“5 Things a Half-Korean Doesn’t Like to Hear! Mixed-race Struggles in Korea [Den and Mandu]
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ย. 2024
- Today, Sooyeon talked about things she hears very often but doesn't like to hear... I think many people ask these questions without noticing this. You can check out more questions about it on her youtube channel.
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외국인코리아Den and Mandu why TH-cam translate Australia ? It’s Austria 😅
Yep. She says Austria, not Australia. We don't speak German as a national language in Australia. My own Korean Australian daughter sees this misconception even at her own preschool where a student made an assignment about national dress showing lederhosen as Australian national costume :(
Fighting Don't Force you and be happy!
She actually doesn't look very Korean. If you look at some other mix blooded kids they have smaller eyes, smaller face
Her father is Austrian, not Australian. Hence, she is able to speak German. The subtitles are wrong.
Thanks for your tip.
Australia and Austria is the same thing
JahJah sis austrias in another continent.....
@@helioszxc Omg....I really hope you are less than 10 years old with a comment like that.
When I read that comment for the first time I was bout to bang my head against the wall
Where are you actually from, I guess the answer that can't go wrong is "Earth"
Justin Chan my house
@@Butterball2829 my mother
Or "from my mother's uterus" 🤷♀️🤭
Nina Nobody bit much
This is what mexican americans have to deal with too...and its from people that are actually born in mexico...im like im from here and they are like but what part of mexico and im like you mean where my ancestors were born lol
Say "hybrid" sounds like talk about animals 👀
it's creepy
Ed:
Maybe
It's more specific than I think
I understand that it's the right word
But say this 3:18 is TMI
Yes, or cars, or robots😕
@Henchman Twenty1 but we aren't cool ligers
nicole ortiz you should watch anime call Hybrid Child. It’s really good hahaha
So many people have called me a hybrid it gets anoying
I thought about my car which is a hybrid 😂😂
Austria and Australia mix up in the subtitles hurts so much as an Austrian BUT we are also used to it lol
DayWatch as an Australian, we are used to it too 😂
Yes it must suck being reminded that you were born in the one with no beaches 🤣🏄♂️🏖🇦🇺
@@danidejaneiro8378 they have beautiful mountains tho 😌
Strong Power Thank You - true, and their hills are alive with the sound of music.
Ohja 🙈 am besten immer dazu sagen: ".... Neiiin nicht das mit den känguruhs!"
It kills me when people say they want mixed babies because they’re “pretty” 🙃🙄
Remind them "honey, half they dna is yours, and u aint much to look at" 🤭
Its true doe
And when they say mixed they mean - caucasian + their race.
@@jorgecortez2493 exactly..
It is like sexualising your child to become your ideal type?? It's really creepy imo
The beginning of this clip really hit a nerve
안녕하세용 ~ 엽기적인 수연 입니다 ! 이번 콜라보 촬영도 진짜 꿀잼 있었어요 ☺️ 이쁘게 봐주세요!! 감사합니다 🙏🏻 여러분 새해복 많이 받으세요!!! 🎉
엽기적이 수연
예쁘기만 한데...왜 엽기적인수연 이죠??? 아름답습니다 ㅎ
러블리 ㅋ
새 복 많이 받으세요 수연님~좋은 일만 가득 하시길~
주위에 많은 인종이 같이 사는 국가와 단일민족으로 아직까지 그렇게 외국인과 결혼과 2세가 극히 드문 한국의 차이점이 아닐까 생각합니다.
그래도 질문하기 전에 먼저 상대방이 상처받을 수 있는 말은 자제할 줄 아는 인성이 중요하다고 봅니다.
외국인 관광객도 이제 한국 방문이 많아지는 시점이니 점점 나아지겠지만 (신기하다는) 인식의 변화에는 아직 많은 시간이 걸릴거라 생각되네요..
대부분의 한국 사람들이 그런식으로 질문하지는 않을거라 생각합니다. 단 몇 명의 사람이라도 그런(하이브리드 발언) 식의 질문을 한다는 것은 충격이네요..
just from how she talks with her hands and her little mannerisms, you can tell she's a native speaker. It breaks my heart that she feels such hardship over this.
ZoobySings also europeans in general are like that🤣 she is a fluent speaker in both, that’s why. As an asian born in Italy I relate so much ahah
Same, as a Korean American having grown up in the United States, some people are still surprised that I don't speak with an accent. Like I've grown up here, dudes. Stuff like this is not exactly a hardship and life would be a lot harder if I let these things get to me, but something that a lot of people living in other countries as minorities deal with
Same, 3rd gen asian born and raised in the west here. All I get is “where were you from before you were born” and people telling me I’m wrong when they aren’t satisfied with my correct answers...you just met me, so I’m sure I know my own life better than you?? And of course “wow your english is so good” yeah it’s the language I speak in like 90% of my everyday life for my whole life??
@@ldnroses we are all muts here in the USA 🇺🇸. We know It's what's inside that counts. My ancsesters came from parts of Europe, my wife from Thailand. My mother in law wants us to have a baby and see it too, Thais are a bit like Koreans in that too, I guess. Lol. I does not bother me.
I am Indonesian, and I am mixed Dutch. And people still asking me if I was raised abroad since I look like a white person. Wtf. I have breathe Indonesian air since born!!
She is saying Half Austrian. Shows Austrian flag 🇦🇹
Subtiles: AuSTraLIA 💩
Sophia yukari lmao 😂 I noticed that too!
I was confused too haha.
