I see a lot of people calling him insecure. Idk, it takes a lot of balls to be so vulnerable and open especially on a public platform. Dude seemed to be a really genuine person. It got me thinking that maybe, these days people see humility as lack of confidence and mistake arrogance with confidence.
This is not a high value man cut the bullshit. Maybe this is what a high value man SHOULD BE but that’s not what it is. We don’t define what high value is to women just like they don’t define what it is to us
He should have said act ugly like him, this man disrespectful as the lake of fire. Ladies if he look ugly, don’t lie, yep judge that book by it’s cover. If he shows with his actions he isn’t really ugly, cool. I know two things, he ugly on the outside and inside. He is ugly and has a nasty mouth, was talking about green cards, asking inappropriate sexually charged questions, and lying the first time speaking, talking about being in love, he is a whole joke. Don’t feel bad if you called him ugly, he is. That whole, I know I’m ugly is for sympathy and manipulation. He knows he is telling the truth, he acts very nasty, when I called him out, he started calling me out of my name, and I wonder why this man from another country, had a go to of calling me an abuser of drugs, specifically crack and heroine. Don’t be fooled, be careful of anyone who might need any kind of sponsorship. That man doesn’t respect black women from the states, might not respect women period. He all 🧢, and his insecurity is the mask. He ugly he ugly he ugly!
This one had me crying. He seems so kind. He is not unattractive, but I absolutely understand feeling like you aren't society's standard of beauty and not wanting to be rejected. I wish him many blessings.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However those marks on his face and his teeth are objective findings. Not thay it matter but the way he speaks is an issue as well. I hate how women have an issue with being honest about reality...
When I was 16 years old I asked this girl out her response “ Ewwwwww you’re ugly!” It crushed me however it never stopped me from dating others. What others don’t like, others will like.
That’s horrible!! I don’t know why anyone would be okay with saying that to somebody. We all know that was a “ bad word”, even when we’re kids. I am really glad you could get passed that.
@@rogers5622 …. It is what it is, but I am glad she said it the way she did because it only boosted my confidence when it came to chicks. I was sixteen when that happened, by the age of eighteen it was on and poppin with me and other females, by the time I was twenty one I had my first sugar mamma experience ( my first sugar momma was FINE!) I ran into the chick who called me ugly we actually had a conversation (she was an old neighbor of mines,) I never brought up what she said though, but me knowing what other type of female I could get, females that would put her to shame was priceless.
The better a man is to me, the better he looks to me! He can go from a 2 to a 10 with the right mindset. I dated a man when I was younger who I thought was the most unattractive man in the neighborhood. He chased me for years and I finally decided to slow down and let him catch up. Let me tell y'all, that man gave good love in every aspect of the word!! Six months in, I was in love and ready to fight every woman who looked at him. I just couldn't share him! Unfortunately, he passed away in a car accident. The moral of the story is, his inner beauty out shined his outer beauty in the end. I will take this dude right here over a fine loser any day.
Exactly! 💯 I personally don’t care how a man looks, I’m supposed to be the pretty one... men are valued for protecting and providing. I personally never understood women who prioritize looks and bedroom skills over protection and provision 🤷🏾♀️
@@iamempress292 Thank you so much, I really appreciate that! You are so correct! That is one lesson that I am so honored to have had the pleasure of learning in life. Old folks were on to something when they said "don't judge a book by its cover." At least read a few pages, because you might find it interesting enough to read it until the end.
One of the most kindest, purest, understanding, comforting, HARD WORKING, laid back, dedicated, loyal and most honest men I have ever met in my 50yrs of age was a Nigerian man that I was with for 6yrs. Never judge a book...There are gems in every culture of people. They are usually not this easy to find. RIP Ebiye....
This literally brought me to tears. He was so vulnerable. So many, both men and women, feel this way but will never tell a soul. I pray one day God shows him just how beautiful and great of a man he is.
@Melinda Absolutely. I was emotional watching him also. I honestly don’t find him unattractive. People can be so cruel. His vulnerability was admirable. God bless him.
@John Wilkes Bingo. Full of sh!t. Just saying what they think is the right thing to say to look like good person. It's all fake. Fake love at its finest. They know damn well they don't want that dude.
@John Wilkes Interesting comment! So according to you the only way to see the good in a person is for you to want to be with them? So I guess I should just get rid of my current significant other and go chasing after this man because if I don’t, I’m a hypocrite? If you post something critical on this site you are hater and bitter, if you post something affirming you are a liar and hypocrite. There’s no winning here…but it’s fine because I win enough in my personal life…
Kendra, I’m soooo glad that you said what you said! Women need to think about how they would feel if someone talked about their son, brother, father, cousin, or friend like that! If you think someone is unattractive, then just say NOTHING… there’s no need to be rude… also life happens to us all. One event can change someone’s physical appearance forever! Worry about people’s CHARACTER more than their LOOKS!
Don’t feel sorry for him. He doesn’t need your pity. That’s the reality men live in and the worst thing a man can do is feel sorry for himself. He will be okay
Don't ever feel sorry for unattractive people because from what I observed they never want to date other average or below average women. They want the bad chick's like everyone else. He'll, look down on his equal.
@@bigbuzin555 no that’s not ok. We teach our men to be super strong and not process their emotions. If he said something bothers him it bothers him. He’s not ok with how he looks and afraid to approach women because of rejection. It’s not right
@@FaithandNova doesn't change his or any man's reality. This is how 70% of men experience the world everyday whether you believe it or not. Your sympathy is a nice gesture but at the same time an insult. We don't have the option to exist in the world in a feelings based reality. We have to do the hard things no matter how we feel. Bc we are nothing and not seen as a man by women and our peers if we don't
Just because a person is unattractive doesn’t make them non deserving of love care respect and affection. Unattractive does not mean low value. That goes for men and women. It also doesn’t give people a right to misuse you. I hope he finds a companion that will look beyond exterior. Work on your confidence and other compensating attributes. You got this. Good luck.
Well if u ugly you need money. We can get in better shape men a d women. So if you ugly fix what you can your body and your money. Men we are so unattractive it's sad.
@@HELLISHHANDZ Because they want it all. We gotta be handsome, kind, smart, religious, strong, provider, protector, consistent, emotionally available, can't have kids, nice smile, over 6 feet, good hygiene, handy, successful, not boring, romantic, 8ioajdfoausdj oiasdjoaus dh asoudjas iuojh asdiuas lol That man was cool, probably would treat them right and I'm sure he checked a lot of their boxes but ain't none of these females gonna check his way....they'll rather go buy that dog!!
The trap is that when you feel unattractive, you further neglect your appearance. Alot of people, with some self care, can turn into someone presentable. It's just the trap of terrible self esteem:(
Let’s keep it a buck. He is more than adequate for a lot of these broke, overweight, bald headed, baby mamas out here that folks call queens. He absolutely deserves someone that loves him and cares for him. Good luck brother.
He seems to be such a nice guy. As I woman I sometimes struggle with the same issues being plus sized. Society is so cruel. I already know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but there is no reason to go out of the way to be rude, nasty, and trying to make them feel low. I really appreciate your correction. We as men and women get in our own way by thinking we can't be corrected. Let's keep striving to be better people. ❤️
Remember when they are rude to you it’s a reflection of themselves. They hate themselves so much they feel better when they are nasty to others. I despise when ppl talk about other ppl’s looks.
Right because those nasty people can stop people from wanting to participate and turn her show into a comedy hour and I know her goal is to actually connect people.
I saw this live and like Kendra said it was mostly women and instead of typing women you type people 😂. You ladies don't understand how bad the majority of women are. If men simply disagree or correct a woman we get called ugly names. With women this happens too much. Just look at that video of the black woman in court to sue a man for $10,000. She was disrespectful to the judge only because the judge corrected her. Ladies if you don't correct other women it will only get worse.
