Real problem is people are attracted and not in real love. They are labeling attraction as love. In love adjustment is also fun but then you have to find true love ❤️
I have done love marriage and I am pretty happy with my decision. I have loving and caring partner who looks after my family too. But yes, I found my partner during work and not during studies.
Prem vivah ke failure ke mammle esliye ate h ki uska koi bhi sath nahi deta h na ladki ke maa baap na ladke ke maa baap Baki kalpnaye to sb me hoti h chahey arrange kro ya love. Arrange me samaj ka pressure hota h esliye nahi jti h chor ke mauka to deke dekho sbse pahle arrange wali h jayengi😂😂😂
Hamare ghar mei bata du My mom dad love marriage 38 yr completed best couple seriously mei bol rahi hu My mausi love marriage 30yr completed very happy My second mausi love marriage 28 yr completed very happy My elder sister love marriage 16 yr completed super happy🧿🧿 My cousin brother love marriage very happy…😊😊 Inke alawa 10 couple arrange marriage wale hai jo bus reh rahe majburi mei khush koi nhi…. Love or arrange shadi to maturity se chalti bus
इसमें सिर्फ love marriage ही नहीं arranged marriages में भी कुछ ऐसे अनुभव भी हो सकते हैं जिसमें couple एक दूसरे की हरकतों को नापसंद करे। फर्क सिर्फ इतना है कि Love Marriage में कोई और सहयोग नही देंगे, आपको अपने विवेक से ही रिश्ते की नांव को किनारे ले जाना है।लेकिन arranged marriage में दोनों ओर से लड़के और लड़की के मां बाप सुलह कराने की कोशिश करते हैं।
There is no love in this world only attraction to beauty. Only you have to face your disease, emotions,life . Without responsibility love fades with time
Responsibility kills love.. Love fades like any other beautiful flowers. That's the beauty. That's why love feels fresh and alive in this dead world. Marriage is a bondage, a legal burden between two emotionally bankrupt beggars. Love is not a burden.If you don't like love being faded away then do arranged marriage full of responsibilities and keep fake plastic flowers in your garden.
I'm 90% sure in arranged marriage. All you girls will get a boy who was already in a relationship and for boys, I'm 95% sure you all will get a girl who was already in a relationship in the past.
Bro past relationships are not a problem unless they had sex before. The problem arises after marriage if any of the partners cannot forget their past partners. Also according to me, virginity should be maintained by both partners before marriage. Normal relationships are needed these days to understand people.
Women are simple. If they dont love you, they dont care what happens to you. Men should marry only when they are sure that the woman loves him more than he loves her. Arranged or love marriage, she will care only till she has love and attraction.
@@rayrwyr They either love you or you are just a support system for her to live her life happily. If it comes to that she will not even ask how you are even as a formality. That life is worse than being alone.
Agreed 💯 Most selfish creatures on the planet are women. They only love their child due to attachment. And they only love their husbands conditionally.
Arrenge mrge to kr ni hai lekin mrge se pehle love sab ko kr ni hai. Yehi sachh hai ki jis ladki ka jitni jyada love relation hota hai akhir main uski sadi ek achhi ghar main ho jati hai or jo ladkiya loyal hoti hai unki jindagi jhand ho jati hai. Boys agar love main apni sara time waste karte hain to unki to future barbad
After marriage many differences will crop up✔️ . Couples who are mature and love each other will solve them ✔️. Couples who are immature will ask others to solve them❌. The support system in arranged marriages exists✔️ Breakup system in love marriages exists❌ Lastly but not least ... Marriage is not meant for everyone. If u are having untreatable issues don't spoil others lives by marrying them✔️✔️
Sahi baat kar rahe ho yah mere sath bhi hua hai. hamara arrange marriage theek hua hai ham bacchon ka naam bhi soch liye hai kya hoga hamara bacchon ka naam .
Marriage is marriage regardless of love or arranged. It's very easy to get married, but very hard to maintain it. I am sure the people who are happily marriage for long are not even watching this video.
@@jackryan2709 because you are an immature person. Before doing marriage people should become a proper adult who can take responsibility of their life. And should know that your partner is just a human like you.
to all the students let me tell u dont listen to anyone just be independent and choose your love on your on ye sb bate faltu lgti h mrko jb sb gyani bn jate h no doubt ye kuch bate reality show krti h pr jb obviously kmaai k bad hi chije achi hoti h dusri bt adjustment hi life h
C it doesn't matter whether you do a love marriage or arranged, it's about the person u get married to and whether you want it or not. There are dozens of people making their life hell in arranged and living a beautiful, happy married life in love marriage too and vice-versa
These days love kidar hey. Just fantasy....lust....hookup... No love. Sab reel dekhke uss imagination meh pyaar karthe hey. Just in reels world. No brain to think about real life.
