Yeah colorism is real and something that a lot of us dark skin women have to deal with. When we start to pour more into ourselves, the effects of it become less draining because you know you’re fine.
This is a great video! As a dark skinned woman it's unfortunate that some people associate black women as being more masculine. I definitely exude more feminine energy naturally but learning to have more feminine energy and be more balanced really. Awesome tips! I agree less is more I notice I get more compliments too when I have a more natural look. You are absolutely beautiful btw. Thanks for sharing love this ❤
I love your makeup! And if someone else doesn't have time or want to do their makeup everyday, they don't need to make negative comments about another woman's makeup!
Journaling definitely helps you pay attention to your feelings. It helps you get everything out of your head and helps you find and work through any issues you may have.
These are all good things. Sterotypes definitely play a huge role! But I hate when a random man says "you need to smile baby girl..." sometimes I don't feel like smiling. Sometimes I'm not in a great mood. Its not human to always be happy. Life happens, and its okay to not smile all the time.
Gabrielle Ishell love this comment 👏🏾 it’s true, not everyday we have to smile. It’s ok to be upset. People are just nosy at times. Thank you for watching! ♥️
Even if you don’t feel like smiling m, you should smile. Sometimes we lose at demeanor and if you don’t like men telling you to smile you’re probably walking around with a sour face more often than not.
Being confident about who you are is such an important quality to have. I use music and poetry to be in touch with my emotions. It helps tremendously. I have been doing the braid thing lately. A little makeup every now and then; mostly when I am going to be singing somewhere. Looking good is a compliment to everyone around you. You want to give the world your best.
Yes less is more and I love our “ethnic” looks I started my dreadlock journey back in 2017 and started pretty short so took a bit to gain the confidence to do so but did. You make a great point that, us doing our make up or taking care of ourselves is always for others like it can’t be for us...🤷🏾♀️So crazy!! Thanks for this! Another great one!
Your natural hair is so pretty you should wear it more. 🤣 (the part about the manager girl that’s your problem) but that’s so tru when you wear makeup that act like you Beyoncé. I just wanted to doll myself up today dang.
This has to be addressed, women yes we should tap into our femininity, it’s powerful. Love this video. I have a similar TH-cam channel on femininity, self improvement and dating. It’s different in Africa, women are feminine and submissive, am African. Productivity, yes! Thanks for the tips girl!
yasss i love this video! i feel like in the media blk women are often robbed of our divine feminity so any way for us to reclaim that is great. The way I dress has always been a huge part of myself and simply wearing a bomb dress or skirts as well as light colors is a sure fire way to increase femininity
Looks By Naheemah yess! Love this comment and I’m glad you do agree. Also I’m sure that works great and you look great wearing them 👏🏾 thank you for watching!!
Less is ALWAYS more 🙌🏾 Omg I wish more young ladies had this mind set! Staying positive & active is key to choosing happiness. Colorist are out & about in full force unfortunately. It’s so sad. A lot of self hate.
Being active and productive is so key to taking care of yourself and this is an excellent point . I'm really glad you touched on so many great points. Yes whatever compliments you get take it and hold it and go on your way.
There is a special set of circumstances for black women and I'm happy you have enough intellectual honesty and have the sense to know that! This vid is very much like a person that has been talking about this for a while named Chrissie, she gets a lot of hate but sometimes people don't want to hear the truth. Also, the pics in the video are beautiful!
Or how about when you go out with the girls and you take the time to put on a cute outfit with make up and hair done and then your “friends” say that you look to extra or doing to much. 🙄
I absolutely believe that less is more! The makeup no makeup look was And is always my go to! Love this topic. I hate that our own black women are the ones bringing one another down. They are sooooo intimidated and think that everything is a competition 😩
You provided some good pointers. Unfortunately, for me I naturally have a resting bitch face and I don't even notice. However, in my defense i laugh a lot so I guess theres balance.
I have not seen a video like this on TH-cam, well done 👍🏽. Some people especially black races need to know that you are valued and important. God created different races for a reason and everyone is beautiful and is valued. Don’t allow people to tell you other wise, know your worth. 👩🏻👩🏼👩🏽👩🏾👩🏿 Lovely video 👍🏽👏🏽😊
One you are gorgeous! Your are doing the right thing by standing up to a society who thinks black and brown skin Masculine by default. There are so many other things that contribute to masculinity and femininity than skin color and tone.