@@majesticj42 Those lives are brutal. I understand women who say they feel slighted by men who come on and be truthful about what they want but I can also see what the men are saying. I have 3 brothers. I do notice that women will call a man broke or gay if he says something they don’t like. It does make people not want to go on the show for fear of being ridiculed. It’s the immaturity for me. I’m glad Kendra calls it out when she sees it because it can ruin her show and draw the wrong crowd.
I really love this man’s aura. Very down to earth and very balanced. The transparency of this man is impeccable. This is what a man looks like when he is intentional with his preferences. He’s not bashing, judging, or any of that. He stuck to his goals for women without bashing others who are not with in preference. Total respect for this guy
Facts looks wise he mite be a 3 sorry but spiritually he’s coming off as a 10 and he’s a good example of people looking at him once he’s married to a beauty queen and wondering how the heck did he get that girl!
he probably heard that 'ugly' word one too many times and its even sadder that he labels himself as that. He has a decent look, there's nothing wrong with him. I love how he expressed himself, didn't notice any toxic traits. I wish him the absolute best, hope he finds a good woman
Shout out to this man for his transparency. He is not trying to fool anyone. He is who he says he is. The bit that stood out to me was the question about kids... this man is likely a very solid guy he clearly does not want a woman with kids but he is realistic, what he was really saying is that the options available to a solid man like him is to raise kids from other men. People really don't understand how difficult it is for average men to have a family of their own
Yo. This guy is NOT ugly. I'd even venture to say he's handsome. And he truly seems like a solid and genuine guy. Hope he finds someone who'll love him to pieces.
You definitely have a pure heart when you get to a certain age I feel like you start putting more stock and how a person treats you rather than how they look because looks definitely do fade eventually
To be honest he’s not even unattractive in my eyes . All of our unique looks is what makes us beautiful and standout. Its sad how people judge so quick.
This man shows much strength and humility to speak of his personal challenges on live camera. Much respect to him. May he get what he needs to live a happy, simple life.
Listen up my guy, life can be very hard and people can be extremely cruel. Never let that change who you are. You seem to be a very good man and there is someone for everyone. Do things that make you happy, it’ll help build confidence. Good luck sir✊🏾
Yep, we ain’t all beauty queens and don’t have 1/10th of the kind spirit and love of the creator as Godfrey. He seems to have a genuine concern about other ppl. And some women come on hear and can’t articulate what they want in a partner. He could express his thoughts!
"Their silence is their kindness"......no truer words said. To my brother on this show. Keep ya head up bro and keep grinding and doing what you doing. We undervalue ourselves too much and you need to recognize the potential you have bro. You will indeed find what you are looking for, be patient!
@@janiemaebeauty Maam, let's be real. for decades yall have been praised. I was trying to find the video where a woman was clowned by women for wearing her natural hair so I can give her praise. naw, yall are praised too much, men aren't praised enough. my brothers need to be more vocal about their wants and criticisms just like their female counterparts.
@@kmooremoore 🧐 I beg to differ. We've never been anything but secks objects for y'all. Y'all have a whole channel on TV called BET that has Allowed you rap about us calling us Everything but a child of God. Even when we were raised to be chaste young girls y'all still would disrespect us. So miss me with the Delusions.
@@janiemaebeauty Really? a segment on BET? You ever heard of maury povich, Jerry springer, Oprah, the view, the real?, Almost ALL tyler perry movies. MULTIPLE threads calling black men thugs, broke, ugly, serial baby makers, dead beat dads. On social media we are always made out to be the worst of the worst. Funny, that despite all that crap we have to listen to day in day out. STATISTICS say otherwise about all that bull**** being spread about us. so yes black men should be praised more. Treated like sex objects.......try watching your own women celebrate a black man dying.
@@kmooremoore I respectfully disagree. Women aren't universally praised. CERTAIN women who have certain attributes (skin complexion, weight, body shape, etc) are praised. Men are the main ones telling women that they're "pretty for a dark girl" or "they're pretty for a fat girl".
He is actually good looking - his face is very symmetrical - Godfrey please stop denigrating yourself. Although he's also still very culturally ingrained, I am happy to hear that he has been growing throughout the years. Thank you for attacking the double standard Kendra.
Damn the way y’all talking about him you would think he would have 20 women in the comment section ready to line up and date him. Did y’all hit him up? Or just trying to save face in the comment section?
This guy has great self awareness 👏🏾 I love how he was able to explain he had some beliefs at some point in time in his life and the reasons why he changed his view. It shows growth. I hope he finds what he's looking for.
I watched this live and I felt second hand embarrassed for this guy, the chat was brutal. Most ppl in every chat are beyond disrespectful, acting like a bunch of kids. They have a problem with everyone that comes on Kendra's live, they stay picking them ppl apart. Please get some moderators and block them clowns fr.
Go onto any platform with majority black female commenters. They are often the harshest critiques of anyone not a black woman. It's just bullying and its not cool.
I guess. Talking crap has never been designated for children tho. Some people are just having fun and are here purely for entertainment. @@kurokaizen1889
I agree! He’s the first man on this show that I would actually show interest in. Great morals, family oriented, God fearing, and down to earth!!!!! Please!!!! I’d date him in a minute!😘😘😘😘😘
I wish ppl would be honest about preferring a childless man or woman. As a childfree woman I don't appreciate men (or women) being bullied into including single parents in their dating pool. I'll always speak out about that. Yall ain't bout to be ruining shyt for me like you did yourselves. Lol And I don't think he's ugly.
I don’t have children either and I agree. People see that and try to make you feel guilty about your values or bully you into dating a single parent (something deep down inside you know you truly don’t want). Just know you aren’t alone and their are definitely people equally yoked for us. I don’t know how, but I always meet men who are similar to me that don’t have kids. Perhaps it’s because it’s a desire of my heart that is being manifested why this keeps happening. But stick to your guns and stay positive and I pray you find what you are looking for.
He seems like a genuine guy. I’m sure he’ll find a nice woman who he can build a life with. And Kendra I’m so glad you went off on the peanut gallery of misery!! Maybe they’re not interested in him but there’s a woman who is and should have the chance to hear what he had to say.
I agree. I want in the live, but Dungeness I don't think that the accounts with female pictures are actually females. I know their are some that are stupid and downright disrespectful but sometimes those are troll accounts.
@@wudacudashuda_ Trolls are some of the worst people. They take the very limited amount of time that we have on earth and spend it harassing other people instead of focusing on themselves. Smh.
You see how this man didnt come with a bunch of hate for blk women. Ill bet women have dragged this man’s looks his whole life. He is not mad at women. He knows all he needs is one woman. He isn’t trying to change the beauty standard or shaming women for not thinking he is attractive. I appreciate this brother. I hope he finds a beautiful woman who cherishes him.
I'm SOOOOO glad she gathered the devils regarding the comments because the ease that some ppl have in being hateful, mean, rude and disrespectful as though the person on the screen is not another human being is ri-gawtdamn-diculous.
It really is. It's disgusting. I grew up around ppl like that. It was hell but I appreciate them for preparing me for this cruel world. It takes a lot to get under my skin.
@@The.Whoever that's true. It does make you tougher than tungsten, but we really do need to be easier on each other. Looking for love on a dating show and being hateful asl in the comments just don't go together.
Looks fade and none of us are exempt from being criticized by someone about our looks and that’s really sad. There is so much more to a partner than being handsome or beautiful. Yes. You should be attracted to your love but, It’s more important to have a beautiful, genuine connection with a man or woman that truly loves and respects you. Being with someone that has integrity, compassion, kindness and loyalty will always win out in the long run.
