Ed Service no they don't. You have gotta be beta to think that. Women love a guy who can enjoy him self regardless if she's around or not because he will be enjoyable and fun to be around.
Ed Service You’re definitely wrong. I prefer guys who smile and are kinda playful like me. I can’t date someone who’s serious all the time. They would get sick of me, and I’d feel more down and depressed around them with all the “serious” vibes going on
Selah has always had turned into the divine Redeemer is a great way for my grandchildren who have had turned me off so I’m going on my Christmas break so I’ll just let them oppoooopDurda
It depends on how much you liked your parents. If you didn't like your mom very much, then girls that looks like her are not attractive to you. Same thing for girls and their fathers.
I was actually in love with a guy that kinda looked and acted like my father. They had almost the same faceshapes, height and body types. And they are both kinda "rebelious" and have the same fucked up humor. I didn't think about it until my mother pointed and friend pointed it out 😂 I think It's kinda normal. I'm not attracted to my father (of course!). I think It's more of a subconscious thing maybe because i love and look up to my father.
I have to agree with you on that the man I married reminds me of my dad in a lot of ways (creepy somehow you end up marrying a man that reminds you of your dad) #thepersonthatwasalwaysthere #thankyoudad!
here's several tips for how to get any guy you want don't be impatient Use fewer words and choose them carefully Communicate with behaviour as well as words (I read about these and more on Maras Magic Words website )
And then there´s me laughing at ignorant people who don´t understand the significance of statistics. (Coming from a guy who likes slightly chubby girls)
⚠️Studies show that no matter how much b.s. you state as fact in your videos. As long as each statement starts with the phrase "studies show" most viewers won't even notice.
Did he just say guys should hold off on smiling, noooo SMILE MY BEAUTIFUL OPPOSITE GENDERS. ok that was weird but smile guys it's literally one of the best things in the world
UdodaTube Lol cumming is good and all, but have you have a swung the two-handed sword called the ßloodSkal blade during the level one challenge with no mods installed on Solstheim at 3 am! 😅😂🤣 on a Sunday afternoon?🤣😅
@danny c i think its so incorrect , myself and all my friends have found we prefer complete opposites of our parents. Especially a different race. And i love skinny guys bc i see that as more masculine but my dad had a lot of weight
I disagree with the smiling part in guys. Everyone is attracted to people who are in a good mood. Just cause a guy smiles occasionally does not mean he is irresponsible or whatnot...
We can't deny that all of us easily get attracted to good looking people. But those things aren't permanent, it's better to invest on someone who has values and knows how to take care of himself.
they are attractive, but with time you see that she doesn't deserve your time, because she doesn't really care about you. And they are manipulative. I've been 3 months with one. But she taught me a lesson and I was grateful for that.
It started out fine and interesting, but then it got biased. If you're a girl you have to be thin, smile and wear bright, tight clothes. If you're a guy, you have to be tall and serious. Seriously?
yo don't give a fuck if a girl says she goes for tall guys. They are fucking liars. Listen to what they do not what they say. They say one thing and do another thing.
I live in Australia and when I was thin had loads of attention....when I got older and chubbier I m invisible but when I went to South America men loved my body
You probably have daddy problems, i despise my parents my mom was short and chubby and i prefer taller skinnier girls so i can see where your coming from
The point is that u accept more of what u have been around for example a boy that has a fat mom might not be too judgemental towars thick girls there fore he likes thick girls and skinny its about what your around i beleive
Victoria Philips very true. bro. .. yup. I noticed that males whom had like small things like humor , and just some positives of my brother or father. . that I'd be more interested
Thank you hearing what was in this video the last few days made me start to feel insecure. I am not that type of person and have no trouble with women and smile and laugh around the ones I am attracted to. Also I play around a lot more.
Mia Gamboa its true...there isnt just a black and white area to this topic. This is because there are various different circles of individuals with different prefrences.
Words are important too.kindness sometimes can out weigh physical attractiveness . Some attractive people are mean and spend all their time working on their outside and no time working on being kind and considerate.
Love has no borders to just physical features; kindness, empathy, respect there are much more important details in personality than physical attractiveness...
the sense of smell is very true lol... I recognized the perfume of my ex one day like 4 years later and someone had a similar perfume and a memory I have forgotten came to me very fresh about her 😂
Okay but the thing is of course they’re biased on social norms, because social norms is most of what people like. It’s saying that this is hot most people are, not everyone.
Yes... it's biased by societal norms. What else norms should I care? Fungal colony norms? Some fat triggered bitch norms? I live IN that society. What works for others will work for me.
