I felt the same as you, brother... But with a couple of months of understanding myself and knowing what I really want, I've come to the conclusion that chasing is not a bad thing IF you do it with the right person. Chasing after people who don't value you, your jokes, your efforts, your time/money, etc is never worth it... On the other hand, spending money, time, making silly jokes and putting all effort on the right person will be very well received right away. That person is still out there waiting for you. Take care
If the rejections would be respectful: (hey, can I buy you a drink? No thank you, I appreciate the offer, but im good.) If that would be the way it is, more of us would be okay rejections. But at this point, we are one shout away from going to jail for SA/SH that it ain't worth it
I went speed dating once, liked several, also matched with a few. I asked them out the next weekend, on the day got a text that she wouldn't be coming as there was no point because she had a "better offer". Dating for women is like shopping, dating for men is like a job interview.
Exactly. How can that first woman who is complaining that men don't pursue anymore possibly be serious?! Women: "Leave us alone!" Men: "OK." Women: "Why aren't you chasing us?" (Men: "G.F. Yourselves.")
I was persistent! 30 years ago!!! 😂 All I got from that was a cease note from the town council to stop "stalking" or else they would press criminal charges! 🤦♂️ That was 30 years ago!!! Never again!
We stopped chasing bc we realized, we're the prize. We're the home owners, we're the ones bringing in the bacon. We bring them in our home to warm our beds, cook, clean & have our kids. And for that we provide food, shelter & protection & all we ask for is your loyalty & peace at home.
If Brady cannot stay married you can imagine how hard it is for a common man. Don’t marry, don’t chase. Have nothing to do with these 304’s they eventually destroy your life
@@historicbeef OH! YES! That too!! That's even better than my answer. My answer was the #1 reason, before all the #MeToo and "toxic masculinity" propaganda of the Feminazi movement bumped it to 2nd place. Now it's definitely fear of being arrested, jailed, fined, having your entire life, career, and reputation destroyed beyond repair.... or worse.. all because we men DARED to approach, smile, or speak to a female without an express, gold-trimmed, engraved invitation citing 14 different forms of "consent".
Lol... Wanna know why I don't date anymore? Most of my life I've been invisible to people. A few years ago, I was walking through Walmart and three women, hit me with their carts... Now, I'm over 6 foot tall and at the time I was wearing a bright white hoodie. It's not as though I was inconspicuous. But to be treated like I wasn't even there... Yeah. It REALLY drove their point home. I LITERALLY had to stop and ask one of the Walmart employees if she could see me... It made me question my own existence.
😂 yeah bro I feel you, saame here, and I'm 6'4 300lbs mind you! Many a woman fell back from collision as I stopped evading out of the way. I just stop and intentionally look down on my smartphone 3 feet before to avoid assault allegations. 😂 It's precious to watch them vent afterwards - just to be met with my cold "well, you should have watched your way missy! I'm not responsible for your comfort!" 😂
For me it was the 90's when I was involved in a mixed gender conversation about exercise and I said to one girl; " You are in good shape" and I was told ; " I should not notice her shape".
One of the most frustrating things about American women, they have this strange obsession with wanting to dictate everything including what men think and like.
I'm a man.. singles events seem like one of the worst possible things to attend. Why would I want to be in a room loaded with desperate, most likely cranky and bitter women who are going to show me clear as day in 2 minutes why they are 30+ and single?
That's a fact. Why should we pay to get rejected right on the spot when we can get rejected without losing a penny? As if these grown girls don't know how hard it is for men who they perceive as "average" to get a simple greeting from them after saying hello.
Yea there is an Asian massage parlor that gives great massages where I live. Beautiful women too. 120 bucks for a 60 minute MASSAGE. Wayyyyyyy more affordable.
Exactly...you're chasing something that you don't really want.... Like white hat girl.. She's wrong..the girl has to like the guy more than he likes her or it'll never work
I was persistent! 30 years ago!!! 😂 All I got from that was a cease note from the town council to stop "stalking" or else they would press criminal charges! 🤦♂️ That was 30 years ago!!! Never again!
"The guy has to like a girl just a little bit more.." Sure wish I wouid have followed that in my youth because in my failed relationships, I loved the girl way too much and got crushed emotionally and financially for my efforts. Lessons learned and have been in a solid relationship with myself the past 7 years.
10:26 Men don't want to approach groups of women because he doesn't get to talk to the ONE he is interested in, all the others in the group will interrupt and interject their disapproval. The man has to impress ALL of the women, which he will NEVER do, because the others feel rejected he didn't choose them over you and will find any little thing to insult him about and talk you out of giving him a chance. Single women keeping other women SINGLE.
What that woman doesn't understand, is that if men were to try and pursue a woman like her father did with her mother, that man would be labeled a stalker, a predator, lose his job and probably face a custodial prison sentence.
Well also there were clear social rules on dating standards so women had sense to at least figure it was interest first rather than a guy wanting to make her a lamp shade in his basement. Awkwardness shyness was assumed first before creepy perv. Now that is not guaranteed.
Society has taught women to treat us like trash and we are tired of it and we don’t know if we will be excepted or called a creep so we just try to find a safe lady to persue
@@lostsignal4359 in different countries, too! One woman I met who traveled a lot to exotic places was paying for it by secretly escorting online with random rich dudes all over the map. Crazy times.
