I dated older men to fill the void my father left,forgiving myself &rebuilding my lifeTracy Waithera
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ธ.ค. 2023
- You can’t connect the dots by looking forward, you can only connect them by looking backward ~Steve Jobs
Well, that quote pretty much sums up our episode today with Tracy Waithera. If anything, she has learnt to heal by looking back and asking herself, “Where exactly did I go wrong?
On today’s episode of LNS Rebuilding, she walks us through the void her father left, her desire to become a better version of herself, and why forgiveness takes care of everything
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What is your take home from today's conversation with Tracy?
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Thank you so much for watching🙏
Lynn the show is great but the sound is only good on a handheld device. It is not good on tv. Could your team test out different microphones or editing! Nawapenda ❤
Lynn, Tracy is a vibe and a lady who is destined for bigger things. Those who bodyshame or attempt to judge her do it for their selfish agendas. It's not good to attack another person before you know which areas you have also failed. Natural aspects of a person come from the craft God himself created. Are we, who judge better than those that we judge?The answer is no. Let us embrace empathy and concentrate more on self-care as we manage our expectations. But as it is, you can not gag people from talking about you, but you can choose how you are going to process the information you get from them. It is simply up to you to choose what to do with the backlash.
Tracy, keep on keeping on, with your positive attitude, and leave the rest to those who judge you unfairly even when they don't know you personally. God loves you more than man.
I related to Tracy as if she has been living my life. I was raised by a single mother as well, who loved me, but because of other big issues she was facing at the time, I lacked her affection and attention. I now struggle with shouting every time (because in our household, we communicated by shouting), anger issues, comparison and envy, and being overly competitive. Outside I look as a put together 25 year old girl ( got the abundance from my hard work), determined person, but inside I know that that determination stems from lacking as a child and having to figure life by myself . Now I have a good life (my own car, two plots of land, a degree from US, helped my mother buy a huge house, and now I am trying to pursue a masters degree). However, I am always worried about having to lack basic needs again, and I overwork due to that. Sometimes I fail to recognize the abundance in my life, and sometimes I suffer from being stingy. I am here to be free from that childhood traumas, and believe that if others are free, I can be free , too.
Now i understand why God said that firstborns should be committed to Him. Being a firstborn is not easy,they face alot of challenges and only God can carry them through. It's like the firstborns are the back bone of the family. More grace to you Tracy.
May God bless us all firstborn ❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
We are like parents to the rest of our siblings😢
@@gracemaina673 very true that's why we have always to do things right way so that they can have someone to look at
Emenii dear@@TeresiahMutinda
This is so true..... I've found myself tell God to hold me coz I'm falling down and I can't tell anyone my whatever I'm going through not even my parents
You can copy someone but you can't copy their Grace😍
Really loved that part❤
@@LynnNgugi Profound❤️
My Future Phrase😂😂🥰
Exactly
That was deep❤
waithera is the female version of Jugush .childhood traumas body shamming self esteem kumix Kikuyu na githungu they are extremely amazing
Am Ugandan and I subscribed to Lynn to improve on my English speaking but it has helped me discover who I am and rebuilding my inner self more ,more and more
I love you Lynn
The best christmas gift we can gift Lynn is getting her to 800K subscribers.
Thank you❤❤
Insomnia is like a mental illness,you need to sleep but you can't stop thinking about issues you can't even control... You're speaking to some of us gal
It's a disorder
Its touching 😢😢 .
I'm in this now
Lynn, thank you for this outstanding platform
As a third born I have always been like a first born. I have taken my brothers & sisters to school including some of their kids. I have always relied on God & HE has never left my side.
Today in my late 40s I bought and decorated the first Christmas tree for my family and I said „ see what God has done for us“ we can afford a Christmas tree ( is a luxury for me & there was no money for such) God is real! And what HE cannot do doesn’t exist. Thank you God , ups& downs, my journey is beautiful and I am heading to great destinations.so lead me O‘LORD.AMEN
Amen 🙏🙏🙏😊
Amen 🙏🙏
"You can be coping people BUT you can't copy their Grace " 👌
Woow “you can copy someone but you can’t copy their grace” such an amazing 🤩 Lady thanks 🙏 Lynn and your team for teaching us everyday much respect ✊
Can we appreciate how self aware she is about her journey 😍the throwing in French here and there is soo beautiful.