I'm an Australian and I even heard her say Austrian. So what is with the emoji?
It is quite insensitive with this type of topic
한국 캐나다 혼혈 인데 이영상보고 진짜 공감했어요 ㅠㅠㅠ 한두번도아니고 어렸을때부터 계속듣고 자라니까 진짜 스트레스에요 ㅠ주의해서 그런말안해주셨으면 좋겠어요 ㅠㅠ 영상 만들어주셔서 정말 감사해요 ㅠㅠ♥️♥️
what is the ever loving god is a *hybrid baby* ?
•Emilia• hybrid sounds more severe, but oddly more accurate to the feeling of someone looking at me with wide eyes talking about how they wanna have mixed babies, as if we’re dog breeds or something.
It's a baby that can be powered both by petrol or diesel
@@chrissiek9106 You mean petrol and electricity
S. Moore there's no term of hybrid babies in America, but the same sort of fetishization with mixed babies happen. If you watch Jubilee videos, they do a segment on mixed people and they talk about how they're so weirdly fetishized and how mixed babies are wanted because people think they're pretty.
In Korea"hybrid" means half white half Korean. It stems from fetishization of European beauty. There are Koreans on social media posting about how they want a half white baby, I even saw this woman who bragged that her baby was born with light hair and blue eyes 😂
예쁜 수연씨는 말씀도 잘 하시고 마인드도 글로벌이시네요! 아무튼 수연씨 응원합니다. 더 많은 영상에서 뵈었으면 좋겠어요! 수연씨!
어느 나라가 더 좋냐고 물어보면 진짜.... 제발 물어봐 주지 마세요 알아서 뭐하실려고....
알아서 뭐 할려는게아니라
당연히 궁금하니까 물어볼수있는거지
그게뭐 못물어볼 질문임? 그냥 어디가 더 좋냐는거뿐인데?
Her story reminds me of Kim Toni’s life in Itaewon Class kdrama.
Mia anya I was looking for this comment 😂
Exactly
Thanks for the spoil 😭
Lazare Edina ehhh it was just a small part of it.
@@MiaAnya yes true but I wanted to know by myself but it's ok.....
Okay I just don’t get how she’s saying that she’s a halfie and people still ask why she can speak Korean....WHY
Right??
I know! I was like what a stupid question. 🤔
@Josh Segal but thats in an English speaking country. Isn't she in Korea?
Most Asians are real stereotypes and don't see mix as their own blood. I had this problem when I was living in Japan and I'm half Japanese. They always say the same questions like her presentation on the video lol spot on
@Josh Segal I thought the discussion in this thread and in your reply was about LANGUAGE, not how they are perceived by anyone.
It's not odd that someone who's American born or foreign-born parent(s) in America would speak English, but not their parents language (fluently). So it's not odd that someone who's half Korean and lives in Korea would speak fluent Korean. It's the official language there.
아무 생각 없이 사는 사람들 보다 일반적인 생각을 갖고사는 사람들이 더 많으니 스트레스받지 말고 행복하게 사세요
응원해요! 편견에 맞서는 모습에 많은 걸 배우고 갑니다 :)
우리 아들도 혼혈이지만, 참 많은 걱정도 되고, 두개의 아이덴티티를 갖고 더 넓은 시야를 갖고 보다 즐거운 삶을 살 수 있기를 기대하고 있기도 하고, 복잡해요. 나한텐 그저 사랑스러운 자식이지만...
I'm fully Korean but was born and raised in the US. I absolutely hate when people ask me "where are you from?" I'm FROM the US but my ethnicity is Korean.
Hey, join my Free world travel class, come to Korea and teach! It is fun here!
한국은.. 어떤 대화를 나누던 스트레스가 많이 쌓일수 있는거 같아요 ㅋㅋㅋ 약간의 오지랖? 그냥 필터없이 내뱉는 말들 ㅋㅋㅋ 너무 많아요
대표적으로.. 결혼안하니? 연애안하니? 공부는 잘하니? 등등.. 그게 왜 궁금한건데..ㅋㅋㅋ
신중하게 생각하고 말 해야 하는데 불쑥...
극공감
와 누가 제생각을 스캔한줄....ㄷㄷ
저도 스트레스 받긴하네요😤
각인정!!
근데 저런 질문 많이 받을거 같긴해요.. 스트레스가 많겠어요 ㅠ
@조국통일 틈마다 끼어들어서 속 뒤집는군요.
시대에 맞는 생각 하시길 바람니다.
A hybrid baby......as a mixed person just hearing that you are told this really upsets me....:/ and when i tell others im mixed they suddenly want to observe me to see what features i have that are chinese or indian or african...and its just stressful...We are human like everyone else. It is okay to be curious but some things take it too far
Right? When people say 'hybrid' to me I feel like a scientific experience lol
Hybrid does sound medical, but the "trying to figure out the features" part is pretty normal. I'm not sure if you've noticed, but, even if you're full-blooded or whatever, it's common for people to try and pick out lineages. "Oh, she has her father's eyes!" "That's his grandfather's hair!" "She has my nose." People are fascinated by heredity, in general.
@@aprilbennett4161 Like i said its okay to be curious thats normal. But when you start touching my face and my hair and getting in my space it becomes invasive. Ive never heard that anyone referred to anyone of mixed race as hybrid till now because we usually use that for animals or grafted plants etc. Ive always just been called mixed race and most people are bi racial. I am tri racial which is a hassle to think about so people just say mixed.