What a lovely man. And he's not ugly either..He looks exactly how a grown man is suppose to look..Decent looking and strong...I hope a good woman gets through to him.
he's right about the working wife situation. life insurance and alimony can only go so far. eventually, you'll need to earn money and it's not easy when you've been out of the work sphere for so long.
We live in a world where people can be so artificial- just stir and add water. He’s authentically and unapologetically himself and I truly appreciate that. As for the women who were mean and unnecessarily cruel to him, it says far more about them than it does him. It takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to put yourself out there and I’d bet any amount of money that the very same women wouldn’t even appear on camera without makeup or wigs and be subjected to the very scrutiny that they judged him with. I really hope he finds someone 🙏🏽
I don’t think he’s that unattractive. I would say no because he’s nigerian unfortunately. Nigerian men can seem so sincere and still be lying about who they are and their life. Wish him the best though.
I found him extremely attractive because his inner beauty was what I saw in his interview. I pray he finds someone who will appreciate the worth and value of that inner beauty.
That story about his friend who passed away is tragic. Life Insurance would’ve helped the wife out tremendously. Reach out to me if you’re anywhere in the USA & you need that taken care of. On another note, this guy is good-hearted. Hopefully he finds what he’s looking for.
I'm so sick of people in the comments being jerks, knowing dang well a lot of these judgmental people look like crap. This man seems like a genuine, warm soul who will really love his wife and care for her as a person. He is definitely a catch; money means nothing if loyalty and compassion is not in the equation, and this man seems to have it. He seems genuine and honest...that is so refreshing and rare these days...got me up here crying lol
I think he was not unattractive, and the marks on his face are tribal, which is Beautiful to me, and his body was nice and last but not least his Personality and Values were Top Notch, which actually made him Very Handsome to me! So that's it and that's all. Too bad I'm 45, I dont meet the age requirements😌
I love the support yall are showing Godfrey. It's really great to see everyone coming together and recognizing there is way more to someone than their looks.......just keep that same energy they next time a woman is body shamed on her show👀😌....
That part! Or on anyone's platform bc if I recall correctly wasn't there just a platform over a million deep dedicated to bullying and bashing bw..it didnt matter how humble nice or sweet they were they all got it...it's interesting indeed...
Grow TF up already fukkkkk! When your talking about one person, let it be about that person! That what about BS shows you have the mental & emotional aptitude of a child! GROW TF UP!
A person can control how much food they put into their mouths and how much they move to stay active. Not the same as having the face you were born with. Everytime I've been "body shamed" I got my butt back in the gym and started eating better, came out better for it. But many just want to be pathetic and accepted (or even celebrated) for it. The REAL WORLD exists, even if we choose to bury our head in the sand about it.
@@HexIZMs But I person shouldn't be clowned because of their CURRENT weight. I've seen and experience people clowning someone who is skinny. Should people be mean to the skinny person CURRENT weight? No they shouldn't. They could be on a journey to put on muscle, same as the person reducing their fat. 🤦🏽♀️🙄
I don't think you should hang up on anyone that seems genuinely interested in finding love they shouldn't have to be denied a real shot just because people are being disrespectful. I commend this guy for his bravery and he will find love and also kudos to you for taking up for him no one deserves to be treated rude regardless if they find him attractive or not that's why some people have a hard time expressing themselves because they fear the response they may get.
I saw this live and like Kendra said it was mostly women and instead of typing women you type people 😂. You ladies don't understand how bad the majority of women are. If men simply disagree or correct a woman we get called ugly names. This happens often and it is too much. Just look at that video of the black woman in court to sue a man for $10,000. She was disrespectful to the judge only because the judge corrected her. Ladies if you don't correct other women it will only get worse.
The fact he called himself ugly 😣 so saddening and the people attacking him very disheartening people can be so cruel it’s no need for that & beauty is in the eye of the beholder it’s someone for everyone hope he finds his person he seems very genuine just because someone isn’t “Instagram fine/baddie” doesn’t mean you treat people like that
He should have said act ugly like him, this man disrespectful as the lake of fire. Ladies if he look ugly, don’t lie, yep judge that book by it’s cover. If he shows with his actions he isn’t really ugly, cool. I know two things, he ugly on the outside and inside. He is ugly and has a nasty mouth, was talking about green cards, asking inappropriate sexually charged questions, and lying the first time speaking, talking about being in love, he is a whole joke. Don’t feel bad if you called him ugly, he is. That whole, I know I’m ugly is for sympathy and manipulation. He knows he is telling the truth, he acts very nasty, when I called him out, he started calling me out of my name, and I wonder why this man from another country, had a go to of calling me an abuser of drugs, specifically crack and heroine. Don’t be fooled, be careful of anyone who might need any kind of sponsorship. That man doesn’t respect black women from the states, might not respect women period. He all 🧢, and his insecurity is the mask. He ugly he ugly he ugly!
Kendra with that ending!!!👏🏾👏🏾 I noticed it is so easy for women to be mean to men, as if men aren't people with feelings. It's not right. It takes nothing to be kind. If a man ain't your type keep it moving...no need to be mean.
They don't seem to realize that all of that nonsense is showing their true character; and are probably wondering why they don't have or cannot get a good man.
Thank you, Kendra! Very well said! It's sad you had to go off like that. Courtesy and respect is really lacking these days. The golden rule, across any religion, is to treat others like you would like to be treated. It's simple and yet so powerful ❤
This has to be one of the most likeable men that I've seen on social media. He looks like an average man to me; not unattractive at all. He is down to earth & honest about what he is looking for. I hope he gains the confidence to approach the women he's interested in. I think the woman he ends up with will be very lucky to have him.
Yes Kendra!!! Some of the meanest people I’ve met were WOMEN! And 9 times out of 10 they were women that were clearly not getting any! 😂. Godfrey seems like a nice and honest man that was too good for those nagging women in the chat anyway. I think men should be more vocal in the chat because from what I have seen, men are way too nice.
It’s not called insecure when you have the guts to get on live with thousands of people watching you. People love to type hate and be miserable themselves
He's a good guy...and he is definitely not a bad looking guy. Highly intelligent and obviously a hard worker. These women are mad & just used to Pookie & Ray Ray and them who may have the looks, but no ambition. Now when he finds him a caucasian woman, it's going to be a problem. Anyway, the best of luck to this gentleman.
He seems like a good guy and genuine. When KG asked does the women has to have kids and he said “his mindset shifted, so he don’t mind it now” you can tell he does mind. He only said this because he feels he doesn’t deserve women who is childless. All he needs to do is be upfront with his standards, go gym (Swole) and be confident. Don’t settle something you don’t want!
Maybe he honestly means it that his mind has shifted. He spoke his truth, he was very transparent with us yet ppl are switching up his feelings for him.
He was actually very sweet, and articulated himself extremely well. Looks ain't everything. I've dated the most handsomeness of guys, and they were absolute jerks. Then got the nerve to catch an attitude when you leave him because you don't want to put up with their ratchet B.S. I hope Godfrey finds a wonderful woman. He has God in his name, and on his side. Shout out to you Kendra for speaking so powerfully to the mean girls in the comments.
@KendraGMedia I already enjoyed your contact. And I'm gaining more and more respect for you every time i chime in because you are truly holding both men and women accountable. We appreciate it!. I think it took a lot of balls for that brother to come on your platform and be that honest and transparent. Like the way you dealt with him and hope he finds what he's looking for out there.
He seems like a good man . He need a male friend to help him get out and talk to women lol . I get him being shy though.. it comes with being a introvert .I hope he finds the wife he deserves 😊
As a woman who grew up competing in pageants and my mother is the first “black” on the board of Miss Texas currently…I’d like to say real beauty queens…don’t act that nasty.