They want men to chase and be persistent but still retain the option to drop them on a whim. Once women learn to show appreciation and reciprocation for the effort men put in, men might pursue again, until then nothings gonna change.
You hit the nail on the head when you said "if you're not their type it's harassment but if you are it's romantic". This sums up the reason why a lot of men have lost confidence in approaching women and talking to them. The other issue is the fact that women are way too materialistic nowadays and want a celebrity lifestyle like they see on social media , luxurious houses , designer clothes and luxury cars. This is all show and isn't the basis for a long happy relationship.
Her Dad lived in a very different world. The risk vs reward was worth it. Now, the odds are worse than Russian roulette. Instead of playing with one chamber with a bullet, now it's one chamber that's empty.
Ladies, let me share some advice that was given to me about 20 years ago, The 3 F's of life, follow this advice if you want to prosper as a man. If it Flies, Floats, or F--ks, your better off renting it.
Many of you wouldn't give the average guy a chance when they're young. And when they're on their decline, they expect us to scoop them up at singles events. No, thank you!
Vastly underrated concept in this sphere. Not only that but he has to he her Chad. We talk about Chads as objective phenotypes like tall guys, with money, skinny, good cheekbones etc, but Chad can also be highly contextual to a given specific woman
@@RAMIR3Z0 Because I lived it. It took me a long time to figure out that it was a pattern of abandonment after a few months of dating them because they wanted a guy with more money. It didn’t matter how much I cared for them at all.
Bro, I kid you not, I was on a dating app a few months ago browsing, and some of em were like ''The best way to ask me out is: Force me'' Like I cannot make this shit up bro.
00:57 "When was the pivotal moment when men stop pursuing girls?" Me "probably when the restraining order hit" (Sorry bad joke, I'll see myself out, probably not the crowd for jokes) 😂😂😂😅
I don’t want kids, so I can’t be controlled. What’s that saying? “The one with nothing to lose” and subsequently i have even less use for these goblins, i play the same game, i leave it at nothing but a fleeting desire that’s all they are for me, just a toy i quickly get bored with. They can go back to whatever casting couch they limped away from. If you try to reason with them you will end up the same way they are. I’m proud to be masculine unapologetic sexy stallion. I never allowed myself to be corrupted, no matter how many stones they kept throwing at me now they are all high on crack selling themselves and i am on my way to becoming an entrepreneur little by little
The moment men stopped chasing is the moment men realised there's no point in chasing. If she likes you, she'll make things easy. If she doesn't, no amount of work will change that. So why chase? It's not like the modern woman is some paragon that enriches mens lives, hell the woman asking this question in the first place is barely coherent. Also, there is no "Long haul" with most women these days. You made relationships transactional which makes them temporary, no reason to invest in any woman that is already too damaged to be worth investing in.
They are literally children. Literally. They brag in elementary school about being more mature and stay in that phase forever. They should be embarrassed of themselves
A guy who's persistent these days is known as a stalker. If a woman says no, and the man wants to follow his heart and keep trying, he'll find himself in jail with a felony stalking record. Thank metoo and believe all women.
After my divorce, my ex-wife told me she was discouraged to find very few men showing up at social clubs that were in her target age, 35-45. She said there were a lot of men age 55 and up, but she wasn’t looking or interested in those. I’ve heard women 45 to early 50’s say they would like to meet men her age, but the most available men were considerably younger and they just wanted a one night stand and that was it.
If you want peace in mind the one thing you need to do is forgive the people that hurt you, I’m not talking about saying it to them but to yourself believe me this is the way to become peaceful to and for yourself
I used to go to singles events but after a few times I AM REALLY fed up. The women have ONLY demands, besides they don't even want to talk to you. So, why waste time, money and good mood. Gentlemen, stay single and go your own way: safe your life. By the way, I live in Milan, Italy.
I heard they're going to a job fair. You sit there, and all they want to know is how much you make. And God forbid if you aren't meeting their high expectations for what they deem attractive.
4:15 - she doesn't want a man talking to multiple women but if you don't have any other women interested in you, she won't want you because she'll assume something is wrong with you. So, you have to have every woman want you, ignore them all except her... for some reason? I can't figure out what that reason was though? What was special about her again?
Respectfully, your female picker was dysfunctional. I know it's slim pickings, but there are still good ones out there. Furthermore, we get what we tolerate.
Honestly something I can't stand that I keep running into, is when you take a girl out to lunch or dinner or coffee and you want to spend time with them, but they're glued to their phone, like if I'm going to be keeping myself company then I may as well have just taken myself out and it would have cost me half the price, and on a side note, what annoys me even more is when they sit on their phone when they're in your company but when you message them, it takes 3-14 business days to get a reply💀💀💀
@tyvillianheartthrob1856 Yep why waist time trying to please the American Woman, when she will have 5 guys on the side. And you get nothing in return. We done playing that game. ✈️
Exactly, imagine if a guy crying like this they would call him wimp/simp/mommas boy/ incel/ creep/ loser/ crazy/ weird and still there is more. “Not your mommy” is one i heard alot that they used to belittle anyone who would even bring up the topic of dating. Not even saying anything wrong only initiating it they would go “you should see a therapist for x reason” over a simple thought provoking question. So my response to these goblins would the that men are not their daddies nor their therapists. I just play the same games and copy everything they say basically, and treat them like mindless cattle aswell
@@calvaootaku-tb8nq Bingo! It’s took me way too long to understand this. In all these videos, they aren’t pining for we 90%, but rather the top 10% instead. That’s why dating is broken.
