What 7 Years in Germany Taught Me| Was ich in 7 Jahren in Deutschland gelernt habe

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  • @Dr.Onenkala
    @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dear viewers, some words are misspelt (autocaptions). Sorry, discovered late

    • @Astrofrank
      @Astrofrank หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Dr.Onenkala Autocaptions are never perfect, but there are two ways of messing them up even better: speaking with a quiet and soft voice, like in many ASMR videos, and speaking German in an English video.

    • @DJMike1968
      @DJMike1968 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Alles ok, lol.

    • @reddix435
      @reddix435 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well what a beautiful person you are. People like you enrich our culture and DNA. You make us stronger.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @reddix435 omg, that is really one of the most generous comment/compliment (if i may) I have received. Thank you so much, I feel blessed to be here. Many regards to you ✨️ 😊 ☺️

  • @maxostermeier4416
    @maxostermeier4416 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hat mich sehr gefreut liebevolle Worte über meine Heimat aus einem anderen Kulturkreis zu hören. Meinen tiefsten Respekt für Ihren aufrichtigen Worte. Ich wünsche Ihnen alles Liebe und
    Gute für Ihren weiteren Aufenthalt hier in Deutschland. Übrigens sind Sie eine wunderschöne Frau mit hohem Niveau. Servus aus Bayern.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@maxostermeier4416 Oh, was für ein wunderbarer Kommentar aus dem schönen Bayern lieber Max. Meine Schwiegermutter kommt aus Bayern und ich habe tolle Freunde und Familie.
      Ich fühle mich glücklich und denke, dass Deutschland so viele schöne Dinge zu bieten hat. Wenn sich alle nur auf die guten Dinge konzentrieren würden, würden sie sich hier genauso wohl fühlen wie ich. Ich schicke viele Grüße an Dich 💖

  • @shupingwang3392
    @shupingwang3392 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Well put : "not everything needs to be said" Best wishes from Kharkiv, Ukraine.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @shupingwang3392 thanks a lot. I hope you are safe there. Sending you lots of wishes 💓 ❤️

  • @elbsommer2990
    @elbsommer2990 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for sharing your experiences you have made here in Germany. I just hope you have a good time here. I have just watched your video "Being a Naga Indian" and I really hope for you that you have already found people here who love you or you will find them and feel like "home" in this country. Talking out loud on the internet is what I consider "tough". Stay tough and wishing you all the best. I will close this with a warm "Namaste".

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks a lot for your kind words. It really means a lot❤ Indeed I feel home here, and I have found wonderful German friends and also friends from various countries ❤🎉Sending you warm regards 😊

  • @francodenobili7654
    @francodenobili7654 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I enjoyed your Video very very much.
    I did live in the US 18 years - but I am back since 2008.
    I find it highly refreshing the way you look at things. You don't have the headline -'Culture shocks in .....' 😂😂😂
    Like almost every other expat. I love that you focus on the 'good things'. If one is living anywhere on the Planet and that place or Country is not native to her,him - one finds 'plenty of so called shocks, or negative things'. So , anyone moving to another Country and expect it to be like home - you have misunderstood life 😂
    I wish you all the best for your future - either here in Germany or wherever life is taking you 👍🙋

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @francodenobili7654 dear Franco thank you so much for your comment ❤️ I think there is no "perfect" place but from where I come from, it's the best I have experienced. Sure, it gets tough at times, but I decided to come and live in this country, and I have no right to start lecturing the Germans. If they see good in foreigners they can decide to learn as well. The title "culture shock", I leave that to other vloggers 😄 I'm here for good and I hope it stays that way. Regards from south of Germany 🇩🇪 😀

    • @francodenobili7654
      @francodenobili7654 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Dr.Onenkala 😄👍🙋

  • @khecke
    @khecke หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I agree with your experience in Germany, since I was born in Germany and lived the first 23 years of my life in Germany. I hope you will have a good life in Germany, but I moved on to a different country.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @khecke thank you so much. I am well here and I wish you all the best wherever you are ❤️

  • @SatriaBurg
    @SatriaBurg หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very true. That what I experienced in my 15 years life in different cities in Germany. So I'm totally agree with you

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SatriaBurg so glad you see the same 😉 😀 Regards

  • @buninparadise9476
    @buninparadise9476 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks a lot for your well spoken feedback.
    You have a beautiful soul.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg thanks @bunin you are so kin❤😊 I'm glad to share my experiences to the world. Let's change the world in whatever small way we can ❤😊

  • @shamsh09
    @shamsh09 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good to know that some people are having good time in Germany!