It's always the ugly people quick to call somebody else ugly and throw shade. They don't mind dissing people. People who are truly beautiful by Hollywood standards doesn't have to criticize other people's looks. They are happy and secure with themselves and not quick to tear someone apart. Ugly people stay tearing people apart.
@@businessk3014 ohhhh so true. I find being mean not fun or productive so it’s not a game I’ve ever participated in. My families are not ones that play…we’re all uplifting and rock out for each other.
@@queenmorman2903 so sad…if they thought they were ugly before…sheesh. It’s almost like they are inducing someone to just say it…you know the poking and digging.
Im a man in my 20s. I don’t think his honesty and good guy routine would work for woman in my age group but I would hope it does for the older women. I recommend if this guy can to find his wife overseas, he will have more leverage and find what he is looking for.
I was going to say the same thing. Culturally speaking, he seems like he is from the Yoruba Tribe in Nigeria due to the tribal markings on his face but I digress. Yes, a more traditional woman would fit his profile best. I am praying that he will find someone soon.
@@DivineLightFitness he isn’t Yoruba ! You were close but he is an Edo man . I’m partly Yoruba and Edo . He’s edo accent was all over the place . Bless him
Dated Nigerian men of most tribes. He is definitely Yoruba, they tend to look more like him, darker in complexion and reserved. From my experience, the Nigerian men from the Igbo tribe tend to be attractive, built and bold. Can hardly differentiate between the Igbo men and African American men unless I pick up the accent or last name. I like their songs too th-cam.com/video/ijxoN9i1jVk/w-d-xo.html. th-cam.com/video/WRbRLvn6H_U/w-d-xo.html
He has such a beautiful spirit and great morals and values. Everything he said made sense and sounded like he would make a women feel like a Queen. Good luck to this man!
This dude is better than 98.76% of all of these women babydaddys but we ain't ready for that convo.
Boom
Correct
And there we have it..
***Inserts Mic drop***
They’d rather deal with Pookie who cheat on them and won’t marry. Smh
I see a lot of people calling him insecure. Idk, it takes a lot of balls to be so vulnerable and open especially on a public platform. Dude seemed to be a really genuine person.
It got me thinking that maybe, these days people see humility as lack of confidence and mistake arrogance with confidence.
Couldn’t agree more.
That's EXACTLY what it is!
I don’t think it take a a lot. It’s take a lot to be goofy and make up stuff on this platform.
Well said man..
Yes yes and yes! This man is humble.
This is a high value man. A genuine man true to himself.
This is not a high value man cut the bullshit. Maybe this is what a high value man SHOULD BE but that’s not what it is. We don’t define what high value is to women just like they don’t define what it is to us
Very high value
Absolutely!
Agreed!!
He should have said act ugly like him, this man disrespectful as the lake of fire. Ladies if he look ugly, don’t lie, yep judge that book by it’s cover. If he shows with his actions he isn’t really ugly, cool. I know two things, he ugly on the outside and inside. He is ugly and has a nasty mouth, was talking about green cards, asking inappropriate sexually charged questions, and lying the first time speaking, talking about being in love, he is a whole joke. Don’t feel bad if you called him ugly, he is. That whole, I know I’m ugly is for sympathy and manipulation. He knows he is telling the truth, he acts very nasty, when I called him out, he started calling me out of my name, and I wonder why this man from another country, had a go to of calling me an abuser of drugs, specifically crack and heroine. Don’t be fooled, be careful of anyone who might need any kind of sponsorship. That man doesn’t respect black women from the states, might not respect women period. He all 🧢, and his insecurity is the mask. He ugly he ugly he ugly!
I’m proud of my Nigerian brother. God bless him and direct him to his wife.
This man needs a woman who will speak life into him. He's been through a lot, but he will be just fine. Godspeed Godfrey. 🤞🏼
LOL
Why dont you do it?
Yes he will great message
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I agree
This one had me crying. He seems so kind. He is not unattractive, but I absolutely understand feeling like you aren't society's standard of beauty and not wanting to be rejected. I wish him many blessings.
I agree. He seems like a nice guy!!!
And he’s not ugly to me at all!
Let him be warlord in the congo 🇨🇩 he would get all the hoes🤣 he got the look i mean that as a compliment to the brother
What a gentle soul. He appears to have a beautiful heart.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However those marks on his face and his teeth are objective findings.
Not thay it matter but the way he speaks is an issue as well. I hate how women have an issue with being honest about reality...
When I was 16 years old I asked this girl out her response “ Ewwwwww you’re ugly!” It crushed me however it never stopped me from dating others. What others don’t like, others will like.
I am glad that you were able to move past this experience and hopefully find people who did appreciate you.
@@maam-yj8ph … I did. Thank you!
That’s horrible!! I don’t know why anyone would be okay with saying that to somebody. We all know that was a “ bad word”, even when we’re kids.
I am really glad you could get passed that.
I will never understand why some people feel like they have to destroy someone's feelings in order to say they are not interested
@@rogers5622 …. It is what it is, but I am glad she said it the way she did because it only boosted my confidence when it came to chicks. I was sixteen when that happened, by the age of eighteen it was on and poppin with me and other females, by the time I was twenty one I had my first sugar mamma experience ( my first sugar momma was FINE!) I ran into the chick who called me ugly we actually had a conversation (she was an old neighbor of mines,) I never brought up what she said though, but me knowing what other type of female I could get, females that would put her to shame was priceless.
The better a man is to me, the better he looks to me! He can go from a 2 to a 10 with the right mindset. I dated a man when I was younger who I thought was the most unattractive man in the neighborhood. He chased me for years and I finally decided to slow down and let him catch up. Let me tell y'all, that man gave good love in every aspect of the word!! Six months in, I was in love and ready to fight every woman who looked at him. I just couldn't share him! Unfortunately, he passed away in a car accident. The moral of the story is, his inner beauty out shined his outer beauty in the end. I will take this dude right here over a fine loser any day.
Ohhhhh sorry to hear that! Beautiful story though! You're right character wins over looks every time.
Exactly! 💯 I personally don’t care how a man looks, I’m supposed to be the pretty one... men are valued for protecting and providing. I personally never understood women who prioritize looks and bedroom skills over protection and provision 🤷🏾♀️
@@iamempress292 Thank you so much, I really appreciate that! You are so correct! That is one lesson that I am so honored to have had the pleasure of learning in life. Old folks were on to something when they said "don't judge a book by its cover." At least read a few pages, because you might find it interesting enough to read it until the end.
@@cjdiva6440 Girl, you better say that!!! That was a whole sermon right there!
typical woman. And when you gave him a chance the universe took him away
The more he talked the more attractive he became
One of the most kindest, purest, understanding, comforting, HARD WORKING, laid back, dedicated, loyal and most honest men I have ever met in my 50yrs of age was a Nigerian man that I was with for 6yrs. Never judge a book...There are gems in every culture of people. They are usually not this easy to find. RIP Ebiye....
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Agreed.
It just baffles me how "grown" adults thinks its ok to drag someone.. If he or she isn't for you, just wait for the next caller..
A bunch of grown bodied child like mind ppl smh
Thank you!
Its called being low iq
My mama always told me "adults are much more cruel than children" and she was right.
@@Cornbreadmuffin86 Very wise woman 🙌
This literally brought me to tears. He was so vulnerable. So many, both men and women, feel this way but will never tell a soul. I pray one day God shows him just how beautiful and great of a man he is.
@Melinda Absolutely. I was emotional watching him also. I honestly don’t find him unattractive. People can be so cruel. His vulnerability was admirable. God bless him.
Are you going to shoot your shot and try to date him? Or do you feel sorry for him? He was very transparent about his looks and his fear of rejection.
Why are you brought to tears. Thought most of us were living like this 😂
What’s difficult is he isn’t even that unattractive…He has visible scars, he isn’t ugly.