I’m their age but look 15 yrs younger because I took good care of myself, wore sunblock daily since my 20’s (the sun causes most skin aging), am very fit, look good in the face, and am 6’4’’ with very good income. Can one of these women even give me a single good reason as to why I should go there when I can easily date a hotter girl who is 23 with way less emotional baggage? These women can’t even sell it to men their age. 😂
I live in a college city and the folks here are women primarily 18-28, why would I even settle down when every year there's a new graduating class and baby, that's a whole new team! Lmao. These women spent their prime not understanding they're on a strict time limit both physically and in the dating market. They think they'll have the same treatment forever despite being told their entire lives they're on a clock. Even if we gave a 50 year old single childless woman her youth back, she would do nothing differently assuming she gets her youth back a second time...idk, adult women act less mature than some teen age girls. Its like they get to a certain age and start to regress...
13:06 What's missing when you have a great day is, someone who actually cares, to share your achievement with. When was my "light bulb" moment? When my now ex-wife cheated while I was deployed to Afghanistan and handed me divorce papers when I returned. Haven't allowed another woman to get close enough to even attempt to tear down the wall I built around myself in almost 30 years. Now I come and go as I please, spend my money on what I want, do things I like and want to do, and have no one to answer to for it. The PEACE is heavenly.
Did you also realize that you fought for the wrong team? After we were sent packing, the Tallee Bann promptly washed out all the American philth, drugs, and pheminism in only two years. Now it's a sane place, where men and women have proper roles and relations restored.
Why are we allowing women to tell us… about us. Makes no sense. She says… if a man is talking to multiple women he’s insecure. No he’s not sunshine, he’s looking for his best options. It’s you that’s insecure. He’s looking for someone to SHARE his life, stay for the long haul, bring quality energy to the relationship, and not rob him of his life’s work.
Also hypercritical, she is "talking" to multiple men... I don't think that she means, we shouldn't talk to our sisters, but that _is_ what she said, men take women too literally! Some men are not "playing a game", there are other human beings in the World, apart from her.
Well I also don’t think that men who date multiple people are really trying to find anyone to share their life with either. The chads, as with all men now, also realize that marrying women is clearly the dumbest thing you can do. It’s a pretty United front and it’s driving women crazy. It’s hilarious.
Not worth the hassle. Not worth the money. Not worth the pain. As a 44 year old man im left with nothing but single mothers. Im not gonna get into it but im happy now being single. Ive been alone for so long now im at complete ease by myself. I own my my home and Have a small buiness, and my dog JaG. Were happy Af.
Never ever forget that women drop at least 4 points (usually many more) on the looks scale when they remove all the make-up, false eyelashes,, fake tans and all the other fakery. Most are unrecognisable. And these are the people who are judging us on our height & looks. Me? I'm done with women. I'm middle-aged and I live on my own. I have hobbies, great food, beer and creature comforts. That's enough for me.
Did you see the series of reactions, when the men actually compared their date, to the image on the profile? It was horrific, there was very little similarity, for any of them, and they had the audacity to complain!
They expect us to work 10xs harder than my great grandfather had to, just to get a woman who is just 10% of what my great grandmother was!
10% I think ur giving a generous amount
Hoeflation baby
@@TheBlaster069facts bro
@TheBlaster069 I most definitely was being generous, but I think the bottom line point was still made, don't u think?
👏 👏 👏 👏 💯 💯
I stopped chasing when the only person I truly loved cheated, broke my heart and told me everything I was saying was fake.
Hey same
You're not alone.
That will do it to ya. Hopefully you weren’t married.
I felt the same as you, brother... But with a couple of months of understanding myself and knowing what I really want, I've come to the conclusion that chasing is not a bad thing IF you do it with the right person. Chasing after people who don't value you, your jokes, your efforts, your time/money, etc is never worth it... On the other hand, spending money, time, making silly jokes and putting all effort on the right person will be very well received right away. That person is still out there waiting for you. Take care
Same
The difference between evicting a possum from under your house and a woman from your house is - a possum can't sue you and take your house.
Possum are quiet, inoffensive and don't bite. Women? Ehh...not so much.
Possum also take care of mice and roaches without screaming for a man.
Possums are cuter too
Bro respect the possum please 😂
Also the possum isn't going to accuse you of physical/sexual abuse and never let you see your kids.
And possums are pretty mellow
It shifted when ladies started calling us creeps when we would talk to them, acted like girl bosses and treated men like a free meal.
I agree. Women say they want men to approach them, but only the ones that they consider handsome. Otherwise you're creepy.
If the rejections would be respectful: (hey, can I buy you a drink? No thank you, I appreciate the offer, but im good.) If that would be the way it is, more of us would be okay rejections. But at this point, we are one shout away from going to jail for SA/SH that it ain't worth it
That wasn't a singles event. It was a step-dad audition.
Step dads get stepped on
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The difference is that men get into a relationship for love while women get into a relationship for business!
Not always some man also get in it for sex (I agree with you) but let's look at from all the Angeles
We got the message. You don't need no man. Now leave us alone.
AMEN
That part bullseye 🎯💯
Exactly. Feminism destroyed women and turned them into nothing but trash. Men aren't interested in trash.