As a young woman I was not good at taking compliments...& often confused that with being “modest”. It is a blessing that you have this wisdom at such a young age, hold on to it!!! ❤️
I have just started journaling for the first time a few weeks ago and I've found it's helped in bringing me SO much mental clarity! Too often we can be overpowered by our negative thoughts so it is imperative to have a healthy outlet. Thanks for sharing these great tips :)
Keeping A Journal To Keep Track Of Your Feelings Seems Interesting To Do .Specially Since I Have both My Good and Bad Days All The time . SMILE MORE is What everyone Around The World Should Do ! Great Ways To Increase Feminism .
Love this video. I never understood how we can be masculine as BW. It doesn’t make sense it’s good for the men but not the women. Most dark skin BM have dark skin Black moms. This video was very good and informative. Great video as always.
Balance is key, but I feel like I have a very feminine flow over masculine. I hate the colorism stereotypes. I think we black women are the most beautiful and feminine women on the planet and I agree maintaining our health is the best way for us to look and feel our best. Love the video!
I love this I agree with accepting compliments and being in touch with your emotions and I love to write things down daily just to get out my thoughts feelings and ideas
I finally found a femininity channel with a dark skinned girl from the UK. I like it because the UK and the US are different and I like to see the UK prospective
I love the tips! You have to feel good about yourself and not worry about others! And coworkers can be ridiculous when they are unaware. We also need to as black women uplift each other!
Your natural hair is beautiful! I loved this video! I think it's important for black women to know that it's ok to be themselves. We spend so much time code switching because we're afraid to let people see who we really are. I definitely have resting bitch face and it leads to so many assumptions about me which is annoying 😒. But I hope people start to realize that we are just people like everyone else and sometimes we smile and sometimes we dont. This is normal lol
Journaling is key for me! It helps me process my daily experiences and keep track of how I feel daily. I can see where I am growing and evolving throughout each day.
I am white, I have never heard, nor had any indication whatsoever that dark skin is associated with masculinity, or white skin is associated with femininity. I follow many You-tubers speaking about femininity who have dark skin, because I find them more Alluring, in every way, I only follow one who is white. With so many things happening in the world right now, please know, that dark skinned women are SO incredibly Beautiful!! I don’t know what it is you are being told, I don’t know what it is that you believe to be true. When I look at another person the more different they are from myself the more Joy Fills my Heart. How Great is our Creator! Thank you for sharing your skill and wisdom with us.
Alghazaali Becky thank you for sharing your insight and watching! It’s mainly said in the black community that black is considered with masculine that is why a lot of black women can relate to that. But thank you for your lovely comment! Pure and genuine ♥️ appricate it!
Hi Catherine. I really love your videos. You always give out positive energy and some great advice! Your make up girl is BOMB! You look really cute!! Thanks for the advice some of us really do need to hear that we are beautiful with or without make up! We do need to change our diets. Drink more water. Lord only knows that I need to lol.💜💛💚💙
Great video! I love the idea of enhance what you already have... people especially black women are constantly trying to change and alter but they already have amazing features and characteristics
Love your tips. I definitely journal a lot more about my feelings as it is a good outlet for me. I also have worked on being able to accept comments and not question them. I don't normally question them to the person. I will take the compliment and thank them but often on my own find myself thinking about it. Definitely working on it but I'm much better than I was for sure.
Well said, love that you do journal your feelings 🙏🏾 well done for working on accepting compliments, all of those compliments about you are true, carry it with confidence ✨ thank you for watching!
♥️ I absolutely loved this video, it is very helpful! Because of how strong and independent black women are, sometimes it is hare for us to be soft and feminine.
This video is right on time! I have been looking up videos on this topic & yours was the best so far. I didn't think of darker skin as masculine but I happy you mentioned it. Your energy will introduce you before anything else but I do enjoy being a woman. I loved the tips you mentioned my fav is less is more. Embrace what you have and don't follow the trends... I find it really shallow that people will put you down because they feel less than. Sorry you had to experience that. Thanks for sharing this video 😍
Stephanie Singh Spirituality thank you for the genuine comment! 😘 I really appricate it and so glad you agree with this topic! Thank you so much for watching! 🌸
This was a great video for people who want to be more confident over all, so much of it is unlearning negative thoughts about our selves and feeling empowered in who we are and thats always beautiful!