@@purplegirl8036 she stated why..your reading & comprehension skills are just low
This man has a pure heart, I pray he finds someone he can share his life with.
@John Wilkes lol
@John Wilkes Bingo. Full of sh!t. Just saying what they think is the right thing to say to look like good person. It's all fake. Fake love at its finest. They know damn well they don't want that dude.
Pure heart???!!! Do u know him personaly???? Maybe u should d8 this average at best man...lol
@John Wilkes you already know she wouldn’t touch him 😂😭
@John Wilkes Interesting comment! So according to you the only way to see the good in a person is for you to want to be with them? So I guess I should just get rid of my current significant other and go chasing after this man because if I don’t, I’m a hypocrite? If you post something critical on this site you are hater and bitter, if you post something affirming you are a liar and hypocrite. There’s no winning here…but it’s fine because I win enough in my personal life…
Kendra, I’m soooo glad that you said what you said! Women need to think about how they would feel if someone talked about their son, brother, father, cousin, or friend like that! If you think someone is unattractive, then just say NOTHING… there’s no need to be rude… also life happens to us all. One event can change someone’s physical appearance forever! Worry about people’s CHARACTER more than their LOOKS!
Well said
@@glimpses.of.fabs. thank you ❤️
Said by men who hate dark skinned women.
Exactly!
Yeah, it's women who've had acid thrown on their faces 😔
Any woman should be grateful for this genuine honest man...
My heart broke for him a little. Can we appreciate hus transparency!
Who else of us could be this vulnerable
I admire his honesty!
Don’t feel sorry for him. He doesn’t need your pity. That’s the reality men live in and the worst thing a man can do is feel sorry for himself. He will be okay
Don't ever feel sorry for unattractive people because from what I observed they never want to date other average or below average women. They want the bad chick's like everyone else. He'll, look down on his equal.
@@bigbuzin555 no that’s not ok. We teach our men to be super strong and not process their emotions. If he said something bothers him it bothers him. He’s not ok with how he looks and afraid to approach women because of rejection. It’s not right
@@FaithandNova doesn't change his or any man's reality. This is how 70% of men experience the world everyday whether you believe it or not. Your sympathy is a nice gesture but at the same time an insult. We don't have the option to exist in the world in a feelings based reality. We have to do the hard things no matter how we feel. Bc we are nothing and not seen as a man by women and our peers if we don't
Just because a person is unattractive doesn’t make them non deserving of love care respect and affection. Unattractive does not mean low value. That goes for men and women. It also doesn’t give people a right to misuse you.
I hope he finds a companion that will look beyond exterior. Work on your confidence and other compensating attributes. You got this. Good luck.
I pray he finds a good woman. Good man.
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U said some real shit!!! The women who making fun of him can't call themselves.
You are speaking nothing but the truth. 👏🏾
He is average looking which isn’t a big deal. He is most likely shooting for the wrong females.
If more people were this transparent, relationships would go a long way. He seems like a level headed guy. I wish him the best on his dating journey.
Well if u ugly you need money. We can get in better shape men a d women. So if you ugly fix what you can your body and your money. Men we are so unattractive it's sad.
Lol offering kindness but not a date 😂😂😂
@@HELLISHHANDZ Because they want it all. We gotta be handsome, kind, smart, religious, strong, provider, protector, consistent, emotionally available, can't have kids, nice smile, over 6 feet, good hygiene, handy, successful, not boring, romantic, 8ioajdfoausdj oiasdjoaus dh asoudjas iuojh asdiuas lol That man was cool, probably would treat them right and I'm sure he checked a lot of their boxes but ain't none of these females gonna check his way....they'll rather go buy that dog!!
You date him then.....thought so smfh
Lol
The trap is that when you feel unattractive, you further neglect your appearance. Alot of people, with some self care, can turn into someone presentable. It's just the trap of terrible self esteem:(
Let’s keep it a buck. He is more than adequate for a lot of these broke, overweight, bald headed, baby mamas out here that folks call queens. He absolutely deserves someone that loves him and cares for him. Good luck brother.
he wouldn’t want them
@@keithchristman9402 agree this guy deserves an absolute sweetheart
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Alot of misdirected anger lol.
@@Boelle. Don’t confuse anger with disgust. Also, don’t overextend yourself trying to figure out the difference.
He seems to be such a nice guy. As I woman I sometimes struggle with the same issues being plus sized. Society is so cruel. I already know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but there is no reason to go out of the way to be rude, nasty, and trying to make them feel low.
I really appreciate your correction. We as men and women get in our own way by thinking we can't be corrected. Let's keep striving to be better people. ❤️
Remember when they are rude to you it’s a reflection of themselves. They hate themselves so much they feel better when they are nasty to others. I despise when ppl talk about other ppl’s looks.
You can control being fat. You can't control being ugly. Not the same thing
@@Not_Always while you calling others ugly remember it’ll take a car accident or fire to humble your goofy ass
@@Not_Always working out? Grooming facial hair? Changing hairstyle? Wearing better fitting clothes? You definitely can change your attractiveness
You are gorgeous tho sis❤️
Thank you Kendra for getting the people straight in the comments. I'm sick of the nasty people who are in talking crap in the stream.
Right because those nasty people can stop people from wanting to participate and turn her show into a comedy hour and I know her goal is to actually connect people.
@@slarvadain188 it’s already a comedy hour.
I saw this live and like Kendra said it was mostly women and instead of typing women you type people 😂. You ladies don't understand how bad the majority of women are. If men simply disagree or correct a woman we get called ugly names. With women this happens too much. Just look at that video of the black woman in court to sue a man for $10,000. She was disrespectful to the judge only because the judge corrected her. Ladies if you don't correct other women it will only get worse.
@@majesticj42 Those lives are brutal. I understand women who say they feel slighted by men who come on and be truthful about what they want but I can also see what the men are saying. I have 3 brothers. I do notice that women will call a man broke or gay if he says something they don’t like. It does make people not want to go on the show for fear of being ridiculed. It’s the immaturity for me. I’m glad Kendra calls it out when she sees it because it can ruin her show and draw the wrong crowd.
@@slarvadain188 True. Hopefully Kendra keeps calling out the bad behavior from women and men.
I really love this man’s aura. Very down to earth and very balanced. The transparency of this man is impeccable. This is what a man looks like when he is intentional with his preferences. He’s not bashing, judging, or any of that. He stuck to his goals for women without bashing others who are not with in preference. Total respect for this guy
Facts looks wise he mite be a 3 sorry but spiritually he’s coming off as a 10 and he’s a good example of people looking at him once he’s married to a beauty queen and wondering how the heck did he get that girl!
Yes. I saw this as well. He seems very spiritual and knows how to reflect on life to make good choices for himself.
Agree . He would probably make an excellent husband / stepfather.
he probably heard that 'ugly' word one too many times and its even sadder that he labels himself as that.
He has a decent look, there's nothing wrong with him. I love how he expressed himself, didn't notice any toxic traits.
I wish him the absolute best, hope he finds a good woman
I agree!
Shout out to this man for his transparency. He is not trying to fool anyone. He is who he says he is. The bit that stood out to me was the question about kids... this man is likely a very solid guy he clearly does not want a woman with kids but he is realistic, what he was really saying is that the options available to a solid man like him is to raise kids from other men. People really don't understand how difficult it is for average men to have a family of their own
Yo. This guy is NOT ugly. I'd even venture to say he's handsome. And he truly seems like a solid and genuine guy. Hope he finds someone who'll love him to pieces.
Why don't you give him a chance
Why don’t you get at him then?