I tell you 🤣🤣🤣she's really good and composed on her rebouncing journey
Yes she's a gem❤
She is so woke,I love that.She is going far.When she speaks on TH-cam and Instagram you just admire her..
You can copy people but you can't copy their Grace❤❤❤❤❤
Not all first borns take in the responsibilities am a 4rth born of 6 siblings and i have been through the pressure taking care ....my first two siblings finished school got married irregardless of our situation at home i and the 3rd born have been holding the family .......so i just hate when pple say first borns go through alot some really don't
I support ur comment😢,am 2 born but am everything to my family hence 1st born has His own life even thinking home 😢..am educating my younger siblings in high school etc not easy with single mum😢,ht mwenyewe unajisahau...am great full to God for good health always.
Well said gal! I hate it. As I am the fourth born and I took all my family burden when my mum died at a young age. !🙏🙌
@@janethinwa6703 🫂💝
Am a lastborn and i can barely take a breathe😢 pressure from all over, i yearn for a breath of fresh air.
Agree with you am also 4th born and am the one who is supporting and let me tell you it not easy only Gof to intervine
It’s amazing to see young women discovering who they are and cultivating a relationship with their creator.Please share more content. We need this message to permeat and to drown out the despair and hopelessness in the young people today especially our young women and save our generation. This blue print will save young people the time and mistakes and even save this generation. I’m so amazed at how Kenyans are becoming more self aware and doing the inner work!! More power to you Lyn for bringing us life changing content and to our guest Tracy, thank you for sharing your story and let your bright light shine in the darkness, you are destined for great things, bring other young people along with you.
“A father’s love is just as important as a mother’s love, and children who grow up without their father’s love suffer a great deal.” - Tony Gaskins
I agree
I disagree. Jesus came that we may have life and have it more abundantly despite our earthly situations!!!
I totally disagree if your father is a dead beat ata ku help na nn so why should you suffer you have your own life
I totally disagree if your father is a dead beat ata ku help na nn so why should you suffer you have your own life
@@emmaoduge8145 Yeah thats a good point too
Such a powerful conversation Lynn! Im so proud of Tracy , keep letting your light shine.. So much profound wisdom
As a 22 year old who is healing and just learning about herself and growing in her relationship with God, Tracey has given me hope that I will also come to the higher version of me. Dear me: Thanks for being here with me today despite the trials and hard times we faced. You may feel like you are not enough but baby you are. I love you, in your darkness and shadow self and loudness and anger and insecurities and pain and all that you are,you are an amazing woman. You were hurt, neglected and abandoned. Baby am sorry you had to grow up alone and you felt like a failure so you gave up on yourself. You sought love and validation everywhere,but it is right there with you. Am not condemning you, you are an amazing woman. I just want to dress your wounds and tend to you till you are healed. We will reach our goals. We will have a beautiful life together Gathoni. C'mon, don't be scared to let your guard down. God is here . He will protect us. We are home now. We are safe now. Whoever you lose is not important. God is for you. And God loves you so so so much Caroline. As you step in your higher self, i will be right here, every step of the way, loving you through it all. With love. From me"
I am working on myself and learning each new day. 🥰Thanks Lynn . i am waiting for the firstborns panel
Thank you for fighting
Hey love, THIs IS MY LETER😭This is me
As a firstborn daughter who was parentfied from 2 years of age, having struggled with low self esteem, seeking external validation, falling/obsessing over older married men, using food to numb my feelings of unworthiness etc etc, this is worth watching and rewatching.
Thats me right there described in that comment.I wish healing to all firstborns
Sending all of us healing
I really love Tracy waithera i have been following her in all of her social media platforms.. and i really love what she is doing.... Some of us we really need healing... Like for me i started supporting my family at a very young age of 17,, i think as a firstborn ecspecially if you come from a humbled background there are expections that are drilled into you at a very young age..
You are to be the role model ,the peacemaker , the role model,
I feel am already a exhausted adult , i really desire marriage maybe later in life but the idea of taking up more responsibilities as a wife and mother really freaks me out coz I've raised kids , i mean i have been responsible for everyone for everyone in my family God please come through for me and my family... .. we really need you ave tried to work things out but nothing is working... Ave tried healing ,, ave tried forgiving people forgiving my absent dad but i still have anger issues... Please God take control I feel like my whole life has been a massive mistake 💔💔
Thank you Lynn for hosting such an amazing personality she is such an inspiration to us Genz
I’m really appreciating these conversations about self care , healing those childhood traumas. I’m grateful for this segment 🙏🏾
THAT WAS A GOOD SHOW. IT TAKES A LOT OF COURAGE TO OWN YOUR STORY, I'M SO PROUD OF YOU. MAY THE ALMIGHTY BE WITH YOU THROUGH THIS HEALING AND REBUILDING JOURNEY AND MAY HE KEEP ADDING YOU GRACE.