I agree with some, but getting stilts, or changing yourself physically (shaving arms or chest) is just faking your way through it. And if you do end up getting that person's attraction what happens when the hair grows back, or you are trying to get naked with stilts on? Be yourself. Always try to better yourself, but be who and what you are.
i wore a shirt once that was bright with a printed zebra and when i was in the cab my CRUSH FRIEND said i looked lovely so the bright color concepts do work
I constantly smell like pizza and loneliness, I always wear black, I rarely smile, I don't look like an anime character (tho I watch a lot of it), and I'm not gonna exercise bc a guy thinks I'm ugly. Also I disagree with basically everything he said about guys...welp. I guess I'll be alone forever.
I don't mind if a guy is short as long as he's fit and cute and smells nice. I do however find taller men more attractive but I won't turn down a short guy. as long as he's taller than me.
I agree with this. It makes sense there are things beyond our control that are hardwired. Not surprised to see the amount of comments from the hurt fee fees.
what's sad is that I can see all the insecurities coming out in these comments :( fuck standards! fuck what others find attractive! love yourself! the right person will learn to love you too no matter what you look like. everyone has a different type! this shit is not universal! it's what people assume standards are right now. so what if you are short, so what if you have body hair, so what if you are a few pounds overweight! no one is perfect! we are born the way we are born and there is at least one person out there who will love you for you!
Good video. I know it made many people insecure because it puts its finger on insecurities of women and men. Ofc you are more desireable when you do something for your body, for your goals and life. It means you take yourself seriously. Therefore you take your potential partner seriously. I think that having good looks can "fake" these kind of things. I for myself had a much better time with women when I was aligned with myself. Even if its alternative. Not everyone is for you but still it is much more interesting when someones got a vision for life AND is following it.
I think you missed everything that he suggested for women to be more attractive lol, he mentioned going on a diet, but there was also the high pitched voice, smiling more often, changing up your appearance and pretty much everything you mentioned there for men sksksjj try again
Enormous tits, huge ass, tiny waist long legs, full lips, gorgeous face, lucious hair that takes forever to style or dye, and paint your entire face and nails. Make sure your eyebrows are plucked to perfection and wax every inch of your body. Wear heels and tan. Men - work out and date a girl shorter than yourself. You poor babies.
I'm glad that this video was aimed towards your female audience, too. With a lot of you videos you tend to aim it towards men, which is fine but I think you should aim it towards both women and men so more people can learn. Keep up the great work!
How would you know if you aren't a girl? I don't know about guys, but can be really hard for girls. Not saying it isn't hard for guys, I wouldn't know, all I can say is it goes both ways.
The "right kind of guy" is the Alpha Male, not Beta, or Mr. Nice Guy. We as men have to come to the understanding that being a Beta or Mr.Nice Guy will do us no favor. Women seek security and confedence in a man. If we don't have those, than happy forever alone life.
As far as I'm concerned smiling is based upon the circumstances you're in.. smiling genuinely at an individual is far more important than smiling all the time..
"You'll be attracted to people who look like your parents" *You mean my bogan dad who has a huge beer belly and a long hairy beard, uhh yeah. No thanks*
And thus a seed of fear has been planted without a base in reality. How about you view the bright side? Shorter people live longer. Shorter people get jacked more easily , because of compressed muscle tissue due to shorter limbs. shorter people tend to be able to lift heavier weight due to shortened lever length ( see eddie hall, shorter dude that outlifts the FUCKING MOUNTAIN OF GAME OF THRONES) Ps: Im "only" average height ( 6 foot as americans would put it).
I would like to see something different. Something more about yourself like how to manage your own emotion, keeping yourself motivated, etc. Getting anything you want from yourself is better than getting anything you want by triggering the others' button. Being a fake person is not what most people want. You want be genuine and good.
I agree. I did not even watch the video tbh because I find the title not very appropriate for what I am at least looking for. I do want to learn psychological facts about how attraction between 2 ppl (or more) happens, but why does this video suggest that I simply need this information to make myself more attractive for others?? Like, maybe your content is good but you lost me at the description, so it does not matter.
Some of the things he mentioned have been noticed by phycologists and sociologists, like Daniel Goleman in his "Emotional Intelligence" and Francesco Alberoni's "Eroticism". Read these books, they are highly interesting and have plenty of sources about these things (attractiveness). Nonetheless, some of the claims in this video are based on hearsay, speculation and contemporary social tendencies.
All those beauty standards are so toxic, it brings too much pressure for many people in this society, not just abt relationships, but also job opportunity,..
@@beryl2476 Not really. It's natural, same way water is wet and grass is green. Male and female physiology is similar but not exactly the same - the development is different, the hormones are different.. so why would you expect the attraction and cognition to be the same, especially knowing how deeply even slight changes in hormones affect the mind?
