How I balanced: MED SCHOOL, BUSINESS, HOBBIES, FAITH & RELATIONSHIPS

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  • How to find balance in life when you are juggling a lot. I talk about how I did it with realistic practical tips that you can start TODAY.
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    2. Prioritising seasons 1:10
    3. How to find more time 3:36
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    5. Being Average 8:05
    6. Sacrifice 10:55
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  • @itsaghogho
    @itsaghogho ปีที่แล้ว +159

    This could not be more timely!! I am starting med school next week and I was already struggling to balance my youtube channel, my relationship with God and my hobbies. So I've been wondering how to balance it all. I'm so glad you made this video - thank you!

    • @jcicrafters5724
      @jcicrafters5724 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jesus loves you so much, you will always be His priority ❤

  • @rinmioten3374
    @rinmioten3374 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is honestly the first time I heard about "seasonal prioritizing", this is by far the best tip I learned from someone, especially, from a sister in Christ :))) THANK U! God bless you

  • @timitimi2
    @timitimi2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Stumbled across this video randomly and it was so timely. It kinda gives me hope that I'd finish from med school without dying. I have my second mb coming up in about a month and even Jesus Christ knows I'm running mad like literally. I have anxiety and depression and have less energy than regular people and I'm so stressed. I really just need to learn to trust God cos the previous end of postings I passed,in my head, I know I wrote trash. I don't even know how I've come this far in med school because I know I'm just hanging on/by a thread. I'm okay with being "average". It's a season. love from Nigeria.

    • @oluwabusolabadejo5894
      @oluwabusolabadejo5894 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, Timi. What Med school are you in?
      You'll be fine btw.

    • @timitimi2
      @timitimi2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oluwabusolabadejo5894 Bowen University

  • @ktdb9496
    @ktdb9496 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love the "season" mindset. I have been excelling in the 1st 2 years of med school. But now, everything's changing in my life and im no longer hyper-focusing on med school only. Im happier doing other things now, discovering. After realizing that there's life outside of med school and there's nothing to prove anymore. And that I'm allowed to be average in this season while discovering other things about myself -- thank you!

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love this comment so much! You get it, and are absolutely right. This mindset is what also freed me to do more and be more! x

    • @flourishorji6681
      @flourishorji6681 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Best comment,liberated me years ago

  • @Mmnn12708
    @Mmnn12708 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Oh nice, thanks for sharing!
    Definitely agree with you in terms of PRIORITIZING especially your Christian journey. I believe if one prioritize the relationship with God in every season everything else will go accordingly or more peaceful if I may say.

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Couldn’t agree more! Matthew 6:33 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @SbahleMngoma
    @SbahleMngoma ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Thank you for this. I'm just having a hard time accepting that there are seasons where I'm average.

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Haha I feel you. I mean I’ve just found that to be a reality but you could prove me/yourself wrong by trying to excel at everything at once ☺️ it might work for you x

  • @AbbysBandwidth-ABW
    @AbbysBandwidth-ABW ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Thank you so much for these tips.. As a medical student in my clinicals who just started my TH-cam channel last month I've been trying to plan how I'll balance, my physical health by working out and eating healthy, my spiritual life, my education and now content creation that's been added to the chart ...I just hope I'll be able to handle a relationship as well whenever it comes in the future 🙏

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s a lot to juggle but it’s definitely possible. I really hope you’re able to apply these tips and it works for you xx

  • @debsnkomo3765
    @debsnkomo3765 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She’s baaaackkk!!! Love this. Amazing and timely reminder. Thank you Nellah.

  • @GodsTreasure
    @GodsTreasure ปีที่แล้ว +10

    LOVE LOVE LOVE this video. Honestly couldn't agree more with the point about seasons and understanding what you should prioritize in each season- sucha life hack💯💯🙌🏾

  • @caseyk448
    @caseyk448 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad I found this video. Loved your explanation about different seasons in your life.

  • @latanarose4794
    @latanarose4794 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really needed to hear this thank you so much. I will be watching it again tomorrow.

  • @emmanuellaeledu
    @emmanuellaeledu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so very much, Doc!

