‘I tell all these niggas that I am seeing, that I’m seeing other people...that doesn’t mean I’m sleeping with all of them … there is guy for ice cream, I have one for movies and I have one for when I just need to talk…’ Toke Makinwa And who exactly are these men that you are referring to with such epithets and labelling with the ‘N’ word? Toke is free to have all of these relationships; however, it is important to note the hazards of this perpetual party girl life. What she has actively done here is splinter all of the responsibilities, obligations and benefits of a husband into the bodies and lives of about 5 different men. A decent, sensible and worthy husband is a financial and emotional support. He serves as a protector and provider; he is also a social, sexual and formal companion. Having 5 or more different men play all those roles in a formula for disaster and disease! It is your prerogative to live your life in whatever way however, this choice has a shelf life and it is a very short one. All these men will move on, many of your bourgeois friends will get married and move on. You do not want to be the lonely 45-year old single woman looking for a younger non-committal man who will be her date to the movies! For the younger ladies who are watching this please note that this is not the optimal approach to feminine life or womanhood. Regardless of the glamour, glitz and gloss Toke might put on it, such as calling it the ‘soft life,’ this is actually the lonely, laborious and unfulfilling life. I am not a proponent of ‘marriage at any cost.’ If either a man or woman is happy being single that is a laudable expression of their freedom. However, let us not act like it is the preferred alternative by reveling in this life of multiple, indiscriminate and incessant dating with no clear objectives. It is indecent when men do it and it is similarly offensive and destructive when women adopt it as a lifestyle. Be wise
You have always been a Great source of inspiration for me Toke and am really glad to always watch and learn from you all the time. You are really really the Best of the Best. Much love. Kisses 😚😚😘😘😘😘
Thanks Queen TM, Never mind us giving you your long overdue flowers, you wear the crown when it come to being unapologetically authentic to one’s self. Nobody does it like you. Another banging episode, keep up the excellent work, we are rooting for you ❤❤❤
It’s like my comment will not end, Toke and Dora, I need I girls outing full of heart to heart gist with you both. You both understand what Ladies are really going through
That stage where you first meet a guy and he calls you every second, and after some time it suddenly stops...It is called ‘Love Bombing’…This is a typical trait of a NARCISSIST…These type of men also lack empathy. Ladies, it’s important to know the signs of a narcissist so you can block & run!
Sometimes you write the paragraphs and tell them not because they don’t know but because you know and you’re in denial. So I’ll say write the paragraph.. maybe in your notes or on your phone or on a piece of paper, no need to tell him or send it to him.. just read it anytime you want to misbehave and text that guy again.. it will reset you.
Dora will make toke spill all her secrets to us , they’re so in sync with each other
‘I tell all these niggas that I am seeing, that I’m seeing other people...that doesn’t mean I’m sleeping with all of them … there is guy for ice cream, I have one for movies and I have one for when I just need to talk…’ Toke Makinwa
And who exactly are these men that you are referring to with such epithets and labelling with the ‘N’ word?
Toke is free to have all of these relationships; however, it is important to note the hazards of this perpetual party girl life. What she has actively done here is splinter all of the responsibilities, obligations and benefits of a husband into the bodies and lives of about 5 different men.
A decent, sensible and worthy husband is a financial and emotional support. He serves as a protector and provider; he is also a social, sexual and formal companion.
Having 5 or more different men play all those roles in a formula for disaster and disease!
It is your prerogative to live your life in whatever way however, this choice has a shelf life and it is a very short one.
All these men will move on, many of your bourgeois friends will get married and move on. You do not want to be the lonely 45-year old single woman looking for a younger non-committal man who will be her date to the movies!
For the younger ladies who are watching this please note that this is not the optimal approach to feminine life or womanhood. Regardless of the glamour, glitz and gloss Toke might put on it, such as calling it the ‘soft life,’ this is actually the lonely, laborious and unfulfilling life.
I am not a proponent of ‘marriage at any cost.’ If either a man or woman is happy being single that is a laudable expression of their freedom. However, let us not act like it is the preferred alternative by reveling in this life of multiple, indiscriminate and incessant dating with no clear objectives.
It is indecent when men do it and it is similarly offensive and destructive when women adopt it as a lifestyle. Be wise
Enjoyed this episode with Dorathy 😂😂😂, please let’s have her back ❤
the giggles.. love it.. so raw❤❤😂
Like i can listen to Toke all day....I no dey tire.
Toke and Dorathy...just loved your convo....
I enjoyed this episode
This pod cast was a bomb 😂😂😂😂
Damn I love this episode 😂😂plz bring Dora for another episode plz😂😂
This is so funny and relatable 😂😂😂😂
The two of you are so in sync…
Scorpio sistersss
I enjoyed this podcast so much I literally laughed the whole time😂😂😂😂😂😂
I like toke makinwa so much.. because of her fashion n the way she talks..she is a no nonesence woman..🇰🇪🇺🇬
Truthunedited!! Loved every bit of this podcast
Stay Wicked!!!
Toke moments is back🥳🥳, i played this episode so loud😂😂 , this is the episode🔥🔥...gosh... We scorpio queens are the real deal🥳
Period💖
Dorathy is so bubbly❤😂Enjoyed this episode
I was my first time on this toke moment and it was blast, I like the atmosphere, the realness of you two😍, and shout out to the scorpions
Loveddddddddd it🌸
Why am I just watching this😢😂😂 I love y’all!