@@KatariaGujjar I don't believe so. To me it is today altered. What was true when human beings didn't live in society is not true now that they do. I think man and woman have evolved and have the ability to think without obeying their instinct. I know this is quite naive, because we're animals, but I like to think that we think.
@@beryl2476 Sure. We can think and negate our primal instincts (with a lot of forceful effort), but the primal instincts are still there. Our hormones still affect our mood and thought processes. Let me give you an example: you will often see a gorgeous looking woman with a not so good-looking man, but it's rare to see a gorgeous looking man with a not so good-looking woman. The difference here arises from differences in attraction between a man and a woman, primal instincts. The rare outlier cases you find are among those who force themselves out of their natural instincts by use of "higher thinking" , but at the end of the day, these are still rare outlier cases.
all right, let me just say, be you, authenticity is freaking Charming, a good heart, personality and your own features are what makes you beautiful 👌🏽period
Initial attraction is one thing ...staying and being in love another. Doesn’t matter what they look like, you’ll stay or go ...depending on how they make you feel about yourself !
@@kingdavid772 lmao. I knew the moment she mentioned feminine, yall gonna say that. For me it doesn't really matter. Smile when u need to. Just dont have it plastered on ur face for hours unless u really mean it. Idk even why its that important
We all have different preferences in terms of attraction. We might be attracted to someone who are beautiful but we have different definition of beauty but no matter what's beauty for us, the important is the character which plays a vital role in every relationships.
True. At the same time, most people do prefer certain characteristics, like smiling over a broody attitude. There are exceptions of course. The video talks about the general case though.
One_ guys... please smile, serious faces are only for serious times Two-Pride... A guy can be proud of what he does but don't brag or be cocky please I beg of you, it's very annoying Three- I like guys with dogs because I know they aren't allergic XD Four- I hate black licorice and cucumbers XD Any other girls agree with any of these? lol
I agree a smile does turn a girl on or woman and I have a medium size waist hard bubble chest muscle shoulders and hard arms I'm 6'4" 210lbs if that's not attractive for a woman of white Italian or Puerto Rican don't know
Well how about you develop a personality could being such a gold-digging w**** and being so goddamn b***** all the time you want a man who's bigger smarter faster and richer which means you think men are looking for stupid poor dumb women
And for being attracted to people who look like your parents, it depends on the connection you have with your parents. Most of the time it's just coincidental.
The most important: Don't be ugly
Don't be ugly on the inside (I hope that's what you meant 😂)
Aw man I forgot about this one 😂 well looks like it ends here
Well i guess I'll die alone 😂😂😂
Or fat.
Too late I'm ugly as hell
Ok guys who smile are definitely 10,000 times more attractive and memorable than the ones who don't
wrong ,women subconsciously see it as weak , like men consciously do
Ed Service no they don't. You have gotta be beta to think that. Women love a guy who can enjoy him self regardless if she's around or not because he will be enjoyable and fun to be around.
Ed Service You’re definitely wrong. I prefer guys who smile and are kinda playful like me. I can’t date someone who’s serious all the time. They would get sick of me, and I’d feel more down and depressed around them with all the “serious” vibes going on
tbhvivian yeah
my favorite thing about a guy is his smile, i can’t even determine how i feel about someone if i never see them smile
NO. NO. NO. LISTEN DUDES. YOU BETTER SMILE!!!!! I PERSONALLY HATE IT WHEN DUDES DON’T SMILE. Like what’s the deal? Why you mad bro?
well what reason is their to be happy
What if we have resting dick face tho? Asking for a friend
@@coreyfreeman4053 Suuure😂😂
I look alot better without smiling i just look goofy when i smile
Selah has always had turned into the divine Redeemer is a great way for my grandchildren who have had turned me off so I’m going on my Christmas break so I’ll just let them oppoooopDurda
Moral of the story: Be perfect and not ugly
*well I guess nobody will ever love me then.*
Ok I will
@@nobody6317 HAHAHAHAHA
Wow Rude No one Is Perfect but Special
As we are both trash, I will loves you
Wallie Talksalot I appreciate your love
if i see a girl that looks like my mom it's an instant turn off
pepe the haye symbol same
It depends on how much you liked your parents. If you didn't like your mom very much, then girls that looks like her are not attractive to you. Same thing for girls and their fathers.
pepe the haye symbol I think its more of what your parents look like when they were younger. not how they exactly look at the present time
I was actually in love with a guy that kinda looked and acted like my father. They had almost the same faceshapes, height and body types. And they are both kinda "rebelious" and have the same fucked up humor. I didn't think about it until my mother pointed and friend pointed it out 😂
I think It's kinda normal. I'm not attracted to my father (of course!). I think It's more of a subconscious thing maybe because i love and look up to my father.
I have to agree with you on that the man I married reminds me of my dad in a lot of ways (creepy somehow you end up marrying a man that reminds you of your dad) #thepersonthatwasalwaysthere #thankyoudad!