Boom
Korrectamundo. ❤😊
I went speed dating once, liked several, also matched with a few. I asked them out the next weekend, on the day got a text that she wouldn't be coming as there was no point because she had a "better offer".
Dating for women is like shopping, dating for men is like a job interview.
@joebloggs24 Remember to bring your W2 duct taped to your chest.
Exacto 😅 i agree....cheers from mexico
To the white-hat girl:
Men be persistent... men get arrested
Exactly on point, then they will go online and make sure you lose your job, house, etc.
It used to be called being persistent, now it's called stalking.
What is it called when a woman "talks" to multiple men?
Not to mention her umpa lumpa complexion.
Or falsely accused of SA
It's simple, I like keeping what I worked for...like my house.
Truth
@@nem447 & 🫰🏽
Ladies, you asked for this. You got it. Dont complain.
Exactly. How can that first woman who is complaining that men don't pursue anymore possibly be serious?!
Women: "Leave us alone!"
Men: "OK."
Women: "Why aren't you chasing us?"
(Men: "G.F. Yourselves.")
@@unsettledonpurposeshe would definitely say eeeww out loud and call it creepy and predatory. Victimizing herself etc, we’ve seen it all before
@@unsettledonpurpose i thought that was Trump.
@@unsettledonpurposeIf you are Chad, Jose, or Tyrone then they want the attention
@@gabhug-rl3ix The quote is actually from Musk towards Bob Iger.
2:00 "my father was persistant" today he could have faced some special complain, that's the heart of the problem.
You mean, today her dad would be labelled as a Creepy stalker and then get accused of Harassment and SA?
I was persistent! 30 years ago!!! 😂 All I got from that was a cease note from the town council to stop "stalking" or else they would press criminal charges! 🤦♂️ That was 30 years ago!!! Never again!
We stopped chasing bc we realized, we're the prize. We're the home owners, we're the ones bringing in the bacon. We bring them in our home to warm our beds, cook, clean & have our kids. And for that we provide food, shelter & protection & all we ask for is your loyalty & peace at home.
Correctly
I stopped chasing because trying to make a woman happy is like trying to fill a bottomless pit!
If Brady cannot stay married you can imagine how hard it is for a common man. Don’t marry, don’t chase. Have nothing to do with these 304’s they eventually destroy your life
@@sunnypai4031 How true.
The Hat Lady has so much makeup on it gives horror movie vibes like right before she springs forward and the fangs come out 😮
I'm not afraid of rejection. I'm just sick and tired of it. Enough. No more, thank you.
Man you said it PERFECTLY
I am not afraid of rejection, I am afraid of being falsely accused and being thrown in jail for smiling.
@@historicbeef
OH! YES! That too!! That's even better than my answer.
My answer was the #1 reason, before all the #MeToo and "toxic masculinity" propaganda of the Feminazi movement bumped it to 2nd place. Now it's definitely fear of being arrested, jailed, fined, having your entire life, career, and reputation destroyed beyond repair.... or worse.. all because we men DARED to approach, smile, or speak to a female without an express, gold-trimmed, engraved invitation citing 14 different forms of "consent".
Amen brother! You said a lot in few words...
Being sick and tired of it is better than being scared of it 💯
Lol...
Wanna know why I don't date anymore?
Most of my life I've been invisible to people. A few years ago, I was walking through Walmart and three women, hit me with their carts...
Now, I'm over 6 foot tall and at the time I was wearing a bright white hoodie. It's not as though I was inconspicuous. But to be treated like I wasn't even there... Yeah. It REALLY drove their point home.
I LITERALLY had to stop and ask one of the Walmart employees if she could see me... It made me question my own existence.
😂 yeah bro I feel you, saame here, and I'm 6'4 300lbs mind you! Many a woman fell back from collision as I stopped evading out of the way. I just stop and intentionally look down on my smartphone 3 feet before to avoid assault allegations. 😂 It's precious to watch them vent afterwards - just to be met with my cold "well, you should have watched your way missy! I'm not responsible for your comfort!" 😂
We. Are. No. Longer. Interested. In. What. You. Are. Offering.
Change.
What exactly are they offering? That's what I want to know...lol
Financial ruin?
@@andypaulocelli109Right? 😂
They have nothing to offer.
Amen
For me it was the 90's when I was involved in a mixed gender conversation about exercise and I said to one girl; " You are in good shape" and I was told ; " I should not notice her shape".
"..I'm an attractive.." , sweetheart, it's not up to you to decide, it's up to men.
Without the makeup & filters?
One of the most frustrating things about American women, they have this strange obsession with wanting to dictate everything including what men think and like.
This made me laugh so much. If orange pancake face girl said that, has she looked in the mirror 😂
@@ericpode6095 right only a 3rd thru and filters and probably 20mm of makeup ugh so fake
also attractive isnt on looks alone. 10 in looks shitty personality your a 2, a 6th whos genuine and nice 20
Peace, respect and loyalty. Woman loyalty is so important. Woman use dating apps and Instagram, and chat with a lot of guys is a red flag.
Let's translate it when a women says "she is single by choice - means - I can't get Chad to stay".
That's it exactly..
@@accolontoss318 well she never said it was her choice
Chad or Tyrone
Or nobody is interested to play games😂
Date & Dump Night. Same night.