  • @kasondechewe5548
    @kasondechewe5548 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you 🙌 Really needed this 😪

  • @peculiarolabisisomoye2071
    @peculiarolabisisomoye2071 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much nella💃💃, this is very inspiring 🤗 God bless you

  • @chidok6821
    @chidok6821 ปีที่แล้ว

    This came right on time nella, I've been struggling with balancing varsity modules, social life and my faith 🥺. Thank you so much for this video i really appreciate and will try to use the tips you've given me

  • @tinotendanyika4841
    @tinotendanyika4841 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really timely video, thank you 🙏🏽

  • @sasha1325
    @sasha1325 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “I can’t even be like me, girl.” 😂😂😂 SCREAMING!! This is my first time coming across your channel ❤️❤️❤️ subscribed ✅

  • @Kristinemay29
    @Kristinemay29 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for the tips! I love that you're also prioritizing your faith. 😊

  • @ogehnwaogidi2138
    @ogehnwaogidi2138 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Life is seasonal 🙌🙌

  • @Blessy.a
    @Blessy.a ปีที่แล้ว

    Wooow I thank the Lord for bringing up your video to me !! I desperately needed to watch it and take notes ! Be blessed 🧡

  • @damarisstanila274
    @damarisstanila274 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice! Thank you so much 😁

  • @beingbett
    @beingbett ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so glad you shared how you were able handle so many things at once. You hit on a lot of helpful points 🔥😍 I love the idea that there’s different seasons for prioritising different tasks. Sometimes changing the way we think about things can be the small change that can go a long way
    Great vid !😍

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! it’s the learning to recognise the season and then acting accordingly part.
      Thank you so much.

  • @oluwabusolabadejo5894
    @oluwabusolabadejo5894 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot, Dr. Nellah♥️

  • @toxicnivlek5481
    @toxicnivlek5481 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really Helpful, This came at the right time.
    Thank you

  • @modou.studygrowth
    @modou.studygrowth ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this video. Very helpful.

  • @reinebianka1364
    @reinebianka1364 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It was the video that I needed the most thank you so much 😻

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh I’m so glad!

  • @RealJeRi
    @RealJeRi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great to see again 😀

  • @MontelleBee
    @MontelleBee ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was so on point!!! Thank you for sharing the realness of your journey. We appreciate it 🙏🏾♥️ when you said “I can’t even be like me” 🤣 facts!

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Likeee! Just being honest haha thank you lovely x

  • @beccachukwu7100
    @beccachukwu7100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this video.

  • @kennedydumas6195
    @kennedydumas6195 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Good insight! I’m a new masters student and I’m only 22. So I’m trying to balance studies, life and dating

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re so young you definitely have time to figure it out but also I know it’s your current situation so definitely trial and error until you figure out what the best strategy is for you x

  • @shaylacox1489
    @shaylacox1489 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so glad I found you on here and Instagram. I switched careers into urgent care health field and was concerned about balancing all the things I loved plus being a supportive military wife and mom! Appreciate you and I look forward to listening to your other wise videos! God bless!

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s hard! It really is but it’s definitely possible. Im testament to it. You got this! And you’re doing amazing too, congratulations on your new career!

  • @claudia4605
    @claudia4605 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is the best video on this subject I've ever watched... and I've watched a lot of them!

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh thank you! That’s really encouraging!

  • @sinaimulamba3252
    @sinaimulamba3252 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    preach mama!!!! the "being average" @8:05 point is so top notch!
    thank you so much sis❤

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sometimes we just have to accept it lol

    • @sinaimulamba3252
      @sinaimulamba3252 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Dr.Nellah 💯% and that's how me move & grow! lol. Thanks ☺

  • @hhhoneycomb
    @hhhoneycomb ปีที่แล้ว

    Nellah you’re such an inspiration

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you! x

  • @PZJBimha
    @PZJBimha ปีที่แล้ว

    Practical tips! Thanks for sharing.

  • @jessasmrcd
    @jessasmrcd ปีที่แล้ว

    You are amazing! 🫶

  • @tinatulio
    @tinatulio ปีที่แล้ว

    Good to have you back ma🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @celestinecole3160
    @celestinecole3160 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this!!

  • @thenecyshow2401
    @thenecyshow2401 ปีที่แล้ว

    So helpful ! Thank you!