Wtf no, guys smile it’s so hot and also cute don’t listen to them
/\ don't listen to women
I agree
I first realized I was super attracted to who I’m with now when I noticed his eyes when he smiled
here's several tips for how to get any guy you want
don't be impatient
Use fewer words and choose them carefully
Communicate with behaviour as well as words
(I read about these and more on Maras Magic Words website )
Only soy boys smile.
A real man only feels hunger, at all times, every single day.
"If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything" ~Marilyn Monroe
Is it ?
@@fahadshaikh1553 Is it what?
No
Well I'M fucked, thanks.
“ I don’t understand sorry,
I don’t know what sorry means”
~Charles Manson
*all this did is make me more insecure.*
Yup
same kinda lol
complete trash fuck off beta virgin
Why??????
@@loganduff601 wtf
And then there's me laughing at this stereotypical shit lmao
Yeah!!😝
SAMEEEEEE
There is no stereotypes here. He is talking about science. That's how it works in general, simple as that
Especially when it hits the cucumber smell for guys 😂
And then there´s me laughing at ignorant people who don´t understand the significance of statistics. (Coming from a guy who likes slightly chubby girls)
Love yourself.
Tears ss that's why we're here. Tf?
⚠️Studies show that no matter how much b.s. you state as fact in your videos. As long as each statement starts with the phrase "studies show" most viewers won't even notice.
Did you know what 87% of facts are made up on the spot
Lmao
Agree... Either that or the hairy a$$.
Did he just say guys should hold off on smiling, noooo SMILE MY BEAUTIFUL OPPOSITE GENDERS. ok that was weird but smile guys it's literally one of the best things in the world
FUCK
I think both genders can agree that cumming is the most best thing in the world....that and coicane, whoof! one hell of a drug!
Jamaika Russell Your MSM is like mine but instead of the “L” it’s “ika” instead
UdodaTube Lol cumming is good and all, but have you have a swung the two-handed sword called the ßloodSkal blade during the level one challenge with no mods installed on Solstheim at 3 am! 😅😂🤣 on a Sunday afternoon?🤣😅
Thanks beautiful !
If a guy looks like my dad then I am not interested in him. lol
yamatonadeshiko567 haha same!
He didn’t say that looks like him, But fits certainly subtle similarities that you might not even realize consciously.
@danny c i think its so incorrect , myself and all my friends have found we prefer complete opposites of our parents. Especially a different race. And i love skinny guys bc i see that as more masculine but my dad had a lot of weight
i look like your dad.
"And i love skinny guys bc i see that as more masculine"
WTF was that?! :))))))))))
I disagree with the smiling part in guys. Everyone is attracted to people who are in a good mood. Just cause a guy smiles occasionally does not mean he is irresponsible or whatnot...
J Sarria exactly! When I heard that I was like wtf.. Maybe this is why I have no girlfriend.. I'm always laughing and goofing around 😂
J Sarria
Sexual Attraction is much different from Friend-Like Attraction
+B. Jones Very true. I, for one, agree 100% with what the video said about smiling.
I spent $7500.00 to have an almost perfect smile.
Chicks dig it.
I agree with what he says about smiling. In Russia a smile without reason is a sign of an idiot.
I just want to be myself okay
Yu here den lol.
me too bts army 😂😍😍😎
I wanna be an Asian too
No Name Then just be yourself, it shows confidence & that “Alpha” mind state that kids these days like so much
You already are.
Bruh you've ever seen that guy who's not that cute and then he smiles and BOOM, he's fine af?
Yea, most guys are like that.
Smile and wave boys.
Lulu Madagascar has entered the chat
smile and wave
Humans are DUUMMMMBBB
Exactly his point. Youre an idiot. He's an idiot. I'm an idiot. Donald Trump is an idiot. With each generation we are only getting dumberer
Are you an alien?
Yeah !! Truth humans are dumbmmm
I've spend a long time researching into how to use cosmic ordering and discovered a fantastic website at trevs cosmic tactic (check it out on google)
I think that the evolution has reversed.
*Pumpkin;
I've always noticed that poor spelling and grammar reduces one's attractiveness.
Yeah for me it kind of does.
Charles hahahahababa
yeah that's a huge turn off!especially bad grammar!
You better believe I die inside when someone I find attractive says "your cute."
Charles it does
We can't deny that all of us easily get attracted to good looking people. But those things aren't permanent, it's better to invest on someone who has values and knows how to take care of himself.