@@ellenpavesi Ive never been called ""hybrid"" personally because there's alot of mixed race people in my country. I have been called exotic though which i get theyre trying to compliment me but I just want to feel like im normal- 😩😢
@@pyumpkyin1492 People who do the touching thing have issues respecting personal space, in general. If anything seems remotely unusual or even just fancy, they'll get up in your space with their hands. Being mixed may be more likely to attract them, but no one is really safe. Touchy-feely people are a menace. I've sat in a concert and felt someone touch my hair from behind. Creeped me the hell out.
Is it just me or?? cause I feel like the longer I look at her the more Korean she looks 🤔
You're not wrong lol. Korean looks are gradually changing from just typical small-eyed square-faced Asian to many shapes.
I've noticed anyone who is half Asian mix, the Asian features were always more prominent
Namrata Shankar not always.. look at han hyun min
@@NamrataShankar20 I'm half Taiwanese lol r u saying Asian genes are stronger? I feel like sometimes the other half can take over the Asian side
She had brown hair
"Where are you actually from?" That's an annoying question as a Korean American too. They see I'm Asian and are convinced I can't be from here. Like, I've lived here all my life unless you suddenly know more about that than me lol I already explained it but they still go "but where are you REALLY from?" ...still the USA.
Peeps who ask that kind of question are annoying af. If they want to know your genetic background, then they can ask about it, like where were your parents or grandparents from? My friends and I have all asked each other that (I have a friend who's mom is Filipino, one who's mom is Korean, another who strongly identifies as Irish/Italian). But we never say, so where are you actually from? Because we are all culturally American, having been born and raised in America (I actually was born in Germany, but am definitely still 100% American) our whole lives. We would never treat each other differently because of mixed ethnicity. I have a friend who is Japanese, because she was born and raised there, but her children are American, because they were born and raised here. I dunno, it just makes sense that way doesn't it?
Yes....I think it is common sense if you are born in a country, you are from that country despite of your genetic background
Exactly!!! 💯
where you from?
The US.
But where?
I’m American...
You know what I mean. How about your parents?
Florida.
I just tell them rural California 🤣
People can't differentiate ethnicity and nationality
여름 때 이모와 이후로 정말 간만에 보네요^^
사람들은 아직도 수연이가 경상도 아가씬 줄 모르는 사람들이 많네요.
수연이 내년도 건강하고 활기찬 모습 보여줘요.^^
수연씨 힘내요
한국에는 나쁜 사람보다.
착한 사람이 많습니다.
당신은 한국인 입니다.
She is so pretty
사람은 그냥 다 사람으로 생각해야 더 편한 거 같네요. 혼혈 인종 다 생각하면서 사람 만날 것도 아니고... 좋은 영상 잘 봤어요.
I'm half Chinese, half Polish and grew up in Ireland which is where I get my cultural aspects from so I'm basically mixed 3 ways. This video is so relatable haha
좋은 얘기 고마워요~!!! ㅎ
나도 모르게 할 수 있는 말이 있는 것 같아요.
나 자신도 반성할게요~~!!
악플 달지 말라고 했는데... 악플이 없을 수
없어요!!! 그냥 그런가보다 해야 돼요!!
악플을 위한 악플을 다는 쓰레귀들이라
그냥 그렇구나 하고 넘겨야지. 깊게 이해할
필요는 없어요~~~!!!!!
상처는 남이 아니라 내가 만드는 거에요!!!
항상 응원할게요~세계 평화를 위해서~!!! ㅎ
잘 찍어 습니다.모르는 저에게도 아 그럴수 있겠구나...하고 이해를 했습니다.점차적으로 나아 지리라 봅니다♥♥♥
소미가 많이 들었다는 내용과 비슷하군요. 무지한사람들아..제발 예의 좀 갖춰라.
잡종이라고 비하햇다고 하더군요....가정교육의 문제입니다....부모들이 인성이 글러먹어서 그래요
아이들한테 인성교육 특히 사회윤리를 가르치지않고 무조건 경쟁에서 이기라고 가르쳐서 그런 괴물들이 탄생하는것이죠
왕따질하는 아이들 100퍼센트 가정교육탓입니다......평소에 왕따당하는 친구가잇으면 보호해주라고 가르치고잇습니다
더불어 너가 왕따당할경우...모조리 개패듯 패주라고 권투배워주고잇습니다.......ㅇ.ㅇ
@박성현 당연하죠 원래 피는 멀수록 우수한 후손이 탄생합니다...평균적으로
당연히 전소미가 우월한 외모죠 ㅋ
슬리데린 출신들인가 잡종이라니..
옛날엔 튀기라고했음 그만큼 외국인못보던 세대 해외여행도 자율화되기전이고
@@F-TWENTY_WON 배워주다-× 배우게 해주다,가르쳐주다-○
It’s funny how she has to explain herself several times that she is Korean...yes it is rather a racist questions...similar to people asking you: “so where are you from?” Korea. “ No, seriously, where are you from?” “Korea”....😒😒🙄🙄
Because they want to know her ethnicity but she keeps telling them her nationality
@@november132and? You know that when you're being born and raised in a certain country your ethnicity is directly related to the place you've grown up right?
I think that's being a little sensitive. I am of English, Irish and Dutch heritage. But I am all American. It's just a conversation starter and a game as far as I can see, in most cases. Sure there are jerks once in a while. But don't let jerks ruin your day. Most people are just being friendly.