Girl these are some really good tips. I need to eat healthier. I also like what you said about insecurities- it is very important to be confident, say thank you and move on lol I try to journal daily, and if not daily, at least weekly. I think appearance is very important- you have to put in effort in how you look. Excellent tips, thanks for sharing!!!
loved this video! I'm really trying to be intentional with keeping up with my emotions, so I have been doing a lot of journaling since the beginning of 2020. thanks for sharing your tips and tricks!
You had a lot of good points! The message behind your video was very empowering which I appreciate. I think a lot of these changed habits will bring success and more happiness. Love it!
Such an interesting topic! You made some really valid points and pointed out a lot of things to consider and think about as it pertains to simply making small changes, but impactful changes
Great content in this video, Less is definitely more. We are already beautiful and just enhancing our beauty does just enough. I really need to start keeping a journal /diary like you suggested. Maybe I can write out some thoughts in my planner that I keep up with.
Crown of Beauty thank you for watching ♥️ also yes a journal / diary always helps, it’s nice to get your thoughts/emotions down sometimes! Appreciate the comment 💯
I wear lipstick at home. Yes, i do! My sister always makes snorky comments. However, because of me she started acting a bit feminine. She still has a lot of work to do. The biggest is letting the bitterness go. I mean..you wake up good, you pray and you step out of the room to sour faces. Thank God i will be out to a better place soon🤗😇🎶
NINA WESTLAKE yesss girl I’m happy for you and even though your sister is making snorky comments look how it’s rubbing off on her 😂👏🏾 brilliant. Keep doing what you’re doing 💯👸🏾✨
I enjoyed this ! However , I disagree with the first points , respectfully, lol I think a lot of those things are great ! However normally a woman, especially a “black women” confidence is normally intimidating for other people . A woman sure of herself period is tbh. And normally that’s associated with “masculine “ energy . However with the appearance and journaling I deff agree with those !
PopularLoner I do agree with the confidence coming across as imitating but why is that? When a white women is confident it’s normal but a black (dark skin) women is confident it’s seen as imitating/bold/angry - It’s sad. But that’s the reality. Thank you for watching ♥️
I love your video; every time i go outside looking good my family members, are always telling me why am i being so extra. Sometimes, that stays with me for the whole time i'm out and now i'm over thinking. And i don't like it. like it's so strange to them to just look good for you. But i'm not letting their comment stop me from looking good, just for my self. :}
Thank you for watching lovely! :) Also you are right, don't feel bad for what others comment, family members or not who cares! Keep doing you and keep looking GOOD! 😍
Yeah colorism is real and something that a lot of us dark skin women have to deal with. When we start to pour more into ourselves, the effects of it become less draining because you know you’re fine.
Petite Aitza agreed fully! Thank you for watching ♥️
I'm so happy to see more videos on black femininity. My goal for this year is to tap more into mines and flourish. Great video!
blvndinee yesss as you will, thank you for watching! ♥️
This is a great video! As a dark skinned woman it's unfortunate that some people associate black women as being more masculine. I definitely exude more feminine energy naturally but learning to have more feminine energy and be more balanced really. Awesome tips! I agree less is more I notice I get more compliments too when I have a more natural look. You are absolutely beautiful btw. Thanks for sharing love this ❤
Positive Glam Goddess thank you for the lovely comment! ☺️ also yes I’m glad you see it too and agree! Balence is key though! 💓💯
Yes!! I love natural looks too! Black women are naturally stunning, period!!
people are saying that cuz they are accepting PROPAGANDA as truth and need a crutch.
I love your makeup! And if someone else doesn't have time or want to do their makeup everyday, they don't need to make negative comments about another woman's makeup!
Journaling definitely helps you pay attention to your feelings. It helps you get everything out of your head and helps you find and work through any issues you may have.
The Delaya B. Exactly! Thank you for watching
These are all good things. Sterotypes definitely play a huge role! But I hate when a random man says "you need to smile baby girl..." sometimes I don't feel like smiling. Sometimes I'm not in a great mood. Its not human to always be happy. Life happens, and its okay to not smile all the time.
