When he discarded me, he went into a depression and started drinking excessively. I think he even checked into a mental institution. Thank God for the discard. Didn't realize how sick he really was.. I pray he gets the help he so desperately needs. He's a ticking time bomb.
That’s so correct….the older they get, the harder it is for them to obtain excellent supply, especially long term. Older people aren’t into mental and emotional games and won’t put up with their BS for long. Not unless they are desperate themselves, and desperate people don’t put out good supply. Older narcs will move faster through supply sources because they can’t land, or hold, grade A supply! Karma
The ex is now in his 50's he is high earning professional now and we met when he was still struggling and I supported him through college. But now his options are other narcs and gold diggers and he never finds anyone authentic. I suppose that is poetic justice.
@@sanjmalik6282. Or they hook up with another high earning professional who is more interested in merging assets to achieve the highest possible lifestyle than they are in having an authentic relationship. As one physician put it in reference to his physician wife, “we both know what the deal is.”
This is true. The narcissist I knew was cycling through friends/potential partners at less than a year each. Early middle age. Available people are more clued up at that age.
Once we are done and realize who and what they are, there is no going back. Let them continue to try and find supply that can keep them regulated. They will have a hard time finding Grade A supply like us. 😊
Incedently was that person very good looking were they charming more than average , mine came from Transylvania Romania I'm a vampire so is he there is a spirit world that exist
Because they don’t respect love that’s freely available, because there’s no boundaries and it’s taken for granted, they know family will accept it because they have a hold on them. Despicable behaviour.
This EXACTLY what he did, was left hanging and had enough after disgard and when he tried the hoover didn't work then he tried to convince my eldest daughter that I WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO live without him, TG I didn't listen I now thriving and HAPPY and have no more confusion in my life.
She said, "let's talk about this." After the meeting she literally told me she has no time. I didn't have time to argue with her since she just left. I sent her a message and told her. "You have not time for me, I have no time for you." However, she continued to play the pull and push game and triangulted me several times and I no longer bothered to reply. After a year she keeps trying, for what reason?
He had the supply lined up but once the marriage finally broke down and got legal advice he discarded her, all his relationships ends in disaster, not my business anymore.
Trust me. Joe is correct on this one. The narc's life only grows more miserable with time. Mine had about 30 kids with 25 different women. The kids think he's evil. He's now single, toothless, and still trying to get attention from young girls. They don't age well! Yes, they cause a LOT of damage. But you can find peace inside. THEY never will. They were most likely traumatized anyway as children, so they have already suffered, and they are still suffering. Their happiness is never real or permanent. Keep your head up. God loves YOU!! It's gonna be alright, and they DO get their karma!!
@@JaxCover thank you. Lol toothless. That would be ideal. Hahahahahah. Sorry I am laughing but that is great. And thank you for giving me validation. It’s hard to think they are ok when you are left picking up all the pieces. But I’ll continue healing.
@@barbaraviniegra Yes, you will heal, Sweetheart! Yep, mine is all over Facebook talking about how dark and sad his life is, trying to get pity and attention. They age BADLY. He keeps visiting the gravesite of his narc mother who never loved him. He's trash. Trust me, you're the winner when you realize that the devil tried to break you with his strongest attack, but you survived!! Blessings, dear. Have peace...
Bless you… So true! She getting older..I made that mistake getting her to talk to me… I see the lies now.. (give me need help she said ) I said no…what a difference….Wow !!! Thank you… I block her she got crazy!!! Now I’m looking over my shoulder… It’s crazy but I’ll be OK
Great videos, my ex is gone three years now. We met through a "shared" artistic passion online, how convenient. The usual, fairy tale romance, love bombing etc, She moved to my country, all a bit rushed, red flag! After 9 months or so, trying to live together. Usual, projections, accusations, endless drama attempts at isolating me from family failed. I told her to get out of my life. She returned to her country, I went no contact before I learned about NPD. I experienced lots of hoovering at first, flying monkeys, checking in on me via third parties after almost two years, she still supports my art and buys it online even though she smeared me through certain people. I must have been high grade supply?