  • @_iyin_
    @_iyin_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As at the time of the screen time question it was 8h 24m. Don't want to break it down.... It's embarrassing 😭😭😭😭.. I've learnt how to find more time and prioritize myself. Thank you Nellah

  • @manij1913
    @manij1913 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Crazy how this popped up out of nowhere . I literally just decided that radiologist is my career choice and I have been thinking about how I’m going to balance life and med school . Thank you so much 😊

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh I hope this can really help, it’s honestly how I’ve tried to juggle it all and it’s worked x

    • @manij1913
      @manij1913 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dr.Nellah I appreciate the tips and overall video . Thanks so much !!

  • @vicky_aluko.a
    @vicky_aluko.a ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is everything I needed and more 💕🙏🏾God bless you :)

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh I’m glad x

  • @merelynmatias6217
    @merelynmatias6217 ปีที่แล้ว

    Simple and true. Thank you

  • @mujameurinavi9764
    @mujameurinavi9764 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Notification gang 🔥❤️
    Missed you ❤️🫂

  • @gajanani3373
    @gajanani3373 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just noticed when you said to check my screen time and was surprised it was 4 mins and that is my new normal I think

  • @nosipet59
    @nosipet59 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohh how much l missed you😷thank you for this

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      My pleasure! She’s definitely back ☺️

  • @carldomond166
    @carldomond166 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That 'watching people make money' comment about instagram made me never want to open any social media app ever again lmaoo! Thank you for your wisdom love.

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Loool I have to tell myself that all the time when my app limit comes on and I’m tempted to dismiss it 😂

  • @panda22518
    @panda22518 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    thanks so much for this! I wasnt the best student during my first few years, Bs, Cs and a few failures but i realize that i didnt know how to prioritize my time because i was working to help pay tuition and I was really embarrassed. But now my grades are improving and I hope to raise my gpa to get a scholarship, my faith is my main priority and it requires a good amount of prep some weeks more than others, I still work and I want to incorporate more intentional time with my friends and family. good thing I dint have a relationship to think about rn, but I've been thinking about taking another job because its remote. I can go to the in person one when school isnt in the picture so much but idk if I can find 15 hours with 7 courses and community service but I have been praying about it but i am afraid to risk it and everything crumbles...thanks again for posting!!

    • @kupu99
      @kupu99 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sis I only have school, no job and I'm still struggling.
      You are doing great for yourself so far and I hope God guides you as you find that balance🌼

  • @dramawhispers571
    @dramawhispers571 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 🥺 💜

  • @keziahndunda6344
    @keziahndunda6344 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is Soo timely

  • @gabriellachisanga3136
    @gabriellachisanga3136 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's back ✊❤️

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      She sure is!! xx

  • @diveshrajdhar
    @diveshrajdhar ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks...It helps.

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112
    @travelwithsouthernchick5112 ปีที่แล้ว

    New here and great information!!!❤Nursing school for me! Good luck everyone with college!!!!

  • @tanyamv
    @tanyamv ปีที่แล้ว

    I just checked my screen time...wild!! Wild wild wild wild!!

  • @abigailmuchenjeri2494
    @abigailmuchenjeri2494 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Missed you Doc , 4th yr now ,girl it's not easy

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel you! Especially where you are now. But you got this 💪🏾

    • @abigailmuchenjeri2494
      @abigailmuchenjeri2494 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for encouraging me

  • @sabah6281
    @sabah6281 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much for this video! I’m starting 2nd year of med in a couple of weeks and I really want to try and balance things better and this really helped ❤️

  • @Heart_LikeChrist
    @Heart_LikeChrist ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video God bless you, the Lord is adding to my plate which I’m thankful this video gave me perspective thank you !

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Praise God for abundance! You will be able to manage ☺️

  • @ellakay977
    @ellakay977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really proud of you sis. There's a Move God is Using for (Godly Women no matter the Race )and you're a big part of it.
    Thanks for these tips
    Could you help me with a way I could continue or do a Medicine with a PA in a West African Country? hoping for a reply thanks

  • @chiemerie5041
    @chiemerie5041 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeahhhh setting limits for screentime on certain apps I was overusing has helped me. Turns out I do have time

  • @mariafrausto9521
    @mariafrausto9521 ปีที่แล้ว

    6h in my phone and 2h in my tab in average 😥 thanks for the reminder of the screen time. Just deleted Facebook now and limited screen time in both 😳

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well done you! I’m currently off IG too atm to focus on other things! All the best ☺️

  • @lusamachona2259
    @lusamachona2259 ปีที่แล้ว

    My screen time was 4 hours on average. 45% down since last week I’m surprised 😂

  • @JamesAustinHall
    @JamesAustinHall ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God bless you and your family spiritually, mentally, physically, and financially in Jesus name amen.