@acammtt you know the meaning of ethnicity? It's not the same as race. And I'm not talking about you turn into white suddenly, as you can see I said related because there are more factors. But you can't deny that people can identify themselves culturally with certain country more, besides having other roots because of their parents. That's a long debate
jichoeun I perfectly understand what you mean. I’m not mixed but I’m Mexican American, I was born in the US while my parents and their entire family are from Mexico. Race wise, I’m Hispanic/Latina. But ethnicity and nationality wise, I’m American. I can’t always identify and relate to native Mexicans, because I grew up in America and have been conditioned by the experiences here.
I’m not even mixed and I understand how annoying it can be for her.
하이브리드라고 말하는게 상식적 개념이 부족한거 아닌가
자동차마냥 말함 ㅋㅋㅋ
Hybrid라는 표현 외국에서 사용했다가는 인종차별자 소리 들어요.. 하이브리드라는 표현은 다른 '종'간의 배합 의미하는 표현입니다. 절대로 사람한테 쓰시면 안되는 표현이예요
개념이 부족한 것 맞습니다. 동물느낌으로.......교육이 필요합니다.
백마 흑마 다들 말인데 왜 우리는 옐로 몽키냐이거야
@원 좀 제대로 알고 말씀하시길. 하프라고 합니다. 하이브리드라고 했다간 '이 새낀 뭐지?' 하듯이 볼겁니다.
너무이쁘고 착한게 죄에요.
자랑스런 대한민국 국민으로서 많은 활동기대합니다.
수연씨 너무 이쁘다! 말도 너무 이쁘게해요! 다음에 혼혈분 만나면 조심해야겠어요! 감사합니다
다문화가정의 아빠입니다. 보면서 많은 공감과 또 용기를 얻게 되네요! 이런 영상 만들어주셔서 감사합니다. ^^
혼혈은 뭐구 단혈은
뭐지!?ㅡ단혈이건,
혼혈이건 이나라 말
하고 이나라 이민족
을 가장 사랑하는 사
람이면 이나라에서
가장 완벽한 사람이지
요!!!♥️♥️♥️
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 제 친척언니도 혼혈인데 똑같이 저런 말 싫어해요 ㅜㅠ 겉모습보고 그러지말아줘요...
누군가는 진작에 했어야 할 말을 이 한국 여자분이 말해주시네! 혼혈이면 한국말 당연히 해야하고 한국인이다!
한국말을 할수있으면 당연히 좋겠지만 외국에서 나서 살았으면 어떤 이유가 있어서 못배울수도 있읍니다.
한국 여자분 ㅋㅋㅋ 그냥 이 분이라고 하면되지. 억지로 하는것같음
당연히는 아니구요 한쪽부모만 한국인이면 아무리노력해도 한국어를 들을 기회나 써먹을 데가 없기때문에 한국어를 아예 안써요 ㅠㅠ 술프지만 친구나 전체사회그에 녹아들어서 한국어를 사용할일이 없으면 사실 배우기힘들어요.. ㅠ 간단한 회회듣기는 되는데..
당연하다기 보단 케이스 바이 케이스 아닌가?
@@1113subie 맞아요 제딸은 자랄때 제가 너무 일을 많이 해야해서 한국말 못배웠어요 정말 후회되요.
한일혼혈인데 진짜 하 그만 ...... 역사시간에 독도는 누구 땅 이냐고 물어봤으면 좋겠다 ...
나도 독도는 한국땅이라고 생각하고 믿고있는데 다들 왜그러는지 모르겠다
한국라면,일본라면 둘중에어느라면이더좋음?
@@ktx3534 당연히 한국 매운거 조음
@@alexiaoh1222 네ㅎㅎ
@@ktx3534 한국의 매운맛이 조음
제일은 인간쓰레기라고보고잇음.. 혼혈은 한국일본에서 살지 말고 어릴때부터 미국에서 역사공부햇음 좋캣음... 오히려 일본인도 어릴때부터 미국살면 역사인식이 일본인과같진 안은데
아직 한국인 혼혈이 많이 안보여서 그렇지..더 많아지면 그렇게 안물어볼꺼여요 . 지구적인 왕래가 많아지고 있으니깐 혼혈도 점점 많아질걸로 봐요. 그래도 요즘은 혼혈이라고 하면 많이 자연스레 받아 들이는듯..ㅎ
인간본성을 모르고 하는 소리. 자기보다 예쁜애를 보면 질투가 심하게 생기는 애들이 있어. 그래서 깎아내려야 하는데 혼혈이라는 점을 공격하는거지.
아직도 선진국 사람이 아닌 외국인이랑 결혼하면 개무시받고 그 아이들도 학교에서 엄청난 차별을 받죠.
@@exampp 그건 바람직한 현상임.
@@user-qv9lx1zc8p 참나 댁 인성도 어지간하네요. 어찌 그리 인간사고수준이 열등합니까?
@@user-qv9lx1zc8p 내가 혼혈인데 그게 바람직한 현상이라면 내가 항상 무시를 받고 차별당하는게 맞냐? 이에 올바른 대답을 하지도 못하겠지 당연히 바람직한 현상이 아니니까!
If people asks you "Are you Korean?", say "Yes, I am. Are you?" To see how they feel.
Who gives a shit for being Korean? Ahahahahaha
Josh Segal She’s still Korean like.... ? You emphasize her being half as if it makes her any less Korean than a full Korean (disclaimer: it doesn’t)
좋은 교육자료가 될 것 같아요. 수고하셨습니다.
0:34
she said that her dad is Austrian, not Australian...