Ye jitne log coment box mein bolre hai happy married life caste doesn't matter vgera vgera inme se koi bhi apni bhn ya bhai ya apne beti bete ki shadi inter caste marriage nhi kraega
Dharm to ye hai ek insan ka ki es sansar me sabhi jiv k liye pyar bhav ho or imandari se har riste ko dil se pyar se nibhaya jay...per aj kal riste chowmin k thele ki tarah ho rahe jiska acha h uske pass jake test riste ko mjak unhi logo me bnaya h jinhe riste ka mtlb ni pta
Jisko aap dukhi hona bol rhe ho wahan ye samjh lena wahan prem tha hi nhi, prem ki sachi paribhasha sunn ni h toh acharya prasanth se suno, jahan sacha prem hoga uss se tum milna bhi chahoge or dur bhagna bhi, ye experience kiya h maine isliye mujhe pta h, or maine kaafi logo ko bhi dekha h , kyunki jo na krte h woh self aware jyada hote h pyaar krte hue bhi mna krdete h kyuki unhe pta h ki woh unhe untni achhi tarah nhi rakh paayenge, lekin fir ye bhi khayal aata h ki mujhse ghatiya koi mil gya toh, fir apne jo avgun h unko sahi krna apni spirituality ki or badhna ye prem kehlata h. Prem or adhyatam dono ek hi h
I was in a relationship with a girl but later found out she is a call girl and she earns 4 lakh per month and she looks like model gorgeous and yet here we are even top MNC managers don't earn so much so what does education do ??
@stockgeeky9992 ofcourse it's REAL education is of no use when a call girl in India earns more than master degree holder .She stays in Mumbai juhu got 2 Bhk as well calculate the price you will know .
Real problem is people are attracted and not in real love. They are labeling attraction as love. In love adjustment is also fun but then you have to find true love ❤️
True this, but in love you don't adjust, you literally fix yourself for the other, i am not married but I am in true love, so true I did not even confess, she isn't even sure if I have feelings and niether do I, but I still don't feel sad and crumbling after being separated and not in contact anymore, yet I am still improving myself just for the hope and belief that I will be hers once again. Radhe Radhe
Arranged marriage kbh mt krna, ldko k to arrange marriage m mze h, but ldkiyo k lie life hell h.... Mne bachpan se kbi bf ni bnaya ye soch ki arrenge marriage hi krungi izzat se, ab muje dr lgta h bahut, aj mri saadi ni ho paa rahi, koi bf hota to km se km saadi to ho jati mri, or roj roj relative k taane ni soonne pdte...... Please gitl agr apka koi bf h to bhaagh jayo uske sath, but arreng marriage kbi bt krna.....
@@Physics14728bura koi kab Banta h jab unke andar insecurities hoti h, aise hi koi dveshi nhi ban jaata, thanks to childhood upbringing and trauma. Or haan jo bahar se achhi hogi woh vyavhar mei Aisa nhi krr payegi, observe her with both how she treats, friends, you and strangers if they all match then you have no special place in her heart, if she specially is kind to you means she is ready to fix her flaws for you
Sabhi marriage mai lete hai, tumhe kaunsa ajenda aage badhana hai wo likh do bas Love marriage ke supporter ho to love marriage acha bol do arranged marriage ke supporter ho to wo acha bol do Tum chahe kitna liberal ho ya fir conservative, katega tumhara bhi jaise sab ka dhire dhire kat raha hai It's not about love or arranged marriage or conservative men or liberal men Problem ye hai ki you are a Men just like me
Love marriage tabhi nasht hoti h jab, vibhaah aaj kal k chapri log karte h, jo bina soch k kadam uthate h, yeh log pyar m andhe rehte h inhe sacchai ka kuch nhi pata rehte, crush ko hi sacchai bana lete, aur jab woh tootata h toh rone lagte h.
Mere wale bahut ache h but age me 2 year choti hu or o upp me h or main berojgar hu or mera cast alag alag h smjh me n aa raha h kya karu kaise karu shadi log kya kahege
@@Conqurer26 To bhai to iske liye khud jina chod de. Maa baap ne paida kya to Mai bhi ek Karu. Wah bhai kya logic diya hai. Acha to jin logon ne shadi nahi ki to wo bahut bekar lok hai na😅
Sir Very respectfully.....Aap Puri trh sahi nhi hain...yaha tk ki aap 40% bhi Theek nhii hain.....Aaj k zamaane ne 70% cases me Arranged marriage me Hi Dhoke hain ...
Jo rishta kra rhe aa log 80 percent to juth bolke krate hai rishta khte kuch aur hai niklta kuch aur hai baad mein ldka ho ya lddki suffer dono ko krna pddhta tha...
पति पत्नी अगर शादी से पहले एक दूसरे को जान जाते है तो विवाह के बाद वे ज्यादा दिन तक साथ नहीं रह पाते इसका कारण यह है कि विवाह से पहले ही उन्होंने अपने यौन ऊर्जा को खर्च किया हुआ होता है और विवाह के बाद एक दूसरे के बारे में जानने के लिए कोई आकर्षण नहीं बचता और जिंदगी बोरिंग हो जाती है। इसलिए अरेंज मैरिज में वह उत्साह बना रहता है और दो परिवारों के आपसी सहमति की वजह से उनके रिश्ते में दरार आयी तो भी वह भर दी जाती है परिवार के कुछ अच्छे सदस्यों द्वारा। भारतीय संस्कृति कभी भी विवाह के पहले यौन संबंध का समर्थन नहीं करती।
Arrange mei tum saamne waale k dosh nhi pakad skte or wahi dosh tumhe khaane ko bhaagte h, arey iss se achha single mrlo lekin arrange marriage kabhi na kro, marriage always love honi chahiye, and love bhi true waala ye aajkal kka filmy waala nhi
Abe gadhe tu faltu ka sabko apna jaisa bana rha hai..arrange marrage me bhi tu kuch din baad log larne lagte hai or ye pariwar kha se aa gya dono ki beech me darar bharne..😂😂
meri gf ki job hai ,uske ghar wale ready hai but mere ghar wale nahi ho rahe ,bol rahe tum government job karo fir ham ladki khojenge ,isiliye mera bank po clear hua tha but maine nahi bataya ,mujhe to kuch samjh hi nahi aa raha ,job lagi to kahi aur sadi ,nahi lagi to kam se kam ye rahega ki gf se sadi ho sakti hai but fir lagta hai 1-2 sal me nahi hua to age chali jayegi to mai job bhi nahi kar paunga ,bich me fasa hua hu
Bhaiya if u don't mind mai ek baat kahu agr itna hi pyar hai apni gf se to family ko aap mna skte hai Jada dikkt ldkiyon k side se hota hai pr agr aapki gf k side sb agree kr rhe to i think aapko kosis krna chahiye.....vrna life time regret krenge ki bhyii ek try krleta to syd aaj sath hoti vo...