Am quite happy for Tracey..when someone rediscover oneself mistakes, rectifies, & moves on swiftly is totally encouraging ...
I love the part of Grace….she has really encouraged me and hope she can be my Gods send because iam battling with depression badly. Be blessed Tracy and more years for you to impact life’s
What a beautiful lady inside/out!! I loved this interview and it was so inspiring and healing. Self love, self awareness and healing. She is going places and we’re cheering for you T!
"healing extends"this is so true..
When u are on the healing journey u get to see things in different ways
Exploring the inner child, some of the things we are doing as adults are manifestation of what happened in our childhood.
Weh, its revival time. Glory to God. If its this gal preaching, its revival time
Bravo Tracy, there's nothing so sweet like owning yoir own story
I enjoyed the show. Tracy has a ministry in her. Not the typical loud and shouting ones, but of calmly imparting deep message of each and everyone's need to be still, so that they can know God, and that he is the one in control. And that knowing and trusting him brings in gifts and rewards greater than what one can get by extreme hustling on their own. A lot of young, and even older people will truly benefit from your message T, keep shinning that light at every opportunity. You went through the tough periods so that you can be a testimony to yourself and others. You are lucky to be blessed with this spiritual awareness at a very young age. As it has been said before, " everything that happens to you, good or bad, is God's gift to help bring you closer to him."
Love you gal thanks Tracy & Lynn , for recognizing us first borns and what we go thru and how much we give,surcrifice and give to others.
She is so graceful. Young and super impactful. May God open more doors for her. And she's so so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks so much Lynn. I think am on this journey. Looking forward to fully heal and accept myself.
Gosh... I just love this conversation 😍 I hope one day I seek therapy heal and tell my story 😊I relate to this so much
Hello 👋 good morning team LNN
Thanks Lynn for having her ❤❤i really love this lady 😍 she's More than an amazing lady ❤❤❤
Hae lynn such an awesome conversations
Been a firstborn I relate to tracey .am 20 years old but am the breadwinner in the family i have 2 siblings behind me,and my single parent mum who is not finacially stable ,I had to come to gulf when I was 19 but I started working at 16 everytime Am always up and down to make sure thing go in the right way and the saviour mentality Lynn I walk with it .its always about others I dont remember when I did something for my self .
Grateful heart is a base to self healing...Be true to yourself ..Great work Lynn ..Be Blessed
I know Tracy personally...she's a resource... enlightened..funny n a free spirit...very sharp.
Seeing women healing, growing, evolving just makes me smile. She is so self aware, bless.
Its beautiful to see a young girl who is seeking to know herself and heal. I wish her more grace. And the greatest show of self love is working on your mind body and spirit. Thats where change,transformationa and peace comes from. Its even in the bible. Romans 12:2. More grace to you tracy. You are on the right path!
Being a firstborn especially in a broken family. Taking care of your family bills .... Being there for everyone is not easy. One Day I will share my story to LNN family one day
Must be so hard, I'm sorry!
@@bellaolum9768. it's gonna be alright one day
There you are again, our global star, Lynn the great.🙏
This girl'ssmile is lethal. Tracy go it girl.
"You can copy a lot of things but you can't copy people's grace" Powerful statement of fact. Each one of us is wired differently and uniquely.
Tracy you are a beautiful soul with both self-awareness and self-care packaged together into a single unity. When you run to God in trust and belief the rest falls into place naturally. Tracy, you made the best decision.
Childhood traumas can be heartbreaking. Until and unless you sort them out on time, they can be devastating. When you see someone doing stuff, don't judge them. Its the voice from the unconscious(Traumas) that might be controlling their current state. Remember, just like them, you also could be doing other things that affect the public or your close friends negatively but often we never look at ourselves even as we judge others.
Tracy has come here to prove that your traumas can be processed to total healing. Learn to forgive and take full control of self to your destiny. Release the heap from your unconscious. Do not pay much attention to what people talk about you but care more about your peace of mind. It is called self-care. Love this girl but love yourself more guys.