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, very good, and thank you 😊 🙏

    • @gerhardma4297
      @gerhardma4297 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What do you mean with "some"?

  • @shoopdawhoop8730
    @shoopdawhoop8730 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very interesting and thoughtful points! As hard as it is to be proud of our country and its history it is nice to at least be proud of our culture.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should be because I am. You guys need just need a little bit of assurance from us 😀 once in a while.

  • @Why-D
    @Why-D หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Usually we also like nice surprises, when someone just comes along to say hello. But yes, it is a point of politeness to be one time and don't waste others time.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's right. I know many people who would love that, too. I wish I could go on talking about my endless adventures here❤ regards 😊😊

    • @Why-D
      @Why-D หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Dr.Onenkala I think here is a possibility to do it and show it to others.
      But you may do it also with you neighbours, colleagues, friends or members in the same club in Germany.

    • @wallerwolf6930
      @wallerwolf6930 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As a German, you usually register when you want to visit someone. But it also depends on who you are visiting and at what time. After all, you could end up at a completely inconvenient time ;-))
      For example, I can almost always visit my immediate, friendly neighbors without registering, and they are usually happy to see me anyway ;-)), as are many other friends or relatives. So it really depends on who you want to visit.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Why-D ya sure I do that now, but as a foreigner, I still don't get it RIGHT sometimes and I get overfriendly (because I forget), and it gets weird again, haha 😅

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @wallerwolf6930 I have had those moments too, even with my neighbours. They are really cool. I guess it also depends from family to family :)

  • @michaelgrabner8977
    @michaelgrabner8977 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    About punctuality.
    I´ve been raised with the notion "being on time" is already "being late" so actual "being on time" therefore means "showing up at least 5 minutes early" at "official appointments" like work place or at administrative officials for doing bureaucracy stuff and when doing business stuff.
    In private life at "private appointments with friends or acquaintances" when someone is not on time (meaning now actually "on time" for private appointments and not being 5 minutes early for official apointments) but late I wait not more than 5 minutes and then I´m gone, unless I got "in time" (= always way before than "being on time") - a note or a call from that one for being late.( = because he/she is on his/her way but stucking in traffic or what ever so that the arrival will be some minutes late) and I do so as well = informing "in time" and not "on time" when I´m late for such reasons.

  • @HeyGermany
    @HeyGermany หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Super interesting!

  • @IngoTheRingo
    @IngoTheRingo หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Beautiful words from a beautiful woman.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊😊😊omg you are too kind but I will take it happily 🎉 regards Ingoringo 😅

    • @IngoTheRingo
      @IngoTheRingo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Dr.Onenkala 🥰

  • @kontrar-der-unwahrheit2032
    @kontrar-der-unwahrheit2032 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Schade, es wäre eigentlich noch einen Tick interessanter, die unschöneren Erfahrungen zu hören.
    Es freut mich sehr, dass die Zeit in Ihren Augen kein vollkommener Reinfall war ^^
    alles Gute

    • @wallerwolf6930
      @wallerwolf6930 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ... kein voller Reinfall war! ? Wäre das normal (die Regel) in Deutschland?