Lol why did you write that like this is a gathering of all the ugly people? Lmao
you cant deny you prefer good looking guys
A New Love Official Themselves*
Kool Yep Lol That’s not the case, that’s rough buddy
son of sam 😅😅😂😂😂😅🤣🤣🤣🤣 You’re such a funny lil fncker! I like you dude! You Keep doin’ you Lol
Narcissists do not love themselves or anyone else, and anyone who has suffered at the hands of one can tell you how very UNattractive they are
they are attractive, but with time you see that she doesn't deserve your time, because she doesn't really care about you. And they are manipulative. I've been 3 months with one. But she taught me a lesson and I was grateful for that.
It started out fine and interesting, but then it got biased. If you're a girl you have to be thin, smile and wear bright, tight clothes. If you're a guy, you have to be tall and serious. Seriously?
Yanne smartest comment left so far. See girls can think logical and not just emotional. I'm joking at that last part don't hit me lol
yo don't give a fuck if a girl says she goes for tall guys. They are fucking liars. Listen to what they do not what they say. They say one thing and do another thing.
Yanne
You clicked on the video and got answers
What Not To Do At a Stoplight Both standards (mostly the dudes' tbh, coming from a girl) are ridiculous...I dislike this video...
Yanne I’m lesbian and I like my girls thick
I strongly suspect that women are really attracted to men who can properly spell pumpkin.
poeboy2 , hahaha! Yes
100% basically true!
I think the internet is starting to make me okay with bad grammar, and that's a scary prospect. I'm losing touch on reality guys...
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poeboy2 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pumpkin
"You might be attracted to younger people"
*wait*
Spooky Spaghetti 🤣😅😅😂😅🤣 All y’all niggahs in this comment section are tooo funny mane XD XD 😅😂😂😂🤣
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Did You say... Slightly heavier woman are automatticaly less atractive? Please...
@@kustomTooth different between fat and thick... there is a happy medium
20 pounds is not slightly. If you use kilos it may seem slight but in reality that is significant.
Sarcasynronic If they Thicc! They gon’ catch this d!ck
Dalton Packer Significant 🤣😅😂😂😂🤣🤣
I live in Australia and when I was thin had loads of attention....when I got older and chubbier I m invisible but when I went to South America men loved my body
not attracted to anything about my dad i actually look for the opposite
If not dad maybe brother
You probably have daddy problems, i despise my parents my mom was short and chubby and i prefer taller skinnier girls so i can see where your coming from
The point is that u accept more of what u have been around for example a boy that has a fat mom might not be too judgemental towars thick girls there fore he likes thick girls and skinny its about what your around i beleive
Just Rose it's traits u may not conciously look for. but what you normalise with
Victoria Philips very true. bro. .. yup. I noticed that males whom had like small things like humor , and just some positives of my brother or father. . that I'd be more interested
Actually I prefer men who smile and laugh a lot so maybe we should take some of these suggestions with a grain of salt.
To put them more easy in the friendzone
Thank you hearing what was in this video the last few days made me start to feel insecure. I am not that type of person and have no trouble with women and smile and laugh around the ones I am attracted to. Also I play around a lot more.
Alex Schmidt Gracius no I don't get friendzoned
Apparently I don't like girls 20 lbs overweight? Fucking news to me...
Mia Gamboa its true...there isnt just a black and white area to this topic. This is because there are various different circles of individuals with different prefrences.
Words are important too.kindness sometimes can out weigh physical attractiveness . Some attractive people are mean and spend all their time working on their outside and no time working on being kind and considerate.
Real channel I needed
I am attracted to smiles/smirks of a guy
no when a guy smiles its adorable don't listen to them
Tabitha Lecuyer but do women have sex with "adorable " guys.....NO 🤔
So true
@@30guarino are you trying to speak?
@@30guarino you're neither so :)
@@dc9067 that’s so adorable of you to say that!
I just love this.. Especially tht you I in the midst of a relationship, all tend to boost things up fast to avoid all those blunders tht reoccurr
Love has no borders to just physical features; kindness, empathy, respect there are much more important details in personality than physical attractiveness...
the sense of smell is very true lol... I recognized the perfume of my ex one day like 4 years later and someone had a similar perfume and a memory I have forgotten came to me very fresh about her 😂
Why am i even here? I'm a potato
Angela Michael a kawaii potato tho
Angela Michael guess your emotions been crushed by this video too
Angela Michael everyone is special n so u..
so i'm a potato
Angela Michael so u r special too😉
İ usually fall in love people with cute smiles lol
BOBBY'NİN ÇUKULATASI and no beards
BOBBY'NİN ÇUKULATASI Yep Lol
All this on side and first love is on another. Because my first love had none of the things I actually find attractive but I still truly love her.
what the fuck does a cucumber smell like
Hoangue a melon
Hoangue water melon 😍
hayley aherne it smells gooooodd
Hoangue 😂😂😂
fresh
I find shaved guys more attractive.