He left his info
You definitely have a pure heart when you get to a certain age I feel like you start putting more stock and how a person treats you rather than how they look because looks definitely do fade eventually
@BadHabitsTV exactly, because if a woman comes on here unattractive, nobody would be lenient
To be honest he’s not even unattractive in my eyes . All of our unique looks is what makes us beautiful and standout. Its sad how people judge so quick.
He’s not unattractive at all. I hate he feels that way
I literally know several people who look like him with girlfriends and wives
Right, he looks like a man to me! Ppl are so use to men looking feminine that when they see men that look like men they find them unattractive.
I agree!!
I agree! He's not unattractive AT ALL. He's a HIGH QUALITY Man. His DMs are blowing up. 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Hope he finds what he's looking for he seems like a very kind and genuine dude 💯
Exactly
This man shows much strength and humility to speak of his personal challenges on live camera. Much respect to him. May he get what he needs to live a happy, simple life.
Listen up my guy, life can be very hard and people can be extremely cruel. Never let that change who you are. You seem to be a very good man and there is someone for everyone. Do things that make you happy, it’ll help build confidence. Good luck sir✊🏾
Well said.
There is nothing wrong with this man. He's not unattractive. He has a calm, quiet spirit and timid nature. His wife in the congregation somewhere.
His heart is ready. He's communicative, attentive, thoughtful and God-fearing. He and his woman will be blessed. 💯
Keyboard bullies are a real trip. Glad Kendra is being fair and calling out the shenanigans.
Kendra, your bit at the end was perfect. This guy is a stand up, good hearted human. So honest, kind, thoughtful, respectful.
KENDRA. I HAVE A NEW FOUND RESPECT FOR YOU ! WHAT YOU STATED ABOUT THESE WOMEN OUT HERE NEEDED TO BE SAID . THANK YOU FOR SAYING THE TRUTH .
Yep, we ain’t all beauty queens and don’t have 1/10th of the kind spirit and love of the creator as Godfrey. He seems to have a genuine concern about other ppl. And some women come on hear and can’t articulate what they want in a partner. He could express his thoughts!
*here
"Their silence is their kindness"......no truer words said.
To my brother on this show. Keep ya head up bro and keep grinding and doing what you doing. We undervalue ourselves too much and you need to recognize the potential you have bro. You will indeed find what you are looking for, be patient!
Hopefully you say the se thing to the women on here...
@@janiemaebeauty Maam, let's be real. for decades yall have been praised. I was trying to find the video where a woman was clowned by women for wearing her natural hair so I can give her praise. naw, yall are praised too much, men aren't praised enough. my brothers need to be more vocal about their wants and criticisms just like their female counterparts.
@@kmooremoore 🧐 I beg to differ. We've never been anything but secks objects for y'all. Y'all have a whole channel on TV called BET that has Allowed you rap about us calling us Everything but a child of God. Even when we were raised to be chaste young girls y'all still would disrespect us. So miss me with the Delusions.
@@janiemaebeauty Really? a segment on BET? You ever heard of maury povich, Jerry springer, Oprah, the view, the real?, Almost ALL tyler perry movies. MULTIPLE threads calling black men thugs, broke, ugly, serial baby makers, dead beat dads. On social media we are always made out to be the worst of the worst. Funny, that despite all that crap we have to listen to day in day out. STATISTICS say otherwise about all that bull**** being spread about us. so yes black men should be praised more.
Treated like sex objects.......try watching your own women celebrate a black man dying.
@@kmooremoore I respectfully disagree. Women aren't universally praised. CERTAIN women who have certain attributes (skin complexion, weight, body shape, etc) are praised. Men are the main ones telling women that they're "pretty for a dark girl" or "they're pretty for a fat girl".
He is actually good looking - his face is very symmetrical - Godfrey please stop denigrating yourself. Although he's also still very culturally ingrained, I am happy to hear that he has been growing throughout the years. Thank you for attacking the double standard Kendra.
I think he was just realistic.
Right. He did seem a bit self-deprecating like you said. Who said he was ugly? People are weird.
@@real_abiola He is not attractive to most, but he has a great personality
He looks like the dude that bagged Porsha on RHOA.
@@lyfeofbill2764 🤣
He wasn’t ugly to me. 🤷🏾♀️
He’s not. He just has scars which I think A LOT of women can get past.
My ex has two scars on his face... representing his African tribe
At ALL
Definitely not ugly
Damn the way y’all talking about him you would think he would have 20 women in the comment section ready to line up and date him. Did y’all hit him up? Or just trying to save face in the comment section?
I love how all the women are looking past his looks, yet the men would NEVER do this for a woman on here....
This guy has great self awareness 👏🏾
I love how he was able to explain he had some beliefs at some point in time in his life and the reasons why he changed his view. It shows growth. I hope he finds what he's looking for.
I watched this live and I felt second hand embarrassed for this guy, the chat was brutal. Most ppl in every chat are beyond disrespectful, acting like a bunch of kids. They have a problem with everyone that comes on Kendra's live, they stay picking them ppl apart.
Please get some moderators and block them clowns fr.
They might actually be children 😏. It’s part of putting yourself out there on the internet.
I don't see a booger from his nose. People are usually fucking evil on the chat.
Go onto any platform with majority black female commenters. They are often the harshest critiques of anyone not a black woman. It's just bullying and its not cool.
@@dougroyce5784 Nah. They're most likely grown adults who are acting worse than children.
I guess. Talking crap has never been designated for children tho. Some people are just having fun and are here purely for entertainment.
@@kurokaizen1889
He isn’t unattractive. He was one of the best candidates I’ve seen as far as personality. People are ruthless..
Exactly. He is playing a game with the wrong cards.
I didn't find him unattractive either...too bad I don't want more children
I agree! He’s the first man on this show that I would actually show interest in. Great morals, family oriented, God fearing, and down to earth!!!!! Please!!!! I’d date him in a minute!😘😘😘😘😘
I wish ppl would be honest about preferring a childless man or woman.
As a childfree woman I don't appreciate men (or women) being bullied into including single parents in their dating pool. I'll always speak out about that. Yall ain't bout to be ruining shyt for me like you did yourselves. Lol
And I don't think he's ugly.
Agree
Jump in those dms
I don’t have children either and I agree. People see that and try to make you feel guilty about your values or bully you into dating a single parent (something deep down inside you know you truly don’t want). Just know you aren’t alone and their are definitely people equally yoked for us.
I don’t know how, but I always meet men who are similar to me that don’t have kids. Perhaps it’s because it’s a desire of my heart that is being manifested why this keeps happening. But stick to your guns and stay positive and I pray you find what you are looking for.
Look. My mom told me I swear I was like 10 years old I can hear her like yesterday ‘dont you dare ever take care of another woman’s children…’
Agreed 100% sis because it’s a shit show
The kindness and genuine energy coming from this guy restored my faith in society
He was perfect❤ I hope he found someone to appreciate him.
He seems wholesome and leveled headed. I'm praying and rooting from him! He deserves happiness!
He seems like a genuine guy. I’m sure he’ll find a nice woman who he can build a life with.
And Kendra I’m so glad you went off on the peanut gallery of misery!! Maybe they’re not interested in him but there’s a woman who is and should have the chance to hear what he had to say.
I agree. I want in the live, but Dungeness I don't think that the accounts with female pictures are actually females. I know their are some that are stupid and downright disrespectful but sometimes those are troll accounts.
@@wudacudashuda_ Trolls are some of the worst people. They take the very limited amount of time that we have on earth and spend it harassing other people instead of focusing on themselves. Smh.
His spirit is enough for me. Great guy. ❤
You see how this man didnt come with a bunch of hate for blk women. Ill bet women have dragged this man’s looks his whole life. He is not mad at women. He knows all he needs is one woman. He isn’t trying to change the beauty standard or shaming women for not thinking he is attractive. I appreciate this brother. I hope he finds a beautiful woman who cherishes him.