Gabrielle Ishell love this comment 👏🏾 it’s true, not everyday we have to smile. It’s ok to be upset. People are just nosy at times. Thank you for watching! ♥️
Even if you don’t feel like smiling m, you should smile. Sometimes we lose at demeanor and if you don’t like men telling you to smile you’re probably walking around with a sour face more often than not.
Being confident about who you are is such an important quality to have. I use music and poetry to be in touch with my emotions. It helps tremendously. I have been doing the braid thing lately. A little makeup every now and then; mostly when I am going to be singing somewhere. Looking good is a compliment to everyone around you. You want to give the world your best.
Stephanie Jeannot love this comment! You are so right, also your comment on poetry and music which is very good! Thank you for watching! ♥️
Yes less is more and I love our “ethnic” looks I started my dreadlock journey back in 2017 and started pretty short so took a bit to gain the confidence to do so but did. You make a great point that, us doing our make up or taking care of ourselves is always for others like it can’t be for us...🤷🏾♀️So crazy!! Thanks for this! Another great one!
Regina Renee Williams I’m glad you enjoyed the video! Thank you for watching and agreeing! 💓
Your natural hair is so pretty you should wear it more. 🤣 (the part about the manager girl that’s your problem) but that’s so tru when you wear makeup that act like you Beyoncé. I just wanted to doll myself up today dang.
Thank you lovely!! Glad you defo agree! Nothing wrong with it. Thank you for watching lovely 😍
Your so stunning truly a black queen:)😻
Thank you sweetheart x
This has to be addressed, women yes we should tap into our femininity, it’s powerful. Love this video. I have a similar TH-cam channel on femininity, self improvement and dating. It’s different in Africa, women are feminine and submissive, am African. Productivity, yes! Thanks for the tips girl!
yasss i love this video! i feel like in the media blk women are often robbed of our divine feminity so any way for us to reclaim that is great. The way I dress has always been a huge part of myself and simply wearing a bomb dress or skirts as well as light colors is a sure fire way to increase femininity
Looks By Naheemah yess! Love this comment and I’m glad you do agree. Also I’m sure that works great and you look great wearing them 👏🏾 thank you for watching!!
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Less is ALWAYS more 🙌🏾 Omg I wish more young ladies had this mind set! Staying positive & active is key to choosing happiness. Colorist are out & about in full force unfortunately. It’s so sad. A lot of self hate.
April Newly Me thank you! I’m glad you agree with the video! 😪 thank you for watching! ♥️
Being active and productive is so key to taking care of yourself and this is an excellent point . I'm really glad you touched on so many great points. Yes whatever compliments you get take it and hold it and go on your way.
GROWing In Lov3 thank you so much for watching! Appricate your comment!
Your natural hair is pretty
And I loved the video
Thank you for sharing
Thank you lovely
There is a special set of circumstances for black women and I'm happy you have enough intellectual honesty and have the sense to know that! This vid is very much like a person that has been talking about this for a while named Chrissie, she gets a lot of hate but sometimes people don't want to hear the truth. Also, the pics in the video are beautiful!
Thank you so much! And yesss I’ve heard of her too 🙏🏾 it has to be spoken on much more. Thank you for watching ♥️
Or how about when you go out with the girls and you take the time to put on a cute outfit with make up and hair done and then your “friends” say that you look to extra or doing to much. 🙄
I absolutely believe that less is more! The makeup no makeup look was And is always my go to! Love this topic. I hate that our own black women are the ones bringing one another down. They are sooooo intimidated and think that everything is a competition 😩
Simply Mz Kira you are absolutely right love! It’s sad and I don’t see it changing any time soon. Thank you for watching! ♥️
You provided some good pointers. Unfortunately, for me I naturally have a resting bitch face and I don't even notice. However, in my defense i laugh a lot so I guess theres balance.
Same🤣🤣
I just have to say this. You are so beautiful 😍 and love how you said ; don’t act basic. Some women can’t help being insecure though.
I have not seen a video like this on TH-cam, well done 👍🏽. Some people especially black races need to know that you are valued and important.