I'm a man.. singles events seem like one of the worst possible things to attend. Why would I want to be in a room loaded with desperate, most likely cranky and bitter women who are going to show me clear as day in 2 minutes why they are 30+ and single?
Dating is a waste of time and money.
Better to learn how to trigger her Chad reflex and get it for free
And mental health. Not to mention, nobody has time for anything nowadays.
That's a fact. Why should we pay to get rejected right on the spot when we can get rejected without losing a penny? As if these grown girls don't know how hard it is for men who they perceive as "average" to get a simple greeting from them after saying hello.
The biggest waste of time & money in history.
If you are an App developer, it must be very lucrative!
I can rent an evening if I want to.
Plus, my dogs and technology never give me issues. So, um, yeah.
Yea there is an Asian massage parlor that gives great massages where I live. Beautiful women too. 120 bucks for a 60 minute MASSAGE.
Wayyyyyyy more affordable.
1:53 These days if a man 'chases' a woman and is "persistent" he can be accused of and charged with harassment. You aren't worth the risk anymore.
Several men have posted the reason why..& she'll ignore every single one of them
She wonders when "it shifted." It shifted with the 19th amendment. As L.O.M. says, they did it to themselves.
Prolly do jail time for it too and no woman is worth that
Facts
She’s losing it
I stopped chasing because there was no point in catching.
Catching is like catching a grenade..
Exactly...you're chasing something that you don't really want....
Like white hat girl..
She's wrong..the girl has to like the guy more than he likes her or it'll never work
Well put
You'll only end up catching a case, an std, or a leech 😂
Right, why would we chase something that wants to b!tch about everything and then take our stuff when they leave??
Back in the 80’s I went to a singles event . 300 men, and 6 women !
😂😂😂
We were told by women to just let them live their life and stop bothering them out in public and we did. So thanks that really takes the pressure off.
And if a woman say "No" you should respect her. That's what they told you ! So, whats the point ladys... You say no ? Than next one.
The freedom is glorious!
@@eigenvalue-4272 asia alot old time women and girls raise for the long haul.
I actually want them to work in my place so i can do nothing. Idc care about anything, won’t be having kids so I won’t be held hostage
One woman said "No", we were brought up to respect a womans wishes, so it's "NO" from now on, for all women.
I was persistent! 30 years ago!!! 😂 All I got from that was a cease note from the town council to stop "stalking" or else they would press criminal charges! 🤦♂️ That was 30 years ago!!! Never again!
It’s not about putting in effort,it’s about being called a stalker and a creep.
That is sad. These women are reaping what they sowed. Terribly unkind. However, there must be some traditional women out there somewhere?
"The guy has to like a girl just a little bit more.."
Sure wish I wouid have followed that in my youth because in my failed relationships, I loved the girl way too much and got crushed emotionally and financially for my efforts.
Lessons learned and have been in a solid relationship with myself the past 7 years.
What happened
I don't need a man
Don't talk to me
Divorce laws
Family laws
You played yourselves
Good luck
Here’s what happened…we’ve won! My proof…who’s our next president💯😂
Exactly pluss social media and internet and lack of nice responsive behavior!
Dont forget promiscuity.
The risk outweighs the rewards.
As they say the juice ain't worth the effort it takes to squeeze.
10:26 Men don't want to approach groups of women because he doesn't get to talk to the ONE he is interested in, all the others in the group will interrupt and interject their disapproval. The man has to impress ALL of the women, which he will NEVER do, because the others feel rejected he didn't choose them over you and will find any little thing to insult him about and talk you out of giving him a chance. Single women keeping other women SINGLE.
Ahh. A brother with actual experience in the trenches. You nailed it brother 🤜🤛
Ya men figure this out quickly at a young age. These women are getting dumber every year I swear to God 😂
Crabs in a bucket.
It’s like they are attending a play you are scheduled to play in, and your life and potential future is the setting
me and my bros just happened to talk about this particular problem yesterday lmao.
What that woman doesn't understand, is that if men were to try and pursue a woman like her father did with her mother, that man would be labeled a stalker, a predator, lose his job and probably face a custodial prison sentence.
As an old female coworker of mine said, " Girls dont want to be chased anymore." So we stopped chasing.
I’ve met too many women that don’t respect themselves❗️ I guess that’s why I’m single
2:00 girl your dad would be in jail for life if he tried that today! You ladies killed it!
Well also there were clear social rules on dating standards so women had sense to at least figure it was interest first rather than a guy wanting to make her a lamp shade in his basement. Awkwardness shyness was assumed first before creepy perv. Now that is not guaranteed.
You can’t rationalize with the irrational. It just doesn’t compute
Society has taught women to treat us like trash and we are tired of it and we don’t know if we will be excepted or called a creep so we just try to find a safe lady to persue
Women boasting about traveling a lot are red flags.
Yeah just means they getting pumped and dumped in different states lol
In my experience there are 3 types of women who travel: Already married, coming back alone & not coming back at all...
"This year I want to travel more!"
Homeless and broke*
@@lostsignal4359 in different countries, too! One woman I met who traveled a lot to exotic places was paying for it by secretly escorting online with random rich dudes all over the map. Crazy times.
Hobbies are way more rewarding and budget friendly than modern women 🎉
I'd be lieing if i didnt say i felt lonely from time to time...but it sure as hell beats paying alimony and child support 😂
Paying alimony and child support and still be lonely!