I'm SOOOOO glad she gathered the devils regarding the comments because the ease that some ppl have in being hateful, mean, rude and disrespectful as though the person on the screen is not another human being is ri-gawtdamn-diculous.
It really is. It's disgusting. I grew up around ppl like that. It was hell but I appreciate them for preparing me for this cruel world. It takes a lot to get under my skin.
@@The.Whoever that's true. It does make you tougher than tungsten, but we really do need to be easier on each other. Looking for love on a dating show and being hateful asl in the comments just don't go together.
@@princessshenaniganspresent5538 very true. I absolutely agree.
So true
@Scorrpio4Lyfe those would be the comment devils that Kendra was addressing.
FINALLY A MAN WHO GETS IT!
WOMEN NEED TO BE ABLE TO PROVIDE FINANCIALLY PERIOD. ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN IN LIFE AND YOU LOSE YOUR HUSBAND.
He is so level headed
He sounds like a solid guy thus far. I'm glad She put ppl in thier place.
Bro is so relatable, I've felt the same throughout my dating life.
You still single?👀
I like the way he vocalized his fear of rejection. He a good dude. Hope he finds a good lady.
Looks fade and none of us are exempt from being criticized by someone about our looks and that’s really sad. There is so much more to a partner than being handsome or beautiful. Yes. You should be attracted to your love but, It’s more important to have a beautiful, genuine connection with a man or woman that truly loves and respects you. Being with someone that has integrity, compassion, kindness and loyalty will always win out in the long run.
You said it all in a nut shell.
Somebody for everybody!
Kendra's monologue at the end was incredible.
It was definitely needed.
This!☝🏾 👏🏾
And it seems like a lot of women aren’t talking about it because A lot of women got told about themselves
I've never encountered a shy Nigerian man. Lol. I hope he finds someone.
They are out there lol, I’ve yet to meet a shy Nigerian woman lol
I pray that God gives him the woman that his heart desires. This is a good man .
This man possesses great qualities. I hope he finds what he is looking for
What a lovely man. And he's not ugly either..He looks exactly how a grown man is suppose to look..Decent looking and strong...I hope a good woman gets through to him.
he's right about the working wife situation. life insurance and alimony can only go so far. eventually, you'll need to earn money and it's not easy when you've been out of the work sphere for so long.
That soo truee life can happen at any time
From my own experience, It is if you’re smart and talented. Don’t marry a dummy and you’ll be fine.
We live in a world where people can be so artificial- just stir and add water. He’s authentically and unapologetically himself and I truly appreciate that. As for the women who were mean and unnecessarily cruel to him, it says far more about them than it does him. It takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to put yourself out there and I’d bet any amount of money that the very same women wouldn’t even appear on camera without makeup or wigs and be subjected to the very scrutiny that they judged him with.
I really hope he finds someone 🙏🏽
This is an American thing only!!! I share the same feeling as this guy sometimes!!!!!
beautifully said..i'm praying he finds a good woman.
I swear I like this man !!!!
Tell them Kendra!! It's a shame too!!😡
I don’t think he’s that unattractive. I would say no because he’s nigerian unfortunately. Nigerian men can seem so sincere and still be lying about who they are and their life. Wish him the best though.
Great way to stereotype us. Yet if we say this about AA women all hell breaks loose.
Some of the best friends I have ever had in my life were Nigerian and it saddens me to see your racism.
I found him extremely attractive because his inner beauty was what I saw in his interview.
I pray he finds someone who will appreciate the worth and value of that inner beauty.
Yall h#$s shut up with that bull, you find him attractive, go holler at him then. .
Forklift driver is very respectable work and is a trade that's needed all around the world.
Amen Kendra! He isn’t everyone’s cup of tea but someone likes him!
What a lovely man. The woman he finds will be very happy. He’s genuine and good hearted.
I agree. I think he's lovely and sweet.
Then why don't yall want him?
@@Dreadvermin1 I'm a gold digger. He deserves better and so do I.
🤷🏾♀️You asked.
@@The.Whoever no man deserves you that’s evil
@@gp9677 I apologize for all of my shortcomings? 🤷🏾♀️
That story about his friend who passed away is tragic. Life Insurance would’ve helped the wife out tremendously. Reach out to me if you’re anywhere in the USA & you need that taken care of. On another note, this guy is good-hearted. Hopefully he finds what he’s looking for.
I'm so sick of people in the comments being jerks, knowing dang well a lot of these judgmental people look like crap. This man seems like a genuine, warm soul who will really love his wife and care for her as a person. He is definitely a catch; money means nothing if loyalty and compassion is not in the equation, and this man seems to have it. He seems genuine and honest...that is so refreshing and rare these days...got me up here crying lol
Kendra, I got a new respect level for you! Thank you for those words you spoke!
I think he was not unattractive, and the marks on his face are tribal, which is Beautiful to me, and his body was nice and last but not least his Personality and Values were Top Notch, which actually made him Very Handsome to me! So that's it and that's all. Too bad I'm 45, I dont meet the age requirements😌
With your great attitude, I'm sure he'd make an exception!!👍🏾
Go for it girlie 😘!
I agree 100%!!! He was awesome!
I think you should definitely go for it
If the marks are tribal, then his tribe should have guaranteed him a wife before marking up his face. That tribe owes him back.
I love the support yall are showing Godfrey. It's really great to see everyone coming together and recognizing there is way more to someone than their looks.......just keep that same energy they next time a woman is body shamed on her show👀😌....
That part! Or on anyone's platform bc if I recall correctly wasn't there just a platform over a million deep dedicated to bullying and bashing bw..it didnt matter how humble nice or sweet they were they all got it...it's interesting indeed...
Grow TF up already fukkkkk! When your talking about one person, let it be about that person! That what about BS shows you have the mental & emotional aptitude of a child! GROW TF UP!
A person can control how much food they put into their mouths and how much they move to stay active. Not the same as having the face you were born with.
Everytime I've been "body shamed" I got my butt back in the gym and started eating better, came out better for it.
But many just want to be pathetic and accepted (or even celebrated) for it.
The REAL WORLD exists, even if we choose to bury our head in the sand about it.
@@HexIZMs exactly
@@HexIZMs But I person shouldn't be clowned because of their CURRENT weight. I've seen and experience people clowning someone who is skinny. Should people be mean to the skinny person CURRENT weight? No they shouldn't. They could be on a journey to put on muscle, same as the person reducing their fat. 🤦🏽♀️🙄
I really love your show Kendra. More women need to hold other women accountable like this.
If he said he was a multimillionaire his dm's would overflow....he will find a match he seems genuine👍
I like Godfrey! He’s so cool and I like his laugh. His transparency literally has me in tears. God send him the woman of his dreams 💕💕
I don't think you should hang up on anyone that seems genuinely interested in finding love they shouldn't have to be denied a real shot just because people are being disrespectful. I commend this guy for his bravery and he will find love and also kudos to you for taking up for him no one deserves to be treated rude regardless if they find him attractive or not that's why some people have a hard time expressing themselves because they fear the response they may get.
I agree, I really hope it's not something that she implements. We need more people like Godfrey
I saw this live and like Kendra said it was mostly women and instead of typing women you type people 😂. You ladies don't understand how bad the majority of women are. If men simply disagree or correct a woman we get called ugly names. This happens often and it is too much. Just look at that video of the black woman in court to sue a man for $10,000. She was disrespectful to the judge only because the judge corrected her. Ladies if you don't correct other women it will only get worse.