Hi sir, do you think corporate companies are promoting 498a and other women laws? Because when these laws are implemented the employees of the corporate companies may not feel like asking for more salaries and more hikes as increments in salaries would only result into more greediness of wives.
@@suryavanshiabhyuday8584 ofcourse hoga. Arrange marriage me problem hai ki, if the girl/guy is marrying out of family compulsion, then Atul Subhash jesa case hoga. Old days me divorce nahi hota ta, since wife was dependent on husband (financially). Ab when women are free, if ghar ke pressure me sadi kar v lete hai, divorce le lenga since maintenance laws are stronger, plus women are earning nowadays. Plus, social stigma itna nahi hai, divorce ke around. Aj kal arrange marriage tab v successful hoga agar, they actually fall in love ki they're dependent on each other for something. Agar nahi hai, then divorce sure hai
@@suryavanshiabhyuday8584bilkul love hoga without arrange par woh murda nahi hoga dusro ki tarah. Usme utar chadao rahenge aur ak time baad woh ak dusre ko alvida keh denge jaise ak jivit vyakti karta hain marne ke time. Waha pane ki koi chah nahi hogi, par log dete rahenge jaise raja o ka sangam hua hain.
@@Being__RickyAtul Subhash marriage was not arranged, you just proved why divorce rate is higher in love marriages in comparison to arrange marriages. Now for you that might be a good thing, but it's not because most of the divorces in India is not actually a divorce rather it's a seperation. Where a man cannot marry another woman and same goes for the woman. An what we have seen is that men become the topmost victim of these prebiased matrimonial laws. So the thing you are calling a divorce is not a divorce. Stop following western countries and look into our country's reality. Because in western countries, after divorce both man and woman are free to marry anyone, and also they have gender neutral laws.
राधा श्री कृष्णा की नहीं हुई, सीता मां श्री राम की होकर भी नहीं हुई, सोनी महिलवाल , हीर रांझा ये सब वे है जिन्हें ये ज़ालिम इंसानी समाज ने एक होने नहीं दिया । तू तो आज की टेंपररी दुनिया का lover है😤
Arrenge marriage is a legal vashya verti, 5 minute m deal hoti h riste nahi bnte, arrenge marriage me ldke perfect preparation krke aate h interview k lie, how can u married a unknown person.........
Arrenge marrige me kanya daan k naam p ldki ko bech dia jta h, fr vo vha mre geere sade hme koi mtlb ni,pti or sasuraal vale uski apni ghr ki nokrani or bachche ki aaya bna k rakhenge, or usse jbrdsti bachche pda karwayenge..........m 25+ hu jbrdsti muje saadi k lie force kia jaa rha h, mri life m koi ldka hi nahi h or jo ldke arrenge marriage m muje dikhaye jta h, unki 5 minut me shakal dekh k bina feeling, attraction, pyar, k saadi krne ko mn ni krta, mom ne bola ki saadi k bd sb ho jta h pyar lgaw, but iske lie to vkt lgega km se km 7 mahine, mne to dekha h ki ldki saadi k algle din hi pregnant b ho jati h,😂😂😂😂arrenge marrige m ldki ko kharid k laya jta h, kanyadan k naam p, or saari jivan uska use kia jta h😂
Madam kon se nashe kie h apne? Kha se yh sb gyaan a rha h? Meri b arrange marriage ho rhi h, Hamne pehle hi decide kia h 3-4 saal tk koi bcha ni chahie hame. Agr arrange marriage ho rhi h to tumhe sbse pehle apne partner se sb baat kr leni chahie. Ki baad m bacho ki pareshani na ho. Kya pta tumhare hone vale husband ko b abi bcha na chahie ho.
Bs ek salah dunga agr arrange marriage ho rhi h tumhari to, km se km iss relation ko 8-10 mahine do. Apne hone vale husband ko samjho iss time m. Zruri ni h usse har vkt milo. Phone pr hi baat krne ki koshish kro usse. Agr tum dono ki soch match ki tohi shaadi krna.
Kabhi kabhi kisi vyakti ka na milna behtar hota hai - that line just touched my ❤
Koi bhi relation me understanding important hota h woh chahe arrange ho ya love 🤗🤗🤗
Real problem is people are attracted and not in real love. They are labeling attraction as love.