I wish all of you the best in your lives wherever you are.
Im so glad im listening to this gorgeous lady for we have soooo much in common. The traumas wooooo but above all i love it that God still chose you and he worked with you to heal
Thank you Lynn for hosting this beautiful woman with great minds❤❤❤❤❤
That's Gem is very very powerful. You can't copy someone's Grace. What a powerful statements ❤❤❤
If anything I have met both Tracy's , been in her life through out her stage's and with all honesty I'm proud of her , from her past that helped her get to her realization and to the strong bold lady that she is now , Waithera I'm proud of you and your going far than you can ever imagine .
She's such a vibe ...am a first born and I can relate to this alot. Thanks alot I have taken something for me I was not able to see before. 🙂
Tracy you are a Vessel of God. I love the transformation ❤. I am proud of you.
You can copy someone but you can't copy their grace, so true 💯💯 some people's success is by the grace of God yet others is through other means or hard work
You can copy alot of people things but you can't copy their Grace period.. Thank you Darling 😘 for gathering this courage to share your story.
Rediscovering yourself, and having a walk with God is powerful....
I love Tracy n I love her journey n her laughter is contagious
From a previous interview waithera with Jeff....it evident wat God can do in a short period of time....the growth is inspiring and enlighting
It feels like you're talking about me the whole entire time and I can't control my tears...I have also learnt something.. thank you
You hit the nail on the head Tracy, you're amazing, beautiful, gorgeous and so attractive together with natural beauty🥰😘❤️
Beautiful conversation,am happy for you Tracy,am glad you're healing from childhood traumas,this is an eye opener
This is just amazing,,,self love is key ,,,you can copy anything but not somebody's grace,,,I love this,,thanks lyn for hosting tracy
I Love how people are real with their stories, hazin this is truly me they make me heal we suffer so much us raised by single parents and all we need is somebody to fill that gap.
Can't forget what have gone through being raised by only mom after the death of my dad
I am here for this transformation and the awesome grammar too,, daaaaamn who would have thought. I love it for you queen
I really understand her. Depression is real. The loneliness that comes with it immense. Kudos for sharing your story
She's blessed...I love her new transformation and her wisdom 🙏
Oh men yet again LYNN you did it AGAIN 🎉🎉🎉🎉. Ty for this interview. T is a whole vibe eloquent, purpose driven, kind, funny, peaceful,passionate filled with so much Grace and INTELLIGENCE. God is great look at this young beautiful woman wow🥰🥰🥰🥰 i don’t know her but meeen she is a creative person. Her skits especially in Kikuyu i loooove. Continue doing YOU and be blessed on your journey 🙏🙏🙏
A good story, I see something great and magical happening when Tracy Waithera and Cate Kamau work together they are content twins. I love them
Tracy and Rono are an inspiration to many I love them
Haky am so happy for her, I don't how I can explain this but am just happy for her transformation, she is relieved...... after realizing herself, who she is, God bless you bbygal
I really relate with you Tracy, the moment you detach from the world and find your inner purpose you start a journey of peace, love, joy and countless blessings upon your life. Your story is awesome and empowering.
I just love this girl...she is real....she don't fake herself..full of wisdom...and natural beauty..kairetu....be blessed
I don't know why I have been crying out all through the interview 😢😢😢😢....Tracy thanks for this I really needed this ❤❤❤❤❤
Things can stop when you say they stop wow Tracy is such a vibe this episode was 🔥🔥
I absolutely love this version of Tracey, may this be a turning point in my life😊
Tracy's authentic self is happy, healed and relatable.More grace to her.❤As always thanks Lynn for plugging us with great stories
Whenever I listen to Lynn’s episodes, there is some healing that goes on in my life. There is so much I relate to because I never ever had an opportunity to live a life of a child!!!!!!! I am in my 50s but I still see that miserable child in me!!!!
The guest today is the definition of what wholeness looks like. She's beautiful, wise, and healed
Wow! This one is a learning experience...I relate so much to her story..I will definitely watch this interview again again
Oh my! She is talking on my behalf aki😭😭but I am on my journey too to healing and realising who I was created to be. Much love Waithera
So powerful @Tracey Waithera you really are a blessed can keep on listening to you talk much wisdom you got
Akamihura makofi.. this made my day.. I can listen to this over and over again..