    • @JamesAustinHall
      @JamesAustinHall ปีที่แล้ว

      Glory be to God in the name of Jesus amen! Hi my name is James and it is always a blessing to fellowship with the body of christ. Recently the lord has led me to start a TH-cam channel. If you like, see and hear what the lord has put on my heart to share by tuning into my channel. God bless you in the name of Jesus and have a wonderful day amen.

  • @thankgodsunday8461
    @thankgodsunday8461 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr. Nellah was complaining about hers being 6 hours then I checked mine and my jaw dropped; 9hours😟

  • @reiblake8634
    @reiblake8634 ปีที่แล้ว

    lolol just checked my screen time. Its 2 hours. My most used app is sim city and then Google maps. How am I always lost? 😂

  • @kenya6393
    @kenya6393 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Daily average: 4h 31m
    Most used app: TH-cam 😅

  • @jr8694
    @jr8694 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the Lord led me to this video. Thank you for sharing!

  • @kemoywilliams380
    @kemoywilliams380 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the fact that she is a Christian

  • @doc_esther
    @doc_esther 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been trying so hard, it's not working out

  • @rawdahnabatanzi1244
    @rawdahnabatanzi1244 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Screen time 5hours :29mins 😅..WhatsApp and TH-cam

  • @mugowambui598
    @mugowambui598 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi

  • @leshanavalentine807
    @leshanavalentine807 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking for away for God to speak to me and I am a youtube fan so scrolling through this and literally saying God show me if you want me in Med school. I got rejected simply because it wasn't my time. Also, got into a relationship and scared because if feels as though God is saying yes but never felt this scared too. So you literally are having and doing the same setting of life just gotta prepare for life and keep my relationship with God.

    • @oluwabusolabadejo5894
      @oluwabusolabadejo5894 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi. May not give all the answers, but Trusting God will do a lot. Just trust him and pray continually(your devotions basically). Started medical school recently. Took this leap of faith too. Lol. Was confused for years. But we can be sure He is able to keep us from stumbling

    • @leshanavalentine807
      @leshanavalentine807 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oluwabusolabadejo5894 thank you God bless u

  • @EvolveorDieFitness
    @EvolveorDieFitness ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God listened to my prayers

  • @booklover2005
    @booklover2005 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mine is 7hrs 24 min😭😭😭😭

  • @Lofisounds5
    @Lofisounds5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mine is 8 hours . TH-cam

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Iol TH-cam be like that, gets you sucked in x

  • @chiamakambajiorgu5715
    @chiamakambajiorgu5715 ปีที่แล้ว

    My screen time said 9hrs😭😭

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooooo girl! If a lot of that is social media then we need to get that lower haha

  • @user-iq3rs9gu8n
    @user-iq3rs9gu8n ปีที่แล้ว

    How old are u

  • @simplycapped1309
    @simplycapped1309 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mine 2 hours of TH-cam music and 1 hour of TH-cam

  • @adesolaoghenekevwe7264
    @adesolaoghenekevwe7264 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    13 hours ! My God 😭😭🫣🫣

  • @tanyavandermerwe591
    @tanyavandermerwe591 ปีที่แล้ว

    😭🙏🏼 1hr IG and 1hr WhatsApp .. prioritise

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s impressive! I have mine limited to that but sometimes go over x

    • @tanyavandermerwe591
      @tanyavandermerwe591 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dr.Nellah thanks ! Its just terrible when you fall short on your tasks because of one’s phone , so I try my best to get at least back to everyone once a day 🥹

  • @Achanceywill
    @Achanceywill 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My daily screen time is 10 hours 😅🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @chipepophiri3270
    @chipepophiri3270 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Instagram needs to go

    • @Dr.Nellah
      @Dr.Nellah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sissss! I’m telling you 🙈