Lance Corporal Yes I see that Austrian too 🇦🇹
@Yong Geun Song 뜬금없네여?
korean english
That is why she speaks German as she has said haha
한국사람이라고 하면 됬지 뭐가 중헌디. 수연씨가 이런 편견들이 존재한다면 앞장서서 깨부셔주길.
니 맞춤법 재교육이 제일 중요한 듯
@오함마 민족주의가 나쁜건 아닙니다. 너무 편향된 민족주의자들이 문제인거죠. 극단적인 신념을 가진 사람들은 어떤신념이든지 문제니까요.
저도 혼혈인으로써 회사서 너무 스트레스 받고살아요..
회사선임이 물어보는 질문이 수연님 말씀하신거랑 딱맞아 떨어지네요
한국에서 혼혈으로 산다는게 너무 마음아려요..초면에 무례한 사람들 참많아서 집에오면 풀데도 없더라구요...
감사함에 앞서 구독 누르고갑니다😊💪
동감입니다.
참 말 함부로 하죠 저도 확실히 느낌...그런데 대한민국만 그런게 아니라 저런 뉘앙스 다른나라도 많음 단지 관심에 차이가 정 을 오지랖까지 범위가 넓은데 차이뿐...외국은 저게 인종차별로 가는거구 대한민국은 그게 걱정해 주는척을 할려니 말 뉘앙스가 배려가 없어 보이는거뿐...
전 이렇게 느낍니다...이제 섬나라에서 많은 외국인들이 살고있고 인식에 변화도 많이 되는시기 쯤임...이제 변화니 걱정마세요
그 동안 , 마음이 많이 다치신 것 같아 같은 한국인으로 미안하네요... 때론 사람마다 철이 드는 시기가 틀립니다. 남을 생각하고 배려하는 마음을 장착하는 게 그리 어려운 일이 아닌데,,.. 주변에 그렇게 철이 없는 사람은 가급적 피하세요... 경험 상 그런 사람들 자기 잘 난 맛에 살아 쉽사리 철들기 쉽지않습니다 구독, 가입 다했습니다. 화이팅 하세요
I feel this to be true with most biracial children. Feeling not truly belonging anywhere, but this has made most wiser than their peers
Most? All
어떤 혼혈인이 이런말을 한적잇다.
자기는 당연히 한국인 라고 생각하고
한국을 자랑 스럽게 생각하고 자긍심도
강한대 한국인들은 나를 한국인으로
생각하지 않는거 같아서 속상하다.라고
우리도 생각해볼 문재다.
혼혈분의 마음을 잘아시네요
kimyoung1421- ㅋㅌ
아직 한국이 외국인에 대해 낫설어서 그래
그래두 최근들어서 사회의 시선이 많이 개선된것 같음 근미래에는 더욱더 많이 개선될듯
헬조선이 머가 자랑스럽다고 자긍심을 갖는지;;;
신기 할게 있나... 하긴 나도 미국에서 살다가 한국 나가니깐 사람들이 영어 해봐 그러는데 무슨 동물원 원숭이도 아니고...
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
ㅋㅋ님한테 영어해보라 하는건
놀리는게 아니라 신기하고 부러워서 일건데
부러워서 그러는건데 ;; 그땐 영어실력좀 보여주심됩니다 ㅎ
🤣🤣🤣ㅅㅂ, 개 동감!
혹시 생김새가
아직 우리나라가 글로벌화가 많이 안돼있기에,.. 신기해하는 사람이 많을 수 밖에없는 것도 사실이지만, 혼혈인들한텐 비매너적인 거죠.
나는 이 나라에서 쭉자라왔는데, 나를 외국인 취급하면 기분 나쁘죠 당연. 이런 영상은 시민의식을 성장시키는데 아주 중요한 영상이네요
우리나라에 화교가 얼마나 많은지 아세요? 동남아 혼혈도 많아요. 올림픽은 88년도에 했는데 뭐가 아직도 글로벌화가 안 되어있다는건지?
Great video so true!! I'm also half-Korean and grew up here. I guess this happened naturally overtime. I don't socialize with "normal" people or just "turn off" from making any effort in the convo to get to know anyone just after their first few quesrions. You just know the person will never ever get you and it's not worth the effort. All my Korean friends are artists/creators, "outsiders", and counter-culture people lol only people with chill
i would often wonder what it’s like to be from an ethnically homogenous society (i’m american but even my immigrant parents’ homeland has a variety of ethnicities) seeing this, though, i’m grateful to have grown up around diversity
I think it has more so of being or looking like a foreigner. America is pretty diverse but those of the minority population still frequently get the "where are you really from" or "wow, you speak good English" . So she's not the only one experiencing this in Korea, and it kinda sucks when people turn around and call Korea racist when America is literally the same towards minorities. Like my friends who are second generation or 1/2 generation immigrants and I relate to so much to the things she said rn
@@clorozweepvmundosalazar5153 yeah i agree! my family definitely struggles with it as well, although mainly from white people who have been americans for many generations. i don't think this makes koreans racist, it's just different for them because their society is so homogeneous. i just meant i'm grateful that i grew up around a variety of cultures and diversity so that kind of diversity is normal for me
magickoya yeah! I got what you're saying, I wasn't insinuating that you were calling them racists but a lot of international viewers watching these types of videos do tend to, which is personally very frustrating to me because many people could relate to her being treated like a foreigner even in a diverse country like America.
@@clorozweepvmundosalazar5153 I live in a mostly Hispanic/Spanish speaking state in America so I always get "you were actually born here?" because I'm white, so it can go both ways.