I feel the same brother
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Lol that reminder always resets my brain ..true
Oh God my big brother got a chick pregnant and child support only left him $20 a week to live on.
Everyone trains himself to love himself, but noone trains to be nice to others. This is a narcissism epidemic.
They want men to chase and be persistent but still retain the option to drop them on a whim. Once women learn to show appreciation and reciprocation for the effort men put in, men might pursue again, until then nothings gonna change.
That may take nearly a century
@tyvillianheartthrob1856 yea very likely
News flash, they'll never learn. Just walk away..
The Chad overstimulation opportunity would have to go away. Don’t count on it.
@@CeeTee-12345 They learn. When they hit the wall !!!
These are the type of ladies that will get mad at passport bros 😂.
2:50 You can blame feminism. The old generation had traditional women that were worth the chase. This generation doesn't.
Dare to dig a bit deeper. Who started and instituted feminism? There is a solid answer but, they are heavily protected by UT ube.
Truth
Extra-strength Truth is bloxxed.
Amen!
No woman is worth "chasing". So tired of that cliche. Just move on.
You hit the nail on the head when you said "if you're not their type it's harassment but if you are it's romantic". This sums up the reason why a lot of men have lost confidence in approaching women and talking to them. The other issue is the fact that women are way too materialistic nowadays and want a celebrity lifestyle like they see on social media , luxurious houses , designer clothes and luxury cars. This is all show and isn't the basis for a long happy relationship.
Your dad went through all that and you're the result 😂
If a guy was as "persistent" as her Dad was, she'd call the cops!! That's what's changed!!!
Not really because the women back then were way better..
I actually believe, she literally made that up !! Don’t believe women’s specially the western ones.
Her Dad lived in a very different world. The risk vs reward was worth it. Now, the odds are worse than Russian roulette. Instead of playing with one chamber with a bullet, now it's one chamber that's empty.
Good point!😂
Ladies, let me share some advice that was given to me about 20 years ago,
The 3 F's of life, follow this advice if you want to prosper as a man. If it Flies, Floats, or F--ks, your better off renting it.
Many of you wouldn't give the average guy a chance when they're young. And when they're on their decline, they expect us to scoop them up at singles events. No, thank you!
I've experienced this, too!@JerseyGrove1995
@JerseyGrove1995 I've experienced this too!
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@jonathanmichaelsmith9012 🙂
They forget that men have a memory, we do not forgive, we do not forget, we are not interested in fakery.
Holding a door open for a woman - sexism
Not holding a door open for a woman - misogyny
Some of us do appreciate it and will say thank you. Just not many of us.
01:40 NO that's not how that works. The WOMAN needs to like the man more than the man likes her or the relationship is doomed to expire.
Absolute truth
I’m afraid you’re right. Otherwise, she will leave eventually. Ask me how I know…
Vastly underrated concept in this sphere. Not only that but he has to he her Chad. We talk about Chads as objective phenotypes like tall guys, with money, skinny, good cheekbones etc, but Chad can also be highly contextual to a given specific woman
@@chamberlain323 How do you know?
@@RAMIR3Z0 Because I lived it. It took me a long time to figure out that it was a pattern of abandonment after a few months of dating them because they wanted a guy with more money. It didn’t matter how much I cared for them at all.
Bro, I kid you not, I was on a dating app a few months ago browsing, and some of em were like
''The best way to ask me out is: Force me''
Like I cannot make this shit up bro.
Friendly advice, drop the 'like' filler word. It'll grate with anyone with middling cognative abilities who is reasonably articulate.
@@nickgood8166do you own a weighted blanket?
Why are they obsessed with recording everything they do? They're not interesting.
For some reason, THEY think they're interesting..lol
Severe character flaw, and not a nice one.
@@andypaulocelli109 you gotta thank the desperate men for making them think theyre interesting goddesses 😂
I'm tired of hearing women complain about wanting to have their cake and eat it too.
It's just so... exhausting.
I’ll keep what I worked for!
00:57 "When was the pivotal moment when men stop pursuing girls?"
Me "probably when the restraining order hit"
(Sorry bad joke, I'll see myself out, probably not the crowd for jokes) 😂😂😂😅
That was a great joke Josh, don't see yourself out!
Yea man! That was funny as hell!! 😂😂😂
The cons outweigh the pros by a mile. It's just not worth it anymore.
Be safe everyone. Unlike women, I want good things for you all..
The Pros _are_ the Cons, we lose both ways.
Hold the Line.
Love isn't always on time!!
@@jinn91LOL! I ACTUALLY said the SAME THING! (The messed up thing is that it's actually accurate and true these days)
@@calvinsparrow9829 I couldn't help myself that was my first thought seeing the comment 🤣
I don’t want kids, so I can’t be controlled. What’s that saying? “The one with nothing to lose” and subsequently i have even less use for these goblins, i play the same game, i leave it at nothing but a fleeting desire that’s all they are for me, just a toy i quickly get bored with. They can go back to whatever casting couch they limped away from. If you try to reason with them you will end up the same way they are. I’m proud to be masculine unapologetic sexy stallion. I never allowed myself to be corrupted, no matter how many stones they kept throwing at me now they are all high on crack selling themselves and i am on my way to becoming an entrepreneur little by little
HOLD!!!