Am I hearing you say They don't wanna be around people yet they look for people to showoff in front of ? Yes I've seen him crumble and he's doing it now. Thanks
@@wilfridjoseph6172 I'm testifying against him next week. I left 2 years ago and he threatens me with a restraining order. I wonder if the stalking and hoovering will intensify once he's sentenced. UGH!
@@wilfridjoseph6172 never married. No kids. Only lasted a year and 3 months but he has 10 charges 😂😂 and he hasn't left me alone this entire time with the restraining order. Wby?
Thsnk you so much for your content. I check every morning for new videos. You have played such an important role in my recovery after the discard. You are by far the best on the internet dealing with NPD and BPD. Pleass try to talk more about BPD also. Thank you.
It was my fault for not respecting myself! But it’s over now !!!!
They like to provoke people for entertainment 😂
He'll never find SUPPLY like me. The biggest fool!!!!
He will be back, stalking, gaslighting, love bombing and on and on.
Agree, bet I was the 👌
When he discarded me, he went into a depression and started drinking excessively. I think he even checked into a mental institution. Thank God for the discard. Didn't realize how sick he really was.. I pray he gets the help he so desperately needs. He's a ticking time bomb.
That’s so correct….the older they get, the harder it is for them to obtain excellent supply, especially long term. Older people aren’t into mental and emotional games and won’t put up with their BS for long. Not unless they are desperate themselves, and desperate people don’t put out good supply. Older narcs will move faster through supply sources because they can’t land, or hold, grade A supply! Karma
I think that depends on how well they cared for themselves because older men esp if high earning always have good options.
@@xoxo-vp7ww but not happy, lasting or meaningful relationships.
The ex is now in his 50's he is high earning professional now and we met when he was still struggling and I supported him through college. But now his options are other narcs and gold diggers and he never finds anyone authentic. I suppose that is poetic justice.
@@sanjmalik6282. Or they hook up with another high earning professional who is more interested in merging assets to achieve the highest possible lifestyle than they are in having an authentic relationship. As one physician put it in reference to his physician wife, “we both know what the deal is.”
This is true. The narcissist I knew was cycling through friends/potential partners at less than a year each. Early middle age. Available people are more clued up at that age.
Once we are done and realize who and what they are, there is no going back. Let them continue to try and find supply that can keep them regulated. They will have a hard time finding Grade A supply like us. 😊
Danielle is the name of my nemesis. I like your name, but not that chick.
You are the best narcissist analyst I have ever listened to so far. You hit the nail on the head 👏
Thank you ❤
I was the one who gave him the most and he did me t he worst. Crazy
Incedently was that person very good looking were they charming more than average , mine came from Transylvania Romania I'm a vampire so is he there is a spirit world that exist
The older they get the younger the supply gets and like this they can go on
Yes but younger supply is only booty call supply ..they don't stick around.
My ex narc can search for me in other people but she will never find me.
Why do they do that? They hurt the family the worst.
Because they don’t respect love that’s freely available, because there’s no boundaries and it’s taken for granted, they know family will accept it because they have a hold on them. Despicable behaviour.
His tactics don't work anymore. Lol
This EXACTLY what he did, was left hanging and had enough after disgard and when he tried the hoover didn't work then he tried to convince my eldest daughter that I WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO live without him, TG I didn't listen I now thriving and HAPPY and have no more confusion in my life.
When they can't reach you, they go for those closest to you therefore reaching you by proxy.
@@joebhouse Oh, so true or the smear campaign goes to close friends. I never let them know about them.
She said, "let's talk about this." After the meeting she literally told me she has no time. I didn't have time to argue with her since she just left. I sent her a message and told her. "You have not time for me, I have no time for you." However, she continued to play the pull and push game and triangulted me several times and I no longer bothered to reply. After a year she keeps trying, for what reason?
thanks. he hoovered today. not taking the bait 🚫
He had the supply lined up but once the marriage finally broke down and got legal advice he discarded her, all his relationships ends in disaster, not my business anymore.
I hope you are correct on all this. They leave so much destruction behind.