I’m asian but born and raised in the apparently more diverse west. And pretty much all the Qs she mentioned in the video I get asked by people who just met me all the time🙄
왜 신기하냐면 부모 두명이 한국인임에도 한국어 잘 못하는 애들이 많아서 그래요ㅎㅎㅎ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 100% 공감
그래도 처음부터 한국에서 태어났고 부모님중 한분께서 한국인이라고 하고 난 한국인인데 왜 계속 그러냐는것이죠
아직 한국은 혼혈을 접할 기회가 별로 없는듯. 인구의 97퍼센트가 한국인이고 외국인 중에서도 비 아시아계는 1퍼센트도 안돼서
@@user-yu8nq9yx6k 이제 혼혈 이상하게 보는것도 5년 정도면 끝이에요. 길어야 10년 급격하게 사회가 변하고 있어요
@@ianlee7800 그렇죠. 출산율은 박살나는데 그 대책으로 다문화를 밀었고 벌써 그 아이들이 고등학생, 성인이고 곧 취업시장에도 나오겠네요
Totally Agreed 100% !!
마음 잘 읽었습니다. 향후 한반도에도 여러 인종이 모여살게 될것이고 그렇게되면 차츰개선될것을 희망합니다. 아니 개선해야 합니다.
The subtitles translated it as "So, interesting" but a better term would be "So, strange" (not strange in a bad way). That's why she would feel anoyed when they keep saying it over and over. I understand myself being half korean and half french XD
Guess even her Korean isn’t as good as she thought 😑
It actually does translate to interesting, I don't know where you got from that it means strange. Like she said, that's why it's fine if they say it once or twice, but gets annoying the more she hears it as it sounds like they are not actually listening to her.
Disagree. That's so strange would be 이상해요. 신기하다 - interesting
@@NuhPanda22 that's the thing about translating korean to English, so many words dont have the same exact meaning. Yeah it means interesting but it has a connotation of being strange. It's interesting because it's so strange.
@@cristal1460 u cant translate it exactly from korean to English because words have different undertones. It means interesting but because it's strange or weird or different.
그렇군요. 영상감사합니다. 몰랐던 부분도 알게되었습니다.
한국은 아직 여러 인종을 접해보지않아 익숙하지않아서그래요~ 무시하려고 그런태도 보이는거 아닐거에요 상처받지마세요♡
이게맞는말이죠 ㅎㅎ..
그냥 영어 몰라요. 라고하면 됩니다.
" 영어 몰라요 ㅠ "
(아 한국인 이구나) 이게 현실.
내레 북한말은 쫌 할줄 압네다
그럼 끝 ~~~♥
저도 이게 정답이라봅니다
한국사람이고 영어 하나도 못합니다 라고 딱 잘라 말하면 더 말걸지도 못합니다
서양얼굴이고하니 자꾸 들이대보고싶어하는거임
Interesting to watch. My experience with my son being half Asian is that a lot of time when I I go in Public with him people ask me “is that really your child?” I say yes then they usually say something like “really? He looks nothing like you. He looks more like me and not you” But that is when I meet older Asian people. Most of the time people are nice and say he is handsome and has beautiful eyes. You can tell he is half Asian now (before he didn’t looked mixed at all) so people ask where his dad is from. My son is two now and I can count on my hands how many negative comments I’ve received, which I think is good. It doesn’t happen very often.
A lot of this I can relate to from being 3rd gen asian born and raised in the West too.
“Where are you from?” I was born here. “Where were you from before that?” You’re really asking me where I was from before I was born??
“Your English is so good,” well yeah it’s the language I use like 80-90% of the time (since my mum’s best language is English too) for my whole life so you don’t say 🤦🏻♀️
I felt that
Oh my gosh. I'm 5th gen but look full Chinese . I hate this with a burning passion! And then when they go "but you don't act Asian " and I'm like tf does that even mean?!? My family have been here so long we are pretty much more native than you, if not equivilant. And I get so mad because you can't just lump Chinese and Asian together in a group and generalise our behaviour based off stereotypes. The stereotypes have no use other than entertainment and it's not a prescribed behaviour where anything less means 'you aren't xxx enough'. Living as a 5th gen is honestly no different than being a person just living their life.
Edit :edited because of rage induced typos. Sorry not sorry.
I’ve had an Asian American ask me (a Eurasian) why my English was so good and that was the most confusing situation to be in.
cathy921ontheradio 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
아...이거 보면서 진짜 완전 완전 공감 5개다 진짜 공감 ㅠㅠ😢😢
우 ~~ 와 ~~ 왜이렇게 오랜만 이에요 ..? ㅋㅋ
자주나와 주세요 ~~ 👍👍👍
I usually ask where their Ancestors originated from or where their last name originated from. You get a better answer than just where are you from.
My ancestors are Neanderthals, I'm from a cave in southern Europe
I just ask what's your ethnicity or heritage or family background. I's simpler amd more direct. If anyone ever asks me "where are you from?" I immediately say "what do you mean" until they ask a better question.
@@Pomagranite167 Chica, I do the exact same! 😂💪🏽🤣
I could totally tell she is korean and I dont even think she looks mixed. Shes so pretty!😁💜
Jada Rose she isn’t “korean-looking”. She’s does not even look mixed hence the questions she got regarding her race.
@@mei42na we all have our different opinions😁
True, but no one in Austria would think she is Austrian, but Korean.