In love adjustment is also fun but then you have to find true love ❤️
Love marriage is best if both parties have equal efforts❤
@@adnanansari9770 every marriage whether its love or arranged, require equal efforts
that is what every relationship entails and is not exclusive to love marriages, genius.
Love❌️ Attraction ✅️
Truly said 👍
Kabhi kabhi Kisi ka Na Milana behtar hota Hai it's true
अगर दोनों व्यक्ति साथ निभाने की मंशा रखते है तो प्रेम विवाह सबसे अच्छा है !
Mere gaon me ek ladka kiya hai bechara rota hai apne kismat par 😢😢 ab sabko Gyan batata hai love marriage mat karna 😅😅😅😅
Meri bhi love marriage hai ar hum dono achhe se jeevan jee rahe hai
@@varshakhichi3820very good very very congratulations
Pahle Prem to ho,,,
Log attraction ko Prem samajh jate hai
To bad ka result better hoga
नहीं होता ये संभव
Any marriage is fine😂 but no cheating
According to Acharya Prasant Ji - सब नीचे का Connection है. 😂
He is the legend of this era😊😊
I have done love marriage and I am pretty happy with my decision. I have loving and caring partner who looks after my family too. But yes, I found my partner during work and not during studies.
Good choice
Prem vivah ke failure ke mammle esliye ate h ki uska koi bhi sath nahi deta h na ladki ke maa baap na ladke ke maa baap
Baki kalpnaye to sb me hoti h chahey arrange kro ya love.
Arrange me samaj ka pressure hota h esliye nahi jti h chor ke mauka to deke dekho sbse pahle arrange wali h jayengi😂😂😂
Hamare ghar mei bata du
My mom dad love marriage 38 yr completed best couple seriously mei bol rahi hu
My mausi love marriage 30yr completed very happy
My second mausi love marriage 28 yr completed very happy
My elder sister love marriage 16 yr completed super happy🧿🧿
My cousin brother love marriage very happy…😊😊
Inke alawa 10 couple arrange marriage wale hai jo bus reh rahe majburi mei khush koi nhi….
Love or arrange shadi to maturity se chalti bus
Bhot sahi kaha koi b rista ho usee imandari se nahi nibhaya jay to wo imandari atut pyar me badal jata hai ek din ❤❤
itna love marriage kaise lgta aap kisi badi city me rhte ho
It's so good to see something positive in this comment section. I wish every couple find peace in married life.
Love marriage is successful if both really loved eachother not with beauty not with money
इसमें सिर्फ love marriage ही नहीं arranged marriages में भी कुछ ऐसे अनुभव भी हो सकते हैं जिसमें couple एक दूसरे की हरकतों को नापसंद करे। फर्क सिर्फ इतना है कि Love Marriage में कोई और सहयोग नही देंगे, आपको अपने विवेक से ही रिश्ते की नांव को किनारे ले जाना है।लेकिन arranged marriage में दोनों ओर से लड़के और लड़की के मां बाप सुलह कराने की कोशिश करते हैं।
100 % right ✅️ 👌
There is no love in this world only attraction to beauty.
Only you have to face your disease, emotions,life .
Without responsibility love fades with time
Responsibility kills love.. Love fades like any other beautiful flowers. That's the beauty. That's why love feels fresh and alive in this dead world. Marriage is a bondage, a legal burden between two emotionally bankrupt beggars. Love is not a burden.If you don't like love being faded away then do arranged marriage full of responsibilities and keep fake plastic flowers in your garden.
I'm 90% sure in arranged marriage. All you girls will get a boy who was already in a relationship and for boys, I'm 95% sure you all will get a girl who was already in a relationship in the past.
percentage kuch jyada hee le liya😂
@abhi79875 duniya dekh kr to ye v kam lg rha 😂
Bro past relationships are not a problem unless they had sex before. The problem arises after marriage if any of the partners cannot forget their past partners. Also according to me, virginity should be maintained by both partners before marriage. Normal relationships are needed these days to understand people.
@@subhadeep_2001 right 👍
@@subhadeep_2001Agreed!
Love or arranged, marriage is a defunct institution. Stay single stay happy. Today marriage has become a business.
Women are simple. If they dont love you, they dont care what happens to you. Men should marry only when they are sure that the woman loves him more than he loves her. Arranged or love marriage, she will care only till she has love and attraction.
That love and attraction can vanish in weeks or months. It is a fleeting emotion. Don't count on it to last years.
@@rayrwyr Then don't count on the women to be loyal and supportive after that. Once they fall out of love that man is trash to them.
@@rayrwyr They either love you or you are just a support system for her to live her life happily. If it comes to that she will not even ask how you are even as a formality. That life is worse than being alone.
Agreed 💯 Most selfish creatures on the planet are women. They only love their child due to attachment. And they only love their husbands conditionally.
totally 👍agreed
Arrenge mrge to kr ni hai lekin mrge se pehle love sab ko kr ni hai. Yehi sachh hai ki jis ladki ka jitni jyada love relation hota hai akhir main uski sadi ek achhi ghar main ho jati hai or jo ladkiya loyal hoti hai unki jindagi jhand ho jati hai. Boys agar love main apni sara time waste karte hain to unki to future barbad
That is why live in is best before marriage
Ek doosre ko nhi..sirf ek ko makeup ke bina dekhna parta hain.
😂😂😂
Without contraries, there is no progress.
After marriage many differences will crop up✔️ .