The fact he called himself ugly 😣 so saddening and the people attacking him very disheartening people can be so cruel it’s no need for that & beauty is in the eye of the beholder it’s someone for everyone hope he finds his person he seems very genuine just because someone isn’t “Instagram fine/baddie” doesn’t mean you treat people like that
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I mean yea but the truth sets u free least he knows he ugly and can deal with it lots of ppl dnt know they ugly
He should have said act ugly like him, this man disrespectful as the lake of fire. Ladies if he look ugly, don’t lie, yep judge that book by it’s cover. If he shows with his actions he isn’t really ugly, cool. I know two things, he ugly on the outside and inside. He is ugly and has a nasty mouth, was talking about green cards, asking inappropriate sexually charged questions, and lying the first time speaking, talking about being in love, he is a whole joke. Don’t feel bad if you called him ugly, he is. That whole, I know I’m ugly is for sympathy and manipulation. He knows he is telling the truth, he acts very nasty, when I called him out, he started calling me out of my name, and I wonder why this man from another country, had a go to of calling me an abuser of drugs, specifically crack and heroine. Don’t be fooled, be careful of anyone who might need any kind of sponsorship. That man doesn’t respect black women from the states, might not respect women period. He all 🧢, and his insecurity is the mask. He ugly he ugly he ugly!
He called himself ugly because people told him that he was ugly. Usually by the one's that scream "it's the inside that counts"
Kendra with that ending!!!👏🏾👏🏾
I noticed it is so easy for women to be mean to men, as if men aren't people with feelings. It's not right. It takes nothing to be kind. If a man ain't your type keep it moving...no need to be mean.
They don't seem to realize that all of that nonsense is showing their true character; and are probably wondering why they don't have or cannot get a good man.
Thank you, Kendra! Very well said! It's sad you had to go off like that. Courtesy and respect is really lacking these days. The golden rule, across any religion, is to treat others like you would like to be treated. It's simple and yet so powerful ❤
Fickle though.
Great job checking the disrespectful women. He was a good man with a good heart.
He is going to be blessed. His time is coming. May he manifest everything 10 fold.
This has to be one of the most likeable men that I've seen on social media. He looks like an average man to me; not unattractive at all. He is down to earth & honest about what he is looking for. I hope he gains the confidence to approach the women he's interested in. I think the woman he ends up with will be very lucky to have him.
he should go back to his homeland.... not america ...its hard over there finind a wife
This was refreshing. The character of a man is what truly is attractive to me !! Gentleness… Kindness… Patience… love… joy … peace … all of that !!!
That read was epic. So disgusting how people can be so heartless but roles reversed it's an outcry.
Love his transparency. He is honest and realistic, which makes him attractive. Because he confessed it, God will bring him the women he deserves.
He seems like a genuine and compassionate man…
Yes Kendra!!! Some of the meanest people I’ve met were WOMEN! And 9 times out of 10 they were women that were clearly not getting any! 😂. Godfrey seems like a nice and honest man that was too good for those nagging women in the chat anyway. I think men should be more vocal in the chat because from what I have seen, men are way too nice.
Us men aren’t going to win by arguing with women, that will just be used against us to make us look feminine. Honestly it’s not even worth it.
Do you have Instagram?
Amen me too
This explains why most women I encounter are mean. Either no man and or no sex
It’s not called insecure when you have the guts to get on live with thousands of people watching you. People love to type hate and be miserable themselves
He's a good guy...and he is definitely not a bad looking guy. Highly intelligent and obviously a hard worker. These women are mad & just used to Pookie & Ray Ray and them who may have the looks, but no ambition. Now when he finds him a caucasian woman, it's going to be a problem. Anyway, the best of luck to this gentleman.
He seems like a good guy and genuine. When KG asked does the women has to have kids and he said “his mindset shifted, so he don’t mind it now” you can tell he does mind. He only said this because he feels he doesn’t deserve women who is childless.
All he needs to do is be upfront with his standards, go gym (Swole) and be confident. Don’t settle something you don’t want!
Periodt. I’m putting that last statement on my vision board. Don’t settle for something you don’t want!!!
Maybe he honestly means it that his mind has shifted. He spoke his truth, he was very transparent with us yet ppl are switching up his feelings for him.
Honestly he should stick to his policy....
Confidence comes from a man’s successes. If you’ve been taking Ls for a decade how are you going to be confident
He was actually very sweet, and articulated himself extremely well. Looks ain't everything. I've dated the most handsomeness of guys, and they were absolute jerks. Then got the nerve to catch an attitude when you leave him because you don't want to put up with their ratchet B.S. I hope Godfrey finds a wonderful woman. He has God in his name, and on his side. Shout out to you Kendra for speaking so powerfully to the mean girls in the comments.
He is average at best...lol
@@fin2643 Average just based on looks? Looks do fade just so you know
@@fin2643 Most people are average, nothing wrong with that.
He never had anything coming out of his nose either. It was maybe a glare from the light
Exactly I was like why are they in his nostrils smh
Rooting for him! Hope he comes back with an update. Keep us posted Godfrey! I think you'll find her. ❤️
@KendraGMedia I already enjoyed your contact. And I'm gaining more and more respect for you every time i chime in because you are truly holding both men and women accountable. We appreciate it!. I think it took a lot of balls for that brother to come on your platform and be that honest and transparent. Like the way you dealt with him and hope he finds what he's looking for out there.
He seems like a good man . He need a male friend to help him get out and talk to women lol . I get him being shy though.. it comes with being a introvert .I hope he finds the wife he deserves 😊
As a woman who grew up competing in pageants and my mother is the first “black” on the board of Miss Texas currently…I’d like to say real beauty queens…don’t act that nasty.
No it’s always the pot calling the kettle. The women who are actually universally beautiful don’t have to try and fool us with mean girl antics
It's always the ugly people quick to call somebody else ugly and throw shade. They don't mind dissing people. People who are truly beautiful by Hollywood standards doesn't have to criticize other people's looks. They are happy and secure with themselves and not quick to tear someone apart. Ugly people stay tearing people apart.
@@businessk3014 ohhhh so true. I find being mean not fun or productive so it’s not a game I’ve ever participated in. My families are not ones that play…we’re all uplifting and rock out for each other.
@@queenmorman2903 so sad…if they thought they were ugly before…sheesh. It’s almost like they are inducing someone to just say it…you know the poking and digging.
Im a man in my 20s. I don’t think his honesty and good guy routine would work for woman in my age group but I would hope it does for the older women. I recommend if this guy can to find his wife overseas, he will have more leverage and find what he is looking for.
I was going to say the same thing. Culturally speaking, he seems like he is from the Yoruba Tribe in Nigeria due to the tribal markings on his face but I digress. Yes, a more traditional woman would fit his profile best. I am praying that he will find someone soon.
@@DivineLightFitness he isn’t Yoruba ! You were close but he is an Edo man . I’m partly Yoruba and Edo . He’s edo accent was all over the place . Bless him
@@olufemi42 thank you for that correction! Yes he had a very strong accent indeed😋
Yes! It changes as women get older/mature. I married a good guy in my mid 20s.
Good guys get their shine when girls become women
Dated Nigerian men of most tribes. He is definitely Yoruba, they tend to look more like him, darker in complexion and reserved. From my experience, the Nigerian men from the Igbo tribe tend to be attractive, built and bold. Can hardly differentiate between the Igbo men and African American men unless I pick up the accent or last name. I like their songs too th-cam.com/video/ijxoN9i1jVk/w-d-xo.html. th-cam.com/video/WRbRLvn6H_U/w-d-xo.html
He has such a beautiful spirit and great morals and values. Everything he said made sense and sounded like he would make a women feel like a Queen. Good luck to this man!
Kendra how do i apply for this man? Just one problem, i smoke, i drink, i have 2 adult children, and practice voodooo but that's it!!!!
Me Too! I have Two sons and then I had a hysterectomy.
Plus I'm not Christian.
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Seems like a solid guy. I hope he finds a nice lady