Amazing🤗,a mean see what The Lord has done.✨✨
T is just a vibe and I can really relate, the genuine innate smiles, love her eloquency... Oh My GOD 😘,the doings of the LORD 🙏
"GRATITUDE, GRATITUDE, GRATITUDE." 🎉A great take off as an awakening to me and a profound virtue to a healthy lifestyle and healing lead by forgiveness.
More Blessings and God's sufficient Grace Lynn,as you aspire to mould the current and the generation to come 🙏🙏
I love this girl , we just clicked when i met her. There is so much that is special about her. I love the woman she is becoming from the past 2 years. God bless her n lets Gods grace be sufficient in your journey Tracy.
I feel Tracy so much because I was recently there but God came in himself literally....glory be to God
I Love when people talk about God/Healing/Rebuilding....Self Love 💕🌹🙏
This has moved me and am going to apologize tonight to every single person I have wronged and work on my ego. I was struggling with alcohol and am 4months sobber it's not easy but am determined
I have cried when Tracy said she started working at a young age have never felt that pained till now have realised how much I have hurt me with the words your never going anywhere......Dear beautiful awesome Moreen I know it's been hard for you and you felt abandoned by your family it's okay to cry but it's not okay not to forgive yourself for that ....Your much more better than so many people your doing good am proud of you no matter what always acknowledge Your importance thank you God for opening my mind🙏 The journey we are now is for healing the little Girl that was heart...From me I adore you strength more love gal❤
A girl goes for a version of their Dad. Tracy is such a vibe❤
Thanks Lynn for bringing the gal on your platform.
She has a positive vibe❤❤
I don't know why I cried watching this..kumbe I'm doing well.. refilling my cup❤
Cheers to you Lynn and T
When You Find Your Lost Yourself, The Renewed Version Is Very Powerful. True Tracy; Just Like The Bible, Every Scripture Talks To Someone Differently. I Might Read A Bible Verse That Is Not For Your Season, Right. When You Realize Your Mistake, You Make It Right On Your OWN. Keep Up Tracy n If One Soul Is Saved, That Is Perfect.
She has overcome such a challenge
Fathers absence has corrupted soo many women out here. Therapy
Me be one of them I really want to forget everything I have gone through
My mum too never loved me because was born when she was a teeen she even refused to breastfeed me ata the first later on she left me at 9months with my lovely grandmother n let me tell you letter on she was married n she treated me like am not like her kid bt i remember she told me the moments she got another kid just know from now on be taking good care of your things because ur sister got a dad to buy for her but you you dont i really felt bad ata that age was in class 5 have bitterness with her by bad luck the husband died n she was 3months pregnant n life they had changed just the other we surprised her at her work place right now am married with akid we were with my aunt bt she was angrily with us n said tumeenda kumuaibishi have hatred toward her bt thank God my cucu guka uncles aunties loves me sooooooo muuuuch 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 some mothers though
I feel your pain.. i hav mum issues too. It's like that if she never truly accepted u
Yaani mshaview,nilikuwa nataka niwe wa kwanza Leo,Lynn thanks for bringing Tracy we asked nd u delivered am happy,NXT to sit kwa the yellow couch B4 mwaka iishe tunataka LYNN NGUGI WA MAMA SHIKU,WHO ELSE AGREES PITA NA LIKE
You are most welcome ❤❤
Thank you so much for the recommendation and the DM🙏
Ati sasa mnataka my mom😂😂🙌🏽
I'd like to see her too 💯💯
Oow yesssss🎉🎉
Yes mama shiko atupee story za kuuza viatu and how she feels about her successful babygirl ❤
Mum na ww pia mtupee story
What a powerful inspiration the best part of it you cannot copy somebody's grace this nice
💃💃💃🎉🎉🎉 doing the happy dance beeeecaaaause .."you can copy someone but you cannot copy there grace ". Can we add? There aura .my God ..wow ❤❤
Such a good inspiration from Waithira, thanks always to you Lynn and your team
You can copy someone but you can't copy their grace👌👌👌 this statement is just wow.
I just love T so much...I would listen to her the whole day,,I've learnt alot from her....❤❤
lynn l enjoyed Teresia and today she has proved that even people from the mountain can throw a little linquistic in between English like the people from the lakeside.tell her its good she is forgive her parents now and that is the beginning of healing and breaking of generations cursesGod bless her.🙏🏼🙏🏼
Knowing ones purpose in this life is the best thing ever...much love gals❤