Emma Cc me too
Me too
Emma Cc nope
Thank God I have to shave for work
Emma Cc Same
Good message you tell people the truth
Every guy is on his way out the door to buy an attractive dog 😅
You're damn right @Katie
3:40 **slurp**
Hi im Rajo lmfao
lmfao
lmfao
Wow is that REALLY science or is the "science" heavily biased by societal norms..?
Ebba O what you said, 100%!
It's bog biad
Okay but the thing is of course they’re biased on social norms, because social norms is most of what people like. It’s saying that this is hot most people are, not everyone.
Yes... it's biased by societal norms.
What else norms should I care? Fungal colony norms? Some fat triggered bitch norms?
I live IN that society. What works for others will work for me.
E O Guess where the societal norms came from/how they developed...yeah right: Evolution, biology, science, however you wanna call it. Deal with it.
"The moment you lock eyes with that cutie" I felt strangely uncomfortable when he said that word
Fruit Loops Lol Your profile picture though lol
your voice is so calming
I agree with some, but getting stilts, or changing yourself physically (shaving arms or chest) is just faking your way through it. And if you do end up getting that person's attraction what happens when the hair grows back, or you are trying to get naked with stilts on? Be yourself. Always try to better yourself, but be who and what you are.
Y Naut FPV i am spiderman what can i do ? My dick got stuck in the net.
“Are you trying to get naked with stilts on?” 🤣🤣🤣💀
But you can just keep on shaving your chest...
Shaving is considered not being who you are? Same goes for you. Don't get your hair cut and don't shave or you fake. 😅
Idk what it is but whenever I see a guy with longish hair I instantly feel attraction to him
Clorox Bleach , I see you everywhere on TH-cam. We must watch the same videos.
me too!
Clorox Bleach Same
Same. Long hair reminds me of Thor which reminds me of badassery 😍
Shine Sun frick. i was about to say that! every single video in the comments
i wore a shirt once that was bright with a printed zebra and when i was in the cab my CRUSH FRIEND said i looked lovely so the bright color concepts do work
Thank you!
My dad has brown eyes and dark hair, but I am attracted mostly to blondes with blue eyes xD
You’re adopted
@@Dut592 hahahahahahahgaahhagagahha
Maggie Castro this is great, call me😂
Same lol
ew
i find it more attractive for a guys to smile not be serious...
same
And don't show off😂
They say that facial hair is attractive but body hair isn't???
CoNfUsIoN!
Moral of the story: glue pubes to face
son of sam Lol 😂 Wait what
Great video. Subbed. Tips on attraction were interesting
its time the diamond goes to the jeweler? for me its "its time the potato gets fried".. I mean, who doesn't like fries 😂
Omg haha dead tbis made my night 😁💕
I constantly smell like pizza and loneliness, I always wear black, I rarely smile, I don't look like an anime character (tho I watch a lot of it), and I'm not gonna exercise bc a guy thinks I'm ugly. Also I disagree with basically everything he said about guys...welp. I guess I'll be alone forever.
ThnksFrTh TwentyØnePhallØutDiscøs same
ThnksFrTh TwentyØnePhallØutDiscøs You actually do resemble anime characters.
ThnksFrTh TwentyØnePhallØutDiscøs don't fret girl. Guys in TV shows/movies and also books will take up the lonely space you created.
ThnksFrTh TwentyØnePhallØutDiscøs You're better than me, that's for sure.
ThnksFrTh TwentyØnePhallØutDiscøs don't worry there will be a man despite enough for you
No. I like a guy who smiles. Thank you very much.
Short, kind and hungry 👌 that's my type of guy
I can't imagine my life without this channel, Improvement pill and Ted Talk
God bless youtube
I would add practical psycology
Miko Michael you should check out charisma on command
Try the Glorious pill, In all actuality.
Practical Psychology is the best.
dont forget to use tiege hanley
I don't mind if a guy is short as long as he's fit and cute and smells nice. I do however find taller men more attractive but I won't turn down a short guy. as long as he's taller than me.
How tall are you??
Short means shorter then you.
Makai Klump short means shorter than the average height
Narcissist love themselves? Your knowledge of psychology is profound...
I agree with this. It makes sense there are things beyond our control that are hardwired. Not surprised to see the amount of comments from the hurt fee fees.
I hate that lame, fake "serious look" some guys and even some women do. It it so unattractive. I fall for only those, who have a smile to die for.
Ella Nokkonen What if you just barely smile? How would you even know it's fake...?
Goes to show what these "experts" know. I also hate an over serious looking person 😕
I think Braces look cute.
Well, i smile a lot.