The moment men stopped chasing is the moment men realised there's no point in chasing. If she likes you, she'll make things easy. If she doesn't, no amount of work will change that. So why chase? It's not like the modern woman is some paragon that enriches mens lives, hell the woman asking this question in the first place is barely coherent.
Also, there is no "Long haul" with most women these days. You made relationships transactional which makes them temporary, no reason to invest in any woman that is already too damaged to be worth investing in.
They are literally children. Literally. They brag in elementary school about being more mature and stay in that phase forever. They should be embarrassed of themselves
2:34 I love it when a woman gets to the point. It’s my favorite part
They don't want the man, or even the relationship, they want the ego boost from being able to reject the man, period
And the divorce money
@@taztaz6539 But that comes later, after they "settle" for the money target
A guy who's persistent these days is known as a stalker. If a woman says no, and the man wants to follow his heart and keep trying, he'll find himself in jail with a felony stalking record. Thank metoo and believe all women.
After my divorce, my ex-wife told me she was discouraged to find very few men showing up at social clubs that were in her target age, 35-45. She said there were a lot of men age 55 and up, but she wasn’t looking or interested in those. I’ve heard women 45 to early 50’s say they would like to meet men her age, but the most available men were considerably younger and they just wanted a one night stand and that was it.
Some young men like cougars because the risk of pregnancy is very close to zero, depending on her age.
Why the hell is your divorced ex talking about other men to you? Wtf... Disappear from her.
If you want peace in mind the one thing you need to do is forgive the people that hurt you, I’m not talking about saying it to them but to yourself
believe me this is the way to become peaceful to and for yourself
Well persistence is considered harrasment so when told no we leave
That is exactly what they asked for, publicly. "No", means: "NO", forever.
If Ur A Woman/Girl, And Ur Online Complaining About Men, Guys, Boys, Remember, They Aren't The Problem. You Are.. Think Before Speaking.
Single by choice
Translation: The men she wants, don't want her.
They want atm 🏧
‘The Aries is the villain in me’
Yea we know why that one’s single.
Tattoos are a big no!
Nose piercings also red flag.
Taylor swift fan is huge no!
Hate to say it. But it’s usually a first warning sign. Especially flowers. 🌺 butterflies. 🦋 or wild animal.
And rings in your nose. Very unattractive. Shows the mark of wokeness.
Meh that’s a matter of preference.
Nowadays persistence catches you charges quite literally
I used to go to singles events but after a few times I AM REALLY fed up. The women have ONLY demands, besides they don't even want to talk to you. So, why waste time, money and good mood. Gentlemen, stay single and go your own way: safe your life.
By the way, I live in Milan, Italy.
Italy. Once the land of Sophia Loren, Gina Lolobrigida, Claudia Cardinale, and many others. How far you have fallen.
Same in Poland. Good luck, nontheless!
Only one visible reply? The tribe is keeping a tight zipper on this thread.
@@grzegorzd8523 thanks!
I heard they're going to a job fair. You sit there, and all they want to know is how much you make. And God forbid if you aren't meeting their high expectations for what they deem attractive.
4:15 - she doesn't want a man talking to multiple women but if you don't have any other women interested in you, she won't want you because she'll assume something is wrong with you. So, you have to have every woman want you, ignore them all except her... for some reason? I can't figure out what that reason was though? What was special about her again?
I wasn’t good enough for them in their prime and they’re not good enough for me now!
Throughout my 50 years, every time I lived with a woman everything I ever did was wrong. Without a woman I'm never wrong, which would you pick?
Respectfully, your female picker was dysfunctional. I know it's slim pickings, but there are still good ones out there.
Furthermore, we get what we tolerate.
and why did you choose those wmn to begin with? why did you accept such behaviour?
Women love talking about effort but don't know what it means.
This comes down to women are angry because they love to play games and men who are OK without women because we hate the games.
Honestly something I can't stand that I keep running into, is when you take a girl out to lunch or dinner or coffee and you want to spend time with them, but they're glued to their phone, like if I'm going to be keeping myself company then I may as well have just taken myself out and it would have cost me half the price, and on a side note, what annoys me even more is when they sit on their phone when they're in your company but when you message them, it takes 3-14 business days to get a reply💀💀💀
We men have given up.
Only in American women, that is
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Given up? Or have we smartened up?
@tyvillianheartthrob1856
Yep why waist time trying to please the American Woman, when she will have 5 guys on the side. And you get nothing in return. We done playing that game.
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Most men's eyes are open now. The next goal is to educate those men whose eyes are still blindfolded. Stop simping. If they persist, commence shaming.
@BlackPill-pu4vi
Yep let the shaming begin
The main problem with this video is:
Women WANT equality.... but ONLY when it suits THEM!
(drops mic 🎤)
😎
1:11 yall not worth the time nowadays
Or the effort or the expense
@taztaz6539 exactly
When a woman says "no" men say "okay."
Can't all these women just concentrate on the top 10% of men and leave the rest of us alone? Is that too much to ask for?
Exactly, imagine if a guy crying like this they would call him wimp/simp/mommas boy/ incel/ creep/ loser/ crazy/ weird and still there is more. “Not your mommy” is one i heard alot that they used to belittle anyone who would even bring up the topic of dating. Not even saying anything wrong only initiating it they would go “you should see a therapist for x reason” over a simple thought provoking question. So my response to these goblins would the that men are not their daddies nor their therapists. I just play the same games and copy everything they say basically, and treat them like mindless cattle aswell
They already are. When they say men, they mean chad.