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @kontrar-der-unwahrheit2032 Hallo, es wäre unfair, viel zu beurteilen. Ich hatte am Anfang einige Enttäuschungen, aber auch, weil alles so neu für mich war. Mit der Zeit ist mir klar geworden, dass es so viele gute Gründe gibt, und ich kann mir nicht vorstellen, in meine Heimat zurückzukehren, obwohl ich das sehr vermisse. Hier funktioniert einfach etwas 🙃 Liebe Grüße 😀

    • @kontrar-der-unwahrheit2032
      @kontrar-der-unwahrheit2032 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Dr.Onenkala
      Das freut mich für Sie.
      alles Gute

    • @kontrar-der-unwahrheit2032
      @kontrar-der-unwahrheit2032 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@wallerwolf6930
      Kommt auf die Perspektive jedes Einzelnen an.
      Mein Textinhalt bezog sich auf die Schilderung der Beitragerstellerin.....
      ....und hatte ein ^^ am Ende, was ein Augenzwinkern symbolisieren soll und damit als nicht ganz ernste Äußerung zu werten sein soll.
      "Sarkasmus" wäre der falsche Begriff für diesen Textinhalt.
      "Ironie" auch.
      Es ist eben mit einem Augenzwinkern gemeint gewesen, ich hoffe, sie verstehen, was ich damit intensioniert hatte :)
      alles Gute

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kontrar-der-unwahrheit2032 No i think i am very good with emojis haha. I thought it was a happy Hase 😂 As i said, i would not expect for a person to be suddenly mean from this video, i try to avoid that. Ich habe verstanden :)

  • @featherstone5838
    @featherstone5838 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very interesting; thank you. I personally think that the punctuality 'thing' gets grossly exaggerated in Germany. If e.g. I was 2 minutes late for work, my superior lectured me half an hour about punctuality, rather than getting some work done in the remaining 7h 58m. Not very efficient really. And I would like to know how many road traffic accidents are caused by the pressure of punctuality. But I do like sticking to appointments in general and letting the other know if for some reason you cannot make it.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm teaching my German husband to be on time 😀 that's the irony 😄. Thanks for your comment 👍

  • @angh4803
    @angh4803 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello sis new subs from Nagaland 👍

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @angh4803 welcome dear sister ans thanks a lot for your support ❤️

  • @maoc8384
    @maoc8384 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It would be great if you could do your next Vlog in German & English. " You will definitely see a great footfall in subscription and views". May you be a Great Naga Ambassador for Us in Germany and Let them also know there's a Hornbill Festival here in Nagaland.😂 Kuknalim

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @maoc8384 aya thank you comrade for your kind words and suggestions. My German is still not that fluent, but I will try as you 😉 some of my recent videos I talk in German you can check that out 😆 I will soon bring Germany to Nagaland ❤️ regards 😀

  • @Astrofrank
    @Astrofrank หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mentioning some negative experiences in this video would help us Germans to improve wherever we find it necessary. Btw, you look a bit more like being from countries east of India, like Japan or Vietnam, and you look really attractive.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Astrofrank ya thanks for your great suggestion, maybe that will be my next video 😉 You are so very kind with your compliment. Thank you if I may 😊

  • @AJTiny2024
    @AJTiny2024 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nice one Dr. I believe it will offer much-needed guidance to anyone considering migrating to Germany. Keep sharing.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hello dear yes you are right. I loved every minute about talking my experiences here and I am sure many people have a lot of nice things to say about Germany 🎉😊

  • @joeburns88
    @joeburns88 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was stationed there for two years, then an additional four years when I was in the army. Really didn’t like the people, but hey, everyone has an opinion.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @joeburns88 hi Joe, I'm sorry your stay was not good here. Everyone experiences differently, and it took me quite a while. But my husband is German, so I had to be more adaptable and see things differently. As time went on, it also got better. Sending you regards:)

    • @gerhardma4297
      @gerhardma4297 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      All I can say is: As you call into the forest, so it echoes back and if you have behaved like the typical ignorant, arrogant and uneducated American, you have experienced the Germans as you have served them. You should only look around at your fellow countrymen who, like you, have served here and shown a genuine interest in the country and its people. They have had almost nothing but good experiences, but of course there always has to be that one person who offends everyone and is therefore rejected. In such cases, self-reflection helps, if you are able to do so.

  • @johannesvanackeren4232
    @johannesvanackeren4232 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Dr. Onen, hast Du auch einen Vornamen, mit dem man Dich bei uns in Deutschland ansprechen kann? Das funktioniert irgendwie besser. Was ich gerne von Dir wissen möchte: Was machst Du beruflich in Deutschland, kannst Du auch etwas über Deine berufliche Erfahrung und deine Integration innerhalb der letzten Jahre erzählen?