There is nothing wrong with dating not masculine men.
what's sad is that I can see all the insecurities coming out in these comments :( fuck standards! fuck what others find attractive! love yourself! the right person will learn to love you too no matter what you look like. everyone has a different type! this shit is not universal! it's what people assume standards are right now. so what if you are short, so what if you have body hair, so what if you are a few pounds overweight! no one is perfect! we are born the way we are born and there is at least one person out there who will love you for you!
Nice one. It's true.
The part about being short bummed me out 😭 haha shout out to my short dudes
Good video. I know it made many people insecure because it puts its finger on insecurities of women and men. Ofc you are more desireable when you do something for your body, for your goals and life. It means you take yourself seriously. Therefore you take your potential partner seriously. I think that having good looks can "fake" these kind of things. I for myself had a much better time with women when I was aligned with myself. Even if its alternative. Not everyone is for you but still it is much more interesting when someones got a vision for life AND is following it.
Women - Diet
Men- Tall, good looks, money, body language, voice, muscles.
yeah, I'm just gonna go get my magic wand and get taller, thanks
I think you missed everything that he suggested for women to be more attractive lol, he mentioned going on a diet, but there was also the high pitched voice, smiling more often, changing up your appearance and pretty much everything you mentioned there for men sksksjj try again
Enormous tits, huge ass, tiny waist long legs, full lips, gorgeous face, lucious hair that takes forever to style or dye, and paint your entire face and nails. Make sure your eyebrows are plucked to perfection and wax every inch of your body. Wear heels and tan. Men - work out and date a girl shorter than yourself. You poor babies.
It appears that guys get it all easier😒
I'm glad that this video was aimed towards your female audience, too. With a lot of you videos you tend to aim it towards men, which is fine but I think you should aim it towards both women and men so more people can learn. Keep up the great work!
Are you implying that women don't need lots of help?
How would you know if you aren't a girl? I don't know about guys, but can be really hard for girls. Not saying it isn't hard for guys, I wouldn't know, all I can say is it goes both ways.
No, I don't think you (girls) have a problem attracting guys. I think it's about attracting the right kind.
whats "the right kind" of guy? some beta male she can milk? a provider that pays her dinner every night at expensive restaurants?
The "right kind of guy" is the Alpha Male, not Beta, or Mr. Nice Guy. We as men have to come to the understanding that being a Beta or Mr.Nice Guy will do us no favor. Women seek security and confedence in a man. If we don't have those, than happy forever alone life.
As far as I'm concerned smiling is based upon the circumstances you're in.. smiling genuinely at an individual is far more important than smiling all the time..
"You'll be attracted to people who look like your parents"
*You mean my bogan dad who has a huge beer belly and a long hairy beard, uhh yeah. No thanks*
I feel you sis..... I do....
I am 5.7" RIP dating life😥
Jet Jet I am 5'5" 😭😭
shit guys, im 1'5"..
wait we're talking about penis size right?
And thus a seed of fear has been planted without a base in reality.
How about you view the bright side?
Shorter people live longer.
Shorter people get jacked more easily , because of compressed muscle tissue due to shorter limbs.
shorter people tend to be able to lift heavier weight due to shortened lever length ( see eddie hall, shorter dude that outlifts the FUCKING MOUNTAIN OF GAME OF THRONES)
Ps: Im "only" average height ( 6 foot as americans would put it).
zero 😂😂😂😂
These are the channels that make me get the nuts to ask a girl out srly
You can do it! Good luck (;
MICHAELIS PARTY FIESTA do it
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Don't take alot of their "advice" too seriously...
Honestly dont listen to ALL of these videos if you want REAL advice ask a REAL girl.
These video's keep blowing my mind. But keep doing this.
thank you for this :)
I would like to see something different. Something more about yourself like how to manage your own emotion, keeping yourself motivated, etc. Getting anything you want from yourself is better than getting anything you want by triggering the others' button. Being a fake person is not what most people want. You want be genuine and good.
Check out the natural lifestyles youtube channel. Great dating advice about managing emotions and inner game.
I agree. I did not even watch the video tbh because I find the title not very appropriate for what I am at least looking for.
I do want to learn psychological facts about how attraction between 2 ppl (or more) happens, but why does this video suggest that I simply need this information to make myself more attractive for others??
Like, maybe your content is good but you lost me at the description, so it does not matter.
OMG guys please do smile...
I think your videos could add subtitles for everybody to easily understand. Thanks. The videos are really helpful
Good information
Am I the only person who finds shy and intelligent people wayyy more attractive?
can you put the sources in the description?
He does not have any
Some of the things he mentioned have been noticed by phycologists and sociologists, like Daniel Goleman in his "Emotional Intelligence" and Francesco Alberoni's "Eroticism". Read these books, they are highly interesting and have plenty of sources about these things (attractiveness). Nonetheless, some of the claims in this video are based on hearsay, speculation and contemporary social tendencies.