God created different races for a reason and everyone is beautiful and is valued. Don’t allow people to tell you other wise, know your worth. 👩🏻👩🏼👩🏽👩🏾👩🏿
Lovely video 👍🏽👏🏽😊
Exactly, I appreciate this comment! Thank you for taking the time to watch hun! You are correct 💛💛💛
Darker skin equaling masculine... I’m so glad you said that cause it’s true 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Cherishing Flo thank you for watching queen ✨
One you are gorgeous! Your are doing the right thing by standing up to a society who thinks black and brown skin Masculine by default. There are so many other things that contribute to masculinity and femininity than skin color and tone.
Thank you so much also thank you for watching! I really appreciate it! Also yes I defo agree with what you're saying 💛 Thank you for watching!
As a young woman I was not good at taking compliments...& often confused that with being “modest”. It is a blessing that you have this wisdom at such a young age, hold on to it!!! ❤️
Ivy Morrison aww thank you for the comment! And don’t worry it all comes with time! Thank you for watching 💓
I have just started journaling for the first time a few weeks ago and I've found it's helped in bringing me SO much mental clarity! Too often we can be overpowered by our negative thoughts so it is imperative to have a healthy outlet. Thanks for sharing these great tips :)
Thank you for watching lovely! And yesss to journaling your thoughts 🙏🏾 well done to you! ♥️
your so pretty with and without make up
this topic is so important to teach young girls
Thank you hun, I'm glad you agree!
Keeping A Journal To Keep Track Of Your Feelings Seems Interesting To Do .Specially Since I Have both My Good and Bad Days All The time . SMILE MORE is What everyone Around The World Should Do ! Great Ways To Increase Feminism .
Love this video. I never understood how we can be masculine as BW. It doesn’t make sense it’s good for the men but not the women. Most dark skin BM have dark skin Black moms. This video was very good and informative. Great video as always.
Thank you hun 💓 thanks for watching
Sometimes I feel like I have too much feelings and dont kno how to express them lol. But day by day I'm learning how to in a healthy manner
You’re beautiful Queen!
Life with Dej thank you queen ♥️
Balance is key, but I feel like I have a very feminine flow over masculine. I hate the colorism stereotypes. I think we black women are the most beautiful and feminine women on the planet and I agree maintaining our health is the best way for us to look and feel our best. Love the video!
Yesss agreed to black women being the most beautiful 😂. Thank you for watching! 💓
I love this I agree with accepting compliments and being in touch with your emotions and I love to write things down daily just to get out my thoughts feelings and ideas
Thank you for watching! And well done to you 🙏🏾♥️
I finally found a femininity channel with a dark skinned girl from the UK. I like it because the UK and the
US are different and I like to see the UK prospective
Adwoa thank you lovely! :) hope you stick around for some more!
@@CatherineCherlene I definitely will 😊
Adwoa appricate it 💛
Ikr. All the feminity channels I one across are always women from America. Its nice to see it crossing over to the UK too!
I like this topic and feel like many people need it. I agree that less is more but more ladies need to hear that.
Girl you’re so inspiring I feel like these topics are often taboo so it’s fab that you’re using your platform to bring attention to this!!💖
E M J A Y styles it’s true hun, thank you for watching ☺️💓
I love the tips! You have to feel good about yourself and not worry about others! And coworkers can be ridiculous when they are unaware. We also need to as black women uplift each other!
Thank you and agreed! Black women need to support eachother more, we are at the end of the stick always. Thanks for watching ♥️
Your natural hair is beautiful! I loved this video! I think it's important for black women to know that it's ok to be themselves. We spend so much time code switching because we're afraid to let people see who we really are. I definitely have resting bitch face and it leads to so many assumptions about me which is annoying 😒. But I hope people start to realize that we are just people like everyone else and sometimes we smile and sometimes we dont. This is normal lol
You are so beautiful 😍😍 and it’s true the darker you are the more you or seen as masculine especially guys.
yes there are stereotypes about black/ darkskin women. yes i agree women do downplay complement.. TAKE IT!
I love your accent ❣
Journaling is key for me! It helps me process my daily experiences and keep track of how I feel daily. I can see where I am growing and evolving throughout each day.