정말 잘 하셨어요! 이 영상 잘 만드신것 같아요!! 알게 해줘서 고마워요!!! 그래도 밝은 모습으로 밝게, 좋게 얘기해줘서 또 고마워요~! ^^
예쁘다는 말도 한두 번이지 계속하면 상당한 수준의 하이킥이 나옴
I'm mixed too and all my life they asked me this kind of questions. They also complimented me and told me I look exotic but that makes me feel weird and sometimes even bad even though people say it with good intentions. But that makes me feel diferent than the others and even like an object to admire and analyze. I got used to this kind of comments now but still sometimes it hurts a little.
알겠습니다, 저도 미처 몰랐어요,
그리고 너무너무 이쁘세요,
Can we please appreciate her beauty without mentioning her race or nationality 🔥🌟
Was looking for this! All the other comments are about people themselves.
신기하다라는건 비현실적인 현상을 보았거나 자신이 몰랐던일에 대한 표현이라 생각되지만 사람을 가리켜 사용하기엔 부적합하다는 생각이들고 아무생각 없이 사는사람 많다는 생각도 든다 그러나 대부분의 사람들이 대수롭지 않게 쓰는단어라 생각하고 마음에 담아 둘필요도 없을것같아요 힘네셔요
I can feel the first thing sooooo well, I'm half korean and half mexican/spanish and it gets so so so annoying here in México, people asks me 'why you look asian?' and I answer 'I'm half korean', then they say 'you don't look korean' and I say 'because I'm mixed, my mom is mexican/spanish' and then they say 'you don't look mexican', btch what do you want from me? I'm mixed, I can't help it 🙃
Haha, never ending questions
My husband is the same way. He is korean and Spanish. His co workers for the longest time thought he couldn't speak English. He was born in the US . Its sad :(
How do you ask “are you stupid?” in Spanish? lol
Thank you for making subtitles in English and in Korean too, so deaf people could follow you too. ))
영어자막 틀렸습니다. 호주가 아니고, 오스트리아 입니다.
드립이죠?
@@user-lz9es7ec1y 오스트리아랑 오스트레일리아랑 차이 모르시죠? 드립 이야기 하는거 보니 차이점 자체를 모르네.
그러게옹 오스트리안이라 안쓰고 오스트레일리안이라 썼네
나타 ㅋㅋㄱㅋㄲㅋㄱㅋ 한심
예리하시네 ^^
바로 찍어내다니..
영어자막 수정해야함.
Wow..this is sad. My children have mixed ethnic groups..such as Irish descent, Solomon, Gilbert (my husband) and I am an indigenous Fijian. I feel for them and I stand up for them. In our country, some people want to be known as half caste (part something or kailoma). Some people can be very rude and it's not right. I can relate to her. Stay strong.
I'm mom of 6 month half korean half polish boy, and even he is only 6 months now, we often can hear "외국인 아기!" or "완전 외국인같이 생겼어" so i feel you!
It's great to know that although these annoying coments you grew up to be such a nice and positive person. I hope my son will also handle it that well!
That intro felt like I was watching THAT Itaewon Class scene with Toni and Yiseo lmao
스트레스를 많이 받으셨겠네요...우리 민족이 무지해서가 아니라 넘 오랫동안 동일함을 유지하는 사람들끼리 모여살다보니 아직 익숙하지 않아서 그러니 조금은 시간이 더 필요할 듯 싶어요..칭찬도 많이 들으면 식상한데 오죽하시겠어요. 공감합니다..
하이브리드 운운하는거 보면 연세있는분은 아닌듯하고, 젊은 세대는 동일함을 오래유지했다는거에 대한 중요성과 인식도 별로 없을텐데요.. 걍 개인적인 노매너 아닐까요?
잘봤습니다~ 근데 자막에 오타가 있네요 ㅎㅎ 오스트리아 분이신데
영어로는 Australian(호주인) 이라고 되있어요~ 0:34
감사합니다 ㅠ 네 자동 수정 기능 때문에 오류가 있었어요 ㅠㅠ
도시는 아직도 혼혈이 많이없지만 시골가보세요 거의대부분이 다문화 가정입니다 초등학교 운동회가 아시안게임 수준입니다ㅎ
수연 화이팅...^^ 밝은 모습이 좋아요.....................~
I never know tbh.. im born and raised in “country-a” but my parents are both born in “country-b” .. what am i now..?? I have always had those identity issues.. if someone asks me WHAT i am.. well i end up telling them where i was born and raised, where my parents are from, where their parents are from, which language i speak better and which culture i grew into more instead of giving a short clear answer because i don’t know any better lol. Another issue is.. people in country-a treat me like im not one of them.. like i don’t belong here.. but when i go to country-b they treat me like i don’t belong there either.. it’s weird feeling like u don’t have a nation that you feel united with/don’t belong somewhere specific.
Your nationality is "country-a" and your ethnicity is "country-b". For example, if both your parents are from China, but you're born in Mexico, your ethnicity is still Chinese like your parents but you would say you're Mexican by nationality. It's tough being a 2nd gen. immigrant, but hang in there. You're not alone and you'll meet plenty of people who are in the same boat. If not anything else, at least you can bring the best of both worlds! :)
Third culture kid 😊 there are books about it! I am one too!
Ignore them. They don't own the countries
If I was asked "What are you?" (because I was asked some times when Theo think I am in a talkative mood) I said human. Where you from? Earth. If they insist I don't speak. I'm told I'm kind of rude but... Meh.
