it started out good she even said she was in my state in a town I used to live in I always thought I was the only one in Wyoming but I digress we were chatting things were going well then she wanted me to pony up 200.00 bones to join the national abdl nursery which I had never heard of before when I asked for the Websight she kept dogging me and I was like I've got two words for you honey yeah no
YAAAAS! "No thank you, please drive thru..." Well, at least you wasted their time. It'd be funny if folks just started stringing these scammers along, giving them excuses, but taking up all of their time. Can you imagine? 😆
I tried to control my email accounts my Facebook my Instagram and yes the phone number that come back to came from Nigeria this is like the third time that someone has tried to scam me this way
Hi I have just join this ABDL community I Really need your help, I think I have been scam. I was talking to a mommy in Nebraska. She told me I have to paid $125 to meet with here the boss told me. If I do not meet with her. there will be a late fee of $15 per day.
But i am not for sure is there any way I can get your email address so I can send you the information to take a look at it.
Thank You!!