@@calvaootaku-tb8nq Bingo! It’s took me way too long to understand this. In all these videos, they aren’t pining for we 90%, but rather the top 10% instead. That’s why dating is broken.
@@calvaootaku-tb8nqthe rest of us don't even register as "men." Underrated concept!!
@@calvaootaku-tb8nq educate me what is a chad
Another issue is men pay more for speed dating as all attendees pay for the event but if you tell them you're male you pay 10% more to cover the cost.
I’m their age but look 15 yrs younger because I took good care of myself, wore sunblock daily since my 20’s (the sun causes most skin aging), am very fit, look good in the face, and am 6’4’’ with very good income. Can one of these women even give me a single good reason as to why I should go there when I can easily date a hotter girl who is 23 with way less emotional baggage? These women can’t even sell it to men their age. 😂
I live in a college city and the folks here are women primarily 18-28, why would I even settle down when every year there's a new graduating class and baby, that's a whole new team! Lmao. These women spent their prime not understanding they're on a strict time limit both physically and in the dating market. They think they'll have the same treatment forever despite being told their entire lives they're on a clock.
Even if we gave a 50 year old single childless woman her youth back, she would do nothing differently assuming she gets her youth back a second time...idk, adult women act less mature than some teen age girls. Its like they get to a certain age and start to regress...
No man wants a women his age unless he is under 25
@@davedsilva Amen 💙
@@davedsilvafacts
Women accuse persistent men of being creepy and will wreck his social status, career and reputation
It shifted when yall chose the bear. Sorry but we have to much to lose now and this peace is priceless.
I think that was the last draw. Men have been dealing with a decade straight of insults and accusations and walked away.
We are so done. Good luck, younger ones are born everyday. Maybe when we get back they'll be 18 hopefully, and we'll gladly start a family with them
When a woman says no it means? But if you approach the second time you may get arrested for something that you didn't do. F that!
Back to our mom’s era women didn’t think they were all 10s. And no high body counts plus they didn’t think like they were alphas. Should i keep going?
13:06 What's missing when you have a great day is, someone who actually cares, to share your achievement with. When was my "light bulb" moment? When my now ex-wife cheated while I was deployed to Afghanistan and handed me divorce papers when I returned. Haven't allowed another woman to get close enough to even attempt to tear down the wall I built around myself in almost 30 years. Now I come and go as I please, spend my money on what I want, do things I like and want to do, and have no one to answer to for it. The PEACE is heavenly.
Did you also realize that you fought for the wrong team? After we were sent packing, the Tallee Bann promptly washed out all the American philth, drugs, and pheminism in only two years. Now it's a sane place, where men and women have proper roles and relations restored.
More men are coming to that "light bulb" moment.
We can do a cost to benefit analysis in our heads.
Mingle in the museum you might be history 😂😂😂jokes on you
Time to charge women for these and invite men for free.
In the past no meant try harder, be honest now no means no.
Actually a good idea. I’m Gen X and grew up watching women get nights out for free all the time.
Women will just stop going too in that case
4:46 ma'am. You do not dictate terms. Earn your place on the roster. Defeat your competition. Ascend.
Why are we allowing women to tell us… about us. Makes no sense. She says… if a man is talking to multiple women he’s insecure. No he’s not sunshine, he’s looking for his best options. It’s you that’s insecure. He’s looking for someone to SHARE his life, stay for the long haul, bring quality energy to the relationship, and not rob him of his life’s work.
Also hypercritical, she is "talking" to multiple men...
I don't think that she means, we shouldn't talk to our sisters,
but that _is_ what she said, men take women too literally!
Some men are not "playing a game", there are other human beings in the World, apart from her.
@stpfs9281 😂 very true
@@stpfs9281yeah but that was not his point
Well I also don’t think that men who date multiple people are really trying to find anyone to share their life with either. The chads, as with all men now, also realize that marrying women is clearly the dumbest thing you can do. It’s a pretty United front and it’s driving women crazy. It’s hilarious.
It happens when the false accusations being called creeps, and everything else in between see it, not worth it
These women actually think they can “manifest” men to do things at their whim by constantly complaining on social media…weak😂😂
Electronic Witchcraft
You can't be serious. I mean I use social media outlets but only from a business standpoint. But seriously?
They can manifest the door hitting them on the way out 😂
@asarishepard8171 they can manifest themselves crashing into the wall.
Not worth the hassle. Not worth the money. Not worth the pain. As a 44 year old man im left with nothing but single mothers. Im not gonna get into it but im happy now being single. Ive been alone for so long now im at complete ease by myself. I own my my home and Have a small buiness, and my dog JaG. Were happy Af.
Never ever forget that women drop at least 4 points (usually many more) on the looks scale when they remove all the make-up, false eyelashes,, fake tans and all the other fakery. Most are unrecognisable. And these are the people who are judging us on our height & looks. Me? I'm done with women. I'm middle-aged and I live on my own. I have hobbies, great food, beer and creature comforts. That's enough for me.
Did you see the series of reactions, when the men actually compared their date, to the image on the profile?
It was horrific, there was very little similarity, for any of them, and they had the audacity to complain!
You didn't even mention how they're 20 lbs heavier than the profile photos
@@stpfs9281 No, have you got a link to that video? It sounds fun to watch.