This is an amazing video!!!! I have been working on being more feminine and stepping away from the labels of society and how they view black women!!!!
Shayla Taylor yess love it thank you for watching!! X
Girl this video had some good points. Also I agree less is more. Co workers can be nosy af. I’m learning to ignore them lol
I am white, I have never heard, nor had any indication whatsoever that dark skin is associated with masculinity, or white skin is associated with femininity. I follow many You-tubers speaking about femininity who have dark skin, because I find them more Alluring, in every way, I only follow one who is white. With so many things happening in the world right now, please know, that dark skinned women are SO incredibly Beautiful!! I don’t know what it is you are being told, I don’t know what it is that you believe to be true. When I look at another person the more different they are from myself the more Joy Fills my Heart. How Great is our Creator!
Thank you for sharing your skill and wisdom with us.
Alghazaali Becky thank you for sharing your insight and watching! It’s mainly said in the black community that black is considered with masculine that is why a lot of black women can relate to that. But thank you for your lovely comment! Pure and genuine ♥️ appricate it!
Hi Catherine. I really love your videos. You always give out positive energy and some great advice! Your make up girl is BOMB! You look really cute!! Thanks for the advice some of us really do need to hear that we are beautiful with or without make up! We do need to change our diets. Drink more water. Lord only knows that I need to lol.💜💛💚💙
Hey Catherine. Nice channel over here!
Thank you :)
Great video! I love the idea of enhance what you already have... people especially black women are constantly trying to change and alter but they already have amazing features and characteristics
Exactly! I’m glad you agree 🙏🏾 thank you for watching ♥️
Catherine Magomu no problem 💕
Love your tips. I definitely journal a lot more about my feelings as it is a good outlet for me. I also have worked on being able to accept comments and not question them. I don't normally question them to the person. I will take the compliment and thank them but often on my own find myself thinking about it. Definitely working on it but I'm much better than I was for sure.
Well said, love that you do journal your feelings 🙏🏾 well done for working on accepting compliments, all of those compliments about you are true, carry it with confidence ✨ thank you for watching!
@@CatherineCherlene
♥️ I absolutely loved this video, it is very helpful! Because of how strong and independent black women are, sometimes it is hare for us to be soft and feminine.
Thank You for all this rich content. I'm very grateful. I wish you lots of success. Also all these pictures are so radiant and gorgeous 💖
Aww thank you! Lovely comment. Thank you for watching 💖
Journaling your emotions is a good tip
This video is right on time! I have been looking up videos on this topic & yours was the best so far. I didn't think of darker skin as masculine but I happy you mentioned it. Your energy will introduce you before anything else but I do enjoy being a woman. I loved the tips you mentioned my fav is less is more. Embrace what you have and don't follow the trends... I find it really shallow that people will put you down because they feel less than. Sorry you had to experience that. Thanks for sharing this video 😍
Stephanie Singh Spirituality thank you for the genuine comment! 😘 I really appricate it and so glad you agree with this topic! Thank you so much for watching! 🌸
This was a great video sis! Always touching on the important things.
Your accent is lovely 😊 and you look amazing
Tamie Time thank youu! ♥️
This was a great video for people who want to be more confident over all, so much of it is unlearning negative thoughts about our selves and feeling empowered in who we are and thats always beautiful!
Sistah Punk exactly!! Glad you took it well and thank you for watching ♥️
Great tips!! I'm glad that you talked about staying balanced. 👌🏽🥰
The Unchained CEO definenly thank you for watching! 💓
Girl these are some really good tips. I need to eat healthier. I also like what you said about insecurities- it is very important to be confident, say thank you and move on lol I try to journal daily, and if not daily, at least weekly. I think appearance is very important- you have to put in effort in how you look. Excellent tips, thanks for sharing!!!
I think this video was great. I love potato is things to support black women
Love! Love! Love! this! this needs to be instilled in our youth as well!
I agree! Young black women need these messages! # Level Up Ladies
You are gorgeous 😍❤️
loved this video! I'm really trying to be intentional with keeping up with my emotions, so I have been doing a lot of journaling since the beginning of 2020. thanks for sharing your tips and tricks!