Couples who are mature and love each other will solve them ✔️. Couples who are immature will ask others to solve them❌.
The support system in arranged marriages exists✔️
Breakup system in love marriages exists❌
Lastly but not least ... Marriage is not meant for everyone. If u are having untreatable issues don't spoil others lives by marrying them✔️✔️
Ab toh arrange marriage bhi thikse arrange nahi hoti 😂
Sahi baat kar rahe ho yah mere sath bhi hua hai. hamara arrange marriage theek hua hai ham bacchon ka naam bhi soch liye hai kya hoga hamara bacchon ka naam .
Proud to be single ❤
Sir Asli game to shadi k baad shuruu hota hai, when you have to balance everything.
Today is Love marriage safe 💯
Marriage is marriage regardless of love or arranged. It's very easy to get married, but very hard to maintain it. I am sure the people who are happily marriage for long are not even watching this video.
Bro jyadatar to single hai 😂
Love marriage is the best option
lol… I did love marriage and believe me, it’s hell
@@jackryan2709 Bro marriage itself is a hell😂😂😂😂
@@jackryan2709 because you are an immature person. Before doing marriage people should become a proper adult who can take responsibility of their life. And should know that your partner is just a human like you.
Arrange or love both marriages are same at the end...
These all problems are in marriage not in the love marriage. Totally illogical.
Avoid marriage its simple.
Aby hath giss jain gay
Hilate rahe kya😂😂
And watch the lord of the rings
to all the students let me tell u dont listen to anyone just be independent and choose your love on your on ye sb bate faltu lgti h mrko jb sb gyani bn jate h no doubt ye kuch bate reality show krti h pr jb obviously kmaai k bad hi chije achi hoti h dusri bt adjustment hi life h
In Love marriage Love dies with the marriage
In Arrange marriage, Love starts with the marriage ❤❤❤❤❤
R u comedy me 😂
Dhk li thi teri arranged marriage .. Atul subhas ki kitni love jhalak raha tha😂
Lol what 😂😂😂
If IQ level is low not only Love marriage but everything fail,
Some one must have that capacity of understanding that dream and reality not same
Inka Love marriage success hone ka sabse bda raaj inka successful hona h.
C it doesn't matter whether you do a love marriage or arranged, it's about the person u get married to and whether you want it or not. There are dozens of people making their life hell in arranged and living a beautiful, happy married life in love marriage too and vice-versa
He talks so much sense
These days love kidar hey. Just fantasy....lust....hookup... No love. Sab reel dekhke uss imagination meh pyaar karthe hey. Just in reels world. No brain to think about real life.
"Chalte chalte" showed both sides pre & post marriage
Sir himself did love marriage. 😂
Kyuki,kuch baate samajhne se nahi
Khud pe beetne se samajh aati hai,
Love marriage kia to beeta ispe,tab samajh aaya.
Sab se khatarnak tha "Bina make up ke ek dusre ko dekhna hai"😢😢😢😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😜
Ek podcast Dr Vikas Divyakirti sir our acharya Prashant ka hona chahiye..❤
😊😊😊😊
3:00 aur iske aage ki kahani dekhni h too "pyaar ka panchnama" dekh lo😂😂
You are a Genius, I admire your intellect.
Wo Lust hota hai or kuch nahi...
Love marriage glt tb h jb sadi kr li jay
Or shi tb h jb sadi na ki jay
Mereko tho love marriage hi krni hai 😊😊😊
Mere ko bhi per lagta h nhi hogi me MBBS qualified hu
Very good very very congratulations
Mre ko b, or mra aj tk koi bf b nahi rha, fr b love marrive hi krni h
@@Shalini7448 aesa no posible
Ekdm sahi bole apne. Arranged marriage is better in my life ❤❤
There are many point of views with a lot of possibilities...he just said one...
@souravtarafder978 just said about my life don't maiention anyone🥰🥰🥰🥰
For you buddy , but not for everyone, 🙏
Ye jitne log coment box mein bolre hai happy married life caste doesn't matter vgera vgera inme se koi bhi apni bhn ya bhai ya apne beti bete ki shadi inter caste marriage nhi kraega
Jab bacche ka baap paise wala ho to koi tension nhi hoge
Dharm to ye hai ek insan ka ki es sansar me sabhi jiv k liye pyar bhav ho or imandari se har riste ko dil se pyar se nibhaya jay...per aj kal riste chowmin k thele ki tarah ho rahe jiska acha h uske pass jake test riste ko mjak unhi logo me bnaya h jinhe riste ka mtlb ni pta
Aapki ho gyi shadi
Very much mature thought
Shaadi hi mat Kero simple kyon itna tension le rahe ho maze Kero
100%sure
Jisko aap dukhi hona bol rhe ho wahan ye samjh lena wahan prem tha hi nhi, prem ki sachi paribhasha sunn ni h toh acharya prasanth se suno, jahan sacha prem hoga uss se tum milna bhi chahoge or dur bhagna bhi, ye experience kiya h maine isliye mujhe pta h, or maine kaafi logo ko bhi dekha h , kyunki jo na krte h woh self aware jyada hote h pyaar krte hue bhi mna krdete h kyuki unhe pta h ki woh unhe untni achhi tarah nhi rakh paayenge, lekin fir ye bhi khayal aata h ki mujhse ghatiya koi mil gya toh, fir apne jo avgun h unko sahi krna apni spirituality ki or badhna ye prem kehlata h.