Lector Dominion i mean i don’t think people asking me that question is rude or anything.. it’s part of life.. wanting to get to know people you talk to.. but i wish i was able to be that cold too 😁 im a very very very soft and kind person so i doubt i will be able to give such savage answers 😆
When someone comments that you don't look Korean, say "thank you". Not to insult Korean people, but to give an answer that was not expected.
This is brilliant hahah tbh I expect them to be pissed but I mean...what they said is also kinda annoying
I also never know how to respond to this. I know I wasn’t blessed to have as many Asian features and it feels like someone is pointing out scars and outcasting me. I would rather they try to find the Asian features and then show me they can see it now.
My response would be well what should I look like then if I do not look Korean given I am of mixed heritage?
I would hope that it would deter them in future from disrespecting another person of mixed heritage.
From past experience, if you say “thank you” it just reinforces their behavior
You need to come up with a passive aggressive response that still gets the point across like “yes, I’m korean and you? Are you from x country?” Give them a taste of their own medicine 💀
생각없이 질문을 던지는 부류들이 많지 한번쯤 생각하고 상대에게 말하기를
예전에 부천 공장에서 생산직 알바했는데말야. 동남아 혼혈애랑 같이 일했어~ 피부색이며 이목구비가 너무 이국적이었어..이국주 말고 마- 암튼 걔를 볼때마다 혼혈에 대해 궁금한점들이 목구멍까지 올라왔어..근데 난 걔한테 일 외적으로는 얘기를 안했지..안했거든.. 왜냐..생각해보니 걔도 그런 질문 되게 많이 받았을거 같았거든.. 얼마나 스트레스 받을까. 사람한테 편견같는게 나도 싫었던거지.. 그렇게 시간이 지나고 결국에 그 친구는 힘들어서 먼저 관두더라고...짜슥아! 어디가서 일하고 있는지 모르겠지만 잘 살거라.. 난 너에게 뻔한 질문 안한 알바생이었다..
근데 제가 보기에는 편견은 외국인 심하고 대한민국은 그냥 오지랖이 많음... 궁금한거 보다 심심해서 같은말 또 하고 또 하고 그게 몸에 베어서 이제는 그게 맞는걸줄 아는거죠...나와 다르면 틀리다는 걸 인식을 전혀 안하기 때문에...외국도 심한데 거긴 혼혈이든 강제노예든 많이 겪어서 차츰 안정화가 되는거구요...대한민국도 이제는 많으니 차츰 나아지잖아요 처음에는 다문화란 말 자체가 어색하기도 했구요...섬나라 아닌 섬나라로 많은 탈피도 했으니 이제 과도기가 아닌가 봅니다...
국자이크쩜..
근데ㆍ 이뻐ㆍ 가지고 있는 개성이 이뻐ㆍ
갖는-○
영상 감사드려요! 혼혈아이를 둔 엄마인데, 수연씨 말씀 많이 와닿았습니다. 한민족 국가라는 자부심으로 지켜져 온 나라이다보니 아직까지도 혼혈가정에 익숙치 않는 분들이 많다보니 그런 반응을 경험하시는게 아닌가 싶네요. 힘내세요~
솔직한모습이 너무 아름답습니다
토종 한국인인데 혼혈로 오해받기 vs 혼혈인데 한국인으로 오해받기
뭐가 더 짜증??
'외모'와 '출신' 의 불일치
@최행복 이 영상 외국인 혼혈친구들이 많이 볼텐데 . . . 생각하고 글 답시다
둘다 짜증
둘다 외모때문에 기분 나쁠 말 들을테
위에 있는 댓글 처럼
그냥 이뻐서 그래요 그게 죄라면 죄임
관심 또는 작업 and 질투임 아니면 그냥 개념이 없던가;;
한일 혼혈 이면 듣는 소리
1. 독도는 누구땅???
2.니네나라로 돌아가
3.니네 조상 도요토미 히데요시지??
4. 한국이 좋아 일본이 좋아?
5. 우끼끼
이렇게 아름다운분이 한국에 계시다니~!^^
Nice videos! thanks for posting.
I totally get you. I moved to US when I was 14 and felt that I was treated differently. I now know that it was not so much based on my race but rather my culture and behavior. Many Koreans still view non-Koreans with tinted glass. (But not necessarily in negative way) Be strong! You are a beautiful Korean to me.
Thanks a lot for Your video. I'm originally from South Korea but I live in Germany for a while and I am German now. Nevertheless many Germans ask me where I am from etc. Same things like what You are talking about. This is everywhere similar except You live in a country where many races live together (e.g. USA).
So You don't have to react like O-Ren Ishiis from Kill Bill when You are asked like that. But I'm totally agree with You. It is very uncomfortable for people like us to be asked like that.
The hybrid comments actually offend me the most. Stop fetishizing mixed individuals.
I feel u sis, I'm also what they call "half breed". I'm an Indonesian, my father is Belgian and my mother is Indonesian but I was born and grow up in Indonesia. People here are pretty much like people in South Korea although maybe not as annoying as people in SK 😂. In here they at least ask those questions correctly without offending us. I'm a nationalist at the same time so it really much hurts me when the so called "real Indonesian" judges me. I was even wishing to be born not from a mixed family but from a pure Indonesian family back in the day :(. So yeah, it is quite hard to be half-breed because we just sometimes feel not accepted in our own country that we grow up and love just like any other people. This video is really good. Thanks for speaking up :)
무식하고 열등감에 쩐 사람은 어디나 있고 이쁜 사람은 더 타겟이 되요. 무시하고 좋은 사람들 골라서 만나면 되요 ㅠㅠ