This video is spot on tbh. Preach my sista
Such an inspiration!! Thank you for sharing and I look forward to more content:)
You had a lot of good points! The message behind your video was very empowering which I appreciate. I think a lot of these changed habits will bring success and more happiness. Love it!
You’re 100% right sis. Thanks for bringing this topic to the light. 💙💫Society ignore the facts 😭
new subscriber abs loveeee your videos. like ive saved sm into watch for later. gonna use for motivation🥰
thank you lovely 💛
Yes !! I absolutely LOVE journaling ! I have 3 !
This is a vibe & very uplifting! Great video 💜
Such an interesting topic! You made some really valid points and pointed out a lot of things to consider and think about as it pertains to simply making small changes, but impactful changes
She Speakx thank you for watching! 💓
This was great! I've been working on finding my feminity again and this was a great video.
Pretty Dope thank you I appricate this comment ♥️
You hit some great key points....yes you have to have self confidence especially living in todays time
This was a really video i'm happy you touched on such topics that's usually not talked about
Great content in this video, Less is definitely more. We are already beautiful and just enhancing our beauty does just enough. I really need to start keeping a journal /diary like you suggested. Maybe I can write out some thoughts in my planner that I keep up with.
Crown of Beauty thank you for watching ♥️ also yes a journal / diary always helps, it’s nice to get your thoughts/emotions down sometimes! Appreciate the comment 💯
Great tips and advice!
Hey Sis I’m just here to show some love!! Keep it up I’ll be watching!! ❤️
Very well said Catherine 👏🏾 I loved this ❤️
Jem thank you love ♥️
I wear lipstick at home. Yes, i do! My sister always makes snorky comments. However, because of me she started acting a bit feminine. She still has a lot of work to do. The biggest is letting the bitterness go. I mean..you wake up good, you pray and you step out of the room to sour faces. Thank God i will be out to a better place soon🤗😇🎶
NINA WESTLAKE yesss girl I’m happy for you and even though your sister is making snorky comments look how it’s rubbing off on her 😂👏🏾 brilliant. Keep doing what you’re doing 💯👸🏾✨
Love your energy and you’re very inspiring! 💕
Love love love new subbie
Re-watched! Such a fantastic video and topic. And, you're gorgeous to boot.
You just inspired me to do a video on black femininity, Thank you!💖
Glad I can inspire you sis! 💓
I enjoyed this ! However , I disagree with the first points , respectfully, lol I think a lot of those things are great ! However normally a woman, especially a “black women” confidence is normally intimidating for other people . A woman sure of herself period is tbh. And normally that’s associated with “masculine “ energy . However with the appearance and journaling I deff agree with those !
PopularLoner I do agree with the confidence coming across as imitating but why is that? When a white women is confident it’s normal but a black (dark skin) women is confident it’s seen as imitating/bold/angry - It’s sad. But that’s the reality. Thank you for watching ♥️
Good video💙
This was great advice and ideas! I love your accent! 🥰
Ryss Ryss thank you hun 💓
omg youre so pretty! this was such a great video!
Artonique Hodges TV thank you hun
You have some good tips w enhancing what you have.
lol i just bit into my fried chicken sandwich when i heard the first tip lol .... my look "👀"
Jessica A 😂😂♥️
Thanks for using your channel as a source of upliftment and truth ✨ and not holding back but shining light on topics like this ❤️ I adore you 🥰
Teach the ladies sis
Thank you ✨
Great video 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
great advice, this was a good video
Thank you!
I love your video; every time i go outside looking good my family members, are always telling me why am i being so extra. Sometimes, that stays with me for the whole time i'm out and now i'm over thinking. And i don't like it. like it's so strange to them to just look good for you. But i'm not letting their comment stop me from looking good, just for my self. :}
Thank you for watching lovely! :) Also you are right, don't feel bad for what others comment, family members or not who cares! Keep doing you and keep looking GOOD! 😍
You had some really great points!
Garden Of Iris x3 thank you!
Gorgeous! Self esteem & self love are a must! Great vid.
love your hair and makeup! i would say i would definitely be more feminine if i had more time in the day lol
Thank you lovely! 💓
Rewatched babe
Loved this type of video, you spoke well and backed up all your points. Well done babe x
Yessss, less is more 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
NIce vid, congs on the 10k views love
Diana Enzaru thank you sweetheart