All those beauty standards are so toxic, it brings too much pressure for many people in this society, not just abt relationships, but also job opportunity,..
i like your calm voice
Bright colours?
Well me and my emo self are fucked I guess 😂
hollie paisley hey bts fan?
I read it bighit instead of bright because I was to focused on the picture
Deviyana Butler lmao me 😂
iggy rap o shit waddup
You lost me with the stilts.
jack beanstalk i lost it with the pride part
I love how men have to have "a symmetrical body" and "a deep voice", but women must have strict dimensions for their whole body
Men are attracted to physical features, and women to behavior. That's the underlying foundation in all attractions.
@@KatariaGujjar well if that's true that's really sad
@@beryl2476
Not really. It's natural, same way water is wet and grass is green.
Male and female physiology is similar but not exactly the same - the development is different, the hormones are different.. so why would you expect the attraction and cognition to be the same, especially knowing how deeply even slight changes in hormones affect the mind?
@@KatariaGujjar I don't believe so. To me it is today altered. What was true when human beings didn't live in society is not true now that they do. I think man and woman have evolved and have the ability to think without obeying their instinct. I know this is quite naive, because we're animals, but I like to think that we think.
@@beryl2476
Sure. We can think and negate our primal instincts (with a lot of forceful effort), but the primal instincts are still there. Our hormones still affect our mood and thought processes. Let me give you an example: you will often see a gorgeous looking woman with a not so good-looking man, but it's rare to see a gorgeous looking man with a not so good-looking woman. The difference here arises from differences in attraction between a man and a woman, primal instincts. The rare outlier cases you find are among those who force themselves out of their natural instincts by use of "higher thinking" , but at the end of the day, these are still rare outlier cases.
very good
PUMKIN.
He also spelled "narcisists" which is _actually_ spelled "narcissists"
I’M WHEEZING
I love smelling cucomber.
all right, let me just say, be you, authenticity is freaking Charming, a good heart, personality and your own features are what makes you beautiful 👌🏽period
@FarFromAverage. So where are those studies you are referring to? Where are you references so we can read them?
Initial attraction is one thing ...staying and being in love another. Doesn’t matter what they look like, you’ll stay or go ...depending on how they make you feel about yourself !
2:23 this is how taboo porn vids were born
haha!
Stein Keesmaat , goes back to Hamlet ;)
Beatriz Ward This was only directors's interpretation. There was no evidence in original texts of Hamlet.
Good vid!
I find it cute when a guy smiles... cause it kinda shows their "feminine" side idk hehe so guysssss plsssss smileeee 😍
Chilled Tea I’m never smiling again now 😐
okay im not smiling anymore.
@@kingdavid772 lmao. I knew the moment she mentioned feminine, yall gonna say that.
For me it doesn't really matter.
Smile when u need to.
Just dont have it plastered on ur face for hours unless u really mean it.
Idk even why its that important
Never do what a woman say if you do you show her that you are submissive
We all have different preferences in terms of attraction. We might be attracted to someone who are beautiful but we have different definition of beauty but no matter what's beauty for us, the important is the character which plays a vital role in every relationships.
True. At the same time, most people do prefer certain characteristics, like smiling over a broody attitude. There are exceptions of course. The video talks about the general case though.
I personally think that hairy men look more attractive because they look more manly (obviously not too much hairs)
Giu Lia oh, you got to talking with Bigfoot?
Really bro, which hairy man is as hairy as a made up character.
Giu Lia Facial hair or body hair?
I hate chest hair
Agreed
One_ guys... please smile, serious faces are only for serious times
Two-Pride... A guy can be proud of what he does but don't brag or be cocky please I beg of you, it's very annoying
Three- I like guys with dogs because I know they aren't allergic XD
Four- I hate black licorice and cucumbers XD
Any other girls agree with any of these? lol
Me🙋
I agree a smile does turn a girl on or woman and I have a medium size waist hard bubble chest muscle shoulders and hard arms I'm 6'4" 210lbs if that's not attractive for a woman of white Italian or Puerto Rican don't know
Well, I like dogs, I'm a girl, but I'm allergic to dogs so to me, it doesn't really matter, to me.
Well how about you develop a personality could being such a gold-digging w**** and being so goddamn b***** all the time you want a man who's bigger smarter faster and richer which means you think men are looking for stupid poor dumb women
But. . when I smile it look like I,m an maniac.
Migh I ask you if you could be attracted by someone like.... Mr Darcy?
I love seeing 2 narcs in a relationship together .
It makes me think of the train wreck coming !😀😱
You don't have to change yourself to make someone like you.
Interesting information,,,
And for being attracted to people who look like your parents, it depends on the connection you have with your parents. Most of the time it's just coincidental.
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