Prem or adhyatam dono ek hi h
3:35 ye problem achhe se Saathiya movie mei dikhaya tha ❤
Don't confused se between arrange marriage or love marriage ,,
Marriage is just marriage ,,
Licensed for sex
I was in a relationship with a girl but later found out she is a call girl and she earns 4 lakh per month and she looks like model gorgeous and yet here we are even top MNC managers don't earn so much so what does education do ??
Is this real?
@stockgeeky9992 ofcourse it's REAL education is of no use when a call girl in India earns more than master degree holder .She stays in Mumbai juhu got 2 Bhk as well calculate the price you will know .
She is still workkng hard . Now imagine only fans abd instagram models . They neither do the work nor are considered as s*uts.
Bhai jab wo ladki thodi si budhi ho jayegi tab kya karegi
Real problem is people are attracted and not in real love. They are labeling attraction as love.
In love adjustment is also fun but then you have to find true love ❤️
True this, but in love you don't adjust, you literally fix yourself for the other, i am not married but I am in true love, so true I did not even confess, she isn't even sure if I have feelings and niether do I, but I still don't feel sad and crumbling after being separated and not in contact anymore, yet I am still improving myself just for the hope and belief that I will be hers once again.
Radhe Radhe
Arrange marriage me vi sabkuch acha nahi
Arranged marriage kbh mt krna, ldko k to arrange marriage m mze h, but ldkiyo k lie life hell h.... Mne bachpan se kbi bf ni bnaya ye soch ki arrenge marriage hi krungi izzat se, ab muje dr lgta h bahut, aj mri saadi ni ho paa rahi, koi bf hota to km se km saadi to ho jati mri, or roj roj relative k taane ni soonne pdte...... Please gitl agr apka koi bf h to bhaagh jayo uske sath, but arreng marriage kbi bt krna.....
Shaadi kyu ni ho paa rahi ?
Abe yahi hai pratadit aurat behen sab ghar tere ghar jaise nahi hote
To ab bana lo kn bahut der ho gya jab Jago tbhi sabera
Ha pahle yahi sb hota tha
Bhot sahi 😂😂 arrange ho ya love... Banegi to ladki naukrani hi... Jindagi sirf ladki ki hi barbad hoti h kisi or ki nhi
Arrange marriage ke liye ladkiyo ke expectations kitne hai wo batao.... Arrange marriage hi nahi ho rahi..
0:43 Khubsurti Chehare ki nahi Dill ki or Dimag me base Maan ki dekhi jati hai. Mera experience Yahi khata hai Abhi Dokha Nahi Millega Life me
Jo wo dukhana chahiti hai wo dekh sakte ho tum. Bahar se accha andar se bura ho sakti hai.
@@Physics14728bura koi kab Banta h jab unke andar insecurities hoti h, aise hi koi dveshi nhi ban jaata, thanks to childhood upbringing and trauma.
Or haan jo bahar se achhi hogi woh vyavhar mei Aisa nhi krr payegi, observe her with both how she treats, friends, you and strangers if they all match then you have no special place in her heart, if she specially is kind to you means she is ready to fix her flaws for you
Sir Wo Alimony wala case Arrange marriage tha ya Love marriage
Arrange maariage
Love marriage
Sabhi marriage mai lete hai, tumhe kaunsa ajenda aage badhana hai wo likh do bas
Love marriage ke supporter ho to love marriage acha bol do arranged marriage ke supporter ho to wo acha bol do
Tum chahe kitna liberal ho ya fir conservative, katega tumhara bhi jaise sab ka dhire dhire kat raha hai
It's not about love or arranged marriage or conservative men or liberal men
Problem ye hai ki you are a Men just like me
@@DeepakKumar-pc5vm bhai tu toh serious ho gaya....Mera koi agenda nhi hai....but I can understand pain behind ur words....
Love marriage tabhi nasht hoti h jab, vibhaah aaj kal k chapri log karte h, jo bina soch k kadam uthate h, yeh log pyar m andhe rehte h inhe sacchai ka kuch nhi pata rehte, crush ko hi sacchai bana lete, aur jab woh tootata h toh rone lagte h.
Very practical points you shared sir
Mere wale bahut ache h but age me 2 year choti hu or o upp me h or main berojgar hu or mera cast alag alag h smjh me n aa raha h kya karu kaise karu shadi log kya kahege
Atul case 😢
😢😢😢😢
Stay single stay happy 😊
iska logic kia hai
Faltu logic tu khud soch jara tumhare parents ne aisa socha hota toh aaj tum na hote
@@Conqurer26 To bhai to iske liye khud jina chod de. Maa baap ne paida kya to Mai bhi ek Karu. Wah bhai kya logic diya hai. Acha to jin logon ne shadi nahi ki to wo bahut bekar lok hai na😅
Bhai ki shakal achi nahi hogi😂
Right ..bhut complex hai larki ko samajna fir uski parents alag hai ..
No no no sir you should have titled it as Reality of money marriage .
Sir what about sad reality of underground teaching institutes
😂
Shhhh ye sab mat pucho yaha
You are right sirrr ❤❤💯
Sad reality of arrange marriage pe v gyan de do
Thanks for this video.
You're welcome
Sir Very respectfully.....Aap Puri trh sahi nhi hain...yaha tk ki aap 40% bhi Theek nhii hain.....Aaj k zamaane ne 70% cases me Arranged marriage me Hi Dhoke hain ...