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Vielen Dank für dein Interesse! Ich hatte nie einen Nachnamen und habe meinen Familiennamen nie benutzt, weil das in Indien ganz normal ist. Jetzt benutze ich aber den Nachnamen meines schwäbischen Mannes, also ist Onenkala mein Vorname haha !!kompliziert!!!. Ich werde in den kommenden Videos über mein Leben und meine Karriere sprechen, also schau dir die Videos doch einfach an, okay?😇

    • @johannesvanackeren4232
      @johannesvanackeren4232 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Danke Onenkala, auch wenn es sich für Dich vielleicht ungewohnt anhört. Ich freue mich darauf, mehr über Dein Leben zu erfahren! Ich war im vorigen Jahr für eine kurze Zeit mit einer Gruppe auf einer Rundreise in Indien. Es war eine meiner schönsten Reisen, und das waren schon sehr viele!

  • @dhtran681
    @dhtran681 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Do you like 🥰 Mettbrötchen?

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @dhtran681 No, maybe never 😆 although I love all kinds of meaty food here. Even my German husband has never introduced it 😅. Thanks for asking.

  • @axegaming1982
    @axegaming1982 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Did you studied in Germany? Please answer

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @axegaming1982 I finished my PhD in Delhi. I studied early modern history:) Thanks for your interest 👍

  • @wallerwolf6930
    @wallerwolf6930 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello! It's nice to hear that you didn't have too many negative experiences in Germany, which, as you mentioned, can happen in any country.
    Unfortunately, interactions between people can't always be happy. There's a saying in Germany: "The most pious person can't live in peace if the evil neighbor doesn't like it." This applies to both small and large things. Even in a family or in a major conflict, such as a war. The earth is not paradise, and Germany isn't the Garden of Eden either ;-))
    I wish you many more (only ;-)) positive experiences in Germany!

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @wallerwolf6930 Dear Wolf, Thanks for your comment. Believe me, I have had my share of experiences, the good and the bad. But my mission is to spread as much positivety as I go along. I have made peace with my negative experiences, and it has also made me into a happier person. I leave the rest of roasting Germany to social media. Sure, it's not Eden, but sure, it's not all hell bad as well. The eyes see what it wants to see (sometimes). Grüße:)

    • @wallerwolf6930
      @wallerwolf6930 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Dr.Onenkala Wise words!

  • @axegaming1982
    @axegaming1982 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello,u have studied medical in Germany??

  • @merenlalongkumer1064
    @merenlalongkumer1064 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🫶🫶🫶🤍🤍🤍

  • @a.g.4843
    @a.g.4843 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi there from a German (46yo). We are in massive decline, forget all these rumours abour efficiency and work ethics. That time is over. Also, corruption is rampant ( I mean the influence of the industry on politics). Furthermore, it is hard for foreigeners or even Germans to find friends. Bc Germans take a long time to trust others etc.

    • @Dr.Onenkala
      @Dr.Onenkala  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @a.g.4843 as a person coming from a less privileged country, I still find Germany much better and progressive in so many ways. But everyone has their opinion and judgement. I had also trouble adjusting here but overall it's been good, but it's also about one's own perspective. Regards ✨️

    • @a.g.4843
      @a.g.4843 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can adapt faster when you join groups like a band, or a sport club….but in general, imho we have too many foreigners. Far too many.

    • @Komorebineeded
      @Komorebineeded หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@a.g.4843 I understand that you might be upset at the increasing numbers of immigrants but I'm sure you'll agree colonization and western capitalism is mostly responsible for it. Had western countries not torn apart countries and continents and looted their wealth, most of these immigrant labour would have chosen to remain in their own countries. After all, Asia, Africa and The Americas have far more natural resources than Europe, not to mention advanced civilizations in the past. If you're already tired after just a decade or two, imagine our countries under foreign subjugation for decades and in case of countries like India, centuries. I'm not trying to rub it in but presenting a point of view which you might have ignored or not been aware of.

    • @a.g.4843
      @a.g.4843 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Komorebineeded typical leftist world view….