Becoming a Better Friend | Fr. Jacob Bertrand Janczyk & Fr. Gregory Pine

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  • Becoming a Better Friend | Fr. Jacob Bertrand Janczyk & Fr. Gregory Pine
    What exactly is friendship? Is there more to friendship than we think? On this week's episode, Fr. Jacob Bertrand and Fr. Gregory discuss exactly what friendship is, how each others' relationship goals much align, how to determine expectations, the different types of friendships, how to maintain them, and much more.
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    0:00 Introduction
    1:03 Catholic Classics
    4:06 Becoming a Better Friend
    5:27 Defining Friendship
    6:23 Love in Friendship
    7:50 Expectations in Friendship
    8:46 Levels of Friendship
    9:37 Equity in Friendship
    10:34 Pursuing Common Goods
    12:01 Boundaries
    13:20 Self-Awareness in Friendship
    14:19 Investing in Real Relationships
    17:55 Commitment
    23:08 Boundaries in Relationships
    25:27 Friendship in God's Providence
    27:43 Social Media + Friendship
    29:33 Friendship Requires Work
    33:24 Conclusion

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  • @GarthDomokos
    @GarthDomokos 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    many a year ago, a friend of mine and I were golfing. Both of us were not that great, but my friend never really golfed that much. I always remember him saying "you know homer, I admit that this is a beautiful course, but I didn't really enjoy myself". It was from that moment on, we became really good friends.

  • @angeldroid10
    @angeldroid10 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hearing this during morning coffee. Then Catholic Classics right after

    • @Zach-ci4sz
      @Zach-ci4sz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Based

  • @LoveeeeelyM
    @LoveeeeelyM หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this episode 💛🫶🏻🌻🌼

  • @Terry19330
    @Terry19330 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Friendship can be so awkward for some reason. Thank you for shedding some wisdom!🌻

  • @dentellier
    @dentellier 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is such a sweet convo. I feel like celibates, become experts at friendship out of necessity, because they don’t have the typical romantic partnership to fall back on for companionship.

  • @JBCricket617
    @JBCricket617 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’m a new viewer…I’m really enjoying this channel!

    • @kimberlysmiley5071
      @kimberlysmiley5071 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's my favorite! Wisdom and humor are an excellent combo ❤❤❤

  • @daviddabrowski01
    @daviddabrowski01 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Father Pine reading my mind. I have a relationship like that. We’ll be messaging and then she disappears and I’m like, “you’re a millenial, your phone is glued to your hand, I know you’re choosing not to answer”. But perhaps it’s the Lord’s Providence to continue to humble me

  • @kimberlysmiley5071
    @kimberlysmiley5071 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Now I know my life's goal, to have a Dominican -croquet friendship😂😂😂😂😂 You guys are the best!

  • @javiersanpedro6988
    @javiersanpedro6988 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This ep was so raw

  • @danielkelly9678
    @danielkelly9678 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You guys are the best. Some of your thoughts on friendship are good, but you might be overthinking this? You make some good points, but, I see friendship as a gift that unfolds naturally. But as I say that, I am thinking also, that this present generation doesn’t really understand what friendship is, generally speaking.

    • @kimberlysmiley5071
      @kimberlysmiley5071 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Definitely not, unfortunately they're not understanding so so many things they've lost a lot

  • @she6443
    @she6443 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Always love this channel and podcast!

  • @CatholicBaseball8
    @CatholicBaseball8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great episode, found myself laughing allot, friends!

  • @davidmcpike8359
    @davidmcpike8359 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It would be interesting to hear some thoughts on the view of someone like St Therese who was very committed to avoiding particular friendships as a matter of spiritual discipline (friendship with Christ). These guys seem to just ignore, assume that's not a possible (possibly desirable) thing.

  • @raymk
    @raymk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "Father Jacob Bertrand!"
    "No."

  • @Kithira9
    @Kithira9 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Calling balderdash at 0:48 (cc: Sr. Anna Wray)