Jo rishta kra rhe aa log 80 percent to juth bolke krate hai rishta khte kuch aur hai niklta kuch aur hai baad mein ldka ho ya lddki suffer dono ko krna pddhta tha...
@@AvtarSingh-zy1rz Kiya zindagi bhar dono waise hi rahenge...iska kiya koyi samadhan nahi hai
Marriage me hi dhuka hain😂😂
Live-in is the answer to avoid disappointment in any kind of marriage.
@Andha_Kaatil martial rape prosecution be ha, phir keya kero ga?
Yeah
No
Pahle istemal karo fir viswas karo😂.
Ase to ma 1000 ke sath live in me rahlu
Arrange marriage will works because if you can't marry by your choice than obviously you won't get seperated by your choice too
Theory of relativity..., sorry... Reality
😂😂😂so u assume yourself as a slave of society
@@jamessen1592exactly! it is what it is! Love is for courageous souls. It's not a bondage for producing babies and family planning.
@@atheist0101 welcome to the world of Netflix
if you can't born by your choice then you will not die by your choice. your logic then there must not be suicide in the world.
Marriage hi na karo just living mei enjoy karo
True
Arrange marriage me b kiraya bharna pdta aata lana padta bina makeup k dekhne padta😂
Kya yahan pe koi hai jo dono experience karna chuka hai 😂😂. Agar koi hai to bataao ki better option konsa hai.
पति पत्नी अगर शादी से पहले एक दूसरे को जान जाते है तो विवाह के बाद वे ज्यादा दिन तक साथ नहीं रह पाते
इसका कारण यह है कि विवाह से पहले ही उन्होंने अपने यौन ऊर्जा को खर्च किया हुआ होता है और विवाह के बाद एक दूसरे के बारे में जानने के लिए कोई आकर्षण नहीं बचता और जिंदगी बोरिंग हो जाती है।
इसलिए अरेंज मैरिज में वह उत्साह बना रहता है और दो परिवारों के आपसी सहमति की वजह से उनके रिश्ते में दरार आयी तो भी वह भर दी जाती है परिवार के कुछ अच्छे सदस्यों द्वारा।
भारतीय संस्कृति कभी भी विवाह के पहले यौन संबंध का समर्थन नहीं करती।
Bogus. Attraction to thode time me kisi bhi marriage me khatam ho jati hai
Arrange mei tum saamne waale k dosh nhi pakad skte or wahi dosh tumhe khaane ko bhaagte h, arey iss se achha single mrlo lekin arrange marriage kabhi na kro, marriage always love honi chahiye, and love bhi true waala ye aajkal kka filmy waala nhi
Abe gadhe tu faltu ka sabko apna jaisa bana rha hai..arrange marrage me bhi tu kuch din baad log larne lagte hai or ye pariwar kha se aa gya dono ki beech me darar bharne..😂😂
@@VivekSingh-ts1ec yes attraction khatam hone ke baad hi Jo bachta hai use pyar kehte hai
Aur wo sirf arrange marriage me hota hai
@@MisguidingWish every marriage is arranged
Love marriage is impossible in kaliyug
What you think the marriages happening today are all arranged
Ladkiyan bata sakti hai ki arrange Marriage ki liye ladko se wo kya kya Expect karti hai..??
Ladka Achche paise kamaata ho aur Gulaami Karni Aani Chahiye
@jsk4412 ye thodi koi Sahar ya Country hai ki Gulami karva ke Shashan karoge
Sincerity, simplicity, descent, understanding and shadi se pehle love nhi karna kisi b larkhi se after marriage wife se love karna
But karma matters
💯
meri gf ki job hai ,uske ghar wale ready hai but mere ghar wale nahi ho rahe ,bol rahe tum government job karo fir ham ladki khojenge ,isiliye mera bank po clear hua tha but maine nahi bataya ,mujhe to kuch samjh hi nahi aa raha ,job lagi to kahi aur sadi ,nahi lagi to kam se kam ye rahega ki gf se sadi ho sakti hai but fir lagta hai 1-2 sal me nahi hua to age chali jayegi to mai job bhi nahi kar paunga ,bich me fasa hua hu
Bhaiya if u don't mind mai ek baat kahu agr itna hi pyar hai apni gf se to family ko aap mna skte hai Jada dikkt ldkiyon k side se hota hai pr agr aapki gf k side sb agree kr rhe to i think aapko kosis krna chahiye.....vrna life time regret krenge ki bhyii ek try krleta to syd aaj sath hoti vo...
@@Asroma1 ha yeto hai bhaiya
Bhai pahle job lagi h uski joining kr lo.
Baki sab Maan jayenge
Job kro job jo jaruri h
Tumhare ghar walo ko chsiye dowry theek h bhai tumhari gf ki job h wo pasand. H to ussi se karo marriage
meri vali toh meri mummy layegi 🫠
best choice
Haa kyu tum log bina pyar k bhi ek dusre k sath so skte ho 😢
Nikita Singhania le ayegi
Atul subhas ki tara latak jayega beta tuh 😂
@@loveyourself-n6y ye love marriage mai hota hai 😅
Hi sir, do you think corporate companies are promoting 498a and other women laws? Because when these laws are implemented the employees of the corporate companies may not feel like asking for more salaries and more hikes as increments in salaries would only result into more greediness of wives.