Trust me. Joe is correct on this one. The narc's life only grows more miserable with time. Mine had about 30 kids with 25 different women. The kids think he's evil. He's now single, toothless, and still trying to get attention from young girls. They don't age well! Yes, they cause a LOT of damage. But you can find peace inside. THEY never will. They were most likely traumatized anyway as children, so they have already suffered, and they are still suffering. Their happiness is never real or permanent.
Keep your head up. God loves YOU!!
It's gonna be alright, and they DO get their karma!!
@@JaxCover thank you. Lol toothless. That would be ideal. Hahahahahah. Sorry I am laughing but that is great. And thank you for giving me validation. It’s hard to think they are ok when you are left picking up all the pieces. But I’ll continue healing.
@@barbaraviniegra Yes, you will heal, Sweetheart! Yep, mine is all over Facebook talking about how dark and sad his life is, trying to get pity and attention. They age BADLY. He keeps visiting the gravesite of his narc mother who never loved him. He's trash. Trust me, you're the winner when you realize that the devil tried to break you with his strongest attack, but you survived!! Blessings, dear. Have peace...
@@JaxCover thank you! Many blessings to you! Indeed the devil tried to destroy me. But he didn’t.
Spot on I dealt with it for 22 years they are mentally ill extremely
When u tell the truth, or in my case, I got ghosted and now, after the big block, trying to get back in. Help!
Thanks for always giving me this great advice. It just makes me stronger.
Mines is trying. It was so evident yesterday. Crazy
Bless you… So true! She getting older..I made that mistake getting her to talk to me… I see the lies now.. (give me need help she said ) I said no…what a difference….Wow !!! Thank you… I block her she got crazy!!! Now I’m looking over my shoulder… It’s crazy but I’ll be OK
Stayed blocked for life. Run far away and find a healthy partner
Great videos, my ex is gone three years now. We met through a "shared" artistic passion online, how convenient. The usual, fairy tale romance, love bombing etc, She moved to my country, all a bit rushed, red flag! After 9 months or so, trying to live together. Usual, projections, accusations, endless drama attempts at isolating me from family failed. I told her to get out of my life. She returned to her country, I went no contact before I learned about NPD. I experienced lots of hoovering at first, flying monkeys, checking in on me via third parties after almost two years, she still supports my art and buys it online even though she smeared me through certain people. I must have been high grade supply?
Am I hearing you say
They don't wanna be around people yet they look for people to showoff in front of ? Yes I've seen him crumble and he's doing it now.
Thanks
@Joe B. House how do you know so much about this? Every single video of yours is so spot on.
So true
Thank you for your comment, apologies for the delay. Comes with the up-bringing I suppose.
. I wondered how you became so knowledgeable.
Thanks so much Joe. Just what I needed to hear today.
, GREAT INTEL JOE. RENDERS PEACEFUL CLOSURE FOR VICTIM.
Well said Friend! I agree.
Here is one more amazing video. Thank you ! 👏
So If u leave and get police involved and they threaten u for years, is it bc u have one up on them or bc they're obsessed?
It's both I am going through the same thing
@@wilfridjoseph6172 I'm testifying against him next week. I left 2 years ago and he threatens me with a restraining order. I wonder if the stalking and hoovering will intensify once he's sentenced. UGH!
@@Bo00si33 they will stop for awhile but once your life gets better and they can find you again, they will try to repeat the cycle
Where you guys married or just in a relationship for how long?
@@wilfridjoseph6172 never married. No kids. Only lasted a year and 3 months but he has 10 charges 😂😂 and he hasn't left me alone this entire time with the restraining order. Wby?
Thsnk you so much for your content. I check every morning for new videos. You have played such an important role in my recovery after the discard. You are by far the best on the internet dealing with NPD and BPD. Pleass try to talk more about BPD also. Thank you.
My narcissist always try to hoover me lately. But i had enough, he already destroy my life. I wont come back. It's too late now.
Great video 👍
Thank you so much💞
:)
Strange coincidences involving the flying monkeys? Yes! I have wondered how 'coincidental' they are.
🙏💜