Best way to start a season 😊❤ with the best guest ❤
So interesting . I had fun ! 😂😂
I looooove this show
Dorothy and Toke’s energy honestly match 😂❤
The audacity of you to talk about helping Toke
Help yourself first dear
You have always been a Great source of inspiration for me Toke and am really glad to always watch and learn from you all the time. You are really really the Best of the Best. Much love. Kisses 😚😚😘😘😘😘
Wow I love this conversation 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
This episode is so lit like toke was so me I had to learn the hard way
Now people ask why I wanted Dora when she went on BBN 😂,like minds relate!
She's such a vibe.
We want a part two with dorathy in it
I have waited forever for this
So much fun to watch 😂😂😂😂. Anyway A in Aesthetic is silent 🤫
Energyyyy 😅😅😅😅 I be rewinding this back to back
Dorathy can gist for days😂😂😂
Loved the vibes,if u are in just be der,be opened Dora is so funny 😊
I Want This soft Life ooooo...GOD Abeg Do It For Me 🙏🥰
Hi TM, Dorothy durrljng ... Proud Scorpios. Good to see you back. Kaabo.
Stay Wicked! 😂😂. I love love this episode and I resonate so much with everything that was said. As Scorpios we need to protect our soft hearts
I enjoyed this 😂😂😂❤❤❤
Immediately I got the notification I ran here ASAP 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ Tokemoment for a reason 💃💃💃💃
🥹💙💙💙💙
Me too
I love this episode 😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤ best episode yet ❤😂 this episode DSF where are you 😂❤
Welcome queen mother ❤❤
TM is me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭
Scorpio in the building 💃💃
These two are me Nd my girl friend my goodness 😂😂😂😂😂❤
Thanks Queen TM, Never mind us giving you your long overdue flowers, you wear the crown when it come to being unapologetically authentic to one’s self. Nobody does it like you.
Another banging episode, keep up the excellent work, we are rooting for you ❤❤❤
Loved it❤
I love every bit of this conversation.
I enjoy every bit of this podcasts and I learnt alot
I enjoyed every bit of this episode 😂❤🎉
It’s like my comment will not end, Toke and Dora, I need I girls outing full of heart to heart gist with you both. You both understand what Ladies are really going through
OMG 😍🥰 Love Me A Scorpio Queen Anytime Any Day💜💯
I love the vibe of Dorothy and TM, ladies your great and speaking truth
First to comment 😂😂😂😂
Welcome back gurlllllll 🎉
Yay! Thank you!
I love this episode because I can relateeee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This episode made my day😂❤️👏🏽
Yayyyy
My two Fav in one podcast,love it😘
Dora pls😂😂😂😂” I sent prayers too”
TM and Dora be dropping points 😂😂😂
I enjoyed every bit of this episode ❤❤ DoraXToke
My Scorpio ladies. I have experienced this and done all this 😂😂😂. No nonsense zone right here ❤. Thank you TM and Dorathy. Nov. 12🎉.
Dora's "because of what" when Toke asked if she ever ran up on a girl for a man 😂😂😂
She say God forbid😂😂
I enjoyed this episode so much
I really enjoyed this and wished I was part of this conversation cuz I 💯 concur 😂😅😅
I have been laughing none stop… deep deep stuff… sign me up for this season ❤
I love this episode,learnt so much❤️
Exactly! Let people bear the shame that they incurred intentionally. I have too much to lose to be defending rubbish😅
That stage where you first meet a guy and he calls you every second, and after some time it suddenly stops...It is called ‘Love Bombing’…This is a typical trait of a NARCISSIST…These type of men also lack empathy. Ladies, it’s important to know the signs of a narcissist so you can block & run!
My faves 😊
Scorpio queens the energy is giving
I love this podcast😊
Toke we love you from day one toke makimwa ❤❤❤
I have missed tokemoments ... I literally missed this
This Duooooo😂😂🙌🙌
Dangerously wicked it is😂😂 we are not playing
Sprinkle sprinkles 😂🎉
5 min in TM forgot her soft girl era😂😂😂😂😂😂 a consistent woman
I totally enjoyed this episode
Glad u did
Sometimes you write the paragraphs and tell them not because they don’t know but because you know and you’re in denial. So I’ll say write the paragraph.. maybe in your notes or on your phone or on a piece of paper, no need to tell him or send it to him.. just read it anytime you want to misbehave and text that guy again.. it will reset you.
This two 😂😂 I totally enjoyed it🔥😍
I smiled from start to finish 😊😊
We honestly need men to call in and explain that attitude of ignoring calls.
Its simple. They are not into u anymore
They don't like you
Toke the funny bone. When life gives you lemon, you make lemonade
My beautiful Dora😂❤
Aunt toke come and dash me the other colors ooooooo❤❤❤
Loved this 🥹❤️
I had a good laugh watching this😂😂😂😂😂
I had to run down here🎉🎉🎉
I enjoyed this nice one Tm & Dora❤
Am just hearing all what i do as a Scorpio Queen thank goodness am not alone
I missed tokemoments so much😢😢😢😢😢
Totally loved this ❤
It’s been a minute, welcome back🎉
Toke i promise you i will remain committed forever😂😂
Welcome back! ❤🎉
I can relate o…What do men really want??
I'm a Scorpio October 25th🙌🙌🙌💯
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'move back'! 😂😂😂😂
Best of the best
No more talking stage 😂 just state your intentions towards me n let me know ….so everyone can be at peace
I love toke makinwa
I love this episode ❤️❤️
Toke where are my flowers? 😂
Ima happy you are back