Only if everyone knew what love is.
আপনি বাস্তব কথা বলেছেন। থ্যাংক ইউ Sir 🙏
Prem guru.. Excellent
Vikas sir be like: mtlb meri bhi love marriage hai😂😂😂
Without love, marriage kesa hoga?
Arrange
Without arrange, love bhi to nahi hoga ....
@@suryavanshiabhyuday8584 ofcourse hoga. Arrange marriage me problem hai ki, if the girl/guy is marrying out of family compulsion, then Atul Subhash jesa case hoga. Old days me divorce nahi hota ta, since wife was dependent on husband (financially). Ab when women are free, if ghar ke pressure me sadi kar v lete hai, divorce le lenga since maintenance laws are stronger, plus women are earning nowadays. Plus, social stigma itna nahi hai, divorce ke around.
Aj kal arrange marriage tab v successful hoga agar, they actually fall in love ki they're dependent on each other for something. Agar nahi hai, then divorce sure hai
@@suryavanshiabhyuday8584bilkul love hoga without arrange par woh murda nahi hoga dusro ki tarah. Usme utar chadao rahenge aur ak time baad woh ak dusre ko alvida keh denge jaise ak jivit vyakti karta hain marne ke time. Waha pane ki koi chah nahi hogi, par log dete rahenge jaise raja o ka sangam hua hain.
@@Being__RickyAtul Subhash marriage was not arranged, you just proved why divorce rate is higher in love marriages in comparison to arrange marriages.
Now for you that might be a good thing, but it's not because most of the divorces in India is not actually a divorce rather it's a seperation. Where a man cannot marry another woman and same goes for the woman.
An what we have seen is that men become the topmost victim of these prebiased matrimonial laws.
So the thing you are calling a divorce is not a divorce.
Stop following western countries and look into our country's reality.
Because in western countries, after divorce both man and woman are free to marry anyone, and also they have gender neutral laws.
Great sir love from Pakistan 🇵🇰
Sir hmm to ghumte bhi nhi
राधा श्री कृष्णा की नहीं हुई,
सीता मां श्री राम की होकर भी नहीं हुई,
सोनी महिलवाल , हीर रांझा
ये सब वे है जिन्हें ये ज़ालिम इंसानी समाज ने एक होने नहीं दिया ।
तू तो आज की टेंपररी दुनिया का lover है😤
Job pysa settel hona jaruri h koi v marriage k liya nhi to divorce k to pta nhi but life sath reh kr nark se v kharab hota h na pyar hoga na respect
Education ❌ content ✅
Hollywood filmo ka "context" alag hai sir😂😂😂😂😂
Socha hi sb after marriage ho
Lovely ❤💜😍
Arrenge marriage is a legal vashya verti, 5 minute m deal hoti h riste nahi bnte, arrenge marriage me ldke perfect preparation krke aate h interview k lie, how can u married a unknown person.........
I am agree with you ladkiyan bhi interview prepare kar ke aati haiii 👍
Bilkul sahi kaha
Babu🙂
Marriage is a trap to Enjoy Whole life on Men's Income 🤑. Marriage = Biggest Scam of 21st Century.
Sir hi hamaare love marriage kiya hai😂😂😂😂
Iss liye sir ka experience hai 😅😅😅
Arrenge marrige me kanya daan k naam p ldki ko bech dia jta h, fr vo vha mre geere sade hme koi mtlb ni,pti or sasuraal vale uski apni ghr ki nokrani or bachche ki aaya bna k rakhenge, or usse jbrdsti bachche pda karwayenge..........m 25+ hu jbrdsti muje saadi k lie force kia jaa rha h, mri life m koi ldka hi nahi h or jo ldke arrenge marriage m muje dikhaye jta h, unki 5 minut me shakal dekh k bina feeling, attraction, pyar, k saadi krne ko mn ni krta, mom ne bola ki saadi k bd sb ho jta h pyar lgaw, but iske lie to vkt lgega km se km 7 mahine, mne to dekha h ki ldki saadi k algle din hi pregnant b ho jati h,😂😂😂😂arrenge marrige m ldki ko kharid k laya jta h, kanyadan k naam p, or saari jivan uska use kia jta h😂
Baat toh sahi kaha.. pr haan sb arrange marriages aise hi nhi hote , jaisa chahiye woh dhundhna padta hai aur kuchh na kuchh toh compromise krke chlna padega na😅
Madam kon se nashe kie h apne? Kha se yh sb gyaan a rha h? Meri b arrange marriage ho rhi h, Hamne pehle hi decide kia h 3-4 saal tk koi bcha ni chahie hame. Agr arrange marriage ho rhi h to tumhe sbse pehle apne partner se sb baat kr leni chahie. Ki baad m bacho ki pareshani na ho. Kya pta tumhare hone vale husband ko b abi bcha na chahie ho.
Bs ek salah dunga agr arrange marriage ho rhi h tumhari to, km se km iss relation ko 8-10 mahine do. Apne hone vale husband ko samjho iss time m. Zruri ni h usse har vkt milo. Phone pr hi baat krne ki koshish kro usse. Agr tum dono ki soch match ki tohi shaadi krna.
Aap bahut aage jayenngi
Paise mil rahe hain kya ladki ke baap ko jo “kharidne” ki baat kar rahi ho